From a Cancer's perspective?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by level7wizard on Monday, April 17, 2017 and has 18 replies.

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@peo
9 Years

The three closest to me are repressed, obsessive and very self-centered in their emotions with no patience to empathize with others. But they are also very loving and giving.

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@CancerOnTheCusp
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Mixed bag.

Some are original, thinkers, smart, and having a sense of humor.

A good number come off (no offense) as being somewhere on the autism spectrum.

With exception of a very small number, most definitely are true to the "fixed" nature (and all it implies) of their sign.

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

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Standoffish, untrustworthy, cold, competition

Whaattt? ?

Lol just for now. I'm wary, but in general i don't get y'all but i respect yall. Focused, hard working, efficient, intelligent, controlled.

I understand, it's a love/hate thing with the Aqua/Cancer thing...

I hate that I love y'all. Rat bastards.

I'm just mad yall are a better fit for my crush

I'm petty

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Personally I have never understood the Leo/Aqua axis..

Awwww but with all your Leo parts, arent you more Leo than crabette?

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@Namy
11 YearsCancer

Since I'm now married to an Aquarius, Emotional, Stable(in that they always come back), Sensitive, Generous and Fun.

A hot mess at times, tactless, Unstable and noisy.

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@rabidtalker
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by justagirl
Personally I have never understood the Leo/Aqua axis..

Both have extremely huge egos and self confidence but are expressed in different ways, bluntly speaking for leos it's expressed in belief and homage to themselves, for aquarians it's more for larger groups, hopefully downtrodden ones. They will both go after a person (enemy) in a righteous way. Both care very much about appearances and appearing creative, stylish and original. Both can be tireless in their pursuit of a goal, typical of fixed signs. Leo in the more passionate, dramatic way we are all familiar with and aquarius in the cool, rational (hopefully) argumentative/lawyer-like way. Both will want you to believe their goals always align with whats best for the world at large.

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by rabidtalker
Posted by justagirl
Personally I have never understood the Leo/Aqua axis..

Both have extremely huge egos and self confidence but are expressed in different ways, bluntly speaking for leos it's expressed in belief and homage to themselves, for aquarians it's more for larger groups, hopefully downtrodden ones. They will both go after a person (enemy) in a righteous way. Both care very much about appearances and appearing creative, stylish and original. Both can be tireless in their pursuit of a goal, typical of fixed signs. Leo in the more passionate, dramatic way we are all familiar with and aquarius in the cool, rational (hopefully) argumentative/lawyer-like way. Both will want you to believe their goals always align with whats best for the world at large.

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i meant the attraction, i have never been drawn to leo suns, maybe a bit of leo energy, as it is opposite of my nature. i'm timid and prefer the background vs being in the spotlight. But i don't dislike it, more of i don't understand it. I hear we are similiar, but i just don't see it..

i agree with what you wrote, especially the (self) righteous part lol

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@HighTide
14 Years500+ Posts

Excellent attraction from the Cancer man standpoint.

strong points

-Most of the women are strangely tomboyish in friendship/mind but feminine everywhere else/where it counts. Can make a Cancer man very comfortable off the bat.

-They enjoy Cancer humor but gets turned off when it gets too dark or emotional. They don't like overly negative topics unless it was their idea to bring it up. They are funnier than us when u get them going.

-Can be genuinely attractive and have everyone wanting them daily yet can still feel 100 percent comfortable being a lone wolf. That itself is attractive.

-They look at money in a very unique way. Some are very good at making it, the ones that can't are able to still get it through their unique charm. They can get you to open up the wallet but u will have fun doing it.

-The lovemaking is very unique and satisfying.

-If you support their ideas they reward you with even better feedback than you gave them.

-if your kinda weird they like that, not creepy though. You might see an out of shape guy with a super cute Aquarius girl because of his uniqueness alone.They will love him like he is the only man that matters.

negative points

-They seem to be more attracted to Sag and Cap placements who can give them more of the evolved friendship they want day in and out. Cancer's usually want a further level and unless their moon is water it can go south. A Libra moon can be sympathic as well but only so much.

-They can cut you to the bone verbally if you piss them off. They are humanitarians but they don't hesitate to bring out the coldness when they think you are out of line.

-They can go through many divorces if they have to. At the end of the day they aren't sacrificing their individuality for anyone. They truly can move on if they have to.

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@Aquagirl2015
10 Years

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Posted by HighTide
Excellent attraction from the Cancer man standpoint.

strong points

-Most of the women are strangely tomboyish in friendship/mind but feminine everywhere else/where it counts. Can make a Cancer man very comfortable off the bat.

-They enjoy Cancer humor but gets turned off when it gets too dark or emotional. They don't like overly negative topics unless it was their idea to bring it up. They are funnier than us when u get them going.

-Can be genuinely attractive and have everyone wanting them daily yet can still feel 100 percent comfortable being a lone wolf. That itself is attractive.

-They look at money in a very unique way. Some are very good at making it, the ones that can't are able to still get it through their unique charm. They can get you to open up the wallet but u will have fun doing it.

-The lovemaking is very unique and satisfying.

-If you support their ideas they reward you with even better feedback than you gave them.

-if your kinda weird they like that, not creepy though. You might see an out of shape guy with a super cute Aquarius girl because of his uniqueness alone.They will love him like he is the only man that matters.

negative points

-They seem to be more attracted to Sag and Cap placements who can give them more of the evolved friendship they want day in and out. Cancer's usually want a further level and unless their moon is water it can go south. A Libra moon can be sympathic as well but only so much.

-They can cut you to the bone verbally if you piss them off. They are humanitarians but they don't hesitate to bring out the coldness when they think you are out of line.

-They can go through many divorces if they have to. At the end of the day they aren't sacrificing their individuality for anyone. They truly can move on if they have to.

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@MoonyEYES88
10 Years

depends on the aqua, the guys are funny, flirty, and amusing. lady aquas are always competing even when no one cares to compete back with them, charming and eccentric, sometimes i confuse the for water people because they can be just as moody.