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I just read through a few of the stories about Capricorns and while it’s a little concerning, I’m still curious about my Capricorn specifically. Hopefully you all can help.

He’s more than 10 years older than I am and a single father. We went on our first date on Tuesday. He was such a sweetheart and very romantic. All through the evening, he kept making references of personal things about me that he picked up on his own from reading my social media. It was almost as if he was trying to show me that he made the effort to find out little details that I hadn’t shared with him yet. He knew my favorite color, my favorite food, and that I use Yiddish slang to express my frustration. Then he casually mentioned that he had “stalked” my social media extensively. I told him that he was free to and that I liked that he did that.

After dinner, we went to a park to take a long walk and just talked endlessly. We kissed and it was so amazing and passionate. We left and when he walked me to my door, I could tell he wanted to come in. So, I asked him to. He started turning on some candles he had brought me as gifts and we started kissing again. We laid on my sofa with him spooning me. He interlocked his fingers with mine and kept taking deep breaths of me, saying that he loved my scent. We fell asleep like that.

But...he’s been oddly distant since then and I don’t know what to think. I read that’s Capricorns don’t like being pressed for their thoughts or feelings, so I’ve just left him to be in his space. Plus, he’s a single dad, so he’s pretty busy too.

He keeps liking my stuff on social media, though.

If anyone can help me figure out what could possibly be going on, I’d be really thankful.
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justlikeheaven
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Uhh🤗, I am a december cap and my cap is a january cap.

I usually do the stalking thing, it sounds creepy, I know. lol.

My story started like yours (me being like your cap) but ended bad.Long story short; he didn't want a relationship.

About your situation; at this point I don't know what to say, all seems good, even him being distant.

Only time can say how will be, but for now this looks like the beginning of something beautiful.
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We had such a great time on our date and he was being silly/goofy, which I know Capricorns only do when they feel really comfortable.

He also opened up to me about some really personal things...things I know he was concerned about being judged for.

One thing that stuck out to me was something he asked after we kissed, which I went in for. He asked if the alcohol in my drink that I had at dinner had anything to do with my wanting to kiss him. I responded with, “Absolutely not. Do you want to check my messages? I even told my friend that I was smitten with you. I’ve been thinking about kissing you since we first met. Which never happens, because usually I take forever to even consider going on a date with someone. Much less kissing them.” We continued kissing after that.

Back at my place, everything was so perfect. It felt so right and comfortable. He even lost track of the time. He thought it was only midnight, but it was the wee hours of the morning when he finally left. He has trouble sleeping at night...a serious case of insomnia. But when he was lying with me, holding me, we fell right asleep. And he was sleeping so deeply and soundly.

Now...it’s been 3 days since I’ve heard from him. I haven’t called or messaged him.

Maybe he just wasn’t as interested as I thought? Perhaps the age difference is off-putting to him. Maybe he didn’t enjoy our time together as much as I thought. Which I’m okay with...I don’t want to pressure anyone to do anything they don’t genuinely want to do. But I don’t want to pretend nothing happened between us either. So, I’m considering just removing him from my social media.

He’s 44 years old. I wish he would just communicate whatever it is he’s thinking or feeling so I stop wasting my time and energy liking someone who doesn’t feel the same.

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It has been only 3 days, is way to early to jump to conclusions.Give it a week.

A great first date followed by 3 days of silence is nothing worrying, it's pretty normal from my point of view.

Have patience and stop overanalyzing.

Don't remove him from social media.

No, age gap most surely is not an inconvenient.

Stay calm and things will work out, because this has a great potential, he really seems to like you (on his cap way).

You are such a capricorn.lol 😂 trying to find problems where they aren't.
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If he was as interested in you as you are in him he‘d texted already. How did you say goodbye? Did you agree on simply keeping in touch or did he already ask you if you can make time in the near future?

Just be up front and tell him that you enjoyed your last date and would love to see him again. That‘s how a confident woman safes time 🌷

I think it’s ok to initate that once in the beginning. He needs a green light from you, text him short and sweet about a 2nd date.

After that the ball is in his court and if he‘s interested he won‘t wait around to make that happen
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The cap with cap match is very tricky. I've read somewhere that it's "a match made in heaven" and it could be if both caps would get a bit out of their comfort zone; like reaching out constantly, talking about the relationship and feelings, overall communicating efficiently - but that's just a small step toward a healthy relationship.

Their fears, insecurities, lack of control, lack of trust, inability to relax and let things happen and many,many other complex and contradicting issues inside themselves stop them from having fulfilling love lives.
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Posted by justlikeheaven
The cap with cap match is very tricky. I've read somewhere that it's "a match made in heaven" and it could be if both caps would get a bit out of their comfort zone; like reaching out constantly, talking about the relationship and feelings, overall communicating efficiently - but that's just a small step toward a healthy relationship.

Their fears, insecurities, lack of control, lack of trust, inability to relax and let things happen and many,many other complex and contradicting issues inside themselves stop them from having fulfilling love lives.



I agree with all of this. But, I also think that it depends on our partner. If they give us security in the relationship, where we don't have to question how they feel about us, and where we stand, we can actually relax some and not overthink/overanalyze every little word.

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I took you all's advice and didn’t delete him. Capricorns are observers...and they want to see you either earn their trust and serious interest that way...while you’re completely oblivious and unaware that they’re watching you. I’ve dated them in the past...and every.fucking.time...they do that.

The thing is...while he’s playing God/research scientist, I might lose interest. That also happens every time. They come back a year later out of nowhere, professing their love and desire to get married and start a family. And that comes totally out of left field.

I just messaged him. Maybe a little too casual, but it’s already done so I can’t undo it. I just asked him where he got the candles he gave me because they finished burning out yesterday and I really liked them.

We’ll see.
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The cap with cap match is very tricky. I've read somewhere that it's "a match made in heaven" and it could be if both caps would get a bit out of their comfort zone; like reaching out constantly, talking about the relationship and feelings, overall communicating efficiently - but that's just a small step toward a healthy relationship.

Their fears, insecurities, lack of control, lack of trust, inability to relax and let things happen and many,many other complex and contradicting issues inside themselves stop them from having fulfilling love lives.



I agree with all of this. But, I also think that it depends on our partner. If they give us security in the relationship, where we don't have to question how they feel about us, and where we stand, we can actually relax some and not overthink/overanalyze every little word.

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I agree with this too, we need someone to make us feel safe, accepted, appreciated and then we open up and give them the best of us.That's why cap w cap needs a lot of work, they are both clossed off, even if they do have feelings for one another they will never talk out of their own initiative, and if they will but the other person reaction wouldn't be as they hoped it would be then all is kinda over, 'cause rejection sucks.

Talking from experience here; when I confessed my love for my cap (after weeks of thinking and planning and worrying etc) he was shocked, 'because he wouldn't expect that, I was so distant and cool all the time, and the next step for a cap is to retreat, he retreated out of shock, I retreated because I sensed rejection.

After a few weeks we were the same cool,reserved people, going out and not talking about the obvious problem.Then once again one of us (most probably me) saying something sentimental then followed by retreat.A never-ending dance of confusion and fear of emotions.

It has to be two extremely mature, confident, risk-takers caps for this union to work.
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Posted by NostalgicCappyy
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The cap with cap match is very tricky. I've read somewhere that it's "a match made in heaven" and it could be if both caps would get a bit out of their comfort zone; like reaching out constantly, talking about the relationship and feelings, overall communicating efficiently - but that's just a small step toward a healthy relationship.

Their fears, insecurities, lack of control, lack of trust, inability to relax and let things happen and many,many other complex and contradicting issues inside themselves stop them from having fulfilling love lives.



I agree with all of this. But, I also think that it depends on our partner. If they give us security in the relationship, where we don't have to question how they feel about us, and where we stand, we can actually relax some and not overthink/overanalyze every little word.



I agree with this too, we need someone to make us feel safe, accepted, appreciated and then we open up and give them the best of us.That's why cap w cap needs a lot of work, they are both clossed off, even if they do have feelings for one another they will never talk out of their own initiative, and if they will but the other person reaction wouldn't be as they hoped it would be then all is kinda over, 'cause rejection sucks.

Talking from experience here; when I confessed my love for my cap (after weeks of thinking and planning and worrying etc) he was shocked, 'because he wouldn't expect that, I was so distant and cool all the time, and the next step for a cap is to retreat, he retreated out of shock, I retreated because I sensed rejection.

After a few weeks we were the same cool,reserved people, going out and not talking about the obvious problem.Then once again one of us (most probably me) saying something sentimental then followed by retreat.A never-ending dance of confusion and fear of emotions.

It has to be two extremely mature, confident, risk-takers caps for this union to work.

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All.of.this. My goodness. This sounds like a page out of my life.

He told me that night before he left that he really enjoyed his time with me. And I just smiled and kissed him on the cheek...told him to message me when he made it home so that I know he got there safe. I’m sensing that was an opportunity to let him know the feeling was mutual verbally, and I didn’t come through. I’m awful at this...until I know for certain that he’s actually interested. He was showing me and I guess I was hoping for a statement.

Jesus Christ...it may already be too late.

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Yeah, I’m seriously rethinking this whole thing.

Not even Walmart or the grocery store. Fucking dollar store.


If you’re only with a cap for money or you think they’re gonna share with you their success then you got another thing coming lol

This is why you gotta have your own money. If my cap doesn’t wanna pay for it i got it but it would be nice for them to spend a little! Lol
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That’s true. I do appreciate his honesty. But I’m also wondering if he only told me because I wanted to get them for myself and I’d find out anyway. Lol

@MoonshineLeo That’s definitely not the case here. He’s older and more established in his career, but I’m pretty successful myself. I just thought that if I dated an older man, there would be clearer communication, something more of substance, and that I’d be treated like a lady.

I don’t know...it may seem shallow on my part, but if I were giving anyone a gift, it certainly wouldn’t be from a place like that.
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Just a couple of months. I’m not sure. He came bearing gifts and I felt compelled to reciprocate with something thoughtful and...not from the dollar store.
😂😂😂 shouldn't laugh, but it's funny.

He gave you a nice little gift, nothing pretentious, but you chose to give him an expensive,high quality,personalized gift, so you can't really blame him for being cheap.Not yet.

On the next occasion maybe he'll get you something special.
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That’s true. I do appreciate his honesty. But I’m also wondering if he only told me because I wanted to get them for myself and I’d find out anyway. Lol

@MoonshineLeo That’s definitely not the case here. He’s older and more established in his career, but I’m pretty successful myself. I just thought that if I dated an older man, there would be clearer communication, something more of substance, and that I’d be treated like a lady.

I don’t know...it may seem shallow on my part, but if I were giving anyone a gift, it certainly wouldn’t be from a place like that.
Yea i totally get you. Maybe he was joking? Lol i can see that happening too
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That’s the thing: he’s still being short, distanced, and unwilling to communicate whatever it is that he’s thinking or feeling, even if it’s disappointment in my responses to things or that he’s not interested in me after all. That makes me look at other things under a magnifying glass.

It was a sweet gesture. And maybe it was just that: A man born in December who happened to do something nice for a woman. Nothing more, nothing less.

All I know is that after sharing something intimate, it fucking sucks being left to wonder if perhaps the other person regretted things...and instead of telling you outright, they dance the slow death of sporadic small talk...and make you feel cheap. I don’t know, kinda like the candles he gave you.

I think I’m done. I think if he truly were interested in me, he’d make somewhat of an effort to see me again.

I really appreciate everyone’s input. Thank you strangers of the dark web!

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That’s true. I do appreciate his honesty. But I’m also wondering if he only told me because I wanted to get them for myself and I’d find out anyway. Lol

@MoonshineLeo That’s definitely not the case here. He’s older and more established in his career, but I’m pretty successful myself. I just thought that if I dated an older man, there would be clearer communication, something more of substance, and that I’d be treated like a lady.

I don’t know...it may seem shallow on my part, but if I were giving anyone a gift, it certainly wouldn’t be from a place like that.
You don't need an older man to treat you like a lady. You need a real gentleman. It has nothing to do with age, cause one can be that regardless on age and also be complete hillbilly also regardless on age...

Regarding gift I must say it sort of a reminded me of my Sag friend who always checks price of the gift someone gave her...I really don't like it. I personally would never bother thinking about price, what matters to me is a thought and how much I/that person liked the gift. I'd say you wanted to be impressive with your gift, more than thoughtful so go with it. He was being thoughtful, you were impressive so let it be like that and think about it next time when you gift one another for whatever reason. You actually overdid your own gift so I wouldn't blame him in this scenario. I get that you may not like the price of his gift but remember that you actually liked that gift and wanted to buy more of those candles so why is the price a problem now? He wasn't aiming to impress you in the first place with a gift so you should simply take it as it is and not underestimate it cause now you know the price.

Anyway, I wouldn't base anything on gifts in the first place, have more consideration about how much he puts into the relationship with you, that's what counts the most after all.
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I have to also agree with this. It really is the thought that counts. At least he gave you something that you can always have that is specifically from him. He appreciates you.

Here's the thing- you should know as a January Cap (I'm one too), that we have a difficult time opening up and expressing anything. Maybe there are some issues that you don't know about yet.

Be patient fellow Cap, don't let a potential good thing go..

❤️♑️

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Thank you, @NostalgicCappyy...but I just couldn’t take it anymore and took him off of my social media and blocked his number.

I just feel like I’m too old for these games of being in limbo. You like me? Tell me. You’re not interested? Tell me. You still want to see what else is out there? Okay. Just don’t expect me to sit around trying to crack the code of your ambiguous messages.

I wasted 5 years with my ex that was Capricorn. Weird thing is, they’re from the same day. Never again. I was really, really hopeful. And it sucks because we really did have s great time...but obviously not great enough. No harm, no foul. I just don’t know what the hell I’m supposed to do with this portfolio.
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Yeah, I’m seriously rethinking this whole thing.

Not even Walmart or the grocery store. Fucking dollar store.


If you’re only with a cap for money or you think they’re gonna share with you their success then you got another thing coming lol

This is why you gotta have your own money. If my cap doesn’t wanna pay for it i got it but it would be nice for them to spend a little! Lol
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It's not a money thing, it's effort.



Even if he said he made them that would show effort. Getting something from the dollar store AND telling someone you got them from there is the equivalent of saying this is what I think about you.

OP he's upset about something and being an @ss. Even if he really did get them from the dollar store he wouldn't let you know if he wasn't being an @ss smh.

Cap men can be spoiled and petty and become used to women almost throwing their interest at them.

If you are just as laid back as he is he doesn't know how to take it and will try to knock you down a few notches smh.
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@Inana04 You hit the nail RIGHT on the head. I wasn’t explaining it correctly and coming across like a money-hungry ingrate. Not the case at all.

He did seem upset about something, but I have no idea what.

The knocking me down a few notches comment: you couldn’t have put it better. He knows prominent men try to date me, and it was almost like he took pleasure in trying to put me in my place and make himself memorable as “not another chump”. Only his ass played himself. Cockblocking himself just so he can feel like he wasn’t a fool pining over me. That’s not what I wanted. I just wanted something real.

I have a feeling he wasn’t at all expecting for me to remove him and block him from calling or texting. Hopefully he learns for the next woman. 44 years old and playing these damn games.
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@Inana04 You hit the nail RIGHT on the head. I wasn’t explaining it correctly and coming across like a money-hungry ingrate. Not the case at all.

He did seem upset about something, but I have no idea what.

The knocking me down a few notches comment: you couldn’t have put it better. He knows prominent men try to date me, and it was almost like he took pleasure in trying to put me in my place and make himself memorable as “not another chump”. Only his ass played himself. Cockblocking himself just so he can feel like he wasn’t a fool pining over me. That’s not what I wanted. I just wanted something real.

I have a feeling he wasn’t at all expecting for me to remove him and block him from calling or texting. Hopefully he learns for the next woman. 44 years old and playing these damn games.
Yes, please see it for what it is. I wouldn't waste an ounce of any more time on this guy...UNLESS he comes correct and is honest about what he's doing and why. His behavior reminds me sooo much of my mothers Cap ex. It can be really childish if you pay attention.

Their egos can't handle much of anything. They never grow up and out of the pettiness either.

My dad is a 52 year old Cap, and just yesterday my grandmother and I were on the phone and she asked him if he wanted to talk to me and he basically said no since he never got on the phone. I haven't talked to him since the end of last year, and I will not until he calls. I'm not calling a grown man who lets his ego get in the way all the time.

He's single too because of his ego.

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I am also a Capricorn. I am from January and he is from December.


It should be easy for you to understand him then? What are your full charts?

I mean as a Cap I know when another Cap is being distant due to reservation or non-interest.

You have to reciprocate his efforts if you think he’s into you. I mean he took a lot effort on your date so at least he deserves a follow up

Communication?
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Just a couple of months. I’m not sure. He came bearing gifts and I felt compelled to reciprocate with something thoughtful and...not from the dollar store.
I’m fucking dying ! Lol. A Leo ex bought me a tank top from

Hollister for VDay and I was so upset.

Another Cap ex couldn’t get us a bottle service at this lounge I wanted for my bday and I was so upset.

Haha! But looking back at least they tried and Le was a student and the cap did get bottle service at another spot and we ended up having a good time.

But think about it this way how many guys even get you a gift for a date AT ALL? He meant a seeet gesture and I’d take it as that. Plus it was first date and guys don’t really think about things like that like us ladies.
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Posted by Captivate86
Yeah, I’m seriously rethinking this whole thing.

Not even Walmart or the grocery store. Fucking dollar store.


If you’re only with a cap for money or you think they’re gonna share with you their success then you got another thing coming lol

This is why you gotta have your own money. If my cap doesn’t wanna pay for it i got it but it would be nice for them to spend a little! Lol

It's not a money thing, it's effort.



Even if he said he made them that would show effort. Getting something from the dollar store AND telling someone you got them from there is the equivalent of saying this is what I think about you.

OP he's upset about something and being an @ss. Even if he really did get them from the dollar store he wouldn't let you know if he wasn't being an @ss smh.

Cap men can be spoiled and petty and become used to women almost throwing their interest at them.

If you are just as laid back as he is he doesn't know how to take it and will try to knock you down a few notches smh.

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Have you tried to

Communicate your

Feelings to him? If

You haven’t then you’re both playing the same game.

Sorry I’m

Jumping late on this thread but just my 2 cents. Caps think they’re above other people and they should do the work but you gotta do some

Legwork too.
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@Inana04 You hit the nail RIGHT on the head. I wasn’t explaining it correctly and coming across like a money-hungry ingrate. Not the case at all.

He did seem upset about something, but I have no idea what.

The knocking me down a few notches comment: you couldn’t have put it better. He knows prominent men try to date me, and it was almost like he took pleasure in trying to put me in my place and make himself memorable as “not another chump”. Only his ass played himself. Cockblocking himself just so he can feel like he wasn’t a fool pining over me. That’s not what I wanted. I just wanted something real.

I have a feeling he wasn’t at all expecting for me to remove him and block him from calling or texting. Hopefully he learns for the next woman. 44 years old and playing these damn games.
The last paragraph...why? Isn't a little too extreme?
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No updates. :-/ He has no way of contacting me unless he shows up at my house. Which I’m secretly hoping he’ll do, but I know he won’t.
Girl you must be on some

Next level to expect a man to show up at your door after only one date. It might be reasonable if you guys were in love and together for a while but no self respecting man would do that in the dating phase. This is not Hollywood.

You should unblock his number and open door

Of communication and just do your part. Then if it doesn’t work out you can close that chapter.

What’s your chart? You sound so impulsive and with a fragile ego (maybe you care a lot about him) sorry for the honesty. I see a lot of my younger self in you. Just that fear of being hurt so

Running away.

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Yeah, that’s why I know he won’t. Plus, he was hurt pretty badly from his last relationship and I’m sure my impulsivity didn’t help to paint me as a safe place.

I like him. It was just one date...and I’m not willing to put my pride aside and look even more crazy than I already probably do. So, I’m just going to cut my losses.

I have no idea what my chart is. I’m typically not impulsive...unless it’s dealing with my fragile ego. It was only a couple of months, but I did like him a lot. I think he had trouble trusting that for some reason. It may have been the age difference.
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Yeah, that’s why I know he won’t. Plus, he was hurt pretty badly from his last relationship and I’m sure my impulsivity didn’t help to paint me as a safe place.

I like him. It was just one date...and I’m not willing to put my pride aside and look even more crazy than I already probably do. So, I’m just going to cut my losses.

I have no idea what my chart is. I’m typically not impulsive...unless it’s dealing with my fragile ego. It was only a couple of months, but I did like him a lot. I think he had trouble trusting that for some reason. It may have been the age difference.
Well he had a hard time trusting you because you’re being impulsive. And maybe you’re being impulsive because you’re young and feel self conscious about it. To me it sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy. You had doubts about

Your compatibility and it became true.

I think women who have successful relationships are ones who understand that men have fragile egos/doubts/emotions too. Hehe that hasn’t been me but I can see it and understand it in others.

Yeah if you’re over it you can just take the lesson and move on 🙂. I just hope it doesn’t eat away at you later because we Caps have delayed reactions to how we feel... hence it’s a problem with relationships. By the time we feel

It , understand it , the opportunity to express it has passed.
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That’s exactly what happened. I was fine until a couple of hours ago when I was lying on my couch, and suddenly the image of him asleep there came to me. And it hit me: that feeling you get when you’ve possibly screwed up and you get a knot in your throat because you know there’s no fixing it.

I have a feeling he thinks that I was just some narcissistic younger woman looking to stroke her ego.

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should capricorn male forgive their conquest of the throne and just get in couple have a basic a family life


Ssshhhhhh


but they are both capricorns arent they both looking for a throne, or maybe that cap girl i still alive inside
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Loll so you have to be dead inside to be after the throne ...
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Posted by DeadInside
Posted by stillstillwater
Posted by DeadInside
should capricorn male forgive their conquest of the throne and just get in couple have a basic a family life


Ssshhhhhh


but they are both capricorns arent they both looking for a throne, or maybe that cap girl i still alive inside
Loll so you have to be dead inside to be after the throne ...


someone will kill you during your way to the throne
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You can’t let them take your life away
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Comments: 3657 · Posts: 5507 · Topics: 76
Posted by DeadInside
Posted by stillstillwater
Posted by DeadInside
Posted by stillstillwater
Posted by DeadInside
Posted by stillstillwater
Posted by DeadInside
should capricorn male forgive their conquest of the throne and just get in couple have a basic a family life


Ssshhhhhh


but they are both capricorns arent they both looking for a throne, or maybe that cap girl i still alive inside
Loll so you have to be dead inside to be after the throne ...


someone will kill you during your way to the throne
You can’t let them take your life away
who told you that it was bad to be deadinside
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