@Keres
10 YearsCancer
Do you miss and/or still have feelings for any of your exes?
Do You Still Have Feelings for Your Exes
It is common to have lingering feelings for an ex after a breakup. Emotions vary based on the relationship's duration and impact. Reflecting on your feelings can help you understand if they stem from attachment or genuine care. Moving on may involve healing and self-discovery to create space for new connections.
Yes.
Dreamed about him last night. Long lost.
I can't relate to eligible men at this point. My mind is not geared correctly. Still stuck on an old gear. It's ridiculous.
Posted by Tahva13
I'd have to say the answer would be No. Sometimes I will think about how it could have turned out, but I usually end up realizing thinking that way is a waste of time.
In my head I put it like this; "They had their chance, they don't get another."
This isn't to say that this rule always necessarily applies entirely, but I am not the type to stay hung up on something. Either you or with me or you or not, as soon as you decided that you are not you are pretty much written off in my mind. Now I will admit it is possible for an Ex to change and become better, and that there were times in the past especially right after the break up that I would miss my Ex a lot.
It is perfectly normal to miss your Ex within the first 4 months after the break up depending on how serious the relationship sometimes longer, however usually after you start dating another person and actually find something that is as or more fulfilling than your last relationship that fades and dies away.
A lot of the time a relationship doesn't work out for a reason, and wasting time thinking about if you did something wrong, or if maybe you just didn't work hard enough doesn't fix that. You made your decision. Stick with it.
Without reading, if you write that much you are still stuck.
I hope someone can shed light to this. I have had .... 3 years with no resolve. P i t I f u l. Meh.
It comes in waves...normally when I'm in my feelings but most days, nahhh
I definitely have positive memories of feelings for my exes.
As for actual feelings, no, probably not.. that requires proximity and energy exchange, imo, and I haven't been in touch with most of them for awhile.
Posted by Andalusia
I definitely have positive memories of feelings for my exes.As for actual feelings, no, probably not.. that requires proximity and energy exchange, imo, and I haven't been in touch with most of them for awhile.
My bad. Just realized this is on a sign specific board, not a general one.
Posted by sunkisses26
yyyyyyeeessss!!! 😢do you?
Unfortunately... 😢
Posted by Andalusia
I definitely have positive memories of feelings for my exes.As for actual feelings, no, probably not.. that requires proximity and energy exchange, imo, and I haven't been in touch with most of them for awhile.
My bad. Just realized this is on a sign specific board, not a general one.
click to expand
Anyone is welcome to answer 🙂
Is slow and meticulous dismemberment a feelings?
I miss and think about all my exes. Though I know that we did not work and are ultimately incompatible, the good times and memories still made it worth it to try.
disclaimer: my exes may have a different answer to this... :p
Posted by rabidtalker
I miss and think about all my exes. Though I know that we did not work and are ultimately incompatible, the good times and memories still made it worth it to try.disclaimer: my exes may have a different answer to this... :p
Haha, good point. I can't help wondering if he (Cancer ex) misses me and thinks about me...
Yes in regards to most of them. A lot of regrets and wishing I could have done things better, handled things differently.
I'm not even sure closure really exists. A few times I thought I had closure but then it fades after a while.
Posted by Mohini
I hope someone can shed light to this. I have had .... 3 years with no resolve. P i t I f u l. Meh.
What's your moon sign?
Yes I'm currently going through pains of missing a guy I used to talk to. He was a Sagg....and the times we shared were amazing from going to the beach at midnight gazing upon the stars to slow dancing drunk at 2 am to oldies with each other. He drove me crazy, but I was on fire for him. Sometimes I wish he could feel how much I cared for him, telepathically (lol) and show up at my doorstep.
Was with one man most of my life. It's hard not to think about him once in a while. But to miss him or have feelings for him? No. That ship has sailed.
My ex Scorpiož. We just broke up a few weeks back due to some issues against he is going through. Still love him tho and miss him. I have never broken up whilst still in ❤.
Posted by sunkisses26
yyyyyyeeessss!!! 😢do you?
Unfortunately... 😢
sigh same! don't give in though....you guys are ex's for a reason....
click to expand
No worries there. I have a boyfriend who treats me SO much better!
Posted by rabidtalker
I miss and think about all my exes. Though I know that we did not work and are ultimately incompatible, the good times and memories still made it worth it to try.disclaimer: my exes may have a different answer to this... :p
Haha, good point. I can't help wondering if he (Cancer ex) misses me and thinks about me...
I've had 3 cancers reappear post breakup so it's possible
click to expand
I blocked him, so he can't contact me anymore. He hurt me so badly, and I had to move on, so I completely removed him from my life. I still can't help wondering, like I said, if I'm ever on his mind, but I won't give him the opportunity to ever hurt me again.
Posted by capricornmoon
2 of them.A Libra and an Aries. The Libra, I'm convinced is nuttier than a psych ward patient. The Aries is a man Hoe.
so that's a "no" ? lol !
No bih
Most cancer men I know like to keep tap on their exes.
Posted by capricornmoon
2 of them.A Libra and an Aries. The Libra, I'm convinced is nuttier than a psych ward patient. The Aries is a man Hoe.
so that's a "no" ? lol !
Lol. No, it isn't a no. They were hot messes and yet I still have feelings for them.
I'm pathetic, lol.
click to expand
don't go there - we've all been there ... my son is 37 and I still have the hots for what his father and I had - dam Virgo!
Posted by Illuminati
Most cancer men I know like to keep tap on their exes.
ew
I do but I am better off without them.
Yeah. And i dream about her every night.
Posted by rabidtalker
I miss and think about all my exes. Though I know that we did not work and are ultimately incompatible, the good times and memories still made it worth it to try.disclaimer: my exes may have a different answer to this... :p
Haha, good point. I can't help wondering if he (Cancer ex) misses me and thinks about me...
I've had 3 cancers reappear post breakup so it's possible
I blocked him, so he can't contact me anymore. He hurt me so badly, and I had to move on, so I completely removed him from my life. I still can't help wondering, like I said, if I'm ever on his mind, but I won't give him the opportunity to ever hurt me again.
click to expand
Curiosity has peaked on this, when did the blocking take place?
Something is definitely going on because two cancer from my past have reached out to me. One is a female friend and the second is my old best friend who was in love with me. I never dated him nor lead him on, but he just loved me. Comes around time to time, but this time he contacted me after three yrs.
Posted by Mohini
I hope someone can shed light to this. I have had .... 3 years with no resolve. P i t I f u l. Meh.What's your moon sign?
click to expand
Leeb moon 3rd house
Posted by rabidtalker
I miss and think about all my exes. Though I know that we did not work and are ultimately incompatible, the good times and memories still made it worth it to try.disclaimer: my exes may have a different answer to this... :p
Haha, good point. I can't help wondering if he (Cancer ex) misses me and thinks about me...
I've had 3 cancers reappear post breakup so it's possible
I blocked him, so he can't contact me anymore. He hurt me so badly, and I had to move on, so I completely removed him from my life. I still can't help wondering, like I said, if I'm ever on his mind, but I won't give him the opportunity to ever hurt me again.
Curiosity has peaked on this, when did the blocking take place?
click to expand
Almost 2 months ago
Talk about coincidence. My ex blocked me from everything about a month ago because she was getting pissed off at me begging for her return.
Want to keep conversations like this alive?
Commitment fears in Cancer can be difficult to read. If these experiences helped you understand the situation, support helps keep them available.
Every contribution helps keep dxpnet independent and ad-light.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →
Do you miss and/or still have feelings for any of your exes?