StrawberryJam
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Posted by CapzI get what you are saying. He claims o be private but he would post pics of him and his friends and even work trip. Doesn't look that private o mea? Why only love life has to be hidden?
his story is between you and him, not all the faggot on facebook, in real life we have 3 friends, on facebook 1000. those 1000 are not friends. lover hater but ppl who not specialy loves u. what the purpose to show everybody that you are together, in real life people judges you, hates you. if you are not ready to have intimacy let the cap down.
i worked for fun on blackhatseo too i have an account twitter wit 30k ppl on it i considere every social media as bullshit and a marketing tool, i dont see here a place where i should talk about my life it is inappropriate.
facebook is the place of the unique thought
He claims that his friends knows we are dating. He has no prove. Also he said "they know my girlfriend is coming" then I asked you really call me girlfriend? Hebchanged and said no.
Anyway last week he said he would have taken me to a work wedding if the bride didn't give wrong inviatation. In hindsight he probably didn't mean it? Or else how can he keep me hidden from work ppl if he took me to the wedding?
Posted by StrawberryJamCapz said it.. I'm the same way.. a really private person.. My inner circle will all know (or know about) my girl though, and what she means to me.. I won't post my public life outside of work or as capz said (marketing) on any SM site.. I actually had a GF I was really into and we took a ton of pics together (I may still actually love this girl) but I couldn't actually be all over SM about it at the time because I had a stalker exGF type that I had to give a long slow let down to... so everything I had with the girl I loved was very private for a time.. to go back about it again, what capz said is true.. and I can relate to that
@dannymc
Wait did he just ask you to be his girl?
Posted by CapzThis: "he doesnt care about others, he just care to be with you." I know that feeling.. that's deep right there.Posted by StrawberryJamhe doesnt care about others, he just care to be with you. he doesnt care about the title the others give you, stop wanting thing to fastPosted by CapzI get what you are saying. He claims o be private but he would post pics of him and his friends and even work trip. Doesn't look that private o mea? Why only love life has to be hidden?
his story is between you and him, not all the faggot on facebook, in real life we have 3 friends, on facebook 1000. those 1000 are not friends. lover hater but ppl who not specialy loves u. what the purpose to show everybody that you are together, in real life people judges you, hates you. if you are not ready to have intimacy let the cap down.
i worked for fun on blackhatseo too i have an account twitter wit 30k ppl on it i considere every social media as bullshit and a marketing tool, i dont see here a place where i should talk about my life it is inappropriate.
facebook is the place of the unique thought
He claims that his friends knows we are dating. He has no prove. Also he said "they know my girlfriend is coming" then I asked you really call me girlfriend? Hebchanged and said no.
Anyway last week he said he would have taken me to a work wedding if the bride didn't give wrong inviatation. In hindsight he probably didn't mean it? Or else how can he keep me hidden from work ppl if he took me to the wedding?
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Posted by StrawberryJamSJ it's time you let yourself go with this guy.. you know I'm right.. and he just called you his girl.. if you want that than you should tell him you want it too.. forget SM.. what you 2 have is between you 2.. let it foster and grow.. don't be insecure.. find some security in each other.. I would never parade my girl around in the public unless I just thought she was a trophy.. Picture: Melania and Drumpf. Fuck that.. what we have is all about us.. while the rest of the world falls away..Posted by CapzI get what you are saying. He claims o be private but he would post pics of him and his friends and even work trip. Doesn't look that private o mea? Why only love life has to be hidden?
his story is between you and him, not all the faggot on facebook, in real life we have 3 friends, on facebook 1000. those 1000 are not friends. lover hater but ppl who not specialy loves u. what the purpose to show everybody that you are together, in real life people judges you, hates you. if you are not ready to have intimacy let the cap down.
i worked for fun on blackhatseo too i have an account twitter wit 30k ppl on it i considere every social media as bullshit and a marketing tool, i dont see here a place where i should talk about my life it is inappropriate.
facebook is the place of the unique thought
He claims that his friends knows we are dating. He has no prove. Also he said "they know my girlfriend is coming" then I asked you really call me girlfriend? Hebchanged and said no.
Anyway last week he said he would have taken me to a work wedding if the bride didn't give wrong inviatation. In hindsight he probably didn't mean it? Or else how can he keep me hidden from work ppl if he took me to the wedding?click to expand
I'm not as confident as the other posters who think this is absolutely nothing to worry about. I say play it by ear.
I'm not crazy about being tagged in other peoples' pictures, but I just let it go. And I'm not an open person who shares all kinds of information on social media. I had a girlfriend who constantly posted pictures of us and it annoyed me, but I wasn't about to hurt her feelings over it.
And I know plenty of Caps who over-share on social media, so it's not like they always hide their personal lives from the outside world. I knew a Cap guy who openly fought with his girlfriend on Facebook. Then when they were getting along, he posted the raunchiest sexual stuff about her.
OP, just keep your feelers up. Pay attention. You'll figure him out over time. Until then, be observant. You don't have to assume he's up to no good, but don't be so oblivious that you get blindsided if he turns out to be a dog.
I'm not crazy about being tagged in other peoples' pictures, but I just let it go. And I'm not an open person who shares all kinds of information on social media. I had a girlfriend who constantly posted pictures of us and it annoyed me, but I wasn't about to hurt her feelings over it.
And I know plenty of Caps who over-share on social media, so it's not like they always hide their personal lives from the outside world. I knew a Cap guy who openly fought with his girlfriend on Facebook. Then when they were getting along, he posted the raunchiest sexual stuff about her.
OP, just keep your feelers up. Pay attention. You'll figure him out over time. Until then, be observant. You don't have to assume he's up to no good, but don't be so oblivious that you get blindsided if he turns out to be a dog.
Posted by Capri-sunNo I didn't post pics of my ex. They were giving me reasons why not to add me and such and they all turned out to be players and cheaters
I said a long time ago stay off social media.
This is unhealthy for you.
It's nothing personal, it's just how most of us are
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/am-i-being-too-sensitive-or-should-i-be-mad--8013866/?checkpg=1
Now take your ex for example, you plaster all these pictures on social media, things don't work out, then what?
Posted by Bricks195Exactly my point it someone is so private why would they post photos of friends and what they just are and even work trip and such.
I'm not as confident as the other posters who think this is absolutely nothing to worry about. I say play it by ear.
I'm not crazy about being tagged in other peoples' pictures, but I just let it go. And I'm not an open person who shares all kinds of information on social media. I had a girlfriend who constantly posted pictures of us and it annoyed me, but I wasn't about to hurt her feelings over it.
And I know plenty of Caps who over-share on social media, so it's not like they always hide their personal lives from the outside world. I knew a Cap guy who openly fought with his girlfriend on Facebook. Then when they were getting along, he posted the raunchiest sexual stuff about her.
OP, just keep your feelers up. Pay attention. You'll figure him out over time. Until then, be observant. You don't have to assume he's up to no good, but don't be so oblivious that you get blindsided if he turns out to be a dog.
He treats me well in person that's why I'm conflicted
Posted by DannyMCAh so french cap and my french cap meant if there was no mix up in her wedding he would have taken me just because he wants to be with me? Not because he wants to show me off/ hide mePosted by CapzThis: "he doesnt care about others, he just care to be with you." I know that feeling.. that's deep right there.Posted by StrawberryJamhe doesnt care about others, he just care to be with you. he doesnt care about the title the others give you, stop wanting thing to fastPosted by CapzI get what you are saying. He claims o be private but he would post pics of him and his friends and even work trip. Doesn't look that private o mea? Why only love life has to be hidden?
his story is between you and him, not all the faggot on facebook, in real life we have 3 friends, on facebook 1000. those 1000 are not friends. lover hater but ppl who not specialy loves u. what the purpose to show everybody that you are together, in real life people judges you, hates you. if you are not ready to have intimacy let the cap down.
i worked for fun on blackhatseo too i have an account twitter wit 30k ppl on it i considere every social media as bullshit and a marketing tool, i dont see here a place where i should talk about my life it is inappropriate.
facebook is the place of the unique thought
He claims that his friends knows we are dating. He has no prove. Also he said "they know my girlfriend is coming" then I asked you really call me girlfriend? Hebchanged and said no.
Anyway last week he said he would have taken me to a work wedding if the bride didn't give wrong inviatation. In hindsight he probably didn't mean it? Or else how can he keep me hidden from work ppl if he took me to the wedding?
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Posted by DannyMCPosted by StrawberryJamCapz said it.. I'm the same way.. a really private person.. My inner circle will all know (or know about) my girl though, and what she means to me.. I won't post my public life outside of work or as capz said (marketing) on any SM site.. I actually had a GF I was really into and we took a ton of pics together (I may still actually love this girl) but I couldn't actually be all over SM about it at the time because I had a stalker exGF type that I had to give a long slow let down to... so everything I had with the girl I loved was very private for a time.. to go back about it again, what capz said is true.. and I can relate to that
@dannymc
Wait did he just ask you to be his girl?click to expand
I'm not sure if he asked he said this on the phone "I told my friends my girlfriend is coming to visit next week and I'm really excited" then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no
Isk what he wants. I then said look I'm only asking because I'm still being asked out. I only like to date one person at a time. If you still want to keep your option opened its fine by me. I just like to know wher your heads at.
Then I also told him friends are asking who am I going away with and I find I think difficult to answered as I don't even know if we are just friends or more. He said you are not my friend we are dating exclusively but he is french and they don't have this American dating process. Seriously hes been out of France for Iike 17 years...
He goes it's not about what we are is about it I still want to date other ppl
Posted by Capri-sunMmm you meant they send you s request because they just want to perv at your photos and keep you in friend Zone??Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunNo I didn't post pics of my ex. They were giving me reasons why not to add me and such and they all turned out to be players and cheaters
I said a long time ago stay off social media.
This is unhealthy for you.
It's nothing personal, it's just how most of us are
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/am-i-being-too-sensitive-or-should-i-be-mad--8013866/?checkpg=1
Now take your ex for example, you plaster all these pictures on social media, things don't work out, then what?
It was an example.
The guys that send me a friend request I add them, then guess where they stay? In the friendzone.
Would you like to know why? Well because all the reasons you have typed here.
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Posted by Capri-sunPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by Bricks195Exactly my point it someone is so private why would they post photos of friends and what they just are and even work trip and such.
I'm not as confident as the other posters who think this is absolutely nothing to worry about. I say play it by ear.
I'm not crazy about being tagged in other peoples' pictures, but I just let it go. And I'm not an open person who shares all kinds of information on social media. I had a girlfriend who constantly posted pictures of us and it annoyed me, but I wasn't about to hurt her feelings over it.
And I know plenty of Caps who over-share on social media, so it's not like they always hide their personal lives from the outside world. I knew a Cap guy who openly fought with his girlfriend on Facebook. Then when they were getting along, he posted the raunchiest sexual stuff about her.
OP, just keep your feelers up. Pay attention. You'll figure him out over time. Until then, be observant. You don't have to assume he's up to no good, but don't be so oblivious that you get blindsided if he turns out to be a dog.
He treats me well in person that's why I'm conflicted
How long has he been friends with them? How long has he worked for the place of where he's posting work trips? Now how long has he known you? How long have you been dating?
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He works for the company for 15 years. Not sure how long has he known his "boyfriend" he talks about him all the time though.
I known him for 3 months and been dating for 3 months. Not sure if you recall he used to follow random girls. After he confess he is looking for love and we both are not dating others he has stopping following random girls without me asking him to
Posted by Capz
his story is between you and him, not all the faggot on facebook, in real life we have 3 friends, on facebook 1000. those 1000 are not friends. lover hater but ppl who not specialy loves u. what the purpose to show everybody that you are together, in real life people judges you, hates you. if you are not ready to have intimacy let the cap down.
i worked for fun on blackhatseo too i have an account twitter wit 30k ppl on it i considere every social media as bullshit and a marketing tool, i dont see here a place where i should talk about my life it is inappropriate.
facebook is the place of the unique thought
Probably the smartest thing I've seen you say lol.
@SJ Shut that Virgo overthinking of yours down.
Here is everything that you’ve stated:
-He said he likes to keep his intimate life private
-He said his close friends knows he is dating me
-I still want you to come visit me
-He said I don't intend to meet anyone else
-He said my friend knows my girlfriend is coming to Join me for this work trip.
-I asked are we exclusive he said yes
-I can explain more when you arrive
I don’t know how much more clearer he can be. Three times he has implied/requested that he wants you to join him on his work trip. He notified people close to him about you means he takes you seriously. This is the route my Cap had taken unbeknownst to me until he told me.
You need to be watching the actions of your cap and not social media. My Cap and I are in a new relationship. In fact, both our statuses says single and neither I nor him are bothered by it. And why should it? What matters most is our inner circle and our closest friends and family who know we are in a relationship. The people who matter to us and whose insight we value, not the world. If it should happen to bother us down the road then we will speak to each other about it. Until then, why make a mountain out of a mole hill? Yes, we take lots of pictures together, but don’t have a need to post them. We let the relationship happen organically. If I feel inclined to share him with my social media ‘Friends’ then I will do so. We share a mutual understanding of trust to be able to set up boundaries if our status is questioned. We just happen to be private people.
@StrawberryJam the others are correct, the cap you are seeing has done nothing wrong, private is private and work is a whole other beast. Dont let what happened to your ex affect what is happening now with your current.
@capri-sun didn't I already respect his need by untagging the pic myself? i still don't get the friend thing talking about being private I'm the prviate person not him. I don't post pics of my friends on my instagram, only myself and life style shots. I think if anyone is really that private they shoudln't even post photos of their friends. to me this is not private
@virgorean he never took photos of me, he only has those selfies I was taking at his place. he never sent me any. he said cos he is not hot like me and he is not photogenic.. whatever...i know hes been working out trying to keep up with me. I told him I respect your need I will never ever tag you in anything or comment on your post. I'm still going as I already bought the ticket.
His action tells me he is serious about me
@virgorean he never took photos of me, he only has those selfies I was taking at his place. he never sent me any. he said cos he is not hot like me and he is not photogenic.. whatever...i know hes been working out trying to keep up with me. I told him I respect your need I will never ever tag you in anything or comment on your post. I'm still going as I already bought the ticket.
His action tells me he is serious about me
the weirdest thing is he took back on the "girlfriend": thing he said no i didn';t say you are my girlfriend i told them im dating you
Posted by StrawberryJamSJ that's the vulnerability thing again.. "then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no" SJ he called you his GF lol you have to show him you liked that.. if I called a girl I really liked, my GF that is a huge risk. I'm looking for her to be really excited and happy and say yes.. it's like micro-marriage lol if she says to me "did you just ask me to..?" as if she didn't like it I might say no and then shut down and be upset.. Sis I know you've been hurt pretty bad and that's why you're like this but he is there.. I want you to explore that and free yourself already.. let him be free too.. with you. You love this guy ya? Let him be free too.. Take it to that next level soon, seduce and capture what you want. He's already yours, trust me.Posted by DannyMCPosted by StrawberryJamCapz said it.. I'm the same way.. a really private person.. My inner circle will all know (or know about) my girl though, and what she means to me.. I won't post my public life outside of work or as capz said (marketing) on any SM site.. I actually had a GF I was really into and we took a ton of pics together (I may still actually love this girl) but I couldn't actually be all over SM about it at the time because I had a stalker exGF type that I had to give a long slow let down to... so everything I had with the girl I loved was very private for a time.. to go back about it again, what capz said is true.. and I can relate to that
@dannymc
Wait did he just ask you to be his girl?
I'm not sure if he asked he said this on the phone "I told my friends my girlfriend is coming to visit next week and I'm really excited" then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no
Isk what he wants. I then said look I'm only asking because I'm still being asked out. I only like to date one person at a time. If you still want to keep your option opened its fine by me. I just like to know wher your heads at.
Then I also told him friends are asking who am I going away with and I find I think difficult to answered as I don't even know if we are just friends or more. He said you are not my friend we are dating exclusively but he is french and they don't have this American dating process. Seriously hes been out of France for Iike 17 years...
He goes it's not about what we are is about it I still want to date other ppl
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Posted by DannyMCBrother what am I gonna do without you. you always know what we both are thinking. I definitely trust you as you were the only person who knew he wanted to see me on that festival night, even my gay guy friends coudln't tell and thought he was being cold!!Posted by StrawberryJamSJ that's the vulnerability thing again.. "then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no" SJ he called you his GF lol you have to show him you liked that.. if I called a girl I really liked, my GF that is a huge risk. I'm looking for her to be really excited and happy and say yes.. it's like micro-marriage lol if she says to me "did you just ask me to..?" as if she didn't like it I might say no and then shut down and be upset.. Sis I know you've been hurt pretty bad and that's why you're like this but he is there.. I want you to explore that and free yourself already.. let him be free too.. with you. You love this guy ya? Let him be free too.. Take it to that next level soon, seduce and capture what you want. He's already yours, trust me.Posted by DannyMCPosted by StrawberryJamCapz said it.. I'm the same way.. a really private person.. My inner circle will all know (or know about) my girl though, and what she means to me.. I won't post my public life outside of work or as capz said (marketing) on any SM site.. I actually had a GF I was really into and we took a ton of pics together (I may still actually love this girl) but I couldn't actually be all over SM about it at the time because I had a stalker exGF type that I had to give a long slow let down to... so everything I had with the girl I loved was very private for a time.. to go back about it again, what capz said is true.. and I can relate to that
@dannymc
Wait did he just ask you to be his girl?
I'm not sure if he asked he said this on the phone "I told my friends my girlfriend is coming to visit next week and I'm really excited" then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no
Isk what he wants. I then said look I'm only asking because I'm still being asked out. I only like to date one person at a time. If you still want to keep your option opened its fine by me. I just like to know wher your heads at.
Then I also told him friends are asking who am I going away with and I find I think difficult to answered as I don't even know if we are just friends or more. He said you are not my friend we are dating exclusively but he is french and they don't have this American dating process. Seriously hes been out of France for Iike 17 years...
He goes it's not about what we are is about it I still want to date other ppl
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I was excited and just wanted to hear it again as i coudln't beleive it... then I asked what should I tell ppl about who am I going with? he goes just say his name. oh damn how can I call him boyfriend now >< to me he already is as I have not just stopped logging into my dating profile I deleted it.
Posted by StrawberryJamYou better go tell him lol and also get back on-board with that trip 🙂Posted by DannyMCBrother what am I gonna do without you. you always know what we both are thinking. I definitely trust you as you were the only person who knew he wanted to see me on that festival night, even my gay guy friends coudln't tell and thought he was being cold!!Posted by StrawberryJamSJ that's the vulnerability thing again.. "then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no" SJ he called you his GF lol you have to show him you liked that.. if I called a girl I really liked, my GF that is a huge risk. I'm looking for her to be really excited and happy and say yes.. it's like micro-marriage lol if she says to me "did you just ask me to..?" as if she didn't like it I might say no and then shut down and be upset.. Sis I know you've been hurt pretty bad and that's why you're like this but he is there.. I want you to explore that and free yourself already.. let him be free too.. with you. You love this guy ya? Let him be free too.. Take it to that next level soon, seduce and capture what you want. He's already yours, trust me.Posted by DannyMCPosted by StrawberryJamCapz said it.. I'm the same way.. a really private person.. My inner circle will all know (or know about) my girl though, and what she means to me.. I won't post my public life outside of work or as capz said (marketing) on any SM site.. I actually had a GF I was really into and we took a ton of pics together (I may still actually love this girl) but I couldn't actually be all over SM about it at the time because I had a stalker exGF type that I had to give a long slow let down to... so everything I had with the girl I loved was very private for a time.. to go back about it again, what capz said is true.. and I can relate to that
@dannymc
Wait did he just ask you to be his girl?
I'm not sure if he asked he said this on the phone "I told my friends my girlfriend is coming to visit next week and I'm really excited" then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no
Isk what he wants. I then said look I'm only asking because I'm still being asked out. I only like to date one person at a time. If you still want to keep your option opened its fine by me. I just like to know wher your heads at.
Then I also told him friends are asking who am I going away with and I find I think difficult to answered as I don't even know if we are just friends or more. He said you are not my friend we are dating exclusively but he is french and they don't have this American dating process. Seriously hes been out of France for Iike 17 years...
He goes it's not about what we are is about it I still want to date other ppl
I was excited and just wanted to hear it again as i coudln't beleive it... then I asked what should I tell ppl about who am I going with? he goes just say his name. oh damn how can I call him boyfriend now >< to me he already is as I have not just stopped logging into my dating profile I deleted it.click to expand
Posted by DannyMCyes im going to that trip. we ended up video calling for an hour last night. i;m not sure how to tell him.. just tell him hey you are my boyfriend cos I like you so much and I deleted my profile >< I'm not very good with words lolPosted by StrawberryJamYou better go tell him lol and also get back on-board with that trip 🙂Posted by DannyMCBrother what am I gonna do without you. you always know what we both are thinking. I definitely trust you as you were the only person who knew he wanted to see me on that festival night, even my gay guy friends coudln't tell and thought he was being cold!!Posted by StrawberryJamSJ that's the vulnerability thing again.. "then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no" SJ he called you his GF lol you have to show him you liked that.. if I called a girl I really liked, my GF that is a huge risk. I'm looking for her to be really excited and happy and say yes.. it's like micro-marriage lol if she says to me "did you just ask me to..?" as if she didn't like it I might say no and then shut down and be upset.. Sis I know you've been hurt pretty bad and that's why you're like this but he is there.. I want you to explore that and free yourself already.. let him be free too.. with you. You love this guy ya? Let him be free too.. Take it to that next level soon, seduce and capture what you want. He's already yours, trust me.Posted by DannyMCPosted by StrawberryJamCapz said it.. I'm the same way.. a really private person.. My inner circle will all know (or know about) my girl though, and what she means to me.. I won't post my public life outside of work or as capz said (marketing) on any SM site.. I actually had a GF I was really into and we took a ton of pics together (I may still actually love this girl) but I couldn't actually be all over SM about it at the time because I had a stalker exGF type that I had to give a long slow let down to... so everything I had with the girl I loved was very private for a time.. to go back about it again, what capz said is true.. and I can relate to that
@dannymc
Wait did he just ask you to be his girl?
I'm not sure if he asked he said this on the phone "I told my friends my girlfriend is coming to visit next week and I'm really excited" then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no
Isk what he wants. I then said look I'm only asking because I'm still being asked out. I only like to date one person at a time. If you still want to keep your option opened its fine by me. I just like to know wher your heads at.
Then I also told him friends are asking who am I going away with and I find I think difficult to answered as I don't even know if we are just friends or more. He said you are not my friend we are dating exclusively but he is french and they don't have this American dating process. Seriously hes been out of France for Iike 17 years...
He goes it's not about what we are is about it I still want to date other ppl
I was excited and just wanted to hear it again as i coudln't beleive it... then I asked what should I tell ppl about who am I going with? he goes just say his name. oh damn how can I call him boyfriend now >< to me he already is as I have not just stopped logging into my dating profile I deleted it.click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamI'll make a deal with you, if he hurts you, I'll fly to france and beat his ass myself. Till then, I want to see both of you be free for once 😉Posted by DannyMCBrother what am I gonna do without you. you always know what we both are thinking. I definitely trust you as you were the only person who knew he wanted to see me on that festival night, even my gay guy friends coudln't tell and thought he was being cold!!Posted by StrawberryJamSJ that's the vulnerability thing again.. "then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no" SJ he called you his GF lol you have to show him you liked that.. if I called a girl I really liked, my GF that is a huge risk. I'm looking for her to be really excited and happy and say yes.. it's like micro-marriage lol if she says to me "did you just ask me to..?" as if she didn't like it I might say no and then shut down and be upset.. Sis I know you've been hurt pretty bad and that's why you're like this but he is there.. I want you to explore that and free yourself already.. let him be free too.. with you. You love this guy ya? Let him be free too.. Take it to that next level soon, seduce and capture what you want. He's already yours, trust me.Posted by DannyMCPosted by StrawberryJamCapz said it.. I'm the same way.. a really private person.. My inner circle will all know (or know about) my girl though, and what she means to me.. I won't post my public life outside of work or as capz said (marketing) on any SM site.. I actually had a GF I was really into and we took a ton of pics together (I may still actually love this girl) but I couldn't actually be all over SM about it at the time because I had a stalker exGF type that I had to give a long slow let down to... so everything I had with the girl I loved was very private for a time.. to go back about it again, what capz said is true.. and I can relate to that
@dannymc
Wait did he just ask you to be his girl?
I'm not sure if he asked he said this on the phone "I told my friends my girlfriend is coming to visit next week and I'm really excited" then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no
Isk what he wants. I then said look I'm only asking because I'm still being asked out. I only like to date one person at a time. If you still want to keep your option opened its fine by me. I just like to know wher your heads at.
Then I also told him friends are asking who am I going away with and I find I think difficult to answered as I don't even know if we are just friends or more. He said you are not my friend we are dating exclusively but he is french and they don't have this American dating process. Seriously hes been out of France for Iike 17 years...
He goes it's not about what we are is about it I still want to date other ppl
I was excited and just wanted to hear it again as i coudln't beleive it... then I asked what should I tell ppl about who am I going with? he goes just say his name. oh damn how can I call him boyfriend now >< to me he already is as I have not just stopped logging into my dating profile I deleted it.click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamPS: "I was excited and just wanted to hear it again as I couldn't beleive it" yes of course.. and a guy who's in love is a lil sensitive.. he'll shell up a lil like a turtle if he feels rejected.. I would be pissed if I was in love and I called you my girl and you got defensive. I would be lost in that moment.. but, it's rare for me to be in llove like that to where little things hurt me.. with that said, look at all the little things hurting you... SJ, you're in love.. he is too.. go for itPosted by DannyMCBrother what am I gonna do without you. you always know what we both are thinking. I definitely trust you as you were the only person who knew he wanted to see me on that festival night, even my gay guy friends coudln't tell and thought he was being cold!!Posted by StrawberryJamSJ that's the vulnerability thing again.. "then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no" SJ he called you his GF lol you have to show him you liked that.. if I called a girl I really liked, my GF that is a huge risk. I'm looking for her to be really excited and happy and say yes.. it's like micro-marriage lol if she says to me "did you just ask me to..?" as if she didn't like it I might say no and then shut down and be upset.. Sis I know you've been hurt pretty bad and that's why you're like this but he is there.. I want you to explore that and free yourself already.. let him be free too.. with you. You love this guy ya? Let him be free too.. Take it to that next level soon, seduce and capture what you want. He's already yours, trust me.Posted by DannyMCPosted by StrawberryJamCapz said it.. I'm the same way.. a really private person.. My inner circle will all know (or know about) my girl though, and what she means to me.. I won't post my public life outside of work or as capz said (marketing) on any SM site.. I actually had a GF I was really into and we took a ton of pics together (I may still actually love this girl) but I couldn't actually be all over SM about it at the time because I had a stalker exGF type that I had to give a long slow let down to... so everything I had with the girl I loved was very private for a time.. to go back about it again, what capz said is true.. and I can relate to that
@dannymc
Wait did he just ask you to be his girl?
I'm not sure if he asked he said this on the phone "I told my friends my girlfriend is coming to visit next week and I'm really excited" then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no
Isk what he wants. I then said look I'm only asking because I'm still being asked out. I only like to date one person at a time. If you still want to keep your option opened its fine by me. I just like to know wher your heads at.
Then I also told him friends are asking who am I going away with and I find I think difficult to answered as I don't even know if we are just friends or more. He said you are not my friend we are dating exclusively but he is french and they don't have this American dating process. Seriously hes been out of France for Iike 17 years...
He goes it's not about what we are is about it I still want to date other ppl
I was excited and just wanted to hear it again as i coudln't beleive it... then I asked what should I tell ppl about who am I going with? he goes just say his name. oh damn how can I call him boyfriend now >< to me he already is as I have not just stopped logging into my dating profile I deleted it.click to expand
Posted by DannyMCThanks Bro! I will be free with him. I'm actually excited and will wait until I see him in person and tell him.Posted by StrawberryJamI'll make a deal with you, if he hurts you, I'll fly to france and beat his ass myself. Till then, I want to see both of you be free for once 😉Posted by DannyMCBrother what am I gonna do without you. you always know what we both are thinking. I definitely trust you as you were the only person who knew he wanted to see me on that festival night, even my gay guy friends coudln't tell and thought he was being cold!!Posted by StrawberryJamSJ that's the vulnerability thing again.. "then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no" SJ he called you his GF lol you have to show him you liked that.. if I called a girl I really liked, my GF that is a huge risk. I'm looking for her to be really excited and happy and say yes.. it's like micro-marriage lol if she says to me "did you just ask me to..?" as if she didn't like it I might say no and then shut down and be upset.. Sis I know you've been hurt pretty bad and that's why you're like this but he is there.. I want you to explore that and free yourself already.. let him be free too.. with you. You love this guy ya? Let him be free too.. Take it to that next level soon, seduce and capture what you want. He's already yours, trust me.Posted by DannyMCPosted by StrawberryJamCapz said it.. I'm the same way.. a really private person.. My inner circle will all know (or know about) my girl though, and what she means to me.. I won't post my public life outside of work or as capz said (marketing) on any SM site.. I actually had a GF I was really into and we took a ton of pics together (I may still actually love this girl) but I couldn't actually be all over SM about it at the time because I had a stalker exGF type that I had to give a long slow let down to... so everything I had with the girl I loved was very private for a time.. to go back about it again, what capz said is true.. and I can relate to that
@dannymc
Wait did he just ask you to be his girl?
I'm not sure if he asked he said this on the phone "I told my friends my girlfriend is coming to visit next week and I'm really excited" then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no
Isk what he wants. I then said look I'm only asking because I'm still being asked out. I only like to date one person at a time. If you still want to keep your option opened its fine by me. I just like to know wher your heads at.
Then I also told him friends are asking who am I going away with and I find I think difficult to answered as I don't even know if we are just friends or more. He said you are not my friend we are dating exclusively but he is french and they don't have this American dating process. Seriously hes been out of France for Iike 17 years...
He goes it's not about what we are is about it I still want to date other ppl
I was excited and just wanted to hear it again as i coudln't beleive it... then I asked what should I tell ppl about who am I going with? he goes just say his name. oh damn how can I call him boyfriend now >< to me he already is as I have not just stopped logging into my dating profile I deleted it.click to expand
Posted by DannyMCI can't beleive we are in love so quickly. this is crazy and it feels goodPosted by StrawberryJamPS: "I was excited and just wanted to hear it again as I couldn't beleive it" yes of course.. and a guy who's in love is a lil sensitive.. he'll shell up a lil like a turtle if he feels rejected.. I would be pissed if I was in love and I called you my girl and you got defensive. I would be lost in that moment.. but, it's rare for me to be in llove like that to where little things hurt me.. with that said, look at all the little things hurting you... SJ, you're in love.. he is too.. go for itPosted by DannyMCBrother what am I gonna do without you. you always know what we both are thinking. I definitely trust you as you were the only person who knew he wanted to see me on that festival night, even my gay guy friends coudln't tell and thought he was being cold!!Posted by StrawberryJamSJ that's the vulnerability thing again.. "then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no" SJ he called you his GF lol you have to show him you liked that.. if I called a girl I really liked, my GF that is a huge risk. I'm looking for her to be really excited and happy and say yes.. it's like micro-marriage lol if she says to me "did you just ask me to..?" as if she didn't like it I might say no and then shut down and be upset.. Sis I know you've been hurt pretty bad and that's why you're like this but he is there.. I want you to explore that and free yourself already.. let him be free too.. with you. You love this guy ya? Let him be free too.. Take it to that next level soon, seduce and capture what you want. He's already yours, trust me.Posted by DannyMCPosted by StrawberryJamCapz said it.. I'm the same way.. a really private person.. My inner circle will all know (or know about) my girl though, and what she means to me.. I won't post my public life outside of work or as capz said (marketing) on any SM site.. I actually had a GF I was really into and we took a ton of pics together (I may still actually love this girl) but I couldn't actually be all over SM about it at the time because I had a stalker exGF type that I had to give a long slow let down to... so everything I had with the girl I loved was very private for a time.. to go back about it again, what capz said is true.. and I can relate to that
@dannymc
Wait did he just ask you to be his girl?
I'm not sure if he asked he said this on the phone "I told my friends my girlfriend is coming to visit next week and I'm really excited" then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no
Isk what he wants. I then said look I'm only asking because I'm still being asked out. I only like to date one person at a time. If you still want to keep your option opened its fine by me. I just like to know wher your heads at.
Then I also told him friends are asking who am I going away with and I find I think difficult to answered as I don't even know if we are just friends or more. He said you are not my friend we are dating exclusively but he is french and they don't have this American dating process. Seriously hes been out of France for Iike 17 years...
He goes it's not about what we are is about it I still want to date other ppl
I was excited and just wanted to hear it again as i coudln't beleive it... then I asked what should I tell ppl about who am I going with? he goes just say his name. oh damn how can I call him boyfriend now >< to me he already is as I have not just stopped logging into my dating profile I deleted it.click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamForget words.. be shy if that's what you feel.. remember the (be you) vulnerability thing..Posted by DannyMCyes im going to that trip. we ended up video calling for an hour last night. i;m not sure how to tell him.. just tell him hey you are my boyfriend cos I like you so much and I deleted my profile >< I'm not very good with words lolPosted by StrawberryJamYou better go tell him lol and also get back on-board with that trip 🙂Posted by DannyMCBrother what am I gonna do without you. you always know what we both are thinking. I definitely trust you as you were the only person who knew he wanted to see me on that festival night, even my gay guy friends coudln't tell and thought he was being cold!!Posted by StrawberryJamSJ that's the vulnerability thing again.. "then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no" SJ he called you his GF lol you have to show him you liked that.. if I called a girl I really liked, my GF that is a huge risk. I'm looking for her to be really excited and happy and say yes.. it's like micro-marriage lol if she says to me "did you just ask me to..?" as if she didn't like it I might say no and then shut down and be upset.. Sis I know you've been hurt pretty bad and that's why you're like this but he is there.. I want you to explore that and free yourself already.. let him be free too.. with you. You love this guy ya? Let him be free too.. Take it to that next level soon, seduce and capture what you want. He's already yours, trust me.Posted by DannyMCPosted by StrawberryJamCapz said it.. I'm the same way.. a really private person.. My inner circle will all know (or know about) my girl though, and what she means to me.. I won't post my public life outside of work or as capz said (marketing) on any SM site.. I actually had a GF I was really into and we took a ton of pics together (I may still actually love this girl) but I couldn't actually be all over SM about it at the time because I had a stalker exGF type that I had to give a long slow let down to... so everything I had with the girl I loved was very private for a time.. to go back about it again, what capz said is true.. and I can relate to that
@dannymc
Wait did he just ask you to be his girl?
I'm not sure if he asked he said this on the phone "I told my friends my girlfriend is coming to visit next week and I'm really excited" then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no
Isk what he wants. I then said look I'm only asking because I'm still being asked out. I only like to date one person at a time. If you still want to keep your option opened its fine by me. I just like to know wher your heads at.
Then I also told him friends are asking who am I going away with and I find I think difficult to answered as I don't even know if we are just friends or more. He said you are not my friend we are dating exclusively but he is french and they don't have this American dating process. Seriously hes been out of France for Iike 17 years...
He goes it's not about what we are is about it I still want to date other ppl
I was excited and just wanted to hear it again as i coudln't beleive it... then I asked what should I tell ppl about who am I going with? he goes just say his name. oh damn how can I call him boyfriend now >< to me he already is as I have not just stopped logging into my dating profile I deleted it.click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by DannyMCI can't beleive we are in love so quickly. this is crazy and it feels goodPosted by StrawberryJamPS: "I was excited and just wanted to hear it again as I couldn't beleive it" yes of course.. and a guy who's in love is a lil sensitive.. he'll shell up a lil like a turtle if he feels rejected.. I would be pissed if I was in love and I called you my girl and you got defensive. I would be lost in that moment.. but, it's rare for me to be in llove like that to where little things hurt me.. with that said, look at all the little things hurting you... SJ, you're in love.. he is too.. go for itPosted by DannyMCBrother what am I gonna do without you. you always know what we both are thinking. I definitely trust you as you were the only person who knew he wanted to see me on that festival night, even my gay guy friends coudln't tell and thought he was being cold!!Posted by StrawberryJamSJ that's the vulnerability thing again.. "then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no" SJ he called you his GF lol you have to show him you liked that.. if I called a girl I really liked, my GF that is a huge risk. I'm looking for her to be really excited and happy and say yes.. it's like micro-marriage lol if she says to me "did you just ask me to..?" as if she didn't like it I might say no and then shut down and be upset.. Sis I know you've been hurt pretty bad and that's why you're like this but he is there.. I want you to explore that and free yourself already.. let him be free too.. with you. You love this guy ya? Let him be free too.. Take it to that next level soon, seduce and capture what you want. He's already yours, trust me.Posted by DannyMCPosted by StrawberryJamCapz said it.. I'm the same way.. a really private person.. My inner circle will all know (or know about) my girl though, and what she means to me.. I won't post my public life outside of work or as capz said (marketing) on any SM site.. I actually had a GF I was really into and we took a ton of pics together (I may still actually love this girl) but I couldn't actually be all over SM about it at the time because I had a stalker exGF type that I had to give a long slow let down to... so everything I had with the girl I loved was very private for a time.. to go back about it again, what capz said is true.. and I can relate to that
@dannymc
Wait did he just ask you to be his girl?
I'm not sure if he asked he said this on the phone "I told my friends my girlfriend is coming to visit next week and I'm really excited" then I asked him if he just called me girlfriend he said no
Isk what he wants. I then said look I'm only asking because I'm still being asked out. I only like to date one person at a time. If you still want to keep your option opened its fine by me. I just like to know wher your heads at.
Then I also told him friends are asking who am I going away with and I find I think difficult to answered as I don't even know if we are just friends or more. He said you are not my friend we are dating exclusively but he is french and they don't have this American dating process. Seriously hes been out of France for Iike 17 years...
He goes it's not about what we are is about it I still want to date other ppl
I was excited and just wanted to hear it again as i coudln't beleive it... then I asked what should I tell ppl about who am I going with? he goes just say his name. oh damn how can I call him boyfriend now >< to me he already is as I have not just stopped logging into my dating profile I deleted it.click to expand
@dannymc bro he has also mentioned my friends knows you are coming and it's great. he also said I don't feel pressure cos I know you are very independent and when Im at work you will have a great time on your own and I don't have to worry about you while I'm at work.
He said we will have a great time on the weekend.
I now know he is into me, just out of curiosity are you caps really that attracted to independent women?
He said we will have a great time on the weekend.
I now know he is into me, just out of curiosity are you caps really that attracted to independent women?
Feels good right 🙂 lol idk about quick, you guys took enough time.. you're both ready.. whatever happens next, and we know what's gonna happen next.. on that trip, that's for you 2.. make sure to never share it. Especially on SM :-p
PSS: "she wanted to see a pic of him but I dindt let her" oh, now who isn't into sharing lol
Posted by StrawberryJamHe loves his work, I'm the same way.. I literally block out everyone when I'm working on something.. unless you are all about what I'm working on.. like a cheerleader lol
@dannymc bro he has also mentioned my friends knows you are coming and it's great. he also said I don't feel pressure cos I know you are very independent and when Im at work you will have a great time on your own and I don't have to worry about you while I'm at work.
He said we will have a great time on the weekend.
I now know he is into me, just out of curiosity are you caps really that attracted to independent women?
Posted by DannyMCyea im the same. when i asked him what you like about me? he goes you are funny, smart and you are very driven .I asked how? he said you are always working on something. you never rely on anyone for happiness.Posted by StrawberryJamHe loves his work, I'm the same way.. I literally block out everyone when I'm working on something.. unless you are all about what I'm working on.. like a cheerleader lol
@dannymc bro he has also mentioned my friends knows you are coming and it's great. he also said I don't feel pressure cos I know you are very independent and when Im at work you will have a great time on your own and I don't have to worry about you while I'm at work.
He said we will have a great time on the weekend.
I now know he is into me, just out of curiosity are you caps really that attracted to independent women?click to expand
I guess I have mistaken indepedent and being warm in the past. As I've been called ice queen by a few guys. Glad you taught me to show vulnerability and warmth the right way.
Posted by StrawberryJamI fluctuate "are you caps really that attracted to independent women?" I like being surrounded by people that are doing what they're doing while I conquer what I'm doing, can we meet up for drinks after? If I fall into a super deep love though, everything goes off the rails, and she trumps my work-life and my life becomes unbalanced, especially if she feels it too.. at that moment I need a referee LOL.. passion sucks. But ya we need an independent woman, but it's just because if we do fall, we fall hard and we have to keep that in check and balance with our work life. We don't 9-5 it and we never have. Our work-life is a big deal, and we always keep it removed from everyone else.. I'll tell you something.. when he involves you in his work life, you 2 have made some serious progress. Take that as a sign
@dannymc bro he has also mentioned my friends knows you are coming and it's great. he also said I don't feel pressure cos I know you are very independent and when Im at work you will have a great time on your own and I don't have to worry about you while I'm at work.
He said we will have a great time on the weekend.
I now know he is into me, just out of curiosity are you caps really that attracted to independent women?
Posted by DannyMCWe couldn't have started without you... remember we were both scared of rejection and were pulling away
Feels good right 🙂 lol idk about quick, you guys took enough time.. you're both ready.. whatever happens next, and we know what's gonna happen next.. on that trip, that's for you 2.. make sure to never share it. Especially on SM :-p
PSS: "she wanted to see a pic of him but I dindt let her" oh, now who isn't into sharing lol
ok I will never share it on SM but has to have some photos of me in bikini haha
haha I only shared with ppl who are close like a few close friends and work friends. not by sending it via text, only show it on my phone. Anyway no more tagging until he does it himself.
Posted by DannyMCI see... he was gonna take me to that work wedding but the bride gave him wrong invitation for this week. he is already overseas! But she invited other work ppl for next week as she had 2 weddings.Posted by StrawberryJamI fluctuate "are you caps really that attracted to independent women?" I like being surrounded by people that are doing what they're doing while I conquer what I'm doing, can we meet up for drinks after? If I fall into a super deep love though, everything goes off the rails, and she trumps my work-life and my life becomes unbalanced, especially if she feels it too.. at that moment I need a referee LOL.. passion sucks. But ya we need an independent woman, but it's just because if we do fall, we fall hard and we have to keep that in check and balance with our work life. We don't 9-5 it and we never have. Our work-life is a big deal, and we always keep it removed from everyone else.. I'll tell you something.. when he involves you in his work life, you 2 have made some serious progress. Take that as a sign
@dannymc bro he has also mentioned my friends knows you are coming and it's great. he also said I don't feel pressure cos I know you are very independent and when Im at work you will have a great time on your own and I don't have to worry about you while I'm at work.
He said we will have a great time on the weekend.
I now know he is into me, just out of curiosity are you caps really that attracted to independent women?click to expand
I thought he was joking and I said may be the mix up is a good thing, so you could still spend time wtih me ebfore you fly out. He goes if she gave me the right invitation I would just take you with me. I said the bride never said you can bring guest did she? 😉 he goes i dont care i will jsut take you.
I havent read all comments of this thread but I cant only say that just by the caption "Cap guy hiding me from social media" it tells so much about our broken generation.
Social media and bf-gf apparence dont mean shit. Yet the fact at he hides you dont mean shit AND THEN THE FACT THAT YOU NOTICE THAT HE HIDES YOU and complain about it.. guess what? it doesnt mean shit either.
LOVE is something bnd what we can imagine it is. People these days (and even past generations) calculate love on a stupid invented note pad.
- he did this for me = means hes extra thoughtful and good for me
- blablablabla
- and extra blabla
Real love you wont have to queston anything youll just naturall trust and that on both sides! When the woman and man would be ready because they truly kNOW THEMSELF FIRST.
Of course those type of situations, experiences, will makeu grow and realize that those type of relationship really aint shit.
be smarter than that. and ya like others say follow your instinct.
Social media and bf-gf apparence dont mean shit. Yet the fact at he hides you dont mean shit AND THEN THE FACT THAT YOU NOTICE THAT HE HIDES YOU and complain about it.. guess what? it doesnt mean shit either.
LOVE is something bnd what we can imagine it is. People these days (and even past generations) calculate love on a stupid invented note pad.
- he did this for me = means hes extra thoughtful and good for me
- blablablabla
- and extra blabla
Real love you wont have to queston anything youll just naturall trust and that on both sides! When the woman and man would be ready because they truly kNOW THEMSELF FIRST.
Of course those type of situations, experiences, will makeu grow and realize that those type of relationship really aint shit.
be smarter than that. and ya like others say follow your instinct.
Posted by StrawberryJamJust means you're smart.. I can only speak for me here but, you're a cusp, let the libra shine through.. caps need the virgo brain power, it's 80% of what we want, we can't deal with airheads (I'm thinking of the yappy gemini).. our soul though (my soul, I can only speak for me here) needs the libra.. the class, the femininity, the diplomacy and charm.. that's my wife and opposite.. the rest of me needs the virgo because we're gonna conquer the world right.. that's my life partner.. I think most caps are the samePosted by DannyMCyea im the same. when i asked him what you like about me? he goes you are funny, smart and you are very driven .I asked how? he said you are always working on something. you never rely on anyone for happiness.Posted by StrawberryJamHe loves his work, I'm the same way.. I literally block out everyone when I'm working on something.. unless you are all about what I'm working on.. like a cheerleader lol
@dannymc bro he has also mentioned my friends knows you are coming and it's great. he also said I don't feel pressure cos I know you are very independent and when Im at work you will have a great time on your own and I don't have to worry about you while I'm at work.
He said we will have a great time on the weekend.
I now know he is into me, just out of curiosity are you caps really that attracted to independent women?
I guess I have mistaken indepedent and being warm in the past. As I've been called ice queen by a few guys. Glad you taught me to show vulnerability and warmth the right way.click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJam"he goes i dont care i will jsut take you" sounds like something I would say. SJ go get it 🙂Posted by DannyMCI see... he was gonna take me to that work wedding but the bride gave him wrong invitation for this week. he is already overseas! But she invited other work ppl for next week as she had 2 weddings.Posted by StrawberryJamI fluctuate "are you caps really that attracted to independent women?" I like being surrounded by people that are doing what they're doing while I conquer what I'm doing, can we meet up for drinks after? If I fall into a super deep love though, everything goes off the rails, and she trumps my work-life and my life becomes unbalanced, especially if she feels it too.. at that moment I need a referee LOL.. passion sucks. But ya we need an independent woman, but it's just because if we do fall, we fall hard and we have to keep that in check and balance with our work life. We don't 9-5 it and we never have. Our work-life is a big deal, and we always keep it removed from everyone else.. I'll tell you something.. when he involves you in his work life, you 2 have made some serious progress. Take that as a sign
@dannymc bro he has also mentioned my friends knows you are coming and it's great. he also said I don't feel pressure cos I know you are very independent and when Im at work you will have a great time on your own and I don't have to worry about you while I'm at work.
He said we will have a great time on the weekend.
I now know he is into me, just out of curiosity are you caps really that attracted to independent women?
I thought he was joking and I said may be the mix up is a good thing, so you could still spend time wtih me ebfore you fly out. He goes if she gave me the right invitation I would just take you with me. I said the bride never said you can bring guest did she? 😉 he goes i dont care i will jsut take you.click to expand
Posted by bdzzbdzz"Social media and bf-gf apparence dont mean shit." she's right.
I havent read all comments of this thread but I cant only say that just by the caption "Cap guy hiding me from social media" it tells so much about our broken generation.
Social media and bf-gf apparence dont mean shit. Yet the fact at he hides you dont mean shit AND THEN THE FACT THAT YOU NOTICE THAT HE HIDES YOU and complain about it.. guess what? it doesnt mean shit either.
LOVE is something bnd what we can imagine it is. People these days (and even past generations) calculate love on a stupid invented note pad.
- he did this for me = means hes extra thoughtful and good for me
- blablablabla
- and extra blabla
Real love you wont have to queston anything youll just naturall trust and that on both sides! When the woman and man would be ready because they truly kNOW THEMSELF FIRST.
Of course those type of situations, experiences, will makeu grow and realize that those type of relationship really aint shit.
be smarter than that. and ya like others say follow your instinct.
Posted by StrawberryJamYes, if it all works out I want to see happy pics :-pPosted by DannyMCWe couldn't have started without you... remember we were both scared of rejection and were pulling away
Feels good right 🙂 lol idk about quick, you guys took enough time.. you're both ready.. whatever happens next, and we know what's gonna happen next.. on that trip, that's for you 2.. make sure to never share it. Especially on SM :-p
PSS: "she wanted to see a pic of him but I dindt let her" oh, now who isn't into sharing lol
ok I will never share it on SM but has to have some photos of me in bikini haha
haha I only shared with ppl who are close like a few close friends and work friends. not by sending it via text, only show it on my phone. Anyway no more tagging until he does it himself.click to expand
@dannymc haha does that mean cap guys like to take anyone they like to wedding even the invitation doesn't say plus guest? 😛
I like your detailed description about the cusp. I think this is why you get along with us Virgo Libra cusp. When he talks he is very detail oriented as well. Sure i will send you photos if it works hehe
I like your detailed description about the cusp. I think this is why you get along with us Virgo Libra cusp. When he talks he is very detail oriented as well. Sure i will send you photos if it works hehe
Posted by bdzzbdzzyou're right, I'm just glad we talked it through and now we feel closer to each other.
I havent read all comments of this thread but I cant only say that just by the caption "Cap guy hiding me from social media" it tells so much about our broken generation.
Social media and bf-gf apparence dont mean shit. Yet the fact at he hides you dont mean shit AND THEN THE FACT THAT YOU NOTICE THAT HE HIDES YOU and complain about it.. guess what? it doesnt mean shit either.
LOVE is something bnd what we can imagine it is. People these days (and even past generations) calculate love on a stupid invented note pad.
- he did this for me = means hes extra thoughtful and good for me
- blablablabla
- and extra blabla
Real love you wont have to queston anything youll just naturall trust and that on both sides! When the woman and man would be ready because they truly kNOW THEMSELF FIRST.
Of course those type of situations, experiences, will makeu grow and realize that those type of relationship really aint shit.
be smarter than that. and ya like others say follow your instinct.
Posted by StrawberryJamAt least he was honest when you called him out on it. At this point don't invest emotionally any further until he introduces you to his inner circle.
the weirdest thing is he took back on the "girlfriend": thing he said no i didn';t say you are my girlfriend i told them im dating you
Posted by StrawberryJam
His action tells me he is serious about me
Still not seeing the mixed signals.
Posted by Virgoreanmixed signals? thought your previous post was suggesting he was taking me seriously and I was overthinking?Posted by StrawberryJam
His action tells me he is serious about me
Still not seeing the mixed signals.click to expand
I personally don't like this situation but I don't know. Anything else you've noticed ?
Posted by pisceanlovesA pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters.
I personally don't like this situation but I don't know. Anything else you've noticed ?
With this particular cap he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel.
He said he told his friends and colleagues overseas that his girlfriend is visiting.. I was shocked when he said that cos it contradicts to my assumption so I asked did you say girlfriend? then he took it back and said no i didn't.
Anyway after confronting him via text he owned it and called me immediately and explained like an adult. apologized for not explaining before he hide all tagged photo ever. My player exs never called.
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by pisceanlovesA pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters.
I personally don't like this situation but I don't know. Anything else you've noticed ?
With this particular cap he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel.
He said he told his friends and colleagues overseas that his girlfriend is visiting.. I was shocked when he said that cos it contradicts to my assumption so I asked did you say girlfriend? then he took it back and said no i didn't.
Anyway after confronting him via text he owned it and called me immediately and explained like an adult. apologized for not explaining before he hide all tagged photo ever. My player exs never called.click to expand
I see. You know what, visit him and see what will happen. If he takes you out to meet his friends and colleagues. If he "locks" you in a hotel room then you gotta find someone else
Posted by pisceanloveshe already plans on taking me out most of the time. he wants to be my tour guide. May not involve friends as he is there for work. The friends he talks to the about me are back home in here.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by pisceanlovesA pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters.
I personally don't like this situation but I don't know. Anything else you've noticed ?
With this particular cap he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel.
He said he told his friends and colleagues overseas that his girlfriend is visiting.. I was shocked when he said that cos it contradicts to my assumption so I asked did you say girlfriend? then he took it back and said no i didn't.
Anyway after confronting him via text he owned it and called me immediately and explained like an adult. apologized for not explaining before he hide all tagged photo ever. My player exs never called.
I see. You know what, visit him and see what will happen. If he takes you out to meet his friends and colleagues. If he "locks" you in a hotel room then you gotta find someone elseclick to expand
I do this. I do not expose my love life on social media. Not because I'm hiding something but because I have so many fake people on there who would probably share my picture and talk about the guy I'm dating and what not.
As things progress and I see that we are more serious then I would start posting.
I don't need any negativity in my life and I like to keep my love life private.
As things progress and I see that we are more serious then I would start posting.
I don't need any negativity in my life and I like to keep my love life private.
Posted by StrawberryJamAww girl you have nothing to worry then. 🙂Posted by pisceanloveshe already plans on taking me out most of the time. he wants to be my tour guide. May not involve friends as he is there for work. The friends he talks to the about me are back home in here.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by pisceanlovesA pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters.
I personally don't like this situation but I don't know. Anything else you've noticed ?
With this particular cap he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel.
He said he told his friends and colleagues overseas that his girlfriend is visiting.. I was shocked when he said that cos it contradicts to my assumption so I asked did you say girlfriend? then he took it back and said no i didn't.
Anyway after confronting him via text he owned it and called me immediately and explained like an adult. apologized for not explaining before he hide all tagged photo ever. My player exs never called.
I see. You know what, visit him and see what will happen. If he takes you out to meet his friends and colleagues. If he "locks" you in a hotel room then you gotta find someone elseclick to expand
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