Posted by BullShitHe may feel some guilt, but it hurts me more to not hear the truth from his own mouth. I've even said that if he has no more feelings for me, to let me go, but then he never answers. It's just ridiculous. Tomorrow i'm gonna tell him that I think we should just be friends, because I do care about him, even though he's broken my heart. I'm too damn nice for my own good.
Maybe he feels bad about cutting you off? Or maybe he is confused? It sucks that you aren't getting closure of any kind, but you know what to do here. Good luck.
Posted by JkatsThe more introspective question, in my opinion, that is worth more of your thought is this: If you know that the cancerian man that you like has no interest in you anymore, why do you continue to communicate with him?
So I know that the Cancerian man I like has no interest in me anymore, in any aspect, but then why tf does he keep answering my texts? Why can't he just tell me that he's done, or at least cut off all communication? I realize that I should stop torturing myself and just let him go, but I can't!!! I want him to man up and say that we're over, how hard is that to do?!?! Immaturity at its finest, smdh.
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspBecause every time, i'm hoping that he will either tell me the fucking truth, or not answer. Lol, yeah, I know that makes no sense. It just sucks because we were the best of friends in the beginning, now it's like I don't exist.
Why are you still texting him if you know he has no interest in you?
Posted by KoniuchaNo I guess not, I mean I guess I have my answer already. 😢
What if he never does? Will you text him forever?
Posted by LillyPetalI'm a Virgo, I NEED answers and closure, or else it drives me nuts.Posted by JkatsThe more introspective question, in my opinion, that is worth more of your thought is this: If you know that the cancerian man that you like has no interest in you anymore, why do you continue to communicate with him?
So I know that the Cancerian man I like has no interest in me anymore, in any aspect, but then why tf does he keep answering my texts? Why can't he just tell me that he's done, or at least cut off all communication? I realize that I should stop torturing myself and just let him go, but I can't!!! I want him to man up and say that we're over, how hard is that to do?!?! Immaturity at its finest, smdh.click to expand
Posted by JkatsGood luck with that.Posted by CancerOnTheCuspBecause every time, i'm hoping that he will either tell me the fucking truth, or not answer. Lol, yeah, I know that makes no sense. It just sucks because we were the best of friends in the beginning, now it's like I don't exist.
Why are you still texting him if you know he has no interest in you?click to expand
Posted by BullShitWell honestly I know if he agrees, it's done, that's why I wanted to do it. I promised him that I would always be there for him, and I intend to stick to that.Posted by JkatsTrust me i know how you feel about this, because usually women do this with guys. It's better to have the truth the to be strung along. And to be honest you shouldn't give him the we should be friends quote. Just cut off all ties because things may just linger between you two if he changes his mind and stuff. Just take the exit hard left.Posted by BullShitHe may feel some guilt, but it hurts me more to not hear the truth from his own mouth. I've even said that if he has no more feelings for me, to let me go, but then he never answers. It's just ridiculous. Tomorrow i'm gonna tell him that I think we should just be friends, because I do care about him, even though he's broken my heart. I'm too damn nice for my own good.
Maybe he feels bad about cutting you off? Or maybe he is confused? It sucks that you aren't getting closure of any kind, but you know what to do here. Good luck.click to expand
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspLol, I don't badger him! I text him maybe two or three (the most) times a week, and I don't ask him what we are, haven't in like a month.Posted by JkatsGood luck with that.Posted by CancerOnTheCuspBecause every time, i'm hoping that he will either tell me the fucking truth, or not answer. Lol, yeah, I know that makes no sense. It just sucks because we were the best of friends in the beginning, now it's like I don't exist.
Why are you still texting him if you know he has no interest in you?
Speaking as a Crab, its seen as badgering and the more you do it, the chances of getting the *response you want* approach zero.
Speaking as a male, it comes off as crazy, and while he may be be polite, he'll have a judge on speed dial to get that restraining order.click to expand
Posted by BullShitAin't this the truth!Posted by JkatsI'm very big on keeping word, and promises. However as you'll see some people will show you why they don't deserve to have that word kept.Posted by BullShitWell honestly I know if he agrees, it's done, that's why I wanted to do it. I promised him that I would always be there for him, and I intend to stick to that.Posted by JkatsTrust me i know how you feel about this, because usually women do this with guys. It's better to have the truth the to be strung along. And to be honest you shouldn't give him the we should be friends quote. Just cut off all ties because things may just linger between you two if he changes his mind and stuff. Just take the exit hard left.Posted by BullShitHe may feel some guilt, but it hurts me more to not hear the truth from his own mouth. I've even said that if he has no more feelings for me, to let me go, but then he never answers. It's just ridiculous. Tomorrow i'm gonna tell him that I think we should just be friends, because I do care about him, even though he's broken my heart. I'm too damn nice for my own good.
Maybe he feels bad about cutting you off? Or maybe he is confused? It sucks that you aren't getting closure of any kind, but you know what to do here. Good luck.click to expand
Posted by JkatsI'm going to give you a quarter to buy a clue and give you one word: "Yes"Posted by CancerOnTheCuspSo just let it be then? No more texting?Posted by JkatsGood luck with that.Posted by CancerOnTheCuspBecause every time, i'm hoping that he will either tell me the fucking truth, or not answer. Lol, yeah, I know that makes no sense. It just sucks because we were the best of friends in the beginning, now it's like I don't exist.
Why are you still texting him if you know he has no interest in you?
Speaking as a Crab, its seen as badgering and the more you do it, the chances of getting the *response you want* approach zero.
Speaking as a male, it comes off as crazy, and while he may be be polite, he'll have a judge on speed dial to get that restraining order.click to expand
Posted by JkatsAnd like today, I asked him if I could ask him a question (don't know why I asked him that lol!), he goes "sure". Just STOP with the communication if you don't want me anymore, Jesus Christ!!!!Posted by CancerOnTheCuspLol, I don't badger him! I text him maybe two or three (the most) times a week, and I don't ask him what we are, haven't in like a month.Posted by JkatsGood luck with that.Posted by CancerOnTheCuspBecause every time, i'm hoping that he will either tell me the fucking truth, or not answer. Lol, yeah, I know that makes no sense. It just sucks because we were the best of friends in the beginning, now it's like I don't exist.
Why are you still texting him if you know he has no interest in you?
Speaking as a Crab, its seen as badgering and the more you do it, the chances of getting the *response you want* approach zero.
Speaking as a male, it comes off as crazy, and while he may be be polite, he'll have a judge on speed dial to get that restraining order.
So just let it be then? No more texting? And how is it badgering if he won't fucking tell me that we're done?click to expand
Posted by JkatsI used to use that excuse...but then I accepted that sometimes the answers aren't given to me. Sometimes I have to discover them on my own. I've also learned that sometimes the questions I am asking aren't the right ones.Posted by LillyPetalI'm a Virgo, I NEED answers and closure, or else it drives me nuts.Posted by JkatsThe more introspective question, in my opinion, that is worth more of your thought is this: If you know that the cancerian man that you like has no interest in you anymore, why do you continue to communicate with him?
So I know that the Cancerian man I like has no interest in me anymore, in any aspect, but then why tf does he keep answering my texts? Why can't he just tell me that he's done, or at least cut off all communication? I realize that I should stop torturing myself and just let him go, but I can't!!! I want him to man up and say that we're over, how hard is that to do?!?! Immaturity at its finest, smdh.click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaYes, I must. And indeed, with him, I will never have any closure. But it's a shame, because I know once he is ready for a relationship, he will make an amazing bf. He does have a good heart, deep down. He loves his friends and family so much!Posted by JkatsThen you stop, my goodness.Posted by JkatsAnd like today, I asked him if I could ask him a question (don't know why I asked him that lol!), he goes "sure". Just STOP with the communication if you don't want me anymore, Jesus Christ!!!!Posted by CancerOnTheCuspLol, I don't badger him! I text him maybe two or three (the most) times a week, and I don't ask him what we are, haven't in like a month.Posted by JkatsGood luck with that.Posted by CancerOnTheCuspBecause every time, i'm hoping that he will either tell me the fucking truth, or not answer. Lol, yeah, I know that makes no sense. It just sucks because we were the best of friends in the beginning, now it's like I don't exist.
Why are you still texting him if you know he has no interest in you?
Speaking as a Crab, its seen as badgering and the more you do it, the chances of getting the *response you want* approach zero.
Speaking as a male, it comes off as crazy, and while he may be be polite, he'll have a judge on speed dial to get that restraining order.
So just let it be then? No more texting? And how is it badgering if he won't fucking tell me that we're done?
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Posted by GoldigoldWell he's said sure on many occasions, even when things were good between us lol! But no he doesn't care, I totally agree.
His response "sure" says it all....he doesn't care sweetheart. I'm sorry I know it's hard but he doesn't. Go out with your girlfriends this weekend have fun dress up. You'll meet someone knew.
It's so hard not knowing the truth... But he'll never tell you because he doesn't want to be thought of as a bad guy. It's a male cancer thing. Calm down, block his number and cut of all communication. Do some meditation and visually accept your not going to get what you need. Come to peace with it for a bit breath in breath out and let it go.
It doesn't always work out and that's ok.
Posted by LillyPetalYes, this! I have the answer right in front of my face lol, I just chose not to accept the truth for a long time, but now I do.Posted by JkatsI used to use that excuse...but then I accepted that sometimes the answers aren't given to me. Sometimes I have to discover them on my own. I've also learned that sometimes the questions I am asking aren't the right ones.Posted by LillyPetalI'm a Virgo, I NEED answers and closure, or else it drives me nuts.Posted by JkatsThe more introspective question, in my opinion, that is worth more of your thought is this: If you know that the cancerian man that you like has no interest in you anymore, why do you continue to communicate with him?
So I know that the Cancerian man I like has no interest in me anymore, in any aspect, but then why tf does he keep answering my texts? Why can't he just tell me that he's done, or at least cut off all communication? I realize that I should stop torturing myself and just let him go, but I can't!!! I want him to man up and say that we're over, how hard is that to do?!?! Immaturity at its finest, smdh.click to expand
Posted by JkatsDon't use being a Virgo as an excuse for the way you're allowing yourself to be treated.Posted by LillyPetalI'm a Virgo, I NEED answers and closure, or else it drives me nuts.Posted by JkatsThe more introspective question, in my opinion, that is worth more of your thought is this: If you know that the cancerian man that you like has no interest in you anymore, why do you continue to communicate with him?
So I know that the Cancerian man I like has no interest in me anymore, in any aspect, but then why tf does he keep answering my texts? Why can't he just tell me that he's done, or at least cut off all communication? I realize that I should stop torturing myself and just let him go, but I can't!!! I want him to man up and say that we're over, how hard is that to do?!?! Immaturity at its finest, smdh.click to expand
Posted by JkatsGood for you, my friend. 🌸Posted by LillyPetalYes, this! I have the answer right in front of my face lol, I just chose not to accept the truth for a long time, but now I do.Posted by JkatsI used to use that excuse...but then I accepted that sometimes the answers aren't given to me. Sometimes I have to discover them on my own. I've also learned that sometimes the questions I am asking aren't the right ones.Posted by LillyPetalI'm a Virgo, I NEED answers and closure, or else it drives me nuts.Posted by JkatsThe more introspective question, in my opinion, that is worth more of your thought is this: If you know that the cancerian man that you like has no interest in you anymore, why do you continue to communicate with him?
So I know that the Cancerian man I like has no interest in me anymore, in any aspect, but then why tf does he keep answering my texts? Why can't he just tell me that he's done, or at least cut off all communication? I realize that I should stop torturing myself and just let him go, but I can't!!! I want him to man up and say that we're over, how hard is that to do?!?! Immaturity at its finest, smdh.click to expand
Posted by happyface1I hear you loud and clear. I've let him treat me like shit for far too long, no more! I'm done being his doormat. Always making up excuses for his behavior, when i've known for awhile now his true intention.Posted by JkatsDon't use being a Virgo as an excuse for the way you're allowing yourself to be treated.Posted by LillyPetalI'm a Virgo, I NEED answers and closure, or else it drives me nuts.Posted by JkatsThe more introspective question, in my opinion, that is worth more of your thought is this: If you know that the cancerian man that you like has no interest in you anymore, why do you continue to communicate with him?
So I know that the Cancerian man I like has no interest in me anymore, in any aspect, but then why tf does he keep answering my texts? Why can't he just tell me that he's done, or at least cut off all communication? I realize that I should stop torturing myself and just let him go, but I can't!!! I want him to man up and say that we're over, how hard is that to do?!?! Immaturity at its finest, smdh.
You are a woman with value before any signs dealing in the zodiac come into play.
If you tell yourself you cannot move on until HE says it....you allow yourself to stay in turmoil mentally....ALONE.click to expand
Posted by GoldigoldI have, thank you for being understanding, it means a lot.Posted by JkatsHe'll just make you miserable until you walk away..Posted by GoldigoldWell he's said sure on many occasions, even when things were good between us lol! But no he doesn't care, I totally agree.
His response "sure" says it all....he doesn't care sweetheart. I'm sorry I know it's hard but he doesn't. Go out with your girlfriends this weekend have fun dress up. You'll meet someone knew.
It's so hard not knowing the truth... But he'll never tell you because he doesn't want to be thought of as a bad guy. It's a male cancer thing. Calm down, block his number and cut of all communication. Do some meditation and visually accept your not going to get what you need. Come to peace with it for a bit breath in breath out and let it go.
It doesn't always work out and that's ok.
And I KNEW he wouldn't cut things off because he didn't wanna be seen as the bad guy, I knew it! Motherfucker.
And no, he doesn't fulfill me in any way, so it's time to let him go....
I think in this situation he doesn't care, just calm down..and let it go..click to expand
Posted by Shellyd238I can hear his sob story now, what a loser.
It's also his way of keeping you as an option. He doesn't want to tell you that it's over because he wants the option of going back to you someday. not because he cares, but because he want's to keep his options open. As long as he never actually says it's over, he can always claim that he never wanted it to end, but you were the one that ended things(making it your fault).
It's just an ego thing, it has nothing to do with you.
Posted by SaggyjgalCreating ideas in his head of me—?
I fed feel like your just creating idea in his head of you plus, your just hurting yourself
Posted by SaggyjgalWell for the past month, I didn't do much of that, well in least in my eyes it wasn't lol! I just took his quiet as stress induced, because I know that he's moving in with his mom come June. Lol, just another excuse that I made up to make myself feel better.
Like as far as," damn this girl is always hitting me up" type of thing
Posted by Jkats*stay, not sfay lmao!Posted by Shellyd238I can hear his sob story now, what a loser.
It's also his way of keeping you as an option. He doesn't want to tell you that it's over because he wants the option of going back to you someday. not because he cares, but because he want's to keep his options open. As long as he never actually says it's over, he can always claim that he never wanted it to end, but you were the one that ended things(making it your fault).
It's just an ego thing, it has nothing to do with you.
And yes, you are right, because in the past when i've blown up at him trying to end things, he never fights for me to sfay, he always makes it seem like it's what I want, not that i'm doing it because he's a douche. Damn, he's a good player, and I was dumb enough to be played. Well lesson learned. The next guy is gonna have to work his ass off to earn my love.click to expand
Posted by JkatsYou got it girl ! It gets easier to let go as time goes on...good luck ! And don't beat yourself up. We've all been in relationships a little longer than we should have.Posted by happyface1I hear you loud and clear. I've let him treat me like shit for far too long, no more! I'm done being his doormat. Always making up excuses for his behavior, when i've known for awhile now his true intention.Posted by JkatsDon't use being a Virgo as an excuse for the way you're allowing yourself to be treated.Posted by LillyPetalI'm a Virgo, I NEED answers and closure, or else it drives me nuts.Posted by JkatsThe more introspective question, in my opinion, that is worth more of your thought is this: If you know that the cancerian man that you like has no interest in you anymore, why do you continue to communicate with him?
So I know that the Cancerian man I like has no interest in me anymore, in any aspect, but then why tf does he keep answering my texts? Why can't he just tell me that he's done, or at least cut off all communication? I realize that I should stop torturing myself and just let him go, but I can't!!! I want him to man up and say that we're over, how hard is that to do?!?! Immaturity at its finest, smdh.
You are a woman with value before any signs dealing in the zodiac come into play.
If you tell yourself you cannot move on until HE says it....you allow yourself to stay in turmoil mentally....ALONE.
I'm disappointed in myself for letting it go on for so long, but that's what love will do to you. One day I will find a man deserving of my love, but he sure has hell isn't.click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaKoniucha is life.
What if he never does? Will you text him forever?
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspYet he's the immature one!
Why are you still texting him if you know he has no interest in you?
Posted by SssupesUmmm yes he is, when he can't be man enough to tell me the truth straight up!Posted by CancerOnTheCuspYet he's the immature one!
Why are you still texting him if you know he has no interest in you?
He don't like me anymore so I'm gonna annoy the crap out of him, you know, just to be sure.click to expand
Posted by JkatsOh, there's a backstory? How did I know that was coming?Posted by SssupesUmmm yes he is, when he can't be man enough to tell me the truth straight up!Posted by CancerOnTheCuspYet he's the immature one!
Why are you still texting him if you know he has no interest in you?
He don't like me anymore so I'm gonna annoy the crap out of him, you know, just to be sure.
I know my behavior in the past was far from stellar (because of his manipulative ways) so I placed the blame on myself, and thought that maybe if I changed, he'd come around. Plus I kept reading on how Cancer men act, so I wasn't sure if he was just backing off to observe me, or he was hurt in some way etc. You can see from all of these sad Cancer men stories, that they are hard to understand and read, so I didn't know what to make of his actions. Now I know.
And just to add to my story, he kept on talking about marrying me and me having his baby, so yeah, you could say that that led me to feel a lot of confusion. So i'd like to say that your statement is very wrong.click to expand
Posted by GoldigoldWell he was, and I fell for it all. I just don't understand why he was so happy the one time we thought I was pregnant, that is something I will never get. He's sick in the head, really.Posted by JkatsYeah they think they are so clever, They spend to much time trying to manipulate. It's not your fault for believing a player. None of it it your fault. Who knows why they are so gross and evil.Posted by Shellyd238I can hear his sob story now, what a loser.
It's also his way of keeping you as an option. He doesn't want to tell you that it's over because he wants the option of going back to you someday. not because he cares, but because he want's to keep his options open. As long as he never actually says it's over, he can always claim that he never wanted it to end, but you were the one that ended things(making it your fault).
It's just an ego thing, it has nothing to do with you.
And yes, you are right, because in the past when i've blown up at him trying to end things, he never fights for me to sfay, he always makes it seem like it's what I want, not that i'm doing it because he's a douche. Damn, he's a good player, and I was dumb enough to be played. Well lesson learned. The next guy is gonna have to work his ass off to earn my love.
Looking forward to hearing about someone knew! Always make them work for it!click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaI hope so too, I am sad for the any other girl's heart he breaks. He is scum, what an amazing facade he put up.
It's very unfortunate that men behave this way so often.
Hopefully this guy becomes an actual man one of these days.
Posted by DMVFangirlI am moving on, though it will take time. I still love him, or rather the idea of what he portrayed to me in the beginning, but it's no more. What a sad sad chapter in my life, but it's time to close it now.
Guaranteed fool proof way to get closure. I promise it works every time. Has never failed me
Move. On.
Once you have moved on from the situation completely, the truth will reveal itself to you.
The one and only way. Good luck
Posted by FutureSeekerWell I didn't think this was the case, up until the past few weeks, I just thought he was in a funk. And my only answer is, because love makes you blind. It's hard to accept that you're being rejected by the one you love the most. I had hope, but you can't live on hope, can you?
Why do you want someone in your life, who doesn't want you? I know how sad that can feel- at the same time- why do YOU want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?
Posted by aquarius09Yes I can see that, but it's the cowards way out. My god my heart is breaking. And I am leaving him alone, because there is nothing left to fight for.
They are passive and will neverr give you a straight rejection because they know what rejection feels like, especially given that it's their dreaded fear. They want you to get the hint and if you were wise, you would. Stop being desperate and leave him be.
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