Back again lol. I know y’all are tired of hearing about this boy. So basically he’s been breaking up with me, and then an hour later coming back saying he didn’t mean it. Idk what to do. He changes his mind constantly! We fight over petty things, and now he’s changed. He doesn’t want to go out anymore he’s cold with me most of the time. But when I leave him alone, I’m the bad guy! If I ignore his calls or block him I’m giving up on us. He’s saying things one minute and taking it back the next. He’s DRAINING ME. He was acting so weird this morning and finally he said he doesn’t want a relationship anymore. Out of the blue. So cold.... I feel like shit. I’ve been doing everything I’m supposed to be doing. I know I’m going to miss him but I blocked him. Did I do the right thing? We promised each we wouldn’t give up and he’s the first guy I felt really loved me but he switched up on me and I feel like I might be giving up to soon. Right now I feel fine but I know I’ll miss him. He’s a Gemini & Taurus Venus.
Why won’t this Gemini man leave me alone??

All you need to do is screen shot that text of his "I don't want a relationship anymore" and when he texts or calls you again just reply by sending him that screen shot.
If he replies back, send him the screen shot.
Again, and again.
He will eventually get the message.
If he replies back, send him the screen shot.
Again, and again.
He will eventually get the message.
He is done with you... move on
This is coming from a Gemini Ascendant and Mars
This is coming from a Gemini Ascendant and Mars
Posted by nanobot
You've been posting about this guy for months, and I have been telling you that he has lost interest in you and lost interest in continuing your relationship, but you do not want to hear it and only reply to the comments that validate you. Only to come back and post the same ole same ole a week later. His hot and cold behavior should speak volumes and be an indicator for you to move on. As far as what you have posted, he nor you have made the necessary changes that needed to happen for this relationship to move forward.
MOVE ON
As I’m writing this he’s blowing up my phone. On all different numbers because I blocked him on both phones. I love him, it’s hard. I am moving on. I just don’t understand why he’s doing this. Is it just to play games with my head?
I just want to know WHY. He’s currently blowing me up on different numbers right now. Why does he do this? Is it because he doesn’t know what he wants? Am I being to nice? This happened in my last relationship too. He was hot and cold. What is it that I’m doing wrong. And why do men act like this if they know you’re not the one?

Posted by purplehearts94
I just want to know WHY. He’s currently blowing me up on different numbers right now. Why does he do this? Is it because he doesn’t know what he wants? Am I being to nice? This happened in my last relationship too. He was hot and cold. What is it that I’m doing wrong. And why do men act like this if they know you’re not the one?
They act this way because you are continuing to take his calls, texts etc.
You did in the past, so he feels you will now.
It has ZERO to do with who you are. This is how they treat any and every woman.

And yes, you are being too nice.
Set clear boundaries and stick to them.
I don’t care how good looking he is or how fire the Dick is. If he’s treating you as an option, if he’s hot and cold, if he can’t give you what you want (relationship) than he isn’t the one for you 🤷♀️
Set clear boundaries and stick to them.
I don’t care how good looking he is or how fire the Dick is. If he’s treating you as an option, if he’s hot and cold, if he can’t give you what you want (relationship) than he isn’t the one for you 🤷♀️

Posted by purplehearts94
I just want to know WHY. He’s currently blowing me up on different numbers right now. Why does he do this? Is it because he doesn’t know what he wants? Am I being to nice? This happened in my last relationship too. He was hot and cold. What is it that I’m doing wrong. And why do men act like this if they know you’re not the one?
Cause we as women reward bad behavior.
So you said this happened in a prior relationship.
Break the cycle

Posted by purplehearts94
I just want to know WHY. He’s currently blowing me up on different numbers right now. Why does he do this? Is it because he doesn’t know what he wants? Am I being to nice? This happened in my last relationship too. He was hot and cold. What is it that I’m doing wrong. And why do men act like this if they know you’re not the one?
He contact you because he lacks empathy for your opinion and feelings. He knows the combination for an easy lay so why stop.
Until the combination is changed by you Pavlov's law will continue to occur.
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