Series Finale feat AquariusJan25

To all the Cancers of this section that have read my threads in the past few weeks know what I've been dealing with and I think I've finally come to the decision to end things with the Cancer female I've been talking to romantically long distance for the past 10 months.

I love Cancers but my patience has ran thin with this one, between her hot and coldness, her constant need for attention which makes her come off flirty as fuck which in turn hurts me and has been something I've been having to deal with wince day 1, and some of her lies have finally pushed me over the edge, and Aquarius can take a lot of shit, my shit meter is over maximum.



I'm trying to end everything on a good note and not make it come over so harsh to her...I need some help 🙂



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- Her flirting pushed me to talking about being just friends numerous times
- Valentines Day comes around and she sends me a text I took negatively and responded as such.
- Gets mad and we don't talk for a week
- Comes back and acts like everything is cool
- Two days later she's pissed again
- Pushing and pulling me in since March 2nd
- Ramps up her flirting even changes her profile pic to a half naked picture of her with a bra and jeans
- Texts me earlier today that she loves me?

I'm tired of this ^^^^^^^^

And a quick question, Why do some cancers never want nip stuff in the bud when it happens? She lets things linger and when I want to talk about them over the phone she has an excuse...told me today that she doesn't want to talk to me on the phone cause she will get emotional?

Somebody guide this Young Aquarius to the light please I'm lost,

Flirty with who? You or other people? I don't see why her being flirty with /you/ would hurt you?

Posted by LordTerramine
Flirty with who? You or other people? I don't see why her being flirty with /you/ would hurt you?

Nah man, flirty with other people[Guys], well in her own words [being friendly and fun because of her personality]

My cancer comes off as real flirty but she's the same way with every man woman and child unless she doesn't like you and knows for sure she shouldn't like you. She's not flirty with the guys she really likes. She has really odd ways sometimes. She wears mini skirts in the cold winter and sweat pants and hoodies in the summer.

And u sure she mad? Sometimes my friend comes off as mad but really she's nervous because it's hard for her to approach guys she really likes.

Posted by StarChild63
And u sure she mad? Sometimes my friend comes off as mad but really she's nervous because it's hard for her to approach guys she really likes.

I mean, she most likely is still mad because till this day she still brings up that I've hurt her with the being friends thing. It shouldn't be hard for her to approach me, she's shared some of her deepest secrets with me and even approached me about my "supposed flirting" with one of my bestfriends.

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And u sure she mad? Sometimes my friend comes off as mad but really she's nervous because it's hard for her to approach guys she really likes.

I mean, she most likely is still mad because till this day she still brings up that I've hurt her with the being friends thing. It shouldn't be hard for her to approach me, she's shared some of her deepest secrets with me and even approached me about my "supposed flirting" with one of my bestfriends.

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Sounds like she needs more effort from you or she needs more of a assurance that you really like or love her. That way she'll be comfortable enough to be her normal flirtatious self with you and she'll probably listen to you more and try to change her personality and stop being so open. Cancers can be very closed but still have a very open and warm personality. What other people might see as flirting she sees as being respectful and being herself.

Posted by AquariusJan25
To all the Cancers of this section that have read my threads in the past few weeks know what I've been dealing with and I think I've finally come to the decision to end things with the Cancer female I've been talking to romantically long distance for the past 10 months

Is this one of those "Facebook relationships"? Those tend to be nothing more than one or more parties stroking their own ego with no real component.
How do you know it was anything more than just that?

And when a cancers heart is set on you that thing is SET ON YOU trust me. They can be in burning love with someone but only express a tiny bit of that love. But once she knows for sure you love her back the way she loves you she will move mountains for you and be crazy loyal to you---even when you fuck up. But before she does all that she has to first know how you want her to communicate with her and have a verbal agreement between the two of you saying you both want to commit to each other. I'm telling you! I know her like the back of my hand.

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And u sure she mad? Sometimes my friend comes off as mad but really she's nervous because it's hard for her to approach guys she really likes.

I mean, she most likely is still mad because till this day she still brings up that I've hurt her with the being friends thing. It shouldn't be hard for her to approach me, she's shared some of her deepest secrets with me and even approached me about my "supposed flirting" with one of my bestfriends.

Sounds like she needs more effort from you or she needs more of a assurance that you really like or love her. That way she'll be comfortable enough to be her normal flirtatious self with you and she'll probably listen to you more and try to change her personality and stop being so open. Cancers can be very closed but still have a very open and warm personality. What other people might see as flirting she sees as being respectful and being herself.

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That's the thing, I love her and she knows that but me I'm a very emotional person. I understand she's mad at me but when I'm telling her I do love her and I get a dry response or a kiss face emoji with no words it starts tearing me down slowly, and I end up not saying until she says it so I don't get my self hurt. Then she'll go another day where it's just dryness once again and I'm back in my lovey dovey mood and I get dry responses...the pushing and pulling game was cute a few months ago but it's flat out old now. Yesterday in a text she says "I love you and I mean that" I honestly said "I love you too and I've always meant that" out of niceness because I didn't want to make her feel any type of way. I 'm not falling for these I love you traps anymore.

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp

Posted by AquariusJan25
To all the Cancers of this section that have read my threads in the past few weeks know what I've been dealing with and I think I've finally come to the decision to end things with the Cancer female I've been talking to romantically long distance for the past 10 months

Is this one of those "Facebook relationships"? Those tend to be nothing more than one or more parties stroking their own ego with no real component.
How do you know it was anything more than just that?

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Nah no Facebook relationship haha.

Mailing each other, talking to parents, sending and receiving gifts (a lot)..not being able to go even an hour without talking to or telling each other we love the other person 😢

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Posted by AquariusJan25
To all the Cancers of this section that have read my threads in the past few weeks know what I've been dealing with and I think I've finally come to the decision to end things with the Cancer female I've been talking to romantically long distance for the past 10 months

Is this one of those "Facebook relationships"? Those tend to be nothing more than one or more parties stroking their own ego with no real component.
How do you know it was anything more than just that?

Nah no Facebook relationship haha.

Mailing each other, talking to parents, sending and receiving gifts (a lot)..not being able to go even an hour without talking to or telling each other we love the other person 😢

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She loves you and I know you know she loves you. I can tell by your words. Emojis tell me you never told her I love you face to face? If you want a cancer woman to give you attention you have to be bold and put yourself out there because she's a shy on the inside. You can't think she'll follow your hints you have to just hold her by the shoulders and get her attention and say what you need to say. And cancer women are flirty so she probably doesn't think you see her as flirty so tell her you don't like it.

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I feel your pain AquariusJan25 as I'm currently dealing with a cancer too.It's really frustrating to deal with this situation because you don't know where you stand. Just do what you think is right for you

It does get old! And even if you repeatedly prove it to them, its lost! Its draining! And finally you have no more to give!