I'll Give out BBQ to Whoever Stops Arguing (Page 2)

who dropped out ?
I didn't like elliot from the start - right from the first show I kept thinking he would be one of the first to go

Chris left..I thought, or was he voted off?

Agh, please do not say any about food. I just had a late Sunday feast...Agh, I'm dying stuffed over here & I just ran.😢😢

no chris was the fourth left and he got voted off - I swear I will NEVER forget the look of shock on his face..... it was so sad....

oooooh... a country boy

*tossing lovies*

why are you laughin at muh lovies SoNot?

lol good answer

I get the sense moon monlights as cupid ??

if she doesn't return, krobe had better count her days. i may have to whip out the secret weapon. i'd hate to have to do that, but, if the situation calls for it...

Ignored!

I dont feel bad, I'll pray for you back and we'll pass this class for ourselves if these cancers cant get right.

Im not trippin Mai, I've figured out some things and Im just going to continue being me and let him continue being him and see if he catches up to what I've already told him I want before I add something else to the list. If he catches up great we're still making progress, if not then it's a wrap. Im not into the waiting for someone to change bit. I'll be patient and give him time to catch up tho lol

Sweetest,

I wish you a prayer too! Now, despite disagreements at times. I can say that you give great advice and you have your head on right. Don't be impatient just give him some time. Did you have any problems with my simple text. LOL! I am a honest person, I LOVE TAURUS people and you are truly a sweet person. Oh, I don't hold grudges. Lady you give good advice. I will continue read your posts and wish you luck. By the way, one of my best friends of 23 years is a Taurus believe it or not.

I can believe that krobe.

And give him time....he dropped in today unannounced to see me and spent quite a bit of time. Im absolutely beaming. He had to go pick up one of his dogs from the vet but he said after he drops her off at home he might come back because he really didnt want to leave. Yayyyyyyyyyyy *tossing lovies*

SF - Yaaayyyy!!! That is TERRIFIC. LMAO. Giirrlll I know that you are grinning from ear to ear. LOL. Thats good! I'm happy for you!

lol Mai girl you know I am. I was so surprised when I saw him pull up. Im glad he sensed my growing impatience and did something about it.

Aw thats good. I'm happy for you!

lol Moon Im trying not to read too much into him showing up just when I need him to out of the blue, but Im seriously not complaining about it.

I'm starting to think he's testing my boundaries. He'll hold off giving me what I want to see 1) how I act when I dont get it 2) how much I really want it and 3) how far he can push me until I go off on him. lol Im not worried bout him testing me cuz Imma keep on being me and it seems like he can really sense the "too much" line and soothe out all the wrinkles before he crosses it.

SF
I'm starting to think he's testing my boundaries. He'll hold off giving me what I want to see 1) how I act when I dont get it 2) how much I really want it and 3) how far he can push me until I go off on him. lol Im not worried bout him testing me cuz Imma keep on being me and it seems like he can really sense the "too much" line and soothe out all the wrinkles before he crosses it

Cancer men test you, but, they are not aware of it at times. They just test. I have asked a Cancer male why do they test people. This was the answer I got. They are not aware of the tests.

"Oh, Lordy. Is he your boyfriend or are you just casually dating, Mai? May I ask how long you've been dating? And has he been consistent in his actions (calling and following through with his word)? If so, there's nothing wrong with contacting him, Mai. Men like to know that you're interested in them too at some point. As long as you don't overdo it."

Notso - Sorry I just saw this. Him and I are dating exclusively but we are not "boyfriend and girlfriend". We have been dating 4 almost 4 mos. And yes, he is very consistant...he calls almost everyday and if he says he is going to do something..he does it.

But I have taken a step back b/c I think he felt that i was pushing and I dont want him to feel that. So I have just taken a step and now allowing him to kinda take the reigns.

"And give him time....he dropped in today unannounced to see me and spent quite a bit of time. Im absolutely beaming. He had to go pick up one of his dogs from the vet but he said after he drops her off at home he might come back because he really didnt want to leave. Yayyyyyyyyyyy *tossing lovies*"


awwww..... I can FEEL you beaming :0)

Again,

krobe appreciates the attention! I just don't NEED it. The lost souls will dwell on this statement and make it a whole subject!

SF, yeah! I knew he would come through for you. See patience is a virtue! I hope he comes back to see you and spend the rest of the day. You deserve it. Just remember, be patient. It will not take him long to tell you what he wants. But, you are truly a sweet person and he can pick up on that! You are very mature for your age.

He didn't make it back but its ok because I half expected him to go home (he lives on an old farm in the country) and not feel like coming back into the city especially with the rain. I ended up going to my sister's tho so it was ok. I don't think he's tesing me with an agenda he just get curious about things and experiments a bit. He's that type of person, very inquisitive, very intelligent. I also think he's been having some insecurities and wondering how I really feel about him (based on some of the conversation we had today)so he's looking for a little security and reassurance himself. He always makes it worth the wait so patience is on my to always do list.

He didn't make it back but its ok because I half expected him to go home (he lives on an old farm in the country) and not feel like coming back into the city especially with the rain. I ended up going to my sister's tho so it was ok. I don't think he's tesing me with an agenda he just get curious about things and experiments a bit. He's that type of person, very inquisitive, very intelligent. I also think he's been having some insecurities and wondering how I really feel about him (based on some of the conversation we had today)so he's looking for a little security and reassurance himself. He always makes it worth the wait so patience is on my to always do list.

Good! Keep up the good work! My cousin is a Cancer male and his lady is a Taurus. He told me he loves the way she bullies him around. He loves it. LOL!

Aww Moon...I ran out. I gave a wing to Krobe...and well I kept the rest for myself. LMAO!!! You should have said something sooner, because that que is gone! LMAO! Sorry Charlie. 😢

Aww Moon...I ran out. I gave a wing to Krobe...and well I kept the rest for myself. LMAO!!! You should have said something sooner, because that que is gone! LMAO! Sorry Charlie...

I have been really good to since you gave me that wing! Can you not tell in my simple text! LOL!

Krobe - Yes you have been very good, I must admit. That wong did ya good. Nothing like that good bbq sauce! LMAO!

Yeah, sweets I agree!

I know the power of Tauruses myself. It is something about the earthy nature that is just PRICELESS! I have to go for Aquas with the mental nature! But you are really sweet! ANd you deserve your Cancer man. You will be a great prize for him. You see I can never disagree with your opinions about me. I cannot argue because you are honest, and your great nature is not just nuturing, it is also strenghtening! You not only help other find their weaknesses, you also agree that you have weakness and that is what "GREAT" women do for themselves and others. Point out weaknessess and agree that they have weakness too. You are a gem. You are a very mature lady for your age. I want to thank you for pointing out my weakness and I want to thank you for not being so defensive of your own inner beauty.

You go girl!

:o Did someone hack Krobe's account?

I'm glad you think so Chocolate. It's been a pretty...enlightening (to say the least) experience going through the process of getting to the place where I could enjoy my Cancer like I do now (7 months and finally letting go of a bad relationship). I never imagined we would even really be friends but apparently he sees the good things in me that I wasnt quite sure anyone was looking for

lol Thank You Krobe! I know that you attract more flies with honey than vinegar! My Cancer seems to like when I get on him but that's not always how I handle things so I've been having to go out my way (sometimes) to "attack" him (or punish him as he says) so he feels like everything is ok so your cousin is probably a pretty typical Cancer. Thanks for mentioning that, now I know he's probably serious when he mentions that I should punish him or when he calls me when he's about to act up just so I can tell him he better not lol.

o Did someone hack Krobe's account?

I'm glad you think so Chocolate. It's been a pretty...enlightening (to say the least) experience going through the process of getting to the place where I could enjoy my Cancer like I do now (7 months and finally letting go of a bad relationship). I never imagined we would even really be friends but apparently he sees the good things in me that I wasnt quite sure anyone was looking for

lol Thank You Krobe! I know that you attract more flies with honey than vinegar! My Cancer seems to like when I get on him but that's not always how I handle things so I've been having to go out my way (sometimes) to "attack" him (or punish him as he says) so he feels like everything is ok so your cousin is probably a pretty typical Cancer. Thanks for mentioning that, now I know he's probably serious when he mentions that I should punish him or when he calls me when he's about to act up just so I can tell him he better not lol.

No sweets no one hacked my account!

I am not a heartless person, but women that are honest and can accept that they have flaws are really women you can trust! You saw I had flaws, I did not disagree with you because once you pointed it out, I agreed. I really was not using reverse, I said, you are right! But, instead of you bashing in the worst way, you pointed the things out with a soothing trusting nature instead of an evil hater tactic. I respect you for that! I know how to keep the bad away. Yeah, you may have joined the crowd. But, you did it discreetly, and you are young. But, you will be a true leader with a crowd of your own! So, NO, I really have been a best friends for 23 years and she helps me GREATLY! So, don't think that I hold a grudge, you really think you are a sweet person. You can tell people what you think in an honest earthy way, without putting them on the defense and so do my Taurus friend. In return you take advice about yourself and instead of not admitting that you do have weaknesses, you agree and that is what real women do.

I mean you admit that you have weaknesses! And you don't mind admitting! You agree, instead of just dwelling on nothing of importance.

Does anyone in here work in the education field?

lol SoNot

Well Im glad I could appeal to your better judgement Krobe.

lol SoNot

Well Im glad I could appeal to your better judgement Krobe.

Thanks. You can spot real people a mile away. Trust me. Sometimes you have to use a little vinegar just to get the honey. I know Cancer men do! LOL!

Mai-No, my daughter is attending college for education this month. No I work in the hospital field.

Oh ok. I was asking b/c I am going to be applying for a graduate program in order to obtain my MA in Education and School Counseling.

Notso - Really!?!?! What grade does she teach?

LOL. That is how my cousin is. She is 5'2 and soo tiny. She teaches high schoolers and she gets mistaken for her students all of the time.

Hey quick question are Cancer men typically intimidated by women who have careers and have their stuff together (like some men) or are they attracted to them more? Just wondering.

Notso - Yeah I know thats why I was wondering. But w/e I have to take care of business!

Hey quick question are Cancer men typically intimidated by women who have careers and have their stuff together (like some men) or are they attracted to them more? Just wondering.

I don't know if it is just a Cancer thing Mai. It is a MAN thing. Don't think it is just Cancers. I have been wondering the same exact thing. I want to ask him so bad. He always says you make good money. He always mentions my money! I would love to know myself. But, No, I think (you heard me say thing, I don't know everything) they love the security of you having money.

(you heard me say thing, I don't know everything) Typo. I meant "think". But I know Cap women are determined to make good money and they are attracted to women with decent salaries. He wants to know if you are going to share the wealth. LOL! But, I want to ask my Cancer friend so bad, how does he feel about women making more money. I have asked SEVERAL of my Cancer cousins and they were males. They all said, they LOVE women that make more money and they would do anything, just to keep things going smoothly. Things such as cook, clean, etc......

My Cancer talks about his money quite a bit but rarely asks about mine. I know he's very competitive and likes to be the smarter more resourceful one in the relationship. I doubt if he'd mind me making more money than him (since he does respect people who are about their business) as long as I don't hold it over his head or feel like it's a reason to disrespect him or treat him less than (he takes his respect very seriously). If I knew I made more than him I probably wouldn't tell him unless he specifically asked.

If I knew I made more than him I probably wouldn't tell him unless he specifically asked.

Sweet!
A Cancer man is going to want to know your income. No, don't get me wrong, Cancer men if in need will ask you to help out. Sometimes people get in a rut! And he might ask to see if you will have his back if times become hard for him or he is in need of help. Yes, it may make him feel lower than you, but he will let you know that if you need him, he will have your back. I don't know, your Cancer has a Leo moon so that means he is triple to proud to beg or ask you for anything. Leo's don't really like to ask other's for anything! We love to give, but you have to be the right person and we will need to know that you are before we give you anything! SO, I guess it depends on the Cancer man. I know I have Cancer cousins and they asked me how much money do I make on an hourly basis. And my Cancer friend has asked about my income.

Having known him I really dont think he's the type to ask for monetary support, he's too proud to admit he needs it. He's very proud about his ability to make money, keep money, and take care of those that are close to him. The only time I've seen him ask anyone for money is gas money when his cousin was taking advantage of his offers to drive him to work. lol In his line of work he'll hustle for a dollar so he's very tactical about making money so that he always has some. I think he would love the idea of me having a high paying job and successful career but he wouldnt want to know if I made more money than him. He wouldn't mind me spending money on him, I can tell he likes thoughtful gifts and being "spoiled" but I believe he would ultimately find the most joy in being the provider and breadwinner.

He wouldn't mind me spending money on him, I can tell he likes thoughtful gifts and being "spoiled" but I believe he would ultimately find the most joy in being the provider and breadwinner.

Yeap, I agree with that statement. Cancer men will hold two to three jobs for money. Cancer men love to work! There is no doubt about their need to work.

Hey guys - sorry i wasnt around last night. I had the day from hell yesterday. I will be back on after work today. See ya then.