Who suffers the most in a break-up between Cancer and Capricorn?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by c0mrade on Wednesday, September 19, 2018 and has 21 replies.

Who Suffers Most in a Break-up Between Cancer and Capricorn

Cancer may experience deeper emotional pain due to their nurturing nature, making them more vulnerable to heartbreak in a breakup with Capricorn. Capricorns tend to be more reserved and practical, which can lead to a less emotionally expressive breakup. Overall, Cancer often suffers more emotionally after the separation.

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@c0mrade
15 YearsTaurus

Cancer are known for being kind, affectionate, with unlimited love. Does this make them vulnerable with a Capricorn when they break-up?

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@MoonyEYES88
10 Years

sometimes people, not just capricorns take advantage of that unlimited love and i think that causes the pain from the breakup....ive been through 2 cappy breaks ups, broken up or not they still try and remain on good terms but at a non commitment level...i dont care how much it hurts, that just unacceptable to me.

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@c0mrade
15 YearsTaurus

Cancers do not whine guys, it is just their suffering oozes out; a coping mechanism.

On the contrary Caps I believe don't suffer as much. They accept that it's just another facet of life, and move on.

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Posted by c0mrade

Cancer are known for being kind, affectionate, with unlimited love. Does this make them vulnerable with a Capricorn when they break-up?

i dunno ... Remember famous chef,Anthony Bourdain?? He suffered... sigh

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and he has the Capricorn Moon and Cancer sun Dilemma :/

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by -sierra-

cancers are too good for capricorns

but whatever i support axis love anyway

i'm at a dilemma myself. cap dominant and 4th houser dominant. lol

if i were 10th house domiannt. cancer dom, i'd probably be like Donald Trump female style ...but i am not leo dominant soooo... not aggressive enough lol

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@fullmoongirl
8 Years

It all depends if the Cap is really into the Cancer to begin with. If they are I would say the Cap. But yea us Cancers will cry about it for a bit and then put up this huge wall like the feelings for the other person never existed

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Posted by c0mrade

Cancers do not whine guys, it is just their suffering oozes out; a coping mechanism.

On the contrary Caps I believe don't suffer as much. They accept that it's just another facet of life, and move on.

Cancer suffering pushes out this the whine and I've known a lot of them that do the whiney thing - Capricorn suffering stay inside and it is difficult but they won't let others see that part IMO

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I think us Caps in general take breakups/separations bad, regardless of sign we were connected with. But in a way, we always prep for it. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. Just another setback we're forced to deal with in a lifetime full of them.

But while we're going to feel bad, we're not going to let it consume us for months on end. After the disappointment period, it's time to get back to the self-improvement phase. Make em regret that they ever had doubts about you.

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I think us Caps in general take breakups/separations bad, regardless of sign we were connected with. But in a way, we always prep for it. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. Just another setback we're forced to deal with in a lifetime full of them.

But while we're going to feel bad, we're not going to let it consume us for months on end. After the disappointment period, it's time to get back to the self-improvement phase. Make em regret that they ever had doubts about you.

Hmmmm i never think like that. That i have to improve myself to make anothet regret

I just think wow i really loved that person and they didn't respect or appreciate what they had.

That makes me think i never want to do anything with them

Let alone see me doing well without them

I could give a FUK

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I mostly feel the same way you do. But see, I never consider myself fully formed, so whenever some "breakup" happens, I try to assess what I could have done better, what role I had in it, and them improve myself a little. Honestly, I could care less about sticking it back to them, but it's more for myself.

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Posted by GOATAction

I think us Caps in general take breakups/separations bad, regardless of sign we were connected with. But in a way, we always prep for it. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. Just another setback we're forced to deal with in a lifetime full of them.

But while we're going to feel bad, we're not going to let it consume us for months on end. After the disappointment period, it's time to get back to the self-improvement phase. Make em regret that they ever had doubts about you.

Hmmmm i never think like that. That i have to improve myself to make anothet regret

I just think wow i really loved that person and they didn't respect or appreciate what they had.

That makes me think i never want to do anything with them

Let alone see me doing well without them

I could give a FUK

I mostly feel the same way you do. But see, I never consider myself fully formed, so whenever some "breakup" happens, I try to assess what I could have done better, what role I had in it, and them improve myself a little. Honestly, I could care less about sticking it back to them, but it's more for myself.

I always think it's the other partys problem

Im an amazing person

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It probably is mostly the other person's problem. But, I'm a chronic overthinkiner, deep mind and need to break down everything. Probably to a detriment, but it gives me a lot of self-awareness.

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@c0mrade
15 YearsTaurus

I am confused. Are you a Leo, Taurus, Cancer or Capricorn? lol

Posted by Black-Mamba

The only thing I've always wanted to improve is to stop wasting my time on losers. So i don't regret my actions. I regret letting them into my world

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I think us Caps in general take breakups/separations bad, regardless of sign we were connected with. But in a way, we always prep for it. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. Just another setback we're forced to deal with in a lifetime full of them.

But while we're going to feel bad, we're not going to let it consume us for months on end. After the disappointment period, it's time to get back to the self-improvement phase. Make em regret that they ever had doubts about you.

Hmmmm i never think like that. That i have to improve myself to make anothet regret

I just think wow i really loved that person and they didn't respect or appreciate what they had.

That makes me think i never want to do anything with them

Let alone see me doing well without them

I could give a FUK

I mostly feel the same way you do. But see, I never consider myself fully formed, so whenever some "breakup" happens, I try to assess what I could have done better, what role I had in it, and them improve myself a little. Honestly, I could care less about sticking it back to them, but it's more for myself.

I always think it's the other partys problem

Im an amazing person

It probably is mostly the other person's problem. But, I'm a chronic overthinkiner, deep mind and need to break down everything. Probably to a detriment, but it gives me a lot of self-awareness.

That's the problem

Y'all need to accept yourself more. Stop giving a FUK so much

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I'm my biggest critic. Despite achieving a lot at my age out of less than ideal situations, I still think about what more I can do, or what I didn't do. I do think there will be a point where I am complacent, but not now. I'm after things, to climb that mountain, or plunge into the depths to get what is needed.

I wouldn't call it not accepting myself. But I have this strong sense of perpetual duty and doing things with purpose, otherwise, what is kind of the point? Kind of hard for me to relax and chill often when there are a ton of things racing in my mind. Few people know outside of my closest inner circle and family, cause I'm always composed.

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I’d say both equally but in their own way. Caps seem to appear less emotional on the outside and cancers are super emotional on the outside. But they both still suffer.

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8 Years500+ Posts

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I think us Caps in general take breakups/separations bad, regardless of sign we were connected with. But in a way, we always prep for it. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. Just another setback we're forced to deal with in a lifetime full of them.

But while we're going to feel bad, we're not going to let it consume us for months on end. After the disappointment period, it's time to get back to the self-improvement phase. Make em regret that they ever had doubts about you.

Hmmmm i never think like that. That i have to improve myself to make anothet regret

I just think wow i really loved that person and they didn't respect or appreciate what they had.

That makes me think i never want to do anything with them

Let alone see me doing well without them

I could give a FUK

I mostly feel the same way you do. But see, I never consider myself fully formed, so whenever some "breakup" happens, I try to assess what I could have done better, what role I had in it, and them improve myself a little. Honestly, I could care less about sticking it back to them, but it's more for myself.

I always think it's the other partys problem

Im an amazing person

It probably is mostly the other person's problem. But, I'm a chronic overthinkiner, deep mind and need to break down everything. Probably to a detriment, but it gives me a lot of self-awareness.

That's the problem

Y'all need to accept yourself more. Stop giving a FUK so much

I'm my biggest critic. Despite achieving a lot at my age out of less than ideal situations, I still think about what more I can do, or what I didn't do. I do think there will be a point where I am complacent, but not now. I'm after things, to climb that mountain, or plunge into the depths to get what is needed.

I wouldn't call it not accepting myself. But I have this strong sense of perpetual duty and doing things with purpose, otherwise, what is kind of the point? Kind of hard for me to relax and chill often when there are a ton of things racing in my mind. Few people know outside of my closest inner circle and family, cause I'm always composed.

That makes sense.. plus Virgo moon is a perfectionist I'm sure

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I've heard it's not the best spot for the moon to be. Outside of Taurus, I think Earth moons have a difficult time.

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15 YearsTaurus

That is a lovely chart, right there.

Emotional Cancer, collaborating with the vibrant Leo is just what you need.

Posted by Black-Mamba

Cancer Sun

Leo moon

Leo mercury

Leo Venus

Leo Saturn

Virgo mars

Neptune sag

Two Libra placements

Rising is Scorpio or Virgo

Most likely Scorpio

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8 Years1,000+ Posts

Capricorns, I just recently meet one who's still hung over his ex even when the relationship was abusive mentally and emotionally.

I been there and never want to go back to a person like that.

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11 Years25,000+ Posts

Caps suffer because it’s them who is hurt. No regards about why. Even if they are guilty af...you are a bad one!

So...they move on and living...finding replacement quickly!

It’s about men. Have no idea about women. Could be totally different scenario.

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@NostalgicCappyy
8 Years

Posted by Fawne

I am a Sidereal Sagittarius/ Tropical Capricorn...

The only time I was ever heartbroken was in my teens. Like my first two, but very short lived, relationships. (Tropical Pisces and Tropical Taurus)

It’s so easy to run when things aren’t going well. I’ve always happily left relationships, and the very few that I didn’t leave I just moved on so easily. I saw it as an opportunity to be free. I could only see the positive sides to the break up. If someone is losing interest in me, then i lose interest as well. It just has always worked out I guess. 🤷🏻‍♀️

The last few cancers I’ve dated I dropped them with no regrets.

I would like to add that even though I am a Tropical Cap I’ve never related to the sign. I’ve always felt akin to Tropical Sagittarius and Tropical Aqua, and maybe even a little Tropical Pisces because of my 12H stellium.

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As a Cappy Sun