What do you want?

After having read through the cancer forum, and passing through the same scenario of facing the dilemma of the reappearing cancer man, I am in a state of confusion :

If you disappear without reason and leave me wondering,
When you dont care about the impact your actions have had on me,
When you come back and expect to pick things up right where you left them,
What do you expect from me?

TAF

:-) Still unsure of my next course of action. I was exhausted with the pull and push and let it run its course. But now that I have gotten over the pain, he is back.

Thanks Aurora! I communicated that the previous time and he still did it! I guess that if he does not respect my care and time, and returns at his own whim and fancy, its time for Goodbye. I have no time for manipulative self-cantered behaviour!

>What do you expect from me?

Thanks Finbuff however both of us are fully aware that I did not hurt him. He says that I am caring, non judgmental and considerate!!! He holds me in very high regard. But, then he goes and does things which he knows hurt me! I know I have a high degree of patience but to what extent! Why should I always crush my feelings and let things pass?
And now that I have been away for several months he wants back?
Of course I know that he likes me or else he would not return but does he expect me to accept him with open arms and a red carpet? Because discussions of emotions will only result in "deathly silence"!

I actually ageee with Naomi B angry ass...

I wonder this too..every time I start forgetting about him he comes back.

Posted by mgmtlove
I wonder this too..every time I start forgetting about him he comes back.

NaomiB - is kind of right even if she seems upset about something... but nah.. I haven't had that experience with cancer, tho... mine BFF left and left for good..