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MoonArtist
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Posted by victoriagemini
@moonartist yeah other advice before was way more meaningful than this. You just don't get it and I guess you find it odd he's still in contact with me.
When it's obvious someone isn't listening to advice given but continues harping about the same thing then people do tend to get annoyed and stop giving a shit. It's your life, your bday, etc. Decide how you want to live it: wasting time on someone/thing that doesn't make you happy or spending it where it does.
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@moonartist umm how many posts u done? Let's count...point is this a forum for venting..but I'm guessing u should know that
Probably a lot of posts since I've been on dxp for a few years, but none of them have been redundant threads whining about some guy, or anyone else because I don't entertain or keep around those kinds of people in my life. You specifically posted this thread with a question which suggests you wanted advice, not a bunch of pats on the back for "venting". Also, venting is different than whining.
Like I said...I never suggested what it means and if anything. You just probably don't get he didn't complety disappear from my life
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I did get that, because you mention it ALOT. My point is, so the fuck what? It's still social media! You're obsessed with how much he likes your stuff on social media, upset he didn't send you a private message wishing you a happy bday, and when you get to the heart of the matter none of it actually matters because it's just social media, he's not your bf, you didn't have much of a relationship, and he has an actual gf. If you don't like him keeping a presence on your social media then delete him. Simple.
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Saying happy birthday on social media is just one minuscule step away from not saying it at all. He's putting in the absolute minimal effort in keeping you tethered to him because he wants your attention ONLY. it does not mean that he gives a flying shit about you. He's being selfish and very very disrespectful of you and your feelings about him.

You have a right to be upset about the circumstance and the shitty way that he handled it. BUT if you want to stop being hurt by him, you HAVE GOT to block him on social media because you're allowing him to keep you tethered. You'll never move on if you keep allowing it.

I hope you have a happy birthday, you need to celebrate yourself and give yourself the gift of cutting the string.
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Posted by victoriagemini
Damn this board just makes you feel worse...some of you need to smell the daisies. I'm out

you will be forever his " darling ". 🙂. That s so nice .!.. 🙂 he will remember u that way( though i think all else is out, but for the best ! ) He must remember u very fondly. Why do u say he wanted u just for sex? He wanted to start some thng wirh you and u did not want.to. not sure how long he waited around but sounds a while...🙂. . He is 37: needs sex. So it would have been unhealthy to continue otherwise. I admire u for being a virgin. It s precious. Hope u meet a guy who will understand it. I rhink u may benefit feom a younger than yourrself man 🙂. If ir s true u a virgin... wow. Honorable !
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Posted by victoriagemini
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So he was someone you were involved with that now has a new girlfriend?

Why would he text you or send a private msg? He has a new lady in his life, he was nice enough to wish you a happy birthday and even called you darling..
He can shove it with the darling. Picked another lady made her his g/f and calling me darling ugh
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yea.. your still stuck on this and him, deny it all you want.

he didn't pick someome over you, he meet someone!

He didn't HAVE to do anything yet here you are complaoning about his birthday wish.. jesus.

As to the social media stuff.. there are millions of other people on there too.. so what if he follwos you or likes your shit , i means NOTHING. Why do females place so much stock in the likes, comments etc on social media, i reallllly don't understand this.
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Posted by victoriagemini
Hi everyone I'm new here :-) so I'm a Gemini and I met this cool Man at the airport. We stayed in touch he contacting me often. Had a nice date , then met again at his house for a party he invited me too. Well after the party ended I stayed a little with him and things got heated we ended up sleeping together except the thing is we didn't have sex because I didn't feel comfortable going all the way yet even though I'm 30 and he's 35. I was fine with the touching and other pleasures. Anyway after that night he barely is contacting me. I'm kinds confused as too what happened. I read Britneybabe26 post and it seems so similar to my story its funny btw. Soo I don't chase men and I won't chase this cancer but still wtf happened? I know he has a Taurus moon and Mars Gemini.

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Hi everyone I'm new here :-) so I'm a Gemini and I met this cool Man at the airport. We stayed in touch he contacting me often. Had a nice date , then met again at his house for a party he invited me too. Well after the party ended I stayed a little with him and things got heated we ended up sleeping together except the thing is we didn't have sex because I didn't feel comfortable going all the way yet even though I'm 30 and he's 35. I was fine with the touching and other pleasures. Anyway after that night he barely is contacting me. I'm kinds confused as too what happened. I read Britneybabe26 post and it seems so similar to my story its funny btw. Soo I don't chase men and I won't chase this cancer but still wtf happened? I know he has a Taurus moon and Mars Gemini.

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oh..i thought girl was a virgin 😢. Well almost. . Hm... pleasures? 🙂l. So some gurls deive men crazy while still getting " pleasures". Lol. Hmmmm. Oi oi oi.
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Posted by victoriagemini
Hi everyone I'm new here :-) so I'm a Gemini and I met this cool Man at the airport. We stayed in touch he contacting me often. Had a nice date , then met again at his house for a party he invited me too. Well after the party ended I stayed a little with him and things got heated we ended up sleeping together except the thing is we didn't have sex because I didn't feel comfortable going all the way yet even though I'm 30 and he's 35. I was fine with the touching and other pleasures. Anyway after that night he barely is contacting me. I'm kinds confused as too what happened. I read Britneybabe26 post and it seems so similar to my story its funny btw. Soo I don't chase men and I won't chase this cancer but still wtf happened? I know he has a Taurus moon and Mars Gemini.

oh..i thought girl was a virgin 😢. Well almost. . Hm... pleasures? 🙂l. So some gurls deive men crazy while still getting " pleasures". Lol. Hmmmm. Oi oi oi.
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Too many holes in her story and she's not keeping her lies straight. Now everything is suspect.
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Posted by victoriagemini
Hi everyone I'm new here :-) so I'm a Gemini and I met this cool Man at the airport. We stayed in touch he contacting me often. Had a nice date , then met again at his house for a party he invited me too. Well after the party ended I stayed a little with him and things got heated we ended up sleeping together except the thing is we didn't have sex because I didn't feel comfortable going all the way yet even though I'm 30 and he's 35. I was fine with the touching and other pleasures. Anyway after that night he barely is contacting me. I'm kinds confused as too what happened. I read Britneybabe26 post and it seems so similar to my story its funny btw. Soo I don't chase men and I won't chase this cancer but still wtf happened? I know he has a Taurus moon and Mars Gemini.

oh..i thought girl was a virgin 😢. Well almost. . Hm... pleasures? 🙂l. So some gurls deive men crazy while still getting " pleasures". Lol. Hmmmm. Oi oi oi.
Too many holes in her story and she's not keeping her lies straight. Now everything is suspect.
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Reminds me of Kalin TBH
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Posted by victoriagemini
Such a bitch!
If he sent you a private HBD message and then offered to take you out for a candlelight dinner on your bday, would you go?

His 38 year old gf is out of town.
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Depends if she subtracts her 29 yrs old self from her previously 30 yr old self and adds it to his 35 yr old self divided by his 37 yr old self and then times that by the square root of the distance to the local state mental hospital.