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Are Aquarian women really worth the effort?
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I had been 'seeing' an aquarian lady for about 2 mths now. I quote-unquote cuz til this day i have no idea i she was ever my girlfriend to begin with.
Anyway, we had our intimate moments and I could tell she was holding back. In the sense that there was just so much desire on her face and body language. I was bitten on my lips, my body... all over. Savage... but she just wouldnt allow herself to go all the way. When it seemed like it got too much for her to bear she would just sit up suddenly and look all confused. Sure, if she wasnt ready, no pressure. I respect her. We can take our time. I left her place with a peck on her forehead... and she still looked pretty dazed.
What happened next? You guessed it, she disappeared on me. No response, nothing. Pls bear in mind that I had not bombarded her with a million texts. She had her freedom. I assumed she was busy or something. I would still send her pictures of horse-riding tours in siem reap, and other possibilities of things we could do together.
After 3 days of disappearance from her later, she sends me a text; "Really miss you". How would you have responded? I was happy, and responded about an hour later. Asked if she was keen on meeting up... she obliged, and we met up for a 5 minutes cup of coffee. To be honest, i had hoped for a longer coffee session over some conversation. "Thats ok, she's probably got something important to do".
About two weeks of roller coaster rides later, she asked me for assistance in a semi-professional matter. Of course I would try my best to help her out. Contacted a lady friend of mine (who has clearly expressed her interest in me... i declined her generosity as diplomatically as i could) to help Aquarius lady out. Lady friend contacted Aquarius lady and boy, oh boy... what happened next made me dizzy.
Aquarius lady called me yelling. "You have a gf you a**hole! I hate you!". I thought "wow... wtf is this?Is this a joke?". Naturally, I wanted to clarify any misunderstanding she might've had. I couldnt reach her for 2 days. Seems Lady friend had ridiculously told aquarius lady that she was my gf. That is a downright lie. (I know, friends, this sounds quite adolescent).
That was 4 days ago... now she understands the truth. Sad to say, however, the cat & mouse games have begun again.... the 15 minute meet ups... the nonchalance... the unpredictability. All these have left me quite exhausted and clueless of what to expect next.
I am not what you call a playboy. Hardly. I dont have trouble in the ladies' department.... but am careful not to lead anyone on.
Friends, i need your opinion on this: Is this Aquarian Lady worth the effort? I am in love with her, want to contribute to her happineas, but i'm tired. A decision has to be made, painful or not.
Sincerely, your uncontrolling Scorpio friend.
Anyway, we had our intimate moments and I could tell she was holding back. In the sense that there was just so much desire on her face and body language. I was bitten on my lips, my body... all over. Savage... but she just wouldnt allow herself to go all the way. When it seemed like it got too much for her to bear she would just sit up suddenly and look all confused. Sure, if she wasnt ready, no pressure. I respect her. We can take our time. I left her place with a peck on her forehead... and she still looked pretty dazed.
What happened next? You guessed it, she disappeared on me. No response, nothing. Pls bear in mind that I had not bombarded her with a million texts. She had her freedom. I assumed she was busy or something. I would still send her pictures of horse-riding tours in siem reap, and other possibilities of things we could do together.
After 3 days of disappearance from her later, she sends me a text; "Really miss you". How would you have responded? I was happy, and responded about an hour later. Asked if she was keen on meeting up... she obliged, and we met up for a 5 minutes cup of coffee. To be honest, i had hoped for a longer coffee session over some conversation. "Thats ok, she's probably got something important to do".
About two weeks of roller coaster rides later, she asked me for assistance in a semi-professional matter. Of course I would try my best to help her out. Contacted a lady friend of mine (who has clearly expressed her interest in me... i declined her generosity as diplomatically as i could) to help Aquarius lady out. Lady friend contacted Aquarius lady and boy, oh boy... what happened next made me dizzy.
Aquarius lady called me yelling. "You have a gf you a**hole! I hate you!". I thought "wow... wtf is this?Is this a joke?". Naturally, I wanted to clarify any misunderstanding she might've had. I couldnt reach her for 2 days. Seems Lady friend had ridiculously told aquarius lady that she was my gf. That is a downright lie. (I know, friends, this sounds quite adolescent).
That was 4 days ago... now she understands the truth. Sad to say, however, the cat & mouse games have begun again.... the 15 minute meet ups... the nonchalance... the unpredictability. All these have left me quite exhausted and clueless of what to expect next.
I am not what you call a playboy. Hardly. I dont have trouble in the ladies' department.... but am careful not to lead anyone on.
Friends, i need your opinion on this: Is this Aquarian Lady worth the effort? I am in love with her, want to contribute to her happineas, but i'm tired. A decision has to be made, painful or not.
Sincerely, your uncontrolling Scorpio friend.
"On a serious note, she will get a bit predictable once she lets her guard down. But you are already tired after just two months, do u want her enough?
And well the idea of having a female interested in you to call her was really stupid.
It's clear she is interested in you but her aqua hot n cold ways are hardly gonna change much which doesn't mean an aqua would love any less."
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Thanks for your feedback, Alieness.
1) of course i want her. Being tired is an entirely different matter.
2) yes, very stupid move. However the only person I know of who could assist Aquarian Lady was this friend. Still stupid though.
3) might make me a better fella, if i could adapt to her hot and cold?
And well the idea of having a female interested in you to call her was really stupid.
It's clear she is interested in you but her aqua hot n cold ways are hardly gonna change much which doesn't mean an aqua would love any less."
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Thanks for your feedback, Alieness.
1) of course i want her. Being tired is an entirely different matter.
2) yes, very stupid move. However the only person I know of who could assist Aquarian Lady was this friend. Still stupid though.
3) might make me a better fella, if i could adapt to her hot and cold?
Posted by AlienessThanks for the encouragement, alieness.Posted by jw_pritchardSo if u really want her, be consistent and persistent but not smothering. This is too early to give up. And it would help if u hold back on extreme jealousy and possessivesness..Wish u luck.
"On a serious note, she will get a bit predictable once she lets her guard down. But you are already tired after just two months, do u want her enough?
And well the idea of having a female interested in you to call her was really stupid.
It's clear she is interested in you but her aqua hot n cold ways are hardly gonna change much which doesn't mean an aqua would love any less."
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Thanks for your feedback, Alieness.
1) of course i want her. Being tired is an entirely different matter.
2) yes, very stupid move. However the only person I know of who could assist Aquarian Lady was this friend. Still stupid though.
3) might make me a better fella, if i could adapt to her hot and cold?
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Will keep the jealousy and possessiveness in check.
Just a last question though:
When she's going through one of her disappearing spells, would a typical aquarian still want to be texted... or should we leave her alone till she chooses to resurface?
Thanks Alieness.
Cheers Alpha and Bumboklat for your replies.
Cheers Alpha and Bumboklat for your replies.
Sound kinda like my situation but u am not in love was in love at one point when j dated her she was an X steel feelings. Welcome to aqua's... You need to have her be straight and either she will want you are not... My Aqua ran it's course I think...
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Shows it is in the stars and so on... Can't make someone do something and I don't like being made out to be something I am not either... I know mine my see I have friend that our girls but I make sure they know it is not more... Then that... Defiantly know she knows some of the same people.
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Posted by Lala1393Hi Lala,Posted by jw_pritchardI'm a Scorpio too. My mother is Aquarius. I find Aquarius women to be cold and often rather selfish and guarded.
I had been 'seeing' an aquarian lady for about 2 mths now.
Friends, i need your opinion on this: Is this Aquarian Lady worth the effort? I am in love with her, want to contribute to her happineas, but i'm tired. A decision has to be made, painful or not.
Sincerely, your uncontrolling Scorpio friend.
I thinkyou should make things clear once and for all to her and tell her how you feel, if she doesn't respond well...that will be your answer.
But in my opinion and experience Scorpio / Aqua romance is like trying to mix oil and water.
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She knows how i feel about her. I would really like to know her thoughts on us though... at the same time, i realise that she needs her space. Will certainly not pressure her on it.
Hahaha... oil and water... separate but stuck to each other.
Thanks for your comment, Lala!
Only you can answer if "it's worth it".
Of course I will say it is, people tend to give up
Too easily these days. But again only YOU can decide if the realationship is worth it.
As for her- she's being guarded, that shit hurt her. Lucky she stuck around cause that sounds like a huge jealousy/ Scorpio test was played to see how she would react.
Of course I will say it is, people tend to give up
Too easily these days. But again only YOU can decide if the realationship is worth it.
As for her- she's being guarded, that shit hurt her. Lucky she stuck around cause that sounds like a huge jealousy/ Scorpio test was played to see how she would react.
Lol
Typical Scorpionic interpretation of a sentence :p
No. She probably likes you but the girl thing wasn't smart.
Also be prepared to have LOTS of communication problems.
Yes, not smart at all.
Funny thing, one of the things that fascinates me about her is when you can actually see her having conversations with herself in her own head. I feel I have alot to learn from this strange, rare creature. There is something precious beyond what meets the eyes and the escapism an aquarian requires to hide her true feelings.
Optimistically, i hope we could both evolve to adapt to each other.
Posted by justagirlOh no, that wasnt a test. Was just plain stupidity on my part. I think scorpios might've been too overrated. We are not sizzling with scheming plans... nor are we cloaked in darkness and danger. I think scorps just want to be clear about things. We just need to be abit patient.
Only you can answer if "it's worth it".
Of course I will say it is, people tend to give up
Too easily these days. But again only YOU can decide if the realationship is worth it.
As for her- she's being guarded, that shit hurt her. Lucky she stuck around cause that sounds like a huge jealousy/ Scorpio test was played to see how she would react.
Posted by EnochtheWiseHi enochthewise,Posted by jw_pritchardLOL! Yes exactly.
I had been 'seeing' an aquarian lady for about 2 mths now. I quote-unquote cuz til this day i have no idea i she was ever my girlfriend to begin with.
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The next time you meet an aqua, try to spot something that you genuinely like about them... then tell them. A genyine compliment. They'll squirm in shyness... might even stick their tongue out at ya!
Posted by EnochtheWiseWow, enochthewise... thats some pretty good advise!Posted by jw_pritchardLike I said, I know nothing but....One thing I have always tried to do with Aquas is let them be themselves. You can't contain or control them. You sort of just have to let them come and go and appreciate the time you have with them. They are super independent and free spirited and you can't make demands. If I make plans with an Aqua I always leave like a 20% chance that they are going to flake out. The inconsistency will drive a Scorpio absolutely insane if you take it too seriously or you are trying to make this some traditional type of relationship.
That was 4 days ago... now she understands the truth. Sad to say, however, the cat & mouse games have begun again.... the 15 minute meet ups... the nonchalance... the unpredictability. All these have left me quite exhausted and clueless of what to expect next.
By letting them be themselves and just being cool with them for who they are, not holding grudges, giving guilt, or being bitter - but just being happy to see them whenever it does actually work out, and enjoying each other, I think it builds rapport with them and loyalty, devotion, and consistency comes with time.click to expand
Posted by jw_pritchardPosted by justagirlOh no, that wasnt a test. Was just plain stupidity on my part. I think scorpios might've been too overrated. We are not sizzling with scheming plans... nor are we cloaked in darkness and danger. I think scorps just want to be clear about things. We just need to be abit patient.
Only you can answer if "it's worth it".
Of course I will say it is, people tend to give up
Too easily these days. But again only YOU can decide if the realationship is worth it.
As for her- she's being guarded, that shit hurt her. Lucky she stuck around cause that sounds like a huge jealousy/ Scorpio test was played to see how she would react.
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Just saying I'm not surprised she's being guarded- it's what it seemed like to this Aqua. *shrug*
Make a statement that you want to build a relationship with her. If she's not mature enough to answer if she wants that eith you or not than mobe on. She seems pretty immature
So, just an update... Aquawoman just left my place. We were in bed talking a little. No, i didnt 'get lucky'. Nothing sexual happened. No problem. She felt more comfortable resting against my knee than in my arms; when there was physical contact. Again, no problem. What was curious was that she had this forcefield around her... even when lying down on the pillow, she would choose not to share the same pillow with me. There she laid 1 foot away from me... i wasnt allowed to touch her, but there she was playing with my ear. I was amused. Like dating a beautiful extra-terrestrial creature from a different universe... and just by laying on the same bed as me, and boldly tweaking my earlobes seemed to be as daring as prodding the open jaws of a mysterious alien lifeform with her unprotected finger.
"You know i want you, yeah?". No verbal response from her. But she sent a billion undecipherable messages through her eyes... that lingering eye contact with an almost pleading expression on her face. She moved in and took a deep breath on my neck and resumed her distance. I brushed her hair to the side of her head and she shivered; "Don't...". She leaned in and gently bit my lip before backing away. I could sense that she was desperately practicing self control. Why? I have absolutely no idea. Defense mechanism? Confusion? Fear? Uncertainty?
Now, what happened next put the cherry on top of the whole awkward setup. She lept up off the bed, fast walked to her slingbag and pulled out this elaborate cross-stitch kit, complete with haberdashery tools and a half finished cross stitch artwork of baby tigers. Holy Shit. Either you'd think she was mad... or simply amazing. I guess we just have to allow ourselves to be amused at an aquarian's eccentricities. The challenge is being the 'outsider' in the whole arrangement. The ghost in the bottle possessed by the prophetess. No one wants to be in a relationship alone.
Please don't misunderstand, i am not a needy guy... certainly not up for the clamminess of a clingy relationship. I appreciate that life is multi dimensional and full of potential... we need to pursue our personal development and enrich the human experience as individuals.
Just sometimes... sometimes... it would be nice to just cut the crap and be with someone we are confident of. As one of our friends in this forum had noted about 'consistency and persistency'... and most definitely, patience and time... should serve well in being entrusted the confidence of the elusive Aquarian woman. That she may finally feel comfortable and free from the paranoia of being judged.
"You know i want you, yeah?". No verbal response from her. But she sent a billion undecipherable messages through her eyes... that lingering eye contact with an almost pleading expression on her face. She moved in and took a deep breath on my neck and resumed her distance. I brushed her hair to the side of her head and she shivered; "Don't...". She leaned in and gently bit my lip before backing away. I could sense that she was desperately practicing self control. Why? I have absolutely no idea. Defense mechanism? Confusion? Fear? Uncertainty?
Now, what happened next put the cherry on top of the whole awkward setup. She lept up off the bed, fast walked to her slingbag and pulled out this elaborate cross-stitch kit, complete with haberdashery tools and a half finished cross stitch artwork of baby tigers. Holy Shit. Either you'd think she was mad... or simply amazing. I guess we just have to allow ourselves to be amused at an aquarian's eccentricities. The challenge is being the 'outsider' in the whole arrangement. The ghost in the bottle possessed by the prophetess. No one wants to be in a relationship alone.
Please don't misunderstand, i am not a needy guy... certainly not up for the clamminess of a clingy relationship. I appreciate that life is multi dimensional and full of potential... we need to pursue our personal development and enrich the human experience as individuals.
Just sometimes... sometimes... it would be nice to just cut the crap and be with someone we are confident of. As one of our friends in this forum had noted about 'consistency and persistency'... and most definitely, patience and time... should serve well in being entrusted the confidence of the elusive Aquarian woman. That she may finally feel comfortable and free from the paranoia of being judged.
Posted by ReincarnationI agree. And if the Scorpio has a lot of AIR, or, Fire. or sometimes, if he's heavy fire/air house (the hidden houses) but generally,Posted by jw_pritchard
I had been 'seeing' an aquarian lady for about 2 mths now. I quote-unquote cuz til this day i have no idea i she was ever my girlfriend to begin with.
Anyway, we had our intimate moments and I could tell she was holding back. In the sense that there was just so much desire on her face and body language. I was bitten on my lips, my body... all over. Savage... but she just wouldnt allow herself to go all the way. When it seemed like it got too much for her to bear she would just sit up suddenly and look all confused. Sure, if she wasnt ready, no pressure. I respect her. We can take our time. I left her place with a peck on her forehead... and she still looked pretty dazed.
What happened next? You guessed it, she disappeared on me. No response, nothing. Pls bear in mind that I had not bombarded her with a million texts. She had her freedom. I assumed she was busy or something. I would still send her pictures of horse-riding tours in siem reap, and other possibilities of things we could do together.
After 3 days of disappearance from her later, she sends me a text; "Really miss you". How would you have responded? I was happy, and responded about an hour later. Asked if she was keen on meeting up... she obliged, and we met up for a 5 minutes cup of coffee. To be honest, i had hoped for a longer coffee session over some conversation. "Thats ok, she's probably got something important to do".
About two weeks of roller coaster rides later, she asked me for assistance in a semi-professional matter. Of course I would try my best to help her out. Contacted a lady friend of mine (who has clearly expressed her interest in me... i declined her generosity as diplomatically as i could) to help Aquarius lady out. Lady friend contacted Aquarius lady and boy, oh boy... what happened next made me dizzy.
I am not what you call a playboy. Hardly. I dont have trouble in the ladies' department.... but am careful not to lead anyone on.
Friends, i need your opinion on this: Is this Aquarian Lady worth the effort? I am in love with her, want to contribute to her happineas, but i'm tired. A decision has to be made, painful or not.
Sincerely, your uncontrolling Scorpio friend.
I'm not big on the Scorpio-Aquarius couple. Maybe if she's heavy Pisces/Capricorn.
Post both of your charts.click to expand
Aquarius likes distance, and Scorpio in general needs CLOSENESS. the two squares are gonna have friction and get pissed off at the LACK of closeness and the other will complain too much wanting /needy closeness.
I've figured that's why, but now i'm on a mission as to why scorpio - leo is not compatible e
im trying to figure out why scorpio and leo square are also not compatible. I understand deeply that aqua needs distance and scorpio needs closeness so they're gonna get pissed off. lol
but why leo square scorpio not compatible.
does one need attention too much—? and the water will drown the fire?? 😕
OP, I saw your other post/topic, I think some people answered your question.
You seem too non-chalant. like c'est la vie kind of vibe.
what's your chart and hers, sil vous plait.
but why leo square scorpio not compatible.
does one need attention too much—? and the water will drown the fire?? 😕
OP, I saw your other post/topic, I think some people answered your question.
You seem too non-chalant. like c'est la vie kind of vibe.
what's your chart and hers, sil vous plait.
If you are inlove with her, yes she is worth it.
She's giving you crumbs. How can you be in love? Doesn't sound like you even know her.
Posted by jw_pritchardI notice when Aquas disappear and come back they want to chase, thus let them come to you first without immediately asking them out: if they had disappeared there must be a reason when you think about it, and it's usually due to being mentally drained. Do that allowing them to be more straightforward and less guarded spontaneously.
After 3 days of disappearance from her later, she sends me a text; "Really miss you".
Then build up again the tension gradually and once they go fully direct on you, with no defence, take over with vigour when they least expect it; surprise factor is important, if you're too predictable they get bored.
Keep it fun and dynamic.
Posted by Se7enShe's a little too hot and cold and immature even for aquarian standards, but no, he's not wasting his time.
You're wasting your time!
Abort mission!!
Posted by Se7enYou don't know what you're missing.Posted by PalerioIt wouldn't be worth it for me. My pride would have kicked in the first time she pulled a disappearing act.Posted by Se7enShe's a little too hot and cold and immature even for aquarian standard, but no, he's not wasting his time.
You're wasting your time!
Abort mission!!click to expand
Do yourself a favor and get away from her asap. My last relationship with aqua was a mess. They are fuckb bipolar and retarded. They need to be left alone forever because they wont change for anyone. Fibd someone who respects your time and intimate level. Dont destroy yourself with someone who could give a fuck. You will have the worst communication problems. You guys are both fixed stubborn signs. LEAVE now!
I'm not big on the Scorpio-Aquarius couple. Maybe if she's heavy Pisces/Capricorn.
Post both of your charts.
Hi,
her venus is in capricorn, mars in pisces, and ascendant in gemini.
My venus is in virgo, mars in cancer and ascendant in pisces.
Thanks!!
OP, I saw your other post/topic, I think some people answered your question.
You seem too non-chalant. like c'est la vie kind of vibe.
what's your chart and hers, sil vous plait.
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Hi Lisa.
Thanks for your comments. Yes, we've very insightful friends in this forum.
Haha, yes, there are some nonchalant vibes. Not in the way that i do not care about the subject. I do, intensely. At the same time, I realise that neither emotional outbursts nor tearful demands could bring anything positive to any situation. Especially in situations where two individuals are involved. I prefer to secretly seek the assistance of friends wiser than me in this forum. I need to do my research in my hopes of understanding the AquaLady.
To me, closeness does not equate to just being physically present. By understanding, accepting and adapting to her, brings me closer to her.
Her sun is in aquarius, ascendant in gemini, venus in capricorn, and mars in pisces.
My sun is in scorpio, ascendant in pisces, venus in virgo and mars in cancer.
I thank you in advance, Lisa.
Librajean, thanks for the encouragement!
Bkbella86, but the crumbs were delicious! I wonder what about the cake? Thanks
Bkbella86, but the crumbs were delicious! I wonder what about the cake? Thanks
Posted by PalerioWow, palerio. You are a strategist!Posted by jw_pritchardI notice when Aquas disappear and come back they want to chase, thus let them come to you first without immediately asking them out: if they had disappeared there must be a reason when you think about it, and it's usually due to being mentally drained. Do that allowing them to be more straightforward and less guarded spontaneously.
After 3 days of disappearance from her later, she sends me a text; "Really miss you".
Then build up again the tension gradually and once they go fully direct on you, with no defence, take over with vigour when they least expect it; surprise factor is important, if you're too predictable they get bored.
Keep it fun and dynamic.click to expand
Posted by draculaThanks bro, i think its worth a try. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
Do yourself a favor and get away from her asap. My last relationship with aqua was a mess. They are fuckb bipolar and retarded. They need to be left alone forever because they wont change for anyone. Fibd someone who respects your time and intimate level. Dont destroy yourself with someone who could give a fuck. You will have the worst communication problems. You guys are both fixed stubborn signs. LEAVE now!
no one is worth this back and forth. And just cuz you wrote a novel doesn't make it any diff. When she didn't answer you or validate your confession of wanting her you had your answer. Why come in and ask if she is worth only to agree with the others whom have been strung along by Aquas too?
Posted by bkbella86Hi bkbella.
no one is worth this back and forth. And just cuz you wrote a novel doesn't make it any diff. When she didn't answer you or validate your confession of wanting her you had your answer. Why come in and ask if she is worth only to agree with the others whom have been strung along by Aquas too?
Today is a great day...at work at least. We made milestones after half a year of preparations and perspiration. All this happened because we took a risk. Now, this risk wasn't taken blindly. Countless analyses were conducted, contingencies calculated, head hunting exercises implemented, and lots of money spent. Finally, we decided on its feasibility, and we went ahead and did it. Hope for the best expect the worst.
The casino industry is much less complicated than a human being.
Pragmatically, i am using the same approach in this subject. Astrology is another vehicle for me to understand the subject... amongst many other vehicles. I am confident you never thought i would base my decision whether to stay steadfast and patient to develop a relationship with AquaLady, solely based on astrology.
As for my 'pulp fiction', badly written, but I hope it did convey a series of information to our friends here to help them with their analysis and input. If the message is unclear, don't expect clear answers. As for this long reply to you, bkbella, is because i care enough to do so. As pessimistic as your comments were, they were very much necessary as the encouraging comments.
There're still endless possibilities, both with happy endings and sad endings. The point is simple: we calculate the risks, and if feasible, we just do it. A pretty smart guy once said; "That which does not kill me would only make me stronger". In the event she is not the right one for me, the experience would only have me wiser. Time and understanding will heal any pain.
Thanks for your comments, bkbella. Have a good day.
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Her sun is in aquarius, ascendant in gemini, venus in capricorn, and mars in pisces.Moon in Libra.
My sun is in scorpio, ascendant in pisces, venus in virgo and mars in cancer. Moon in Saggitarius.
Thank you.
Her sun is in aquarius, ascendant in gemini, venus in capricorn, and mars in pisces.Moon in Libra.
My sun is in scorpio, ascendant in pisces, venus in virgo and mars in cancer. Moon in Saggitarius.
Thank you.
So sorry. Here is the accurate sun and planets for the both of us:
Planets: aqualady / me
Sun: aqua / scorpio
moon: libra/sagg
mercury: aqua/libra
venus: cap/virgo
mars: pisces/cancer
Jupiter: pisces/aries
saturn: aries/leo
uranus: aqua/scorp
neptune: aqua/sagg
pluto: sagg/libra
Thanks in advance!
Planets: aqualady / me
Sun: aqua / scorpio
moon: libra/sagg
mercury: aqua/libra
venus: cap/virgo
mars: pisces/cancer
Jupiter: pisces/aries
saturn: aries/leo
uranus: aqua/scorp
neptune: aqua/sagg
pluto: sagg/libra
Thanks in advance!
Posted by jw_pritchardI don't like the word strategy, not in this context at least, I prefer to think that I'm observant.Posted by PalerioWow, palerio. You are a strategist!Posted by jw_pritchardI notice when Aquas disappear and come back they want to chase, thus let them come to you first without immediately asking them out: if they had disappeared there must be a reason when you think about it, and it's usually due to being mentally drained. Do that allowing them to be more straightforward and less guarded spontaneously.
After 3 days of disappearance from her later, she sends me a text; "Really miss you".
Then build up again the tension gradually and once they go fully direct on you, with no defence, take over with vigour when they least expect it; surprise factor is important, if you're too predictable they get bored.
Keep it fun and dynamic.click to expand
In general when people date they start looking for signs of consistency in other's people behaviours, it's a perfectly natural mechanism, that unfortunately can't be applied the same way to Aquas as well; they're just different from the pack, which is in the end what makes them truly unique individuals.
Like I said before the interaction is often dynamic; keeping up with them requires mental energy in abundance not many people have and, most importantly, a strong sense of adaptability on your side.
The beauty it's in their constant motion - panta rei I shall say - and their ability to change skin daily; they're similar to Virgos, however, you can still find consistency in their fixed nature, they're not that detached and erratic like most people think. If you ask me there are recurring patterns you can pinpoint and by taking mental note of them you will naturally develop your gut feeling, instinctively knowing eventually when it's the right time to give them space.
I would also add that having a strong sense of identity yourself is pivotal; you need to be rock solid and know intimately who you are without too much self-doubt. The moment you start questioning your actions, even though there's nothing wrong with them, it's the moment they drive you nuts.
Posted by SirB2Hahhaha I'm dying at "20yrs older guy that makes recycled cereals"
When I dated an Aquarius girl it was exactly like the first post. They detach and not answer replies and leave the other hanging. It's fairly common. They're not for Water signs or Earth signs. I feel they have a big brain that is overclocked which in turn leaves them with 1% heart and .5% real, genuine, usable "emotions and feelings."
They need a "weird" relationship. Meaning the guy has to be like 20 years older, from some foreign place that makes recycled cereal, or is certified in making dog coats and cat shoes.
Aquarius people are cool to hang around with. But for a water sign? or an Earth sign? it would be a lot easier just to jump through fire rings with gasoline gel in your hair than to date an Aquarius female and know where you stand. lol.
Well I'd suggest u look at the rest of her chart. i'm an aqua too but I have 6 cap placements.. and I'm happily married to a cap without the hangin, disappearing and stuff.
But I have to admit that I'm an aweful friend sometimes. No call back or text back (if its not super important). I'd never do that to my family and spouse though
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollAgreed.Posted by jw_pritchardIt kinda sounds like you're idealizing her and putting her on a pedestal. She could be sensing this. I know that would make me feel uncomfortable.
I feel I have alot to learn from this strange, rare creature. There is something precious beyond what meets the eyes and the escapism an aquarian requires to hide her true feelings.
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He's too afraid of her, of taking control of the situation by setting boundaries when it comes to frankly communicate with her, which is partially what arises by reading his original post. Laissez-faire tollerance is ok and encouraged, but when she takes it too far it's healthy to confront her head-on and draw a line to her nonsense.
He needs to work on his assertiveness most definitely.
kinda
Posted by AmethysstPosted by AliensusedourbogrollThis!! Thank you!Posted by PalerioPosted by AliensusedourbogrollAgreed.Posted by jw_pritchardIt kinda sounds like you're idealizing her and putting her on a pedestal. She could be sensing this. I know that would make me feel uncomfortable.
I feel I have alot to learn from this strange, rare creature. There is something precious beyond what meets the eyes and the escapism an aquarian requires to hide her true feelings.
He's too afraid of her, of taking control of the situation by setting boundaries when it comes to frankly communicate with her, which is partially what arises by reading his original post. Laissez-faire tollerance is ok and encouraged, but when she takes it too far it's healthy to confront her head-on and draw a line to her nonsense.
He needs to work on his assertiveness most definitely.
Yup! Don't treat her like a rare creature or some riddle to solve, treat her like the human being she is. One day you're gonna wake up and realise she's actually not this magnificent creature you're projecting on her but a mere mortal, which will disappoint you. And How will you react?By rejecting her? That's something she might be afraid of.
We're not a science project to be dissected and analyzed. That's what has him fascinated. The day Scorpio stopped viewing me that way and just as a chill girl to be with he actually liked me even more because he took the time to really get to know me.
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Some people don't realize this and it takes time longer to figure that out.
Posted by SirB2Aqua energy is androgynous, ambiguous more than lesbian; not Uranus' fault if his genitals were cut off.Posted by draculaBest advice evaaaar. Ask ellen degeneres. Lots of aqua females are lesbian. Maybe a generalization or maybe some truth to my statement.
Do yourself a favor and get away from her asap. My last relationship with aqua was a mess. They are fuckb bipolar and retarded. They need to be left alone forever because they wont change for anyone. Fibd someone who respects your time and intimate level. Dont destroy yourself with someone who could give a fuck. You will have the worst communication problems. You guys are both fixed stubborn signs. LEAVE now!
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Ha nonchalant & unpredictable, the common phrase that's always haunted the Aquarius. Don't you think that's the fun of it? Anyway there is something serious happened in the bedroom department and I bet its not the actual action because you Scorpios are good at it but I bet you cuddled her for long after sex, that can freaked her out in bed. Good thing is you stayed away and let her to contact you first so she had her time to reboot herself, bad thing is that's drained you off. And you will be put to test like this again and again and eventually you will explode. But anyway good luck, have fun and enjoy the ride.
Posted by SirB2no they're not. they're the same amount of bi/lesbians you'll find in other zodiac signs, if you google and research, plenty are all 12 sun signs.
Again, lots of aqua females are lesbians.
everyone always thinks of Ellen DeGeneres but she's a top celeb that 's out in the open.
http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/famouslesbians/tp/FamousLesbians.htm
the list here also includes Drew Barrymore, Pisces sun, Meredith Baxter, Cancer sun,
some Virgo suns, Taurus suns, and other sun signs.
also I notice some fire suns too.
and all you ever say and talk about aquarius women, SirB are always negative and mean. But if you talk about your Sun sign women, they are all angels and loving aren't they?
it's really unfair how you treat all the other women of the zodiac. and you only see sweet and kind in some sun signs. How very Unfair is that of you?
Posted by PalerioPosted by AliensusedourbogrollAgreed.Posted by jw_pritchardIt kinda sounds like you're idealizing her and putting her on a pedestal. She could be sensing this. I know that would make me feel uncomfortable.
I feel I have alot to learn from this strange, rare creature. There is something precious beyond what meets the eyes and the escapism an aquarian requires to hide her true feelings.
He's too afraid of her, of taking control of the situation by setting boundaries when it comes to frankly communicate with her, which is partially what arises by reading his original post. Laissez-faire tollerance is ok and encouraged, but when she takes it too far it's healthy to confront her head-on and draw a line to her nonsense.
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he isn't assertive enough in his approach to this woman.
if he is constantly wondering and wondering, I wonder if his water feeling is broken. Can you not tell if she likes you?? 😕
Posted by jw_pritchardoh ok, I looked at your charts.
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Her sun is in aquarius, ascendant in gemini, venus in capricorn, and mars in pisces.Moon in Libra.
My sun is in scorpio, ascendant in pisces, venus in virgo and mars in cancer. Moon in Saggitarius.
Thank you.
it looks good to be honest. lol
I don't know if you go to cafeastrology (I thnk it's a good place to start) but go read up stuff there on placements. I think it's very general but it's a start
Mars in Pisces women are what type of man she likes. You are a sensitive soul, and kind and sweet and not very aggressive. I saw and agreed in the other topic that you neeed to be assertive.
with your mars in cancer and virgo venus, that's just not how you are...
but that sag moon can be aggressive.
there is this really good looking handyman guy on TV, and he's very famous with his Aries lady (she' s an Aries cusp near Taurus)
and she has Pisces mars. Leo moon.
And this guy has Sagittarius moon, and the way he talks about how he pursed her, is more aggressive and assertive.
he has a lot of Scorpio though. Scorpio mars too.
and in your case...which i'll show you in another post, afterward is that you need a woman who will CHASE you.
ok Deborah Ann Woll is another Aquarius sun woman, but she has Aries mars/Aries venus, Virgo moon,
who more or less chased her Scorpio man,
he has same Venus and Mars like yourself.
venus virgo, cancer mars, and guess what? Also Sagittarius moon.
edit - what I like is that his venus virgo goes well with her virgo moon.
and we don't know her rising though.....
she could have a rising that is attracted and NEEDS scorpio/cancer/virgo energy. you see??
who more or less chased her Scorpio man,
he has same Venus and Mars like yourself.
venus virgo, cancer mars, and guess what? Also Sagittarius moon.
edit - what I like is that his venus virgo goes well with her virgo moon.
and we don't know her rising though.....
she could have a rising that is attracted and NEEDS scorpio/cancer/virgo energy. you see??
@lisabethur8
It's hard for people who are not used to air to tell when an Aqua likes them, consider the 'playing' field is totally alien for most.
I personally like them, however I can't deny it takes courage to date them because, despite being driven by the same desire of intimacy of other signs, they usually act the opposite way, like they couldn't care less about relationships most times.
I notice 90% of the people around me in rl find them confusing and have no clue, thus there must be something off about the vibes they're naturally sending off as well. On one end they want to mingle with you, on the other they're very proud individual who don't want to compromise and merge, afraid of losing their identity.
They basically end up filtering out people without even knowing.
It's hard for people who are not used to air to tell when an Aqua likes them, consider the 'playing' field is totally alien for most.
I personally like them, however I can't deny it takes courage to date them because, despite being driven by the same desire of intimacy of other signs, they usually act the opposite way, like they couldn't care less about relationships most times.
I notice 90% of the people around me in rl find them confusing and have no clue, thus there must be something off about the vibes they're naturally sending off as well. On one end they want to mingle with you, on the other they're very proud individual who don't want to compromise and merge, afraid of losing their identity.
They basically end up filtering out people without even knowing.
Ultimately what scares people off is that a bigger 'leap of faith' is required to be with someone from this sign, while a similar jump isn't always necessary with others.
Posted by AmethysstJust wondering, do you have any semisquare in your chart?
OP, you need to reign her in when she's emotionally open.. snatch that girl in like a cancer man BUT you also need to show your emotional side.
The way Scorpio finally got a handle of me was by admitting how he truly felt. Explaining WHY he's been acting the way he has or how I freak him out so he does certain things in return which had me running for the hills. It was a vicious cycle between us. When he talked things out, I FELT the genuinity in his words, and the sincerity in his actions of wanting me to be his.. once he did that I let all my guard down. Now I cling to him all the time, I'm super affectionate and lovey. I no longer see a cold face I just see him and the passionate emotions he feels towards me.
I'm also heavily Pisces so that may be it. If she's total air, you're going to have trouble. My fear of not letting go was lack of stability, security and/or full abundance of love on his part. I need that to thrive in a relationship.
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@lisabethur8
It's hard for people who are not used to air to tell when an Aqua likes them, consider the 'playing' field is totally alien for most.
I personally like them, however I can't deny it takes courage to date them because, despite being driven by the same desire of intimacy of other signs, they usually act the opposite way, like they couldn't care less about relationships most times.
I notice 90% of the people around me in rl find them confusing and have no clue, thus there must be something off about the vibes they're naturally sending off as well. On one end they want to mingle with you, on the other they're very proud individual who don't want to compromise and merge, afraid of losing their identity.
They basically end up filtering out people without even knowing.
hm but don't you have an aquarius venus, palerio— 😕
or aquarius mars?
it sounds like the description you describe is more or less, a projection of what they desire, idealizing and maybe hoping too much when there is not a sign that the woman wants them back.
Posted by SirB2Posted by lisabethur8Chill. If you know me i always bash capricorn women like they should be another sign. I guess being a Cap i only see the easy things in women which are the negatives. I dont really post anything positive anymore because people here only want to read warm and fuzzy things and not the real experiences people go through with certain signs. So hate me if you want. But i think youre cool lisabeth. How long have i encountered you here on this forum and this is how our paths cross? hehehe 😛Posted by SirB2no they're not. they're the same amount of bi/lesbians you'll find in other zodiac signs, if you google and research, plenty are all 12 sun signs
Again, lots of aqua females are lesbians.
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and all you ever say and talk about aquarius women, SirB are always negative and mean. But if you talk about your Sun sign women, they are all angels and loving aren't they?
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okkkkaayyy 😄
I like your explanation.
I'm going to PM you OP and tell you what may be happening here because I'm almost the same way minus the yelling part.
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