Astrological pairing

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Easha23000us on Thursday, January 2, 2014 and has 37 replies.

Understanding Astrological Pairings for Compatibility

Astrological pairing assesses how zodiac signs and moon signs influence relationship dynamics. While some signs may face challenges, compatibility depends on individual charts and communication. Recognizing the strengths and differences in astrological profiles can help understand relationship patterns and improve connection.

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@Scenic
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Father: Gem with aqua moon
Mother: Scorpio with libra/scorp moon

They've been married for 18 years and were together on/off before that. They argue a lot and have completely different goals and personalities. I would say they're a pretty bad match, but that's my own perspective. My mother says she loves my father even if to me it seems like they just stay together for finances or because they think they're too old to find someone else. So, who knows!

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@Andalusia
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Ah fuck. Lets try this again. WITHOUT the typos.

Mama: Aqua/Pisces cusp (Feb 19)

Daddio: Gemmy with a bunch of Cancer placements.

Married for 34 years and still counting.

IMO, they seem to lead parallel, non-intersecting lives. Yet it seems to work for them, so who am I to say whether it's a great match or no. Every person's version of great is different. Plus, neither me nor my lovely brothers and sisters would be here or have been brought together if it weren't for my parents getting together and staying together. 🙂

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@divineanonymity
12 Years

My mother is a cancer, libra moon.
My father is an aquarius, aries moon.

They were both young and were together long enough to make me happen.

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

Sorry didn't answer the second part. No it was not a great pairing. My dad was/is very violent. Leaving it at that. I also think it was closer to the 15 year mark that my mom finally had enough and got out.

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@MoonArtist
12 Years10,000+ Posts

Both of my parents are Geminis. Mom is an artist and my dad is a scientist. Married 42 years, I think. They have their ups and downs but for the most part they get along pretty well. It's not a raging romance but more sibling like in how they get along. Sometimes they irritate the snot out of each other and other times not. Still going strong, though.

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@Lex
13 Years

Mom is a Scorpio
Dad is a Sagittarius

Both fit their signs well so the marriage was a disaster due to lack of responsibility and finances on dad's end and mother's controlling and passive aggressive ways. Love em, but I tell em outright that they were not very compatible in desires for their future life choices. Lasted 7 years.

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@Montgomery
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Easha23000us
What signs are your parents? and how long have they been together, and is it a great match?

Mom: Sagittarius sun/Gemini moon/Scorp Venus

Dad: Cap sun/Cap moon/Cap Venus

Eh, not so much-- they were together about 13 years.

Both got remarried within a month of each other-- bleh.

They get along well, now, though.

*shrugs*

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@Herself
13 Years

My mom is a Libra
My dad was a Cancer

They were married for 25 years before he passed away.

When it was good, it was really good. When it was bad, it was really bad.

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@WaterCup
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Father : aqua sun & moon.
Mother : virgo sun with sadge moon.

They were together for some time, not sure how long since they were not the type of parents to discuss such things with me. Hell I don't even know how they met. IDK much about their relationship because they kept everything private. I got to know about some details that lead to their divorce through eavesdropping on my mom's conversations with her friend. Most of the time I was either told to go to my room or to go outside & play when there were issues to be discussed. It saddens me now that I know so little about them.

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@TMV
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Easha23000us

What signs are your parents?

Dad: Leo Sun, Libra Asc., Aries Moon

Mom: Taurus Sun, Leo Asc., Aries Moon

Posted by Easha23000us

how long have they been together

29 years and counting.

Posted by Easha23000us

is it a great match?

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Some days it's hard to tell.

On one hand, he's a workaholic and she's insane. She might be partly insane because he's a workaholic, and he's probably a workaholic because she's insane.

On the other hand, you don't stay together for nearly thirty years and have six children together because your relationship doesn't work. They fight constantly and I imagine the dysfunctionality between them that I was exposed to while growing up helped to psychologically form my warped ideas of what real love is. But there's no question in my mind that he loves her for better or (mainly) worse and somewhere deep down she's the same way.

Or maybe they just stay together because they're both too stubborn to give the other the satisfaction of a divorce. Tough call.

Interesting synastry though:

Sun/Sun square
Sun/Moon semi-square
Sun/Moon trine
Sun/Venus square
Sun/Venus trine
Sun/Mars trine
Moon/Moon conjunction
Moon/Mercury trine
Moon/Mercury sextile
Moon/Venus conjunction
Moon/Mars sextile
Moon/Mars trine
Moon/Asc. trine
Moon/Asc. opposition
Mercury/Venus square
Mercury/Mars conjunction
Venus/Neptune square
Venus/Uranus trine
Venus/Asc. opposition
Mars/Mars opposition
Mars/Asc. sextile
etc., etc., etc.

Her Venus is right on top of his Dc.

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@shellshocker
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Mom: libra/scorpio moon
Dad: sagg/scorpio moon

I don't remember them ever being together, just married. Mom said she would never love another man, found god and never looked back. Dad said he would always love her but wanted to be with many women. He made good on it

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@PiscesLove7
12 Years

Mom: Libra
Dad: Aries

They are divorced, but were married 26 years. They had little to no relationship, but were very similar in a lot of negative ways.

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@camim20
12 YearsPisces

I'm a pisces.

Mom: Aries.
Dad: Leo.

Excellent for each other. No other woman could stand my father's terrible temper. They have their fights, as every couple does I guess, but they complement each other really well.

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@Nala13
14 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Two Fishes. Mom had about 6 or 7 water placements. Married until the day she died. 20 years. To say she was emotional wouldn't quite do it justice.

They weren't in love anymore but were really good friends. It was probably doomed from the get go. My dad invited all his exes to the wedding. My mother and the bridesmaids had on jeans underneath their dresses just in case anybody decided to do or say anything.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Mom = Sag
Dad = Aries

Seems like a pretty good pair. She lets his temper tantrums roll off and doesn't seem to notice. He likes taking care of her and looking after her. She ignores his bossiness and goes about her business. She caters to him, which he absolutely loves.

Married: 48 years.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

My grandparents were both Aries. Married 60 something years.

They had an awesome, sweet, doting marriage. They knew to either stay out of each other's way when one of them was pissed, or they knew how to calm each other down. Either way, it seemed to work.

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@belugablues
13 YearsPisces

mom = cap - virgo moon
dad = aquarius - cancer moon

they have been married 33 years. happy as ever now that they are both mostly retired 🙂

okay i haven't looked into their charts before and i am honestly blown away. for one, i had no idea my parents moon signs. should have looked into those before. i really thought my mom would have a water moon or something bc she really is empathetic with her children. i am blown away my dad has a water moon bc he seems like such a typical aqua to me. just cannot process emotions. doesn't get them at all. also really really REALLY creeped out that my mother and i share the same venus and mars placements. and my dad also had the same venus placement as me and my mom. strange huh? anywhoo??_.. fun thread, gonna go stalk the other answers now.

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@hydorah
13 Years10,000+ PostsPisces

both aquas
They'll remain together until death, but this has more to do with their generation than with their signs.
completely laidback and open minded, I'm thankful for them not indoctrinating me with religion or any ideology

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@kupochan
13 Years

Mom- Libra (sept 24,1955)
Dad- Scorpio (oct 29, 1951)

I've played with their charts before and it's mostly a positive outcome!

They've been married 39 years this year. They never really openly showed their love for each other, and they have heated conversations (not really arguments) maybe 1-2 times a year? lol My dad has plenty of patience for my mom's EXTREMELY indecisive and worrisome personality lol He's extremely laid back while mom is more of an "out there" person. They've set the bar high for me!

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@BlackRed83
13 YearsScorpio

Mom - Virgo
Father - Sagittarius

They were together for about 3-7 years. My father died within the 7th year of their relationship.
For the duration of their relationship they lived the phrase "Breakup to Makeup". I've always thought they were good together but great apart.

Stepfather - Cancer

No comment.

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Mom: Capricorn
Dad: Taurus
Marriage: 36 years & counting =)

She's def. the typical Capricorn, as explained by astrology & he's def. the typical Taurus. Of course they've bumped heads but for the most part, they glue really well together