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Planets conjunct Lilith - favorable for cheaters
Understanding Planets Conjunct Lilith and Infidelity
Conjunctions to Lilith can indicate hidden desires and secret behaviors in astrology. While not all individuals with these aspects cheat, they may experience tendencies toward secretive relationships or double lives. Astrological aspects provide insights but do not determine behavior definitively.
I have pluto conj lilith and yes - back in the days with my first boyfriend/first husband I cheated many times and when I went home I could live on like nothing happened. Of course our relationship was not perfect at all and it was horrible what I did! But seriously - I would go home and would live on like nothing happened, I would hug/cuddle my ex and tried living a happy couple life.
Did I feel bad back then? Sure, not enough though because I seperated my life like in the statement above, living somewhat a double life and I was „happy“ with that.
Pluto conjunct Lilith
Mars sextile Lilith
Venus square Lilith
Vesta trine Lilith
Moon quintile Lilith
Lilith sextile Ascendant
Posted by Arielle83
Pluto, moon, Saturn trine LilithMercury opposite Lilith
Not sure what that means
Well can you identify with the statement in my OP?
Posted by Arielle83
Pluto, moon, Saturn trine LilithMercury opposite Lilith
Not sure what that means
Well can you identify with the statement in my OP?
I have cheated, but I don't have the conjunction.
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The trine is a better aspect to have with lilith than the conjunction. I guess
I have
mercury sextile lilith
Sun sextile lilith
Asc square lilith
Chiron Opposition Lilith
“Minor aspects”
Jupiter Quincunx Lilith
Lilith Septile Juno
Idk what this means
But I will probably NEVER want a long term relationship
Never cheated but led men on in the past
Posted by Queenaries2
I havemercury sextile lilith
Sun sextile lilith
Asc square lilith
Chiron Opposition Lilith
“Minor aspects”
Jupiter Quincunx Lilith
Lilith Septile Juno
Idk what this means
But I will probably NEVER want a long term relationship
Never cheated but led men on in the past
I think of the sextile same as the trine, it‘s a more easy going aspect to have. Maybe that‘s why you had an affinity to lead men on in your past
Posted by Queenaries2
I havemercury sextile lilith
Sun sextile lilith
Asc square lilith
Chiron Opposition Lilith
“Minor aspects”
Jupiter Quincunx Lilith
Lilith Septile Juno
Idk what this means
But I will probably NEVER want a long term relationship
Never cheated but led men on in the past
I think of the sextile same as the trine, it‘s a more easy going aspect to have. Maybe that‘s why you had an affinity to lead men on in your past
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What about the Chiron/lilith and the asc/lilith aspects
I don't have it
Mercury CONJUNCT Lilith.
My mind always say cheat, cheat and cheat.
Posted by AerialView
Mercury CONJUNCT Lilith.My mind always say cheat, cheat and cheat.
For real? Because that would be the 2nd conjunction to lilith which isn‘t indifferent about cheating
Posted by wiseblood
I luckily have nothing conjunct Lilith. Lilith is the only Libra placement that I have thank fuck! LMAO
Yeh same here 😂 only libra placement beside some minor placements like poseidon and appollon
Mean or True Lilith?
My Mean Lilith is in Sag while my true Lilith is in Cap, both have aspects depending on which one it is
Posted by wiseblood
I luckily have nothing conjunct Lilith. Lilith is the only Libra placement that I have thank fuck! LMAOYeh same here 😂 only libra placement beside some minor placements like poseidon and appollon
You have Libra Lilith too?? Your Pluto must be Virgo or Scorpio close to Libra then eh?
I don't even know my minor placements. Lol.. So I guess I shouldn't say Lilith is my only one.
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Yes scorp pluto
Posted by Yodi
Sooo if your lilith is in conjunction to whatever means you cheat?Did I even write that right? 😕
This is so confusing but interesting..
No no no of course not 🌷
I was just curious if anyone who has conjunctions to lilith can identify with the statement of my OP
Thats all
Posted by EtherealTraveler
Mean or True Lilith?My Mean Lilith is in Sag while my true Lilith is in Cap, both have aspects depending on which one it is
True Lilith
I don‘t know about mean lilith, have to read about it. Do you know anything about it?
Trine sun
Conjunct Mars and Saturn
Sextile Uranus
Square Neptune
Very accurate for me.
As many times I read about pluto lilith contact was hard aspect, not so much about cheating but difficulties, also possible sexual abuse or abuse of some form childhood or younger age
Posted by AquaNextDoor
Pluto conj Lilith„She will lead a double life. She will have a secret love affair which she will enjoy to the full, while having a perfect relationship with her partner.“
None of the 12 signs are born cheaters - yes we got it - and no gem venus alone won‘t cheat either 😎 BUT...
Does anyone of you have aspects to Lilith and can identify with the statement above?
Ummm, u sure its not just your sun sign? U girls are known for things like this..
Posted by hippiecrite
Trine sunConjunct Mars and Saturn
Sextile Uranus
Square Neptune
Very accurate for me.
Makes sense, especially with mars! Wow... interesting
Posted by AquaNextDoor
Pluto conj Lilith„She will lead a double life. She will have a secret love affair which she will enjoy to the full, while having a perfect relationship with her partner.“
None of the 12 signs are born cheaters - yes we got it - and no gem venus alone won‘t cheat either 😎 BUT...
Does anyone of you have aspects to Lilith and can identify with the statement above?
Ummm, u sure its not just your sun sign? U girls are known for things like this..
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Haaa haaa 😎
Posted by AerialView
Mercury CONJUNCT Lilith.My mind always say cheat, cheat and cheat.
For real? Because that would be the 2nd conjunction to lilith which isn‘t indifferent about cheating
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Yeah real. Conjunct in Capricorn with just 1°degree orb.
My Lilith is also square Pluto at 3°degrees orb.
Sun venus and Chiron conjunct Lilith
Pluto opposite Lilith.
„She will lead a double life. She will have a secret love affair which she will enjoy to the full, while having a perfect relationship with her partner.“
Can't relate, nor do I see myself ever being in that position.
Sun/mars conjunct Lilith in Libra.
Posted by Ram416
Sun venus and Chiron conjunct LilithPluto opposite Lilith.
Well.. can you relate?
I have pluto conj lilith and yes - back in the days with my first boyfriend/first husband I cheated many times and when I went home I could live on like nothing happened. Of course our relationship was not perfect at all and it was horrible what I did! But seriously - I would go home and would live on like nothing happened, I would hug/cuddle my ex and tried living a happy couple life.
Did I feel bad back then? Sure, not enough though because I seperated my life like in the statement above, living somewhat a double life and I was „happy“ with that.
Pluto conjunct Lilith
Mars sextile Lilith
Venus square Lilith
Vesta trine Lilith
Moon quintile Lilith
Lilith sextile Ascendant
have you cheated on this guy too? Because that placement lol
I feel Sun conjuct Lilith would make someone very into their own ways and at ease with loneliness than cheating.
I mean Lilith never bowed to Adam let alone carry the facade with cheating. Then again there were no other men around.
Mean or True Lilith?
My Mean Lilith is in Sag while my true Lilith is in Cap, both have aspects depending on which one it is
What’s a true Lilith?
I have pluto conj lilith and yes - back in the days with my first boyfriend/first husband I cheated many times and when I went home I could live on like nothing happened. Of course our relationship was not perfect at all and it was horrible what I did! But seriously - I would go home and would live on like nothing happened, I would hug/cuddle my ex and tried living a happy couple life.
Did I feel bad back then? Sure, not enough though because I seperated my life like in the statement above, living somewhat a double life and I was „happy“ with that.
Pluto conjunct Lilith
Mars sextile Lilith
Venus square Lilith
Vesta trine Lilith
Moon quintile Lilith
Lilith sextile Ascendant
have you cheated on this guy too? Because that placement lol
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„This guy“? Who do you mean
I use astrotheme.com very easy to use and it shows your lilith, no need to change the settings
I use astrotheme.com very easy to use and it shows your lilith, no need to change the settings
Does it show lilith conjunctions? If so I'm heading straight on it.
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Yes, you can also tick thebox „lilith aspects“ to let you see it. But it shows lilith right away and if a planet sits right next to it within 2 orbs you have a conjunction (wirh astroids I only take within 2 orbs as a conjunction)
Just go to astrotheme and then go to „horoscope and ascendant“ to calculate your chart
I use astrotheme.com very easy to use and it shows your lilith, no need to change the settings
Does it show lilith conjunctions? If so I'm heading straight on it.
Yes, you can also tick thebox „lilith aspects“ to let you see it. But it shows lilith right away and if a planet sits right next to it within 2 orbs you have a conjunction (wirh astroids I only take within 2 orbs as a conjunction)
Just go to astrotheme and then go to „horoscope and ascendant“ to calculate your chart
It says I got north node sextile lilith in scorpio in the 2nd house. I see no conjunctions to it so I guess I dont have lilith conjuncting anything.
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You have lilith in the 8th house?
I use astrotheme.com very easy to use and it shows your lilith, no need to change the settings
Does it show lilith conjunctions? If so I'm heading straight on it.
Yes, you can also tick thebox „lilith aspects“ to let you see it. But it shows lilith right away and if a planet sits right next to it within 2 orbs you have a conjunction (wirh astroids I only take within 2 orbs as a conjunction)
Just go to astrotheme and then go to „horoscope and ascendant“ to calculate your chart
It says I got north node sextile lilith in scorpio in the 2nd house. I see no conjunctions to it so I guess I dont have lilith conjuncting anything.
You have lilith in the 8th house?
Heck no. I got lilith in the 2nd house. My lilith is in the sign of scorpio. Making it in the 2nd house in scorpio.
Oh gee I couldn't even imagine what would happen if I got lilith in the 8th house.
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So are/were you a serial cheater who can separate homelife/affaires? Does my initial statement apply to you?
I have pluto conj lilith and yes - back in the days with my first boyfriend/first husband I cheated many times and when I went home I could live on like nothing happened. Of course our relationship was not perfect at all and it was horrible what I did! But seriously - I would go home and would live on like nothing happened, I would hug/cuddle my ex and tried living a happy couple life.
Did I feel bad back then? Sure, not enough though because I seperated my life like in the statement above, living somewhat a double life and I was „happy“ with that.
Pluto conjunct Lilith
Mars sextile Lilith
Venus square Lilith
Vesta trine Lilith
Moon quintile Lilith
Lilith sextile Ascendant
have you cheated on this guy too? Because that placement lol
„This guy“? Who do you mean
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oh I was under the assumption you had another guy, so that's why asked have you with this guy too. Not being judgemental in any way but my personal opinion if it matters or not is I find women who cheat a little reckless and risky because the bad tends to out weights the good. It's almost unnatural. You have all the sex appeal you can literally walk into a bar throw a rock 1st guy u hit you can F*k him. But u can't do the same as finding a good man. So why waste time getting into a relationship when where as sex goes you have free range.
Risk includs a guys temper on both ends from both guys at each other or at you. Stds (sterilization) , unwanted kids, reputation etc.
I have pluto conj lilith and yes - back in the days with my first boyfriend/first husband I cheated many times and when I went home I could live on like nothing happened. Of course our relationship was not perfect at all and it was horrible what I did! But seriously - I would go home and would live on like nothing happened, I would hug/cuddle my ex and tried living a happy couple life.
Did I feel bad back then? Sure, not enough though because I seperated my life like in the statement above, living somewhat a double life and I was „happy“ with that.
Pluto conjunct Lilith
Mars sextile Lilith
Venus square Lilith
Vesta trine Lilith
Moon quintile Lilith
Lilith sextile Ascendant
have you cheated on this guy too? Because that placement lol
„This guy“? Who do you mean
oh I was under the assumption you had another guy, so that's why asked have you with this guy too. Not being judgemental in any way but my personal opinion if it matters or not is I find women who cheat a little reckless and risky because the bad tends to out weights the good. It's almost unnatural. You have all the sex appeal you can literally walk into a bar throw a rock 1st guy u hit you can F*k him. But u can't do the same as finding a good man. So why waste time getting into a relationship when where as sex goes you have free range.
Risk includs a guys temper on both ends from both guys at each other or at you. Stds (sterilization) , unwanted kids, reputation etc.
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I‘m not quite sure why you think I have a difficult time finding a good man, I‘m happily married with a cap and we have a son. Wasn‘t hard to date and find quality.
I cheated a lot back when I was younger with my first husband. Too young and dumb 🤷🏻♀️
Edit: or I should say, dating and finding quality is hard work because it requires selfimprovement. To silence the superficial urge to select only with the eyes and the desperate need to be with „someone“. But once you‘ve mastered it, it will become easier to date and actually find quality. That doesn‘t have anything to do if one was a cheater or not or if one has lots of sex appeal.
Btw no woman should give two cents about reputation. Men sleep around while dating as well and also while being in a relationship. In my opinion and experience someone who cheats once will do so again - on the same person. But not necessary in the next relationship. There are some men who know I was a cheating bitch back in the days, clearly the ones I slept with. Do they think less of me? For sure. But I stand above that because I know for myself how much I‘ve grown and what kind of quality woman with dignity I am now. So that‘s all that matters. 🌷
Pluto conj Lilith
„She will lead a double life. She will have a secret love affair which she will enjoy to the full, while having a perfect relationship with her partner.“
None of the 12 signs are born cheaters - yes we got it - and no gem venus alone won‘t cheat either 😎 BUT...
Does anyone of you have aspects to Lilith and can identify with the statement above?
Lilith conjunct sun, sextile mars, sextile venus, opposite
moon. If i willingly entered a relationship, i don't think I'd ever cheat.
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Pluto conj Lilith
„She will lead a double life. She will have a secret love affair which she will enjoy to the full, while having a perfect relationship with her partner.“
None of the 12 signs are born cheaters - yes we got it - and no gem venus alone won‘t cheat either 😎 BUT...
Does anyone of you have aspects to Lilith and can identify with the statement above?