StrawberryJam
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Posted by StrawberryJamSJ, this "he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel."Posted by pisceanlovesA pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters.
I personally don't like this situation but I don't know. Anything else you've noticed ?
With this particular cap he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel.
He said he told his friends and colleagues overseas that his girlfriend is visiting.. I was shocked when he said that cos it contradicts to my assumption so I asked did you say girlfriend? then he took it back and said no i didn't.
Anyway after confronting him via text he owned it and called me immediately and explained like an adult. apologized for not explaining before he hide all tagged photo ever. My player exs never called.click to expand
is not this: "pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters."
You got me, sis?
Posted by DannyMCGo it bro. Those exes acts nothing like him. I love this cap damn LOLPosted by StrawberryJamSJ, this "he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel."Posted by pisceanlovesA pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters.
I personally don't like this situation but I don't know. Anything else you've noticed ?
With this particular cap he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel.
He said he told his friends and colleagues overseas that his girlfriend is visiting.. I was shocked when he said that cos it contradicts to my assumption so I asked did you say girlfriend? then he took it back and said no i didn't.
Anyway after confronting him via text he owned it and called me immediately and explained like an adult. apologized for not explaining before he hide all tagged photo ever. My player exs never called.
is not this: "pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters."
You got me, sis?
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Posted by StrawberryJamFact. Keep that armor off that heart and let him love you too 😉Posted by DannyMCGo it bro. Those exes acts nothing like him. I love this cap damn LOLPosted by StrawberryJamSJ, this "he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel."Posted by pisceanlovesA pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters.
I personally don't like this situation but I don't know. Anything else you've noticed ?
With this particular cap he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel.
He said he told his friends and colleagues overseas that his girlfriend is visiting.. I was shocked when he said that cos it contradicts to my assumption so I asked did you say girlfriend? then he took it back and said no i didn't.
Anyway after confronting him via text he owned it and called me immediately and explained like an adult. apologized for not explaining before he hide all tagged photo ever. My player exs never called.
is not this: "pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters."
You got me, sis?
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Keep things private for a while too while you warm up to each other.. I feel phase 2 of your joint future is about to begin..
Posted by DannyMCI will try to let the armor off, just that after all these years "normal" behavior was resented by players and made me become self reliant. What is phase 2? It's been awhile since I had good guys like cap so i don't even know what to expectPosted by StrawberryJamFact. Keep that armor off that heart and let him love you too 😉Posted by DannyMCGo it bro. Those exes acts nothing like him. I love this cap damn LOLPosted by StrawberryJamSJ, this "he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel."Posted by pisceanlovesA pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters.
I personally don't like this situation but I don't know. Anything else you've noticed ?
With this particular cap he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel.
He said he told his friends and colleagues overseas that his girlfriend is visiting.. I was shocked when he said that cos it contradicts to my assumption so I asked did you say girlfriend? then he took it back and said no i didn't.
Anyway after confronting him via text he owned it and called me immediately and explained like an adult. apologized for not explaining before he hide all tagged photo ever. My player exs never called.
is not this: "pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters."
You got me, sis?
Keep things private for a while too while you warm up to each other.. I feel phase 2 of your joint future is about to begin..click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamThat's the fall SJ.. where you 2 let go, emotionally 🙂Posted by DannyMCI will try to let the armor off, just that after all these years "normal" behavior was resented by players and made me become self reliant. What is phase 2? It's been awhile since I had good guys like cap so i don't even know what to expectPosted by StrawberryJamFact. Keep that armor off that heart and let him love you too 😉Posted by DannyMCGo it bro. Those exes acts nothing like him. I love this cap damn LOLPosted by StrawberryJamSJ, this "he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel."Posted by pisceanlovesA pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters.
I personally don't like this situation but I don't know. Anything else you've noticed ?
With this particular cap he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel.
He said he told his friends and colleagues overseas that his girlfriend is visiting.. I was shocked when he said that cos it contradicts to my assumption so I asked did you say girlfriend? then he took it back and said no i didn't.
Anyway after confronting him via text he owned it and called me immediately and explained like an adult. apologized for not explaining before he hide all tagged photo ever. My player exs never called.
is not this: "pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters."
You got me, sis?
Keep things private for a while too while you warm up to each other.. I feel phase 2 of your joint future is about to begin..click to expand
Posted by DannyMCthat's a challenge.. i don't even know how to LOL I have made a big progress by being vunerable. I guess yesterday was a progress too as i could express myself to him clearly without blaming him that'ds why he called to apologize inteasd of getting defensive.Posted by StrawberryJamThat's the fall SJ.. where you 2 let go, emotionally 🙂Posted by DannyMCI will try to let the armor off, just that after all these years "normal" behavior was resented by players and made me become self reliant. What is phase 2? It's been awhile since I had good guys like cap so i don't even know what to expectPosted by StrawberryJamFact. Keep that armor off that heart and let him love you too 😉Posted by DannyMCGo it bro. Those exes acts nothing like him. I love this cap damn LOLPosted by StrawberryJamSJ, this "he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel."Posted by pisceanlovesA pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters.
I personally don't like this situation but I don't know. Anything else you've noticed ?
With this particular cap he treats me well in real life, he gets in touch everyday, he pays for everything. His touch and eyes linger on me and he really want to learn about me and he really wants to connect by being affectionate not just sexual. He also likes to look after me and genuinely cares about how I feel.
He said he told his friends and colleagues overseas that his girlfriend is visiting.. I was shocked when he said that cos it contradicts to my assumption so I asked did you say girlfriend? then he took it back and said no i didn't.
Anyway after confronting him via text he owned it and called me immediately and explained like an adult. apologized for not explaining before he hide all tagged photo ever. My player exs never called.
is not this: "pisces and cancer and aries has done something similar and they were cheaters."
You got me, sis?
Keep things private for a while too while you warm up to each other.. I feel phase 2 of your joint future is about to begin..click to expand
Posted by youngalito me private life including friends or your where about. he is already posting those things....
i will never for the life of me plaster anything about my private life on social media.
Posted by youngalifairenough. He only posted one photo of him and his mom from like 20 years ago to say happy mother's day.Posted by StrawberryJamahh.. i see what you're saying. but for most... your private life is what you consider to be the most dearest to your heart, the location of my whereabouts and some friends don't make that cut.Posted by youngalito me private life including friends or your where about. he is already posting those things....
i will never for the life of me plaster anything about my private life on social media.
the cut; family matters, dating life,click to expand
we had like 1 hr video call last night and haven't heard from him today nor has he like my new post. I guess he is busy as he told already told me his plans
Posted by youngaliYup he texted me to say goodnight and sending kisses 🙂Posted by StrawberryJamhe sounds like a good guy. don't be too hard on him.Posted by youngalifairenough. He only posted one photo of him and his mom from like 20 years ago to say happy mother's day.Posted by StrawberryJamahh.. i see what you're saying. but for most... your private life is what you consider to be the most dearest to your heart, the location of my whereabouts and some friends don't make that cut.Posted by youngalito me private life including friends or your where about. he is already posting those things....
i will never for the life of me plaster anything about my private life on social media.
the cut; family matters, dating life,
we had like 1 hr video call last night and haven't heard from him today nor has he like my new post. I guess he is busy as he told already told me his plans
+ yea, he definitely likes you.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83
I doubt many men fall in love with obsessed chicks
Is cancer board not enough for you? I can see what you are doing. Just stop
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by youngalifairenough. He only posted one photo of him and his mom from like 20 years ago to say happy mother's day.Posted by StrawberryJamahh.. i see what you're saying. but for most... your private life is what you consider to be the most dearest to your heart, the location of my whereabouts and some friends don't make that cut.Posted by youngalito me private life including friends or your where about. he is already posting those things....
i will never for the life of me plaster anything about my private life on social media.
the cut; family matters, dating life,
we had like 1 hr video call last night and haven't heard from him today nor has he like my new post. I guess he is busy as he told already told me his plansclick to expand
For the love of God will you please just stay of social media! You're obsessed by it. You are going to kill any chance this relationship has. You gauge everything by this. Disregarding anything that he says to you over whether he "liked" a post!!
With regards to posting photos and tagging you. I wouldn't post anyone I'm dating on my social media until I knew it was a long lasting relationship. It's far too early days yet for you. Don't take it so personally his friends and family he's known for years, it's only been 3 months. What if you post a load of photos then in two months it goes tits up. Everyone loves a gossip.
Posted by WonderWoman14I get what you are saying, i have untagged him and he also apologized to me and said he should have exaplin before he hide eveyrthing. We are good I';m lookign forward to the trip 🙂Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by youngalifairenough. He only posted one photo of him and his mom from like 20 years ago to say happy mother's day.Posted by StrawberryJamahh.. i see what you're saying. but for most... your private life is what you consider to be the most dearest to your heart, the location of my whereabouts and some friends don't make that cut.Posted by youngalito me private life including friends or your where about. he is already posting those things....
i will never for the life of me plaster anything about my private life on social media.
the cut; family matters, dating life,
we had like 1 hr video call last night and haven't heard from him today nor has he like my new post. I guess he is busy as he told already told me his plans
For the love of God will you please just stay of social media! You're possessed by it. You are going to kill any chance this relationship has. You gauge everything by this. Disregarding anything that he says to you over whether he "liked" a post!!
With regards to posting photos and tagging you. I wouldn't post anyone I'm dating on my social media until I knew it was a long lasting relationship. It's far too early days yet for you. Don't take it so personally his friends and family he's known for years, it's only been 3 months. What if you post a load of photos then in two months it goes tits up. Everyone loves a gossip.
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Posted by StrawberryJamEnjoy and don't over analyse everything.Posted by WonderWoman14I get what you are saying, i have untagged him and he also apologized to me and said he should have exaplin before he hide eveyrthing. We are good I';m lookign forward to the trip 🙂Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by youngalifairenough. He only posted one photo of him and his mom from like 20 years ago to say happy mother's day.Posted by StrawberryJamahh.. i see what you're saying. but for most... your private life is what you consider to be the most dearest to your heart, the location of my whereabouts and some friends don't make that cut.Posted by youngalito me private life including friends or your where about. he is already posting those things....
i will never for the life of me plaster anything about my private life on social media.
the cut; family matters, dating life,
we had like 1 hr video call last night and haven't heard from him today nor has he like my new post. I guess he is busy as he told already told me his plans
For the love of God will you please just stay of social media! You're possessed by it. You are going to kill any chance this relationship has. You gauge everything by this. Disregarding anything that he says to you over whether he "liked" a post!!
With regards to posting photos and tagging you. I wouldn't post anyone I'm dating on my social media until I knew it was a long lasting relationship. It's far too early days yet for you. Don't take it so personally his friends and family he's known for years, it's only been 3 months. What if you post a load of photos then in two months it goes tits up. Everyone loves a gossip.
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Posted by WonderWoman14Thanks girl!Posted by StrawberryJamEnjoy and don't over analyse everything.Posted by WonderWoman14I get what you are saying, i have untagged him and he also apologized to me and said he should have exaplin before he hide eveyrthing. We are good I';m lookign forward to the trip 🙂Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by youngalifairenough. He only posted one photo of him and his mom from like 20 years ago to say happy mother's day.Posted by StrawberryJamahh.. i see what you're saying. but for most... your private life is what you consider to be the most dearest to your heart, the location of my whereabouts and some friends don't make that cut.Posted by youngalito me private life including friends or your where about. he is already posting those things....
i will never for the life of me plaster anything about my private life on social media.
the cut; family matters, dating life,
we had like 1 hr video call last night and haven't heard from him today nor has he like my new post. I guess he is busy as he told already told me his plans
For the love of God will you please just stay of social media! You're possessed by it. You are going to kill any chance this relationship has. You gauge everything by this. Disregarding anything that he says to you over whether he "liked" a post!!
With regards to posting photos and tagging you. I wouldn't post anyone I'm dating on my social media until I knew it was a long lasting relationship. It's far too early days yet for you. Don't take it so personally his friends and family he's known for years, it's only been 3 months. What if you post a load of photos then in two months it goes tits up. Everyone loves a gossip.
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Nothing wrong with wanting to keep his personal life private.
Smart man.
Social Media is used for all the wrong reasons.
In your case, I'm going to call it in 'insecurity.'
A need for validation.
I knew a female once who stole her current boyfriend from his wife.
She insisted that he remove all the photos of his wife from his FaceBook.
She then, insisted on posting all the photos of herself on his FB page.
This of course, threw everyone off, who had NO idea who she was.
She was told her actions were done in poor taste.
His reason: He wanted to spare his wife and her family members...he needed that alone time to transition his way through the divorce, and he wanted it done quietly.
But she won. She got her way. Her photos were put up anyway, despite how he felt about it.
The moral of the story?
If you're insecure about your set-up, don't use social media as a power engine to validate your relationship. Especially if he's not on board with it.
Smart man.
Social Media is used for all the wrong reasons.
In your case, I'm going to call it in 'insecurity.'
A need for validation.
I knew a female once who stole her current boyfriend from his wife.
She insisted that he remove all the photos of his wife from his FaceBook.
She then, insisted on posting all the photos of herself on his FB page.
This of course, threw everyone off, who had NO idea who she was.
She was told her actions were done in poor taste.
His reason: He wanted to spare his wife and her family members...he needed that alone time to transition his way through the divorce, and he wanted it done quietly.
But she won. She got her way. Her photos were put up anyway, despite how he felt about it.
The moral of the story?
If you're insecure about your set-up, don't use social media as a power engine to validate your relationship. Especially if he's not on board with it.
Posted by TaurusBull1977No it's not even about insecurity. You are projecting your friends story onto mine before reading the full post.
Nothing wrong with wanting to keep his personal life private.
Smart man.
Social Media is used for all the wrong reasons.
In your case, I'm going to call it in 'insecurity.'
A need for validation.
I knew a female once who stole her current boyfriend from his wife.
She insisted that he remove all the photos of his wife from his FaceBook.
She then, insisted on posting all the photos of herself on his FB page.
This of course, threw everyone off, who had NO idea who she was.
She was told her actions were done in poor taste.
His reason: He wanted to spare his wife and her family members...he needed that alone time to transition his way through the divorce, and he wanted it done quietly.
But she won. She got her way. Her photos were put up anyway, despite how he felt about it.
The moral of the story?
If you're insecure about your set-up, don't use social media as a power engine to validate your relationship. Especially if he's not on board with it.
@Strawberry,
It was insecurity on your part.
Due to past experiences in your previous relationships.
The FB photos was an issue for you.
He told you he valued his privacy, and it was still an issue for you.
Different stories, but the base premise of it all is pretty much the same.
Please don't take offense. 🙂
It was insecurity on your part.
Due to past experiences in your previous relationships.
The FB photos was an issue for you.
He told you he valued his privacy, and it was still an issue for you.
Different stories, but the base premise of it all is pretty much the same.
Please don't take offense. 🙂
Posted by TaurusBull1977I'm not offended, your post just proved that you didn't actually read before commenting. it wasn't even a FB photo.
@Strawberry,
It was insecurity on your part.
Due to past experiences in your previous relationships.
The FB photos was an issue for you.
He told you he valued his privacy, and it was still an issue for you.
Different stories, but the base premise of it all is pretty much the same.
Please don't take offense. 🙂
Posted by lady_chatterleyAqua rising, leo in 7th
What's your Asc, SJ? What planets do you have in the 7th house?
He has Virgo rising, pisces 7th house.
His rising conjunct my sun and mercury
What does that all mean?
I know 7th house is always the opposite of the rising but apart from that I know nothing lol
Posted by StrawberryJamMy apologies.
I tagged him in a post and he went an hiding all of his tag photos
I misread your first sentence.
Posted by lady_chatterleyhe shows me off when we are in public, holding hands on the table, serving me food, lots of touches and hand holding as we stroll along on dates. he has sent me photos to his friends base on what he said. It's not just photos of me. it's photos of what we do on our fun dates.Posted by StrawberryJamI see you have Leo in 7th, just like me. Your partner showing you off is important, or at least showing that he's proud of being with you?Posted by lady_chatterleyAqua rising, leo in 7th
What's your Asc, SJ? What planets do you have in the 7th house?
He has Virgo rising, pisces 7th house.
His rising conjunct my sun and mercury
What does that all mean?
I know 7th house is always the opposite of the rising but apart from that I know nothing lol
Which house is your Sun sign in for you?
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I was hoping you could tell me a bit more about Pisces 7 th house and if his virgo rising conjunct to my sun and mercury? I already some idea but I would like to hear what other astrologist have to say about that.
Posted by StrawberryJam@taurusbull1977 is right though Strawb. Although she got the fb mixed up her analysis is correct and she didn't mean it in an offensive manner but you got very defensive over it. It's clear from mentioning your excess that insecurities from your past play a part. However you are learning to take this guy on his own merit and not tarnish him with the same stick. Continue to embrace it and hopefully it will work out well.Posted by TaurusBull1977I'm not offended, your post just proved that you didn't actually read before commenting. it wasn't even a FB photo.
@Strawberry,
It was insecurity on your part.
Due to past experiences in your previous relationships.
The FB photos was an issue for you.
He told you he valued his privacy, and it was still an issue for you.
Different stories, but the base premise of it all is pretty much the same.
Please don't take offense. 🙂click to expand
Posted by WonderWoman14I'm not over defensive or insecure. You don't know us and may be you didn't get the OP. You think for a smart guy like him he would be calling right away to apologize if I was being unreasonable? No way. anyway you don;t know us and you are free to have your opinion.Posted by StrawberryJam@taurusbull1977 is right though Strawb. Although she got the fb mixed up her analysis is correct and she didn't mean it in an offensive manner but you got very defensive over it. It's clear from mentioning your excess that insecurities from your past play a part. However you are learning to take this guy on his own merit and not tarnish him with the same stick. Continue to embrace it and hopefully it will work out well.Posted by TaurusBull1977I'm not offended, your post just proved that you didn't actually read before commenting. it wasn't even a FB photo.
@Strawberry,
It was insecurity on your part.
Due to past experiences in your previous relationships.
The FB photos was an issue for you.
He told you he valued his privacy, and it was still an issue for you.
Different stories, but the base premise of it all is pretty much the same.
Please don't take offense. 🙂click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamWouldn't that be easier if you went and find out than agonizing over this here?
@dannymc
Posted by cheekyfaerieLOL @ not wanting to touch a telephone - because it's SO TRUE!
Most Caps barely wanna touch a telephone, much less have our private lives plastered for all the world to see. What you're describing isn't necessarily a red flag.
OP, when a couple's life is publicized, it becomes less about the couple and their relationship and more about everyone's perception of the relationship.
In my opinion, wanting to keep your relationship private is a sign of respect. My Capricorn, whom I've been with for one year and three months, has yet to post one photo of me on his Facebook. His family knows me, his closest friends know me, his family friends know me...that's enough.
Enjoy things between you two, not between you two and social media. Go on a trip with him - the rest of the world doesn't have to know to validate that you had a good time.
Posted by StrawberryJamCalm your ego down - him calling to apologize means he cares enough about you to try and make it right. It absolutely does NOT mean your actions are still not unreasonable.Posted by WonderWoman14I'm not over defensive or insecure. You don't know us and may be you didn't get the OP. You think for a smart guy like him he would be calling right away to apologize if I was being unreasonable? No way. anyway you don;t know us and you are free to have your opinion.Posted by StrawberryJam@taurusbull1977 is right though Strawb. Although she got the fb mixed up her analysis is correct and she didn't mean it in an offensive manner but you got very defensive over it. It's clear from mentioning your excess that insecurities from your past play a part. However you are learning to take this guy on his own merit and not tarnish him with the same stick. Continue to embrace it and hopefully it will work out well.Posted by TaurusBull1977I'm not offended, your post just proved that you didn't actually read before commenting. it wasn't even a FB photo.
@Strawberry,
It was insecurity on your part.
Due to past experiences in your previous relationships.
The FB photos was an issue for you.
He told you he valued his privacy, and it was still an issue for you.
Different stories, but the base premise of it all is pretty much the same.
Please don't take offense. 🙂click to expand
Posted by GemitatiIt would be easier if ppl actually read it before commentingPosted by StrawberryJamWouldn't that be easier if you went and find out than agonizing over this here?
@dannymcclick to expand
Posted by LillyPetalok another person who didn't actually read it before preaching.Posted by StrawberryJamCalm your ego down - him calling to apologize means he cares enough about you to try and make it right. It absolutely does NOT mean your actions are still not unreasonable.Posted by WonderWoman14I'm not over defensive or insecure. You don't know us and may be you didn't get the OP. You think for a smart guy like him he would be calling right away to apologize if I was being unreasonable? No way. anyway you don;t know us and you are free to have your opinion.Posted by StrawberryJam@taurusbull1977 is right though Strawb. Although she got the fb mixed up her analysis is correct and she didn't mean it in an offensive manner but you got very defensive over it. It's clear from mentioning your excess that insecurities from your past play a part. However you are learning to take this guy on his own merit and not tarnish him with the same stick. Continue to embrace it and hopefully it will work out well.Posted by TaurusBull1977I'm not offended, your post just proved that you didn't actually read before commenting. it wasn't even a FB photo.
@Strawberry,
It was insecurity on your part.
Due to past experiences in your previous relationships.
The FB photos was an issue for you.
He told you he valued his privacy, and it was still an issue for you.
Different stories, but the base premise of it all is pretty much the same.
Please don't take offense. 🙂click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamI'm not preaching. I'm simply responding to your comment and disagreeing with the logic "well, he apologized, so that must mean I'm not being unreasonable."Posted by LillyPetalok another person who didn't actually read it before preaching.Posted by StrawberryJamCalm your ego down - him calling to apologize means he cares enough about you to try and make it right. It absolutely does NOT mean your actions are still not unreasonable.Posted by WonderWoman14I'm not over defensive or insecure. You don't know us and may be you didn't get the OP. You think for a smart guy like him he would be calling right away to apologize if I was being unreasonable? No way. anyway you don;t know us and you are free to have your opinion.Posted by StrawberryJam@taurusbull1977 is right though Strawb. Although she got the fb mixed up her analysis is correct and she didn't mean it in an offensive manner but you got very defensive over it. It's clear from mentioning your excess that insecurities from your past play a part. However you are learning to take this guy on his own merit and not tarnish him with the same stick. Continue to embrace it and hopefully it will work out well.Posted by TaurusBull1977I'm not offended, your post just proved that you didn't actually read before commenting. it wasn't even a FB photo.
@Strawberry,
It was insecurity on your part.
Due to past experiences in your previous relationships.
The FB photos was an issue for you.
He told you he valued his privacy, and it was still an issue for you.
Different stories, but the base premise of it all is pretty much the same.
Please don't take offense. 🙂click to expand
Are you always this defensive?
It's not about social media it's about ppls negativity from here. Some of you already knows that you've been wrong since the previous post. I'm out of here. Keep commenting base on your assumption all your want.
Posted by StrawberryJam?
It's not about social media it's about ppls negativity from here. Some of you already knows that you've been wrong since the previous post. I'm out of here. Keep commenting base on your assumption all your want.
#dramabum
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14I'm not over defensive or insecure. You don't know us and may be you didn't get the OP. You think for a smart guy like him he would be calling right away to apologize if I was being unreasonable? No way. anyway you don;t know us and you are free to have your opinion.Posted by StrawberryJam@taurusbull1977 is right though Strawb. Although she got the fb mixed up her analysis is correct and she didn't mean it in an offensive manner but you got very defensive over it. It's clear from mentioning your excess that insecurities from your past play a part. However you are learning to take this guy on his own merit and not tarnish him with the same stick. Continue to embrace it and hopefully it will work out well.Posted by TaurusBull1977I'm not offended, your post just proved that you didn't actually read before commenting. it wasn't even a FB photo.
@Strawberry,
It was insecurity on your part.
Due to past experiences in your previous relationships.
The FB photos was an issue for you.
He told you he valued his privacy, and it was still an issue for you.
Different stories, but the base premise of it all is pretty much the same.
Please don't take offense. 🙂click to expand
I wasn't just referring to this tbh. I was looking at the bigger picture, I've read your posts from day one and social media has been a huge aspect of your issues with him. You've always read too much into it and overreacted on many occasions and if you look back you will admit that. There's nothing wrong with admitting you have insecurities either, we all have them no matter what they are. Anyone that says they don't are super human. It's how you deal with them that's the difference. I do wish you well on your quest for love. I hope you have a fantastic time together when you're away.
Posted by StrawberryJamI've read your post!Posted by GemitatiIt would be easier if ppl actually read it before commentingPosted by StrawberryJamWouldn't that be easier if you went and find out than agonizing over this here?
@dannymcclick to expand
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