Cap girl has a boyfriend but calls me

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shes either looking to change boy or because shes not getting sex.

no she's keeping him, she just attention seeker sucked me all up not in the good way, and left me high and dry then decided to stay with him.

I'm inbetween saying something to him or reaching out to her and going the f off
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Dont sweat the small stuff.

Yall were FWB. No harm no foul in her choosing a committed partner. Right?

Shes just a squirrel looking for a lollipop
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no she's keeping him, she just attention seeker sucked me all up not in the good way, and left me high and dry then decided to stay with him.

I'm inbetween saying something to him or reaching out to her and going the f off


so ure upset because shes keeping him? lol u like her? lol. well since u felt strongly that she toyed with u then go tell to her bf. lol depends on how much u want to mess with her. or u could just see it as free sex.
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shes either looking to change boy or because shes not getting sex.

no she's keeping him, she just attention seeker sucked me all up not in the good way, and left me high and dry then decided to stay with him.

I'm inbetween saying something to him or reaching out to her and going the f off


Dont sweat the small stuff.

Yall were FWB. No harm no foul in her choosing a committed partner. Right?

Shes just a squirrel looking for a lollipop
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we have 3 year history I call it fwb but it felt like more extended dating period
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Posted by bbiee

shes either looking to change boy or because shes not getting sex.

no she's keeping him, she just attention seeker sucked me all up not in the good way, and left me high and dry then decided to stay with him.

I'm inbetween saying something to him or reaching out to her and going the f off
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You got the answer to your own question here. Attention. Ego boost. Feeling wanted. Could get physical, could not.

What you should do about it? No idea. Depends on what kind of a person you are.
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no she's keeping him, she just attention seeker sucked me all up not in the good way, and left me high and dry then decided to stay with him.

I'm inbetween saying something to him or reaching out to her and going the f off


so ure upset because shes keeping him? lol u like her? lol. well since u felt strongly that she toyed with u then go tell to her bf. lol depends on how much u want to mess with her. or u could just see it as free sex.
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i messaged him
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no she's keeping him, she just attention seeker sucked me all up not in the good way, and left me high and dry then decided to stay with him.

I'm inbetween saying something to him or reaching out to her and going the f off


so ure upset because shes keeping him? lol u like her? lol. well since u felt strongly that she toyed with u then go tell to her bf. lol depends on how much u want to mess with her. or u could just see it as free sex.

i messaged him


wow that thread is becoming interessant
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i don't care anymore I just want to expose her.

Maybe it's my Scorpio mars
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Probably just wants attention & sex. She randomly shows up at your house because that’s when her and the boyfriend are fighting. I’m sure she’ll be back so make the right choice... lol

i wish I would have gotten your answer earlier before entertaining her needs

My sincerest apologies
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better never then late
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Probably just wants attention & sex. She randomly shows up at your house because that’s when her and the boyfriend are fighting. I’m sure she’ll be back so make the right choice... lol

i wish I would have gotten your answer earlier before entertaining her needs

Dude, you were warned at the beginning of this thread and you didn't listen. I very much doubt you would have listened to anyone until after you got your fingers burnt, so quit the "I wish someone warned me beforehand" bullshit.

Stop dwelling on this fruitless situation and move on...

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i need answers she wasn't giving me. My Scorpio placements make me feel things I wish I didn't.. So your right I maybe over indulging in self pity and in self-destructive pattern. If she wanted me I would have evaded her but since I wanted her I can't take her doing it to me.
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I reached out to him to warn him about her and her leading me on too. Instantly I regret it 200% , now he might be investigating me on my past dealing, that shes been sharing with this pig during pillow talk.

He's her boyfriend, you're just an ex FWB. Stop calling him a pig because, if anyone's a pig, it's you.

YOU overstepped the boundaries, not him. If there's anyone you should be angry with it's YOU for being so selfish and weak.

Yes, the Cap is a bitch but you're just as much to blame. If there's anyone who deserves sympathy, it's the boyfriend and certainly NOT you...

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hes a pig as in a POLICE OFFICER!!!

He's not perfect he doesn't deserve peace he's a women beater verbal and physical...
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Probably just wants attention & sex. She randomly shows up at your house because that’s when her and the boyfriend are fighting. I’m sure she’ll be back so make the right choice... lol

i wish I would have gotten your answer earlier before entertaining her needs

Dude, you were warned at the beginning of this thread and you didn't listen. I very much doubt you would have listened to anyone until after you got your fingers burnt, so quit the "I wish someone warned me beforehand" bullshit.

Stop dwelling on this fruitless situation and move on...



i need answers she wasn't giving me. My Scorpio placements make me feel things I wish I didn't.. So your right I maybe over indulging in self pity and in self-destructive pattern. If she wanted me I would have evaded her but since I wanted her I can't take her doing it to me.

Well, learn from it and, while you're at it, grow up.

In life, you don't always get the answers you seek. The sooner you accept that, the better...

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i was fine until she came to my door steps after nearly a year of no contact, my life was smooth and my mental health wasn't burden with stress and anxiety. My blood brother thinks I'm going too far so I left him and her alone. They can have each other I have to pick up my piece's.
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I reached out to him to warn him about her and her leading me on too. Instantly I regret it 200% , now he might be investigating me on my past dealing, that shes been sharing with this pig during pillow talk.

He's her boyfriend, you're just an ex FWB. Stop calling him a pig because, if anyone's a pig, it's you.

YOU overstepped the boundaries, not him. If there's anyone you should be angry with it's YOU for being so selfish and weak.

Yes, the Cap is a bitch but you're just as much to blame. If there's anyone who deserves sympathy, it's the boyfriend and certainly NOT you...



hes a pig as in a POLICE OFFICER!!!

He's not perfect he doesn't deserve peace he's a women beater verbal and physical...



So, what if he's a police officer. As I said before, STOP BEING PETTY AND IMMATURE.

It's none of your business what goes on in their relationship. Also, how can you trust the words from a woman who has lied, manipulated and led you on? Seriously, are your brain cells rapidly dying or what?

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you are right I can't trust her, she has already lied to me and him, a proven manipulator. I'm exhausted with all this built up frustration.

I owe him an apology, I said things no man wants to hear about their girlfriend.
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I reached out to him to warn him about her and her leading me on too. Instantly I regret it 200% , now he might be investigating me on my past dealing, that shes been sharing with this pig during pillow talk.

He's her boyfriend, you're just an ex FWB. Stop calling him a pig because, if anyone's a pig, it's you.

YOU overstepped the boundaries, not him. If there's anyone you should be angry with it's YOU for being so selfish and weak.

Yes, the Cap is a bitch but you're just as much to blame. If there's anyone who deserves sympathy, it's the boyfriend and certainly NOT you...



hes a pig as in a POLICE OFFICER!!!

He's not perfect he doesn't deserve peace he's a women beater verbal and physical...



So, what if he's a police officer. As I said before, STOP BEING PETTY AND IMMATURE.

It's none of your business what goes on in their relationship. Also, how can you trust the words from a woman who has lied, manipulated and led you on? Seriously, are your brain cells rapidly dying or what?



you are right I can't trust her, she has already lied to me and him, a proven manipulator. I'm exhausted with all this built up frustration.

I owe him an apology, I said things no man wants to hear about their girlfriend.

*sighs*

Here's some advice: never fuck around with an officer of the law, especially with their woman...

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you think she would have warned me 1st. Knowing my past.
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I reached out to him to warn him about her and her leading me on too. Instantly I regret it 200% , now he might be investigating me on my past dealing, that shes been sharing with this pig during pillow talk.

He's her boyfriend, you're just an ex FWB. Stop calling him a pig because, if anyone's a pig, it's you.

YOU overstepped the boundaries, not him. If there's anyone you should be angry with it's YOU for being so selfish and weak.

Yes, the Cap is a bitch but you're just as much to blame. If there's anyone who deserves sympathy, it's the boyfriend and certainly NOT you...



hes a pig as in a POLICE OFFICER!!!

He's not perfect he doesn't deserve peace he's a women beater verbal and physical...



So, what if he's a police officer. As I said before, STOP BEING PETTY AND IMMATURE.

It's none of your business what goes on in their relationship. Also, how can you trust the words from a woman who has lied, manipulated and led you on? Seriously, are your brain cells rapidly dying or what?



you are right I can't trust her, she has already lied to me and him, a proven manipulator. I'm exhausted with all this built up frustration.

I owe him an apology, I said things no man wants to hear about their girlfriend.

*sighs*

Here's some advice: never fuck around with an officer of the law, especially with their woman...



you think she would have warned me 1st. Knowing my past.

Sorry, I don't understand...

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out of all the texting never did she say her boyfriend was a cop.

My past I did illegal things to make money, and he knows about everything I did. Because like she dogged him out to me she dogged me out to him.
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I reached out to him to warn him about her and her leading me on too. Instantly I regret it 200% , now he might be investigating me on my past dealing, that shes been sharing with this pig during pillow talk.

He's her boyfriend, you're just an ex FWB. Stop calling him a pig because, if anyone's a pig, it's you.

YOU overstepped the boundaries, not him. If there's anyone you should be angry with it's YOU for being so selfish and weak.

Yes, the Cap is a bitch but you're just as much to blame. If there's anyone who deserves sympathy, it's the boyfriend and certainly NOT you...



hes a pig as in a POLICE OFFICER!!!

He's not perfect he doesn't deserve peace he's a women beater verbal and physical...



So, what if he's a police officer. As I said before, STOP BEING PETTY AND IMMATURE.

It's none of your business what goes on in their relationship. Also, how can you trust the words from a woman who has lied, manipulated and led you on? Seriously, are your brain cells rapidly dying or what?



you are right I can't trust her, she has already lied to me and him, a proven manipulator. I'm exhausted with all this built up frustration.

I owe him an apology, I said things no man wants to hear about their girlfriend.

*sighs*

Here's some advice: never fuck around with an officer of the law, especially with their woman...



you think she would have warned me 1st. Knowing my past.

Sorry, I don't understand...



out of all the texting never did she say her boyfriend was a cop.

My past I did illegal things to make money, and he knows about everything I did. Because like she dogged him out to me she dogged me out to him.

That's why you should walk away from the whole sorry mess. She's obviously toxic.

As I said the first time round, cut her out of your life and move on. Forget about whatever forms of revenge you have in mind because they will only prolong your ordeal... and might potentially make things worse for you...

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i don't need apologize it won't matter he turns out to a sap, he's staying after what I told and showed him. I still don't feel satisfied with the results, I'm going do what ever I want with these pictures I have. Might make some money out of them lol or let them get out..
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are u virgo sun? r u acting like a virgo right now? overthinking and stuff?

virgo sun Scorpio moon and mars


I'd block her, don't contact her anymore. This will probably blow over.
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we blocked each other I've reached out to her boyfriend on messenger and she emailed me on Google to go to hell ? that's what I get? 4 days ago you was begging for sex now it's I love my boyfriend to death!!
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are u virgo sun? r u acting like a virgo right now? overthinking and stuff?

virgo sun Scorpio moon and mars


I'd block her, don't contact her anymore. This will probably blow over.

we blocked each other I've reached out to her boyfriend on messenger and she emailed me on Google to go to hell ? that's what I get? 4 days ago you was begging for sex now it's I love my boyfriend to death!!


Well block him, too then? What did you expect that he'd be your best buddy? For all he knows you may just be chasing her and trying to sabotage the relationship. I'm not saying you are, but he doesn't know you at all.
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he knows his girl thinks I f#k her better and he knows I got pics of a## naked on the bed he sleeps in. He can just be innocent casualty.
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are u virgo sun? r u acting like a virgo right now? overthinking and stuff?

virgo sun Scorpio moon and mars


I'd block her, don't contact her anymore. This will probably blow over.

we blocked each other I've reached out to her boyfriend on messenger and she emailed me on Google to go to hell ? that's what I get? 4 days ago you was begging for sex now it's I love my boyfriend to death!!


Well block him, too then? What did you expect that he'd be your best buddy? For all he knows you may just be chasing her and trying to sabotage the relationship. I'm not saying you are, but he doesn't know you at all.

he knows his girl thinks I f#k her better and he knows I got pics of a## naked on the bed he sleeps in. He can just be innocent casualty.


What are you looking to achieve?
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for her to loose everything and never think it's OK to play with some one's feelings.
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are u virgo sun? r u acting like a virgo right now? overthinking and stuff?

virgo sun Scorpio moon and mars


I'd block her, don't contact her anymore. This will probably blow over.

we blocked each other I've reached out to her boyfriend on messenger and she emailed me on Google to go to hell ? that's what I get? 4 days ago you was begging for sex now it's I love my boyfriend to death!!


Well block him, too then? What did you expect that he'd be your best buddy? For all he knows you may just be chasing her and trying to sabotage the relationship. I'm not saying you are, but he doesn't know you at all.

he knows his girl thinks I f#k her better and he knows I got pics of a## naked on the bed he sleeps in. He can just be innocent casualty.


What are you looking to achieve?

for her to loose everything and never think it's OK to play with some one's feelings.


But how do you know she doesn't feel like this already? Sometimes people do things even when they know they're wrong.
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she has passed the definition of wrong, she's keeping me away from child that could be mine's
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are u virgo sun? r u acting like a virgo right now? overthinking and stuff?

virgo sun Scorpio moon and mars


I'd block her, don't contact her anymore. This will probably blow over.

we blocked each other I've reached out to her boyfriend on messenger and she emailed me on Google to go to hell ? that's what I get? 4 days ago you was begging for sex now it's I love my boyfriend to death!!


Well block him, too then? What did you expect that he'd be your best buddy? For all he knows you may just be chasing her and trying to sabotage the relationship. I'm not saying you are, but he doesn't know you at all.

he knows his girl thinks I f#k her better and he knows I got pics of a## naked on the bed he sleeps in. He can just be innocent casualty.


What are you looking to achieve?

for her to loose everything and never think it's OK to play with some one's feelings.


But how do you know she doesn't feel like this already? Sometimes people do things even when they know they're wrong.

she has passed the definition of wrong, she's keeping me away from child that could be mine's

Oh.. there's a child now? Is his name Herbert?
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daughter Rebecca 14 months old