Really?

Are you cancers really get pissy just over deleted chat messages or on hold calls?

So you can yell and curses for that? Really?

They're very sentimental about old conversations and photos. Deleting them from both sides is a surefire way of causing hurt... Intentional or not.

It depends if they're irrelevant people that are acquaintances.

If it's an important friend and a lover, than yes

WhatsApp has message revoke feature. So i sent him a pic of me yesterday but then i thought it looks silly so i deleted it.

He woke up in the morning and asked me what was it that i deleted. I told him nevermind it was silly pic.

He called and all pissed off, yelling at me and curse and such. I don't like it that he called me dude and dawg. All just because he doesn't like it that i removed the pic. And that now it makes him feel there's secrets.

I tried to calm him down and things kinda back to normal shortly.

Then this morning, he called me again. Then out of sudden his voice just changed to on hold tunes. The call was on hold, means that he got incoming call.

I thought since he's on the other call, i'd just let him finish that new call. So i hung our call up.

It happened twice. Then he called me back and yell at me again said that can i just fucking not hanging up the call on him anymore. He got so upset and it wasn't cool at all to me.

Yelling, cursing, calling names over that? Really?

Posted by aquaglass

WhatsApp has message revoke feature. So i sent him a pic of me yesterday but then i thought it looks silly so i deleted it.

He woke up in the morning and asked me what was it that i deleted. I told him nevermind it was silly pic.

He called and all pissed off, yelling at me and curse and such. I don't like it that he called me dude and dawg. All just because he doesn't like it that i removed the pic. And that now it makes him feel there's secrets.

I tried to calm him down and things kinda back to normal shortly.

Then this morning, he called me again. Then out of sudden his voice just changed to on hold tunes. The call was on hold, means that he got incoming call.

I thought since he's on the other call, i'd just let him finish that new call. So i hung our call up.

It happened twice. Then he called me back and yell at me again said that can i just fucking not hanging up the call on him anymore. He got so upset and it wasn't cool at all to me.

Yelling, cursing, calling names over that? Really?

Haha that sounds familiar! I used to date a cancer he was like that too !

Posted by aquaglass

WhatsApp has message revoke feature. So i sent him a pic of me yesterday but then i thought it looks silly so i deleted it.

He woke up in the morning and asked me what was it that i deleted. I told him nevermind it was silly pic.

He called and all pissed off, yelling at me and curse and such. I don't like it that he called me dude and dawg. All just because he doesn't like it that i removed the pic. And that now it makes him feel there's secrets.

I tried to calm him down and things kinda back to normal shortly.

Then this morning, he called me again. Then out of sudden his voice just changed to on hold tunes. The call was on hold, means that he got incoming call.

I thought since he's on the other call, i'd just let him finish that new call. So i hung our call up.

It happened twice. Then he called me back and yell at me again said that can i just fucking not hanging up the call on him anymore. He got so upset and it wasn't cool at all to me.

Yelling, cursing, calling names over that? Really?

something is not adding up

whats the back story?

Posted by aquaglass

WhatsApp has message revoke feature. So i sent him a pic of me yesterday but then i thought it looks silly so i deleted it.

He woke up in the morning and asked me what was it that i deleted. I told him nevermind it was silly pic.

He called and all pissed off, yelling at me and curse and such. I don't like it that he called me dude and dawg. All just because he doesn't like it that i removed the pic. And that now it makes him feel there's secrets.

I tried to calm him down and things kinda back to normal shortly.

Then this morning, he called me again. Then out of sudden his voice just changed to on hold tunes. The call was on hold, means that he got incoming call.

I thought since he's on the other call, i'd just let him finish that new call. So i hung our call up.

It happened twice. Then he called me back and yell at me again said that can i just fucking not hanging up the call on him anymore. He got so upset and it wasn't cool at all to me.

Yelling, cursing, calling names over that? Really?

The dude sounds controlling and insecure. Tell him he should respect your time by not doing shit like putting you on hold and that he's being childish for yelling at you over your choices to delete -your- photos. Seriously is he 13

I just told him to get some space and if he wants to talk to me again he gotta talk in a nicer and cooler way, without yell curse or call names.

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Posted by aquaglass

I just told him to get some space and if he wants to talk to me again he gotta talk in a nicer and cooler way, without yell curse or call names.

When was the last time you saw this man in person and actually spent time with him? If he can't even handle his outbursts and be nice during brief online interactions with you, then what is he going to be like to live with?

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Years ago. I don't know. I've been like losing my feelings towards him lately.

Posted by aquaglass

WhatsApp has message revoke feature. So i sent him a pic of me yesterday but then i thought it looks silly so i deleted it.

He woke up in the morning and asked me what was it that i deleted. I told him nevermind it was silly pic.

He called and all pissed off, yelling at me and curse and such. I don't like it that he called me dude and dawg. All just because he doesn't like it that i removed the pic. And that now it makes him feel there's secrets.

I tried to calm him down and things kinda back to normal shortly.

Then this morning, he called me again. Then out of sudden his voice just changed to on hold tunes. The call was on hold, means that he got incoming call.

I thought since he's on the other call, i'd just let him finish that new call. So i hung our call up.

It happened twice. Then he called me back and yell at me again said that can i just fucking not hanging up the call on him anymore. He got so upset and it wasn't cool at all to me.

Yelling, cursing, calling names over that? Really?

sigh .lol

he got air/fire?



lucky for u he probably dont have scorpio,

you'd just get the silence, and cut off for a bit. lol

which is torture. but that's also crab sideways running off and cutting off as well. lol



well um, whyd u hang up on him? That's really rude anyway lol

i wouldnt like it. is he one of those guys that have double standards?? ugh lol

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Posted by Ladyleo18

Posted by aquaglass

I just told him to get some space and if he wants to talk to me again he gotta talk in a nicer and cooler way, without yell curse or call names.

When was the last time you saw this man in person and actually spent time with him? If he can't even handle his outbursts and be nice during brief online interactions with you, then what is he going to be like to live with?

Years ago. I don't know. I've been like losing my feelings towards him lately.

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ah thats why... lol so many years pass by... were u trying to get over him?

if u are losing your feelings, why are u bothering with him?

I don't even get why you have been dealing with someone that lives in another country, that you haven't seen in years, and is having legal issues. I mean you posted about wanting to marry him and move to his country a few weeks ago. And now you come here with this crazy stuff.

This whole thing is messy, and weird.

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Posted by aquaglass

WhatsApp has message revoke feature. So i sent him a pic of me yesterday but then i thought it looks silly so i deleted it.

He woke up in the morning and asked me what was it that i deleted. I told him nevermind it was silly pic.

He called and all pissed off, yelling at me and curse and such. I don't like it that he called me dude and dawg. All just because he doesn't like it that i removed the pic. And that now it makes him feel there's secrets.

I tried to calm him down and things kinda back to normal shortly.

Then this morning, he called me again. Then out of sudden his voice just changed to on hold tunes. The call was on hold, means that he got incoming call.

I thought since he's on the other call, i'd just let him finish that new call. So i hung our call up.

It happened twice. Then he called me back and yell at me again said that can i just fucking not hanging up the call on him anymore. He got so upset and it wasn't cool at all to me.

Yelling, cursing, calling names over that? Really?

sigh .lol

he got air/fire?



lucky for u he probably dont have scorpio,

you'd just get the silence, and cut off for a bit. lol

which is torture. but that's also crab sideways running off and cutting off as well. lol



well um, whyd u hang up on him? That's really rude anyway lol

i wouldnt like it. is he one of those guys that have double standards?? ugh lol

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Oh yes he is air / fire kind of cancer.

Cancer Sun, Sag Moon, Gemini Venus.

So we're on WhatsApp call. And when there's another incoming call, our ongoing call would get interrupted and on-hold.

The voice would replaced by the hold tunes right away, even when the incoming call hasn't get picked up.

And since i was only hearing the weird tunes, and thought that he is on the other call. I'd just let him talk and finish that one, so i hung up.

Then just simply waited for him to call me back after.

But when i'm hanging it up, he's still trying to talk to me (while i couldn't hear him whatsoever, i just heard the tunes) saying "babe, i'll call you back ok?" Which then he got a "Um no" reply from the other side which wasn't me but the other person who's calling. Apparently when i hung it up, his phone just automatically picked up the incoming call.

He got bummed by that, then told me about it. And yelled at me to not hanging up on him anymore ever while the call is on-hold.

I didn't try to be rude at all. I actually just wanted to give him some time to finish his business.

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Posted by Ladyleo18

Posted by aquaglass

I just told him to get some space and if he wants to talk to me again he gotta talk in a nicer and cooler way, without yell curse or call names.

When was the last time you saw this man in person and actually spent time with him? If he can't even handle his outbursts and be nice during brief online interactions with you, then what is he going to be like to live with?

Years ago. I don't know. I've been like losing my feelings towards him lately.

It doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship from what you've been posting on here. I have an awesome cancer man so it's not the sign that's the problem, but I think the man you are wasting your time on is probably not worth anymore of it. So if you haven't seen him in years anyway and are able to detatch, go find another man who isn't so much drama to deal with. You deserve to be happy and with someone compatible. You obviously need to try with people and get to know them to find out if they're right or not, but figure it out and don't settle for less than that. Life's too short to waste time on drop kicks that disrespect you. So go choose a good man instead

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Thank you for this reply! Yes i've been thinking so too.

Posted by nikkistar

I don't even get why you have been dealing with someone that lives in another country, that you haven't seen in years, and is having legal issues. I mean you posted about wanting to marry him and move to his country a few weeks ago. And now you come here with this crazy stuff.

This whole thing is messy, and weird.

Guess i'm just being such a dummy? I know that these whole thing is crazy. But as weird as it sounds i got feelings for him, which always makes me roll my eyes to myself because it is insane.

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I delete all my chats. especially intimate ones. So I'm not sure I'd care if someone deleted my chats

But being hung up on can seem very disrespectful. So i get hiss point.

I think communication is important in this case. Just let him know you don't like his reaction and move on

Cancers beat ourselves alot

I did explain it with a solid proof that all i heard was on-hold tunes, i couldn't hear him whatsoever. And i hung up on him because I thought he is on another call and just want to let him talk and finish that call without having to worry that i am waiting.

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Posted by nikkistar

I don't even get why you have been dealing with someone that lives in another country, that you haven't seen in years, and is having legal issues. I mean you posted about wanting to marry him and move to his country a few weeks ago. And now you come here with this crazy stuff.

This whole thing is messy, and weird.

Guess i'm just being such a dummy? I know that these whole thing is crazy. But as weird as it sounds i got feelings for him, which always makes me roll my eyes to myself because it is insane.

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You aquas always hang on to the most toxic things. Even if you logically know it's fucked up, and won't go anywhere. You guys hold on to it for dear life, at the expense of everything.

You deserve more than this.

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Posted by aquaglass

Posted by nikkistar

I don't even get why you have been dealing with someone that lives in another country, that you haven't seen in years, and is having legal issues. I mean you posted about wanting to marry him and move to his country a few weeks ago. And now you come here with this crazy stuff.

This whole thing is messy, and weird.

Guess i'm just being such a dummy? I know that these whole thing is crazy. But as weird as it sounds i got feelings for him, which always makes me roll my eyes to myself because it is insane.

You aquas always hang on to the most toxic things. Even if you logically know it's fucked up, and won't go anywhere. You guys hold on to it for dear life, at the expense of everything.

You deserve more than this.

who says she deserves more than this or anybody deserves more than this

i don't get that line

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I'd like to think any person, that isn't truly a raging cunt that gets kicks out of mutilating animals, or laughing at children being hurt, or a rapist, deserves a partner that is loving and caring.

That every man or woman, that truly isn't the scum of the earth, shouldn't allow themselves to be subjugated to toxicity in a relationship.

Since the OP, doesn't resemble someone that I mentioned beforehand, I believe she deserves more.

Now if we were talking about @OCJack, that would be a different story.

No its not about that. Cancers hold epic grudges. So that one time you did that one thing...well now you are paying for it.

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Posted by nikkistar

I don't even get why you have been dealing with someone that lives in another country, that you haven't seen in years, and is having legal issues. I mean you posted about wanting to marry him and move to his country a few weeks ago. And now you come here with this crazy stuff.

This whole thing is messy, and weird.

Guess i'm just being such a dummy? I know that these whole thing is crazy. But as weird as it sounds i got feelings for him, which always makes me roll my eyes to myself because it is insane.

You aquas always hang on to the most toxic things. Even if you logically know it's fucked up, and won't go anywhere. You guys hold on to it for dear life, at the expense of everything.

You deserve more than this.

who says she deserves more than this or anybody deserves more than this

i don't get that line

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