Who Wants They Ex Back?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by DMV on Friday, November 22, 2019 and has 34 replies.

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

I never want an ex back. But they usually want me back cause I'm level headed and not crazy. They realize what they had vs what's out there 😆

I had my Gemini Ex and Scorpio Ex who's hung around for years and now the last Virgo I was dealing with wants a relationship, but I don't like him and can't go back to his games, so that's a no.

So instead, I'm entertaining an emotionally unavailable guy who ignores me- Just the way I like it! 😭

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by saggurl88

I never want an ex back. But they usually want me back cause I'm level headed and not crazy. They realize what they had vs what's out there 😆

I had my Gemini Ex and Scorpio Ex who's hung around for years and now the last Virgo I was dealing with wants a relationship, but I don't like him and can't go back to his games, so that's a no.

So instead, I'm entertaining an emotionally unavailable guy who ignores me- Just the way I like it! 😭

😂😂😂😂🤔.

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@saggurl88
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Posted by DMV
Posted by saggurl88

I never want an ex back. But they usually want me back cause I'm level headed and not crazy. They realize what they had vs what's out there 😆

I had my Gemini Ex and Scorpio Ex who's hung around for years and now the last Virgo I was dealing with wants a relationship, but I don't like him and can't go back to his games, so that's a no.

So instead, I'm entertaining an emotionally unavailable guy who ignores me- Just the way I like it! 😭

😂😂😂😂🤔.

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I'm so sad! lol I'm glad he doesn't know how much I will put up with lol- At least for now until he pisses me off and I cut him loose.

I basically sit and wait for shit to happen on his time smh. I like this torture though. It teaches me patience lol I'll kill him slowly when I see him! 😄

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@Taurus_mn
8 Years

Yes.

She ended it, petty reasons yet again(probably the 100th time now)

I’d take her back if she got her mind right for once. She’s out fuckingn every guy now unfortunately

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15 Years10,000+ Posts

Define ex? Someone you only "dated" or were in an actual relationship?

If only the latter...

Yes and no.

He stop talking to me...not by his choice nor mine, universe kinda had the final say there lol.

Ummm idk...he was my lobster 😆 but majority of the relationship was kinda toxic. Who knows how it would be now that we'd be older tho...every year seemed to get better and better.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Define ex? Someone you only "dated" or were in an actual relationship?

If only the latter...

Yes and no.

He stop talking to me...not by his choice nor mine, universe kinda had the final say there lol.

Ummm idk...he was my lobster 😆 but majority of the relationship was kinda toxic. Who knows how it would be now that we'd be older tho...every year seemed to get better and better.

Anyone you had to "brake" it off with

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Posted by DMV
Posted by LostinmyMind11

Define ex? Someone you only "dated" or were in an actual relationship?

If only the latter...

Yes and no.

He stop talking to me...not by his choice nor mine, universe kinda had the final say there lol.

Ummm idk...he was my lobster 😆 but majority of the relationship was kinda toxic. Who knows how it would be now that we'd be older tho...every year seemed to get better and better.

Anyone you had to "brake" it off with

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The creepy Sag guy I dated but he still doesn't get it no matter how many times I tell him. He's gone right now but he'll be back trying again lol.

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Posted by poeticseraphim
Posted by LostinmyMind11

Define ex? Someone you only "dated" or were in an actual relationship?

If only the latter...

Yes and no.

He stop talking to me...not by his choice nor mine, universe kinda had the final say there lol.

Ummm idk...he was my lobster 😆 but majority of the relationship was kinda toxic. Who knows how it would be now that we'd be older tho...every year seemed to get better and better.

We are talking actual relationships. I don't consider someone i dated an ex.

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Are we? or are you just assuming because you don't consider someone you dated an ex? That's why I asked for clarification...not everyone is on the same page with it.

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Posted by DMV

If you say YES...

1.) Who stopped talking to who?

2.) Why do you want them back?

Yes!

I ended it. But we never stopped talking smh.

I did it honestly for punishment- didn’t think she was still into me but we were just in a bad place due to issues in the relationship....

both hurt, trying to heal.... was unhappy 🙁

But love each other deeply- still

Weird situation all feelings there just can’t act on them !

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10 Years1,000+ Posts

Not this guys...

Girlfriends this days. 😏

PS.Wouldn't be surprised if all those girls are members on DXP - complaining about their exes.🤫🤭

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Posted by NemDeux
Posted by neves

Not this guys...

Girlfriends this days. 😏

PS.Wouldn't be surprised if all those girls are members on DXP - complaining about their exes.🤫🤭

I have always wondered what pushes them over the edge. This is scary behaviour; and I can imagine under these circumstances that violence escalates.

On another note, the woman in the THIRD clip reminded me of a mountain lion. The screeching, stalking and pouncing. Wow.

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Especially since quite a lot of people (be it men or women) - have a tendency to abuse every flaw in the their societal system. Which obviously was worse in the past - in a time when religion and monarchy had absolute authority over most people (i guess that's still true even today - in certain regions). I mean, was enough for someone to be jealous or envious of their neighbors and accuse them of witchery - which would get them tortured and hanged afterwards. Anyway, in scenarios like the ones from above videos - women had/have a tendency to use the victim card - to take revenge on their execs (since society deems women as helpless in an altercation with men - some women use/d this detail in their favor - instigating and causing harm - only to play the victim card afterwards and get favored simply for being a woman). And yes, there's also situations where that's actually true - but those cases are usually more transparent (the guy has a history with violent behavior, the harm is visible both on a physical level and emotional - which again, it's a human thing - since even men can display the same freaked-out expression - after going through a traumatic experience - where they were helpless). Fortunately, some of us are luckier to live in modern societies - where the benefits of evolution proved to be quite helpful in this regard. As it's the case with smartphones capable of recording (at a good quality too) - becoming a mainstream product (sure paints a different image compared to earlier times when this wasn't possible - and those guys would probably end-up arrested). Which reminds me - abusive police officers are sure to hate this technological evolution as well...

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Posted by NemDeux
Posted by neves
Posted by NemDeux
Posted by neves

Not this guys...

Girlfriends this days. 😏

PS.Wouldn't be surprised if all those girls are members on DXP - complaining about their exes.🤫🤭

I have always wondered what pushes them over the edge. This is scary behaviour; and I can imagine under these circumstances that violence escalates.

On another note, the woman in the THIRD clip reminded me of a mountain lion. The screeching, stalking and pouncing. Wow.


Especially since quite a lot of people (be it men or women) - have a tendency to abuse every flaw in the their societal system. Which obviously was worse in the past - in a time when religion and monarchy had absolute authority over most people (i guess that's still true even today - in certain regions). I mean, was enough for someone to be jealous or envious of their neighbors and accuse them of witchery - which would get them tortured and hanged afterwards. Anyway, in scenarios like the ones from above videos - women had/have a tendency to use the victim card - to take revenge on their execs (since society deems women as helpless in an altercation with men - some women use/d this detail in their favor - instigating and causing harm - only to play the victim card afterwards and get favored simply for being a woman). And yes, there's also situations where that's actually true - but those cases are usually more transparent (the guy has a history with violent behavior, the harm is visible both on a physical level and emotional - which again, it's a human thing - since even men can display the same freaked-out expression - after going through a traumatic experience - where they were helpless). Fortunately, some of us are luckier to live in modern societies - where the benefits of evolution proved to be quite helpful in this regard. As it's the case with smartphones capable of recording (at a good quality too) - becoming a mainstream product (sure paints a different image compared to earlier times when this wasn't possible - and those guys would probably end-up arrested). Which reminds me - abusive police officers are sure to hate this technological evolution as well...


I wanna say, after watching the previous video I was thinking about two things. Justifiable violence and Bill Burr's sketch about "there is never a reason to hit a woman" (i can name five off the top of my head). It's not that one should do it, but there are understandable reasons why one would/could.

Also, this piece of entitled shit: up for a free round house kick imo.

I will say men are treated more swiftly and harsher by law enforcement than females. It's wrong.

There are huge assholes on both teams. Not your gender, your crime should be up for discussion.

All this and more thanks to loss of common sense, over the top PC and societal conditioning.

Also, if somebody yells in my face "HIT ME, BITCH" it should not be forbidden by the law.

Some people just ask for trouble.

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To a large extent - we're all shaped by our human condition. Same goes for entailed people (more often than not it's either the younger sibling or the only child - someone who was pampered or got away with doing a lot of shit - without any repercussions). Children learn the art of manipulation from a very young age (even if they understand that they're doing something wrong or more like - especially - they keep trying to see how far they can push the envelope... and if their parents don't act like parents - this behavior will stick with them - just one of the ways in which they'll be immature as adults). The girl from above video - is the perfect example of that (was rarely put in her place and thus - even at 18+ she still acts like a 2 year old). Same goes for the girls from the video i posted. And ofc men are no different (: well, boys... since the physical age doesn't always reflect the emotional age - if ever).

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Posted by NemDeux
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If I could go back in time and meet him again, with the life experience I have gained since then ....we would have remained a brief encounter with no relationship prospects.

Did the November "meeting" happen yet? 😀

The ex i refer to in this thread is my pisces ex.

@meeting aries: did not happen. He blew up on me and was being pushy so I called it a day. All good!

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Glad you're okay👍😀

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I don’t think my ex deserves me to be honest. With what I’m able to achieve, what I’m able to do, what I give in relationships....

The warmth I had, the love, compassion, the passion, the loyalty.....I even taught myself to be calm, not to cling, to let things breath, to be distant when necessary, to come second(this is hard). I changed myself and made sure I became better in the relationship- not worse.

I love fully. I work extremely hard to ensure my life is taken care of and balanced. All I expected was someone equally at my side, working just as hard and loving life with me. I don’t think he ever deserved what I gave and he never appreciated how genuine I was and he wasn’t able to actually be a good person in return. To this very day he tries and to this very day.........I still turn it down.

I’ll never want to go back to being uncertain if my man loves me 100% . I’m glad I’ll never have to worry about that tbh because my Virgo is more clingy than I am 😄 lol and what we have is perfect to me. Looking back is crazy tho! I can’t believe some of the stuff.