When can you tell it's over (Page 2)

ummm...yeah... in my experience gemeinis don't make for great moral compasses...BUT they sure like to preach!

I have a lot of libra in my chart....guess you don't like me anymore 😢

just kidding by the way!

lol Angel you're my Goddess birthday twin, I'll always love youuuuuu!! But yanno that does clear up some differences in our personalities that I've wondered about. You DO act like a Libra lady sometimes.

lol - I meant Paul wouldn't like me anymore - he has a deep hatred for libra 😛
but I'm sure it explains a lot - plus you founf out you're not a scorp rising after all.
We think the same - we just express ourselves differently.

naw Im scorp rising, Im not cap moon, Im sagg moon...maybe. It changed within the hour I was born and I dont know my exact birth time.

aaah , very well said SF

AND hAPPY nEW yEAR TO U TOO

oh okay I thought I remembered you saying it was the rising you weren't sure about - that changes every two hours so you might want to check that too.

No you're right Angel
lol I still dont know who I am: Im Taurus sun, Cap moon, and Sagg or Scorp rising

lol - don't worry, I remember ridiculous things that other people are like "what I never said that" and they did.....

lol I do too, or I remember a way to backtrack and recheck.

thinkgs just stick out in my mind

what— u have libra in your chart— *sigh* 😢

🙂

yup...sorry...guess I'm not good enough for you anymore 😢

I'm going to need consoling....

well why dont u just run right to that paul guy u keep bringing up............typical libra behavior 😛

maybe I will......... he's cute, smart, funny.....yes - that will do quite nicely 😛

i knew i was replacable 😢 ...........😉

sorry dear...but you can't compete with perfection 😉

*sigh*

oh Paul.......

u and that paul guy are hijacking this thread u know........thats not very thoughtful of the two of u.....

jealous? 😉

me ....jealous......never😉

of course not.... 😉

now returning thread to it regularly scheduled topic...........

when they never speak to u again!

when we are done with a situation or a person we will act differently or not at all. we might not be direct in some things but i am sure one will pick up on our subtle straight forward way of showing you it is over..lol

Posted by krobe03
Yeap,
The only thing I can say is Cancer men are COMPLEX! Very complex. I used to allow myself to go through the same things that you ladies allow yourselves to go through. Not anymore, if you want to walk away from me and leave me because I made you mad, bye. Don't come back on your terms either, I will come back to you when "I" get ready. I have experienced the same things with a Cancer man that you ladies experience except for when he comes back and acts like nothing happened. I ignore his arse. I have come to the conclusion that I will come back when I get ready. As long as he makes me wait for him to come back, I triple the times longer that I come back and this time I don't think I even want him back. I will rather for another woman to put up with his "headache" and I just stay friendly but distant and aloof.

This man will constantly sit up her and want me to do things for him like I am his wife/mother/girlfriend and then if I show him love or mess up his fantasy he will run. Nope, not any more, if he wants me to act like his momma, no sex, and if he screams and hollers he loves me, I am his "baby", I will tell him, well I can't have a passion for my man if I have to act like his momma. That is a turn off.

If he asks me to do things to please him or reassure him of my love, I tell him, nope, you are a free man and you have the freedom to do whatever you please, I am not attached to any outcome with you and if you want to leave me, bye, I don't need to reassure you of my love by making a dayum fool out of myself.

If he asks me to accomidate him and meet him places to do things for him, I tell him, nope if you want something or anything for me, you come and get it or you can't have it. I am not your wife.

This man's love hurts. I am not generalizing ALL Cancer men either.

This was too funny!! Hahahaa.... My Cancer bf has done his disappearing act yet again. Got upset and we ended the night on a sour note and he now has not spoken to me in 5 days!!! I know already to wait it out be patient blah blah... but your comment ^^ is exactly how I was feelin today!! Cancer men.. ughhh gotta love em.

@BrooklynB

Wow....Sounds like he put you through emotional hell....Us cancers can do that and not realize it and sometimes we know exactly what we'er doing....But Im dating a female like you...she is the type who doesnt put up with any crap and is strong willed....Me being a cancer I dont mind a female like that, its a chanllege for me. I just love when I give her so much love and effection that that strong willed women'nes goes right out the window.....I still get on her nervers though...LOL

Posted by LiquidAir29

@BrooklynB

Wow....Sounds like he put you through emotional hell....Us cancers can do that and not realize it and sometimes we know exactly what we'er doing....But Im dating a female like you...she is the type who doesnt put up with any crap and is strong willed....Me being a cancer I dont mind a female like that, its a chanllege for me. I just love when I give her so much love and effection that that strong willed women'nes goes right out the window.....I still get on her nervers though...LOL

Oh LiquidAir you have no idea. I think he KNOWS what he is doing. The first time we ever had an issue (which by the way- I didn't know it was an issue... he just fell off the face of the earth lol) he didn't speak to me for 3 days. That is when I found dxpnet and then as everyone said, he came back as if nothing ever happened. This time, I THINK I know what upset him, but 5 days (today makes day 6) come on!! I feel like I want to call him and go the heck off, or punch him in the face lol. However, I understand that if I wounded him, time is the only thing that will correct the issue (seeing as how I already apologized and still no response to any of my messages). I am already a sensitive Scorp (not that I let anyone see it) but my Cancer moon makes it even worse. I don't think he fully understands how much his little vanishing acts actually hurt my feelings. However, when he isn't m.i.a... our relationship is great.

4 year gravedig?