Is this capricorn stringing me along? (Page 4)

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@dannymc I unblocked him and he liked my new post. I guess he's been manually searching for myprofile? As blocking would made him unfollow me automatically.

I liked back and followed him but he didn't follow back... not sure if how to get him to meet in person...

Have you ever been straight forward with him? By telling him what you want and how you feel. Also by asking him what he wants and how he feels

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This.

You're a Virgo, we are black and white with who we like. You should have spoken up in the beginning of how you feel-if you wished to move at a slower pace than it should have been known.

Hot and cold behavior can be prevented if people are honest upfront with what they want. 2nd date with my Capricorn I've asked him what are his intentions in dating me? Are you open to long term? And he was very straightforward with his responses. Then I've spoken up how I move along slowly. In this regard, he knows if I pull back it is because he is moving too quickly and there would be no confusion on his end about second guessing my interest in him.

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@dannymc I unblocked him and he liked my new post. I guess he's been manually searching for myprofile? As blocking would made him unfollow me automatically.

I liked back and followed him but he didn't follow back... not sure if how to get him to meet in person...

Have you ever been straight forward with him? By telling him what you want and how you feel. Also by asking him what he wants and how he feels

This.

You're a Virgo, we are black and white with who we like. You should have spoken up in the beginning of how you feel-if you wished to move at a slower pace than it should have been known.

Hot and cold behavior can be prevented if people are honest upfront with what they want. 2nd date with my Capricorn I've asked him what are his intentions in dating me? Are you open to long term? And he was very straightforward with his responses. Then I've spoken up how I move along slowly. In this regard, he knows if I pull back it is because he is moving too quickly and there would be no confusion on his end about second guessing my interest in him.

dont worry op bf is french and capricorn he'll just say: "just another weirgo comportment"

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Lmao, those cappys sure get us

The problem with fear is that you can often make the other person feel exactly what you were afraid to feel, for instance by not holding his hand back you made him feel: 'she doesn't like me, she's not into me, she's going to break my heart' don't send that message or sign, I would start off the conversation with some honesty, what you're telling us, you need to tell him..

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@dannymc I unblocked him and he liked my new post. I guess he's been manually searching for myprofile? As blocking would made him unfollow me automatically.

I liked back and followed him but he didn't follow back... not sure if how to get him to meet in person...

Of course he liked your post back, make your move, no expectations, show interest, let yourself go a little and let things play out. Also, if he didn't accept your request or follow you back etc he may be offline, time to pick up the phone and throw some honesty out there.

I'm about to go out on a date myself, hopefully she throws love and shows interest or I'll probably walk away mid way through the second date lol

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@dannymc I unblocked him and he liked my new post. I guess he's been manually searching for myprofile? As blocking would made him unfollow me automatically.

I liked back and followed him but he didn't follow back... not sure if how to get him to meet in person...

Have you ever been straight forward with him? By telling him what you want and how you feel. Also by asking him what he wants and how he feels

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and what pinkbird said here 🙂

@dannymc @pinkbird

He didn't follow back as he might not be awarded that I made him unfollowed by blocking.

I text him today to tell him I miss talking to him i person.

He responded warmly like before he said he miss talking to me too and let's organize to catch up soon. We picked sat but haven't set up time and place yet. He is warm again 🙂

@dannymc good luck with your date! Is that a Virgo libra cusp?

I think you nail it about the magnetic attraction. I think neither of us are each other's usual type but I could feel the attraction. Even when I wa I doubt and fear I couldn't stop thinking of him. I guess it's the same for him judging by how he was searching for my profile for new posts

Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

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Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

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I agree, online dating is not my favorite thing to do.

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

I agree, online dating is not my favorite thing to do.

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I agree. People are more disposable and become less patient. As they expect connection right away. Or they date many ppl and can't focus on getting to know one person

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

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Don't think you are harsh. You are just doing what the majority do.

This cap and I met on dating website. Last time I saw him he said to me you are the only date I had there. I wasn't sure if he was just sweet talking me I asked really? How long were you there for? He goes a few months.

Caps are honest people, he's being honest with you. I agree too, talking to too many matches is redic.. it waters down the connections and if she's doing it too it's just a recipe for failure.. Being selective is better, and better if she's selective too. And better more if both parties are there with intent, like I want a wife and kids..

In my experience usually there is a right away connection and magnetism between me and virgo and virgo/libra which has always been fast and 'right away' throughout my life, within a day we're already like, emotionally moving in and out of one another, it's almost spiritual, by the end of the week we don't want to be apart, if sex happens in that time frame it's her that initiates it because I'm trying to be respectful, it's bizarre.. I think I expect that fast connection from other signs. I doesn't happen though, or I feel my investment unmatched and walk away.

So talk to me are you guys going to meet up? 🙂

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

Don't think you are harsh. You are just doing what the majority do.

This cap and I met on dating website. Last time I saw him he said to me you are the only date I had there. I wasn't sure if he was just sweet talking me I asked really? How long were you there for? He goes a few months.

That's half the problem. How about trust him a little bit and give him some credit?

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Ya trust is a vulnerability, and emotional vulnerability is a good sign to a guy, to a girl too usually. It implies a sort of caution to the wind level desire and intent. Show him your intent and some vulnerability and trust and you'll get a solid reaction. This is what virgo usually shows me anyhow.. drives me crazy lol

Let me sum this up in a video for you Strawberry,

Let go: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x4oj5k_let-go-frou-frou_music

live a little, don't even wait set a date for Thursday 😉

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

I agree, online dating is not my favorite thing to do.

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Right lol What's your experience been like with it? I think my generation is in serious trouble.. not sure if online dating is helping or hurting.. xD

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

I agree, online dating is not my favorite thing to do.

I agree. People are more disposable and become less patient. As they expect connection right away. Or they date many ppl and can't focus on getting to know one person

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That's what I'm going through right now and I hate it.

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

I agree, online dating is not my favorite thing to do.

Right lol What's your experience been like with it? I think my generation is in serious trouble.. not sure if online dating is helping or hurting.. xD

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I think it's caused me to be way too picky about the men I date, which I don't think is a good thing because I'm not even giving some guys a chance. Most of the guys I've talked to seem to not want a serious commitment, which is my biggest problem with online dating

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

I agree, online dating is not my favorite thing to do.

Right lol What's your experience been like with it? I think my generation is in serious trouble.. not sure if online dating is helping or hurting.. xD

I think it's caused me to be way too picky about the men I date, which I don't think is a good thing because I'm not even giving some guys a chance. Most of the guys I've talked to seem to not want a serious commitment, which is my biggest problem with online dating

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How are things playing out exactly with the men, what are they telling you or how are they acting that makes you feel that way, what are you doing on your end as well? Like are you being picky about who you chose to talk to on the dating sites (I can understand this) or are we talking about after numbers are exchanged? What about the serious commitment part what's making you feel that the ones you've talked to wouldn't want that?

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

I agree, online dating is not my favorite thing to do.

Right lol What's your experience been like with it? I think my generation is in serious trouble.. not sure if online dating is helping or hurting.. xD

I think it's caused me to be way too picky about the men I date, which I don't think is a good thing because I'm not even giving some guys a chance. Most of the guys I've talked to seem to not want a serious commitment, which is my biggest problem with online dating

How are things playing out exactly with the men, what are they telling you or how are they acting that makes you feel that way, what are you doing on your end as well? Like are you being picky about who you chose to talk to on the dating sites (I can understand this) or are we talking about after numbers are exchanged? What about the serious commitment part what's making you feel that the ones you've talked to wouldn't want that?

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Most guys are honest about dating multiple girls at a time. They straight up tell me that. I'm picky before I even say hi!

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

I agree, online dating is not my favorite thing to do.

I agree. People are more disposable and become less patient. As they expect connection right away. Or they date many ppl and can't focus on getting to know one person

i agree. The first date is usually horrid for me. It takes me awhile to warm up to someone. first dates can be hella awkward. so to judge someone's potential based on just the first date is beyond me. i take my time in getting to know people, because what you usually meet is just a mask anyway.

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no don't get me wrong, I liked the girl, it wasn't that she was this or that and I said nahhhhh I'm good. It was the opposite, we had a lot of similar wants in out profiles like "philisophical conversations" who says that lol I was kind of excited wondering about her depths.. I had her number by the 3rd message, and she had my full name so she could google me and be a weirdo.. she was kind of slow moving at first we exchanged a dozen or texts she wouldn't answer a lot of certain questions and then I said I would call her the next night.. she asked if she could wait 2-4 days til then weekend that she didn't want my first impression of her to be that she was tired from work etc and she hoped that was ok..

I said of course, and told her I wouldn't judge her for it because how could I I she was so honest in showing a vulnerabilty which tells me she's shy and maybe a insecure, like aren't we all at times I mirrored it and told I have parts of me that are the same way.. I pegged her past the next day and threw tons of warmth and like, understanding at her and it made her crazy, suddenly she wanted the phone call that night and then to meet days later.. she admitted that she wasn't trying to get into a relationship but felt a crazy pull toward me and that I was like a massive contradiction.. I agreed but wondered if I should have slowed her down and kept in her in her own comfort zone which probably would have driven her more crazy but, I opted to match her speed and intensify which made her fall away a lil leading up to the day... and made me kind of fall away too and talk to other girls.. texts were answered after 4,5,6+ hours leading up to the date so I pulled my heart out of it going in..

During the date she was super warm physically but totally totally shy and guarded... wouldn't answer certain questions.. she admitted to me about her past, that I pegged, crazy I knew that, she was adopted out of Romania at 2 by a rich German fam here in the city, so she grew up well which I could tell, all this to match the fact that I was an orphan, though my story is more like Rocky, I had to fight for everything I had.. I kind of rushed the date along because because I felt a resistance to love, like she was intentionally blocking it wherever she could but wanted to communicate with words, def her eyes, like who sits and plays with the silverware talking about how it's magnetic inch her hand across the table while trying to eye fuck my eyes back for 10 second intervals before playing shy again lmao

The blocking of love I didn't like. I kind of wrapped things up fast and we left, I told her to call me that night and let me know what her schedule was like for the following week, because I'd take her out again..

I texted her on the way out it was nice meeting her, she answered back the same way.. then an hour later I texted her how I saw the contradiction in her eyes, much different than the barriers she throws up.. which was nice.. silence for almost 6 hours.. so I went back on the dating app to pull another number and saw she was online there, I used a feature that would show me if she saw my profile while searching for guys, and she did, which means she wasn't answering my text but searching for guys, that's what made me walk away. So when a text came back I was all set. The ball was in her court, now she can play by herself, or with other guys xD

It sucks because we have the same exact likes across the spectrum and similar past stories, but in no way am I sticking around for that even if all this happened in the course of 5 or 6 days lol

but I'm not going to invest in who I think is just casual dater that doesn't match me where I'm at.

I've dated other girls the past few weeks that we're better and let fall away for less, another Taurus, very very intellectually dominant at first, and very funny, trying to show me how smart she was I think, then after giving it back to her she turned into a marshmallow like I conquered her lmao, it was wicked cute she was a Trump girl though, that actually didn't work good for me in our conversations because of some of my side work, a crazy brazilian pisces-aires girl, she should be a model but a lil too crazy and likes to party, our first date was wild, both at a club drunk and she's kissing my ear and I'm singing to her and I think she legit stole someones full beer and gave it me lmao a scorpio with kind of a dark attitude I don't want to crack, a sad aquarius who's ex is a stalker (she was kind of aloof like the Taurus so I dropped that pretty fast), a hilarious sag, who is terrified of depth, or has none at all lol but she's funny so we still talk daily and just started talking to 2 Virgos and it's already intense with these 2. And there's 2 so that's a problem, one of them is wicked romantic so when I take it there and add depth she matches me and we both like it, this one could move as fast or slow as I take it, or as she takes it, the other is wicked upbeat and all business, when we talk, this one could go as fast or slow as either of us take it. The cornerstone with these 2 is that we're very open and honest and communication is effortless between us.. they're not afraid to talk about anything and I'm not afraid to do the same.

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

I agree, online dating is not my favorite thing to do.

Right lol What's your experience been like with it? I think my generation is in serious trouble.. not sure if online dating is helping or hurting.. xD

I think it's caused me to be way too picky about the men I date, which I don't think is a good thing because I'm not even giving some guys a chance. Most of the guys I've talked to seem to not want a serious commitment, which is my biggest problem with online dating

How are things playing out exactly with the men, what are they telling you or how are they acting that makes you feel that way, what are you doing on your end as well? Like are you being picky about who you chose to talk to on the dating sites (I can understand this) or are we talking about after numbers are exchanged? What about the serious commitment part what's making you feel that the ones you've talked to wouldn't want that?

Most guys are honest about dating multiple girls at a time. They straight up tell me that. I'm picky before I even say hi!

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Ya that's a major turn off, I hear ya. In the beginning about a month or more ago I did it where I'd be selective, find 1, work with her, not log back into the dating site so if she looked to see if I was back on she'd see I hadn't been since we started talking. I think that's the right way to play it. Though I've become a little jaded the past few weeks.. maybe I'm in a rush to find exactly who I'm looking for.. time is valuable and I'm about to go public with a business so I want to use the down time well.

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

I agree, online dating is not my favorite thing to do.

Right lol What's your experience been like with it? I think my generation is in serious trouble.. not sure if online dating is helping or hurting.. xD

I think it's caused me to be way too picky about the men I date, which I don't think is a good thing because I'm not even giving some guys a chance. Most of the guys I've talked to seem to not want a serious commitment, which is my biggest problem with online dating

How are things playing out exactly with the men, what are they telling you or how are they acting that makes you feel that way, what are you doing on your end as well? Like are you being picky about who you chose to talk to on the dating sites (I can understand this) or are we talking about after numbers are exchanged? What about the serious commitment part what's making you feel that the ones you've talked to wouldn't want that?

Most guys are honest about dating multiple girls at a time. They straight up tell me that. I'm picky before I even say hi!

Ya that's a major turn off, I hear ya. In the beginning about a month or more ago I did it where I'd be selective, find 1, work with her, not log back into the dating site so if she looked to see if I was back on she'd see I hadn't been since we started talking. I think that's the right way to play it. Though I've become a little jaded the past few weeks.. maybe I'm in a rush to find exactly who I'm looking for.. time is valuable and I'm about to go public with a business so I want to use the down time well.

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I feel like I'm rushing too since I've been single a long time and am ready to settle down

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

I agree, online dating is not my favorite thing to do.

Right lol What's your experience been like with it? I think my generation is in serious trouble.. not sure if online dating is helping or hurting.. xD

I think it's caused me to be way too picky about the men I date, which I don't think is a good thing because I'm not even giving some guys a chance. Most of the guys I've talked to seem to not want a serious commitment, which is my biggest problem with online dating

How are things playing out exactly with the men, what are they telling you or how are they acting that makes you feel that way, what are you doing on your end as well? Like are you being picky about who you chose to talk to on the dating sites (I can understand this) or are we talking about after numbers are exchanged? What about the serious commitment part what's making you feel that the ones you've talked to wouldn't want that?

Most guys are honest about dating multiple girls at a time. They straight up tell me that. I'm picky before I even say hi!

Ya that's a major turn off, I hear ya. In the beginning about a month or more ago I did it where I'd be selective, find 1, work with her, not log back into the dating site so if she looked to see if I was back on she'd see I hadn't been since we started talking. I think that's the right way to play it. Though I've become a little jaded the past few weeks.. maybe I'm in a rush to find exactly who I'm looking for.. time is valuable and I'm about to go public with a business so I want to use the down time well.

I feel like I'm rushing too since I've been single a long time and am ready to settle down

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Don't settle for less, you know what you want and there's someone out there that feels the same. I'm like that for instance. I know exactly what I want and I want it yesterday. I swear though I might walk away from it all soon and just crush it with work for a while.

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Told ya =) Live a little on the next date now and you 2 will be good, the girl from yesterday was a taurus, but I have a date with a vir/lib cusp on Wednesday 🙂 The girl from yesterday is super shy, her eyes and body language told me one story, her actions told me another... she's hard to open up, lots of barriers, the slow moving aloof type, my patience for that is nil, so I dropped my intense feelings on her with brutal honesty last night, left the ball in her court and walked off the court lol

Wow lol you're enjoying the dating game

Haha nooo, I have intense dislike of it tbh, 'online' dating seems to commodify love, I'm old fashioned, I pick you up for the first date, if I feel something I show it, if I don't I let you know pretty quickly.. the vibe I get from about 95% of these first dates ruins things before I ever meet the woman, i.e. the "don't pick me up for the first date" slow moving stuff... I'm very selective, maybe I communicate with 1 of 100 potential matches so if I sense the "I'm an online dating pro who wants to play the field for a year and maybe figure out who's the best match but try and win me over anyways" vibe I drop you before the first date lol

Am I harsh? lol

I'll be honest too, I've come across a few 'almosts'... but I think the online thing ruins it... or I'm just too used to traditional Spanish women...

I agree, online dating is not my favorite thing to do.

Right lol What's your experience been like with it? I think my generation is in serious trouble.. not sure if online dating is helping or hurting.. xD

I think it's caused me to be way too picky about the men I date, which I don't think is a good thing because I'm not even giving some guys a chance. Most of the guys I've talked to seem to not want a serious commitment, which is my biggest problem with online dating

How are things playing out exactly with the men, what are they telling you or how are they acting that makes you feel that way, what are you doing on your end as well? Like are you being picky about who you chose to talk to on the dating sites (I can understand this) or are we talking about after numbers are exchanged? What about the serious commitment part what's making you feel that the ones you've talked to wouldn't want that?

Most guys are honest about dating multiple girls at a time. They straight up tell me that. I'm picky before I even say hi!

Ya that's a major turn off, I hear ya. In the beginning about a month or more ago I did it where I'd be selective, find 1, work with her, not log back into the dating site so if she looked to see if I was back on she'd see I hadn't been since we started talking. I think that's the right way to play it. Though I've become a little jaded the past few weeks.. maybe I'm in a rush to find exactly who I'm looking for.. time is valuable and I'm about to go public with a business so I want to use the down time well.

I feel like I'm rushing too since I've been single a long time and am ready to settle down

Don't settle for less, you know what you want and there's someone out there that feels the same. I'm like that for instance. I know exactly what I want and I want it yesterday. I swear though I might walk away from it all soon and just crush it with work for a while.

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Yep, same.

@dannymc We agree to meet on Saturday so definitely seeing him. He already told me he can't do week nights cos of work committments I do believe him.

@pinkbird03 @youngali

Personally I find "boring" first date to be a better option like a coffee or tea. So you can chat without distraction with easier exit. When chatting you can find out more about his value and who he really is and find out if he has your "must have" and "can't stand"

Our first date was coffee, I only planed to stay for 1 hr but ended up staying for 2 haha then I had to leave to meet my friends as we had plans before. Second date was dinner date, third was lunch plus a walk. looking forward to fourth heheh

@capri-sun i know trust is hard, especially when you've been burnt

mmm I know Danny said be vulnerable, telling him i miss talking to him already works. Just not sure how to do it without sounding needy or over investing.

@Strawberry "looking forward to fourth heheh" look at you, you're giggling like a little girl again lol he's excited too trust me 🙂

"Just not sure how to do it without sounding needy or over investing." Just be you, you're a virgo, if you want to invest than invest, fearlessly, as far as being needy goes, no one out there is dating because they don't need someone, everyone is looking for that one. With you 2, you're both looking to have your messages returned pretty fast, so make sure that happens, if he's a little slow at all don't read into it, just keep up your part for now. You're looking for love (and probably to forget your ex) you want to feel the emotional investment from him, just keep the conversation flowing up until the date and it should be easier in person. Don't read into what he says to much either, take everything he says at face value in the beginning. Most things will never really begin if 2 people can't do that.

Also, caps are physical, spend more physically close time together during and after this date. Physical affection is good. I cut a girl out after a snowstorm when she wouldn't come over to watch a movie vs going to a cinema during that storm. Though we did do the cinema I'll never forget the feeling that I just wanted to close to the girl in a comfortable quiet atmosphere and she was probably thinking I wanted to get it on right then and there... That wasn't the case. And it's not always the case with guys..

Have fun and keep us posted 🙂

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@Strawberry "looking forward to fourth heheh" look at you, you're giggling like a little girl again lol he's excited too trust me 🙂

"Just not sure how to do it without sounding needy or over investing." Just be you, you're a virgo, if you want to invest than invest, fearlessly, as far as being needy goes, no one out there is dating because they don't need someone, everyone is looking for that one. With you 2, you're both looking to have your messages returned pretty fast, so make sure that happens, if he's a little slow at all don't read into it, just keep up your part for now. You're looking for love (and probably to forget your ex) you want to feel the emotional investment from him, just keep the conversation flowing up until the date and it should be easier in person. Don't read into what he says to much either, take everything he says at face value in the beginning. Most things will never really begin if 2 people can't do that.

Also, caps are physical, spend more physically close time together during and after this date. Physical affection is good. I cut a girl out after a snowstorm when she wouldn't come over to watch a movie vs going to a cinema during that storm. Though we did do the cinema I'll never forget the feeling that I just wanted to close to the girl in a comfortable quiet atmosphere and she was probably thinking I wanted to get it on right then and there... That wasn't the case. And it's not always the case with guys..

Have fun and keep us posted 🙂

feels like you are in my head LOL yes I'm excited and giggling like a little girl .

If I'm taking everything he said at face value things are well so far.

Our text has stopped. I was the one who sent the last text I will let him get back to me. Basically we were sharing our days and agreeing to meet on Sat. He he said sat is great and that he will try to be like me at work. I responded you don't wanna be like me (devil smirk emoticon)

He does like being physical, he is touching when we at resturant, also he likes to look into my eyes. I wanna be somewhere to cuddle him but I'm not sure if we will ended up wtih clothes on LOL I wanna take it slow to get to know him.

At the end of third date, I said don't miss me too much while you are overseas, he goes I miss you already i want to come upstairs with you (to help you to build the bookshelf) I said its ok my place is too messy now with stuff. At that time I thought he just wanted sex

@dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

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dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

You said he has scorp mars & venus right?

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Yes, is he revenging becuase it took me 3 weeks to follow him back? or something else?

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dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

You said he has scorp mars & venus right?

Yes, is he revenging becuase it took me 3 weeks to follow him back? or something else?

Lol no. Don't worry about whether he is following you or not.

Keep that in mind moving forward though. He was doing something you like, and you took an action that made that go away, now you want it back...

Choose a side & stick with it. Either be in or out and ride it out to see where things go.

If you keep going at the rate that you have been, he might take it as wishy-washy and stop trying.

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Go it, so don't bring up about how I like he followed me on his own and liking everything?

By the way what were you going to say about scorpio venus and mars? What i know is they are deeply emotional and sexual and vindictive LOL

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@strawberryjam i'd bet he's low-key watching your account anyway. lol

oh I'm sure he does, just wondering why doesn't he like my new photo (not myself) lol

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dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

You said he has scorp mars & venus right?

Yes, is he revenging becuase it took me 3 weeks to follow him back? or something else?

Lol no. Don't worry about whether he is following you or not.

Keep that in mind moving forward though. He was doing something you like, and you took an action that made that go away, now you want it back...

Choose a side & stick with it. Either be in or out and ride it out to see where things go.

If you keep going at the rate that you have been, he might take it as wishy-washy and stop trying.

Go it, so don't bring up about how I like he followed me on his own and liking everything?

By the way what were you going to say about scorpio venus and mars? What i know is they are deeply emotional and sexual and vindictive LOL

There's no need to bring it up. I mean you can if you want to. There's a good possibility he's following you whether it says that he is or not. You blocking him could have sent the message that you don't like the attention or that he likes all of your stuff.

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True that... may be I will bring it up in person.. to tell him i blocked him cos I thought he lost interest and I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't want me

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dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

You said he has scorp mars & venus right?

Yes, is he revenging becuase it took me 3 weeks to follow him back? or something else?

Lol no. Don't worry about whether he is following you or not.

Keep that in mind moving forward though. He was doing something you like, and you took an action that made that go away, now you want it back...

Choose a side & stick with it. Either be in or out and ride it out to see where things go.

If you keep going at the rate that you have been, he might take it as wishy-washy and stop trying.

Go it, so don't bring up about how I like he followed me on his own and liking everything?

By the way what were you going to say about scorpio venus and mars? What i know is they are deeply emotional and sexual and vindictive LOL

There's no need to bring it up. I mean you can if you want to. There's a good possibility he's following you whether it says that he is or not. You blocking him could have sent the message that you don't like the attention or that he likes all of your stuff.

True that... may be I will bring it up in person.. to tell him i blocked him cos I thought he lost interest and I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't want me

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If you told me that and I liked you it would drive me nuts, in a good way.. make sure you're somewhere private when you tell him that, he may open up back to you in a similar way if he's not nervous and it may get physical in a good way lol

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dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

You said he has scorp mars & venus right?

Yes, is he revenging becuase it took me 3 weeks to follow him back? or something else?

Lol no. Don't worry about whether he is following you or not.

Keep that in mind moving forward though. He was doing something you like, and you took an action that made that go away, now you want it back...

Choose a side & stick with it. Either be in or out and ride it out to see where things go.

If you keep going at the rate that you have been, he might take it as wishy-washy and stop trying.

Go it, so don't bring up about how I like he followed me on his own and liking everything?

By the way what were you going to say about scorpio venus and mars? What i know is they are deeply emotional and sexual and vindictive LOL

There's no need to bring it up. I mean you can if you want to. There's a good possibility he's following you whether it says that he is or not. You blocking him could have sent the message that you don't like the attention or that he likes all of your stuff.

True that... may be I will bring it up in person.. to tell him i blocked him cos I thought he lost interest and I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't want me

Lol...if someone told me they blocked me,

A) I would be pissed & hurt

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B) there would be no chance of us ever lol

Handle it however you feel is best. I mean he moght take it better than I would. Keep us posted on how it goes.

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If he likes her he already knows he was blocked.. he backburnered her and late replied because of it all..

If she opens up to him and plays that shy I really like you shit with that take me now face and he hears it, it's on for them both, one of them will initiate some crazy kissing action. Bonus points if he returns his feelings back to her about the late replies and what he felt on his end..

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dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

You said he has scorp mars & venus right?

Yes, is he revenging becuase it took me 3 weeks to follow him back? or something else?

Lol no. Don't worry about whether he is following you or not.

Keep that in mind moving forward though. He was doing something you like, and you took an action that made that go away, now you want it back...

Choose a side & stick with it. Either be in or out and ride it out to see where things go.

If you keep going at the rate that you have been, he might take it as wishy-washy and stop trying.

Go it, so don't bring up about how I like he followed me on his own and liking everything?

By the way what were you going to say about scorpio venus and mars? What i know is they are deeply emotional and sexual and vindictive LOL

There's no need to bring it up. I mean you can if you want to. There's a good possibility he's following you whether it says that he is or not. You blocking him could have sent the message that you don't like the attention or that he likes all of your stuff.

True that... may be I will bring it up in person.. to tell him i blocked him cos I thought he lost interest and I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't want me

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Strawberry keep up with the honesty to him, it will get him to do the same with you.. and the bond will grow and deepen

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I'm just saying after you told me something like that, my only motive would be to prove a point.

You would never get any genuine or sincere feelings from me. Idc whether I actually liked you or not. You've shown me with your actions where I stand with you...so that's exactly where my @ss would stay

@StrawberryJam You know something, Capri has a point, play it this way, don't bring up the block or texts and late replies, but do tell him that you didn't think he liked you, and it made you kind of distant, (don't tell him in what way you were distant he already knows) show the vulnerability in all that, because in that you are actually showing him exactly what you actually feel/felt.. you're being real.. you're also asking him with subtlety to show you that he actually likes you... and he will show you in that moment lol trust me.. he may even open up too... if he does that it may be later in the night..

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dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

You said he has scorp mars & venus right?

Yes, is he revenging becuase it took me 3 weeks to follow him back? or something else?

Lol no. Don't worry about whether he is following you or not.

Keep that in mind moving forward though. He was doing something you like, and you took an action that made that go away, now you want it back...

Choose a side & stick with it. Either be in or out and ride it out to see where things go.

If you keep going at the rate that you have been, he might take it as wishy-washy and stop trying.

Go it, so don't bring up about how I like he followed me on his own and liking everything?

By the way what were you going to say about scorpio venus and mars? What i know is they are deeply emotional and sexual and vindictive LOL

There's no need to bring it up. I mean you can if you want to. There's a good possibility he's following you whether it says that he is or not. You blocking him could have sent the message that you don't like the attention or that he likes all of your stuff.

True that... may be I will bring it up in person.. to tell him i blocked him cos I thought he lost interest and I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't want me

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Read my response to Capri and then use that, understand you'll get 3 reactions from this moment, the first, he makes a move on you, example, he tries to kiss you, make sure you're face to face with him when you tell him, be against a wall or against something. This means he likes you. The second. He gets all quiet and nervous and tries to be logical about it, example, silence, or, he starts saying "well... um.." and tries to rationalize it in a nervous way, this means he likes you too, in this moment, you initiate and kiss him. The third. He gets cocky and arrogant and upset, example, he gets an attitude like "oh ya!!?" this means he's not invested and maybe doesn't like you or holds a grudge. At this point you have to decide whether or not it's salvageable, it may be but it could take weeks of repetitive openness.

I'm expecting the second reaction from him because he's unsure if you like him too.. and maybe a lil hurt.. but the first is a possibility too.. Keep us posted 🙂

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I'm just saying after you told me something like that, my only motive would be to prove a point.

You would never get any genuine or sincere feelings from me. Idc whether I actually liked you or not. You've shown me with your actions where I stand with you...so that's exactly where my @ss would stay

StrawberryJam You know something, Capri has a point, play it this way, don't bring up the block or texts and late replies, but do tell him that you didn't think he liked you, and it made you kind of distant, (don't tell him in what way you were distant he already knows) show the vulnerability in all that, because in that you are actually showing him exactly what you actually feel/felt.. you're being real.. you're also asking him with subtlety to show you that he actually likes you... and he will show you in that moment lol trust me.. he may even open up too... if he does that it may be later in the night..

Yes be honest & vulnerable, just don't push too far with details unless he asks you first. This way there is no misunderstanding or miscommunication.

I believe it's important to tell him why you got distant (because you thought he wasn't interested) this might get him to open up & show his feelings or clear up any misunderstandings on his end, and give you a more clear direction of his intentions.

Just thread lightly on your choice of words and how you present everything.

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dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

You said he has scorp mars & venus right?

Yes, is he revenging becuase it took me 3 weeks to follow him back? or something else?

Lol no. Don't worry about whether he is following you or not.

Keep that in mind moving forward though. He was doing something you like, and you took an action that made that go away, now you want it back...

Choose a side & stick with it. Either be in or out and ride it out to see where things go.

If you keep going at the rate that you have been, he might take it as wishy-washy and stop trying.

Go it, so don't bring up about how I like he followed me on his own and liking everything?

By the way what were you going to say about scorpio venus and mars? What i know is they are deeply emotional and sexual and vindictive LOL

There's no need to bring it up. I mean you can if you want to. There's a good possibility he's following you whether it says that he is or not. You blocking him could have sent the message that you don't like the attention or that he likes all of your stuff.

True that... may be I will bring it up in person.. to tell him i blocked him cos I thought he lost interest and I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't want me

If you told me that and I liked you it would drive me nuts, in a good way.. make sure you're somewhere private when you tell him that, he may open up back to you in a similar way if he's not nervous and it may get physical in a good way lol

She's not ready to be physical lol

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Nah they kissed already.. @StrawberryJam, make sure you guys are within a couple of feet when you tell him too, maybe even hold his hand a lil at the time you tell him..

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dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

You said he has scorp mars & venus right?

Yes, is he revenging becuase it took me 3 weeks to follow him back? or something else?

Lol no. Don't worry about whether he is following you or not.

Keep that in mind moving forward though. He was doing something you like, and you took an action that made that go away, now you want it back...

Choose a side & stick with it. Either be in or out and ride it out to see where things go.

If you keep going at the rate that you have been, he might take it as wishy-washy and stop trying.

Go it, so don't bring up about how I like he followed me on his own and liking everything?

By the way what were you going to say about scorpio venus and mars? What i know is they are deeply emotional and sexual and vindictive LOL

There's no need to bring it up. I mean you can if you want to. There's a good possibility he's following you whether it says that he is or not. You blocking him could have sent the message that you don't like the attention or that he likes all of your stuff.

True that... may be I will bring it up in person.. to tell him i blocked him cos I thought he lost interest and I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't want me

If you told me that and I liked you it would drive me nuts, in a good way.. make sure you're somewhere private when you tell him that, he may open up back to you in a similar way if he's not nervous and it may get physical in a good way lol

She's not ready to be physical lol

Nah they kissed already.. @StrawberryJam, make sure you guys are within a couple of feet when you tell him too, maybe even hold his hand a lil at the time you tell him..

That's not physical....lol sorry scorpio mars issues 😈

She's scared of him & wants to take it slow so StrawberryJam just don't start anything that you can't or don't want to finish. Be comfortable and confident if you're going to make those type of moves.

You can't lure him in for a kiss just to run away lol

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It'll get all grabby feely but she can show more honesty and more vulnerability by telling him she isn't ready, if he likes her he'll respect that.. maybe she'll even feel ready for a lil more who knows.. maybe not, she's in control here though.. of what she feels and wants.. what if she's ready for more and he turns around and says, no not tonight, I respect you too much.. I did that with a girl once I think it drove her crazy lol, I meant it though.. the next date it was on lol

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dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

You said he has scorp mars & venus right?

Yes, is he revenging becuase it took me 3 weeks to follow him back? or something else?

Lol no. Don't worry about whether he is following you or not.

Keep that in mind moving forward though. He was doing something you like, and you took an action that made that go away, now you want it back...

Choose a side & stick with it. Either be in or out and ride it out to see where things go.

If you keep going at the rate that you have been, he might take it as wishy-washy and stop trying.

Go it, so don't bring up about how I like he followed me on his own and liking everything?

By the way what were you going to say about scorpio venus and mars? What i know is they are deeply emotional and sexual and vindictive LOL

There's no need to bring it up. I mean you can if you want to. There's a good possibility he's following you whether it says that he is or not. You blocking him could have sent the message that you don't like the attention or that he likes all of your stuff.

True that... may be I will bring it up in person.. to tell him i blocked him cos I thought he lost interest and I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't want me

If you told me that and I liked you it would drive me nuts, in a good way.. make sure you're somewhere private when you tell him that, he may open up back to you in a similar way if he's not nervous and it may get physical in a good way lol

She's not ready to be physical lol

Nah they kissed already.. @StrawberryJam, make sure you guys are within a couple of feet when you tell him too, maybe even hold his hand a lil at the time you tell him..

That's not physical....lol sorry scorpio mars issues 😈

She's scared of him & wants to take it slow so StrawberryJam just don't start anything that you can't or don't want to finish. Be comfortable and confident if you're going to make those type of moves.

You can't lure him in for a kiss just to run away lol

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"That's not physical...." lol sure it is, but ya it could end up like one of those steamy rip off the clothes sessions because they've both ripped off the clothes to their souls with each other.. @StrawberryJam if you're not ready for intimacy do it is a semi-public place like when he drops you off at home, somewhere where there's no one around but where it's still public.

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dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

You said he has scorp mars & venus right?

Yes, is he revenging becuase it took me 3 weeks to follow him back? or something else?

Lol no. Don't worry about whether he is following you or not.

Keep that in mind moving forward though. He was doing something you like, and you took an action that made that go away, now you want it back...

Choose a side & stick with it. Either be in or out and ride it out to see where things go.

If you keep going at the rate that you have been, he might take it as wishy-washy and stop trying.

Go it, so don't bring up about how I like he followed me on his own and liking everything?

By the way what were you going to say about scorpio venus and mars? What i know is they are deeply emotional and sexual and vindictive LOL

There's no need to bring it up. I mean you can if you want to. There's a good possibility he's following you whether it says that he is or not. You blocking him could have sent the message that you don't like the attention or that he likes all of your stuff.

True that... may be I will bring it up in person.. to tell him i blocked him cos I thought he lost interest and I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't want me

Lol...if someone told me they blocked me,

A) I would be pissed & hurt

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B) there would be no chance of us ever lol

Handle it however you feel is best. I mean he moght take it better than I would. Keep us posted on how it goes.

If he likes her he already knows he was blocked.. he backburnered her and late replied because of it all..

If she opens up to him and plays that shy I really like you shit with that take me now face and he hears it, it's on for them both, one of them will initiate some crazy kissing action. Bonus points if he returns his feelings back to her about the late replies and what he felt on his end..

Yeah, then conquest & ditch. Just speaking what I would do. I'm not a male, nor do I have time for games...so if that is the male language @StrawberryJam listen to him.

People who make it to my block list, I have no interest in and they have become a nuisance or irritant to me. Now there is a very small window of time where things can be rectified. Outside of that, you're f***ed.

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This: "Now there is a very small window of time where things can be rectified." Absolutely, and she closed on that window days ago.. she's doing good.. feeling good, he's feeling good.. they're loving on each other.. love is awesome.. This is going to happen now and they'll give each other what they're after.. and he sounds like a typical cap. Probably rambling on about his work life like I do lol You should get yourself a virgo Capri.. :-p

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dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

You said he has scorp mars & venus right?

Yes, is he revenging becuase it took me 3 weeks to follow him back? or something else?

Lol no. Don't worry about whether he is following you or not.

Keep that in mind moving forward though. He was doing something you like, and you took an action that made that go away, now you want it back...

Choose a side & stick with it. Either be in or out and ride it out to see where things go.

If you keep going at the rate that you have been, he might take it as wishy-washy and stop trying.

Go it, so don't bring up about how I like he followed me on his own and liking everything?

By the way what were you going to say about scorpio venus and mars? What i know is they are deeply emotional and sexual and vindictive LOL

There's no need to bring it up. I mean you can if you want to. There's a good possibility he's following you whether it says that he is or not. You blocking him could have sent the message that you don't like the attention or that he likes all of your stuff.

True that... may be I will bring it up in person.. to tell him i blocked him cos I thought he lost interest and I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't want me

Lol...if someone told me they blocked me,

A) I would be pissed & hurt

And

B) there would be no chance of us ever lol

Handle it however you feel is best. I mean he moght take it better than I would. Keep us posted on how it goes.

If he likes her he already knows he was blocked.. he backburnered her and late replied because of it all..

If she opens up to him and plays that shy I really like you shit with that take me now face and he hears it, it's on for them both, one of them will initiate some crazy kissing action. Bonus points if he returns his feelings back to her about the late replies and what he felt on his end..

Yeah, then conquest & ditch. Just speaking what I would do. I'm not a male, nor do I have time for games...so if that is the male language @StrawberryJam listen to him.

People who make it to my block list, I have no interest in and they have become a nuisance or irritant to me. Now there is a very small window of time where things can be rectified. Outside of that, you're f***ed.

This: "Now there is a very small window of time where things can be rectified." Absolutely, and she closed on that window days ago.. she's doing good.. feeling good, he's feeling good.. they're loving on each other.. love is awesome.. This is going to happen now and they'll give each other what they're after.. and he sounds like a typical cap. Probably rambling on about his work life like I do lol You should get yourself a virgo Capri.. :-p

I tried already. No bueno

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hmmm... what happened.. did they vanish? They can do that sometimes when their feelings get hurt.. It's happened to me before.. once. I don't know them to be cheaters though.. but, I only know the female virgo..

@dannymc thank you for the detailed "script" and even predicted answers from him plus the analysis! He stopped liking anything, he also unliked the things he liked before. I think he is just copying me... Anyway he texted me to ask how is my week and briefly updated me about his, then asked what did I have in mind for sat.

I answered his question then I added some warmth and enthusiasm with some suggestion. Also let him know I'm open to suggestion.

He said ok let me study first 😉 Since he is in playful mood I sent him a photo of my homemade dinner let him know this is what I'm having now and asked whats on his plate? Is this too clingy? I'm just trying to bond

@capri-sun you are right there were quite a bit confusion to clear up between us. I've never dated Virgo moon, only dated one Virgo guy with Scorpio moon, he was a nightmare.. a sociopath

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@dannymc thank you for the detailed "script" and even predicted answers from him plus the analysis! He stopped liking anything, he also unliked the things he liked before. I think he is just copying me... Anyway he texted me to ask how is my week and briefly updated me about his, then asked what did I have in mind for sat.

I answered his question then I added some warmth and enthusiasm with some suggestion. Also let him know I'm open to suggestion.

He said ok let me study first 😉 Since he is in playful mood I sent him a photo of my homemade dinner let him know this is what I'm having now and asked whats on his plate? Is this too clingy? I'm just trying to bond

@capri-sun you are right there were quite a bit confusion to clear up between us. I've never dated Virgo moon, only dated one Virgo guy with Scorpio moon, he was a nightmare.. a sociopath

No, you're doing good. Keep it up 🙂

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dannymc he is still not following back.. probably didn't realize block made him unfollowed... idk how to bring it up when i see him...i like that he followed me on third date and that he liked everything I post since i want him to follow me again

You said he has scorp mars & venus right?

Yes, is he revenging becuase it took me 3 weeks to follow him back? or something else?

Lol no. Don't worry about whether he is following you or not.

Keep that in mind moving forward though. He was doing something you like, and you took an action that made that go away, now you want it back...

Choose a side & stick with it. Either be in or out and ride it out to see where things go.

If you keep going at the rate that you have been, he might take it as wishy-washy and stop trying.

Go it, so don't bring up about how I like he followed me on his own and liking everything?

By the way what were you going to say about scorpio venus and mars? What i know is they are deeply emotional and sexual and vindictive LOL

There's no need to bring it up. I mean you can if you want to. There's a good possibility he's following you whether it says that he is or not. You blocking him could have sent the message that you don't like the attention or that he likes all of your stuff.

True that... may be I will bring it up in person.. to tell him i blocked him cos I thought he lost interest and I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't want me

Lol...if someone told me they blocked me,

A) I would be pissed & hurt

And

B) there would be no chance of us ever lol

Handle it however you feel is best. I mean he moght take it better than I would. Keep us posted on how it goes.

If he likes her he already knows he was blocked.. he backburnered her and late replied because of it all..

If she opens up to him and plays that shy I really like you shit with that take me now face and he hears it, it's on for them both, one of them will initiate some crazy kissing action. Bonus points if he returns his feelings back to her about the late replies and what he felt on his end..

Yeah, then conquest & ditch. Just speaking what I would do. I'm not a male, nor do I have time for games...so if that is the male language StrawberryJam listen to him.

People who make it to my block list, I have no interest in and they have become a nuisance or irritant to me. Now there is a very small window of time where things can be rectified. Outside of that, you're f***ed.

This: "Now there is a very small window of time where things can be rectified." Absolutely, and she closed on that window days ago.. she's doing good.. feeling good, he's feeling good.. they're loving on each other.. love is awesome.. This is going to happen now and they'll give each other what they're after.. and he sounds like a typical cap. Probably rambling on about his work life like I do lol You should get yourself a virgo Capri.. :-p

I tried already. No bueno

hmmm... what happened.. did they vanish? They can do that sometimes when their feelings get hurt.. It's happened to me before.. once. I don't know them to be cheaters though.. but, I only know the female virgo..

1 had 6 kids ranging from like 20 to 1 so that was too much for me even being by the same person. I felt like 1 year old is still pretty fresh.

The other 1 I was actually interested in would say he'd call back & didn't, which just doesn't sit well with me after the 1st few times. After talking for awhile, he gambled too much for me (3 times in 1-2 week time span) so that fizzled out.

Virgo moon, wasn't feeling me the way I was feeling him, and he seemed very critical of me which can be difficult for me to swallow since I'm sensitive.

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That's rough, sorry to hear that.. :-/

@youngali i meant after I unblocked him he liked one pic, I then followed him and that probably made him realize he has been blocked before. He unliked that one photo.

@DannyMC He didn't reply and made me feel I could be too clingy but guess what? He text me while I was sleeping letting me know he was at a event. Then I checked his instagram and see this time he text me before he post stuff there. You are right warmth goes all the way with this cap hehe

@DannyMC I think you are right about the sexual chemistry between Virgo libra cusp and cap. I'm not ready to take the next step but I've been fantasizing about him *facepalm*

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@DannyMC I think you are right about the sexual chemistry between Virgo libra cusp and cap. I'm not ready to take the next step but I've been fantasizing about him *facepalm*

haha I know the feeling lol