Should I do something after seeing he has used condoms

Seeing this Aries for almost 3months now, everything been good and sweet, tho he had some down moment 2 weeks ago which stressed me out a bit (which was a post before about a moody Aries) but now all backed normal.

So long story short, he's always been so sweet to me and acting totally like a couple no matter in public or home, also he's always there when i say I want to see him, seeing at least once or twice a week.

However something happened last night I don't know if I should/can do anything to this.

He loves all kind of party, tennis and car racing related stuff and I always so okay about that as long as he tells me where he's partying, so again this Sat he went to a car drifting thing and he told me he's crazy drunk (of coz) and after that had friends came over his place continue drinking.

Then yesterday Sunday, he woke up in late morning and messaged me said wanna see me last night and so we dinner out and had drinks at bar, then stayed over at his, when we arrived at his, i was so in a rush to go toilet, when there, i saw there were ""3 used condoms"" in the trash bin....i was like WHAAMMM T.T

That only happened when the first night ever i went to his place and never happened again in these 2.5 months.

I understand that we're not official and not even exclusive (at least he's not been clear about that and I don't want to make him feel like I'm pushing), so i didn't know what I could do about what I saw, then i was acting so calm but a bit shocked face after came out from the toilet and watching F1 with him on the sofa but obviously i was texting with my best friend that moment about what I just saw... he was asking if i were okay, i said yes just work stuff....and he of course believed and still being sweet.

So, we didn't have sex last night not because i didn't want but just we didn't, but as usual he's so sweet and holding me in his arms whole night and kissed sometimes. (We don't have sex every time when staying over)

Please, is there anything i should do or can do or say to him to tell him that was kinda bothering me? Sighhhhh i have been thinking he's like kind of quilty about sleeping with another woman and so he asked to see me and be super sweet with me last night.....

If something bothers you, the best thing you can do is talk.

Though you're not official or exclusive, it's bothering you n you wanna talk about this. So do.Just be prepared for an honest answer. You know where you stand with him. I mean when he's not clear, it is not there. You can't paint it otherwise when you didn't have "the talk". So it shouldn't matter maybe?

Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Lol, he had friends over . If that stuff was his, he would clean up. We are good at clearing up evidence 😄

Lol! I thought of this too

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Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Lol, he had friends over . If that stuff was his, he would clean up. We are good at clearing up evidence 😄

Lol! I thought of this too

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My best girl friend also suggesting that ?? he didn't act guilty when he obviously knew that I saw them but just used something to cover them....

Just, I don't know.... can't really imagine if his friends could be that rush couldn't just go back their own place to do it ?

Sighhhhh

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Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Lol, he had friends over . If that stuff was his, he would clean up. We are good at clearing up evidence 😄

Lol! I thought of this too

My best girl friend also suggesting that ?? he didn't act guilty when he obviously knew that I saw them but just used something to cover them....

Just, I don't know.... can't really imagine if his friends could be that rush couldn't just go back their own place to do it ?

Sighhhhh

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??

So you must have said something like "ewww your friends" n *roll eyes* if you didn't wanna be too direct ?

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Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Lol, he had friends over . If that stuff was his, he would clean up. We are good at clearing up evidence 😄

Lol! I thought of this too

My best girl friend also suggesting that ?? he didn't act guilty when he obviously knew that I saw them but just used something to cover them....

Just, I don't know.... can't really imagine if his friends could be that rush couldn't just go back their own place to do it ?

Sighhhhh

??

So you must have said something like "ewww your friends" n *roll eyes* if you didn't wanna be too direct ?

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I have already over that, cause already left his place this morning 😢

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Lol, he had friends over . If that stuff was his, he would clean up. We are good at clearing up evidence 😄

Lol! I thought of this too

Yeah, but story is so sad! 😢 why so much drama? Things like that would ruin my mood for a very loooong time 😢

Lets think logically, he doesn't sleep with her every time She's over. Would he sleep with someone when he's super drunk having other people around? Probably not lol

If he did, the girl ( or girls) really sucked, because first thing he thought in the morning was our OP 😈

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Too much drama coz these guys don't know where they stand with each other to start with. They should have talked about it tbh.

LMAO @"If he did, the girl ( or girls) really sucked, because first thing he thought in the morning was our OP"—

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Lol, he had friends over . If that stuff was his, he would clean up. We are good at clearing up evidence 😄

Lol! I thought of this too

Yeah, but story is so sad! 😢 why so much drama? Things like that would ruin my mood for a very loooong time 😢

Lets think logically, he doesn't sleep with her every time She's over. Would he sleep with someone when he's super drunk having other people around? Probably not lol

If he did, the girl ( or girls) really sucked, because first thing he thought in the morning was our OP 😈

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What is OP btw ? 🙂

Posted by Impulsv
I think three month is enough time to ask we're u stand

This is never a easy talk, really need a right moment to start the conversation....just don't know how should I start

Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
You had to make a joke about it. Something like, "Yeah, yesterday's party ended successfully I see", then take those nasty things to my lab and we would run quick DNA tests. I'll just stop...

That's a good opening lol, needa find a way to start that topic tho, cause we've been messaging for hours after i left him this morning without mentioning it, don't know how could I suddenly bring it up hahaaa, you guys are genius haha

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You had to make a joke about it. Something like, "Yeah, yesterday's party ended successfully I see", then take those nasty things to my lab and we would run quick DNA tests. I'll just stop...

That's a good opening lol, needa find a way to start that topic tho, cause we've been messaging for hours after i left him this morning without mentioning it, don't know how could I suddenly bring it up hahaaa, you guys are genius haha

You're doing well girl, humour helps. I would go crazy thinking about this.

Wait until you go over to his place again, go to the bathroom, and then say, "oh, you cleaned up this time..." he would be like, "what?" Here it comes, your time of honor, bring it up!!

Don't text him about it, you know, you need to see his eyes lol

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Tbh, I'm already going crazy thinking about this already, and I felt like he was guilty and so suddenly wanted to see me and had me around last night..

I like this guy so much that's why I have been telling myself don't let the emotions get over things... even i was sooooooo mad when seeing those things in the bin —

We suppose to meet on Sunday, usually he will ask to see me again during the week tho....will try then ??

Posted by Miaou
Speak up.

'' I saw used condoms in your bathroom, I realized it bothers me that you're having sex with other women ''



You're having sex with this guy, at the very least you should know if he's having sex with others.

Official or not, Exclusive or not.

You can always say something and so can he - maybe this will define your relationship ...or not.

At least you'll know where you both stand and then whatever happens or you decide for yourself - you'll be more aware.

True, just need a right and relaxing moment to do so, if starting off in a wrong way, I would have ruined everything i have with this guy, not easy 😢

So he failed putting on the condom twice?

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Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Lol, he had friends over . If that stuff was his, he would clean up. We are good at clearing up evidence 😄

Lol! I thought of this too

My best girl friend also suggesting that ?? he didn't act guilty when he obviously knew that I saw them but just used something to cover them....

Just, I don't know.... can't really imagine if his friends could be that rush couldn't just go back their own place to do it ?

Sighhhhh

??

So you must have said something like "ewww your friends" n *roll eyes* if you didn't wanna be too direct ?

I have already over that, cause already left his place this morning 😢

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I was gonna say something like Wolf said above too lol. You can randomly bring it up during any conversation keeping it all casual.But really, if you like this guy, do talk about where you stand. I know that's hard n you might feel like you'll be coming across as all emotional n stuff. But you just should know anyway.. about being exclusive(or not) at least if you don't wanna label it as anything else. Coz apparently you seem to want more than sex.

It is ok casual sex is what all the young kids are doing...

This is when the saying... hey he fucked you really means what it means...

He is just fucking you... just like other woman... that is who he is... Mercury retro.

So either you will want a real relationship and move on or continue seeing f boy. Woman again seem to love all these men that just tell them what they want to hear.



People these days have sex and they are not even in a relationship. I mean really... what is the world coming to next thing you know primal mined people will be having sex in the street.

I am an Aries and obviously if this guy is having sex with another woman he is playing you...

Piscemoon

Posted by piscesmoon2
It is ok casual sex is what all the young kids are doing...

This is when the saying... hey he fucked you really means what it means...

He is just fucking you... just like other woman... that is who he is... Mercury retro.

So either you will want a real relationship and move on or continue seeing f boy. Woman again seem to love all these men that just tell them what they want to hear.



People these days have sex and they are not even in a relationship. I mean really... what is the world coming to next thing you know primal mined people will be having sex in the street.

I am an Aries and obviously if this guy is having sex with another woman he is playing you...

Piscemoon

He's been spending a lot of time and being attention to me even whenever i need him he would be there. But also you're right i should just move on too, I have seen him drunk and always been knowing what he was doing. If he could do that, means he's not seeing me as exclusive or whatever serious. Will see how it goes and sure to look around if any good guys 🙂

Posted by Fortuna
Move on, and possibly change life style s, if this isn't your thing. His hobbies revolve around crazy nights and parties with a possibility of used condoms.

I'd suggest finding someone else, someone a bit more mature or someone who has different hobbies / life style s.

True, that's really something, all the parties, tho I like party too, but I always know what I'm doing, just this time what I see, yes, maybe time to move on

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Posted by piscesmoon2
It is ok casual sex is what all the young kids are doing...

This is when the saying... hey he fucked you really means what it means...

He is just fucking you... just like other woman... that is who he is... Mercury retro.

So either you will want a real relationship and move on or continue seeing f boy. Woman again seem to love all these men that just tell them what they want to hear.



People these days have sex and they are not even in a relationship. I mean really... what is the world coming to next thing you know primal mined people will be having sex in the street.

I am an Aries and obviously if this guy is having sex with another woman he is playing you...

Piscemoon

He's been spending a lot of time and being attention to me even whenever i need him he would be there. But also you're right i should just move on too, I have seen him drunk and always been knowing what he was doing. If he could do that, means he's not seeing me as exclusive or whatever serious. Will see how it goes and sure to look around if any good guys 🙂

Let us know how things turned out for you 😉

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Yes thanks a lot, will definitely do, i always need this forum and all you guys comments to cool off my emotions LOL

Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Girls, stop all that sleeping around ?. The more you allow it, the more nothing serious happens. Nasty and painful ?.

No, i don't do sleeping around thing, i didn't let him have it on our first few dates too. X

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Posted by piscesmoon2
It is ok casual sex is what all the young kids are doing...

This is when the saying... hey he fucked you really means what it means...

He is just fucking you... just like other woman... that is who he is... Mercury retro.

So either you will want a real relationship and move on or continue seeing f boy. Woman again seem to love all these men that just tell them what they want to hear.



People these days have sex and they are not even in a relationship. I mean really... what is the world coming to next thing you know primal mined people will be having sex in the street.

I am an Aries and obviously if this guy is having sex with another woman he is playing you...

Piscemoon

He's been spending a lot of time and being attention to me even whenever i need him he would be there. But also you're right i should just move on too, I have seen him drunk and always been knowing what he was doing. If he could do that, means he's not seeing me as exclusive or whatever serious. Will see how it goes and sure to look around if any good guys 🙂

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You should know by the sept 5th the moon will be full in Pisces. Moon shortly goes in to Aries...

Hey some woman have to learn what they been accepting before they will actually learn or look for qualities that are not playeish.

Piscesmoon

I would have talked about it.. not exclusive, exclusive, whatever .. I would need to know pretty much within minutes i came out the bathroom. That's gross to leave it like that as well lol

Posted by SofiaV87
I would have talked about it.. not exclusive, exclusive, whatever .. I would need to know pretty much within minutes i came out the bathroom. That's gross to leave it like that as well lol

I didn't want to just not talk about it, but... just wanted to make it in a not too negative way.

Will make it till he confirm our Sunday movie date, then I will pbly say, “remember clean up the toilet bin this time 🙂 ” what you guys think?

So...... you found 3 used condoms in his bathroom and he didnt sleep with you that night... hm... and not always sleep with you, when you are together.... you have your answers now

he sleeps with others and then he needs to cuddle with somebody, who loves him, regardless whatever he does

maybe that what was he doing during the "bad period", what you had in your post "Moody aries"

he is sleeping with others

does he go to your place sometimes as well? or always his place?

Don't fuck someone raw if they aren't in a committed relationship with you. Duh.

This ones on you...

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Posted by Impulsv
I think three month is enough time to ask we're u stand

This is never a easy talk, really need a right moment to start the conversation....just don't know how should I start

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I'll never understand this mentality. You not scared to take his dick inside your body but your scared to ask him where you stand. Why? Just ask!

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Posted by piscesmoon2
It is ok casual sex is what all the young kids are doing...

This is when the saying... hey he fucked you really means what it means...

He is just fucking you... just like other woman... that is who he is... Mercury retro.

So either you will want a real relationship and move on or continue seeing f boy. Woman again seem to love all these men that just tell them what they want to hear.



People these days have sex and they are not even in a relationship. I mean really... what is the world coming to next thing you know primal mined people will be having sex in the street.

I am an Aries and obviously if this guy is having sex with another woman he is playing you...

Piscemoon

He's been spending a lot of time and being attention to me even whenever i need him he would be there. But also you're right i should just move on too, I have seen him drunk and always been knowing what he was doing. If he could do that, means he's not seeing me as exclusive or whatever serious. Will see how it goes and sure to look around if any good guys 🙂

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Don't mistake attention and affection for intention and exclusivity.

Also you should always clarify a persons intentions BEFORE you sleep with them.

Logically speaking, I don't see a man being dumb enough to leave 3 used condoms in a trash bin visible for the person(s) they are dating. Especially when they invite one over. It doesn't make any sense to do that.

What does make sense is what wolf said, he had people over that did.

I just don't see any guy with even the tiniest of intelligence leaving evidence out of infidelity.

Maybe I'm jumping to conclusions, but I'd be immediately turned off by that. 1. If he did have a girl over to have sex with; thanks for using a condom but I'd still be turned off by the multiple partners 2. If it's his friend's condoms.... just ewww.... what kind of parties and friends are you entertaining? Does our life style s align? For me it would be a no!

Posted by nikkistar
Logically speaking, I don't see a man being dumb enough to leave 3 used condoms in a trash bin visible for the person(s) they are dating. Especially when they invite one over. It doesn't make any sense to do that.

What does make sense is what wolf said, he had people over that did.

I just don't see any guy with even the tiniest of intelligence leaving evidence out of infidelity.

Or maybe the guy just doesnt care enough to hide the evidence

because he knows he can do whatever, the girl will be happy that she is invited over

nevermind blowing off her for 2 weeks and nevermind 3 used condoms

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Posted by nikkistar
Logically speaking, I don't see a man being dumb enough to leave 3 used condoms in a trash bin visible for the person(s) they are dating. Especially when they invite one over. It doesn't make any sense to do that.

What does make sense is what wolf said, he had people over that did.

I just don't see any guy with even the tiniest of intelligence leaving evidence out of infidelity.

Or maybe the guy just doesnt care enough to hide the evidence

because he knows he can do whatever, the girl will be happy that she is invited over

nevermind blowing off her for 2 weeks and nevermind 3 used condoms

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I did not read anywhere, where this guy ignored her for 2 weeks. I see he had a down moment 2 weeks prior, but that doesn't indicate to me, that he ignored her for 2 weeks.

If this theory applied, then he would have tried to sleep with the OP, since he doesn't really care if she does or doesn't find it.

It makes no sense to jump to negative conclusions. This isn't saying that he could be this way, but I don't see any man, even if he doesn't care, wanting the drama of any girl they are dealing with, finding all of that when they are over. I mean, they would end up having to fabricate a lie to placate the girl that comes over. It makes NO sense why any person would want to put themselves willingly into a position like that in the first place, so why would they? Even the slimiest of guys, wouldn't want to deal with that mess, when flushing, or throwing the trash out, could easily rectify that issue without further explanation.

Posted by SofiaV87
I would have talked about it.. not exclusive, exclusive, whatever .. I would need to know pretty much within minutes i came out the bathroom. That's gross to leave it like that as well lol

I agree even if people wear condoms it does not mean there are not accidents as well. People who have causal sex are more likely to std's.

Again I don't ever sleep with someone unless I know or think the relationship has gone or is going that way like soon. I have made the mistake once and it sucked but I was lucky enough not to get an std. She was very open about how she did not think we where exclusive and dating rules or what ever... some people just take or stay open to everyone. In reality how could anyone have anything other then a fuck buddy relationship if they are sleeping with more then one person.

Piscesmoon

Do you want to be exclusive? If so, this would be a good opportunity to talk about it. You say he is thoughtful...hiding evidence or not...it wouldn't be thoughtful to leave used condoms out for you to see...

Regardless...

If u wanna be exclusive...talk to him

If you don't...they are either not his condoms..or they are his...

...if they are his, why don't need to know...and shouldn't bring it up...he's allowed to have sex with other people ...and he's practising safe sex...if he was doing this all the time, like leaving used condoms around then u can bring it up...that's disrespectful...you can forgive one drunken night, whether they are his or his friends.

If you want an exclusive bf...and he doesn't want to be exclusive...continue to see him without wasting precious time, and look for an exclusive bf...somewhere else...

If u like him...and he doesn't want exclusivity now... but later senses that u might get "taken" by another guy...that might change his tune...

Good luck.

*Did you have sex with anyone else other than me recently*?

He is an Aries

Be direct

Modern dating.......messy

Guess i should have the talk face to face right? I will have lunch with him this wed, should I bring it up all in a sudden?

I'm just so lost now, after all the sweet things he's been doing with me all the couple things and now this happened.. (that 2 weeks he didn't ignore or absent and we still keep seeing regularly, just he's pretty moody, but i am not gonna list again what all the good things he's been doing....i know it's only giving excuses for him)

Guess yes after all, i should have giving this up, he either not respecting me, or really he's that “friendly" would have let friends doing that at his.... sighhhh

Posted by Cc1124
Guess i should have the talk face to face right? I will have lunch with him this wed, should I bring it up all in a sudden?

I'm just so lost now, after all the sweet things he's been doing with me all the couple things and now this happened.. (that 2 weeks he didn't ignore or absent and we still keep seeing regularly, just he's pretty moody, but i am not gonna list again what all the good things he's been doing....i know it's only giving excuses for him)

Guess yes after all, i should have giving this up, he either not respecting me, or really he's that “friendly" would have let friends doing that at his.... sighhhh

He can sleep with multiple people and still do 'good things' for you. Those two aren't mutually exclusive.

How old are you? You seem really naive...

Posted by ItsMeRoman
I don't think you can evaluate someone's guilt based on how they covered their condoms with toilet paper lol

Wait, were they covered with toilet paper? I don't remember reading this, but if they were, what in the hell is she doing rummaging through the trash? LOL

yes, talk to him please

do yourself a favor

the end result / goal is that you want to be with someone who treats you well and is monogamous for the duration of the relationship

This is what I don't get about this phony feminist millenium generation and casual sex.

You whine like little girls who need to replace their my little pony diapers.

Pretending to go with the flow with no strings attached, when clearly, there IS an emotional connection.

Speak up.

Be clear about what you want.

If you're willing to settle for a FWB, shut up about about it, and mind your business.

Be lucky he's protecting himself....as well as you.

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Posted by ItsMeRoman
I don't think you can evaluate someone's guilt based on how they covered their condoms with toilet paper lol

Wait, were they covered with toilet paper? I don't remember reading this, but if they were, what in the hell is she doing rummaging through the trash? LOL

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He covered only after i came out from the toilet, it wasn't before

Three used condoms dog? 3!

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I don't think you can evaluate someone's guilt based on how they covered their condoms with toilet paper lol

Wait, were they covered with toilet paper? I don't remember reading this, but if they were, what in the hell is she doing rummaging through the trash? LOL

He covered only after i came out from the toilet, it wasn't before

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That to me means that he was trying to cover the evidence... He probably was to drunk or hungover before to think about it.

I will definitely ask him if he is having sex with other people. You should know. That way you know where you stand and if it is what you want for you.

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It is ok casual sex is what all the young kids are doing...

This is when the saying... hey he fucked you really means what it means...

He is just fucking you... just like other woman... that is who he is... Mercury retro.

So either you will want a real relationship and move on or continue seeing f boy. Woman again seem to love all these men that just tell them what they want to hear.



People these days have sex and they are not even in a relationship. I mean really... what is the world coming to next thing you know primal mined people will be having sex in the street.

I am an Aries and obviously if this guy is having sex with another woman he is playing you...

Piscemoon

He's been spending a lot of time and being attention to me even whenever i need him he would be there. But also you're right i should just move on too, I have seen him drunk and always been knowing what he was doing. If he could do that, means he's not seeing me as exclusive or whatever serious. Will see how it goes and sure to look around if any good guys 🙂

You should know by the sept 5th the moon will be full in Pisces. Moon shortly goes in to Aries...

Hey some woman have to learn what they been accepting before they will actually learn or look for qualities that are not playeish.

Piscesmoon

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Ohh what does this mean? My Aries, Pisces moon is leaving to go home visit fam for 3 weeks from 10th....

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It is ok casual sex is what all the young kids are doing...

This is when the saying... hey he fucked you really means what it means...

He is just fucking you... just like other woman... that is who he is... Mercury retro.

So either you will want a real relationship and move on or continue seeing f boy. Woman again seem to love all these men that just tell them what they want to hear.



People these days have sex and they are not even in a relationship. I mean really... what is the world coming to next thing you know primal mined people will be having sex in the street.

I am an Aries and obviously if this guy is having sex with another woman he is playing you...

Piscemoon

He's been spending a lot of time and being attention to me even whenever i need him he would be there. But also you're right i should just move on too, I have seen him drunk and always been knowing what he was doing. If he could do that, means he's not seeing me as exclusive or whatever serious. Will see how it goes and sure to look around if any good guys 🙂

You should know by the sept 5th the moon will be full in Pisces. Moon shortly goes in to Aries...

Hey some woman have to learn what they been accepting before they will actually learn or look for qualities that are not playeish.

Piscesmoon

Ohh what does this mean? My Aries, Pisces moon is leaving to go home visit fam for 3 weeks from 10th....

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Libra, i was with an Aries guy, water moon, taurus mars like your man

He never cheated on me and sometimes we didn't meet for 4 - 6 weeks, from the offset i told him, i don't share....he said he couldn't even begin to think about being with another woman, I suspect he also knew if he did, i would know

Not all men are that weak

🙂

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It is ok casual sex is what all the young kids are doing...

This is when the saying... hey he fucked you really means what it means...

He is just fucking you... just like other woman... that is who he is... Mercury retro.

So either you will want a real relationship and move on or continue seeing f boy. Woman again seem to love all these men that just tell them what they want to hear.



People these days have sex and they are not even in a relationship. I mean really... what is the world coming to next thing you know primal mined people will be having sex in the street.

I am an Aries and obviously if this guy is having sex with another woman he is playing you...

Piscemoon

He's been spending a lot of time and being attention to me even whenever i need him he would be there. But also you're right i should just move on too, I have seen him drunk and always been knowing what he was doing. If he could do that, means he's not seeing me as exclusive or whatever serious. Will see how it goes and sure to look around if any good guys 🙂

You should know by the sept 5th the moon will be full in Pisces. Moon shortly goes in to Aries...

Hey some woman have to learn what they been accepting before they will actually learn or look for qualities that are not playeish.

Piscesmoon

Ohh what does this mean? My Aries, Pisces moon is leaving to go home visit fam for 3 weeks from 10th....

Libra, i was with an Aries guy, water moon, taurus mars like your man

He never cheated on me and sometimes we didn't meet for 4 - 6 weeks, from the offset i told him, i don't share....he said he couldn't even begin to think about being with another woman, I suspect he also knew if he did, i would know

Not all men are that weak

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Yes he is very much the same as me. He has told me he couldn't bear for me to do it to him it would absolutely break his heart and he is not about that kind of life, it seems like its just not in him. What happened with you and your guy??

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It is ok casual sex is what all the young kids are doing...

This is when the saying... hey he fucked you really means what it means...

He is just fucking you... just like other woman... that is who he is... Mercury retro.

So either you will want a real relationship and move on or continue seeing f boy. Woman again seem to love all these men that just tell them what they want to hear.



People these days have sex and they are not even in a relationship. I mean really... what is the world coming to next thing you know primal mined people will be having sex in the street.

I am an Aries and obviously if this guy is having sex with another woman he is playing you...

Piscemoon

He's been spending a lot of time and being attention to me even whenever i need him he would be there. But also you're right i should just move on too, I have seen him drunk and always been knowing what he was doing. If he could do that, means he's not seeing me as exclusive or whatever serious. Will see how it goes and sure to look around if any good guys 🙂

You should know by the sept 5th the moon will be full in Pisces. Moon shortly goes in to Aries...

Hey some woman have to learn what they been accepting before they will actually learn or look for qualities that are not playeish.

Piscesmoon

Ohh what does this mean? My Aries, Pisces moon is leaving to go home visit fam for 3 weeks from 10th....

Libra, i was with an Aries guy, water moon, taurus mars like your man

He never cheated on me and sometimes we didn't meet for 4 - 6 weeks, from the offset i told him, i don't share....he said he couldn't even begin to think about being with another woman, I suspect he also knew if he did, i would know

Not all men are that weak

🙂

Yes he is very much the same as me. He has told me he couldn't bear for me to do it to him it would absolutely break his heart and he is not about that kind of life, it seems like its just not in him. What happened with you and your guy??

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He sounds like a genuine guy, Libra 🙂

I ended things with him because there was a big age gap and he lived in a different country. Also I was his first love, so I had to set him free to experience other things. He also had lots of issues that he wasn't looking at. We had amazing times together.....travelling and mad fun lol.....but it wasn't meant to carry on

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It is ok casual sex is what all the young kids are doing...

This is when the saying... hey he fucked you really means what it means...

He is just fucking you... just like other woman... that is who he is... Mercury retro.

So either you will want a real relationship and move on or continue seeing f boy. Woman again seem to love all these men that just tell them what they want to hear.



People these days have sex and they are not even in a relationship. I mean really... what is the world coming to next thing you know primal mined people will be having sex in the street.

I am an Aries and obviously if this guy is having sex with another woman he is playing you...

Piscemoon

He's been spending a lot of time and being attention to me even whenever i need him he would be there. But also you're right i should just move on too, I have seen him drunk and always been knowing what he was doing. If he could do that, means he's not seeing me as exclusive or whatever serious. Will see how it goes and sure to look around if any good guys 🙂

You should know by the sept 5th the moon will be full in Pisces. Moon shortly goes in to Aries...

Hey some woman have to learn what they been accepting before they will actually learn or look for qualities that are not playeish.

Piscesmoon

Ohh what does this mean? My Aries, Pisces moon is leaving to go home visit fam for 3 weeks from 10th....

Libra, i was with an Aries guy, water moon, taurus mars like your man

He never cheated on me and sometimes we didn't meet for 4 - 6 weeks, from the offset i told him, i don't share....he said he couldn't even begin to think about being with another woman, I suspect he also knew if he did, i would know

Not all men are that weak

🙂

Yes he is very much the same as me. He has told me he couldn't bear for me to do it to him it would absolutely break his heart and he is not about that kind of life, it seems like its just not in him. What happened with you and your guy??

He sounds like a genuine guy, Libra 🙂

I ended things with him because there was a big age gap and he lived in a different country. Also I was his first love, so I had to set him free to experience other things. He also had lots of issues that he wasn't looking at. We had amazing times together.....travelling and mad fun lol.....but it wasn't meant to carry on

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Please open your own topic, thanks ??

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Posted by piscesmoon2

Posted by Cc1124

Posted by piscesmoon2
It is ok casual sex is what all the young kids are doing...

This is when the saying... hey he fucked you really means what it means...

He is just fucking you... just like other woman... that is who he is... Mercury retro.

So either you will want a real relationship and move on or continue seeing f boy. Woman again seem to love all these men that just tell them what they want to hear.



People these days have sex and they are not even in a relationship. I mean really... what is the world coming to next thing you know primal mined people will be having sex in the street.

I am an Aries and obviously if this guy is having sex with another woman he is playing you...

Piscemoon

He's been spending a lot of time and being attention to me even whenever i need him he would be there. But also you're right i should just move on too, I have seen him drunk and always been knowing what he was doing. If he could do that, means he's not seeing me as exclusive or whatever serious. Will see how it goes and sure to look around if any good guys 🙂

You should know by the sept 5th the moon will be full in Pisces. Moon shortly goes in to Aries...

Hey some woman have to learn what they been accepting before they will actually learn or look for qualities that are not playeish.

Piscesmoon

Ohh what does this mean? My Aries, Pisces moon is leaving to go home visit fam for 3 weeks from 10th....

Libra, i was with an Aries guy, water moon, taurus mars like your man

He never cheated on me and sometimes we didn't meet for 4 - 6 weeks, from the offset i told him, i don't share....he said he couldn't even begin to think about being with another woman, I suspect he also knew if he did, i would know

Not all men are that weak

🙂

Yes he is very much the same as me. He has told me he couldn't bear for me to do it to him it would absolutely break his heart and he is not about that kind of life, it seems like its just not in him. What happened with you and your guy??

He sounds like a genuine guy, Libra 🙂

I ended things with him because there was a big age gap and he lived in a different country. Also I was his first love, so I had to set him free to experience other things. He also had lots of issues that he wasn't looking at. We had amazing times together.....travelling and mad fun lol.....but it wasn't meant to carry on

Please open your own topic, thanks ??

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On what ?

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Though you're not official or exclusive, it's bothering you n you wanna talk about this. So do.Just be prepared for an honest answer. You know where you stand with him. I mean when he's not clear, it is not there. You can't paint it otherwise when you didn't have "the talk". So it shouldn't matter maybe?

I second this. Don't feel like you can't have this discussion because you're not in an official relationship yet. If you're bothered by it, talk about it.

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So what u do?

Ended up didn't bring it up. Talked to 2 best guy friends separately, they both suggesting the condoms most likely not his, and his or not, if I'm myself not ready to have that talk or if not ready for whatever the answer is, then i shall try give him a chance and play cool. And one point they both said only bringing this up after 2 days, making it more like a drama.

So... yea, he's still messaging me every day and being sweet seeing me after all, will see