The Lady Scorpio
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What could you tell me about this Ram ?
Posted by ManInTheMoonWhatever do you mean by that ?
It's always the quiet ones.
I also know a ram sun moon and Merc guy who is completely not the norm for a brut who head butts everything. He is just the most wonderful person you could meet. But way too little confidence in himself at times which makes me sad because I wish he would realise just how amazing he really is x my advise is just follow his lead
I don’t think I’m brutish, but I think I’m masculine. So maybe it’s just your definition of what’s masculine. But being an ape gorilla isn’t one of them, if you want one of those then visit the zoo.
The LadyScorpio still hasn't learned how to properly finish an italicized bracket and the results are whole pages of drunken letters. jajajajaja
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI see, Queenofthepheasantfairies. Yes, I also notice a lack of confidence and nervous shyness (?)
I also know a ram sun moon and Merc guy who is completely not the norm for a brut who head butts everything. He is just the most wonderful person you could meet. But way too little confidence in himself at times which makes me sad because I wish he would realise just how amazing he really is x my advise is just follow his lead
Well, he does not really lead. He tried his bold moves on me and it backfired on him. So now, he usually lets me to make the decisions. Their immediate eagerness comes across rather boyish and childlike. Early days though, and I am more than content to keep it casual (not ready nor available in heart, to invest into anything for the long term as of yet).
Not quite sure, if I should interpret his full on advances as his Venus in Ram acting up, and would soon burn out or to be careful not to hurt his emotions, thus leading him on.
How much of it is quick passion, and how much of it is inner emotions ?
Posted by AriesJoYou must have read incorrectly because I said he is not brutish, and that is a compliment to him.
I don’t think I’m brutish, but I think I’m masculine. So maybe it’s just your definition of what’s masculine. But being an ape gorilla isn’t one of them, if you want one of those then visit the zoo.
Oops, yeah sorry
Posted by TheLadyScorpioThey do move very fast in the beginning yes. But I think you should always keep him on his toes with new surprises each day. By that I mean be an alluring mystery but a strong independent woman which as a Scorpio will come naturally to you anyway. They do get hurt with their feelings easily especially the sensitive ones but don't make him feel like it's a weakness cause it's more than likely what makes him special too. Rams like to test you too so put him in his place when he tries that shit and he will respect you more for it. My scorp rising sees through those games way too fast for him lol but it's fun to watch him try.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI see, Queenofthepheasantfairies. Yes, I also notice a lack of confidence and nervous shyness (?)
I also know a ram sun moon and Merc guy who is completely not the norm for a brut who head butts everything. He is just the most wonderful person you could meet. But way too little confidence in himself at times which makes me sad because I wish he would realise just how amazing he really is x my advise is just follow his lead
Well, he does not really lead. He tried his bold moves on me and it backfired on him. So now, he usually lets me to make the decisions. Their immediate eagerness comes across rather boyish and childlike. Early days though, and I am more than content to keep it casual (not ready nor available in heart, to invest into anything for the long term as of yet).
Not quite sure, if I should interpret his full on advances as his Venus in Ram acting up, and would soon burn out or to be careful not to hurt his emotions, thus leading him on.
How much of it is quick passion, and how much of it is inner emotions ?
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Posted by ManInTheMoonI think it was you. 😆Posted by Mr_PinchyActually I think that's me? God damn this site is broken asf.
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That is quite alright, but now you would have to clarify your statement.
Waltzing in, and not explaining yourself.
Posted by TheLadyScorpiohe sounds wonderful for you, even if you have more masculine energy.
Hello all dear Rams,
So the Spanish Ram has the following chart :
Ram Sun
Merman Moon
Ram Mercury
Ram Venus
Bull Mars
Despite the amount of Ram energy found in his chart. He hardly comes across as masculine in a brutish way, and in fact comes across as rather soft spoken and sensitive (bordering on too much so, I seem to carry more masculine energy than he does). Very respectful, forward, and honest (to a degree).
What else should I expect of him?
it might mean you get to lead while he follows, while still able to handle himself and stand on his own..
sounds like Anne Hathaway's husband (also Aries with lots of aries, with merman moon)
We are not all the same or similar. Or maybe look at his aspects and houses.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesHe moved fast, but he also allowed me to make the final decisions. He let me dictate the pace, is this an initial facade of theirs ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioThey do move very fast in the beginning yes. But I think you should always keep him on his toes with new surprises each day. By that I mean be an alluring mystery but a strong independent woman which as a Scorpio will come naturally to you anyway. They do get hurt with their feelings easily especially the sensitive ones but don't make him feel like it's a weakness cause it's more than likely what makes him special too. Rams like to test you too so put him in his place when he tries that shit and he will respect you more for it. My scorp rising sees through those games way too fast for him lol but it's fun to watch him try.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI see, Queenofthepheasantfairies. Yes, I also notice a lack of confidence and nervous shyness (?)
I also know a ram sun moon and Merc guy who is completely not the norm for a brut who head butts everything. He is just the most wonderful person you could meet. But way too little confidence in himself at times which makes me sad because I wish he would realise just how amazing he really is x my advise is just follow his lead
Well, he does not really lead. He tried his bold moves on me and it backfired on him. So now, he usually lets me to make the decisions. Their immediate eagerness comes across rather boyish and childlike. Early days though, and I am more than content to keep it casual (not ready nor available in heart, to invest into anything for the long term as of yet).
Not quite sure, if I should interpret his full on advances as his Venus in Ram acting up, and would soon burn out or to be careful not to hurt his emotions, thus leading him on.
How much of it is quick passion, and how much of it is inner emotions ?
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Therefore it surprised me, to find out he was a Ram. It seemed unlike them. Well, we had only met each other once. All very unexpected. In fact, I was actually stood up by someone else, a Libran gent. Not quite sure if he noticed, I was stood up but he politely, and respectfully somehow made himself known to me. In fact, he did not even try any flirtatious moves or phrases, the few Arian ego boosting statements he made were shot down with sarcasm on my end (I meant it as cheeky, you know Stinger women, we can not help it). 😆
He seemed quite a romantic, moonlight walks, opening bottles of champagne, entertaining me with his life / love / heartbreak / family stories etc.
We have not kept in contact, after setting a second meet up. It was all very quick and to the point. He does not ask much about me but tells me everything about himself.
What sort of tests ? There has been no games so far, and I think only because he most likely senses that I have seen enough bullturd in my lifetime to be able to see it from far away. He has been rather up front, if not too up front and open so far.
His sensitive side, does unnerve me a little. I do not know what to do with it.
Posted by Ram416Of course not @Ram416, but any guidelines would help. 😆
We are not all the same or similar. Or maybe look at his aspects and houses.
I have not encountered a Ram gent in a very long time. My experiences have always been more so with Ram women.
Posted by ManInTheMoonThat hardly sounds frightening or intimidating. I doubt murder is the thing on his mind, right now. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by ManInTheMoonI think it was you. 😆Posted by Mr_PinchyActually I think that's me? God damn this site is broken asf.
The LadyScorpio still hasn't learned how to properly finish an italicized bracket and the results are whole pages of drunken letters. jajajajaja
That is quite alright, but now you would have to clarify your statement.
Waltzing in, and not explaining yourself.
They observe....and plan what blade they will use to behead everyone.click to expand
Posted by TheLadyScorpioYes lol. They talk about them self alot. That selfish side of theirs is always there. Aries stands for me.. myself and I. The Aries I've been with for a year now so I know him better because it's been a while. If you only met yours twice it will take a while to get to know him. The games I speak of are more things they will say or do to see what or how you will react if that makes sense.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesHe moved fast, but he also allowed me to make the final decisions. He let me dictate the pace, is this an initial facade of theirs ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioThey do move very fast in the beginning yes. But I think you should always keep him on his toes with new surprises each day. By that I mean be an alluring mystery but a strong independent woman which as a Scorpio will come naturally to you anyway. They do get hurt with their feelings easily especially the sensitive ones but don't make him feel like it's a weakness cause it's more than likely what makes him special too. Rams like to test you too so put him in his place when he tries that shit and he will respect you more for it. My scorp rising sees through those games way too fast for him lol but it's fun to watch him try.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI see, Queenofthepheasantfairies. Yes, I also notice a lack of confidence and nervous shyness (?)
I also know a ram sun moon and Merc guy who is completely not the norm for a brut who head butts everything. He is just the most wonderful person you could meet. But way too little confidence in himself at times which makes me sad because I wish he would realise just how amazing he really is x my advise is just follow his lead
Well, he does not really lead. He tried his bold moves on me and it backfired on him. So now, he usually lets me to make the decisions. Their immediate eagerness comes across rather boyish and childlike. Early days though, and I am more than content to keep it casual (not ready nor available in heart, to invest into anything for the long term as of yet).
Not quite sure, if I should interpret his full on advances as his Venus in Ram acting up, and would soon burn out or to be careful not to hurt his emotions, thus leading him on.
How much of it is quick passion, and how much of it is inner emotions ?
Therefore it surprised me, to find out he was a Ram. It seemed unlike them. Well, we had only met each other once. All very unexpected. In fact, I was actually stood up by someone else, a Libran gent. Not quite sure if he noticed, I was stood up but he politely, and respectfully somehow made himself known to me. In fact, he did not even try any flirtatious moves or phrases, the few Arian ego boosting statements he made were shot down with sarcasm on my end (I meant it as cheeky, you know Stinger women, we can not help it). 😆
He seemed quite a romantic, moonlight walks, opening bottles of champagne, entertaining me with his life / love / heartbreak / family stories etc.
We have not kept in contact, after setting a second meet up. It was all very quick and to the point. He does not ask much about me but tells me everything about himself.
What sort of tests ? There has been no games so far, and I think only because he most likely senses that I have seen enough bullturd in my lifetime to be able to see it from far away. He has been rather up front, if not too up front and open so far.
His sensitive side, does unnerve me a little. I do not know what to do with it.
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Aries are very upfront it's one of their best qualities
Posted by ManInTheMoonIndeed. Off with your head!Posted by Mr_PinchyActually I think that's me? God damn this site is broken asf.
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Posted by lisabethur8Perhaps @lisabethur8, I am not entirely invested at the moment. It is early days.Posted by TheLadyScorpiohe sounds wonderful for you, even if you have more masculine energy.
Hello all dear Rams,
So the Spanish Ram has the following chart :
Ram Sun
Merman Moon
Ram Mercury
Ram Venus
Bull Mars
Despite the amount of Ram energy found in his chart. He hardly comes across as masculine in a brutish way, and in fact comes across as rather soft spoken and sensitive (bordering on too much so, I seem to carry more masculine energy than he does). Very respectful, forward, and honest (to a degree).
What else should I expect of him?
it might mean you get to lead while he follows, while still able to handle himself and stand on his own..
sounds like Anne Hathaway's husband (also Aries with lots of aries, with merman moon)
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So far, keeping it casual, light, and entertaining. Strange though, considering his entire chart is full of masculine signs more so than feminine.
Is that so ? I did not know her husband was a Ram.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by TheLadyScorpioYes lol. They talk about them self alot. That selfish side of theirs is always there. Aries stands for me.. myself and I. The Aries I've been with for a year now so I know him better because it's been a while. If you only met yours twice it will take a while to get to know him. The games I speak of are more things they will say or do to see what or how you will react if that makes sense.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesHe moved fast, but he also allowed me to make the final decisions. He let me dictate the pace, is this an initial facade of theirs ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioThey do move very fast in the beginning yes. But I think you should always keep him on his toes with new surprises each day. By that I mean be an alluring mystery but a strong independent woman which as a Scorpio will come naturally to you anyway. They do get hurt with their feelings easily especially the sensitive ones but don't make him feel like it's a weakness cause it's more than likely what makes him special too. Rams like to test you too so put him in his place when he tries that shit and he will respect you more for it. My scorp rising sees through those games way too fast for him lol but it's fun to watch him try.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI see, Queenofthepheasantfairies. Yes, I also notice a lack of confidence and nervous shyness (?)
I also know a ram sun moon and Merc guy who is completely not the norm for a brut who head butts everything. He is just the most wonderful person you could meet. But way too little confidence in himself at times which makes me sad because I wish he would realise just how amazing he really is x my advise is just follow his lead
Well, he does not really lead. He tried his bold moves on me and it backfired on him. So now, he usually lets me to make the decisions. Their immediate eagerness comes across rather boyish and childlike. Early days though, and I am more than content to keep it casual (not ready nor available in heart, to invest into anything for the long term as of yet).
Not quite sure, if I should interpret his full on advances as his Venus in Ram acting up, and would soon burn out or to be careful not to hurt his emotions, thus leading him on.
How much of it is quick passion, and how much of it is inner emotions ?
Therefore it surprised me, to find out he was a Ram. It seemed unlike them. Well, we had only met each other once. All very unexpected. In fact, I was actually stood up by someone else, a Libran gent. Not quite sure if he noticed, I was stood up but he politely, and respectfully somehow made himself known to me. In fact, he did not even try any flirtatious moves or phrases, the few Arian ego boosting statements he made were shot down with sarcasm on my end (I meant it as cheeky, you know Stinger women, we can not help it). 😆
He seemed quite a romantic, moonlight walks, opening bottles of champagne, entertaining me with his life / love / heartbreak / family stories etc.
We have not kept in contact, after setting a second meet up. It was all very quick and to the point. He does not ask much about me but tells me everything about himself.
What sort of tests ? There has been no games so far, and I think only because he most likely senses that I have seen enough bullturd in my lifetime to be able to see it from far away. He has been rather up front, if not too up front and open so far.
His sensitive side, does unnerve me a little. I do not know what to do with it.
Aries are very upfront it's one of their best qualities
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Do they never run out of things to talk about, if it is only about themselves ? 😆
He admitted he was worried that he bored me, with all that talk.
How did the two of you meet ? Did he pursue you, or how did he go about it ?
The games, are not manipulative are they, like what earth signs may do ?
Could you give me a possible example, of some of the games you have experienced. Yes, it is very refreshing their upfront honesty. It almost comes across as naivety, until you realise there is a lot of thought underneath it all. What else is nice, is how action prone they are. They think something, and they do it, very immediate.
Posted by ManInTheMoonOff to the looney bin you go. 😈Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by ManInTheMoonThat hardly sounds frightening or intimidating. I doubt murder is the thing on his mind, right now. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by ManInTheMoonI think it was you. 😆Posted by Mr_PinchyActually I think that's me? God damn this site is broken asf.
The LadyScorpio still hasn't learned how to properly finish an italicized bracket and the results are whole pages of drunken letters. jajajajaja
That is quite alright, but now you would have to clarify your statement.
Waltzing in, and not explaining yourself.
They observe....and plan what blade they will use to behead everyone.
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Posted by ManInTheMoonI got it, except it was not very funny. 😐Posted by TheLadyScorpioIt's not my fault you don't get it.Posted by ManInTheMoonOff to the looney bin you go. 😈Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by ManInTheMoonThat hardly sounds frightening or intimidating. I doubt murder is the thing on his mind, right now. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by ManInTheMoonI think it was you. 😆Posted by Mr_PinchyActually I think that's me? God damn this site is broken asf.
The LadyScorpio still hasn't learned how to properly finish an italicized bracket and the results are whole pages of drunken letters. jajajajaja
That is quite alright, but now you would have to clarify your statement.
Waltzing in, and not explaining yourself.
They observe....and plan what blade they will use to behead everyone.
click to expand
Sex loads of it lol 😈
Scorpio/Aries sex....not to be missed 😛
The hottest guy I was In a rship with had
Aries Sun, Venus, Merc, Scorpio,moon, taurus mars
Very similar to your ram
Steaming !
Haahaa
Scorpio/Aries sex....not to be missed 😛
The hottest guy I was In a rship with had
Aries Sun, Venus, Merc, Scorpio,moon, taurus mars
Very similar to your ram
Steaming !
Haahaa
Posted by MyStarsShineWhat else could you tell me?
Sex loads of it lol 😈
Scorpio/Aries sex....not to be missed 😛
The hottest guy I was In a rship with had
Aries Sun, Venus, Merc, Scorpio,moon, taurus mars
Very similar to your ram
Steaming !
Haahaa
Hah Stars, we already had a lot of that, unexpected on both of our part. 😆 That evening, I was stood up by a Libran gent who lost his pair of balls therefore I could care less and initiated. Whilst the Ram thought he would have had to wait for much longer.
We had one night so far, and it left the Ram in recovery mode or so he said. The physicality of Rams is very refreshing.
However, he is a bit too sensual for my tastes but lets see what future adventures will unveil.
Posted by TheLadyScorpioWhat else would you like to know?Posted by MyStarsShineWhat else could you tell me?
Sex loads of it lol 😈
Scorpio/Aries sex....not to be missed 😛
The hottest guy I was In a rship with had
Aries Sun, Venus, Merc, Scorpio,moon, taurus mars
Very similar to your ram
Steaming !
Haahaa
Hah Stars, we already had a lot of that, unexpected on both of our part. 😆 That evening, I was stood up by a Libran gent who lost his pair of balls therefore I could care less and initiated. Whilst the Ram thought he would have had to wait for much longer.
We had one night so far, and it left the Ram in recovery mode or so he said. The physicality of Rams is very refreshing.
However, he is a bit too sensual for my tastes but lets see what future adventures will unveil.
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It was just sexy fun times mainly ... me jumping on him as much as I could haha
He was very sensual and very sexy, both of which I love
In other ways, it didn't work too well, we didn't get each other
The Quincunx is hard work
Posted by MyStarsShineDo they get clingy, possessive, or demanding?Posted by TheLadyScorpioWhat else would you like to know?Posted by MyStarsShineWhat else could you tell me?
Sex loads of it lol 😈
Scorpio/Aries sex....not to be missed 😛
The hottest guy I was In a rship with had
Aries Sun, Venus, Merc, Scorpio,moon, taurus mars
Very similar to your ram
Steaming !
Haahaa
Hah Stars, we already had a lot of that, unexpected on both of our part. 😆 That evening, I was stood up by a Libran gent who lost his pair of balls therefore I could care less and initiated. Whilst the Ram thought he would have had to wait for much longer.
We had one night so far, and it left the Ram in recovery mode or so he said. The physicality of Rams is very refreshing.
However, he is a bit too sensual for my tastes but lets see what future adventures will unveil.
It was just sexy fun times mainly ... me jumping on him as much as I could haha
He was very sensual and very sexy, both of which I love
In other ways, it didn't work too well, we didn't get each other
The Quincunx is hard workclick to expand
Posted by TheLadyScorpioYes to all thosePosted by MyStarsShineDo they get clingy, possessive, or demanding?Posted by TheLadyScorpioWhat else would you like to know?Posted by MyStarsShineWhat else could you tell me?
Sex loads of it lol 😈
Scorpio/Aries sex....not to be missed 😛
The hottest guy I was In a rship with had
Aries Sun, Venus, Merc, Scorpio,moon, taurus mars
Very similar to your ram
Steaming !
Haahaa
Hah Stars, we already had a lot of that, unexpected on both of our part. 😆 That evening, I was stood up by a Libran gent who lost his pair of balls therefore I could care less and initiated. Whilst the Ram thought he would have had to wait for much longer.
We had one night so far, and it left the Ram in recovery mode or so he said. The physicality of Rams is very refreshing.
However, he is a bit too sensual for my tastes but lets see what future adventures will unveil.
It was just sexy fun times mainly ... me jumping on him as much as I could haha
He was very sensual and very sexy, both of which I love
In other ways, it didn't work too well, we didn't get each other
The Quincunx is hard work
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Draining
Posted by NevamoreStop what @Nevamore? 😈
lol
Stahp that.
Italics are making me dizzy.....
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by MyStarsShineWhen did that begin to set in and how did you handle it, or did you disappear on him ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioYes to all thosePosted by MyStarsShineDo they get clingy, possessive, or demanding?Posted by TheLadyScorpioWhat else would you like to know?Posted by MyStarsShineWhat else could you tell me?
Sex loads of it lol 😈
Scorpio/Aries sex....not to be missed 😛
The hottest guy I was In a rship with had
Aries Sun, Venus, Merc, Scorpio,moon, taurus mars
Very similar to your ram
Steaming !
Haahaa
Hah Stars, we already had a lot of that, unexpected on both of our part. 😆 That evening, I was stood up by a Libran gent who lost his pair of balls therefore I could care less and initiated. Whilst the Ram thought he would have had to wait for much longer.
We had one night so far, and it left the Ram in recovery mode or so he said. The physicality of Rams is very refreshing.
However, he is a bit too sensual for my tastes but lets see what future adventures will unveil.
It was just sexy fun times mainly ... me jumping on him as much as I could haha
He was very sensual and very sexy, both of which I love
In other ways, it didn't work too well, we didn't get each other
The Quincunx is hard work
Drainingclick to expand
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
Posted by bmoon8@bmoon8, thank you for the advice. I never expected sensitivity to be one of those traits they had. The Ram women I know are a bit different. He is often left a bit stunned or surprised when I an being cheeky or sarcastic. A few times he goes quiet for a moment, almost to gather himself, or he shuts himself off momentarily, at least he attempts to.
Since he's sensitive, which all Aries men are, I would get a good feel from him on how he reacts, responds, or acts when his sensitivity is hit. If it escalates quickly and he lashes out on you, I wouldn't have anything to do with him because you are dealing with someone only intuned with themselves and their emotions, and it is emotional and mental abuse. If he handles it by speaking to you about it, he is a keeper.
Hmm, perhaps it is not sensitivity more so the fact that he is very emotionally forthcoming and very vulnerable and open. Since I am used to the logical and rational stoicism of air or earth. This is new to me and I am not quite sure how to handle it.
He does not hide his emotions, in fact he did say it is one thing he dislikes in others even though he is aware people do it for other benefitial reasons. He does seem to rush me to explain myself or how I am feeling, especially on that night we met. He seems to forget that not everyone is as immediate with their emotions as he is, and I certainly am not. Though he has since softened down, allowing me to move at my own pace.
Posted by meraki@meraki, I intend to be upfront and I was even during that first time we met. However, it was a heady evening and my emotions are not as immediate as his. Therefore I only managed to communicate what I had been able to process at that moment.Posted by TheLadyScorpioHow about you be upfront with him instead? Tell him everything you've told us about him and ask him about them.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesHe moved fast, but he also allowed me to make the final decisions. He let me dictate the pace, is this an initial facade of theirs ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioThey do move very fast in the beginning yes. But I think you should always keep him on his toes with new surprises each day. By that I mean be an alluring mystery but a strong independent woman which as a Scorpio will come naturally to you anyway. They do get hurt with their feelings easily especially the sensitive ones but don't make him feel like it's a weakness cause it's more than likely what makes him special too. Rams like to test you too so put him in his place when he tries that shit and he will respect you more for it. My scorp rising sees through those games way too fast for him lol but it's fun to watch him try.Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesI see, Queenofthepheasantfairies. Yes, I also notice a lack of confidence and nervous shyness (?)
I also know a ram sun moon and Merc guy who is completely not the norm for a brut who head butts everything. He is just the most wonderful person you could meet. But way too little confidence in himself at times which makes me sad because I wish he would realise just how amazing he really is x my advise is just follow his lead
Well, he does not really lead. He tried his bold moves on me and it backfired on him. So now, he usually lets me to make the decisions. Their immediate eagerness comes across rather boyish and childlike. Early days though, and I am more than content to keep it casual (not ready nor available in heart, to invest into anything for the long term as of yet).
Not quite sure, if I should interpret his full on advances as his Venus in Ram acting up, and would soon burn out or to be careful not to hurt his emotions, thus leading him on.
How much of it is quick passion, and how much of it is inner emotions ?
Therefore it surprised me, to find out he was a Ram. It seemed unlike them. Well, we had only met each other once. All very unexpected. In fact, I was actually stood up by someone else, a Libran gent. Not quite sure if he noticed, I was stood up but he politely, and respectfully somehow made himself known to me. In fact, he did not even try any flirtatious moves or phrases, the few Arian ego boosting statements he made were shot down with sarcasm on my end (I meant it as cheeky, you know Stinger women, we can not help it). 😆
He seemed quite a romantic, moonlight walks, opening bottles of champagne, entertaining me with his life / love / heartbreak / family stories etc.
We have not kept in contact, after setting a second meet up. It was all very quick and to the point. He does not ask much about me but tells me everything about himself.
What sort of tests ? There has been no games so far, and I think only because he most likely senses that I have seen enough bullturd in my lifetime to be able to see it from far away. He has been rather up front, if not too up front and open so far.
His sensitive side, does unnerve me a little. I do not know what to do with it.
I can guarantee this guy has no idea you perceive him this way. If he did, it would change the way he perceived you.
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However, since we will meet again very soon. In the next few days, I will bring it up.
What do you mean he will percieve me differently, for worse ?
Posted by Mr_PinchyReading this italicized adds to the comedy 😆
The LadyScorpio still hasn't learned how to properly finish an italicized bracket and the results are whole pages of drunken letters. jajajajaja
Posted by TheLadyScorpioHaha..why thank you! 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
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I basically asked him if he was just looking to get laid and if so it ain't gonna happen with me (yet). He got offended or "hurt" and said that he wasn't especially when he made it clear that he liked me.
He pouted for a couple days after then told me about the "made it clear" part.
So if I cont with him..I'm gonna have to watch every little thing I say...which I'm not a fan of. Maybe one of these days ...I'll find someone who can handle me lol.
Posted by LostinmyMind11Humm...in a way, it was actualy you that placed your insecurities on him, right ? 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioHaha..why thank you! 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
I basically asked him if he was just looking to get laid and if so it ain't gonna happen with me (yet). He got offended or "hurt" and said that he wasn't especially when he made it clear that he liked me.
He pouted for a couple days after then told me about the "made it clear" part.
So if I cont with him..I'm gonna have to watch every little thing I say...which I'm not a fan of. Maybe one of these days ...I'll find someone who can handle me lol.
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It's like...he got hurt because he was honest with you, and you doubting him and his intentions means for him that you can't still *see him*.
And for an Aries, and on his head, this means that he actualy knows\like you more than you know\like him.
Yep, just a bit of sensitive\inocent Aries stuff hehe
Knowing how to play that inocent\sensitive part of him, it's actualy how you *catch him*.
Hence why Aries men are into *strong* women ^^
Posted by IamTheRamDamn it...you are right. Thing is words dont mean a lot to me...yeah its nice and all but I'm def more about the actions. His actions (at the time) leaned more towards...I want to get her into bed. On the flip side...I'm sure my actions told the same at that time where I had to reel myself back before I got lost.Posted by LostinmyMind11Humm...in a way, it was actualy you that placed your insecurities on him, right ? 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioHaha..why thank you! 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
I basically asked him if he was just looking to get laid and if so it ain't gonna happen with me (yet). He got offended or "hurt" and said that he wasn't especially when he made it clear that he liked me.
He pouted for a couple days after then told me about the "made it clear" part.
So if I cont with him..I'm gonna have to watch every little thing I say...which I'm not a fan of. Maybe one of these days ...I'll find someone who can handle me lol.
It's like...he got hurt because he was honest with you, and you doubting him and his intentions means for him that you can't still *see him*.
And for an Aries, and on his head, this means that he actualy knows\like you more than you know\like him.
Yep, just a bit of sensitive\inocent Aries stuff hehe
Knowing how to play that inocent\sensitive part of him, it's actualy how you *catch him*.
Hence why Aries men are into *strong* women ^^click to expand
I guess I just wanted to make sure we were on the same page. i told him I will take that at face value and leave it at that. Hes got a lot of things going on right now...so I'm just letting him get that sorted out and have fallen back. Plus this damn retrograde has me all in my feels right now and def bringing up some insecurites which i dont want to project onto him.
Posted by LostinmyMind11The opposite happened to me.Posted by TheLadyScorpioHaha..why thank you! 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
I basically asked him if he was just looking to get laid and if so it ain't gonna happen with me (yet). He got offended or "hurt" and said that he wasn't especially when he made it clear that he liked me.
He pouted for a couple days after then told me about the "made it clear" part.
So if I cont with him..I'm gonna have to watch every little thing I say...which I'm not a fan of. Maybe one of these days ...I'll find someone who can handle me lol.
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Where I was not sure whether or not I would like to extend our interaction beyond a one night memory, for the books. He got sensitive about it because he wanted to see more of me, because he really liked me, was attracted to me and could not fanthom the fact that I had to think about my emotions.
The Ram and their “I want it now” ways still fascinates me, where as I am more of the “I need to think about it” and that is not a game tactic nor a ploy. I meant exactly what I said. 😆
Their impulsive up front ways are quite jarring, is it not ? You are not quite sure if its true but more than likely it is. Unlike with most other signs where it is normally a facade.
I do not think you should watch your words. He may be sensitive but I am certain he enjoys your frank words. In that, he respects that you stood by the thoughts that crossed your mind. He most likely enjoys a strong woman, who speaks her mind. Being herself, even if his ego gets bruised here and there at times. It is the challenge that they enjoy. Mars, their need to fight for what they want, and to win.
Posted by LostinmyMind11Ultimately, do you want to sleep with him and what are your expectations of this interaction?Posted by IamTheRamDamn it...you are right. Thing is words dont mean a lot to me...yeah its nice and all but I'm def more about the actions. His actions (at the time) leaned more towards...I want to get her into bed. On the flip side...I'm sure my actions told the same at that time where I had to reel myself back before I got lost.Posted by LostinmyMind11Humm...in a way, it was actualy you that placed your insecurities on him, right ? 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioHaha..why thank you! 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
I basically asked him if he was just looking to get laid and if so it ain't gonna happen with me (yet). He got offended or "hurt" and said that he wasn't especially when he made it clear that he liked me.
He pouted for a couple days after then told me about the "made it clear" part.
So if I cont with him..I'm gonna have to watch every little thing I say...which I'm not a fan of. Maybe one of these days ...I'll find someone who can handle me lol.
It's like...he got hurt because he was honest with you, and you doubting him and his intentions means for him that you can't still *see him*.
And for an Aries, and on his head, this means that he actualy knows\like you more than you know\like him.
Yep, just a bit of sensitive\inocent Aries stuff hehe
Knowing how to play that inocent\sensitive part of him, it's actualy how you *catch him*.
Hence why Aries men are into *strong* women ^^
I guess I just wanted to make sure we were on the same page. i told him I will take that at face value and leave it at that. Hes got a lot of things going on right now...so I'm just letting him get that sorted out and have fallen back. Plus this damn retrograde has me all in my feels right now and def bringing up some insecurites which i dont want to project onto him.
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Posted by TheLadyScorpioIt fascinates me as well and like you ...I need to think about it.Posted by LostinmyMind11The opposite happened to me.Posted by TheLadyScorpioHaha..why thank you! 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
I basically asked him if he was just looking to get laid and if so it ain't gonna happen with me (yet). He got offended or "hurt" and said that he wasn't especially when he made it clear that he liked me.
He pouted for a couple days after then told me about the "made it clear" part.
So if I cont with him..I'm gonna have to watch every little thing I say...which I'm not a fan of. Maybe one of these days ...I'll find someone who can handle me lol.
Where I was not sure whether or not I would like to extend our interaction beyond a one night memory, for the books. He got sensitive about it because he wanted to see more of me, because he really liked me, was attracted to me and could not fanthom the fact that I had to think about my emotions.
The Ram and their “I want it now” ways still fascinates me, where as I am more of the “I need to think about it” and that is not a game tactic nor a ploy. I meant exactly what I said. 😆
Their impulsive up front ways are quite jarring, is it not ? You are not quite sure if its true but more than likely it is. Unlike with most other signs where it is normally a facade.
I do not think you should watch your words. He may be sensitive but I am certain he enjoys your frank words. In that, he respects that you stood by the thoughts that crossed your mind. He most likely enjoys a strong woman, who speaks her mind. Being herself, even if his ego gets bruised here and there at times. It is the challenge that they enjoy. Mars, their need to fight for what they want, and to win.
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yes it can be very jarring..I think thats why I question his intentions because I'm use to having to dig for things/truth not have it layed out in front of me. Its kinda thrown me off lol.
No, you are right I shouldnt and probably wont lol....but I also dont want to deal with someone who pouts all the time.
Posted by TheLadyScorpioOh yeah...I def do and if its anything like our make out session then its going to be addictive. On the other hand... I can also see it being short lived each time. Like I want you, we do our thing and thats it until next time. I want more of "I cant get enough of you, youre never leaving, we might lose our jobs, etc" type of interaction lol. Of course I could be completely wrong and thats how it could end up being....who knows but thats where my head is at on it.Posted by LostinmyMind11Ultimately, do you want to sleep with him and what are your expectations of this interaction?Posted by IamTheRamDamn it...you are right. Thing is words dont mean a lot to me...yeah its nice and all but I'm def more about the actions. His actions (at the time) leaned more towards...I want to get her into bed. On the flip side...I'm sure my actions told the same at that time where I had to reel myself back before I got lost.Posted by LostinmyMind11Humm...in a way, it was actualy you that placed your insecurities on him, right ? 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioHaha..why thank you! 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
I basically asked him if he was just looking to get laid and if so it ain't gonna happen with me (yet). He got offended or "hurt" and said that he wasn't especially when he made it clear that he liked me.
He pouted for a couple days after then told me about the "made it clear" part.
So if I cont with him..I'm gonna have to watch every little thing I say...which I'm not a fan of. Maybe one of these days ...I'll find someone who can handle me lol.
It's like...he got hurt because he was honest with you, and you doubting him and his intentions means for him that you can't still *see him*.
And for an Aries, and on his head, this means that he actualy knows\like you more than you know\like him.
Yep, just a bit of sensitive\inocent Aries stuff hehe
Knowing how to play that inocent\sensitive part of him, it's actualy how you *catch him*.
Hence why Aries men are into *strong* women ^^
I guess I just wanted to make sure we were on the same page. i told him I will take that at face value and leave it at that. Hes got a lot of things going on right now...so I'm just letting him get that sorted out and have fallen back. Plus this damn retrograde has me all in my feels right now and def bringing up some insecurites which i dont want to project onto him.
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But I didnt mean to hijack your thread.
Posted by LostinmyMind11We are still on the lovely topic of Ram gents, so you are hardly hijacking it. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioOh yeah...I def do and if its anything like our make out session then its going to be addictive. On the other hand... I can also see it being short lived each time. Like I want you, we do our thing and thats it until next time. I want more of "I cant get enough of you, youre never leaving, we might lose our jobs, etc" type of interaction lol. Of course I could be completely wrong and thats how it could end up being....who knows but thats where my head is at on it.Posted by LostinmyMind11Ultimately, do you want to sleep with him and what are your expectations of this interaction?Posted by IamTheRamDamn it...you are right. Thing is words dont mean a lot to me...yeah its nice and all but I'm def more about the actions. His actions (at the time) leaned more towards...I want to get her into bed. On the flip side...I'm sure my actions told the same at that time where I had to reel myself back before I got lost.Posted by LostinmyMind11Humm...in a way, it was actualy you that placed your insecurities on him, right ? 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioHaha..why thank you! 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
I basically asked him if he was just looking to get laid and if so it ain't gonna happen with me (yet). He got offended or "hurt" and said that he wasn't especially when he made it clear that he liked me.
He pouted for a couple days after then told me about the "made it clear" part.
So if I cont with him..I'm gonna have to watch every little thing I say...which I'm not a fan of. Maybe one of these days ...I'll find someone who can handle me lol.
It's like...he got hurt because he was honest with you, and you doubting him and his intentions means for him that you can't still *see him*.
And for an Aries, and on his head, this means that he actualy knows\like you more than you know\like him.
Yep, just a bit of sensitive\inocent Aries stuff hehe
Knowing how to play that inocent\sensitive part of him, it's actualy how you *catch him*.
Hence why Aries men are into *strong* women ^^
I guess I just wanted to make sure we were on the same page. i told him I will take that at face value and leave it at that. Hes got a lot of things going on right now...so I'm just letting him get that sorted out and have fallen back. Plus this damn retrograde has me all in my feels right now and def bringing up some insecurites which i dont want to project onto him.
But I didnt mean to hijack your thread.
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I know, like you I could only see the short term as well but perhaps these Ram gents will prove us otherwise ... that is before they get bored with the heady chase and go after the next sweet lass to catch their eye.
Their fiery passion is addicting, is it not? Such opposites to earthy or watery individuals who move at a different pace, constantly thinking or weighing things out. There seems to be a childish innocence to their frank openness when it comes to emotions, I mean that in the best of ways. “The world could combust, but to bloody hell I will go down with it, if it gives me a moment of glory.”
It really is an adventure with them.
Do we all not want that type of interaction ?
Now, we need directions, someone to lead us to that holy grail. 😈
Posted by LostinmyMind11I think we should give them the benefit of the doubt. Their emotional expressions are more often true, I think we could only then judge their intentions after the fact. When they have calmed down enough to think.Posted by TheLadyScorpioIt fascinates me as well and like you ...I need to think about it.Posted by LostinmyMind11The opposite happened to me.Posted by TheLadyScorpioHaha..why thank you! 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
I basically asked him if he was just looking to get laid and if so it ain't gonna happen with me (yet). He got offended or "hurt" and said that he wasn't especially when he made it clear that he liked me.
He pouted for a couple days after then told me about the "made it clear" part.
So if I cont with him..I'm gonna have to watch every little thing I say...which I'm not a fan of. Maybe one of these days ...I'll find someone who can handle me lol.
Where I was not sure whether or not I would like to extend our interaction beyond a one night memory, for the books. He got sensitive about it because he wanted to see more of me, because he really liked me, was attracted to me and could not fanthom the fact that I had to think about my emotions.
The Ram and their “I want it now” ways still fascinates me, where as I am more of the “I need to think about it” and that is not a game tactic nor a ploy. I meant exactly what I said. 😆
Their impulsive up front ways are quite jarring, is it not ? You are not quite sure if its true but more than likely it is. Unlike with most other signs where it is normally a facade.
I do not think you should watch your words. He may be sensitive but I am certain he enjoys your frank words. In that, he respects that you stood by the thoughts that crossed your mind. He most likely enjoys a strong woman, who speaks her mind. Being herself, even if his ego gets bruised here and there at times. It is the challenge that they enjoy. Mars, their need to fight for what they want, and to win.
yes it can be very jarring..I think thats why I question his intentions because I'm use to having to dig for things/truth not have it layed out in front of me. Its kinda thrown me off lol.
No, you are right I shouldnt and probably wont lol....but I also dont want to deal with someone who pouts all the time.
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Their own impatience, gives away the fact that they are more honest than people give them credit for. They have too little time to create elaborate stories or hide, I am certain they are capable of it (there are good and bad apples of every sign) but they are already too busy charging forward into the next emotional outburst to do it.
Simply because we are not used to it, and used to stoic behaviour does not mean we should impose our experiences unto people that express themselves differently. It is us, and not them. All easier, said than done. 😆
I think if you told him to stop pouting, he might actually would. They are sensitive, but not fragile. They have a two second rebound rate.
Posted by LostinmyMind11Well...people want to go to bed...what's the big news 🙂Posted by IamTheRamDamn it...you are right. Thing is words dont mean a lot to me...yeah its nice and all but I'm def more about the actions. His actions (at the time) leaned more towards...I want to get her into bed. On the flip side...I'm sure my actions told the same at that time where I had to reel myself back before I got lost.Posted by LostinmyMind11Humm...in a way, it was actualy you that placed your insecurities on him, right ? 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioHaha..why thank you! 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
I basically asked him if he was just looking to get laid and if so it ain't gonna happen with me (yet). He got offended or "hurt" and said that he wasn't especially when he made it clear that he liked me.
He pouted for a couple days after then told me about the "made it clear" part.
So if I cont with him..I'm gonna have to watch every little thing I say...which I'm not a fan of. Maybe one of these days ...I'll find someone who can handle me lol.
It's like...he got hurt because he was honest with you, and you doubting him and his intentions means for him that you can't still *see him*.
And for an Aries, and on his head, this means that he actualy knows\like you more than you know\like him.
Yep, just a bit of sensitive\inocent Aries stuff hehe
Knowing how to play that inocent\sensitive part of him, it's actualy how you *catch him*.
Hence why Aries men are into *strong* women ^^
I guess I just wanted to make sure we were on the same page. i told him I will take that at face value and leave it at that. Hes got a lot of things going on right now...so I'm just letting him get that sorted out and have fallen back. Plus this damn retrograde has me all in my feels right now and def bringing up some insecurites which i dont want to project onto him.
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This is actualy something that you should always expect from the start in any situation tbh ^^
But how you lead the situation...that's up to you 🙂
He will respect you and he will wait for you to take *that step* if he realy likes you. You don't have to worry about that.
Aries are known to be very impatient, and we will surely behave like it...but on the inside, we can be realy patient if we see the *worth* in it..(and this is actualy something we won't tell you btw hehe).
Anyway...words, actions, astrology, bla bla bla..at the end of the day nothing can predict the future and how things will end up.
We can always choose a path, and the one that seems the best for us. But in the end, it's still up to us to walk that path.
See it for yourself and don't mind with all this *other things* ^^
Posted by IamTheRamTrue...you are right about that.Posted by LostinmyMind11Well...people want to go to bed...what's the big news 🙂Posted by IamTheRamDamn it...you are right. Thing is words dont mean a lot to me...yeah its nice and all but I'm def more about the actions. His actions (at the time) leaned more towards...I want to get her into bed. On the flip side...I'm sure my actions told the same at that time where I had to reel myself back before I got lost.Posted by LostinmyMind11Humm...in a way, it was actualy you that placed your insecurities on him, right ? 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioHaha..why thank you! 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
I basically asked him if he was just looking to get laid and if so it ain't gonna happen with me (yet). He got offended or "hurt" and said that he wasn't especially when he made it clear that he liked me.
He pouted for a couple days after then told me about the "made it clear" part.
So if I cont with him..I'm gonna have to watch every little thing I say...which I'm not a fan of. Maybe one of these days ...I'll find someone who can handle me lol.
It's like...he got hurt because he was honest with you, and you doubting him and his intentions means for him that you can't still *see him*.
And for an Aries, and on his head, this means that he actualy knows\like you more than you know\like him.
Yep, just a bit of sensitive\inocent Aries stuff hehe
Knowing how to play that inocent\sensitive part of him, it's actualy how you *catch him*.
Hence why Aries men are into *strong* women ^^
I guess I just wanted to make sure we were on the same page. i told him I will take that at face value and leave it at that. Hes got a lot of things going on right now...so I'm just letting him get that sorted out and have fallen back. Plus this damn retrograde has me all in my feels right now and def bringing up some insecurites which i dont want to project onto him.
This is actualy something that you should always expect from the start in any situation tbh ^^
But how you lead the situation...that's up to you 🙂
He will respect you and he will wait for you to take *that step* if he realy likes you. You don't have to worry about that.
Aries are known to be very impatient, and we will surely behave like it...but on the inside, we can be realy patient if we see the *worth* in it..(and this is actualy something we won't tell you btw hehe).
Anyway...words, actions, astrology, bla bla bla..at the end of the day nothing can predict the future and how things will end up.
We can always choose a path, and the one that seems the best for us. But in the end, it's still up to us to walk that path.
See it for yourself and don't mind with all this *other things* ^^click to expand
Yeah he seems to respect my decision on it and agreed to waiting but i can def see the impatients and his struggle with keeping it in check. But again you are right...at the end of the day who knows what will happen and I'm really trying to just roll with it.
Posted by TheLadyScorpioIt really is. I'm so used to double water men and now to be dealing with a double fire (I believe he has a leo moon like I do ...yikes) there is def a learning curve there lol. Like when we first met...he hugged and then kissed me...I was like ok then. If that was a water guy....it would have taken 6 months for him to even touch my hand lol (i'm over exaggerating of course). I am curious though about earth guys but I never attract them..probably because they just dont know how to take me.Posted by LostinmyMind11We are still on the lovely topic of Ram gents, so you are hardly hijacking it. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioOh yeah...I def do and if its anything like our make out session then its going to be addictive. On the other hand... I can also see it being short lived each time. Like I want you, we do our thing and thats it until next time. I want more of "I cant get enough of you, youre never leaving, we might lose our jobs, etc" type of interaction lol. Of course I could be completely wrong and thats how it could end up being....who knows but thats where my head is at on it.Posted by LostinmyMind11Ultimately, do you want to sleep with him and what are your expectations of this interaction?Posted by IamTheRamDamn it...you are right. Thing is words dont mean a lot to me...yeah its nice and all but I'm def more about the actions. His actions (at the time) leaned more towards...I want to get her into bed. On the flip side...I'm sure my actions told the same at that time where I had to reel myself back before I got lost.Posted by LostinmyMind11Humm...in a way, it was actualy you that placed your insecurities on him, right ? 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioHaha..why thank you! 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
I basically asked him if he was just looking to get laid and if so it ain't gonna happen with me (yet). He got offended or "hurt" and said that he wasn't especially when he made it clear that he liked me.
He pouted for a couple days after then told me about the "made it clear" part.
So if I cont with him..I'm gonna have to watch every little thing I say...which I'm not a fan of. Maybe one of these days ...I'll find someone who can handle me lol.
It's like...he got hurt because he was honest with you, and you doubting him and his intentions means for him that you can't still *see him*.
And for an Aries, and on his head, this means that he actualy knows\like you more than you know\like him.
Yep, just a bit of sensitive\inocent Aries stuff hehe
Knowing how to play that inocent\sensitive part of him, it's actualy how you *catch him*.
Hence why Aries men are into *strong* women ^^
I guess I just wanted to make sure we were on the same page. i told him I will take that at face value and leave it at that. Hes got a lot of things going on right now...so I'm just letting him get that sorted out and have fallen back. Plus this damn retrograde has me all in my feels right now and def bringing up some insecurites which i dont want to project onto him.
But I didnt mean to hijack your thread.
I know, like you I could only see the short term as well but perhaps these Ram gents will prove us otherwise ... that is before they get bored with the heady chase and go after the next sweet lass to catch their eye.
Their fiery passion is addicting, is it not? Such opposites to earthy or watery individuals who move at a different pace, constantly thinking or weighing things out. There seems to be a childish innocence to their frank openness when it comes to emotions, I mean that in the best of ways. “The world could combust, but to bloody hell I will go down with it, if it gives me a moment of glory.”
It really is an adventure with them.
Do we all not want that type of interaction ?
Now, we need directions, someone to lead us to that holy grail. 😈
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Yeah you are right...most do want that type of interaction. I want it for keeps throughout though too lol. I'm greedy haha.
I agree!
Posted by LostinmyMind11Well, to ease things up, why don't you look at the bright side of it all...Posted by IamTheRamTrue...you are right about that.Posted by LostinmyMind11Well...people want to go to bed...what's the big news 🙂Posted by IamTheRamDamn it...you are right. Thing is words dont mean a lot to me...yeah its nice and all but I'm def more about the actions. His actions (at the time) leaned more towards...I want to get her into bed. On the flip side...I'm sure my actions told the same at that time where I had to reel myself back before I got lost.Posted by LostinmyMind11Humm...in a way, it was actualy you that placed your insecurities on him, right ? 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioHaha..why thank you! 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11You are more than welcome to stay, LIMM. 😆
He sounds exactly like the Aries guy I've been talking to lol.
Moved fast (didn't sleep together), talked about himself, sent me pics of his life, honest (as far as I know), direct. Etc....I already hurt his feelings though lol. Too damn sensitive...worse than cancer men imo but he also intrigues me lol.
I'm following this though so I can learn more lol
What did you do to hurt his feelings?
I basically asked him if he was just looking to get laid and if so it ain't gonna happen with me (yet). He got offended or "hurt" and said that he wasn't especially when he made it clear that he liked me.
He pouted for a couple days after then told me about the "made it clear" part.
So if I cont with him..I'm gonna have to watch every little thing I say...which I'm not a fan of. Maybe one of these days ...I'll find someone who can handle me lol.
It's like...he got hurt because he was honest with you, and you doubting him and his intentions means for him that you can't still *see him*.
And for an Aries, and on his head, this means that he actualy knows\like you more than you know\like him.
Yep, just a bit of sensitive\inocent Aries stuff hehe
Knowing how to play that inocent\sensitive part of him, it's actualy how you *catch him*.
Hence why Aries men are into *strong* women ^^
I guess I just wanted to make sure we were on the same page. i told him I will take that at face value and leave it at that. Hes got a lot of things going on right now...so I'm just letting him get that sorted out and have fallen back. Plus this damn retrograde has me all in my feels right now and def bringing up some insecurites which i dont want to project onto him.
This is actualy something that you should always expect from the start in any situation tbh ^^
But how you lead the situation...that's up to you 🙂
He will respect you and he will wait for you to take *that step* if he realy likes you. You don't have to worry about that.
Aries are known to be very impatient, and we will surely behave like it...but on the inside, we can be realy patient if we see the *worth* in it..(and this is actualy something we won't tell you btw hehe).
Anyway...words, actions, astrology, bla bla bla..at the end of the day nothing can predict the future and how things will end up.
We can always choose a path, and the one that seems the best for us. But in the end, it's still up to us to walk that path.
See it for yourself and don't mind with all this *other things* ^^
Yeah he seems to respect my decision on it and agreed to waiting but i can def see the impatients and his struggle with keeping it in check. But again you are right...at the end of the day who knows what will happen and I'm really trying to just roll with it.
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How bad it actualy is to feel wanted by the man you also *want* ? hehe ^^
But...that's not the problem also, neither is the respect tbh lol...the problem is always the same...figuring out the other person feelings which eventually leads to their real motives... ^^
The funny part is that at the same time, we are also thinking about our own feelings and how to act in order to understand if the feelings and motives are mutual.
That's actualy what we are looking for ^^
Relationships...they really used to be something way more funnier when we were younger, now didn't they ? lol ^^
So yeah, the best way is to really go with the flow and let Time play its part 🙂
(But that's just because Time, well Time give's us more words and actions in order for us to realise if the feelings and motives of......oh god.....it never ends... 😆 )
Update:
Met a second time, which turned into yet another day till overnight and then brunch situation.
He cleaned up his entire place, it was pristine when I got there. In fact, I was told that he was tidying it up for me and made sure to compliment his Ram ways. He still had laundry to do and I offered to help but he happily had me relax whilst he finished everything.
When we met, the physical side of things took over, few words were said until exhausted. Went out to eat dinner, we both were not full, so decided to go to the grocers as well. No alcohol, he wanted to enjoy everything sober. He chose a very particular film, and initially we could not find the film online, but this Ram knowing I really wanted to watch it, kept trying until he found it. Up until now, all was mostly quiet, he seemed more observant in noticing and watching my expressions more than anything else. His merman moon seems intuitive enough to let you be when you are brooding or not talkative. Thank heavens, given how Stingers sometimes rather enjoy someones company in silence. For a moment I was worried he was bored, because he was really silent. Knowing bluntness might fare better, I outright asked him. He assured me it was not due to my company but because it was a long week, with business partners still bothering him, on his days off and he was exhausted.
Finishing the film, I asked about a few scars he has. It got him started, as if something changed. He spoke of his past, the pain of it, diving really deep, regarding his parents, his family, his siblings, everything. Stories from when he was a boy till now. We spoke of heartbreak, funny stories, exes, lost loves, career, the future, etc. He never really hid anything, very up front, all the way down to his work schedule, and work ongoings, always updating me. I was surprised he would let me in so quickly and so deeply. I never had to pry it out of him, he just shares and that is very refreshing. The sensitivity is really touching. When I struggled to share my past, he was very patient with me, with no judgements nor pity. I hardly open up quickly, and he realised that, constantly checking in on me to see if I am alright.
He would hardly let me pay for anything adamant to take care of everything and was always very attentive. Making sure I was never hungry, never cold, never thirsty, etc. Very intimate and sensual he is, wanting plenty of cuddling, hugs, hand holding, touches, and what not. However, his merman moon seems to make him a shade moody as well. One minute he is very hot and the next minute his body language seems a bit cold.
By the end, he told me he actually bailed and cancelled various plans with his friends etc. All because I called. I told him aghast, that he did not have to do that, if he had plans, he could have spent time with me on another day and I meant this. He would not have any of it and said, you were also what I wanted, and I wanted you, and they will be fine once I share a beer or two with them. They will not hold it against you. I also met one of his friend already, who was very shy, giving us space when he came by his place to pick up some things. He told his friend that I was quite fine with everything, and I found it amusing his friend was so very sheepish. 😆
Is this normal for a Ram gent, what is going on ?
[Excuse the long story telling, too heady to make two sense of anything right now.]
Met a second time, which turned into yet another day till overnight and then brunch situation.
He cleaned up his entire place, it was pristine when I got there. In fact, I was told that he was tidying it up for me and made sure to compliment his Ram ways. He still had laundry to do and I offered to help but he happily had me relax whilst he finished everything.
When we met, the physical side of things took over, few words were said until exhausted. Went out to eat dinner, we both were not full, so decided to go to the grocers as well. No alcohol, he wanted to enjoy everything sober. He chose a very particular film, and initially we could not find the film online, but this Ram knowing I really wanted to watch it, kept trying until he found it. Up until now, all was mostly quiet, he seemed more observant in noticing and watching my expressions more than anything else. His merman moon seems intuitive enough to let you be when you are brooding or not talkative. Thank heavens, given how Stingers sometimes rather enjoy someones company in silence. For a moment I was worried he was bored, because he was really silent. Knowing bluntness might fare better, I outright asked him. He assured me it was not due to my company but because it was a long week, with business partners still bothering him, on his days off and he was exhausted.
Finishing the film, I asked about a few scars he has. It got him started, as if something changed. He spoke of his past, the pain of it, diving really deep, regarding his parents, his family, his siblings, everything. Stories from when he was a boy till now. We spoke of heartbreak, funny stories, exes, lost loves, career, the future, etc. He never really hid anything, very up front, all the way down to his work schedule, and work ongoings, always updating me. I was surprised he would let me in so quickly and so deeply. I never had to pry it out of him, he just shares and that is very refreshing. The sensitivity is really touching. When I struggled to share my past, he was very patient with me, with no judgements nor pity. I hardly open up quickly, and he realised that, constantly checking in on me to see if I am alright.
He would hardly let me pay for anything adamant to take care of everything and was always very attentive. Making sure I was never hungry, never cold, never thirsty, etc. Very intimate and sensual he is, wanting plenty of cuddling, hugs, hand holding, touches, and what not. However, his merman moon seems to make him a shade moody as well. One minute he is very hot and the next minute his body language seems a bit cold.
By the end, he told me he actually bailed and cancelled various plans with his friends etc. All because I called. I told him aghast, that he did not have to do that, if he had plans, he could have spent time with me on another day and I meant this. He would not have any of it and said, you were also what I wanted, and I wanted you, and they will be fine once I share a beer or two with them. They will not hold it against you. I also met one of his friend already, who was very shy, giving us space when he came by his place to pick up some things. He told his friend that I was quite fine with everything, and I found it amusing his friend was so very sheepish. 😆
Is this normal for a Ram gent, what is going on ?
[Excuse the long story telling, too heady to make two sense of anything right now.]
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