StrawberryJam
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Posted by StrawberryJamI can see more of the story now.. makes sense to me, I wanted to mention the rebounding on his part but I thought it may have been you.. If he split up with her he might be feeling guilt when he sees you, especially if she was vulnerable (new country?) if this is the case it's unfair to you. For your own sake, ask him about the ex, does he still want her? Force honesty from him. Hearing this I'd be half way out the door if I was you, now I'm thinking he may be the problem. Though, what he feels isn't a problem. It could just be protective instincts he feels for the ex. He might just need time. I'd come with the full story at this point because now I'm feeling a lil protective of you. Especially if he's pulling a half-in rebound and you're invested in him. That's not cool.Posted by DannyMCDon't want to sound conceited, I'm fit and healthy like a fitness model and I do get lots of attention in real life and online and he knows it. I'm just not skinny and tall like fashion model, well his preferred type base on his following.I can also see guys are giving him dirty look like why is she with him as we walked pass. I can't control what ppl do. That probably makes him feel beta like you said?Posted by DannyMCWith that said, he sounds a lil reserved with you, maybe shy or intimidated, I can understand this from 1 POV, I'm thinking back to my middle school and high school years where I somehow landed the best looking girls with eye glances while drawing nude busts during class and still acing tests, but I still felt hesitation with these girls like, why me?. Maybe you might have a guy who feels beta to you at this point in his life. He told you that you were his only date... think about that.Posted by StrawberryJamAsk him for sure 🙂 I'm going to be honest with you right now, and I'm coming from the POV of a cap who would be in love with you.. First thing I'd tell you is, go after what you want, if I seem reserved and distant. Chances are we both want the same things. As a cap though, and dating you for almost 2 months my express feelings would be, can we skip the dating BS and watch a movie at my place and have dinner.. maybe make love and be happy.. and lay in bed and talk about the future.. I don't want another 'maybe if' and I don't want another date lol I want you in my life.. if we're still figuring out if we like each other than wtf... If I'm unliking your insta pics it means move faster, because I'm losing interest in your speed and in your general fear of life and getting close to me, you're probably rebounding so GTF away from me.. though I'll stick around a lil in case I'm wrong but I'm only half invested now and dreaming of a girl who I'm the world too, you better show me something real, and soon. Or I'm gone -Posted by StrawberryJam@dannymc Also I think it's time to ask him what is he looking for. if he could be looking for relationship or long term.. cos seeing someone once every 2 weeks does seem very casual...and if he wants me to visit him while he is away for work. Financially is not a problem for me, but I want to know what I'm investing in. If this is not going anywhere or all he wanted is a sexy weekend I'm not gonna visit..
@capri-sun @dannymc no I can't tell he is figuratively kissing my butt, I mean in person I felt appreciated by him. However I just notice he / instagram unliked the most recent post he liked. Twice within a week? Might be a bit too much of coincident? I'm not going to mention it to him this time.. I'm not sure if this is his Scorpio venus and mars test or not...I just hope he is testing out of his own security rather than trying to manipulate
Man haven't been a man for a long time.. that's a good point.. may be the testosterone all went into muscles for body building, and it's not anywhere to be found while dating LOL
I want you to think about that.. because I think you both want the same thing.. or maybe you don't, maybe you want to flip your hair like whatever and be single. As a Cap I'd laugh and let you be. But, you're a virgo, so you easily bury what you really want. And I know what it is you want, you need to let him know, and make him feel it, because he wants the same.
He didn't exactly say I'm the only one he is dating. He said the only date he ever had from this website. I'm not sure if he is on any other site or have someone else in real life? He might never be over his ex.. the ex he was with for 7 years. they are still in touch but she is back to france last year.. they are still in touch. he explained if it was other ex he would stop talking but they came to a new country together and he feels like they are responsible for each other and if anything happen to him she would be contacting his family etc.
I'm not sure how else can I make him feel less reserve. I already told him I'm shy when it comes to dating and I also need time to warm up. If he is not making real plans to see me there's not much I can do now apart from those text I was telling you about.
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Posted by DannyMCThe came here 17 years ago. They broke up after being together for 7 years. So they basically split up like 10 years + at least. They bought a house together, when she dumped him the reason was she just fell out of love. She simply gave him his deposit back and kept the house. He said he was seeing her once every few months to catch up until last year when she went back to france. May be thats why he is not adding me on facebook and only instagram. he might not went her to see anyone new he is dating cos he still lovers her. As he said he guessed I;m a virgo cos he had a few important ones in his life, his mom, his ex and a guy friend...Posted by StrawberryJamI can see more of the story now.. makes sense to me, I wanted to mention the rebounding on his part but I thought it may have been you.. If he split up with her he might be feeling guilt when he sees you, especially if she was vulnerable (new country?) if this is the case it's unfair to you. For your own sake, ask him about the ex, does he still want her? Force honesty from him. Hearing this I'd be half way out the door if I was you, now I'm thinking he may be the problem. Though, what he feels isn't a problem. It could just be protective instincts he feels for the ex. He might just need time. I'd come with the full story at this point because now I'm feeling a lil protective of you. Especially if he's pulling a half-in rebound and you're invested in him. That's not cool.Posted by DannyMCDon't want to sound conceited, I'm fit and healthy like a fitness model and I do get lots of attention in real life and online and he knows it. I'm just not skinny and tall like fashion model, well his preferred type base on his following.I can also see guys are giving him dirty look like why is she with him as we walked pass. I can't control what ppl do. That probably makes him feel beta like you said?Posted by DannyMCWith that said, he sounds a lil reserved with you, maybe shy or intimidated, I can understand this from 1 POV, I'm thinking back to my middle school and high school years where I somehow landed the best looking girls with eye glances while drawing nude busts during class and still acing tests, but I still felt hesitation with these girls like, why me?. Maybe you might have a guy who feels beta to you at this point in his life. He told you that you were his only date... think about that.Posted by StrawberryJamAsk him for sure 🙂 I'm going to be honest with you right now, and I'm coming from the POV of a cap who would be in love with you.. First thing I'd tell you is, go after what you want, if I seem reserved and distant. Chances are we both want the same things. As a cap though, and dating you for almost 2 months my express feelings would be, can we skip the dating BS and watch a movie at my place and have dinner.. maybe make love and be happy.. and lay in bed and talk about the future.. I don't want another 'maybe if' and I don't want another date lol I want you in my life.. if we're still figuring out if we like each other than wtf... If I'm unliking your insta pics it means move faster, because I'm losing interest in your speed and in your general fear of life and getting close to me, you're probably rebounding so GTF away from me.. though I'll stick around a lil in case I'm wrong but I'm only half invested now and dreaming of a girl who I'm the world too, you better show me something real, and soon. Or I'm gone -Posted by StrawberryJam@dannymc Also I think it's time to ask him what is he looking for. if he could be looking for relationship or long term.. cos seeing someone once every 2 weeks does seem very casual...and if he wants me to visit him while he is away for work. Financially is not a problem for me, but I want to know what I'm investing in. If this is not going anywhere or all he wanted is a sexy weekend I'm not gonna visit..
@capri-sun @dannymc no I can't tell he is figuratively kissing my butt, I mean in person I felt appreciated by him. However I just notice he / instagram unliked the most recent post he liked. Twice within a week? Might be a bit too much of coincident? I'm not going to mention it to him this time.. I'm not sure if this is his Scorpio venus and mars test or not...I just hope he is testing out of his own security rather than trying to manipulate
Man haven't been a man for a long time.. that's a good point.. may be the testosterone all went into muscles for body building, and it's not anywhere to be found while dating LOL
I want you to think about that.. because I think you both want the same thing.. or maybe you don't, maybe you want to flip your hair like whatever and be single. As a Cap I'd laugh and let you be. But, you're a virgo, so you easily bury what you really want. And I know what it is you want, you need to let him know, and make him feel it, because he wants the same.
He didn't exactly say I'm the only one he is dating. He said the only date he ever had from this website. I'm not sure if he is on any other site or have someone else in real life? He might never be over his ex.. the ex he was with for 7 years. they are still in touch but she is back to france last year.. they are still in touch. he explained if it was other ex he would stop talking but they came to a new country together and he feels like they are responsible for each other and if anything happen to him she would be contacting his family etc.
I'm not sure how else can I make him feel less reserve. I already told him I'm shy when it comes to dating and I also need time to warm up. If he is not making real plans to see me there's not much I can do now apart from those text I was telling you about.
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Thank you for looking out for me, it might sound weird but you are like a big brother, you've been teaching me things and been here for me to deal with this guy and to help me with growing.
Posted by Capri-sunif he doesn't invest then I'm not gonna invest, it would get us no where for sure.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by DannyMCI've been showing him more by being warmer, texting more promptly and even told him I rather go to the festival with him than with my friends. Is this not enough? When he said he is waiting for his sister in law to confirm when is she gonna be in town. I said I'm also waiting for my friends to finalize it and cna't ppl be awesome like us? the ability to plan! xxPosted by StrawberryJamAsk him for sure 🙂 I'm going to be honest with you right now, and I'm coming from the POV of a cap who would be in love with you.. First thing I'd tell you is, go after what you want, if I seem reserved and distant. Chances are we both want the same things. As a cap though, and dating you for almost 2 months my express feelings would be, can we skip the dating BS and watch a movie at my place and have dinner.. maybe make love and be happy.. and lay in bed and talk about the future.. I don't want another 'maybe if' and I don't want another date lol I want you in my life.. if we're still figuring out if we like each other than wtf... If I'm unliking your insta pics it means move faster, because I'm losing interest in your speed and in your general fear of life and getting close to me, you're probably rebounding so GTF away from me.. though I'll stick around a lil in case I'm wrong but I'm only half invested now and dreaming of a girl who I'm the world too, you better show me something real, and soon. Or I'm gone -Posted by StrawberryJam@dannymc Also I think it's time to ask him what is he looking for. if he could be looking for relationship or long term.. cos seeing someone once every 2 weeks does seem very casual...and if he wants me to visit him while he is away for work. Financially is not a problem for me, but I want to know what I'm investing in. If this is not going anywhere or all he wanted is a sexy weekend I'm not gonna visit..
@capri-sun @dannymc no I can't tell he is figuratively kissing my butt, I mean in person I felt appreciated by him. However I just notice he / instagram unliked the most recent post he liked. Twice within a week? Might be a bit too much of coincident? I'm not going to mention it to him this time.. I'm not sure if this is his Scorpio venus and mars test or not...I just hope he is testing out of his own security rather than trying to manipulate
Man haven't been a man for a long time.. that's a good point.. may be the testosterone all went into muscles for body building, and it's not anywhere to be found while dating LOL
I want you to think about that.. because I think you both want the same thing.. or maybe you don't, maybe you want to flip your hair like whatever and be single. As a Cap I'd laugh and let you be. But, you're a virgo, so you easily bury what you really want. And I know what it is you want, you need to let him know, and make him feel it, because he wants the same.
No respond from him. May be the "us" scared him? idk
I don't do flings, I want either relationship or single. He admit he never do half ass attempt but that's when he was younger. May be he only wants FWB now.. idk.. He just seem way to content to not see me often
Because seeing you often gets him where exactly?
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Posted by Capri-sunYou mean sex? Emotionally I'm warming up to him. Physically I've been to his place and we had been making out with clothes onPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunif he doesn't invest then I'm not gonna invest, it would get us no where for sure.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by DannyMCI've been showing him more by being warmer, texting more promptly and even told him I rather go to the festival with him than with my friends. Is this not enough? When he said he is waiting for his sister in law to confirm when is she gonna be in town. I said I'm also waiting for my friends to finalize it and cna't ppl be awesome like us? the ability to plan! xxPosted by StrawberryJamAsk him for sure 🙂 I'm going to be honest with you right now, and I'm coming from the POV of a cap who would be in love with you.. First thing I'd tell you is, go after what you want, if I seem reserved and distant. Chances are we both want the same things. As a cap though, and dating you for almost 2 months my express feelings would be, can we skip the dating BS and watch a movie at my place and have dinner.. maybe make love and be happy.. and lay in bed and talk about the future.. I don't want another 'maybe if' and I don't want another date lol I want you in my life.. if we're still figuring out if we like each other than wtf... If I'm unliking your insta pics it means move faster, because I'm losing interest in your speed and in your general fear of life and getting close to me, you're probably rebounding so GTF away from me.. though I'll stick around a lil in case I'm wrong but I'm only half invested now and dreaming of a girl who I'm the world too, you better show me something real, and soon. Or I'm gone -Posted by StrawberryJam@dannymc Also I think it's time to ask him what is he looking for. if he could be looking for relationship or long term.. cos seeing someone once every 2 weeks does seem very casual...and if he wants me to visit him while he is away for work. Financially is not a problem for me, but I want to know what I'm investing in. If this is not going anywhere or all he wanted is a sexy weekend I'm not gonna visit..
@capri-sun @dannymc no I can't tell he is figuratively kissing my butt, I mean in person I felt appreciated by him. However I just notice he / instagram unliked the most recent post he liked. Twice within a week? Might be a bit too much of coincident? I'm not going to mention it to him this time.. I'm not sure if this is his Scorpio venus and mars test or not...I just hope he is testing out of his own security rather than trying to manipulate
Man haven't been a man for a long time.. that's a good point.. may be the testosterone all went into muscles for body building, and it's not anywhere to be found while dating LOL
I want you to think about that.. because I think you both want the same thing.. or maybe you don't, maybe you want to flip your hair like whatever and be single. As a Cap I'd laugh and let you be. But, you're a virgo, so you easily bury what you really want. And I know what it is you want, you need to let him know, and make him feel it, because he wants the same.
No respond from him. May be the "us" scared him? idk
I don't do flings, I want either relationship or single. He admit he never do half ass attempt but that's when he was younger. May be he only wants FWB now.. idk.. He just seem way to content to not see me often
Because seeing you often gets him where exactly?
Only from the outside looking in, when he does invest it still gets him nowhere.
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Posted by Capri-sunI agree trust is important, its hard to bond with someone you don't see regularly especially when their instagram habit is sketchyPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunYou mean sex? Emotionally I'm warming up to him. Physically I've been to his place and we had been making out with clothes onPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunif he doesn't invest then I'm not gonna invest, it would get us no where for sure.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by DannyMCI've been showing him more by being warmer, texting more promptly and even told him I rather go to the festival with him than with my friends. Is this not enough? When he said he is waiting for his sister in law to confirm when is she gonna be in town. I said I'm also waiting for my friends to finalize it and cna't ppl be awesome like us? the ability to plan! xxPosted by StrawberryJamAsk him for sure 🙂 I'm going to be honest with you right now, and I'm coming from the POV of a cap who would be in love with you.. First thing I'd tell you is, go after what you want, if I seem reserved and distant. Chances are we both want the same things. As a cap though, and dating you for almost 2 months my express feelings would be, can we skip the dating BS and watch a movie at my place and have dinner.. maybe make love and be happy.. and lay in bed and talk about the future.. I don't want another 'maybe if' and I don't want another date lol I want you in my life.. if we're still figuring out if we like each other than wtf... If I'm unliking your insta pics it means move faster, because I'm losing interest in your speed and in your general fear of life and getting close to me, you're probably rebounding so GTF away from me.. though I'll stick around a lil in case I'm wrong but I'm only half invested now and dreaming of a girl who I'm the world too, you better show me something real, and soon. Or I'm gone -Posted by StrawberryJam@dannymc Also I think it's time to ask him what is he looking for. if he could be looking for relationship or long term.. cos seeing someone once every 2 weeks does seem very casual...and if he wants me to visit him while he is away for work. Financially is not a problem for me, but I want to know what I'm investing in. If this is not going anywhere or all he wanted is a sexy weekend I'm not gonna visit..
@capri-sun @dannymc no I can't tell he is figuratively kissing my butt, I mean in person I felt appreciated by him. However I just notice he / instagram unliked the most recent post he liked. Twice within a week? Might be a bit too much of coincident? I'm not going to mention it to him this time.. I'm not sure if this is his Scorpio venus and mars test or not...I just hope he is testing out of his own security rather than trying to manipulate
Man haven't been a man for a long time.. that's a good point.. may be the testosterone all went into muscles for body building, and it's not anywhere to be found while dating LOL
I want you to think about that.. because I think you both want the same thing.. or maybe you don't, maybe you want to flip your hair like whatever and be single. As a Cap I'd laugh and let you be. But, you're a virgo, so you easily bury what you really want. And I know what it is you want, you need to let him know, and make him feel it, because he wants the same.
No respond from him. May be the "us" scared him? idk
I don't do flings, I want either relationship or single. He admit he never do half ass attempt but that's when he was younger. May be he only wants FWB now.. idk.. He just seem way to content to not see me often
Because seeing you often gets him where exactly?
Only from the outside looking in, when he does invest it still gets him nowhere.
I don't mean sex. I mean you question his every move and every word & every instagram action. No trust = no building = no relationship.
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Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by sakuraflowersPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunoops I didn't read her profile. My first glance was black and white photo and for some reason I thought it was a guy >
She's not a man.
The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.
He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕
Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....
Just a thought...
If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.
I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunI agree trust is important, its hard to bond with someone you don't see regularly especially when their instagram habit is sketchyPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunYou mean sex? Emotionally I'm warming up to him. Physically I've been to his place and we had been making out with clothes onPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunif he doesn't invest then I'm not gonna invest, it would get us no where for sure.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by DannyMCI've been showing him more by being warmer, texting more promptly and even told him I rather go to the festival with him than with my friends. Is this not enough? When he said he is waiting for his sister in law to confirm when is she gonna be in town. I said I'm also waiting for my friends to finalize it and cna't ppl be awesome like us? the ability to plan! xxPosted by StrawberryJamAsk him for sure 🙂 I'm going to be honest with you right now, and I'm coming from the POV of a cap who would be in love with you.. First thing I'd tell you is, go after what you want, if I seem reserved and distant. Chances are we both want the same things. As a cap though, and dating you for almost 2 months my express feelings would be, can we skip the dating BS and watch a movie at my place and have dinner.. maybe make love and be happy.. and lay in bed and talk about the future.. I don't want another 'maybe if' and I don't want another date lol I want you in my life.. if we're still figuring out if we like each other than wtf... If I'm unliking your insta pics it means move faster, because I'm losing interest in your speed and in your general fear of life and getting close to me, you're probably rebounding so GTF away from me.. though I'll stick around a lil in case I'm wrong but I'm only half invested now and dreaming of a girl who I'm the world too, you better show me something real, and soon. Or I'm gone -Posted by StrawberryJam@dannymc Also I think it's time to ask him what is he looking for. if he could be looking for relationship or long term.. cos seeing someone once every 2 weeks does seem very casual...and if he wants me to visit him while he is away for work. Financially is not a problem for me, but I want to know what I'm investing in. If this is not going anywhere or all he wanted is a sexy weekend I'm not gonna visit..
@capri-sun @dannymc no I can't tell he is figuratively kissing my butt, I mean in person I felt appreciated by him. However I just notice he / instagram unliked the most recent post he liked. Twice within a week? Might be a bit too much of coincident? I'm not going to mention it to him this time.. I'm not sure if this is his Scorpio venus and mars test or not...I just hope he is testing out of his own security rather than trying to manipulate
Man haven't been a man for a long time.. that's a good point.. may be the testosterone all went into muscles for body building, and it's not anywhere to be found while dating LOL
I want you to think about that.. because I think you both want the same thing.. or maybe you don't, maybe you want to flip your hair like whatever and be single. As a Cap I'd laugh and let you be. But, you're a virgo, so you easily bury what you really want. And I know what it is you want, you need to let him know, and make him feel it, because he wants the same.
No respond from him. May be the "us" scared him? idk
I don't do flings, I want either relationship or single. He admit he never do half ass attempt but that's when he was younger. May be he only wants FWB now.. idk.. He just seem way to content to not see me often
Because seeing you often gets him where exactly?
Only from the outside looking in, when he does invest it still gets him nowhere.
I don't mean sex. I mean you question his every move and every word & every instagram action. No trust = no building = no relationship.
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I guess it is important to listen to your gut. If he does not make you feel comfortable then there is no point.
Posted by Capri-sunIt wasn't his instagram I was looking at, I was looking at my own photos. Anyway it seems like instagram hates him and is fucking with his account big time. It appears that he liked a photo of mine which was appeared as unlike before. It was a fluke that I notice this one.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunI agree trust is important, its hard to bond with someone you don't see regularly especially when their instagram habit is sketchyPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunYou mean sex? Emotionally I'm warming up to him. Physically I've been to his place and we had been making out with clothes onPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunif he doesn't invest then I'm not gonna invest, it would get us no where for sure.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by DannyMCI've been showing him more by being warmer, texting more promptly and even told him I rather go to the festival with him than with my friends. Is this not enough? When he said he is waiting for his sister in law to confirm when is she gonna be in town. I said I'm also waiting for my friends to finalize it and cna't ppl be awesome like us? the ability to plan! xxPosted by StrawberryJamAsk him for sure 🙂 I'm going to be honest with you right now, and I'm coming from the POV of a cap who would be in love with you.. First thing I'd tell you is, go after what you want, if I seem reserved and distant. Chances are we both want the same things. As a cap though, and dating you for almost 2 months my express feelings would be, can we skip the dating BS and watch a movie at my place and have dinner.. maybe make love and be happy.. and lay in bed and talk about the future.. I don't want another 'maybe if' and I don't want another date lol I want you in my life.. if we're still figuring out if we like each other than wtf... If I'm unliking your insta pics it means move faster, because I'm losing interest in your speed and in your general fear of life and getting close to me, you're probably rebounding so GTF away from me.. though I'll stick around a lil in case I'm wrong but I'm only half invested now and dreaming of a girl who I'm the world too, you better show me something real, and soon. Or I'm gone -Posted by StrawberryJam@dannymc Also I think it's time to ask him what is he looking for. if he could be looking for relationship or long term.. cos seeing someone once every 2 weeks does seem very casual...and if he wants me to visit him while he is away for work. Financially is not a problem for me, but I want to know what I'm investing in. If this is not going anywhere or all he wanted is a sexy weekend I'm not gonna visit..
@capri-sun @dannymc no I can't tell he is figuratively kissing my butt, I mean in person I felt appreciated by him. However I just notice he / instagram unliked the most recent post he liked. Twice within a week? Might be a bit too much of coincident? I'm not going to mention it to him this time.. I'm not sure if this is his Scorpio venus and mars test or not...I just hope he is testing out of his own security rather than trying to manipulate
Man haven't been a man for a long time.. that's a good point.. may be the testosterone all went into muscles for body building, and it's not anywhere to be found while dating LOL
I want you to think about that.. because I think you both want the same thing.. or maybe you don't, maybe you want to flip your hair like whatever and be single. As a Cap I'd laugh and let you be. But, you're a virgo, so you easily bury what you really want. And I know what it is you want, you need to let him know, and make him feel it, because he wants the same.
No respond from him. May be the "us" scared him? idk
I don't do flings, I want either relationship or single. He admit he never do half ass attempt but that's when he was younger. May be he only wants FWB now.. idk.. He just seem way to content to not see me often
Because seeing you often gets him where exactly?
Only from the outside looking in, when he does invest it still gets him nowhere.
I don't mean sex. I mean you question his every move and every word & every instagram action. No trust = no building = no relationship.
Please stop looking at his Instagram. I don't see people regularly, it doesn't stop me from bonding with them. I do understand what you mean though.
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I will let him come to me. If he can go by 2 weeks withpout seeing me I will tell him this is not what Im looking for and it makes no sense for him to invite me to go to a work trip at the end of march when he can;t even see me while we in same town
Posted by StrawberryJamAwww 🙂 You're welcomePosted by DannyMCThe came here 17 years ago. They broke up after being together for 7 years. So they basically split up like 10 years + at least. They bought a house together, when she dumped him the reason was she just fell out of love. She simply gave him his deposit back and kept the house. He said he was seeing her once every few months to catch up until last year when she went back to france. May be thats why he is not adding me on facebook and only instagram. he might not went her to see anyone new he is dating cos he still lovers her. As he said he guessed I;m a virgo cos he had a few important ones in his life, his mom, his ex and a guy friend...Posted by StrawberryJamI can see more of the story now.. makes sense to me, I wanted to mention the rebounding on his part but I thought it may have been you.. If he split up with her he might be feeling guilt when he sees you, especially if she was vulnerable (new country?) if this is the case it's unfair to you. For your own sake, ask him about the ex, does he still want her? Force honesty from him. Hearing this I'd be half way out the door if I was you, now I'm thinking he may be the problem. Though, what he feels isn't a problem. It could just be protective instincts he feels for the ex. He might just need time. I'd come with the full story at this point because now I'm feeling a lil protective of you. Especially if he's pulling a half-in rebound and you're invested in him. That's not cool.Posted by DannyMCDon't want to sound conceited, I'm fit and healthy like a fitness model and I do get lots of attention in real life and online and he knows it. I'm just not skinny and tall like fashion model, well his preferred type base on his following.I can also see guys are giving him dirty look like why is she with him as we walked pass. I can't control what ppl do. That probably makes him feel beta like you said?Posted by DannyMCWith that said, he sounds a lil reserved with you, maybe shy or intimidated, I can understand this from 1 POV, I'm thinking back to my middle school and high school years where I somehow landed the best looking girls with eye glances while drawing nude busts during class and still acing tests, but I still felt hesitation with these girls like, why me?. Maybe you might have a guy who feels beta to you at this point in his life. He told you that you were his only date... think about that.Posted by StrawberryJamAsk him for sure 🙂 I'm going to be honest with you right now, and I'm coming from the POV of a cap who would be in love with you.. First thing I'd tell you is, go after what you want, if I seem reserved and distant. Chances are we both want the same things. As a cap though, and dating you for almost 2 months my express feelings would be, can we skip the dating BS and watch a movie at my place and have dinner.. maybe make love and be happy.. and lay in bed and talk about the future.. I don't want another 'maybe if' and I don't want another date lol I want you in my life.. if we're still figuring out if we like each other than wtf... If I'm unliking your insta pics it means move faster, because I'm losing interest in your speed and in your general fear of life and getting close to me, you're probably rebounding so GTF away from me.. though I'll stick around a lil in case I'm wrong but I'm only half invested now and dreaming of a girl who I'm the world too, you better show me something real, and soon. Or I'm gone -Posted by StrawberryJam@dannymc Also I think it's time to ask him what is he looking for. if he could be looking for relationship or long term.. cos seeing someone once every 2 weeks does seem very casual...and if he wants me to visit him while he is away for work. Financially is not a problem for me, but I want to know what I'm investing in. If this is not going anywhere or all he wanted is a sexy weekend I'm not gonna visit..
@capri-sun @dannymc no I can't tell he is figuratively kissing my butt, I mean in person I felt appreciated by him. However I just notice he / instagram unliked the most recent post he liked. Twice within a week? Might be a bit too much of coincident? I'm not going to mention it to him this time.. I'm not sure if this is his Scorpio venus and mars test or not...I just hope he is testing out of his own security rather than trying to manipulate
Man haven't been a man for a long time.. that's a good point.. may be the testosterone all went into muscles for body building, and it's not anywhere to be found while dating LOL
I want you to think about that.. because I think you both want the same thing.. or maybe you don't, maybe you want to flip your hair like whatever and be single. As a Cap I'd laugh and let you be. But, you're a virgo, so you easily bury what you really want. And I know what it is you want, you need to let him know, and make him feel it, because he wants the same.
He didn't exactly say I'm the only one he is dating. He said the only date he ever had from this website. I'm not sure if he is on any other site or have someone else in real life? He might never be over his ex.. the ex he was with for 7 years. they are still in touch but she is back to france last year.. they are still in touch. he explained if it was other ex he would stop talking but they came to a new country together and he feels like they are responsible for each other and if anything happen to him she would be contacting his family etc.
I'm not sure how else can I make him feel less reserve. I already told him I'm shy when it comes to dating and I also need time to warm up. If he is not making real plans to see me there's not much I can do now apart from those text I was telling you about.
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Posted by StrawberryJamI couldn't do 2 weeks, no way. The only one reason would be work or personal issues I didn't want you to be around, that would be it. Sometimes I go into a shell and cut the world off. If he does 2 weeks of distance, and it isn't some traumatic work or personal issue, try again with someone new. From my POV, when the right love feels like a drug, why would I not want it all the time, 2 weeks is way too long, if I knew you 2 months and was in love, you'd already be living with me lolPosted by Capri-sunIt wasn't his instagram I was looking at, I was looking at my own photos. Anyway it seems like instagram hates him and is fucking with his account big time. It appears that he liked a photo of mine which was appeared as unlike before. It was a fluke that I notice this one.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunI agree trust is important, its hard to bond with someone you don't see regularly especially when their instagram habit is sketchyPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunYou mean sex? Emotionally I'm warming up to him. Physically I've been to his place and we had been making out with clothes onPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunif he doesn't invest then I'm not gonna invest, it would get us no where for sure.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by DannyMCI've been showing him more by being warmer, texting more promptly and even told him I rather go to the festival with him than with my friends. Is this not enough? When he said he is waiting for his sister in law to confirm when is she gonna be in town. I said I'm also waiting for my friends to finalize it and cna't ppl be awesome like us? the ability to plan! xxPosted by StrawberryJamAsk him for sure 🙂 I'm going to be honest with you right now, and I'm coming from the POV of a cap who would be in love with you.. First thing I'd tell you is, go after what you want, if I seem reserved and distant. Chances are we both want the same things. As a cap though, and dating you for almost 2 months my express feelings would be, can we skip the dating BS and watch a movie at my place and have dinner.. maybe make love and be happy.. and lay in bed and talk about the future.. I don't want another 'maybe if' and I don't want another date lol I want you in my life.. if we're still figuring out if we like each other than wtf... If I'm unliking your insta pics it means move faster, because I'm losing interest in your speed and in your general fear of life and getting close to me, you're probably rebounding so GTF away from me.. though I'll stick around a lil in case I'm wrong but I'm only half invested now and dreaming of a girl who I'm the world too, you better show me something real, and soon. Or I'm gone -Posted by StrawberryJam@dannymc Also I think it's time to ask him what is he looking for. if he could be looking for relationship or long term.. cos seeing someone once every 2 weeks does seem very casual...and if he wants me to visit him while he is away for work. Financially is not a problem for me, but I want to know what I'm investing in. If this is not going anywhere or all he wanted is a sexy weekend I'm not gonna visit..
@capri-sun @dannymc no I can't tell he is figuratively kissing my butt, I mean in person I felt appreciated by him. However I just notice he / instagram unliked the most recent post he liked. Twice within a week? Might be a bit too much of coincident? I'm not going to mention it to him this time.. I'm not sure if this is his Scorpio venus and mars test or not...I just hope he is testing out of his own security rather than trying to manipulate
Man haven't been a man for a long time.. that's a good point.. may be the testosterone all went into muscles for body building, and it's not anywhere to be found while dating LOL
I want you to think about that.. because I think you both want the same thing.. or maybe you don't, maybe you want to flip your hair like whatever and be single. As a Cap I'd laugh and let you be. But, you're a virgo, so you easily bury what you really want. And I know what it is you want, you need to let him know, and make him feel it, because he wants the same.
No respond from him. May be the "us" scared him? idk
I don't do flings, I want either relationship or single. He admit he never do half ass attempt but that's when he was younger. May be he only wants FWB now.. idk.. He just seem way to content to not see me often
Because seeing you often gets him where exactly?
Only from the outside looking in, when he does invest it still gets him nowhere.
I don't mean sex. I mean you question his every move and every word & every instagram action. No trust = no building = no relationship.
Please stop looking at his Instagram. I don't see people regularly, it doesn't stop me from bonding with them. I do understand what you mean though.
I will let him come to me. If he can go by 2 weeks withpout seeing me I will tell him this is not what Im looking for and it makes no sense for him to invite me to go to a work trip at the end of march when he can;t even see me while we in same townclick to expand
Posted by Capri-sunCheck out the 2 Sept libras that posted recently, about the speed of their caps, that's how I move when I feel it. It's rare though.. for caps to move fast.. I suppose I'm an exception, if I feel you it's a whirlwind, I lock you down then it's back to work lolPosted by DannyMCPosted by StrawberryJamI couldn't do 2 weeks, no way. The only one reason would be work or personal issues I didn't want you to be around, that would be it. Sometimes I go into a shell and cut the world off. If he does 2 weeks of distance, and it isn't some traumatic work or personal issue, try again with someone new. From my POV, when the right love feels like a drug, why would I not want it all the time, 2 weeks is way too long, if I knew you 2 months and was in love, you'd already be living with me lolPosted by Capri-sunIt wasn't his instagram I was looking at, I was looking at my own photos. Anyway it seems like instagram hates him and is fucking with his account big time. It appears that he liked a photo of mine which was appeared as unlike before. It was a fluke that I notice this one.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunI agree trust is important, its hard to bond with someone you don't see regularly especially when their instagram habit is sketchyPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunYou mean sex? Emotionally I'm warming up to him. Physically I've been to his place and we had been making out with clothes onPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunif he doesn't invest then I'm not gonna invest, it would get us no where for sure.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by DannyMCI've been showing him more by being warmer, texting more promptly and even told him I rather go to the festival with him than with my friends. Is this not enough? When he said he is waiting for his sister in law to confirm when is she gonna be in town. I said I'm also waiting for my friends to finalize it and cna't ppl be awesome like us? the ability to plan! xxPosted by StrawberryJamAsk him for sure 🙂 I'm going to be honest with you right now, and I'm coming from the POV of a cap who would be in love with you.. First thing I'd tell you is, go after what you want, if I seem reserved and distant. Chances are we both want the same things. As a cap though, and dating you for almost 2 months my express feelings would be, can we skip the dating BS and watch a movie at my place and have dinner.. maybe make love and be happy.. and lay in bed and talk about the future.. I don't want another 'maybe if' and I don't want another date lol I want you in my life.. if we're still figuring out if we like each other than wtf... If I'm unliking your insta pics it means move faster, because I'm losing interest in your speed and in your general fear of life and getting close to me, you're probably rebounding so GTF away from me.. though I'll stick around a lil in case I'm wrong but I'm only half invested now and dreaming of a girl who I'm the world too, you better show me something real, and soon. Or I'm gone -Posted by StrawberryJam@dannymc Also I think it's time to ask him what is he looking for. if he could be looking for relationship or long term.. cos seeing someone once every 2 weeks does seem very casual...and if he wants me to visit him while he is away for work. Financially is not a problem for me, but I want to know what I'm investing in. If this is not going anywhere or all he wanted is a sexy weekend I'm not gonna visit..
@capri-sun @dannymc no I can't tell he is figuratively kissing my butt, I mean in person I felt appreciated by him. However I just notice he / instagram unliked the most recent post he liked. Twice within a week? Might be a bit too much of coincident? I'm not going to mention it to him this time.. I'm not sure if this is his Scorpio venus and mars test or not...I just hope he is testing out of his own security rather than trying to manipulate
Man haven't been a man for a long time.. that's a good point.. may be the testosterone all went into muscles for body building, and it's not anywhere to be found while dating LOL
I want you to think about that.. because I think you both want the same thing.. or maybe you don't, maybe you want to flip your hair like whatever and be single. As a Cap I'd laugh and let you be. But, you're a virgo, so you easily bury what you really want. And I know what it is you want, you need to let him know, and make him feel it, because he wants the same.
No respond from him. May be the "us" scared him? idk
I don't do flings, I want either relationship or single. He admit he never do half ass attempt but that's when he was younger. May be he only wants FWB now.. idk.. He just seem way to content to not see me often
Because seeing you often gets him where exactly?
Only from the outside looking in, when he does invest it still gets him nowhere.
I don't mean sex. I mean you question his every move and every word & every instagram action. No trust = no building = no relationship.
Please stop looking at his Instagram. I don't see people regularly, it doesn't stop me from bonding with them. I do understand what you mean though.
I will let him come to me. If he can go by 2 weeks withpout seeing me I will tell him this is not what Im looking for and it makes no sense for him to invite me to go to a work trip at the end of march when he can;t even see me while we in same town
Danny, caps move slow 😐
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@StrawberryJam did you say 'Sister in law' about his visitor?
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yes his sister in law is visiting from France, she is in the country but in another city at the moment and he has no clue when she will be back to his home. I absolutely agree that if a guy can go for this long to not see you he definitely doesn't see you in his future. Which is why it's confusing why he asked me to visit him to spend the weekend while he is on the work trip at the end of March or early April... makes me wonder if all he wants is free pussy delivery.
Regarding instagram it's a big glitch happeninign between our accounts. it's like mark zuckerberg is playing with us LOL... now all the likes resurface. He hasn't text me for 2 days. it's like suddent hot to ice cold. All he did was liking 2 photos of mine.. talking about throwing crumbs...
yes his sister in law is visiting from France, she is in the country but in another city at the moment and he has no clue when she will be back to his home. I absolutely agree that if a guy can go for this long to not see you he definitely doesn't see you in his future. Which is why it's confusing why he asked me to visit him to spend the weekend while he is on the work trip at the end of March or early April... makes me wonder if all he wants is free pussy delivery.
Regarding instagram it's a big glitch happeninign between our accounts. it's like mark zuckerberg is playing with us LOL... now all the likes resurface. He hasn't text me for 2 days. it's like suddent hot to ice cold. All he did was liking 2 photos of mine.. talking about throwing crumbs...
Posted by Capri-sunexactly what I'm doing, I don't send follow up text or actively like his stuff. I only like when he likes mine.
I say live your life and let him be
Posted by StrawberryJamStrawberry am I hearing you right, the sister of his EX is visiting??
@dannymc @capri-sun
yes his sister in law is visiting from France, she is in the country but in another city at the moment and he has no clue when she will be back to his home. I absolutely agree that if a guy can go for this long to not see you he definitely doesn't see you in his future. Which is why it's confusing why he asked me to visit him to spend the weekend while he is on the work trip at the end of March or early April... makes me wonder if all he wants is free pussy delivery.
Regarding instagram it's a big glitch happeninign between our accounts. it's like mark zuckerberg is playing with us LOL... now all the likes resurface. He hasn't text me for 2 days. it's like suddent hot to ice cold. All he did was liking 2 photos of mine.. talking about throwing crumbs...
Posted by DannyMCNo, it's his sister in law, wife of his brotherPosted by StrawberryJamStrawberry am I hearing you right, the sister of his EX is visiting??
@dannymc @capri-sun
yes his sister in law is visiting from France, she is in the country but in another city at the moment and he has no clue when she will be back to his home. I absolutely agree that if a guy can go for this long to not see you he definitely doesn't see you in his future. Which is why it's confusing why he asked me to visit him to spend the weekend while he is on the work trip at the end of March or early April... makes me wonder if all he wants is free pussy delivery.
Regarding instagram it's a big glitch happeninign between our accounts. it's like mark zuckerberg is playing with us LOL... now all the likes resurface. He hasn't text me for 2 days. it's like suddent hot to ice cold. All he did was liking 2 photos of mine.. talking about throwing crumbs...click to expand
Posted by Capri-sunThat's how I felt all along, when he gets back in touch I'm not sure if I should just confront him or ignore him...Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunexactly what I'm doing, I don't send follow up text or actively like his stuff. I only like when he likes mine.
I say live your life and let him be
Okay I mean don't even do that just leave him alone completely.
This doesn't sound like the ideal relationship situation.
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I want someone who connects with me physically and emotionally, I can't do that without the consistency. I thnk it's best we just be friends?
Posted by Capri-sunWhen I say being friends I'm just being polite, well I felt like that at the beginning cos I have a habit of judging too quickly and just in case if I was wrong. I felt like he only wanted something casual and nothing more.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunThat's how I felt all along, when he gets back in touch I'm not sure if I should just confront him or ignore him...Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunexactly what I'm doing, I don't send follow up text or actively like his stuff. I only like when he likes mine.
I say live your life and let him be
Okay I mean don't even do that just leave him alone completely.
This doesn't sound like the ideal relationship situation.
I want someone who connects with me physically and emotionally, I can't do that without the consistency. I thnk it's best we just be friends?
I wouldn't even worry about being friends, but you have to do whatever you're comfortable with & what you want to do.
So since you felt like that from the beginning, why are you still trying & why are we still discussing it.
Confront or ignore the choice is yours. I personally think it's pointless to confront and I'm not a confrontational person so.
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@dannymc He text me to tell me how late he worked until last night and he had a quiet evenign at home and then slept in before he goes to yoga, and that he just finished lunch with his guy friend (name) He asked if my friends and I are still going to the festival.
I know that if he wants to see me he would made it very clear, this is more like him just being curious about what I do for whatever reason.
I responded telling him I'm with friends and going to a house party then I asked what is he doing for the rest of his weekend?
He said he is driving out of town with his friends (pretty sure it's guy friends and I will see what he post soon) He said lets try to catch up next week. have fun at festival. he also told me to post lots of pictures.
To me this is him saying all I want is a causal date, let see if you will let me hit it next time.
I updated him with what we were doing there with some photos of the festival (not photo of me) then I told him to have fun I dind't say if I will see him next week.
He responded that's cool (photos)
I know that if he wants to see me he would made it very clear, this is more like him just being curious about what I do for whatever reason.
I responded telling him I'm with friends and going to a house party then I asked what is he doing for the rest of his weekend?
He said he is driving out of town with his friends (pretty sure it's guy friends and I will see what he post soon) He said lets try to catch up next week. have fun at festival. he also told me to post lots of pictures.
To me this is him saying all I want is a causal date, let see if you will let me hit it next time.
I updated him with what we were doing there with some photos of the festival (not photo of me) then I told him to have fun I dind't say if I will see him next week.
He responded that's cool (photos)
Posted by StrawberryJamahh ok.. makes sensePosted by DannyMCNo, it's his sister in law, wife of his brotherPosted by StrawberryJamStrawberry am I hearing you right, the sister of his EX is visiting??
@dannymc @capri-sun
yes his sister in law is visiting from France, she is in the country but in another city at the moment and he has no clue when she will be back to his home. I absolutely agree that if a guy can go for this long to not see you he definitely doesn't see you in his future. Which is why it's confusing why he asked me to visit him to spend the weekend while he is on the work trip at the end of March or early April... makes me wonder if all he wants is free pussy delivery.
Regarding instagram it's a big glitch happeninign between our accounts. it's like mark zuckerberg is playing with us LOL... now all the likes resurface. He hasn't text me for 2 days. it's like suddent hot to ice cold. All he did was liking 2 photos of mine.. talking about throwing crumbs...click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamHere's what I heard you both say:
@dannymc He text me to tell me how late he worked until last night and he had a quiet evenign at home and then slept in before he goes to yoga, and that he just finished lunch with his guy friend (name) He asked if my friends and I are still going to the festival.
I know that if he wants to see me he would made it very clear, this is more like him just being curious about what I do for whatever reason.
I responded telling him I'm with friends and going to a house party then I asked what is he doing for the rest of his weekend?
He said he is driving out of town with his friends (pretty sure it's guy friends and I will see what he post soon) He said lets try to catch up next week. have fun at festival. he also told me to post lots of pictures.
To me this is him saying all I want is a causal date, let see if you will let me hit it next time.
I updated him with what we were doing there with some photos of the festival (not photo of me) then I told him to have fun I dind't say if I will see him next week.
He responded that's cool (photos)
Him: What are doing, do you have plans, if not, I may ask you to be with me.. I'm more important than your friends right?
You: Oh ya, fact, house party, booze and and wet T contests, fuck you dude. lol
Him: K, whatever, I'm leaving anyways.. make sure you show me (pics) there isn't another guy with you and that it isn't a wild slutfest. I'll try again next week..
You: (send pics) Pouts, I don't know if I wanna see you next week.
Him: k, whatever.. (sends pics)
Both of you: Frustrated. Both of you sent pics though lol
Posted by DannyMCoh he didn't send any pics to me. Well I already told him we can go to the festival together in the week. He knows my friends are gay dudes LOLPosted by StrawberryJamHere's what I heard you both say:
@dannymc He text me to tell me how late he worked until last night and he had a quiet evenign at home and then slept in before he goes to yoga, and that he just finished lunch with his guy friend (name) He asked if my friends and I are still going to the festival.
I know that if he wants to see me he would made it very clear, this is more like him just being curious about what I do for whatever reason.
I responded telling him I'm with friends and going to a house party then I asked what is he doing for the rest of his weekend?
He said he is driving out of town with his friends (pretty sure it's guy friends and I will see what he post soon) He said lets try to catch up next week. have fun at festival. he also told me to post lots of pictures.
To me this is him saying all I want is a causal date, let see if you will let me hit it next time.
I updated him with what we were doing there with some photos of the festival (not photo of me) then I told him to have fun I dind't say if I will see him next week.
He responded that's cool (photos)
Him: What are doing, do you have plans, if not, I may ask you to be with me.. I'm more important than your friends right?
You: Oh ya, fact, house party, booze and and wet T contests, fuck you dude. lol
Him: K, whatever, I'm leaving anyways.. make sure you show me (pics) there isn't another guy with you and that it isn't a wild slutfest. I'll try again next week..
You: (send pics) Pouts, I don't know if I wanna see you next week.
Him: k, whatever.. (sends pics)
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I just felt like he could have ask if we are still meeting. ... also he didn't mention about his sister in law.. now he has time to go out of town.. also our office is super close.. he never asked to catch up at lunch time for a cuddle or anything...
@dannymc I was too tired from the festival and coudln't type properly LOL When he responded that's cool (photo) i meant he meant my photo was cool haha
anyway I responded today just to make small talk aboout how I can't sleep in and it's pouring here, hope the weather is nicer on his side (out of town)
Honestly without the star sign thing I would say this man is losing interest, cos he used to ask me out for the next date before one date finishes. Last I saw him was see you soon. He surely knows he is going away this week but he mentioned nothing. All he said was idk when my brother's wife is arriving. If he is going away means he has plenty of time, just not with me.
The lets try to catch up thing tells me that he wants to keep things really casual. Almost like a hook up or a romantic date whenever he feels lonely.
anyway I responded today just to make small talk aboout how I can't sleep in and it's pouring here, hope the weather is nicer on his side (out of town)
Honestly without the star sign thing I would say this man is losing interest, cos he used to ask me out for the next date before one date finishes. Last I saw him was see you soon. He surely knows he is going away this week but he mentioned nothing. All he said was idk when my brother's wife is arriving. If he is going away means he has plenty of time, just not with me.
The lets try to catch up thing tells me that he wants to keep things really casual. Almost like a hook up or a romantic date whenever he feels lonely.
@dannymc I guess I'm too polite... I responded to his "that's cool" I said hope the weather is nice for you.
9 hrs later he responded weather was ok and he couldn't surf as he didn't have surf board but he had fun watching the race.
he text but isnt particularly inquisitive about my night or day... feels like im emotional booty call?
i wrote back to tease him and ask why didn't you take me? 😛 i like to see new things. thten i asked ehere exactly was thte comp and if his brothers wife ever turned up
9 hrs later he responded weather was ok and he couldn't surf as he didn't have surf board but he had fun watching the race.
he text but isnt particularly inquisitive about my night or day... feels like im emotional booty call?
i wrote back to tease him and ask why didn't you take me? 😛 i like to see new things. thten i asked ehere exactly was thte comp and if his brothers wife ever turned up
Its so weird how our situation is so alike ahaha , my ex cap freaked out like 2 days ago he thought I blocked him on Instagram ( i send him a funny pic that reminded me of him ) which i regretted later and deleted the DM , and also deleted my IG overall , he then the next day ehich was yesterday , he messaged me on fb ( were not friends on fb ) , telling me that I didn't give him time to respond so I told him sorry I didn't tink you saw hom and he was like well you didn't have to nlock me on IG
Caps sure don't know what they want , one time they don't want you , the next hell break loose when you are going on with their life , I tink that caps when tthing go wroh with their who they were woth , they hurt and they don't like it when you want to move on and probably end up giving you attention and heart to another person other than them lol , jee why can't they just come straight up to you about what they want or feel , ( I herd they do , but only when its too late )
Caps sure don't know what they want , one time they don't want you , the next hell break loose when you are going on with their life , I tink that caps when tthing go wroh with their who they were woth , they hurt and they don't like it when you want to move on and probably end up giving you attention and heart to another person other than them lol , jee why can't they just come straight up to you about what they want or feel , ( I herd they do , but only when its too late )
Posted by coconutoilbathHe is coming over on the weekend to play video games with me, it's not his cup of tea but I guess he does want to hang out or thinking being at my place gives him opportunity to try to score LOL
Its so weird how our situation is so alike ahaha , my ex cap freaked out like 2 days ago he thought I blocked him on Instagram ( i send him a funny pic that reminded me of him ) which i regretted later and deleted the DM , and also deleted my IG overall , he then the next day ehich was yesterday , he messaged me on fb ( were not friends on fb ) , telling me that I didn't give him time to respond so I told him sorry I didn't tink you saw hom and he was like well you didn't have to nlock me on IG
Caps sure don't know what they want , one time they don't want you , the next hell break loose when you are going on with their life , I tink that caps when tthing go wroh with their who they were woth , they hurt and they don't like it when you want to move on and probably end up giving you attention and heart to another person other than them lol , jee why can't they just come straight up to you about what they want or feel , ( I herd they do , but only when its too late )
Is your cap ex boring when texting? He tells you lots of details of his day and his jokes aren't really funny? but when I was with him in person I didn't want to leave him. Will see how this meeting goes
Posted by StrawberryJamWe're pretty self centered on text lol.. I do it too then I'm shit, wait babe how is your day going??Posted by coconutoilbathHe is coming over on the weekend to play video games with me, it's not his cup of tea but I guess he does want to hang out or thinking being at my place gives him opportunity to try to score LOL
Its so weird how our situation is so alike ahaha , my ex cap freaked out like 2 days ago he thought I blocked him on Instagram ( i send him a funny pic that reminded me of him ) which i regretted later and deleted the DM , and also deleted my IG overall , he then the next day ehich was yesterday , he messaged me on fb ( were not friends on fb ) , telling me that I didn't give him time to respond so I told him sorry I didn't tink you saw hom and he was like well you didn't have to nlock me on IG
Caps sure don't know what they want , one time they don't want you , the next hell break loose when you are going on with their life , I tink that caps when tthing go wroh with their who they were woth , they hurt and they don't like it when you want to move on and probably end up giving you attention and heart to another person other than them lol , jee why can't they just come straight up to you about what they want or feel , ( I herd they do , but only when its too late )
Is your cap ex boring when texting? He tells you lots of details of his day and his jokes aren't really funny? but when I was with him in person I didn't want to leave him. Will see how this meeting goesclick to expand
Posted by DannyMChaha I guess it's not a red flag then. he is coming over on weekend to play. I playfully tease him and say I will kick his ass. He said he is a beginner but will learn quick. I made jokes with innuendo, I'm surprised he didn't come back with something similar as he claimed to be a dirty talker.Posted by StrawberryJamWe're pretty self centered on text lol.. I do it too then I'm shit, wait babe how is your day going??Posted by coconutoilbathHe is coming over on the weekend to play video games with me, it's not his cup of tea but I guess he does want to hang out or thinking being at my place gives him opportunity to try to score LOL
Its so weird how our situation is so alike ahaha , my ex cap freaked out like 2 days ago he thought I blocked him on Instagram ( i send him a funny pic that reminded me of him ) which i regretted later and deleted the DM , and also deleted my IG overall , he then the next day ehich was yesterday , he messaged me on fb ( were not friends on fb ) , telling me that I didn't give him time to respond so I told him sorry I didn't tink you saw hom and he was like well you didn't have to nlock me on IG
Caps sure don't know what they want , one time they don't want you , the next hell break loose when you are going on with their life , I tink that caps when tthing go wroh with their who they were woth , they hurt and they don't like it when you want to move on and probably end up giving you attention and heart to another person other than them lol , jee why can't they just come straight up to you about what they want or feel , ( I herd they do , but only when its too late )
Is your cap ex boring when texting? He tells you lots of details of his day and his jokes aren't really funny? but when I was with him in person I didn't want to leave him. Will see how this meeting goesclick to expand
before he sleeps he text me to let me know he took his brother's wife to nice dinner and think she appreciates. We chat (instant text, I know call would be better) he said good night xo to end it. before that i thought he weren't interested? LOL Idk what to expect from him!
Posted by StrawberryJamGirl today mine messaged me out of the no where at 2:30 in the morning , I was asleep idk why he messaged me at that time lol asking me how's my day , lol what random question , he didn't even say hey it was direct how's your day lol , I answered I'm this morning we spoke it was casual and I joked around , I'm kind of confused at this point at what he wants , anyways do you think i should tell him i need space , or should I keep on messaging back to see what he's intentions are all aboutPosted by DannyMChaha I guess it's not a red flag then. he is coming over on weekend to play. I playfully tease him and say I will kick his ass. He said he is a beginner but will learn quick. I made jokes with innuendo, I'm surprised he didn't come back with something similar as he claimed to be a dirty talker.Posted by StrawberryJamWe're pretty self centered on text lol.. I do it too then I'm shit, wait babe how is your day going??Posted by coconutoilbathHe is coming over on the weekend to play video games with me, it's not his cup of tea but I guess he does want to hang out or thinking being at my place gives him opportunity to try to score LOL
Its so weird how our situation is so alike ahaha , my ex cap freaked out like 2 days ago he thought I blocked him on Instagram ( i send him a funny pic that reminded me of him ) which i regretted later and deleted the DM , and also deleted my IG overall , he then the next day ehich was yesterday , he messaged me on fb ( were not friends on fb ) , telling me that I didn't give him time to respond so I told him sorry I didn't tink you saw hom and he was like well you didn't have to nlock me on IG
Caps sure don't know what they want , one time they don't want you , the next hell break loose when you are going on with their life , I tink that caps when tthing go wroh with their who they were woth , they hurt and they don't like it when you want to move on and probably end up giving you attention and heart to another person other than them lol , jee why can't they just come straight up to you about what they want or feel , ( I herd they do , but only when its too late )
Is your cap ex boring when texting? He tells you lots of details of his day and his jokes aren't really funny? but when I was with him in person I didn't want to leave him. Will see how this meeting goes
before he sleeps he text me to let me know he took his brother's wife to nice dinner and think she appreciates. We chat (instant text, I know call would be better) he said good night xo to end it. before that i thought he weren't interested? LOL Idk what to expect from him!click to expand
Posted by notsosureTell me about it, my Pisces ex strung me along big time with lots of lies and manipulation. What signs are you?
Oh girls..... I will shed a tear for you and the rest of them/us and ask that somehow women will feel better about themselves and know their worth and that men will also be taught by their mothers and women all around the world, that we are people with real feelings and not just an entertainere segment till their true love comes along, the one that they will actually respect.
Posted by coconutoilbathDepends on what you want, the space is for you to heal, not a strategy to get him back. If you want to ask about his intention it would be best to ask in person instead of text. I actually didn't like the 2am text unless he knows your phone is on silence and that won't wake you up. 2am text came across as emotional booty call / booty call. Also sounds very selfishPosted by StrawberryJamGirl today mine messaged me out of the no where at 2:30 in the morning , I was asleep idk why he messaged me at that time lol asking me how's my day , lol what random question , he didn't even say hey it was direct how's your day lol , I answered I'm this morning we spoke it was casual and I joked around , I'm kind of confused at this point at what he wants , anyways do you think i should tell him i need space , or should I keep on messaging back to see what he's intentions are all aboutPosted by DannyMChaha I guess it's not a red flag then. he is coming over on weekend to play. I playfully tease him and say I will kick his ass. He said he is a beginner but will learn quick. I made jokes with innuendo, I'm surprised he didn't come back with something similar as he claimed to be a dirty talker.Posted by StrawberryJamWe're pretty self centered on text lol.. I do it too then I'm shit, wait babe how is your day going??Posted by coconutoilbathHe is coming over on the weekend to play video games with me, it's not his cup of tea but I guess he does want to hang out or thinking being at my place gives him opportunity to try to score LOL
Its so weird how our situation is so alike ahaha , my ex cap freaked out like 2 days ago he thought I blocked him on Instagram ( i send him a funny pic that reminded me of him ) which i regretted later and deleted the DM , and also deleted my IG overall , he then the next day ehich was yesterday , he messaged me on fb ( were not friends on fb ) , telling me that I didn't give him time to respond so I told him sorry I didn't tink you saw hom and he was like well you didn't have to nlock me on IG
Caps sure don't know what they want , one time they don't want you , the next hell break loose when you are going on with their life , I tink that caps when tthing go wroh with their who they were woth , they hurt and they don't like it when you want to move on and probably end up giving you attention and heart to another person other than them lol , jee why can't they just come straight up to you about what they want or feel , ( I herd they do , but only when its too late )
Is your cap ex boring when texting? He tells you lots of details of his day and his jokes aren't really funny? but when I was with him in person I didn't want to leave him. Will see how this meeting goes
before he sleeps he text me to let me know he took his brother's wife to nice dinner and think she appreciates. We chat (instant text, I know call would be better) he said good night xo to end it. before that i thought he weren't interested? LOL Idk what to expect from him!click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by coconutoilbathDepends on what you want, the space is for you to heal, not a strategy to get him back. If you want to ask about his intention it would be best to ask in person instead of text. I actually didn't like the 2am text unless he knows your phone is on silence and that won't wake you up. 2am text came across as emotional booty call / booty call. Also sounds very selfishPosted by StrawberryJamGirl today mine messaged me out of the no where at 2:30 in the morning , I was asleep idk why he messaged me at that time lol asking me how's my day , lol what random question , he didn't even say hey it was direct how's your day lol , I answered I'm this morning we spoke it was casual and I joked around , I'm kind of confused at this point at what he wants , anyways do you think i should tell him i need space , or should I keep on messaging back to see what he's intentions are all aboutPosted by DannyMChaha I guess it's not a red flag then. he is coming over on weekend to play. I playfully tease him and say I will kick his ass. He said he is a beginner but will learn quick. I made jokes with innuendo, I'm surprised he didn't come back with something similar as he claimed to be a dirty talker.Posted by StrawberryJamWe're pretty self centered on text lol.. I do it too then I'm shit, wait babe how is your day going??Posted by coconutoilbathHe is coming over on the weekend to play video games with me, it's not his cup of tea but I guess he does want to hang out or thinking being at my place gives him opportunity to try to score LOL
Its so weird how our situation is so alike ahaha , my ex cap freaked out like 2 days ago he thought I blocked him on Instagram ( i send him a funny pic that reminded me of him ) which i regretted later and deleted the DM , and also deleted my IG overall , he then the next day ehich was yesterday , he messaged me on fb ( were not friends on fb ) , telling me that I didn't give him time to respond so I told him sorry I didn't tink you saw hom and he was like well you didn't have to nlock me on IG
Caps sure don't know what they want , one time they don't want you , the next hell break loose when you are going on with their life , I tink that caps when tthing go wroh with their who they were woth , they hurt and they don't like it when you want to move on and probably end up giving you attention and heart to another person other than them lol , jee why can't they just come straight up to you about what they want or feel , ( I herd they do , but only when its too late )
Is your cap ex boring when texting? He tells you lots of details of his day and his jokes aren't really funny? but when I was with him in person I didn't want to leave him. Will see how this meeting goes
before he sleeps he text me to let me know he took his brother's wife to nice dinner and think she appreciates. We chat (instant text, I know call would be better) he said good night xo to end it. before that i thought he weren't interested? LOL Idk what to expect from him!click to expand
Its a long distance relationship so i doubt its a booty call , and yeah , I'm currently only texting im cause something in me just dont like ignoring people cause I personally wouldn't like to be ignored , but I'm gonna probably today , try to clear up the fog in my head and get straight to the point and just talk about my need for distance I got nothing to loose at this point
Posted by coconutoilbathI'm the same I don't like ignoring people especially those I have feelings for. I guess just be honest? like you are still feeling emotional from the break up and need some space to clear your mind. You will get back in touch once you feel better (if that's what you want)Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by coconutoilbathDepends on what you want, the space is for you to heal, not a strategy to get him back. If you want to ask about his intention it would be best to ask in person instead of text. I actually didn't like the 2am text unless he knows your phone is on silence and that won't wake you up. 2am text came across as emotional booty call / booty call. Also sounds very selfishPosted by StrawberryJamGirl today mine messaged me out of the no where at 2:30 in the morning , I was asleep idk why he messaged me at that time lol asking me how's my day , lol what random question , he didn't even say hey it was direct how's your day lol , I answered I'm this morning we spoke it was casual and I joked around , I'm kind of confused at this point at what he wants , anyways do you think i should tell him i need space , or should I keep on messaging back to see what he's intentions are all aboutPosted by DannyMChaha I guess it's not a red flag then. he is coming over on weekend to play. I playfully tease him and say I will kick his ass. He said he is a beginner but will learn quick. I made jokes with innuendo, I'm surprised he didn't come back with something similar as he claimed to be a dirty talker.Posted by StrawberryJamWe're pretty self centered on text lol.. I do it too then I'm shit, wait babe how is your day going??Posted by coconutoilbathHe is coming over on the weekend to play video games with me, it's not his cup of tea but I guess he does want to hang out or thinking being at my place gives him opportunity to try to score LOL
Its so weird how our situation is so alike ahaha , my ex cap freaked out like 2 days ago he thought I blocked him on Instagram ( i send him a funny pic that reminded me of him ) which i regretted later and deleted the DM , and also deleted my IG overall , he then the next day ehich was yesterday , he messaged me on fb ( were not friends on fb ) , telling me that I didn't give him time to respond so I told him sorry I didn't tink you saw hom and he was like well you didn't have to nlock me on IG
Caps sure don't know what they want , one time they don't want you , the next hell break loose when you are going on with their life , I tink that caps when tthing go wroh with their who they were woth , they hurt and they don't like it when you want to move on and probably end up giving you attention and heart to another person other than them lol , jee why can't they just come straight up to you about what they want or feel , ( I herd they do , but only when its too late )
Is your cap ex boring when texting? He tells you lots of details of his day and his jokes aren't really funny? but when I was with him in person I didn't want to leave him. Will see how this meeting goes
before he sleeps he text me to let me know he took his brother's wife to nice dinner and think she appreciates. We chat (instant text, I know call would be better) he said good night xo to end it. before that i thought he weren't interested? LOL Idk what to expect from him!
Its a long distance relationship so i doubt its a booty call , and yeah , I'm currently only texting im cause something in me just dont like ignoring people cause I personally wouldn't like to be ignored , but I'm gonna probably today , try to clear up the fog in my head and get straight to the point and just talk about my need for distance I got nothing to loose at this point
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Posted by StrawberryJamYeah well I just did tell him that , he said alright sounds good , so i guess it is what it is time for my space and maybe ill find somebody in the process lolPosted by coconutoilbathI'm the same I don't like ignoring people especially those I have feelings for. I guess just be honest? like you are still feeling emotional from the break up and need some space to clear your mind. You will get back in touch once you feel better (if that's what you want)Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by coconutoilbathDepends on what you want, the space is for you to heal, not a strategy to get him back. If you want to ask about his intention it would be best to ask in person instead of text. I actually didn't like the 2am text unless he knows your phone is on silence and that won't wake you up. 2am text came across as emotional booty call / booty call. Also sounds very selfishPosted by StrawberryJamGirl today mine messaged me out of the no where at 2:30 in the morning , I was asleep idk why he messaged me at that time lol asking me how's my day , lol what random question , he didn't even say hey it was direct how's your day lol , I answered I'm this morning we spoke it was casual and I joked around , I'm kind of confused at this point at what he wants , anyways do you think i should tell him i need space , or should I keep on messaging back to see what he's intentions are all aboutPosted by DannyMChaha I guess it's not a red flag then. he is coming over on weekend to play. I playfully tease him and say I will kick his ass. He said he is a beginner but will learn quick. I made jokes with innuendo, I'm surprised he didn't come back with something similar as he claimed to be a dirty talker.Posted by StrawberryJamWe're pretty self centered on text lol.. I do it too then I'm shit, wait babe how is your day going??Posted by coconutoilbathHe is coming over on the weekend to play video games with me, it's not his cup of tea but I guess he does want to hang out or thinking being at my place gives him opportunity to try to score LOL
Its so weird how our situation is so alike ahaha , my ex cap freaked out like 2 days ago he thought I blocked him on Instagram ( i send him a funny pic that reminded me of him ) which i regretted later and deleted the DM , and also deleted my IG overall , he then the next day ehich was yesterday , he messaged me on fb ( were not friends on fb ) , telling me that I didn't give him time to respond so I told him sorry I didn't tink you saw hom and he was like well you didn't have to nlock me on IG
Caps sure don't know what they want , one time they don't want you , the next hell break loose when you are going on with their life , I tink that caps when tthing go wroh with their who they were woth , they hurt and they don't like it when you want to move on and probably end up giving you attention and heart to another person other than them lol , jee why can't they just come straight up to you about what they want or feel , ( I herd they do , but only when its too late )
Is your cap ex boring when texting? He tells you lots of details of his day and his jokes aren't really funny? but when I was with him in person I didn't want to leave him. Will see how this meeting goes
before he sleeps he text me to let me know he took his brother's wife to nice dinner and think she appreciates. We chat (instant text, I know call would be better) he said good night xo to end it. before that i thought he weren't interested? LOL Idk what to expect from him!
Its a long distance relationship so i doubt its a booty call , and yeah , I'm currently only texting im cause something in me just dont like ignoring people cause I personally wouldn't like to be ignored , but I'm gonna probably today , try to clear up the fog in my head and get straight to the point and just talk about my need for distance I got nothing to loose at this point
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Posted by notsosureMay I ask what is your status now?Posted by StrawberryJamI am sorry but most of these situations happen, because women allow it. Including this one.Posted by notsosureTell me about it, my Pisces ex strung me along big time with lots of lies and manipulation. What signs are you?
Oh girls..... I will shed a tear for you and the rest of them/us and ask that somehow women will feel better about themselves and know their worth and that men will also be taught by their mothers and women all around the world, that we are people with real feelings and not just an entertainere segment till their true love comes along, the one that they will actually respect.
You make a topic about weather or not a guy is stringing you along, before you yourself even took the time to ask, what he wanted and ser your own boundaries and standards. If you haven't established what it is you want, then he is not stringing you along. You are stringing yourself along.
I am not judging you, I have done this myself, so I just wish for a better future for everyone. First step is to set the same standards for yourself as you would want the guys to have for you.
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Oh my life, is this thread still going. I bet you've gone full circle!! If you had to deal with my cap you'd have ended up in a mental institute by now. They are not for the faint hearted but what you get in return is well worth it.
Posted by WonderWoman14haha yes, well next time is cooking date, we will cook together, eat then we play video games. Now he text me at least twice a day, except last Friday. I know texting can't replace face to face. Will see how it goes on the weekend when I see him!
Oh my life, is this thread still going. I bet you've gone full circle!! If you had to deal with my cap you'd have ended up in a mental institute by now. They are not for the faint hearted but what you get in return is well worth it.
Posted by StrawberryJamWell you must have got some good advice of the board then because I thought this one was dead in the water. All the best. I hope it works out for you.Posted by WonderWoman14haha yes, well next time is cooking date, we will cook together, eat then we play video games. Now he text me at least twice a day, except last Friday. I know texting can't replace face to face. Will see how it goes on the weekend when I see him!
Oh my life, is this thread still going. I bet you've gone full circle!! If you had to deal with my cap you'd have ended up in a mental institute by now. They are not for the faint hearted but what you get in return is well worth it.click to expand
Posted by WonderWoman14Thanks y'all have been very helpful, @dannymc gave some male cap perspective which helped immensely 🙂Posted by StrawberryJamWell you must have got some good advice of the board then because I thought this one was dead in the water. All the best. I hope it works out for you.Posted by WonderWoman14haha yes, well next time is cooking date, we will cook together, eat then we play video games. Now he text me at least twice a day, except last Friday. I know texting can't replace face to face. Will see how it goes on the weekend when I see him!
Oh my life, is this thread still going. I bet you've gone full circle!! If you had to deal with my cap you'd have ended up in a mental institute by now. They are not for the faint hearted but what you get in return is well worth it.click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14Thanks y'all have been very helpful, @dannymc gave some male cap perspective which helped immensely 🙂Posted by StrawberryJamWell you must have got some good advice of the board then because I thought this one was dead in the water. All the best. I hope it works out for you.Posted by WonderWoman14haha yes, well next time is cooking date, we will cook together, eat then we play video games. Now he text me at least twice a day, except last Friday. I know texting can't replace face to face. Will see how it goes on the weekend when I see him!
Oh my life, is this thread still going. I bet you've gone full circle!! If you had to deal with my cap you'd have ended up in a mental institute by now. They are not for the faint hearted but what you get in return is well worth it.click to expand
That's great, I think it's good to get a male's perspective. Maybe I should pick his brains about my CAP ?
Posted by WonderWoman14Probably! If he is not too busy with his new virgo hehePosted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14Thanks y'all have been very helpful, @dannymc gave some male cap perspective which helped immensely 🙂Posted by StrawberryJamWell you must have got some good advice of the board then because I thought this one was dead in the water. All the best. I hope it works out for you.Posted by WonderWoman14haha yes, well next time is cooking date, we will cook together, eat then we play video games. Now he text me at least twice a day, except last Friday. I know texting can't replace face to face. Will see how it goes on the weekend when I see him!
Oh my life, is this thread still going. I bet you've gone full circle!! If you had to deal with my cap you'd have ended up in a mental institute by now. They are not for the faint hearted but what you get in return is well worth it.
That's great, I think it's good to get a male's perspective. Maybe I should pick his brains about my CAP ?
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@capri-sun you're right he's not here for hit and quit
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Danny Bro your interpretation of his text about the festival was CORRECT. We had our fifth date today he didn't confirm but I asked what time is he coming over and he responded quick and let me know the time.
He came early, brought me some fruits and chocolate and he told me he miss me and I asked you didn't join me last week. He said he wasn't sure if he should intrude. I told him his text came across as not interested in getting to know my friends.
Then we cooked together, made out I told him I'm attracted but I can't do hook ups. He said this is not a hook up. I said I don't want friends with benefit either. He said we are not friends wtih benefit. He said I just want to be close to you, I want to spend time with you i said well there's a long period of absense even though it's for work. I can't do it. Also you didn't say what you lookign for on the website. He said I'm looking for love.
He said he is not dating other people or looking, but he didn't say we are exclusive either...
So we made out more and talked about joinning him to his work trip overseas. I said I'm excited and nervous. He said don't take it as a big deal, treat it as just a weekend away. Instead of overseas trip. He said come on a Thursady night so you will arrive my hotel on Friday morning I will go to work a bit later to make sure you arrive ok. Then we can go out for dinner and then we can go out on weekend. you can go back on Monday night so we can have dinner before you go to the airport.
mmm He told me not to take the trip overseas as big deal.. what does that mean? LOL
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Danny Bro your interpretation of his text about the festival was CORRECT. We had our fifth date today he didn't confirm but I asked what time is he coming over and he responded quick and let me know the time.
He came early, brought me some fruits and chocolate and he told me he miss me and I asked you didn't join me last week. He said he wasn't sure if he should intrude. I told him his text came across as not interested in getting to know my friends.
Then we cooked together, made out I told him I'm attracted but I can't do hook ups. He said this is not a hook up. I said I don't want friends with benefit either. He said we are not friends wtih benefit. He said I just want to be close to you, I want to spend time with you i said well there's a long period of absense even though it's for work. I can't do it. Also you didn't say what you lookign for on the website. He said I'm looking for love.
He said he is not dating other people or looking, but he didn't say we are exclusive either...
So we made out more and talked about joinning him to his work trip overseas. I said I'm excited and nervous. He said don't take it as a big deal, treat it as just a weekend away. Instead of overseas trip. He said come on a Thursady night so you will arrive my hotel on Friday morning I will go to work a bit later to make sure you arrive ok. Then we can go out for dinner and then we can go out on weekend. you can go back on Monday night so we can have dinner before you go to the airport.
mmm He told me not to take the trip overseas as big deal.. what does that mean? LOL
Im glad it's working! Caps are so sweet even though they are confusing too. Enjoy the trip!! Sounds exciting
Posted by pinkbird03Thanks girl! yes it was confusing also text could be easily misinterpret. Even my gay guy friends interpreted it as he didn't want to join the festival. When he actually wanted to!
Im glad it's working! Caps are so sweet even though they are confusing too. Enjoy the trip!! Sounds exciting
I like how he already thought of what to do with me when I was there 😄 I know he wanted more tonight. I said to him now that we both know we want more, but I can't do it cos when you leave i will feel really empty. I want to do it on a night when we can sleep over. @dannymc you taught me well with vulnerability. I've been so numb and couldn't express how I feel for MANY years!
Posted by StrawberryJamDid you tell him all of your feelings or something?Posted by pinkbird03Thanks girl! yes it was confusing also text could be easily misinterpret. Even my gay guy friends interpreted it as he didn't want to join the festival. When he actually wanted to!
Im glad it's working! Caps are so sweet even though they are confusing too. Enjoy the trip!! Sounds exciting
I like how he already thought of what to do with me when I was there 😄 I know he wanted more tonight. I said to him now that we both know we want more, but I can't do it cos when you leave i will feel really empty. I want to do it on a night when we can sleep over. @dannymc you taught me well with vulnerability. I've been so numb and couldn't express how I feel for MANY years!click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03I'm not sure.. may be you can tell me if this is count as "all of your feelings"?Posted by StrawberryJamDid you tell him all of your feelings or something?Posted by pinkbird03Thanks girl! yes it was confusing also text could be easily misinterpret. Even my gay guy friends interpreted it as he didn't want to join the festival. When he actually wanted to!
Im glad it's working! Caps are so sweet even though they are confusing too. Enjoy the trip!! Sounds exciting
I like how he already thought of what to do with me when I was there 😄 I know he wanted more tonight. I said to him now that we both know we want more, but I can't do it cos when you leave i will feel really empty. I want to do it on a night when we can sleep over. @dannymc you taught me well with vulnerability. I've been so numb and couldn't express how I feel for MANY years!click to expand
I told him I'm attracted but I can't just hook up with him. Hooking up is NEVER what I do. He said this is NOT a hook up. I said well we only see each other once in two weeks if it's not hook up I'm not sure what it is?
he goes no this is not. we met on the dating site. I said so what? many ppl use sites to do that even if this is a reputable one. Are you looking for FWB? he goes no.
I said your profile didn't state what you were looking for and what you look for in a partner. Then he said he is looking for love.
Posted by StrawberryJam
@capri-sun you're right he's not here for hit and quit
@dannymc
Danny Bro your interpretation of his text about the festival was CORRECT. We had our fifth date today he didn't confirm but I asked what time is he coming over and he responded quick and let me know the time.
He came early, brought me some fruits and chocolate and he told me he miss me and I asked you didn't join me last week. He said he wasn't sure if he should intrude. I told him his text came across as not interested in getting to know my friends.
Then we cooked together, made out I told him I'm attracted but I can't do hook ups. He said this is not a hook up. I said I don't want friends with benefit either. He said we are not friends wtih benefit. He said I just want to be close to you, I want to spend time with you i said well there's a long period of absense even though it's for work. I can't do it. Also you didn't say what you lookign for on the website. He said I'm looking for love.
He said he is not dating other people or looking, but he didn't say we are exclusive either...
So we made out more and talked about joinning him to his work trip overseas. I said I'm excited and nervous. He said don't take it as a big deal, treat it as just a weekend away. Instead of overseas trip. He said come on a Thursady night so you will arrive my hotel on Friday morning I will go to work a bit later to make sure you arrive ok. Then we can go out for dinner and then we can go out on weekend. you can go back on Monday night so we can have dinner before you go to the airport.
mmm He told me not to take the trip overseas as big deal.. what does that mean? LOL
It means just go with the flow and enjoy it.
Posted by WonderWoman14ok I hope it's not the same way my exes meant. they were just saying it cos they were using me.... but I think this cap is differentPosted by StrawberryJam
@capri-sun you're right he's not here for hit and quit
@dannymc
Danny Bro your interpretation of his text about the festival was CORRECT. We had our fifth date today he didn't confirm but I asked what time is he coming over and he responded quick and let me know the time.
He came early, brought me some fruits and chocolate and he told me he miss me and I asked you didn't join me last week. He said he wasn't sure if he should intrude. I told him his text came across as not interested in getting to know my friends.
Then we cooked together, made out I told him I'm attracted but I can't do hook ups. He said this is not a hook up. I said I don't want friends with benefit either. He said we are not friends wtih benefit. He said I just want to be close to you, I want to spend time with you i said well there's a long period of absense even though it's for work. I can't do it. Also you didn't say what you lookign for on the website. He said I'm looking for love.
He said he is not dating other people or looking, but he didn't say we are exclusive either...
So we made out more and talked about joinning him to his work trip overseas. I said I'm excited and nervous. He said don't take it as a big deal, treat it as just a weekend away. Instead of overseas trip. He said come on a Thursady night so you will arrive my hotel on Friday morning I will go to work a bit later to make sure you arrive ok. Then we can go out for dinner and then we can go out on weekend. you can go back on Monday night so we can have dinner before you go to the airport.
mmm He told me not to take the trip overseas as big deal.. what does that mean? LOL
It means just go with the flow and enjoy it.
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