Ask a Cancer Rising!

This topic was created in the Ascendants forum by RumiL on Wednesday, June 29, 2016 and has 60 replies.

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@bridgelover
11 Years

I'm Cancer rising also, I see the question "why are we so awesome"

No matter what the other placements are, we seem to care & know how to fix &nurture things IF we want to.

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@bridgelover
11 Years

A big fear & worry? That I care too much & it isn't appreciated or wanted. Which is why I have lots of cats & dogs! ?

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@RumiL
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by TrueFantasy
MY DC!!!!!

What are some of your biggest fears? Worries?

Hey you... DC to my AC 😏

Biggest fear/worry is... I have a few

Loved ones having health problems

..not being of help to others.

Not being there for others in times of need.

Not having enough money

Sorry if it sounds cheezy ?

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by DMV
Posted by TrueFantasy
MY DC!!!!!

What are some of your biggest fears? Worries?

People thinking im weak. Walk all over me. Take me for granted.

My tolerance for bad treatment has decreased over the years. I will leave but.ive learned to give closure.

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Yeah I'm learning that too but lots of patience but tolerance level is slightly higher on the spectrum of what's tolerable nowadays.

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

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Posted by Imarollin
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Posted by Imarollin
I'm a cancer rising...

How empathic are you?

Depends on the audience.

Explain ? Please

I have a long accurate memory. If i hear someone in trouble, i think about who they are, how theyve acted towards me and within miliseconds ive decided whether to empathize or not.

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I hate that sometimes just want to wash it away and start all over. My memories are there and it stays dormant until I recognize it before and it's starts me ponder afterwards. Like oh no been there done that.

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@CopperDove
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by tiziani
Posted by CopperDove
When you were a child, were you moody? Are you now?

Very much so until about 24ish I saw how much I needed to practice consistency and mellow out.

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That's similar to a relative of mine with Cancer rising. At about that age there was quite a change. She also became more aware and respectful of other people's needs rather than focusing mostly on her own.

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@RumiL
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by everlynn
With a cancer rising, do any of you love to cook? Cuz I sure as hell do with all the cancer placements I have in my chart.

I've been giving a helping hand in cooking since a few months. I love it. Whenever I cook on my own I really enjoy it.. It's relaxing.

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@CopperDove
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by tiziani
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Posted by tiziani
Posted by CopperDove
When you were a child, were you moody? Are you now?

Very much so until about 24ish I saw how much I needed to practice consistency and mellow out.

That's similar to a relative of mine with Cancer rising. At about that age there was quite a change. She also became more aware and respectful of other people's needs rather than focusing mostly on her own.

Yeah it was really throwing a spanner into my relationships. People liked me and my presence but they felt they couldn't set their watch by me or felt unsupported at times. I don't know hoe I eventually bridged those two things together. For me I think it just came with experience of failing and noticing the world doesn't end either way.

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It's good that you did bridge it. I don't quite now how my relative did, but part of the change happened after she was laid off from a rather prestigious job, and she was manipulated by someone in the company before that. Until then she usually had gotten what she wanted with her ambitions. I think she had more sympathy for people after she lost that job.

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@CopperDove
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by tiziani
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Posted by tiziani
Posted by CopperDove
When you were a child, were you moody? Are you now?

Very much so until about 24ish I saw how much I needed to practice consistency and mellow out.

That's similar to a relative of mine with Cancer rising. At about that age there was quite a change. She also became more aware and respectful of other people's needs rather than focusing mostly on her own.

I also remember though around that age - very similar to what you said in another thread about your thirties - that going out the house was a big challenge for me after some losses. Even just taking regular walks around the park was learning how to experience very basic things for me again. So I just became very calm when I realised things that look small to me can be huge challenges for someone else in their world.

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That's a huge thing, and I relate for sure. And I can look back to a few years ago to a trauma I went through, and remember how hard it was for me to do things that now are very simple, small things like shopping at the grocery store. I had to make myself go out back then, now it just feels natural to go because I want to.

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@RumiL
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Alpha
I didn't know you're a Cancer rising, RumiL! Hey!

Do you like to wash dishes?

Hii Alpha! πŸ™‚

Lol! Yes..I enjoy it whenever I get the chance to do the dishes πŸ™‚ .. I have Virgo in 4th house...so... It gives me a relaxation I cannot describe in words :p

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by RumiL
Posted by Alpha
I didn't know you're a Cancer rising, RumiL! Hey!

Do you like to wash dishes?

Hii Alpha! πŸ™‚

Lol! Yes..I enjoy it whenever I get the chance to do the dishes πŸ™‚ .. I have Virgo in 4th house...so... It gives me a relaxation I cannot describe in words :p

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Ditto. I also have virgo 4th

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@yellow01gt
19 Years500+ PostsPisces

what makes us lose our cool?

slow walking people, pushy people, trying to get us to do something we don't want to go like go up in front of people or speak in groups, call on us when we just minding our own business and shit like that, blowing phone up and calling back when we texted you... lol

-Jack

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