Caps are so hard to get over!! (Page 2)

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CelticMoonGoddess
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Posted by youngali
Posted by Celticmoongoddess89
So it seems my ex cap is back with his ex wife Scorpio. He was apparently keeping our friendship under wraps from her and I wasn't having it. I need to be the bigger person here and let him go but it seems he doesn't want to let me go. He still keeps trying to talk to me. Oh well. Time heals all wounds even this one. I wished him and wife well that's all I can do.
smh. damn.

leave him with his thoughts.
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Oh I most definitely am leaving him alone. I'm no one's secret and I sure hell don't play 2 fiddle to anyone.
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Capricorn91
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Posted by ashley1734
Once you realize they're not that great (and you will), you will giggle at how obsessed you were at one point (now).

Speaking from experience.

That's the same way with anyone. Caps recede and fade and stop putting in effort when it's over so it looks that way due to a change in perspective. It goes from a Cap being helpful, considerate, and doing anything to make your life easier and better..to less than nothing. Caps can compartmentalize their feelings so it looks cold and boring at the end..even if a Cap feels differently inside. People do become addicted so sometimes that's the only way to break free of our own shared loyalty, rather than both people hanging on for half of a relationship.

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True story.
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Posted by Celticmoongoddess89
So it seems my ex cap is back with his ex wife Scorpio. He was apparently keeping our friendship under wraps from her and I wasn't having it. I need to be the bigger person here and let him go but it seems he doesn't want to let me go. He still keeps trying to talk to me. Oh well. Time heals all wounds even this one. I wished him and wife well that's all I can do.
so sorry - but you are so right and so be happy and look good and be nice to him but do NOT go there !
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Posted by Capri-sun
Posted by Celticmoongoddess89
Guys how do I shut him down? I keep telling him that we shouldn't be talking and when I tell him to take care he just continues on with the conversation. I don't want to just ignore him because I feel like that's just completely rude but is that what I'm going to have to do? I don't want to hurt his feelings. HELLLLLLP!!
Yes. Ignore him. Yes it is rude. Who cares if you hurt his feelings? He sure wasn't considering yours seeing how he's still with his wife & talking to you.
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Thank you for putting it bluntly, that's what I needed to hear. ?
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Posted by Capri-sun
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Posted by Capri-sun
Posted by Celticmoongoddess89
Guys how do I shut him down? I keep telling him that we shouldn't be talking and when I tell him to take care he just continues on with the conversation. I don't want to just ignore him because I feel like that's just completely rude but is that what I'm going to have to do? I don't want to hurt his feelings. HELLLLLLP!!
Yes. Ignore him. Yes it is rude. Who cares if you hurt his feelings? He sure wasn't considering yours seeing how he's still with his wife & talking to you.
yall capricorn woman doesnt help capricorn man to have the juice again

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He didn't keep his stuff tight. That's easy she just has to keep talking to him & entertaining his conversation, he'll have the juice in no time.


i would lie to every thread, for let all the capricorn man to have the juice again. that's real loyalty, and that's why most of the capricorn man dont answers to these thread

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Ha! You're hilarious! ??