Posted by Endlessly-dreamingDo you find yourself able to talk about emotions easily?
I find myself overly sensitive, but mostly due to the environment. I usually am able to joke around, and make fun of friends and be playful. But in terms of over reacting, it takes me awhile and then someone just tells me that I'm being dramatic and all. Then it brings me back to my sense lol.
As for passive aggressive, I wouldn't consider myself to be passive aggressive. I am mostly straight forward, but I will passively make myself known or like make my presence clear. I wouldn't like intentionally hurt someone passively though. I'm a Pisces sun with a Pisces Stellenium in my chart, so I tolerate a lot. It takes me so much to get angry, but when I am angry I quickly get over things fast. I don't like to hold grudges or hold negative energy because then it'll greatly affect my moods. So I usually tend to talk things out as soon as possible. There has been a few times when I had falling out with close friends, we didnt speak for months, but it was because we were both prideful and I was less evolved haha.
Posted by TimonHaha something i have now come to realize.
They are sooo sensitive. Cry babies. 😛
Posted by MissMPosted by Endlessly-dreamingDo you find yourself able to talk about emotions easily?
I find myself overly sensitive, but mostly due to the environment. I usually am able to joke around, and make fun of friends and be playful. But in terms of over reacting, it takes me awhile and then someone just tells me that I'm being dramatic and all. Then it brings me back to my sense lol.
As for passive aggressive, I wouldn't consider myself to be passive aggressive. I am mostly straight forward, but I will passively make myself known or like make my presence clear. I wouldn't like intentionally hurt someone passively though. I'm a Pisces sun with a Pisces Stellenium in my chart, so I tolerate a lot. It takes me so much to get angry, but when I am angry I quickly get over things fast. I don't like to hold grudges or hold negative energy because then it'll greatly affect my moods. So I usually tend to talk things out as soon as possible. There has been a few times when I had falling out with close friends, we didnt speak for months, but it was because we were both prideful and I was less evolved haha.
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Posted by Endlessly-dreamingIts funny cause I didn't realize how sensitive he is. I'm a gemini and I do have a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor. One minute we're joking and the next minute he's gone serious and says i've taken it too far then i'm just confused lolPosted by MissMPosted by Endlessly-dreamingDo you find yourself able to talk about emotions easily?
I find myself overly sensitive, but mostly due to the environment. I usually am able to joke around, and make fun of friends and be playful. But in terms of over reacting, it takes me awhile and then someone just tells me that I'm being dramatic and all. Then it brings me back to my sense lol.
As for passive aggressive, I wouldn't consider myself to be passive aggressive. I am mostly straight forward, but I will passively make myself known or like make my presence clear. I wouldn't like intentionally hurt someone passively though. I'm a Pisces sun with a Pisces Stellenium in my chart, so I tolerate a lot. It takes me so much to get angry, but when I am angry I quickly get over things fast. I don't like to hold grudges or hold negative energy because then it'll greatly affect my moods. So I usually tend to talk things out as soon as possible. There has been a few times when I had falling out with close friends, we didnt speak for months, but it was because we were both prideful and I was less evolved haha.
Yeah, I find it very easy to talk about my emotions, but mostly with the people I trust. Otherwise, if I am not comfortable enough, I will internalize them or keep them away until I can build enough trust. However, if the environment calls for a trusting discussion about my emotions, then I am usually able to talk about them easily. In other words, the environment and person/people play a huge role, at least for me.
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Posted by MissMAhh, the flip of moods is definitely his Cancer Moon. I think he just needs to realize that you have no harm in what you are saying when you play around like that. I feel like it’s an issue that he needs to fix because I think the best relationships, romantic, platonic and/or sexual is when you’re able to joke around like that.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingIts funny cause I didn't realize how sensitive he is. I'm a gemini and I do have a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor. One minute we're joking and the next minute he's gone serious and says i've taken it too far then i'm just confused lolPosted by MissMPosted by Endlessly-dreamingDo you find yourself able to talk about emotions easily?
I find myself overly sensitive, but mostly due to the environment. I usually am able to joke around, and make fun of friends and be playful. But in terms of over reacting, it takes me awhile and then someone just tells me that I'm being dramatic and all. Then it brings me back to my sense lol.
As for passive aggressive, I wouldn't consider myself to be passive aggressive. I am mostly straight forward, but I will passively make myself known or like make my presence clear. I wouldn't like intentionally hurt someone passively though. I'm a Pisces sun with a Pisces Stellenium in my chart, so I tolerate a lot. It takes me so much to get angry, but when I am angry I quickly get over things fast. I don't like to hold grudges or hold negative energy because then it'll greatly affect my moods. So I usually tend to talk things out as soon as possible. There has been a few times when I had falling out with close friends, we didnt speak for months, but it was because we were both prideful and I was less evolved haha.
Yeah, I find it very easy to talk about my emotions, but mostly with the people I trust. Otherwise, if I am not comfortable enough, I will internalize them or keep them away until I can build enough trust. However, if the environment calls for a trusting discussion about my emotions, then I am usually able to talk about them easily. In other words, the environment and person/people play a huge role, at least for me.
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Posted by Endlessly-dreamingOh and I think his venus is in aries.Posted by MissMAhh, the flip of moods is definitely his Cancer Moon. I think he just needs to realize that you have no harm in what you are saying when you play around like that. I feel like it’s an issue that he needs to fix because I think the best relationships, romantic, platonic and/or sexual is when you’re able to joke around like that.Posted by Endlessly-dreamingIts funny cause I didn't realize how sensitive he is. I'm a gemini and I do have a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor. One minute we're joking and the next minute he's gone serious and says i've taken it too far then i'm just confused lolPosted by MissMPosted by Endlessly-dreamingDo you find yourself able to talk about emotions easily?
I find myself overly sensitive, but mostly due to the environment. I usually am able to joke around, and make fun of friends and be playful. But in terms of over reacting, it takes me awhile and then someone just tells me that I'm being dramatic and all. Then it brings me back to my sense lol.
As for passive aggressive, I wouldn't consider myself to be passive aggressive. I am mostly straight forward, but I will passively make myself known or like make my presence clear. I wouldn't like intentionally hurt someone passively though. I'm a Pisces sun with a Pisces Stellenium in my chart, so I tolerate a lot. It takes me so much to get angry, but when I am angry I quickly get over things fast. I don't like to hold grudges or hold negative energy because then it'll greatly affect my moods. So I usually tend to talk things out as soon as possible. There has been a few times when I had falling out with close friends, we didnt speak for months, but it was because we were both prideful and I was less evolved haha.
Yeah, I find it very easy to talk about my emotions, but mostly with the people I trust. Otherwise, if I am not comfortable enough, I will internalize them or keep them away until I can build enough trust. However, if the environment calls for a trusting discussion about my emotions, then I am usually able to talk about them easily. In other words, the environment and person/people play a huge role, at least for me.
I’m curious, do you know his sun and Venus sign? I feel like those play a huge role as well.
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Posted by MissMInteresting. I dated a Cancer sun with an Aqua moon and it lasted for 4 years. But as much as an Aqua moon likes their space, so do I as a Pisces. But yeah, I think it’s best to give him his space to cool off. It seems like he was really hurt by it and by default, acted irrationally by deleting you off of social media. But you did have your interpretation of the whole situation which is valid considering dating culture nowadays lol
His sun is gemini. We actually have the same bday but i'm an aqua moon.
Actually thats not why he's not talking to me. He usually gets over when i'm joking with him but I think thats when I first noticed how sensitive he actually is.
He's not talking to me cause when we first starting hanging out he kept saying he was super busy and I just took that as he wasn't interested and I said maybe we'll talk again when your not as busy just assuming that we wouldn't cause he wasn't interested, we had only been on 2 dates and we slept together on the second so I kinda just assumed he was a fuck boy so I told him that then deleted him off my facebook. Anyway we started talking to each other again and went out another 2 times then he had to move away to finish uni for 3 months and we spoke a bit but now he's just realized i unfriended him on facebook and has gone legit crazy like first acted though he didn't care then deleted me off all other social media and won't respond to me. I sent a msg to explain that, that was 5 months ago when I told him I didn't think we should speak... but no response.
Posted by WhorpioWhat is the longest yours has stayed angry at you? Is there anything you do to pull him out of it or make him realize your point of view...
I’m dating one of these, with Aries Venus as well 🙂
I think he is sensitive, but he internalizes it because he knows he is over-reacting.
It takes a lot to anger him because he gives lots of chances and is generally thick headed, but once he is there it will last very very long. His ex cheated on him 5 years ago and he still hasn’t forgiven her! Or his current situation right now, his roommate is an asshole and it’s causing a lot of rift, but he chooses not to anything; he’s just like “well I only have 8 months left in the contract”. So I’d say the Gemini sun makes them mutable enough to adjust their reactions.
I should note that he told me once he is pushed into anger he explodes, but I have yet to see that. I think it is more passive aggressive, as you said.
I’m excited for you though!! This is a great combo of placements imo. He makes me happy. I’m sure yours could make you happy if it works out!!! They’re great ❤️❤️❤️
Posted by FknNerdIts kind of nice that i'm not the crazy one for once lol
Its the combination of air sun and water moon. They have no stability and go batshit crazy.
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I’m dating one of these, with Aries Venus as well 🙂
I think he is sensitive, but he internalizes it because he knows he is over-reacting.
It takes a lot to anger him because he gives lots of chances and is generally thick headed, but once he is there it will last very very long. His ex cheated on him 5 years ago and he still hasn’t forgiven her! Or his current situation right now, his roommate is an asshole and it’s causing a lot of rift, but he chooses not to anything; he’s just like “well I only have 8 months left in the contract”. So I’d say the Gemini sun makes them mutable enough to adjust their reactions.
I should note that he told me once he is pushed into anger he explodes, but I have yet to see that. I think it is more passive aggressive, as you said.
I’m excited for you though!! This is a great combo of placements imo. He makes me happy. I’m sure yours could make you happy if it works out!!! They’re great ❤️❤️❤️
What is the longest yours has stayed angry at you? Is there anything you do to pull him out of it or make him realize your point of view...
I feel like he's acting like I just killed his first born or something lol I'm surprised by his actions I usually date sagi's who just pretend they aren't mad at you when they secretly are lolclick to expand
Posted by Endlessly-dreamingI sent the message on saturday morning and never got a response. Then I sent another text this morning just saying 😢 I don't like you being grumpy at me. i'm sorry if i acted hastily. How are you going? And no response to that either. I'm now wondering if he's blocked my number...Posted by MissMInteresting. I dated a Cancer sun with an Aqua moon and it lasted for 4 years. But as much as an Aqua moon likes their space, so do I as a Pisces. But yeah, I think it’s best to give him his space to cool off. It seems like he was really hurt by it and by default, acted irrationally by deleting you off of social media. But you did have your interpretation of the whole situation which is valid considering dating culture nowadays lol
His sun is gemini. We actually have the same bday but i'm an aqua moon.
Actually thats not why he's not talking to me. He usually gets over when i'm joking with him but I think thats when I first noticed how sensitive he actually is.
He's not talking to me cause when we first starting hanging out he kept saying he was super busy and I just took that as he wasn't interested and I said maybe we'll talk again when your not as busy just assuming that we wouldn't cause he wasn't interested, we had only been on 2 dates and we slept together on the second so I kinda just assumed he was a fuck boy so I told him that then deleted him off my facebook. Anyway we started talking to each other again and went out another 2 times then he had to move away to finish uni for 3 months and we spoke a bit but now he's just realized i unfriended him on facebook and has gone legit crazy like first acted though he didn't care then deleted me off all other social media and won't respond to me. I sent a msg to explain that, that was 5 months ago when I told him I didn't think we should speak... but no response.
It’s also interesting that his Venus is in Aries because usually that’d drive one to fix things quickly. My Venus is also in Aries so I can speak from experience.
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Posted by WhorpioHow does he behave when he is jealous? Does he just come out and tell you?Posted by MissMPosted by Whorpio
I’m dating one of these, with Aries Venus as well 🙂
I think he is sensitive, but he internalizes it because he knows he is over-reacting.
It takes a lot to anger him because he gives lots of chances and is generally thick headed, but once he is there it will last very very long. His ex cheated on him 5 years ago and he still hasn’t forgiven her! Or his current situation right now, his roommate is an asshole and it’s causing a lot of rift, but he chooses not to anything; he’s just like “well I only have 8 months left in the contract”. So I’d say the Gemini sun makes them mutable enough to adjust their reactions.
I should note that he told me once he is pushed into anger he explodes, but I have yet to see that. I think it is more passive aggressive, as you said.
I’m excited for you though!! This is a great combo of placements imo. He makes me happy. I’m sure yours could make you happy if it works out!!! They’re great ❤️❤️❤️
What is the longest yours has stayed angry at you? Is there anything you do to pull him out of it or make him realize your point of view...
I feel like he's acting like I just killed his first born or something lol I'm surprised by his actions I usually date sagi's who just pretend they aren't mad at you when they secretly are lol
I think he has yet to get angry at me. He gets jealous, but not angry. We’ve only been together a month though so idk. He always says he’ll never get mad at me though 🤔🤔
Lmaooo I’m Sagittarius dominant. I don’t stay mad at all. I may pretend like I’m mad to yank your chain and understand the workings of your consciousness, especially when you “know” you did something “wrong” 😂😂 But I don’t get seriously mad; just annoyed. And the sagies I’ve been with seemed to have explosive tempers at their worst.click to expand
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I think he has yet to get angry at me. He gets jealous, but not angry. We’ve only been together a month though so idk. He always says he’ll never get mad at me though 🤔🤔
Lmaooo I’m Sagittarius dominant. I don’t stay mad at all. I may pretend like I’m mad to yank your chain and understand the workings of your consciousness, especially when you “know” you did something “wrong” 😂😂 But I don’t get seriously mad; just annoyed. And the sagies I’ve been with seemed to have explosive tempers at their worst.
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Posted by WhorpioIts funny cause I am actually a very jealous person. I just would never show it. I'm more the type who would try and make them jealous so they know how it feels lol....real healthy, or notPosted by MissMPosted by Whorpio
I think he has yet to get angry at me. He gets jealous, but not angry. We’ve only been together a month though so idk. He always says he’ll never get mad at me though 🤔🤔
Lmaooo I’m Sagittarius dominant. I don’t stay mad at all. I may pretend like I’m mad to yank your chain and understand the workings of your consciousness, especially when you “know” you did something “wrong” 😂😂 But I don’t get seriously mad; just annoyed. And the sagies I’ve been with seemed to have explosive tempers at their worst.
How does he behave when he is jealous? Does he just come out and tell you?
Yeah he pretty much told me. He was like, “I may not show it, but I do get very jealous about the others guys you talk to...I just don’t want to seem controlling”.
Sometimes he’ll ask who I’m texting or when we’re next to each other he’ll literally read what I’m typing to people. IDC though, I ain’t got nothin to hide 😎click to expand
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Yeah he pretty much told me. He was like, “I may not show it, but I do get very jealous about the others guys you talk to...I just don’t want to seem controlling”.
Sometimes he’ll ask who I’m texting or when we’re next to each other he’ll literally read what I’m typing to people. IDC though, I ain’t got nothin to hide 😎
Its funny cause I am actually a very jealous person. I just would never show it. I'm more the type who would try and make them jealous so they know how it feels lol....real healthy, or not
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Posted by WhorpioActually its funny you say that. The one I was seeing sometime works at a bar and one day txtd me going bartended tonight and wasn't there 5 mins before some gay guy hit on me and some girl gave me her hotel room number upstairs. All I replied was sounds like a normal saturday night to me. We hadn't spoken all week so I was like why is he telling me this and I think it was to make me jealous.Posted by MissMPosted by Whorpio
Yeah he pretty much told me. He was like, “I may not show it, but I do get very jealous about the others guys you talk to...I just don’t want to seem controlling”.
Sometimes he’ll ask who I’m texting or when we’re next to each other he’ll literally read what I’m typing to people. IDC though, I ain’t got nothin to hide 😎
Its funny cause I am actually a very jealous person. I just would never show it. I'm more the type who would try and make them jealous so they know how it feels lol....real healthy, or not
Its good that he can verbalize it though. I would really appreciate if someone told me that
Bro I feel like he used to try to make me jealous in the early days. He’d be like “You’re so lucky; the other day I went out to eat with my coworker and I saw this waitress but I decided not to look because I love you.” I was like diiiick. I feel like he does that because I tell him about all the guys who hit on me.
I think he verbalized the jealousy part because sometimes I’ll act jealous by looking through his Snapchat. But I only do it because some hoe sent him a picture of herself in a bath tub!!! To be fair it was a mass-snap she def sent to all the boys in her Snapchat, but it still rubbed me the wrong way. At least he told me about it, but it still put me on edge. I’m slowly starting to trust him though.click to expand
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Bro I feel like he used to try to make me jealous in the early days. He’d be like “You’re so lucky; the other day I went out to eat with my coworker and I saw this waitress but I decided not to look because I love you.” I was like diiiick. I feel like he does that because I tell him about all the guys who hit on me.
I think he verbalized the jealousy part because sometimes I’ll act jealous by looking through his Snapchat. But I only do it because some hoe sent him a picture of herself in a bath tub!!! To be fair it was a mass-snap she def sent to all the boys in her Snapchat, but it still rubbed me the wrong way. At least he told me about it, but it still put me on edge. I’m slowly starting to trust him though.
Actually its funny you say that. The one I was seeing sometime works at a bar and one day txtd me going bartended tonight and wasn't there 5 mins before some gay guy hit on me and some girl gave me her hotel room number upstairs. All I replied was sounds like a normal saturday night to me. We hadn't spoken all week so I was like why is he telling me this and I think it was to make me jealous.
But he does have a lot of girls on fb which is also one of the reasons i decided to unfriend him, cause I didn't want to see what other girls he was chatting to ect. It makes me paranoid lol.
Also at least he told you, but in my head i would have been loosing my shit lol I would secretly be deleting her from his snapchat lolclick to expand
Posted by WhorpioHahaha thanks for the pro tip. Although it also means they could have responded to one...Posted by MissMPosted by Whorpio
Bro I feel like he used to try to make me jealous in the early days. He’d be like “You’re so lucky; the other day I went out to eat with my coworker and I saw this waitress but I decided not to look because I love you.” I was like diiiick. I feel like he does that because I tell him about all the guys who hit on me.
I think he verbalized the jealousy part because sometimes I’ll act jealous by looking through his Snapchat. But I only do it because some hoe sent him a picture of herself in a bath tub!!! To be fair it was a mass-snap she def sent to all the boys in her Snapchat, but it still rubbed me the wrong way. At least he told me about it, but it still put me on edge. I’m slowly starting to trust him though.
Actually its funny you say that. The one I was seeing sometime works at a bar and one day txtd me going bartended tonight and wasn't there 5 mins before some gay guy hit on me and some girl gave me her hotel room number upstairs. All I replied was sounds like a normal saturday night to me. We hadn't spoken all week so I was like why is he telling me this and I think it was to make me jealous.
But he does have a lot of girls on fb which is also one of the reasons i decided to unfriend him, cause I didn't want to see what other girls he was chatting to ect. It makes me paranoid lol.
Also at least he told you, but in my head i would have been loosing my shit lol I would secretly be deleting her from his snapchat lol
It’s funny how similar these Gemini’s are 😂😂😂
Well at first I didn’t know which Snapchat person it was. He just told me it happened and that he shot her down immediately. I finally figured out who it was when we were opening all the snaps people sent him except hers. So then I asked what that was about and he just said he was really embarassed about the bath tub thing and he was scared about me seeing if she sent that again. Bless his heart 💕 Then he proceeded to say we’ll block her together if it happens again. But apparently she has a bf now so she quit 🤔🤔 I believe him, for now.
Pro tip: The real telltale is seeing who sent a snap last. If there is an arrow next to a username, that means yo bf is making moves. If the square is next to the name, it means he curvin them 😌
I’m glad he dunt use Facebook though. He sometimes contemplates about making a new one. In the back of my mind I’m sayin a prayer to god hoping he won’t actually do it 😂😂click to expand
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It’s funny how similar these Gemini’s are 😂😂😂
Well at first I didn’t know which Snapchat person it was. He just told me it happened and that he shot her down immediately. I finally figured out who it was when we were opening all the snaps people sent him except hers. So then I asked what that was about and he just said he was really embarassed about the bath tub thing and he was scared about me seeing if she sent that again. Bless his heart 💕 Then he proceeded to say we’ll block her together if it happens again. But apparently she has a bf now so she quit 🤔🤔 I believe him, for now.
Pro tip: The real telltale is seeing who sent a snap last. If there is an arrow next to a username, that means yo bf is making moves. If the square is next to the name, it means he curvin them 😌
I’m glad he dunt use Facebook though. He sometimes contemplates about making a new one. In the back of my mind I’m sayin a prayer to god hoping he won’t actually do it 😂😂
Hahaha thanks for the pro tip. Although it also means they could have responded to one...
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Posted by Neno2Sure. Do you find yourself quite sensitive? Do you show it or hide it? Easily jealous? Spill the secrets lolPosted by AneemA04U want to know about my cancer moon?🤔
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Posted by AneemA04How do you experience the placement?Posted by Neno2The op wants to know. I'm a cancer moon. I'm familiar with it. Dunno how it would affect males who have that placement thoPosted by AneemA04U want to know about my cancer moon?🤔
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Posted by Neno2So you hold it in then burst if your angry?Posted by MissMasking a Scorpio to spill the secrets😃not a good approachPosted by Neno2Posted by AneemA04U want to know about my cancer moon?🤔
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Sure. Do you find yourself quite sensitive? Do you show it or hide it? Easily jealous? Spill the secrets lol
But i answer one of your questions as sign of good will😃i dont show any emotions 99% of timeclick to expand
Posted by WhorpioWell last week after i said about not liking to have guys i'm not exclusive with on my social media cause usually it doesn't work out and i have to end up deleting them anyway this week i'm overseas and sent him a msg to check in and got a msg saying just for transperency i'm kind of talking to someone. Honestly i have no idea whats going to happen with it but yeah. I just replied with thanks for letting me know i kind of figured you were keeping your options open so no biggy. Its just weird that he's only now telling me this. Maybe cause he's just gotten back but if your just talking to someone i think its a bit weird, maybe something more has been going on between them... Or he's just trying to get a reaction out of me. Either way i guess i just won't contact him again. I don't need to compete for a mans attentionPosted by MissMPosted by Whorpio
It’s funny how similar these Gemini’s are 😂😂😂
Well at first I didn’t know which Snapchat person it was. He just told me it happened and that he shot her down immediately. I finally figured out who it was when we were opening all the snaps people sent him except hers. So then I asked what that was about and he just said he was really embarassed about the bath tub thing and he was scared about me seeing if she sent that again. Bless his heart 💕 Then he proceeded to say we’ll block her together if it happens again. But apparently she has a bf now so she quit 🤔🤔 I believe him, for now.
Pro tip: The real telltale is seeing who sent a snap last. If there is an arrow next to a username, that means yo bf is making moves. If the square is next to the name, it means he curvin them 😌
I’m glad he dunt use Facebook though. He sometimes contemplates about making a new one. In the back of my mind I’m sayin a prayer to god hoping he won’t actually do it 😂😂
Hahaha thanks for the pro tip. Although it also means they could have responded to one...
How did you handle it when he tried to make you jealous?
True, but I still don’t see him as the type to outwardly throw himself out there. Especially when all those friends know he has a girlfriend. And he likes to have the last word when flirting; so I’d know there would be an arrow next to a girls name if he was up to no good. Aries Venus like to chase, or at least actively participate 😃😃 So if they stop responding to your advances, re-assess where you stand.
Welp the last incident I can think of about him trying to make me jealous is that waitress remark. It didn’t take a second thought for me to realize he was saying that because I was telling him about all the men hitting on me at the car repair shop a couple nights earlier 😬😬click to expand
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Either way i guess i just won't contact him again. I don't need to compete for a mans attention
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