Am I being friend zoned by Libra?

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I’ve been friends with this libra girl for almost a year, we used to work together too. She left in October and I left at the start of this month for a new job. In the past I asked her out a few times, and even had a surprise gift for her birthday, which she would end up flaking out on in mine and mutual friend’s opinion. Because she had flaked out on me 3 times, I went cold on her. Didn’t speak to her and pretty much ignored her for a month. Looking back it was wrong and I should have talked to her about it. But at least she told our mutual friend that what she was doing to me was wrong too. So after, we talked and apologized before she went to her new job. When I got my new job and she congratulated me, I jokingly said we should celebrate to our new jobs at ______. She said she agreed completely. Thinking that she was just going to flake out me again, I didn’t take it seriously this time. However before we went out the first time, she asked me to be her “plus one” at her work Christmas party. I was shocked that she asked, but I told her I would be honored.

So when we went out the first time. It was cold outside even though there were heaters. It was a very short....date! is want I what to say because it was the first time we had been alone not just with friends. You don’t take someone to the place we went to as friends. The night ended with a nice big hug, I wasn’t going to kiss her so soon.

During this time whole time by the way, she had been texting me a lot more than she had in the past. And her texts were more lovey dovey/flirty. So her work party, I had to dress up and wear a suit. I was nervous, and didn’t talk much during the night because I wanted to make sure I didn’t embarrass her in front of her co-workers and leave a good impression. We did have a few drinks. Unlike the other night, she was very reserved, not touchy. She even introduced me to her co-workers as her “friend”. I was disappointed but kept my cool and acted normal. I tried asking her to dance, she didn’t want to. I asked her let’s take a picture, she agreed to. But other than that, it didn’t feel like a very romantic night. At the end, I gave her the look that I wanted to kiss her, but instead I got an awkward very forward-leaning half hug like she was trying to hug my stomach and not come up higher. There was no one around us too. I asked her to text me when she got home, she never did. And hasn’t said anything to me since then. So what is everyone’s opinion here. What should I do? I haven’t said anything to her and feel like I should. She’s been active on social media and it’s upsetting that she hasn’t said anything to me. A lot of our mutual friends believe she is using me as a backup and friend zoning me. I sadly believe that’s true.
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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She told me it was cocktail attire. Wear a jacket, button up, tie. She seemed to be concerned about what I was wearing. A lot of texts went back and forth about it. I told her not to worry, I have everything I need.

I couldn’t agree more that she’s being disrespectful. And I thought I made it clear to her last time that I wouldn’t put up with it. Guess not
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who knows what is going on in her head but you might be on to why she didn't have a date for the party

she sounds a bit like my ex-gf of many years - it was all about her and when she went cold, I was just that - out in the cold. Not a big deal of course to her because when she needed something she could call me and I was always there for her. I overlooked her stuff for a very long time but no more - when I finally went cold it was forever
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You live in ilusions. Not once she showed romantic interest based on what you wrote. All her actions speak loud and clear no no no no.


She sends a lot of kissing emojis in texts. AND just now she sent a snapchat.......ignoring it
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You two are playing immature games, that’s like...light years from love.

And just that you will know... she is winning, because you are emotionally invested and she is not.

Stop feeling and beheaving like a girl, clear your head of romantic ilusions, don’t cling, learn something about yourself from this.
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I don't get the question. You said you've already been friend zoned for a full year but you now think after just going to some Christmas party that she should be acting like she's married to you or in a relationship?

And everybody knows men think everything is flirting. All you have to do is breath their way, talk to them, accidentally sneezing on them, give them eye contact when you're giving them your change at the check out, lame kiss emojis on the phone that u send your grandma, anything and everything and the guy thinks you want them or their D. Or hoping you do. Just ask her.

If we like you, trust me you'll know it. You won't have to come in here and ask. But if you like her and you don't tell her. We can't help ya.

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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
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who knows what is going on in her head but you might be on to why she didn't have a date for the party

she sounds a bit like my ex-gf of many years - it was all about her and when she went cold, I was just that - out in the cold. Not a big deal of course to her because when she needed something she could call me and I was always there for her. I overlooked her stuff for a very long time but no more - when I finally went cold it was forever
Yea the only difference is that was your gf. Not just somebody you were wishing that was.

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who knows what is going on in her head but you might be on to why she didn't have a date for the party

she sounds a bit like my ex-gf of many years - it was all about her and when she went cold, I was just that - out in the cold. Not a big deal of course to her because when she needed something she could call me and I was always there for her. I overlooked her stuff for a very long time but no more - when I finally went cold it was forever
Yea the only difference is that was your gf. Not just somebody you were wishing that was.

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ha - I wish now it was someone else and that we were still friends
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who knows what is going on in her head but you might be on to why she didn't have a date for the party

she sounds a bit like my ex-gf of many years - it was all about her and when she went cold, I was just that - out in the cold. Not a big deal of course to her because when she needed something she could call me and I was always there for her. I overlooked her stuff for a very long time but no more - when I finally went cold it was forever
Yea the only difference is that was your gf. Not just somebody you were wishing that was.

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Hey - I just re-read what you said and she was my bff - I'm female and we were friends since childhood - I said what I said because the cold behavior reminded me of her and I've also wondered if it is a Libra trait or something else. I mean she could be very cold to my face. I don't know what her other placements were.
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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
Hes obessed stalker probably lol he posted same message on Libra forum
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Ikr I thought I was answering that one I don't even know how I got on this one (where's the crazy emoji... I need one of those badboys right now)

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who knows what is going on in her head but you might be on to why she didn't have a date for the party

she sounds a bit like my ex-gf of many years - it was all about her and when she went cold, I was just that - out in the cold. Not a big deal of course to her because when she needed something she could call me and I was always there for her. I overlooked her stuff for a very long time but no more - when I finally went cold it was forever
Yea the only difference is that was your gf. Not just somebody you were wishing that was.


Hey - I just re-read what you said and she was my bff - I'm female and we were friends since childhood - I said what I said because the cold behavior reminded me of her and I've also wondered if it is a Libra trait or something else. I mean she could be very cold to my face. I don't know what her other placements were.
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It says "she sounds a bit like my ex-gf" of many years.

But yea we can be cold and mean as hell. Especially if I don't like you or you're on my shitlist. I don't know how to be fake. If I don't like you you'll know it. You'll either think I'm cool as hell or evil or mean as ffphuck if I don't like you. Maybe it's got something with those scales i dk. But yea we can be cold. I have a thing for bulls and scorps though. Never met a bull or scorp I didn't like. I get crazy as hell but you bulls are actually the only ones who know how to calm me and tone that shit down lol. Strong chicas I like that.
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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
Hes obessed stalker probably lol he posted same message on Libra forum




Ikr I thought I was answering that one I don't even know how I got on this one (where's the crazy emoji... I need one of those badboys right now)


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Lol oh yea right... that might not be crazy enough though. Need a crazier one than that

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who knows what is going on in her head but you might be on to why she didn't have a date for the party

she sounds a bit like my ex-gf of many years - it was all about her and when she went cold, I was just that - out in the cold. Not a big deal of course to her because when she needed something she could call me and I was always there for her. I overlooked her stuff for a very long time but no more - when I finally went cold it was forever
Yea the only difference is that was your gf. Not just somebody you were wishing that was.


Hey - I just re-read what you said and she was my bff - I'm female and we were friends since childhood - I said what I said because the cold behavior reminded me of her and I've also wondered if it is a Libra trait or something else. I mean she could be very cold to my face. I don't know what her other placements were.
It says "she sounds a bit like my ex-gf" of many years.

But yea we can be cold and mean as hell. Especially if I don't like you or you're on my shitlist. I don't know how to be fake. If I don't like you you'll know it. You'll either think I'm cool as hell or evil or mean as ffphuck if I don't like you. Maybe it's got something with those scales i dk. But yea we can be cold. I have a thing for bulls and scorps though. Never met a bull or scorp I didn't like. I get crazy as hell but you bulls are actually the only ones who know how to calm me and tone that shit down lol. Strong chicas I like that.

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yeah so she was my ex-gf - depends on the interpretation

we were friends for 40 years - she would get cold when there was something going on that she didn't like, something that was said that she didn't like, something that wasn't going her way which she didn't like - she wasn't very giving and flexible when it came to being with others - and that was ok for a very long time but as I got older, that got old because I was growing exponentially - I tried to talk to her but she was so far in denial it wasn't even funny - all I wanted and stated was for us to grow our friendship for the better but she wasn't about looking at what exactly was happening with both of us so that we could change

shyt like that just fkn'g amazes me yet - to have a friendship for that long and then act like it don't mean a dam thing to you





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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
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One day being lovey dovey and another "making faces" is pretty disrespectful and straight childish. If you don't like his company or if somethings wrong with him YOU SHOULD NOT INVITE HIM ON A PRIVATE PARTY. And finally if you don't like him at all always speak your god damn mind, be clear and loud but as we all know libras suck balls with directness. And I really dislike people who make me GUESS what's on their mind. Get it as you wish but nobody wants to deal with that
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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
One day being lovey dovey and another "making faces" is pretty disrespectful and straight childish. If you don't like his company or if somethings wrong with him YOU SHOULD NOT INVITE HIM ON A PRIVATE PARTY. And finally if you don't like him at all always speak your god damn mind, be clear and loud but as we all know libras suck balls with directness. And I really dislike people who make me GUESS what's on their mind. Get it as you wish but nobody wants to deal with that
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who knows what is going on in her head but you might be on to why she didn't have a date for the party

she sounds a bit like my ex-gf of many years - it was all about her and when she went cold, I was just that - out in the cold. Not a big deal of course to her because when she needed something she could call me and I was always there for her. I overlooked her stuff for a very long time but no more - when I finally went cold it was forever
Yea the only difference is that was your gf. Not just somebody you were wishing that was.


Hey - I just re-read what you said and she was my bff - I'm female and we were friends since childhood - I said what I said because the cold behavior reminded me of her and I've also wondered if it is a Libra trait or something else. I mean she could be very cold to my face. I don't know what her other placements were.
It says "she sounds a bit like my ex-gf" of many years.

But yea we can be cold and mean as hell. Especially if I don't like you or you're on my shitlist. I don't know how to be fake. If I don't like you you'll know it. You'll either think I'm cool as hell or evil or mean as ffphuck if I don't like you. Maybe it's got something with those scales i dk. But yea we can be cold. I have a thing for bulls and scorps though. Never met a bull or scorp I didn't like. I get crazy as hell but you bulls are actually the only ones who know how to calm me and tone that shit down lol. Strong chicas I like that.


yeah so she was my ex-gf - depends on the interpretation

we were friends for 40 years - she would get cold when there was something going on that she didn't like, something that was said that she didn't like, something that wasn't going her way which she didn't like - she wasn't very giving and flexible when it came to being with others - and that was ok for a very long time but as I got older, that got old because I was growing exponentially - I tried to talk to her but she was so far in denial it wasn't even funny - all I wanted and stated was for us to grow our friendship for the better but she wasn't about looking at what exactly was happening with both of us so that we could change

shyt like that just fkn'g amazes me yet - to have a friendship for that long and then act like it don't mean a dam thing to you







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Yea I don't treat friends or family like that. But if you're not friends or family... and on my bad side... I'm not into talking it out. I have a quick temper and I just re act. Talkings not gonna fix it. I'm not into talking shit and going back and forth about nothing with someone I don't like. No point in it.

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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
One day being lovey dovey and another "making faces" is pretty disrespectful and straight childish. If you don't like his company or if somethings wrong with him YOU SHOULD NOT INVITE HIM ON A PRIVATE PARTY. And finally if you don't like him at all always speak your god damn mind, be clear and loud but as we all know libras suck balls with directness. And I really dislike people who make me GUESS what's on their mind. Get it as you wish but nobody wants to deal with that
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What's lovey dovey to you might not be lovey dovey to her. Even though we're only getting one side of the story nothing he said was lovey dovey. Or sounded like she owed him a relationship or needs to be exclusive. Asking him to go with her to a private business party is not romantic. All of it sounds friendly... everything he said. And everybody under this is telling him that. Going by the story... the only one who's making someone guess what's on his mind is him. And him not saying shit to her. Now if he had said after being nothing but friends for a whole year... that she knew he liked her more than that... because he told her... or they had some sexual romantic thing going on or they were exclusive then that's a different story. She can't read his mind. Even he said he was too scared to even kiss her. The only one whos not being direct is him. Especially being nothing but friends for a whole year. I've got a crapload of platonic friends who send kissy emojis in their text. But I don't think they're all inlove with me afterwards and trying to get married just because you sent me some emojis and invited me to a business party. Especially if you never told me you like me more than a friend. She can love him as a friend and still send emojis. My friends do that all of the time. Like someone else said quit playing games. Just tell her you like her, she'll let you know if she feels the same. That simple. Cancer guys are known for being shy though. That's the real problem. YOU need to be more direct.

It's got nothing to do with BEING friend zoned. She doesn't know you want out.
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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
One day being lovey dovey and another "making faces" is pretty disrespectful and straight childish. If you don't like his company or if somethings wrong with him YOU SHOULD NOT INVITE HIM ON A PRIVATE PARTY. And finally if you don't like him at all always speak your god damn mind, be clear and loud but as we all know libras suck balls with directness. And I really dislike people who make me GUESS what's on their mind. Get it as you wish but nobody wants to deal with that


What's lovey dovey to you might not be lovey dovey to her. Even though we're only getting one side of the story nothing he said was lovey dovey. Or sounded like she owed him a relationship or needs to be exclusive. Asking him to go with her to a private business party is not romantic. All of it sounds friendly... everything he said. And everybody under this is telling him that. Going by the story... the only one who's making someone guess what's on his mind is him. And him not saying shit to her. Now if he had said after being nothing but friends for a whole year... that she knew he liked her more than that... because he told her... or they had some sexual romantic thing going on or they were exclusive then that's a different story. She can't read his mind. Even he said he was too scared to even kiss her. The only one whos not being direct is him. Especially being nothing but friends for a whole year. I've got a crapload of platonic friends who send kissy emojis in their text. But I don't think they're all inlove with me afterwards and trying to get married just because you sent me some emojis and invited me to a business party. Especially if you never told me you like me more than a friend. She can love him as a friend and still send emojis. My friends do that all of the time. Like someone else said quit playing games. Just tell her you like her, she'll let you know if she feels the same. That simple. Cancer guys are known for being shy though. That's the real problem. YOU need to be more direct.

It's got nothing to do with BEING friend zoned. She's doesn't know you want out.

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It's too late here and I'm falling asleep, can't read all of that but I'll be answering your first sentence dear lady. First of all lets start with writing text messages and I won't discuss about anything else right now until tomorrow cause I'm gonna prepare a long ass one comment for you lmao. So when it comes to texting you might not be aware but there are certain rules you need to follow unless you want to appear completely stupid/retarded. Such as: People don't throw kissing faces and luvs here and there, left and right, literally to everyone,if you don't mean/feel it. So that's misleading and reads something lot more than casual girl/boy friendship. You or anyone else has to follow certain rules accepted and recognized by society.As we all know emojis are made to speak ones mind when they don't feel to type anything, so beware please and if you still make the same mistake be thankful I informed you lol.. Now I'm gonna tell you goodnight and I'll be back tomorrow soonest I get a chance.
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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
One day being lovey dovey and another "making faces" is pretty disrespectful and straight childish. If you don't like his company or if somethings wrong with him YOU SHOULD NOT INVITE HIM ON A PRIVATE PARTY. And finally if you don't like him at all always speak your god damn mind, be clear and loud but as we all know libras suck balls with directness. And I really dislike people who make me GUESS what's on their mind. Get it as you wish but nobody wants to deal with that


What's lovey dovey to you might not be lovey dovey to her. Even though we're only getting one side of the story nothing he said was lovey dovey. Or sounded like she owed him a relationship or needs to be exclusive. Asking him to go with her to a private business party is not romantic. All of it sounds friendly... everything he said. And everybody under this is telling him that. Going by the story... the only one who's making someone guess what's on his mind is him. And him not saying shit to her. Now if he had said after being nothing but friends for a whole year... that she knew he liked her more than that... because he told her... or they had some sexual romantic thing going on or they were exclusive then that's a different story. She can't read his mind. Even he said he was too scared to even kiss her. The only one whos not being direct is him. Especially being nothing but friends for a whole year. I've got a crapload of platonic friends who send kissy emojis in their text. But I don't think they're all inlove with me afterwards and trying to get married just because you sent me some emojis and invited me to a business party. Especially if you never told me you like me more than a friend. She can love him as a friend and still send emojis. My friends do that all of the time. Like someone else said quit playing games. Just tell her you like her, she'll let you know if she feels the same. That simple. Cancer guys are known for being shy though. That's the real problem. YOU need to be more direct.

It's got nothing to do with BEING friend zoned. She's doesn't know you want out.


It's too late here and I'm falling asleep, can't read all of that but I'll be answering your first sentence dear lady. First of all lets start with writing text messages and I won't discuss about anything else right now until tomorrow cause I'm gonna prepare a long ass one comment for you lmao. So when it comes to texting you might not be aware but there are certain rules you need to follow unless you want to appear completely stupid/retarded. Such as: People don't throw kissing faces and luvs here and there, left and right, literally to everyone,if you don't mean/feel it. So that's misleading and reads something lot more than casual girl/boy friendship. You or anyone else has to follow certain rules accepted and recognized by society.As we all know emojis are made to speak ones mind when they don't feel to type anything, so beware please and if you still make the same mistake be thankful I informed you lol.. Now I'm gonna tell you goodnight and I'll be back tomorrow soonest I get a chance.
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Not that serious. Read it again. My friends are throwing the emojis... not me. Whether you school them or not about it I still wouldn't take it like he or you would. Said what I needed to say. You can come back 10 times and it won't change nothing.

That's the difference between air and water ppl. You gotta be a lot deeper than emojis. Just be upfront and say it. Not that hard.
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I’ll say this. The fact that she told our mutual friends couple months ago that she couldn’t date me because she was in the middle of dating someone else (I didn’t know at the time) and that we were Co-workers says to me she did “know” that I liked her more than a friend. We both left our past job, we’re in different places now. And she’s single now. I believe now she invited me to the party because she had no other choice. She didn’t want to go alone. It would explain why she went out with me a few days before. If she didn’t show, she probably would have thought that I wouldn’t show to her party. It doesn’t matter now, I asked her to text me when she got home safely the other night, she didn’t. She was messaging me everyday for 25 straight days and snapchat. Now she’s suddenly stopped, most likely because she doesn’t need me anymore.
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I’ll say this. The fact that she told our mutual friends couple months ago that she couldn’t date me because she was in the middle of dating someone else (I didn’t know at the time) and that we were Co-workers says to me she did “know” that I liked her more than a friend. We both left our past job, we’re in different places now. And she’s single now. I believe now she invited me to the party because she had no other choice. She didn’t want to go alone. It would explain why she went out with me a few days before. If she didn’t show, she probably would have thought that I wouldn’t show to her party. It doesn’t matter now, I asked her to text me when she got home safely the other night, she didn’t. She was messaging me everyday for 25 straight days and snapchat. Now she’s suddenly stopped, most likely because she doesn’t need me anymore.
Now you’r making sense 👍

Us cancers can be used by others often, before we evolve and mature, because we are willing to... well just be there. But in the end, it’s our own fault. Our own selfish wishes, needs and ilusions about what can we gain for ourselves drive us to be like that.
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I’ll say this. The fact that she told our mutual friends couple months ago that she couldn’t date me because she was in the middle of dating someone else (I didn’t know at the time) and that we were Co-workers says to me she did “know” that I liked her more than a friend. We both left our past job, we’re in different places now. And she’s single now. I believe now she invited me to the party because she had no other choice. She didn’t want to go alone. It would explain why she went out with me a few days before. If she didn’t show, she probably would have thought that I wouldn’t show to her party. It doesn’t matter now, I asked her to text me when she got home safely the other night, she didn’t. She was messaging me everyday for 25 straight days and snapchat. Now she’s suddenly stopped, most likely because she doesn’t need me anymore.
Dude you're delusional and obsessed, the girl already told you she doesn't want to date you. But you won't let it go and are reading too much into these emojis and any friendly attention she gives you. Typical behavior of a clingy water sign who's borderline obsessed. Move on and find another water sign so ya'll can cling to each other to the death. One thing I find with Libra women is if they're serious about you, they're all about you and extremely loyal. This Libra sounds like a friend and nothing more.

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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
One day being lovey dovey and another "making faces" is pretty disrespectful and straight childish. If you don't like his company or if somethings wrong with him YOU SHOULD NOT INVITE HIM ON A PRIVATE PARTY. And finally if you don't like him at all always speak your god damn mind, be clear and loud but as we all know libras suck balls with directness. And I really dislike people who make me GUESS what's on their mind. Get it as you wish but nobody wants to deal with that


What's lovey dovey to you might not be lovey dovey to her. Even though we're only getting one side of the story nothing he said was lovey dovey. Or sounded like she owed him a relationship or needs to be exclusive. Asking him to go with her to a private business party is not romantic. All of it sounds friendly... everything he said. And everybody under this is telling him that. Going by the story... the only one who's making someone guess what's on his mind is him. And him not saying shit to her. Now if he had said after being nothing but friends for a whole year... that she knew he liked her more than that... because he told her... or they had some sexual romantic thing going on or they were exclusive then that's a different story. She can't read his mind. Even he said he was too scared to even kiss her. The only one whos not being direct is him. Especially being nothing but friends for a whole year. I've got a crapload of platonic friends who send kissy emojis in their text. But I don't think they're all inlove with me afterwards and trying to get married just because you sent me some emojis and invited me to a business party. Especially if you never told me you like me more than a friend. She can love him as a friend and still send emojis. My friends do that all of the time. Like someone else said quit playing games. Just tell her you like her, she'll let you know if she feels the same. That simple. Cancer guys are known for being shy though. That's the real problem. YOU need to be more direct.

It's got nothing to do with BEING friend zoned. She's doesn't know you want out.


It's too late here and I'm falling asleep, can't read all of that but I'll be answering your first sentence dear lady. First of all lets start with writing text messages and I won't discuss about anything else right now until tomorrow cause I'm gonna prepare a long ass one comment for you lmao. So when it comes to texting you might not be aware but there are certain rules you need to follow unless you want to appear completely stupid/retarded. Such as: People don't throw kissing faces and luvs here and there, left and right, literally to everyone,if you don't mean/feel it. So that's misleading and reads something lot more than casual girl/boy friendship. You or anyone else has to follow certain rules accepted and recognized by society.As we all know emojis are made to speak ones mind when they don't feel to type anything, so beware please and if you still make the same mistake be thankful I informed you lol.. Now I'm gonna tell you goodnight and I'll be back tomorrow soonest I get a chance.
Not that serious. Read it again. My friends are throwing the emojis... not me. Whether you school them or not about it I still wouldn't take it like he or you would. Said what I needed to say. You can come back 10 times and it won't change nothing.

That's the difference between air and water ppl. You gotta be a lot deeper than emojis. Just be upfront and say it. Not that hard.
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Don't pay the Pisces any attention they just like to talk out of their ass and troll you. They're attention seekers and like to play victim on here. I noticed the main trolls on here are all Pisces females. They stay in the Scorpio section trolling Scorpios for days on end also. Apparently they have no life, probably stay at home wives or moms. I'll bang a water sign but I would never date another one again. Theyre annoying and clingy. Everybody has already told these clingy water signs that there's nothing going on and he's delusional. Trying to knock any common sense into any of these Pisces is just feeding the troll.

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I’ll say this. The fact that she told our mutual friends couple months ago that she couldn’t date me because she was in the middle of dating someone else (I didn’t know at the time) and that we were Co-workers says to me she did “know” that I liked her more than a friend. We both left our past job, we’re in different places now. And she’s single now. I believe now she invited me to the party because she had no other choice. She didn’t want to go alone. It would explain why she went out with me a few days before. If she didn’t show, she probably would have thought that I wouldn’t show to her party. It doesn’t matter now, I asked her to text me when she got home safely the other night, she didn’t. She was messaging me everyday for 25 straight days and snapchat. Now she’s suddenly stopped, most likely because she doesn’t need me anymore.
Now you’r making sense 👍

Us cancers can be used by others often, before we evolve and mature, because we are willing to... well just be there. But in the end, it’s our own fault. Our own selfish wishes, needs and ilusions about what can we gain for ourselves drive us to be like that.
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You sound like a smart Cancer. Atleast you're not delusional

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Missing the point. And maybe I need to be more clear on last statement. She told our mutual friends she would date me if we weren’t co-workers and if she wasn’t dating someone else. She’s not now. You don’t go out with me few nights before, sit next together and lean on my shoulder and do all this other stuff that to me, friends don’t do! You don’t in the past as Co-workers always ask about my love life. That’s strange!

No need to be rash with “delusional” comment. I can’t remember everything and type everything all at once. So I’m sorry I’m giving you guys bits and pieces here and there.

I’m done with this one and probably Libras for good! This one seems very selfish. Another Libra years ago seemed to be like this and i should have caught it. They just want something from you and that’s it!
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Missing the point. And maybe I need to be more clear on last statement. She told our mutual friends she would date me if we weren’t co-workers and if she wasn’t dating someone else. She’s not now. You don’t go out with me few nights before, sit next together and lean on my shoulder and do all this other stuff that to me, friends don’t do! You don’t in the past as Co-workers always ask about my love life. That’s strange!

No need to be rash with “delusional” comment. I can’t remember everything and type everything all at once. So I’m sorry I’m giving you guys bits and pieces here and there.

I’m done with this one and probably Libras for good! This one seems very selfish. Another Libra years ago seemed to be like this and i should have caught it. They just want something from you and that’s it!
All I know is if they really like you and serious about you, it aint like that. You've got too many twist and turns in your story. And why are ya'll talking thru your friends instead of each other if it's as serious as you're now making it out to be?. You're both playing games. Plus I dont think Libra females and Cancers should be hooking up anyway. Libras and Scorpios are too much woman for you bro. Just my opinion. Tbh I wish I had my Libra back because I'm the one who fucked up. I haven't had a girl who lived up to her yet. She was loyal, beautiful inside and out, and selfless. Cancers cry the same song. You don't see Leo or Scorpio bros on here crying about their Libras like this. I don't think Cancers have what it takes. That's all. Unless she has some other planets maybe.
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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
One day being lovey dovey and another "making faces" is pretty disrespectful and straight childish. If you don't like his company or if somethings wrong with him YOU SHOULD NOT INVITE HIM ON A PRIVATE PARTY. And finally if you don't like him at all always speak your god damn mind, be clear and loud but as we all know libras suck balls with directness. And I really dislike people who make me GUESS what's on their mind. Get it as you wish but nobody wants to deal with that


What's lovey dovey to you might not be lovey dovey to her. Even though we're only getting one side of the story nothing he said was lovey dovey. Or sounded like she owed him a relationship or needs to be exclusive. Asking him to go with her to a private business party is not romantic. All of it sounds friendly... everything he said. And everybody under this is telling him that. Going by the story... the only one who's making someone guess what's on his mind is him. And him not saying shit to her. Now if he had said after being nothing but friends for a whole year... that she knew he liked her more than that... because he told her... or they had some sexual romantic thing going on or they were exclusive then that's a different story. She can't read his mind. Even he said he was too scared to even kiss her. The only one whos not being direct is him. Especially being nothing but friends for a whole year. I've got a crapload of platonic friends who send kissy emojis in their text. But I don't think they're all inlove with me afterwards and trying to get married just because you sent me some emojis and invited me to a business party. Especially if you never told me you like me more than a friend. She can love him as a friend and still send emojis. My friends do that all of the time. Like someone else said quit playing games. Just tell her you like her, she'll let you know if she feels the same. That simple. Cancer guys are known for being shy though. That's the real problem. YOU need to be more direct.

It's got nothing to do with BEING friend zoned. She's doesn't know you want out.


It's too late here and I'm falling asleep, can't read all of that but I'll be answering your first sentence dear lady. First of all lets start with writing text messages and I won't discuss about anything else right now until tomorrow cause I'm gonna prepare a long ass one comment for you lmao. So when it comes to texting you might not be aware but there are certain rules you need to follow unless you want to appear completely stupid/retarded. Such as: People don't throw kissing faces and luvs here and there, left and right, literally to everyone,if you don't mean/feel it. So that's misleading and reads something lot more than casual girl/boy friendship. You or anyone else has to follow certain rules accepted and recognized by society.As we all know emojis are made to speak ones mind when they don't feel to type anything, so beware please and if you still make the same mistake be thankful I informed you lol.. Now I'm gonna tell you goodnight and I'll be back tomorrow soonest I get a chance.
Not that serious. Read it again. My friends are throwing the emojis... not me. Whether you school them or not about it I still wouldn't take it like he or you would. Said what I needed to say. You can come back 10 times and it won't change nothing.

That's the difference between air and water ppl. You gotta be a lot deeper than emojis. Just be upfront and say it. Not that hard.
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Oh gosh the response clearly is so cheaply written, I don't care what you or your friends do or don't do, not my business and not interested, but I want to help him and the main difference between air and water is that we put ourselves in other peoples shoes and actually care for them whilst air dominant never gives a fuck. And that's where I come from, haven't said anything different than what you have stated. She doesn't care and she will never care, she doesn't give a second thought of what she's typing or maybe even what comes from her mouth, she doesn't see him as a romantic partner and he will never be valuable for her. That is it. He's emotional and deep person, while she can't go beyond shallow waters 😄
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I wonder why you like her so much if she’s not reciprocating what your feeling? Maybe I missed the previous messages.

My advise would be don’t get so caught up in the conquest that you start compensating and rationalizing for her lack of interest. Libra women are naturally flirtatious.

When a libra woman wants you believe me, it’s no games, it’s no confusion maybe a lil indecisiveness, but you will know they are in to you.

I know when you Cancer men set your sights on something it’s hard to pull you away, but in this case you should fall back and when she does come back around ask her what’s up.
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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
One day being lovey dovey and another "making faces" is pretty disrespectful and straight childish. If you don't like his company or if somethings wrong with him YOU SHOULD NOT INVITE HIM ON A PRIVATE PARTY. And finally if you don't like him at all always speak your god damn mind, be clear and loud but as we all know libras suck balls with directness. And I really dislike people who make me GUESS what's on their mind. Get it as you wish but nobody wants to deal with that


What's lovey dovey to you might not be lovey dovey to her. Even though we're only getting one side of the story nothing he said was lovey dovey. Or sounded like she owed him a relationship or needs to be exclusive. Asking him to go with her to a private business party is not romantic. All of it sounds friendly... everything he said. And everybody under this is telling him that. Going by the story... the only one who's making someone guess what's on his mind is him. And him not saying shit to her. Now if he had said after being nothing but friends for a whole year... that she knew he liked her more than that... because he told her... or they had some sexual romantic thing going on or they were exclusive then that's a different story. She can't read his mind. Even he said he was too scared to even kiss her. The only one whos not being direct is him. Especially being nothing but friends for a whole year. I've got a crapload of platonic friends who send kissy emojis in their text. But I don't think they're all inlove with me afterwards and trying to get married just because you sent me some emojis and invited me to a business party. Especially if you never told me you like me more than a friend. She can love him as a friend and still send emojis. My friends do that all of the time. Like someone else said quit playing games. Just tell her you like her, she'll let you know if she feels the same. That simple. Cancer guys are known for being shy though. That's the real problem. YOU need to be more direct.

It's got nothing to do with BEING friend zoned. She's doesn't know you want out.


It's too late here and I'm falling asleep, can't read all of that but I'll be answering your first sentence dear lady. First of all lets start with writing text messages and I won't discuss about anything else right now until tomorrow cause I'm gonna prepare a long ass one comment for you lmao. So when it comes to texting you might not be aware but there are certain rules you need to follow unless you want to appear completely stupid/retarded. Such as: People don't throw kissing faces and luvs here and there, left and right, literally to everyone,if you don't mean/feel it. So that's misleading and reads something lot more than casual girl/boy friendship. You or anyone else has to follow certain rules accepted and recognized by society.As we all know emojis are made to speak ones mind when they don't feel to type anything, so beware please and if you still make the same mistake be thankful I informed you lol.. Now I'm gonna tell you goodnight and I'll be back tomorrow soonest I get a chance.
Not that serious. Read it again. My friends are throwing the emojis... not me. Whether you school them or not about it I still wouldn't take it like he or you would. Said what I needed to say. You can come back 10 times and it won't change nothing.

That's the difference between air and water ppl. You gotta be a lot deeper than emojis. Just be upfront and say it. Not that hard.
Don't pay the Pisces any attention they just like to talk out of their ass and troll you. They're attention seekers and like to play victim on here. I noticed the main trolls on here are all Pisces females. They stay in the Scorpio section trolling Scorpios for days on end also. Apparently they have no life, probably stay at home wives or moms. I'll bang a water sign but I would never date another one again. Theyre annoying and clingy. Everybody has already told these clingy water signs that there's nothing going on and he's delusional. Trying to knock any common sense into any of these Pisces is just feeding the troll.

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O yea? Lol. I'm not online at all that much so wouldn't know what people do on this thing. You see it had a really weak comeback with nothing left to say and then stfu. So...lol. Its all good. All bulls.hit aside that's what he needs to do. I think half of the stuff online is fake and catfish anyway so who knows what the hell I'm answering. But in real life if somebody wants to know if they like them just ask em. Throwing up one side of your story to a bunch of nobodies you don't even know isn't gonna get you your girl or the answer. Nobody knows what that girl is thinking but her. Get real lol. And no way to know what's really going on. Especially with all of these fake pretend psychics trying to double as her. Just ask her. That simple. There's no way I could take any of this s.hit serious. Live in the real world







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who knows what is going on in her head but you might be on to why she didn't have a date for the party

she sounds a bit like my ex-gf of many years - it was all about her and when she went cold, I was just that - out in the cold. Not a big deal of course to her because when she needed something she could call me and I was always there for her. I overlooked her stuff for a very long time but no more - when I finally went cold it was forever
Yea the only difference is that was your gf. Not just somebody you were wishing that was.


Hey - I just re-read what you said and she was my bff - I'm female and we were friends since childhood - I said what I said because the cold behavior reminded me of her and I've also wondered if it is a Libra trait or something else. I mean she could be very cold to my face. I don't know what her other placements were.
It says "she sounds a bit like my ex-gf" of many years.

But yea we can be cold and mean as hell. Especially if I don't like you or you're on my shitlist. I don't know how to be fake. If I don't like you you'll know it. You'll either think I'm cool as hell or evil or mean as ffphuck if I don't like you. Maybe it's got something with those scales i dk. But yea we can be cold. I have a thing for bulls and scorps though. Never met a bull or scorp I didn't like. I get crazy as hell but you bulls are actually the only ones who know how to calm me and tone that shit down lol. Strong chicas I like that.


You're so full of shit lol. Like most libras

@ the OP, just move on bro. Ignore the assholes on this thread even though they do have some valid points. You're obviously a caring person so look for someone who will appreciate those qualities instead of using them against you. Good luck.

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Unless you got something to back that up you're just a troll begging for seconds I don't got. Is what it is. And since you don't know me you look way more full of s.hit than you're hoping i am.





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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
One day being lovey dovey and another "making faces" is pretty disrespectful and straight childish. If you don't like his company or if somethings wrong with him YOU SHOULD NOT INVITE HIM ON A PRIVATE PARTY. And finally if you don't like him at all always speak your god damn mind, be clear and loud but as we all know libras suck balls with directness. And I really dislike people who make me GUESS what's on their mind. Get it as you wish but nobody wants to deal with that


What's lovey dovey to you might not be lovey dovey to her. Even though we're only getting one side of the story nothing he said was lovey dovey. Or sounded like she owed him a relationship or needs to be exclusive. Asking him to go with her to a private business party is not romantic. All of it sounds friendly... everything he said. And everybody under this is telling him that. Going by the story... the only one who's making someone guess what's on his mind is him. And him not saying shit to her. Now if he had said after being nothing but friends for a whole year... that she knew he liked her more than that... because he told her... or they had some sexual romantic thing going on or they were exclusive then that's a different story. She can't read his mind. Even he said he was too scared to even kiss her. The only one whos not being direct is him. Especially being nothing but friends for a whole year. I've got a crapload of platonic friends who send kissy emojis in their text. But I don't think they're all inlove with me afterwards and trying to get married just because you sent me some emojis and invited me to a business party. Especially if you never told me you like me more than a friend. She can love him as a friend and still send emojis. My friends do that all of the time. Like someone else said quit playing games. Just tell her you like her, she'll let you know if she feels the same. That simple. Cancer guys are known for being shy though. That's the real problem. YOU need to be more direct.

It's got nothing to do with BEING friend zoned. She's doesn't know you want out.


It's too late here and I'm falling asleep, can't read all of that but I'll be answering your first sentence dear lady. First of all lets start with writing text messages and I won't discuss about anything else right now until tomorrow cause I'm gonna prepare a long ass one comment for you lmao. So when it comes to texting you might not be aware but there are certain rules you need to follow unless you want to appear completely stupid/retarded. Such as: People don't throw kissing faces and luvs here and there, left and right, literally to everyone,if you don't mean/feel it. So that's misleading and reads something lot more than casual girl/boy friendship. You or anyone else has to follow certain rules accepted and recognized by society.As we all know emojis are made to speak ones mind when they don't feel to type anything, so beware please and if you still make the same mistake be thankful I informed you lol.. Now I'm gonna tell you goodnight and I'll be back tomorrow soonest I get a chance.
Not that serious. Read it again. My friends are throwing the emojis... not me. Whether you school them or not about it I still wouldn't take it like he or you would. Said what I needed to say. You can come back 10 times and it won't change nothing.

That's the difference between air and water ppl. You gotta be a lot deeper than emojis. Just be upfront and say it. Not that hard.
Don't pay the Pisces any attention they just like to talk out of their ass and troll you. They're attention seekers and like to play victim on here. I noticed the main trolls on here are all Pisces females. They stay in the Scorpio section trolling Scorpios for days on end also. Apparently they have no life, probably stay at home wives or moms. I'll bang a water sign but I would never date another one again. Theyre annoying and clingy. Everybody has already told these clingy water signs that there's nothing going on and he's delusional. Trying to knock any common sense into any of these Pisces is just feeding the troll.




O yea? Lol. I'm not online at all that much so wouldn't know what people do on this thing. You see it had a really weak comeback with nothing left to say and then stfu. So...lol. Its all good. All bulls.hit aside that's what he needs to do. I think half of the stuff online is fake and catfish anyway so who knows what the hell I'm answering. But in real life if somebody wants to know if they like them just ask em. Throwing up one side of your story to a bunch of nobodies you don't even know isn't gonna get you your girl or the answer. Nobody knows what that girl is thinking but her. Get real lol. And no way to know what's really going on. Especially with all of these fake pretend psychics trying to double as her. Just ask her. That simple. There's no way I could take any of this s.hit serious. Live in the real world







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That's why I love you Libra women. Ya'll keep it real. This place is full of zodiac racist trolls just looking to rouse each other up over their signs. If you weed through all the endless bullshit you can actually end up with some good convo.

I'm not surprised it's not fazing you at all. I dated a libra and I love how ya'll carry yourselves.

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who knows what is going on in her head but you might be on to why she didn't have a date for the party

she sounds a bit like my ex-gf of many years - it was all about her and when she went cold, I was just that - out in the cold. Not a big deal of course to her because when she needed something she could call me and I was always there for her. I overlooked her stuff for a very long time but no more - when I finally went cold it was forever
Yea the only difference is that was your gf. Not just somebody you were wishing that was.


Hey - I just re-read what you said and she was my bff - I'm female and we were friends since childhood - I said what I said because the cold behavior reminded me of her and I've also wondered if it is a Libra trait or something else. I mean she could be very cold to my face. I don't know what her other placements were.
It says "she sounds a bit like my ex-gf" of many years.

But yea we can be cold and mean as hell. Especially if I don't like you or you're on my shitlist. I don't know how to be fake. If I don't like you you'll know it. You'll either think I'm cool as hell or evil or mean as ffphuck if I don't like you. Maybe it's got something with those scales i dk. But yea we can be cold. I have a thing for bulls and scorps though. Never met a bull or scorp I didn't like. I get crazy as hell but you bulls are actually the only ones who know how to calm me and tone that shit down lol. Strong chicas I like that.


You're so full of shit lol. Like most libras

@ the OP, just move on bro. Ignore the assholes on this thread even though they do have some valid points. You're obviously a caring person so look for someone who will appreciate those qualities instead of using them against you. Good luck.


Unless you got something to back that up you're just a troll begging for seconds I don't got. Is what it is. And since you don't know me you look way more full of s.hit than you're hoping i am.








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who knows what is going on in her head but you might be on to why she didn't have a date for the party

she sounds a bit like my ex-gf of many years - it was all about her and when she went cold, I was just that - out in the cold. Not a big deal of course to her because when she needed something she could call me and I was always there for her. I overlooked her stuff for a very long time but no more - when I finally went cold it was forever
Yea the only difference is that was your gf. Not just somebody you were wishing that was.


Hey - I just re-read what you said and she was my bff - I'm female and we were friends since childhood - I said what I said because the cold behavior reminded me of her and I've also wondered if it is a Libra trait or something else. I mean she could be very cold to my face. I don't know what her other placements were.
It says "she sounds a bit like my ex-gf" of many years.

But yea we can be cold and mean as hell. Especially if I don't like you or you're on my shitlist. I don't know how to be fake. If I don't like you you'll know it. You'll either think I'm cool as hell or evil or mean as ffphuck if I don't like you. Maybe it's got something with those scales i dk. But yea we can be cold. I have a thing for bulls and scorps though. Never met a bull or scorp I didn't like. I get crazy as hell but you bulls are actually the only ones who know how to calm me and tone that shit down lol. Strong chicas I like that.


You're so full of shit lol. Like most libras

@ the OP, just move on bro. Ignore the assholes on this thread even though they do have some valid points. You're obviously a caring person so look for someone who will appreciate those qualities instead of using them against you. Good luck.


Unless you got something to back that up you're just a troll begging for seconds I don't got. Is what it is. And since you don't know me you look way more full of s.hit than you're hoping i am.







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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
One day being lovey dovey and another "making faces" is pretty disrespectful and straight childish. If you don't like his company or if somethings wrong with him YOU SHOULD NOT INVITE HIM ON A PRIVATE PARTY. And finally if you don't like him at all always speak your god damn mind, be clear and loud but as we all know libras suck balls with directness. And I really dislike people who make me GUESS what's on their mind. Get it as you wish but nobody wants to deal with that


What's lovey dovey to you might not be lovey dovey to her. Even though we're only getting one side of the story nothing he said was lovey dovey. Or sounded like she owed him a relationship or needs to be exclusive. Asking him to go with her to a private business party is not romantic. All of it sounds friendly... everything he said. And everybody under this is telling him that. Going by the story... the only one who's making someone guess what's on his mind is him. And him not saying shit to her. Now if he had said after being nothing but friends for a whole year... that she knew he liked her more than that... because he told her... or they had some sexual romantic thing going on or they were exclusive then that's a different story. She can't read his mind. Even he said he was too scared to even kiss her. The only one whos not being direct is him. Especially being nothing but friends for a whole year. I've got a crapload of platonic friends who send kissy emojis in their text. But I don't think they're all inlove with me afterwards and trying to get married just because you sent me some emojis and invited me to a business party. Especially if you never told me you like me more than a friend. She can love him as a friend and still send emojis. My friends do that all of the time. Like someone else said quit playing games. Just tell her you like her, she'll let you know if she feels the same. That simple. Cancer guys are known for being shy though. That's the real problem. YOU need to be more direct.

It's got nothing to do with BEING friend zoned. She's doesn't know you want out.


It's too late here and I'm falling asleep, can't read all of that but I'll be answering your first sentence dear lady. First of all lets start with writing text messages and I won't discuss about anything else right now until tomorrow cause I'm gonna prepare a long ass one comment for you lmao. So when it comes to texting you might not be aware but there are certain rules you need to follow unless you want to appear completely stupid/retarded. Such as: People don't throw kissing faces and luvs here and there, left and right, literally to everyone,if you don't mean/feel it. So that's misleading and reads something lot more than casual girl/boy friendship. You or anyone else has to follow certain rules accepted and recognized by society.As we all know emojis are made to speak ones mind when they don't feel to type anything, so beware please and if you still make the same mistake be thankful I informed you lol.. Now I'm gonna tell you goodnight and I'll be back tomorrow soonest I get a chance.
Not that serious. Read it again. My friends are throwing the emojis... not me. Whether you school them or not about it I still wouldn't take it like he or you would. Said what I needed to say. You can come back 10 times and it won't change nothing.

That's the difference between air and water ppl. You gotta be a lot deeper than emojis. Just be upfront and say it. Not that hard.
Don't pay the Pisces any attention they just like to talk out of their ass and troll you. They're attention seekers and like to play victim on here. I noticed the main trolls on here are all Pisces females. They stay in the Scorpio section trolling Scorpios for days on end also. Apparently they have no life, probably stay at home wives or moms. I'll bang a water sign but I would never date another one again. Theyre annoying and clingy. Everybody has already told these clingy water signs that there's nothing going on and he's delusional. Trying to knock any common sense into any of these Pisces is just feeding the troll.




O yea? Lol. I'm not online at all that much so wouldn't know what people do on this thing. You see it had a really weak comeback with nothing left to say and then stfu. So...lol. Its all good. All bulls.hit aside that's what he needs to do. I think half of the stuff online is fake and catfish anyway so who knows what the hell I'm answering. But in real life if somebody wants to know if they like them just ask em. Throwing up one side of your story to a bunch of nobodies you don't even know isn't gonna get you your girl or the answer. Nobody knows what that girl is thinking but her. Get real lol. And no way to know what's really going on. Especially with all of these fake pretend psychics trying to double as her. Just ask her. That simple. There's no way I could take any of this s.hit serious. Live in the real world








That's why I love you Libra women. Ya'll keep it real. This place is full of zodiac racist trolls just looking to rouse each other up over their signs. If you weed through all the endless bullshit you can actually end up with some good convo.

I'm not surprised it's not fazing you at all. I dated a libra and I love how ya'll carry yourselves.


I get that you're crushing hard but Libras don't "keep it real" lol. It fact, they're known as people pleasers and can be pretty damn superficial.

If you want 'real' than Aries women are your best bet bro.

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I don't go by fake stuff somebody said, I go by experience. And my ex was none of that. She was one of the most honest, least superficial girls I've ever been with. And she definitely wasn't a people pleaser. Dude I wish. I would still be with now if she was. Just like Exclusive comes off as the exact opposite as a people pleaser. I love their brutal honesty it's refreshing; plus none of that stuff turns me off. I'm a man who likes women. None of that shit scares me away. I'm not an idiot who reads something on a sign then believes it like it's bible. Half of the stuff they say about my sign is fake too. I go by experience. I know exactly how Libra women are. And its not all of that generic stuff ya'll are throwing around. I fucked up with my ex girlfriend who's a Libra, and I haven't met a girl who could live up to her since. I don't need no dude to act like my momma.

I'd go for a scorpio before I go for an Aries anyway. The Aries females I know are too arrogant and empty headed. There's nothing there. I don't care if a female is arrogant but they don't have nothing going on and they act like that. I have a couple cousins walking around arrogant for no reason. Give me a Scorpio or Libra anyday. I always vibe best with them.

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Firstly, I hate the term "friendzoned", but that's another discussion.

Being friends for a year and going to a work-do, sounds ... friendly to me. But let's say she knows that you like her:

"I was nervous, and didn’t talk much during the night because I wanted to make sure I didn’t embarrass her in front of her co-workers and leave a good impression." - This is why you cancer men are adorbs! 😉

But playing devil’s advocate here, maybe you were a little too shy? I think as a Cancer, you might be playing it a tad too safe for a Libra's taste. Thinking of my own experiences I've mistaken this side to Cancers as standoffishness. And I've easily got bored of that. - When us Libras flirt, we want a response. Like "Hellooo? Don't you find me just positively, irresistibly charming??" 😉

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We react to the energy of others. Have you wondered if maybe you gave her an aloof impression that night? Did you really respond to her subtle leaning in to you etc? Did you have fun together that night?

My first thought was that it isn't a good sign that she didn't want to dance. But maybe she's a horrible dancer, and didn't want to embarrass herself in front of her colleagues, or you. 😉

You also might be reading too much into her leaning on your shoulder, her emojis etc. because you like her, and you want it so bad to be mutual.

Libras are very flirtatious by nature, and often see it as harmless. I think a Cancer male would take it more seriously than intended. I also find that my friendliness can be misunderstood as flirting at times.

Then again, Libras can blow hot and cold. Maybe she didn't feel as though you hit it off after all. At best she's indecisive about you. I think Libras and Cancers have in common that we both observe the other closely.

If you like her, my suggestion is to come out of your shell more when in her company. Stop dissecting text-messages, and meet more in person if possible. Or call. A lot of attractive energy is exuded in hearing the other person's voice, laughing together, even being shy together on the phone.

If you want to give it a final attempt, peek out of your shell and be a tad more direct with her. Not confrontational, - flirt with her. Cancers are quite lovely when you're not so guarded. The cancer men that have been somewhat successful with me were quite direct in their flirting and VERY funny. If you have a sense of humour, use it. 🙂

If she doesn't respond to that. Disengage your crab claws and let go of the girl. 😉

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You embarrass yourself my friend and yes you need to leave her alone for good. What she's doing to you is disrespectful and you deserve something better. Why do I have a feeling that you are like a puppy, maybe because she treats you that way. Leave her forever.

Now what comes on my mind is, are you sure you were dressed properly? are you sure suit wasn't too big or too small? stained or ripped? are you sure you wore matching shoes?
She's not disrespecting anybody. What she's supposed to be psychic and know he's wishing she likes him. Just because he's hoping he's more than a year long friend after some Christmas party and a couple kiss emojis. He just needs to man up and tell her how he feels... instead of us.

Most girls aren't telling every single guy that wants them I don't like you. 9 times out of 10 they don't care. They'll just chase you even harder. Not to sound corny but I've told a crapload of guys Na I'm not feeling you like that. They still chase. If you wanna talk about disrespect. That's it.
One day being lovey dovey and another "making faces" is pretty disrespectful and straight childish. If you don't like his company or if somethings wrong with him YOU SHOULD NOT INVITE HIM ON A PRIVATE PARTY. And finally if you don't like him at all always speak your god damn mind, be clear and loud but as we all know libras suck balls with directness. And I really dislike people who make me GUESS what's on their mind. Get it as you wish but nobody wants to deal with that


What's lovey dovey to you might not be lovey dovey to her. Even though we're only getting one side of the story nothing he said was lovey dovey. Or sounded like she owed him a relationship or needs to be exclusive. Asking him to go with her to a private business party is not romantic. All of it sounds friendly... everything he said. And everybody under this is telling him that. Going by the story... the only one who's making someone guess what's on his mind is him. And him not saying shit to her. Now if he had said after being nothing but friends for a whole year... that she knew he liked her more than that... because he told her... or they had some sexual romantic thing going on or they were exclusive then that's a different story. She can't read his mind. Even he said he was too scared to even kiss her. The only one whos not being direct is him. Especially being nothing but friends for a whole year. I've got a crapload of platonic friends who send kissy emojis in their text. But I don't think they're all inlove with me afterwards and trying to get married just because you sent me some emojis and invited me to a business party. Especially if you never told me you like me more than a friend. She can love him as a friend and still send emojis. My friends do that all of the time. Like someone else said quit playing games. Just tell her you like her, she'll let you know if she feels the same. That simple. Cancer guys are known for being shy though. That's the real problem. YOU need to be more direct.

It's got nothing to do with BEING friend zoned. She's doesn't know you want out.


It's too late here and I'm falling asleep, can't read all of that but I'll be answering your first sentence dear lady. First of all lets start with writing text messages and I won't discuss about anything else right now until tomorrow cause I'm gonna prepare a long ass one comment for you lmao. So when it comes to texting you might not be aware but there are certain rules you need to follow unless you want to appear completely stupid/retarded. Such as: People don't throw kissing faces and luvs here and there, left and right, literally to everyone,if you don't mean/feel it. So that's misleading and reads something lot more than casual girl/boy friendship. You or anyone else has to follow certain rules accepted and recognized by society.As we all know emojis are made to speak ones mind when they don't feel to type anything, so beware please and if you still make the same mistake be thankful I informed you lol.. Now I'm gonna tell you goodnight and I'll be back tomorrow soonest I get a chance.
Not that serious. Read it again. My friends are throwing the emojis... not me. Whether you school them or not about it I still wouldn't take it like he or you would. Said what I needed to say. You can come back 10 times and it won't change nothing.

That's the difference between air and water ppl. You gotta be a lot deeper than emojis. Just be upfront and say it. Not that hard.
Don't pay the Pisces any attention they just like to talk out of their ass and troll you. They're attention seekers and like to play victim on here. I noticed the main trolls on here are all Pisces females. They stay in the Scorpio section trolling Scorpios for days on end also. Apparently they have no life, probably stay at home wives or moms. I'll bang a water sign but I would never date another one again. Theyre annoying and clingy. Everybody has already told these clingy water signs that there's nothing going on and he's delusional. Trying to knock any common sense into any of these Pisces is just feeding the troll.




O yea? Lol. I'm not online at all that much so wouldn't know what people do on this thing. You see it had a really weak comeback with nothing left to say and then stfu. So...lol. Its all good. All bulls.hit aside that's what he needs to do. I think half of the stuff online is fake and catfish anyway so who knows what the hell I'm answering. But in real life if somebody wants to know if they like them just ask em. Throwing up one side of your story to a bunch of nobodies you don't even know isn't gonna get you your girl or the answer. Nobody knows what that girl is thinking but her. Get real lol. And no way to know what's really going on. Especially with all of these fake pretend psychics trying to double as her. Just ask her. That simple. There's no way I could take any of this s.hit serious. Live in the real world








That's why I love you Libra women. Ya'll keep it real. This place is full of zodiac racist trolls just looking to rouse each other up over their signs. If you weed through all the endless bullshit you can actually end up with some good convo.

I'm not surprised it's not fazing you at all. I dated a libra and I love how ya'll carry yourselves.


I get that you're crushing hard but Libras don't "keep it real" lol. It fact, they're known as people pleasers and can be pretty damn superficial.

If you want 'real' than Aries women are your best bet bro.

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I'm a Libra. We tend to be unintentionally flirtatious. Kisses in texts is just being friendly nothing more. Usually, if I don't include a heart or kiss in my texts, they end up looking like cold one liners. Experience has taught me to stop doing this with the opposite sex. If your Libra lady liked you more than friendship you would know. Libra is a cardinal sign so she would take initiative and make very clear signs she's interested. She told your common friends what she did because she was simply being polite. Saying the truth that she didn't see you more than a friend would have felt like bitching to her. She probably asked you to the party because she likes your company (as a friend). Are women not allowed to do this anymore? I've hung out with guy friends I really like knowing that they are interested just because I enjoy having them around not because I don't have other options or I'm some sort of egomaniac. She also probably wanted to see if you both "fit", and determined at the end of the evening that you don't. That's why she is cold. She needs to demonstrate loud and clear that you are a friend so that you don't ask her out because she doesn't want to reject you outright. She saw something that evening that put her off. She may have sensed that your feelings were more than she thought or could handle. I recently turned cold on a guy whose apartment was a dump because I'm HUGE on personal hygiene. I had to stop the flirting dead in its tracks so that I don't reject him outright and we can become friends or at least polite acquaintances. Your lady did not text you to say she got home because she didn't want to lead you on. If I were you, i will take the hint and let her go. Sorry.
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who knows what is going on in her head but you might be on to why she didn't have a date for the party

she sounds a bit like my ex-gf of many years - it was all about her and when she went cold, I was just that - out in the cold. Not a big deal of course to her because when she needed something she could call me and I was always there for her. I overlooked her stuff for a very long time but no more - when I finally went cold it was forever
Yea the only difference is that was your gf. Not just somebody you were wishing that was.


Hey - I just re-read what you said and she was my bff - I'm female and we were friends since childhood - I said what I said because the cold behavior reminded me of her and I've also wondered if it is a Libra trait or something else. I mean she could be very cold to my face. I don't know what her other placements were.
It says "she sounds a bit like my ex-gf" of many years.

But yea we can be cold and mean as hell. Especially if I don't like you or you're on my shitlist. I don't know how to be fake. If I don't like you you'll know it. You'll either think I'm cool as hell or evil or mean as ffphuck if I don't like you. Maybe it's got something with those scales i dk. But yea we can be cold. I have a thing for bulls and scorps though. Never met a bull or scorp I didn't like. I get crazy as hell but you bulls are actually the only ones who know how to calm me and tone that shit down lol. Strong chicas I like that.


You're so full of shit lol. Like most libras

@ the OP, just move on bro. Ignore the assholes on this thread even though they do have some valid points. You're obviously a caring person so look for someone who will appreciate those qualities instead of using them against you. Good luck.


Unless you got something to back that up you're just a troll begging for seconds I don't got. Is what it is. And since you don't know me you look way more full of s.hit than you're hoping i am.








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This troll still babbling rambling about nothing and making bad guesses. I dont know if that was nerdtalk or what but half of it didnt even make sense. Ur'e too gumby for me. Looks like you got dissin mixed up with me giving a s.hit lol

You're a bad read. Need to get ya at the poker table

I'd take all that money



Never on this thing so you had wait on that



Trolls are boring as f.uck... never feed em

Always know its like some 40 year old man or chick still living with its mommy or some quiet nobody in real life who won't say s.hit in your face

Wtf I look like feeding that Lol

I cant take nothing online serious

Too many cornballs who type up a bunch of crap and don't say nothing in your face

Too cheesy for me.

Too Fake

Cant stand fake. Too many of u all online
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who knows what is going on in her head but you might be on to why she didn't have a date for the party

she sounds a bit like my ex-gf of many years - it was all about her and when she went cold, I was just that - out in the cold. Not a big deal of course to her because when she needed something she could call me and I was always there for her. I overlooked her stuff for a very long time but no more - when I finally went cold it was forever
Yea the only difference is that was your gf. Not just somebody you were wishing that was.


Hey - I just re-read what you said and she was my bff - I'm female and we were friends since childhood - I said what I said because the cold behavior reminded me of her and I've also wondered if it is a Libra trait or something else. I mean she could be very cold to my face. I don't know what her other placements were.
It says "she sounds a bit like my ex-gf" of many years.

But yea we can be cold and mean as hell. Especially if I don't like you or you're on my shitlist. I don't know how to be fake. If I don't like you you'll know it. You'll either think I'm cool as hell or evil or mean as ffphuck if I don't like you. Maybe it's got something with those scales i dk. But yea we can be cold. I have a thing for bulls and scorps though. Never met a bull or scorp I didn't like. I get crazy as hell but you bulls are actually the only ones who know how to calm me and tone that shit down lol. Strong chicas I like that.


You're so full of shit lol. Like most libras

@ the OP, just move on bro. Ignore the assholes on this thread even though they do have some valid points. You're obviously a caring person so look for someone who will appreciate those qualities instead of using them against you. Good luck.


Unless you got something to back that up you're just a troll begging for seconds I don't got. Is what it is. And since you don't know me you look way more full of s.hit than you're hoping i am.








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That was smooth, I like that lol.

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Lol u know what's up. Looks like u gave a f.uck enough to explain it to it... thats way more f.ucks than I got lol
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Missing the point. And maybe I need to be more clear on last statement. She told our mutual friends she would date me if we weren’t co-workers and if she wasn’t dating someone else. She’s not now. You don’t go out with me few nights before, sit next together and lean on my shoulder and do all this other stuff that to me, friends don’t do! You don’t in the past as Co-workers always ask about my love life. That’s strange!

No need to be rash with “delusional” comment. I can’t remember everything and type everything all at once. So I’m sorry I’m giving you guys bits and pieces here and there.

I’m done with this one and probably Libras for good! This one seems very selfish. Another Libra years ago seemed to be like this and i should have caught it. They just want something from you and that’s it!

Sounds to me like she just enjoys the ego boost and has no intention of taking it any further with you. Or perhaps she thought it could work, but realized the spark wasn't there, and was too immature to come forward about it. Either way, based on the details you've revealed, I don't doubt for a second that she is oblivious to your feelings for her.

As a Leeb, I say cut this one loose and don't look back.