cappygirl11
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Are cancerian man weirdly jealous and possessive.
He is trying to control you it starts with suggestions then it goes to demanding you to eat sit walk talk stand whenever he tells you. He is insecure and showing how controlling he is. If you do everything he says it will get worst. Pay attention to the signs love is not control dear.
Octoberbaby is completely right. Take it from someone who was lucky enough to get out of a relationship with a controlling man. It DOES & WILL only get worse. Trust me. This is NOT a Cancer thing. It's specific to him as an individual. Whether he experienced it himself as a child and instead of learning from it has now turned into what he experienced or has some screws loose or like Octbaby said is EXTREMELY insecure, I would suggest to start using your noggin on this one. Do some research on Controlling behaviour and observe if you start saying YEP every time you finish a sentence while reading the info. When you love someone you are who you are and they are who they are. There may be things that bother you about them such as them leaving the lights on when they leave a room but a mature confident stable person would simply roll their eyes to themselves and go turn the light switch off without taking out their frustration on anyone else no matter what. Someone who is controlling will bring it up time and time again. Then they'll "suggest" you turn it off. Then they will Yell at you to do it. Belittle you. Talk down to you. Make you feel worthless. Slowly your confidence and self worth will diminish to the point where you aren't even sure if just getting out of bed in the morning will set him off. He'll start to question EVERYTHING you do. Even showering or brushing your teeth if he's really insecure and messed up in the head. That's the kind of thing I had to deal with before I finally left. And in the beginning he did none of those things. Over time something he simply didn't care for turned into him not liking anything I did ever. It had to be his way or I paid the consequence. In the beginning I had always worn makeup and dressed nice, kind of a girly girl and wore nice shoes etc. He didn't mind at first. Then slowly over time he would make little comments. That eventually turned into such an extreme that even if I was wearing no makeup, hair thrown up, Jeans and a hoodie sweater he would rage because he would ask why I was all dolled up to go to the grocery store. Who was I all dolled up for. Be gone 10 mins longer than it "should" have taken me.....Yeah that was never good. And just like you it started off as nothing which eventually over time turned into a BIG something and I had lost my entire identity and self worth. And because it happens gradually you almost aren't
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I wxpierenced the same type of relationship it was with a cap for almost 3 years. I stayed and put up with it because I overlooked the signs. It got worst a year into the relationship I was already love struck very young and naive time. We both are telling you this because this is nothing to take lightly it is serious and can destroy your self esteem. You might be thinking "oh no it's not a big deal it's not like that." Some people will reveal there dark side to you years later and you will be confused on how you got to that place. Protect yourself.
I wxpierenced the same type of relationship it was with a cap for almost 3 years. I stayed and put up with it because I overlooked the signs. It got worst a year into the relationship I was already love struck very young and naive time. We both are telling you this because this is nothing to take lightly it is serious and can destroy your self esteem. You might be thinking "oh no it's not a big deal it's not like that." Some people will reveal there dark side to you years later and you will be confused on how you got to that place. Protect yourself.
even aware what is happening. You do in a sense become brain washed. You make excuses for them. Was with him almost 10 years. It took me a little over a year to finally break free after I finally saw what I was living. Well....it wasn't living. And let me tell you, leaving was NOT easy after that long. He no longer had me to control which only made him try to hold on tighter. His rage which was always directed at me came on 10 fold and so thank goodness I had done a lot of work and growth for myself because it took EVERY ounce of strength buried deep within me to keep pushing forward to pull myself out of that darkness. And it pulls you back in. Your conviction has to be 100% unwavering because it's too easy to just appease them and go back so you don't have to deal with the anger and belittling and berating. Even after I was finally out the madness still continued for 6 months. Police were called. Spoke to victim services. The whole nine. I'm thankful everyday that he did not hurt me or worse when he would snap after I had broken it off. And that he did not hurt my daughter as that was part of the reason I left. I had to protect her. And I would die for my baby, I think he knew that. And again I am thankful that did not happen in my case. It does happen in others 😢 I think you get the point.
Anyhow, this may not be the case in your case but I am a very open and honest person naturally and I feel that sharing part of my story may allow you to see through different eyes than the clouded ones that we sometimes would rather look through in our relationships. Sometimes they aren't as rosy as we think they are and we shouldn't lie to ourselves when our personal health and well being are at stake. You should never take ANYONE showing controlling behaviour lightly. NEVER make excuses for someone behaving like this. It is NEVER ok. It is not healthy behaviour. Just please talk to someone who knows about controlling behaviour and abuse. Mental, Emotional and Physical (even if it hasn't reached that point yet). My ex always said he'd never hurt me. That was until there was a knife flying across the room at me. Or when he picked me up and dragged me to our bedroom. He started this behaviour when I was ending the relationship. And believe me when I tell you, if you think he is and you ask him, he will tell you you're crazy or something like that. That you're over reacting. And you'll feel silly and stay.
Anyhow, this may not be the case in your case but I am a very open and honest person naturally and I feel that sharing part of my story may allow you to see through different eyes than the clouded ones that we sometimes would rather look through in our relationships. Sometimes they aren't as rosy as we think they are and we shouldn't lie to ourselves when our personal health and well being are at stake. You should never take ANYONE showing controlling behaviour lightly. NEVER make excuses for someone behaving like this. It is NEVER ok. It is not healthy behaviour. Just please talk to someone who knows about controlling behaviour and abuse. Mental, Emotional and Physical (even if it hasn't reached that point yet). My ex always said he'd never hurt me. That was until there was a knife flying across the room at me. Or when he picked me up and dragged me to our bedroom. He started this behaviour when I was ending the relationship. And believe me when I tell you, if you think he is and you ask him, he will tell you you're crazy or something like that. That you're over reacting. And you'll feel silly and stay.
Anyhow I've written a novel as I do sometimes LOL! I really hope this isn't the case for you but something tells me he's not quite stable and just from what you've described it feels a little too familiar to me. I hope you all works out in a positive way for you.
Be Well,
WildHHeartGemini
Be Well,
WildHHeartGemini
Posted by WildHHeartGemini
Anyhow I've written a novel as I do sometimes LOL! I really hope this isn't the case for you but something tells me he's not quite stable and just from what you've described it feels a little too familiar to me. I hope you all works out in a positive way for you.
Be Well,
WildHHeartGemini
Posted by Octoberbaby91I'm sorry you went through this as well. MUCH LOVE!!!!!
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I wxpierenced the same type of relationship it was with a cap for almost 3 years. I stayed and put up with it because I overlooked the signs. It got worst a year into the relationship I was already love struck very young and naive time. We both are telling you this because this is nothing to take lightly it is serious and can destroy your self esteem. You might be thinking "oh no it's not a big deal it's not like that." Some people will reveal there dark side to you years later and you will be confused on how you got to that place. Protect yourself.
Yes, there is a type of brainwashing that happens as well. And the put downs which disable your rational thinking. Mine was a Scorpio. He took his time to do it. It was very subtle and very slow until it wasn't anymore which was triggered by me putting on a whole bunch of weight then 2 years later loosing it all and then some. His jealously set him into overdrive and it just escalated from there and the examples I use literally happened to me. In the beginning it was silly things like the way the dishwasher was loaded but to the point where I was chastised like a child and would get anxious for fear of being yelled at. But after I lost the weight years later I would literally feel his wrath if I took a shower or brushed my teeth. I would hear his foot steps coming down the hall and would start to feel scared as I never knew what he was going to say or do but knew he was coming to rage and take out his anger on me. Like Octbaby says, PROTECT yourself. Do research. Talk to others who have been in this type of situation.
Posted by Octoberbaby91Posted by WildHHeartGemini
Anyhow I've written a novel as I do sometimes LOL! I really hope this isn't the case for you but something tells me he's not quite stable and just from what you've described it feels a little too familiar to me. I hope you all works out in a positive way for you.
Be Well,
WildHHeartGemini
WildhheartGemini you guys are so creative even when you use minimal words lol.
Yes very rough time I met him at 18. Glad I let him go found out he was diagnosed with schizophrenia a few months later. He screwed his life up not long after I wont go into detail on the thread but I'll just say God was definitely looking out for me I'm very grateful.
Yes very rough time I met him at 18. Glad I let him go found out he was diagnosed with schizophrenia a few months later. He screwed his life up not long after I wont go into detail on the thread but I'll just say God was definitely looking out for me I'm very grateful.
Posted by cappygirl11i understand him completely. he wants you to be a respectable woman and save your private parts for him. you should feel lucky to have a guy who loves and respects you that much to treat you like a treasure.
When we first met a few years ago...He had an issue with males and females been friend.... so I cooled down all my male relationships.
Then he had an issue when my tops were to low cut....or if they had straps instead of sleeves and how short my shorts were. He kept saying he didn't want people to view he's "special things they need to be kept secret. I gathered he was old school.
last week....i was supposed to meet him after work. I was 5 min late. I stayed to help a male co worker lock up...also while locking up we had a discussion about why the receptionist choose to wear a super pink bra and a chiffon top to work
I made the mistake of been honest with my boyfriend.... He was absolutely livid....so angry with me for one staying alone with a male co worker. He didn't seem to care that he was like 50 and old and repulsive. Secondly for having a conversation about a bra with him. He almost stormed out the resturant. When searching for the waitress to bring us a bill. Didn't wait for me to drive off first as I normally do... He sped off.
The next day I texted good morning. I got a one word reply.
After that he's dissappeared. No texts no calls. I sent him a few messages but nothing...
Is he really that jealous? Is this even possible? Am I supposed to work in a nunnery?
October baby and wild heart. I'm so sorry for what u went thru. You seem to be describing my friends husbands behaviour.
I don't think I have it as bad...maybe I'm in denial. But it's not an all the time thing.
It's also when I don't listen to he's dictatorship and something go wrong. ...He says I told u so...u didn't listen .
I don't think I have it as bad...maybe I'm in denial. But it's not an all the time thing.
It's also when I don't listen to he's dictatorship and something go wrong. ...He says I told u so...u didn't listen .
Posted by KittenLaRougeThis goes way beyond that. Trust me. There's being respectful of your partner and not showing yourself off in a demeaning way for all to see but from what she's described this is not the case with her man. She could wear a habit and I think he would probably say she's dressing too provocatively. That thin line can be hard to see if you've never been on the other side of it. If she's no longer wearing clothing that's revealing and he's having issues with it still then it's a control issue not a this is my woman and this is for my eyes only issue. And as she's already said she got that under check by not wearing lower cut shirts anymore and so what has now happenePosted by cappygirl11i understand him completely. he wants you to be a respectable woman and save your private parts for him. you should feel lucky to have a guy who loves and respects you that much to treat you like a treasure.
When we first met a few years ago...He had an issue with males and females been friend.... so I cooled down all my male relationships.
Then he had an issue when my tops were to low cut....or if they had straps instead of sleeves and how short my shorts were. He kept saying he didn't want people to view he's "special things they need to be kept secret. I gathered he was old school.
last week....i was supposed to meet him after work. I was 5 min late. I stayed to help a male co worker lock up...also while locking up we had a discussion about why the receptionist choose to wear a super pink bra and a chiffon top to work
I made the mistake of been honest with my boyfriend.... He was absolutely livid....so angry with me for one staying alone with a male co worker. He didn't seem to care that he was like 50 and old and repulsive. Secondly for having a conversation about a bra with him. He almost stormed out the resturant. When searching for the waitress to bring us a bill. Didn't wait for me to drive off first as I normally do... He sped off.
The next day I texted good morning. I got a one word reply.
After that he's dissappeared. No texts no calls. I sent him a few messages but nothing...
Is he really that jealous? Is this even possible? Am I supposed to work in a nunnery?click to expand
Whoa girl, it seems you are in denial. I just read your story. Does he not trust you? As an adult? As the woman he's chosen to be with?
Really, you are grown. If he cant handle that you have your own mind and your own boundaries that you will not allow another person to cross, then in his eyes you must be a young, naive, easily manipulated puppet. He is treated you as if he doesnt respect your mind, your actions, or decision making.
Really, you are grown. If he cant handle that you have your own mind and your own boundaries that you will not allow another person to cross, then in his eyes you must be a young, naive, easily manipulated puppet. He is treated you as if he doesnt respect your mind, your actions, or decision making.
Posted by cappygirl11I still think hes a keeper. Men like him are hard to find in this day and age when every chicks tits areout
October baby and wild heart. I'm so sorry for what u went thru. You seem to be describing my friends husbands behaviour.
I don't think I have it as bad...maybe I'm in denial. But it's not an all the time thing.
It's also when I don't listen to he's dictatorship and something go wrong. ...He says I told u so...u didn't listen .
I disagree with the other women on this thread
Put yourself in his shoes. What would you think of a person that you treated this way?
Posted by cappygirl11Thank you! But Oh my goodness! A HUGE red flag just went off and I hadn't even finished reading what you wrote. As soon as I got to the part where you say "I don't think I have it as bad". Read that sentence to yourself over and over again and tell me what that tells you? Does that sound like confidence? NO. Does that sounds like an excuse? YES And it won't be all the time at first. It wasn't for me either. And it happened few and far between in the beginning. Like for years it wasn't "THAT BAD" as you kind of said. But it did start to get that bad and then worse and worse and worse.
October baby and wild heart. I'm so sorry for what u went thru. You seem to be describing my friends husbands behaviour.
I don't think I have it as bad...maybe I'm in denial. But it's not an all the time thing.
It's also when I don't listen to he's dictatorship and something go wrong. ...He says I told u so...u didn't listen .
OH MY GOODNESS I just finished reading the last sentence and my heart is breaking and I'm afraid for you. You don't listen to him? Ok, here's where maybe the Ascending Scorpio is going to come out in me and I'm going to be blunt. The red flag in that last sentence is SO bright red that it's actually bleeding. You don't listen to him? And his dictatorship? Words are very powerful. Read those back to yourself. Do those sound like they come from a place of love? From a partner trying to help you with a problem? Or someone who wants you to be a drone who is programmed to please them and do things as they think they should be done. These are YOUR words describing him and how you feel about it. This is your subconscious talking. You are not his child you should be his partner. You don't have to "listen" to him. If he suggests something and you don't do it, as his partner he should accept that and if it turns out bad he should be your soft place to fall and comfort you as it will be a learning experience for you and you will grow. He should not chastise you like a child. Read back to my previous posts. My ex did the EXACT same thing. You didn't say that you had a convo with him about something where he gave you loving advice. You use words and language that suggests he was telling you what to do and when you don't he then reprimands you, makes you feel stupid for not "listening" and
Posted by lnana04I was with a man like this and I felt loved and secure.
Put yourself in his shoes. What would you think of a person that you treated this way?
Posted by KittenLaRougeDifferent strokes for different folks, but clearly this behavior doesn't feel good to her which is why there is a thread about it. She knows what's up, just doesn't want to believe it's happening to her.Posted by lnana04I was with a man like this and I felt loved and secure.
Put yourself in his shoes. What would you think of a person that you treated this way?click to expand
Posted by KittenLaRougeSeriously? This is a serious issue here. Again read ALLLL of her posts. Not just the part that makes you feel all warm and fuzzy about your ex. Because with your ex it probably stopped there because he wasn't controlling. In THIS situation from what she is telling us It's not about tits hanging out like you said previously. He is not simply wanting his woman to be respectful. It started with that and has escalated to more. And it won't stop. HE IS CONTROLLING! And men like this actually KILL women who stay. Hell they kill them for leaving. There are men who do want their woman covered up but if you read further it doesn't stop there with this particular man. You should leave this thread because you have NO IDEA what you are talking about in this particular instance. Quite frankly it's insulting. This isn't love this isn't security with this man. You are clearly diluted in my opinion and don't understand what happening again in THIS particular situation. Not in your past one.Posted by lnana04I was with a man like this and I felt loved and secure.
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^^^ I agree. Im old fashioned in love. I like a man who is in control and leads. If hes a good man of course.
^^^ my comment was for illana
In control and controlling are different things, and having a fit and storming out over an innocent conversation is not a man thats in control but a controlling child thats throwing a tantrum. Thats not a man that could lead me personally.
Ok previous post got cut off. All I'm going to say to you now is that if you want to talk, vent or need someone to reach out to, PM me.
Posted by WildHHeartGeminiYou are way overracting. He doesnt want her to wear skimpy clothing or talk to strange me. Hes protecting her because he seems to know the innate nature of other men. Nothing here says shes in danger thats ridiculousPosted by KittenLaRougeSeriously? This is a serious issue here. Again read ALLLL of her posts. Not just the part that makes you feel all warm and fuzzy about your ex. Because with your ex it probably stopped there because he wasn't controlling. In THIS situation from what she is telling us It's not about tits hanging out like you said previously. He is not simply wanting his woman to be respectful. It started with that and has escalated to more. And it won't stop. HE IS CONTROLLING! And men like this actually KILL women who stay. Hell they kill them for leaving. There are men who do want their woman covered up but if you read further it doesn't stop there with this particular man. You should leave this thread because you have NO IDEA what you are talking about in this particular instance. Quite frankly it's insulting. This isn't love this isn't security with this man. You are clearly diluted in my opinion and don't understand what happening again in THIS particular situation. Not in your past one.Posted by lnana04I was with a man like this and I felt loved and secure.
Put yourself in his shoes. What would you think of a person that you treated this way?click to expand
*men
Posted by lnana04Well he was in.his feels and maybe overracted but I have a cancer moon so I understand. I believe you girls are blowing this way out of proportion.
In control and controlling are different things, and having a fit and storming out over an innocent conversation is not a man thats in control but a controlling child thats throwing a tantrum. Thats not a man that could lead me personally.
Cancers are possessive and jealous yes. And they think they know everything for sure...if it gets crazy like he's actually trying to control you then that's a different story..but humor him if its not serious...if he actually gets angry and mean that's different.
Kitten if i tell you its not about tits hanging out But we live in a country where winters mean temperatures of like 20c and summers get up to 44c so it's ridiculously hot. And wearing shorts and sleeveless shirts is pretty much normal.
Also we come from a conservative culture....and even my father raises his eyebrows a little.
But non the less....The reason for the fight is me staying later to help an old male coworker lock up. And he huffed and puffed and drove away....to never speak to me again.....
Also we come from a conservative culture....and even my father raises his eyebrows a little.
But non the less....The reason for the fight is me staying later to help an old male coworker lock up. And he huffed and puffed and drove away....to never speak to me again.....
yes he was jealous..
i experienced that in my early teens, but i nipped it in the bud fast. most folks who try to control you cant even control themselves. you stand strong and dont put up with his crap. trust me, they are softer inside more than they let on. any man worth his weight will not go to pieces just because you have male friends or choose to live the life you want to live. as long as you love and are faithful to him, what's his problem then? insecurity and lack of real manliness. you could have lied to spare his feelings, but you chose to be honest with him. any man who thinks that a woman is not allowed to have male friends is a loser. men and women work together, and have been childhood friends together. but cancer male thinks that because he comes along, you should abandon the guys you knew before him? if you were sleeping with them, then i would understand. but for all he knows, your male friends could be gay, taken and loyal, or not have any amorous feelings for you at all. i think he is projecting his guilt onto you. how do we know that he doesn't have female friends that he's attracted to or would try to sleep with? a guilty conscious tends to tell on itself.
^hostile much? He is this the dude that dropped you cuz of a dream or is that a different woman?
Posted by renutzuGood gosh man.... This is a nasty post.Posted by LadyYinPot calling the kettle black? You're a lesbian; you wouldn't know what a real man was even if you had a giant dick up your ass. I see this possesiveness and trying to control women in Scorpio men as well. You need to stop posting here; your words hold no weight at all. You're also bipolar as fuck, so it's not healthy for you to post here. You let out too much suppressed hate, then try to do a complete 180.
i experienced that in my early teens, but i nipped it in the bud fast. most folks who try to control you cant even control themselves. you stand strong and dont put up with his crap. trust me, they are softer inside more than they let on. any man worth his weight will not go to pieces just because you have male friends or choose to live the life you want to live. as long as you love and are faithful to him, what's his problem then? insecurity and lack of real manliness. you could have lied to spare his feelings, but you chose to be honest with him. any man who thinks that a woman is not allowed to have male friends is a loser. men and women work together, and have been childhood friends together. but cancer male thinks that because he comes along, you should abandon the guys you knew before him? if you were sleeping with them, then i would understand. but for all he knows, your male friends could be gay, taken and loyal, or not have any amorous feelings for you at all. i think he is projecting his guilt onto you. how do we know that he doesn't have female friends that he's attracted to or would try to sleep with? a guilty conscious tends to tell on itself.click to expand
Did ladyyin reject you. Is that y you this mad. You are a horrible horrible person
Posted by renutzuU on my post. It is my Business. ...go create ur own posting for harassing people...trollGood gosh man.... This is a nasty post.Umph. I'm so offended.
Did ladyyin reject you. Is that y you this mad. You are a horrible horrible person
The girl is a hypocrite with split personality disorder. Mind your business.click to expand
renutzu, woman, why do you always jump on my posts just to bitch? yes im a lesbian. you're always pointing out the obvious in ever comment you make to me. you mad or no? lol. maybe you should go get a dick up your ass. you'd feel better. stop being such a little bitch and maybe you could achieve that. is it that time of the month? need some midol and a snickers? stop bleeding all over yourself.
i am a lesbian now, but i did date men when i was younger. male sag ex used to say i couldnt have male friends. i dropped him like a hot plate. so im not lacking of experience. maybe get a life of your own instead of trying to tell me about mine, which you know nothing of. the only one spewing hate is you, girl. hence all your posts to me ever. stop being a hateful woman and go find your gspot or something. you'll feel better. ta, darling. 😆
i am a lesbian now, but i did date men when i was younger. male sag ex used to say i couldnt have male friends. i dropped him like a hot plate. so im not lacking of experience. maybe get a life of your own instead of trying to tell me about mine, which you know nothing of. the only one spewing hate is you, girl. hence all your posts to me ever. stop being a hateful woman and go find your gspot or something. you'll feel better. ta, darling. 😆
i post where i please. so for you to tell me to stop posting shows how pathetic you are. here's a thought. you dont like it, dont read it. see how that works, ren? i really hate to say this to any woman, but you're being a stupid bitch right now. really, go get that midol so you can calm down. go take your meds and stop sniffing my ass.
got that out your system, girl? i dont represent a sign. i represent myself. but have fun being the dxpnet police, as if anyone cares. you must be a real loser to take even half of this shit here seriously LOL. woman, what you think is calling me out is you actually making yourself look foolish, not me. remember that next time you want to go bleeding around the site, lashing out. is your tampon in too far hun? next time try pads. we all get that time of month but we learn to deal with it. we are young ladies - we do not go on raging bitch fests. at the end, have you achieved what you wanted? or are you making yourself look idiotic? look inside yourself as well, maam.
most women have better things to do than follow a person's comments around and bitch at them. lady, please go get a life. if i want to say whatever l i want to say about cancers or whoever, i will and you will not stop me, no matter how much you cry about it like a child. so you may as well stop trying to control what another person does on their own pc instead of busting your boobs about it. now do put away those nasty emotions, crab. they are showing again and making you look quite unladylike.
most women have better things to do than follow a person's comments around and bitch at them. lady, please go get a life. if i want to say whatever l i want to say about cancers or whoever, i will and you will not stop me, no matter how much you cry about it like a child. so you may as well stop trying to control what another person does on their own pc instead of busting your boobs about it. now do put away those nasty emotions, crab. they are showing again and making you look quite unladylike.
I JUST remembered something. BLOCK FEATURE! i dont have time to waste on a bitter old bitch of a woman. i dont deal with pettiness in real life and i'll be damned if i'm going to deal with it here. talk to my block feature ren. for now and forever. good bye, little bitch 😆
I don't know maybe you should look up the other thousand threads you have posted about this.
Posted by renutzuSuch a total looser.... so much repressed anger.... i guess you one of those 4 eyed geeks.... The kind who never had any friends.... who was/is always shunned a school....ignored by everyone who you want approval from....so u choose to be here degrading and embarrassing everyone's threads.
Time to switch it up; the girl comments as a self defense were only funny the first time.
Block me and feel free to fling your own shit. But knowing how obsessive you are, I know you'll be peeking to see what I have to say. Because deep down, you already know what a big motherfucking hypocrite you are.
"I'm not like all other Scorps!" "Don't stereotype!"
*proceeds to cancer board to stereotype*
Lol
Yin I would be very careful if I was u.....i think renutzu probably actually knows you in real life.... probably even accesses ur computer. Let's test it....change ur user name and see if your ip gets traced and ur new user name gets found out
One of those cross eyed yellow teeth smelly breath people who sat across class from you....or you work with.... and who probably has a shrine to you in their house.... someone who didn't even notice existed...who no once notices exists.... and when they die.....no one even realises it.... stupid freaky creep
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CANCERS I NEED YOUR HELP!!? yes I've read plenty on it but I'm still confused. Why one day he's all into you, next
Then he had an issue when my tops were to low cut....or if they had straps instead of sleeves and how short my shorts were. He kept saying he didn't want people to view he's "special things they need to be kept secret. I gathered he was old school.
last week....i was supposed to meet him after work. I was 5 min late. I stayed to help a male co worker lock up...also while locking up we had a discussion about why the receptionist choose to wear a super pink bra and a chiffon top to work
I made the mistake of been honest with my boyfriend.... He was absolutely livid....so angry with me for one staying alone with a male co worker. He didn't seem to care that he was like 50 and old and repulsive. Secondly for having a conversation about a bra with him. He almost stormed out the resturant. When searching for the waitress to bring us a bill. Didn't wait for me to drive off first as I normally do... He sped off.
The next day I texted good morning. I got a one word reply.
After that he's dissappeared. No texts no calls. I sent him a few messages but nothing...
Is he really that jealous? Is this even possible? Am I supposed to work in a nunnery?