How would a Cancer guy behave around the girl he likes?

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I am a cancer female and I have a couple Cancer male friends and the one thing we have in common is when we start to like someone we start to notice the little things they like/do, we go out of our way to make sure they are happy, we care whole heartedly about what the other person thinks of us, and care a lot about the other persons safety and well being. But I have heard a lot of Cancer men go back into their shell when they first like someone due to fear of rejectment and don't come out unless they have the validation they need to pursue whoever they want at the time. We are Cardinal signs so we like to initiate things, but only if we are sure of the outcome because we know how emotionally sensitive we are, especially to rejection.
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Posted by sumoo
two cancer guys had a crush on me, i never reciprocated because i didn't return feelings and i was kind of emotionally unavailable at the time.

anyways i noticed that

-he kind of glares at you from the side and smiles at silly mistakes

-he brings you food, or things you like

-he remembers when you tell him somethings, he will bring it up and if it's something you like, he will try to get it for you

-he compliments you/calls you pretty

-he asks about your family

-he gets moody or passive aggressive when you don't reciprocate

-he will continue to try to be in your life even if you don't want him

-he will try to make you jealous

he brought cinnamon rolls and white chocolate to class for me. i always noticed him, looking at me and laughing whenever i broke a pencil (which was many times) and he was trying to impress me. as a libra mars, i felt i had to give him some back and i got him utensils without reciprocating his feelings. when we got closer i told him about my bf, he tried to get me to move on from my breakup, he asked me to go outside and then called it a date. i reacted negatively to that and he went from making me jealous to kind of clinging onto me. i was confused but conflicted. i think i would go out with him, if my feelings were in the right place at the time

i'm a leo sun, virgo moon, virgo venus, libra mars, asc sag, des cap
Those are good signs and it did seem like the Cancer guy was into you. But it's ok if you weren't into him. There's only so much you can do...

Thank you for your advice ๐Ÿ™‚

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Posted by canceraqua
I am a cancer female and I have a couple Cancer male friends and the one thing we have in common is when we start to like someone we start to notice the little things they like/do, we go out of our way to make sure they are happy, we care whole heartedly about what the other person thinks of us, and care a lot about the other persons safety and well being. But I have heard a lot of Cancer men go back into their shell when they first like someone due to fear of rejectment and don't come out unless they have the validation they need to pursue whoever they want at the time. We are Cardinal signs so we like to initiate things, but only if we are sure of the outcome because we know how emotionally sensitive we are, especially to rejection.
The Cancer guy I like at work seems to be really overprotective of me. If he's not in a bad mood, he seems to look after me. He always watches me and I like to think he over worries for my safety. It's really sweet how Cancers would care for the person's safety and for their well being ๐Ÿ™‚

Problem is, sometimes he will be more forward in his body language and sometimes he won't be. Sometimes he will try to make small conversation with me, watch after me and help me out when I least expect him too. I'll even be lucky if he blushes in front of me. But then other times, he seems to withdraw. He smiles at me rarely but now it went back to not too much smiling and more seriousness. So I'm assuming there is some kind of insecurity at play.

I admit I was a bit too forward because I did ask him out before we got to know each other and I ended up scaring him away. He dated someone else but now will still go hot/cold with the way he behaves around me. I try to stay away from being too forward and just let him make the moves.

But how sure would a Cancer have to be before they initiate the move?

Thank you for the advice ๐Ÿ™‚
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Posted by P6X58DE
I have your interests at the forefront, i am also on tap eager and always there for you with anything.

From the start it may sound like a relationship is already happening, Cancers are one of the most genuine signs in regards to love, and you will not find a better sign to express it, however if they allow insecurity to come between this, it can become very messy and unattractive.
Do Cancers normally allow insecurity to come between this? Say if they like someone a lot, would they let their insecurity get in the way or would they push it aside?

Thank you for the advice ๐Ÿ™‚
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My dude is super sweet, he's pretty damn romantic.

He checks on me alot, shares his feelings and cares about mines.. gets me things without asking like, jewelry or even something small like a snack when he sees me.

He feels like my protector... texts me everyday, he hates talking on the phone but he surprise calls me just to hear my voice he's an angel..

A little reserved but he opens up and is alot of fun to be around.

So very attentive, and they will make time for you, once you gain their trust they do more for you.. wants to spend time and do anything to make you happy.

๐Ÿ™‚

like most water signs, you usually have to deal with the bs and damage their exes have caused... so patience is required! Also very sensitive people so no need to start drama if it's not a big deal because they take things very seriously..

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
My dude is super sweet, he's pretty damn romantic.

He checks on me alot, shares his feelings and cares about mines.. gets me things without asking like, jewelry or even something small like a snack when he sees me.

He feels like my protector... texts me everyday, he hates talking on the phone but he surprise calls me just to hear my voice he's an angel..

A little reserved but he opens up and is alot of fun to be around.

So very attentive, and they will make time for you, once you gain their trust they do more for you.. wants to spend time and do anything to make you happy.

๐Ÿ™‚

like most water signs, you usually have to deal with the bs and damage their exes have caused... so patience is required! Also very sensitive people so no need to start drama if it's not a big deal because they take things very seriously..




aww he sounds like a good boyfriend ๐Ÿ™‚

Thank you for your advice ๐Ÿ™‚

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I have your interests at the forefront, i am also on tap eager and always there for you with anything.

From the start it may sound like a relationship is already happening, Cancers are one of the most genuine signs in regards to love, and you will not find a better sign to express it, however if they allow insecurity to come between this, it can become very messy and unattractive.
Do Cancers normally allow insecurity to come between this? Say if they like someone a lot, would they let their insecurity get in the way or would they push it aside?

Thank you for the advice ๐Ÿ™‚


I don't, i'm not insecure in that way, but some do from everything i have read on DXP and seeing peoples stories.

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I guess every Cancer is a little bit different from the other and some are more insecure than others.

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Lots of attention. Messages you early in the morning just to say hi. Sweet comments. Asks to see you often. Gentle touches. Caring actions. Does things just to make you happy.
aww this is so sweet ๐Ÿ™‚

Thank you for the advice ๐Ÿ™‚


You're welcome. Are you dating one right now?
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Nope but I work with a Cancer guy that might be into me. We have a bit of a complex history because I thought he was into me and I asked him out after eight months of working at the job and he rejected me. He told me he was dating someone else so I just stopped thinking he was into me. But weirdly he will still give out signs, like being overprotective, offering to help me without me asking, lots of staring and watching, sometimes smiling or blushing and sometimes I can sense that he gets jealous when other guys talk to me. He gets shy around me because he can easily talk with other people but will not say a word to me. I think I intimidate him too much which I don't know if it's a good thing or not...

I still have feelings for him but I try to keep a fine line so I can focus on my job and not let feelings get in the way. Though it's hard to do this when sometimes feelings will get in the way and I allow myself to give in even though I know it's not right to do so ๐Ÿ˜ข

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I am a cancer female and I have a couple Cancer male friends and the one thing we have in common is when we start to like someone we start to notice the little things they like/do, we go out of our way to make sure they are happy, we care whole heartedly about what the other person thinks of us, and care a lot about the other persons safety and well being. But I have heard a lot of Cancer men go back into their shell when they first like someone due to fear of rejectment and don't come out unless they have the validation they need to pursue whoever they want at the time. We are Cardinal signs so we like to initiate things, but only if we are sure of the outcome because we know how emotionally sensitive we are, especially to rejection.
The Cancer guy I like at work seems to be really overprotective of me. If he's not in a bad mood, he seems to look after me. He always watches me and I like to think he over worries for my safety. It's really sweet how Cancers would care for the person's safety and for their well being ๐Ÿ™‚

Problem is, sometimes he will be more forward in his body language and sometimes he won't be. Sometimes he will try to make small conversation with me, watch after me and help me out when I least expect him too. I'll even be lucky if he blushes in front of me. But then other times, he seems to withdraw. He smiles at me rarely but now it went back to not too much smiling and more seriousness. So I'm assuming there is some kind of insecurity at play.

I admit I was a bit too forward because I did ask him out before we got to know each other and I ended up scaring him away. He dated someone else but now will still go hot/cold with the way he behaves around me. I try to stay away from being too forward and just let him make the moves.

But how sure would a Cancer have to be before they initiate the move?

Thank you for the advice ๐Ÿ™‚
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cancers are known for being really intuitive and observant of others actions/reactions. so usually if we get a vibe that someone likes us, we will go for it. like the last guy i was with, he initiatated us hanging out but i was the one to go for the kiss. if we notice that all the signs, we will make a move.

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I am a cancer female and I have a couple Cancer male friends and the one thing we have in common is when we start to like someone we start to notice the little things they like/do, we go out of our way to make sure they are happy, we care whole heartedly about what the other person thinks of us, and care a lot about the other persons safety and well being. But I have heard a lot of Cancer men go back into their shell when they first like someone due to fear of rejectment and don't come out unless they have the validation they need to pursue whoever they want at the time. We are Cardinal signs so we like to initiate things, but only if we are sure of the outcome because we know how emotionally sensitive we are, especially to rejection.
The Cancer guy I like at work seems to be really overprotective of me. If he's not in a bad mood, he seems to look after me. He always watches me and I like to think he over worries for my safety. It's really sweet how Cancers would care for the person's safety and for their well being ๐Ÿ™‚

Problem is, sometimes he will be more forward in his body language and sometimes he won't be. Sometimes he will try to make small conversation with me, watch after me and help me out when I least expect him too. I'll even be lucky if he blushes in front of me. But then other times, he seems to withdraw. He smiles at me rarely but now it went back to not too much smiling and more seriousness. So I'm assuming there is some kind of insecurity at play.

I admit I was a bit too forward because I did ask him out before we got to know each other and I ended up scaring him away. He dated someone else but now will still go hot/cold with the way he behaves around me. I try to stay away from being too forward and just let him make the moves.

But how sure would a Cancer have to be before they initiate the move?

Thank you for the advice ๐Ÿ™‚

cancers are known for being really intuitive and observant of others actions/reactions. so usually if we get a vibe that someone likes us, we will go for it. like the last guy i was with, he initiatated us hanging out but i was the one to go for the kiss. if we notice that all the signs, we will make a move.

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Ok I will keep that in mind because I realize me and the Cancer guy I like have been exchanging mixed signals so I realize it can get confusing.

Thank you for your insight ๐Ÿ™‚

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I am a cancer myself, and my last ex was a cancer too, so I can say that a cancer man is very emotional, unlike, for example, taurus or virgo men, cancers are not afraid to show their emotions.

If a cancer man likes you, he will tell you this verbally, also will be very touchy, attentive and kinda clingy. One more obvious sign is jealousy. In general, unlike earth signs, cancers tend to show their feelings openly and they are not afraid of them, so you will know๐Ÿ™‚
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Lots of attention. Messages you early in the morning just to say hi. Sweet comments. Asks to see you often. Gentle touches. Caring actions. Does things just to make you happy.
aww this is so sweet ๐Ÿ™‚

Thank you for the advice ๐Ÿ™‚


You're welcome. Are you dating one right now?
Nope but I work with a Cancer guy that might be into me. We have a bit of a complex history because I thought he was into me and I asked him out after eight months of working at the job and he rejected me. He told me he was dating someone else so I just stopped thinking he was into me. But weirdly he will still give out signs, like being overprotective, offering to help me without me asking, lots of staring and watching, sometimes smiling or blushing and sometimes I can sense that he gets jealous when other guys talk to me. He gets shy around me because he can easily talk with other people but will not say a word to me. I think I intimidate him too much which I don't know if it's a good thing or not...

I still have feelings for him but I try to keep a fine line so I can focus on my job and not let feelings get in the way. Though it's hard to do this when sometimes feelings will get in the way and I allow myself to give in even though I know it's not right to do so ๐Ÿ˜ข



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How old is he? I've noticed that some cancers cheat or have cheating like behaviors when they are immature and/or have not had their heart broken yet. If he still has a gf, stay away for sure. Find another loving cancer instead โ™ฅ๏ธ
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Posted by Kikyy
I am a cancer myself, and my last ex was a cancer too, so I can say that a cancer man is very emotional, unlike, for example, taurus or virgo men, cancers are not afraid to show their emotions.

If a cancer man likes you, he will tell you this verbally, also will be very touchy, attentive and kinda clingy. One more obvious sign is jealousy. In general, unlike earth signs, cancers tend to show their feelings openly and they are not afraid of them, so you will know๐Ÿ™‚
But say if a Cancer isn't verbal about liking you, what would he do instead? Say if he gets extremely shy around you..,

Appreciate the advice ๐Ÿ™‚
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Lots of attention. Messages you early in the morning just to say hi. Sweet comments. Asks to see you often. Gentle touches. Caring actions. Does things just to make you happy.
aww this is so sweet ๐Ÿ™‚

Thank you for the advice ๐Ÿ™‚


You're welcome. Are you dating one right now?
Nope but I work with a Cancer guy that might be into me. We have a bit of a complex history because I thought he was into me and I asked him out after eight months of working at the job and he rejected me. He told me he was dating someone else so I just stopped thinking he was into me. But weirdly he will still give out signs, like being overprotective, offering to help me without me asking, lots of staring and watching, sometimes smiling or blushing and sometimes I can sense that he gets jealous when other guys talk to me. He gets shy around me because he can easily talk with other people but will not say a word to me. I think I intimidate him too much which I don't know if it's a good thing or not...

I still have feelings for him but I try to keep a fine line so I can focus on my job and not let feelings get in the way. Though it's hard to do this when sometimes feelings will get in the way and I allow myself to give in even though I know it's not right to do so ๐Ÿ˜ข





How old is he? I've noticed that some cancers cheat or have cheating like behaviors when they are immature and/or have not had their heart broken yet. If he still has a gf, stay away for sure. Find another loving cancer instead โ™ฅ๏ธ

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I think he's either 24 or 25. I was just upset when he decided to go out with someone else instead of me. I respected his choice yet I wasn't expecting him to retaliate and be mad about me living my life without him. In all honesty, I don't know if he's with her anymore. It just gets so confusing. I feel like I seriously broke his heart when I decided to move on and not mope after him. I think he's used to girls being at his beck and call. I think I was the first one that refused to do that. For now, I stay away for my own safety. I really don't know what to expect from him anymore...
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Posted by Kikyy
I am a cancer myself, and my last ex was a cancer too, so I can say that a cancer man is very emotional, unlike, for example, taurus or virgo men, cancers are not afraid to show their emotions.

If a cancer man likes you, he will tell you this verbally, also will be very touchy, attentive and kinda clingy. One more obvious sign is jealousy. In general, unlike earth signs, cancers tend to show their feelings openly and they are not afraid of them, so you will know๐Ÿ™‚
But say if a Cancer isn't verbal about liking you, what would he do instead? Say if he gets extremely shy around you..,

Appreciate the advice ๐Ÿ™‚

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Well, my ex who was a cancer, was very very clingy, always wanted to be around, every free minute he wanted to spend with me, he was also very touchy, lost of kisses, hugs, holding my hand all the time.

I am a cancer myself, so if i really like a guy, I also tend to become clingy ๐Ÿ˜„ I want to be around him all the time..just i am 28 now, so I have some experience and i know how to control myself ๐Ÿ˜„
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Posted by Kikyy
I am a cancer myself, and my last ex was a cancer too, so I can say that a cancer man is very emotional, unlike, for example, taurus or virgo men, cancers are not afraid to show their emotions.

If a cancer man likes you, he will tell you this verbally, also will be very touchy, attentive and kinda clingy. One more obvious sign is jealousy. In general, unlike earth signs, cancers tend to show their feelings openly and they are not afraid of them, so you will know๐Ÿ™‚
But say if a Cancer isn't verbal about liking you, what would he do instead? Say if he gets extremely shy around you..,

Appreciate the advice ๐Ÿ™‚


Well, my ex who was a cancer, was very very clingy, always wanted to be around, every free minute he wanted to spend with me, he was also very touchy, lost of kisses, hugs, holding my hand all the time.

I am a cancer myself, so if i really like a guy, I also tend to become clingy ๐Ÿ˜„ I want to be around him all the time..just i am 28 now, so I have some experience and i know how to control myself ๐Ÿ˜„
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aww sounds like he was really sweet ๐Ÿ™‚

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I can only speak on myself. However, my chart is mostly cancer so my opinion is more valid than most of the people in here... ๐Ÿ™‚



I'll start with this, if I can walk up to you and talk to you like I've known you for a while with no shyness whatsoever.... i'm not attracted to you.

For me, finding a girl I'm very attractive to mean that I am cautious around her. After all, I don't want to ruin any potential between us by saying something. A girl I like will probably not even know it. I will slowly and methodically make it a point to talk to her and then start asking questions and picking her brain to get to know her. But she will not know this is what i'm doing because it will be in the most discreet manner.

After I have gathered enough information about her I will begin to consider how much of a match we will ACTUALLY be (outside of the looks department). If I see that there is potential there, I will gradually become more forward with my approach to her until she starts to realize that I like her.

This process could take a few months with me.
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Lots of attention. Messages you early in the morning just to say hi. Sweet comments. Asks to see you often. Gentle touches. Caring actions. Does things just to make you happy.
aww this is so sweet ๐Ÿ™‚

Thank you for the advice ๐Ÿ™‚


You're welcome. Are you dating one right now?
Nope but I work with a Cancer guy that might be into me. We have a bit of a complex history because I thought he was into me and I asked him out after eight months of working at the job and he rejected me. He told me he was dating someone else so I just stopped thinking he was into me. But weirdly he will still give out signs, like being overprotective, offering to help me without me asking, lots of staring and watching, sometimes smiling or blushing and sometimes I can sense that he gets jealous when other guys talk to me. He gets shy around me because he can easily talk with other people but will not say a word to me. I think I intimidate him too much which I don't know if it's a good thing or not...

I still have feelings for him but I try to keep a fine line so I can focus on my job and not let feelings get in the way. Though it's hard to do this when sometimes feelings will get in the way and I allow myself to give in even though I know it's not right to do so ๐Ÿ˜ข





How old is he? I've noticed that some cancers cheat or have cheating like behaviors when they are immature and/or have not had their heart broken yet. If he still has a gf, stay away for sure. Find another loving cancer instead โ™ฅ๏ธ


I think he's either 24 or 25. I was just upset when he decided to go out with someone else instead of me. I respected his choice yet I wasn't expecting him to retaliate and be mad about me living my life without him. In all honesty, I don't know if he's with her anymore. It just gets so confusing. I feel like I seriously broke his heart when I decided to move on and not mope after him. I think he's used to girls being at his beck and call. I think I was the first one that refused to do that. For now, I stay away for my own safety. I really don't know what to expect from him anymore...

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Yea, we do get hurt easily over something like that even when we know it's our fault. You did the right thing. Never settle for just any guy. You deserve the best and that guy is out there ๐Ÿ™‚
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Posted by TeddyBearMD
I can only speak on myself. However, my chart is mostly cancer so my opinion is more valid than most of the people in here... ๐Ÿ™‚



I'll start with this, if I can walk up to you and talk to you like I've known you for a while with no shyness whatsoever.... i'm not attracted to you.

For me, finding a girl I'm very attractive to mean that I am cautious around her. After all, I don't want to ruin any potential between us by saying something. A girl I like will probably not even know it. I will slowly and methodically make it a point to talk to her and then start asking questions and picking her brain to get to know her. But she will not know this is what i'm doing because it will be in the most discreet manner.

After I have gathered enough information about her I will begin to consider how much of a match we will ACTUALLY be (outside of the looks department). If I see that there is potential there, I will gradually become more forward with my approach to her until she starts to realize that I like her.

This process could take a few months with me.
I appreciate you explaining the process ๐Ÿ™‚

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Lots of attention. Messages you early in the morning just to say hi. Sweet comments. Asks to see you often. Gentle touches. Caring actions. Does things just to make you happy.
aww this is so sweet ๐Ÿ™‚

Thank you for the advice ๐Ÿ™‚


You're welcome. Are you dating one right now?
Nope but I work with a Cancer guy that might be into me. We have a bit of a complex history because I thought he was into me and I asked him out after eight months of working at the job and he rejected me. He told me he was dating someone else so I just stopped thinking he was into me. But weirdly he will still give out signs, like being overprotective, offering to help me without me asking, lots of staring and watching, sometimes smiling or blushing and sometimes I can sense that he gets jealous when other guys talk to me. He gets shy around me because he can easily talk with other people but will not say a word to me. I think I intimidate him too much which I don't know if it's a good thing or not...

I still have feelings for him but I try to keep a fine line so I can focus on my job and not let feelings get in the way. Though it's hard to do this when sometimes feelings will get in the way and I allow myself to give in even though I know it's not right to do so ๐Ÿ˜ข





How old is he? I've noticed that some cancers cheat or have cheating like behaviors when they are immature and/or have not had their heart broken yet. If he still has a gf, stay away for sure. Find another loving cancer instead โ™ฅ๏ธ


I think he's either 24 or 25. I was just upset when he decided to go out with someone else instead of me. I respected his choice yet I wasn't expecting him to retaliate and be mad about me living my life without him. In all honesty, I don't know if he's with her anymore. It just gets so confusing. I feel like I seriously broke his heart when I decided to move on and not mope after him. I think he's used to girls being at his beck and call. I think I was the first one that refused to do that. For now, I stay away for my own safety. I really don't know what to expect from him anymore...



Yea, we do get hurt easily over something like that even when we know it's our fault. You did the right thing. Never settle for just any guy. You deserve the best and that guy is out there ๐Ÿ™‚

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Thank you for the kind words ๐Ÿ™‚ Definetly something I will keep in mind ๐Ÿ™‚