TaurusInShania
@TaurusInShania
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READING TOO MUCH INTO IT? OR THIS IS NORMAL CAP BEHAVIOR?
Posted by Arielle83Not these black men nowadays... lost class lol.
Do men not usually let you "walk in front of them"?
Then again, I’ve been steering clear of men.
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Posted by UnicornSagGood point. I would say yes... but the first meeting he had a girl, second meeting he made it a point to let me know he broke it off and all the personal questions the second time as well. Then again he hasn’t contacted me since though I told him it would be nice. Thought he was just taking his time, but I won’t worry about it. He doesn’t reach out, don’t read more into it. I’m learning to do that now.
It could also be he's not interested in getting to know you more so he doesn't approach?
Why did you tell him you have not had sex in 6 months? That is none of his business.
Posted by EveryOunceHe had my phone to play the music for the video on the praise of “his phone is going dead” but I know him from the last shoot, he always comes prepared and always have extra things. He mentioned my phone going off due to social media and we went into a convo about that... he was asking personal stuff and hinting as if he’s been on my page but acting like he didn’t know (we follow each other but he never likes my pics only in the beginning)... I mentioned that to see what the reaction would be. He still didn’t make a pass... he also bought up a personal incident out the Blue that had nothing to do with that day and it made me think.... he also cleaned up afterwards when that’s not his job “I’ll clean this up for you so you can shower” (cake scene) just had me thinking.... he also drove me to the liquor store and was really entertaining me there and back.
Why did you tell him you have not had sex in 6 months? That is none of his business.
However my music and image is sexual. I don’t know if he’s curious because he feels I’m always approached on a sexual level or feeling out where I’m at.
Posted by RooSagicornAgreed. Thank you. I won’t read much more into it. We still have to work together and he’ll be in contact with my pics and after editing the final video... if nothing transpires... there will still be the business relationship.
Well Caps are slow. It’s not worth it until he’s ready if he ever gets ready. Just let him be. He’ll let you know if he wants it to go somewhere.
Posted by RooSagicornEither slow or fast like lightning. Ok, maybe that's my moon 😕 😏
Well Caps are slow. It’s not worth it until he’s ready if he ever gets ready. Just let him be. He’ll let you know if he wants it to go somewhere.
If he just got out of relationship he more than likely will not be even trying to get right back into one. And there's always an ex lingering with caps. I wouldn't look too much into it if I were you. Not even sexually bcz caps usually don't do that. He's just being friendly
Posted by UnicornSagThat helped a lot... I will carry on at ease with my life and not let it fester any longer thank you.Posted by TaurusInShaniait's best to not think too much to it, if he wants to get you he'll make an effort, that's for sure, they know very well how to get their goals when they set them. He might be in analyzing phase of things but it's best to not hope for much cause he'll try to initiate if he wants something, that much I'm sure at, even the small effort, he'll do something at leastPosted by UnicornSagGood point. I would say yes... but the first meeting he had a girl, second meeting he made it a point to let me know he broke it off and all the personal questions the second time as well. Then again he hasn’t contacted me since though I told him it would be nice. Thought he was just taking his time, but I won’t worry about it. He doesn’t reach out, don’t read more into it. I’m learning to do that now.
It could also be he's not interested in getting to know you more so he doesn't approach?click to expand
Posted by miriyahhhOk cool. Appreciate it.
If he just got out of relationship he more than likely will not be even trying to get right back into one. And there's always an ex lingering with caps. I wouldn't look too much into it if I were you. Not even sexually bcz caps usually don't do that. He's just being friendly
Posted by TaurusInShaniaCaps give their all in relationships. So if he just broke up I doubt he's doing anything serious. If you want a good friend he'd be great though and THEN in time a relationship would arise.Posted by miriyahhhOk cool. Appreciate it.
If he just got out of relationship he more than likely will not be even trying to get right back into one. And there's always an ex lingering with caps. I wouldn't look too much into it if I were you. Not even sexually bcz caps usually don't do that. He's just being friendlyclick to expand
Posted by RooSagicornI have a lot of fire and air, so it's hard not to be affected by the Sag adventurous spirit. It's too bad he didn't take that as a challenge. It keeps some Caps from being overly linear.Posted by Nightcap-Lol maybe. Idk my ex was slow in some ways, and then fast. And then go woah woah woah and back up. But he didn’t have an Aries moon lolPosted by RooSagicornEither slow or fast like lightning. Ok, maybe that's my moon 😕 😏
Well Caps are slow. It’s not worth it until he’s ready if he ever gets ready. Just let him be. He’ll let you know if he wants it to go somewhere.
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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeHe never cheated. Never said that. Wouldn’t want him if he did... I’m a Taurus, don’t want a married man, a cheater, or a narcissist if I can help it lol. But I heard caps treat their relationships like business and if you have the similar things in common it would be good. I can always find other videographers... but I get the point of the mix.Posted by TaurusInShaniaIf he cheated on his gf, he might cheat on youPosted by Arielle83Not these black men nowadays... lost class lol.
Do men not usually let you "walk in front of them"?
Then again, I’ve been steering clear of men.
Plus business and relationships don’t really mix unfortunatelyclick to expand
Posted by miriyahhhYou know what? That sounds more on my pace as well... I will be the friend... and live my life. In time what will be will be and if we found other people that’s ok too. Thanks for that.Posted by TaurusInShaniaCaps give their all in relationships. So if he just broke up I doubt he's doing anything serious. If you want a good friend he'd be great though and THEN in time a relationship would arise.Posted by miriyahhhOk cool. Appreciate it.
If he just got out of relationship he more than likely will not be even trying to get right back into one. And there's always an ex lingering with caps. I wouldn't look too much into it if I were you. Not even sexually bcz caps usually don't do that. He's just being friendly
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Cap or no Cap, he's still a man. And more often than not we do most of our thinking with our downstairs brain.
You only know his sun, but he could easily be Leo-dominant. I can assure you, he just wants to dip his fondue stick into your hot melting chocolate. Not that there's anything wrong with that.....unless you're a nun.
Btw, too bad you weren't here a few weeks ago when I was offering a free one night stand with Jed to help him figure out if he wants to be with a man or woman. But I think you may have swayed him to the dark side, so I'm glad it didn't work out.
In any event, things have evolved, we're more open to the crazy stuff. So if you want to join us on our second live show where we could teach you a thing or two about what taboo really looks like.......
You only know his sun, but he could easily be Leo-dominant. I can assure you, he just wants to dip his fondue stick into your hot melting chocolate. Not that there's anything wrong with that.....unless you're a nun.
Btw, too bad you weren't here a few weeks ago when I was offering a free one night stand with Jed to help him figure out if he wants to be with a man or woman. But I think you may have swayed him to the dark side, so I'm glad it didn't work out.
In any event, things have evolved, we're more open to the crazy stuff. So if you want to join us on our second live show where we could teach you a thing or two about what taboo really looks like.......
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowLmao... you always get me smiling. Thanks for the suggestion decided to go on about my merry celibate way... but boy is this hard.... you better tag me calll me email me or something lol.... skhincorporated at gmail so I can be involved. Those escapades never gets old for this girl... count me in lol.
Cap or no Cap, he's still a man. And more often than not we do most of our thinking with our downstairs brain.
You only know his sun, but he could easily be Leo-dominant. I can assure you, he just wants to dip his fondue stick into your hot melting chocolate. Not that there's anything wrong with that.....unless you're a nun.
Btw, too bad you weren't here a few weeks ago when I was offering a free one night stand with Jed to help him figure out if he wants to be with a man or woman. But I think you may have swayed him to the dark side, so I'm glad it didn't work out.
In any event, things have evolved, we're more open to the crazy stuff. So if you want to join us on our second live show where we could teach you a thing or two about what taboo really looks like.......
Posted by DeadInsideMore like him being fired I’m paying him. But thank you... I saw the light lol
you can fuck him but you'll be instantly get fired
Who would bring up a personal charge he got arrested for, ask about my kids, their age, showed me great locations to go to while he’s driving me (as he took me to the store before filming)... eyeing me in the store. Offering to clean up when it wasn’t his job. The last time he left as soon as the filming ended and left me with the cameo (yet still text to say go to sleep when he knew the cameo was hitting on me). Not making this up. Then again that could’ve been all to get in my pants. Not to mention he told me about his future plans and said he could help me to get to the next level because he has experience in that area... why try to impress me but not make a real sexual move? Puzzled me. But hey, I may be thinking too much.
Oh he also told me EXACTLY where he lives even though I just gave him an area for mine.
Oh he also told me EXACTLY where he lives even though I just gave him an area for mine.
Posted by TaurusInShaniaYah? How's this for escapades? We were just propositioned: to record a double masturbation & ejaculation video, and we get $ 200 for it.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowLmao... you always get me smiling. Thanks for the suggestion decided to go on about my merry celibate way... but boy is this hard.... you better tag me calll me email me or something lol.... skhincorporated at gmail so I can be involved. Those escapades never gets old for this girl... count me in lol.
Cap or no Cap, he's still a man. And more often than not we do most of our thinking with our downstairs brain.
You only know his sun, but he could easily be Leo-dominant. I can assure you, he just wants to dip his fondue stick into your hot melting chocolate. Not that there's anything wrong with that.....unless you're a nun.
Btw, too bad you weren't here a few weeks ago when I was offering a free one night stand with Jed to help him figure out if he wants to be with a man or woman. But I think you may have swayed him to the dark side, so I'm glad it didn't work out.
In any event, things have evolved, we're more open to the crazy stuff. So if you want to join us on our second live show where we could teach you a thing or two about what taboo really looks like.......click to expand
I'm like BITCH PLEEEZE, we're worth at least $ 1000 EACH.
Back to your predicament, I'm fairly sure he's just turning on the fake charm to make you go weak at the knees. He doesn't know you long enough or well enough to want to be in a serious longterm relationship with you. Even I didn't want a relationship with Jed until a year after I met him, when I realized I was in love with him. For the first 12 months I just wanted to fuck him so hard until his eyes caved in and fuck him so hard until they pop right back out.
Fondue stick -----> your melting hot chocolate. Test him if you want: tell him you're medically forbidden from having sex for at least 6 months from now.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowFantastic idea ❤️ Also, the fact that I gave him a hint to contact me and it’s now a week and nothing made me realize I need move on. But the last text that said “thanks for rocking with me” made me feel like, he wants to me to keep coming around first. I am the one spending the money.... I’m honsetly tired of men and their games. Which is why I cut them all off... haven’t been around one in months and I’m quite content with it. Don’t pretend to want me to get ahead using me... I want to be adored. It’s time to use another videographer after this... funny, always after the second time they start doing this.... EVERYTIME. Like they can’t take that I’m independent. Is it so bad to see a woman want more for herself? Sick of it, and I’m gonna continue this celibate train.Posted by TaurusInShaniaYah? How's this for escapades? We were just propositioned: to record a double masturbation & ejaculation video, and we get $ 200 for it.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowLmao... you always get me smiling. Thanks for the suggestion decided to go on about my merry celibate way... but boy is this hard.... you better tag me calll me email me or something lol.... skhincorporated at gmail so I can be involved. Those escapades never gets old for this girl... count me in lol.
Cap or no Cap, he's still a man. And more often than not we do most of our thinking with our downstairs brain.
You only know his sun, but he could easily be Leo-dominant. I can assure you, he just wants to dip his fondue stick into your hot melting chocolate. Not that there's anything wrong with that.....unless you're a nun.
Btw, too bad you weren't here a few weeks ago when I was offering a free one night stand with Jed to help him figure out if he wants to be with a man or woman. But I think you may have swayed him to the dark side, so I'm glad it didn't work out.
In any event, things have evolved, we're more open to the crazy stuff. So if you want to join us on our second live show where we could teach you a thing or two about what taboo really looks like.......
I'm like BITCH PLEEEZE, we're worth at least $ 1000 EACH.
Back to your predicament, I'm fairly sure he's just turning on the fake charm to make you go weak at the knees. He doesn't know you long enough or well enough to want to be in a serious longterm relationship with you. Even I didn't want a relationship with Jed until a year after I met him, when I realized I was in love with him. For the first 12 months I just wanted to fuck him so hard until his eyes caved in and fuck him so hard until they pop right back out.
Fondue stick -----> your melting hot chocolate. Test him if you want: tell him you're medically forbidden from having sex for at least 6 months from now.click to expand
Thanks my love.
Ps.... no amount of money is worth what you guys have. It’s a bond that is now under lock and key... y’all deserve to have all the escapades, and it’s priceless boo. So glad you and Jed are still going strong.
Posted by TaurusInShaniaI got the feeling that he thinks he's soooo irresistible and that any girl will turn into a puddle at his feet from all that appeal oozing from his oh-so-sexy self. He's soooo stuck in the middle ages. Independent women still scare men because it makes them inferior in comparison. They think that they have all the power because they think you need THEM to put you out there via their camera lens. And when you show them how insignificant they are......Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowFantastic idea ❤️ Also, the fact that I gave him a hint to contact me and it’s now a week and nothing made me realize I need move on. But the last text that said “thanks for rocking with me” made me feel like, he wants to me to keep coming around first. I am the one spending the money.... I’m honsetly tired of men and their games. Which is why I cut them all off... haven’t been around one in months and I’m quite content with it. Don’t pretend to want me to get ahead using me... I want to be adored. It’s time to use another videographer after this... funny, always after the second time they start doing this.... EVERYTIME. Like they can’t take that I’m independent. Is it so bad to see a woman want more for herself? Sick of it, and I’m gonna continue this celibate train.Posted by TaurusInShaniaYah? How's this for escapades? We were just propositioned: to record a double masturbation & ejaculation video, and we get $ 200 for it.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowLmao... you always get me smiling. Thanks for the suggestion decided to go on about my merry celibate way... but boy is this hard.... you better tag me calll me email me or something lol.... skhincorporated at gmail so I can be involved. Those escapades never gets old for this girl... count me in lol.
Cap or no Cap, he's still a man. And more often than not we do most of our thinking with our downstairs brain.
You only know his sun, but he could easily be Leo-dominant. I can assure you, he just wants to dip his fondue stick into your hot melting chocolate. Not that there's anything wrong with that.....unless you're a nun.
Btw, too bad you weren't here a few weeks ago when I was offering a free one night stand with Jed to help him figure out if he wants to be with a man or woman. But I think you may have swayed him to the dark side, so I'm glad it didn't work out.
In any event, things have evolved, we're more open to the crazy stuff. So if you want to join us on our second live show where we could teach you a thing or two about what taboo really looks like.......
I'm like BITCH PLEEEZE, we're worth at least $ 1000 EACH.
Back to your predicament, I'm fairly sure he's just turning on the fake charm to make you go weak at the knees. He doesn't know you long enough or well enough to want to be in a serious longterm relationship with you. Even I didn't want a relationship with Jed until a year after I met him, when I realized I was in love with him. For the first 12 months I just wanted to fuck him so hard until his eyes caved in and fuck him so hard until they pop right back out.
Fondue stick -----> your melting hot chocolate. Test him if you want: tell him you're medically forbidden from having sex for at least 6 months from now.
Thanks my love.
Ps.... no amount of money is worth what you guys have. It’s a bond that is now under lock and key... y’all deserve to have all the escapades, and it’s priceless boo. So glad you and Jed are still going strong.click to expand
That's the problem with most photo/videographers in the field. They're used to believing their camcorder is their Zeus' lightning bolt with all the power. My advice would be - since you still have work to be done - maybe try an amateur who doesn't have much time in the field and is eager to gain all the experience he can get.
This would make him more malleable and agreeable to how you want things done and will immediately understand you are in power here. As soon as they see you shining up those big-ass horns, ooooh they'll turn into a quivering mess at your feet.
You know your own worth so don't ever settle for less than you deserve. That's how you end up with leeches who suck the life out of you.
Me & Jed, it's been a rollercoaster but in the past 12 months I've felt more alive than I have in the rest of my life. But like you, no matter how much I love him I still have to maintain my self respect and self-worth. So while I can forgive most things, I do not accept being walked all over or taken for granted as if I'm always gonna be there no matter what.
That's what the one-night-stand thing last month was about. In his naivety he had let a girl get too close to him. She kissed him last December and I walked out on him for 2 weeks (a dear friend of mine had also died on the same day so I was seeing red everywhere). Now the biatch started walking around calling him her boyfriend because she overheard him confessing that he is also attracted to some women, and she got it in her head that she still has a chance just because he went on two dates with her in 2016.
So I was like "well I always knew this was a risk with being in love with a presumably straight guy, so you might as well sleep with a woman now and decide what you really want". I wouldn't say that he's been coasting, but I think he got too comfortable with the belief that I'll always be here and he didn't think it would be an issue for me. And when I actually made arrangements for him to sleep with a sexy-af girl friend of mine, it was like slapping him in the face with a cold fish and it woke him up. It scared him.
He never touched her and came back to find me an hour later, but I was gone for the day without taking my phone with me and it scared him even more. He wouldn't admit it but I'm fairly sure he thought I hooked up with another guy that day. So when I got back, he talked me into moving into his second family home with him. He wants me and his family to spend more time together on a daily basis. We've been here for a couple weeks now, and believe it or not, the worst thing about it is that I have to make sure I wear clothes more often lol. There are teenagers living next door and if any one of them just walked in without knocking....I'd scar them for life. Beauty is lethal.
At the same time he had also told a white lie that ended up hurting me bad. My 33rd was early last month and he had made plans for me, but we ended up having an accident over a week prior where he tore his ACL and cracked several of my ribs. So he was gutted for ruining my birthday and in his misguided naivety he said that his family had arranged a birthday dinner for me. But on the night I discovered the dinner was not for me, but for his sisters who both announced their engagements.
I was pissed big time because it made me feel like a chump, and it reminded me of all the times my own mother & sister made my personal nights all about them. Brought back all those bad family issues. So while I was pissed at him about that, that stupidass chick started running her mouth and everything just compounded and I made those sex arrangements.
I tolerate a shitload and can forgive most things, but I'm not a doormat. Like my favorite song says "pieces of my life are not tokens", and I am not a given. You have to appreciate what I give you otherwise you don't deserve to have me. And it scared him. He's grown too dependent on my support & love and doesn't want to let me go. At the end of the day he's still the love of my life, we deal with issues and we get back to doing what we do best: live. It's not a competition over who screws up more often, but he's still a proud man and hates feeling like he's failed at something, including at being a good boyfriend. I'm his first serious relationship and he's still learning. There's no How-To guidebook for these things, especially for a relationship between a gay boy & a somewhat-straight demigod. You gotta learn on the job.
And now it's time for dinner with the Fockers.........erm......the family.
Posted by HoneyXxThank you very much for that and I will follow
Girl, it could be two things...
he's giving you game.
he's just curious. your music and videos are usually sexually... so he's curious.
caps love sex and will bang without attachment.
or... he's securing his bag. you are a paying client. he has to be nice so that y'all will continue to have a long lasting business relationship.
if he was really interested, he'll hit you up and ask you out to grab something to eat or to chill.
despite what many say on here about caps... if they like you, they'll find a way to reach out. trust. i've dated caps practically my whole life. don't chase, don't drop anymore hints. keep it strictly professional.
if he wants you, he'll make a move.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowExactly why I always switch who I work with overtime. Very interesting points. Thank you for that. I’ll come back soon. We’ll talk more about this here. Hold on to Jed and he to you. This is one relationship that would break my heart if it ended. And I mean that.Posted by TaurusInShaniaI got the feeling that he thinks he's soooo irresistible and that any girl will turn into a puddle at his feet from all that appeal oozing from his oh-so-sexy self. He's soooo stuck in the middle ages. Independent women still scare men because it makes them inferior in comparison. They think that they have all the power because they think you need THEM to put you out there via their camera lens. And when you show them how insignificant they are......Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowFantastic idea ❤️ Also, the fact that I gave him a hint to contact me and it’s now a week and nothing made me realize I need move on. But the last text that said “thanks for rocking with me” made me feel like, he wants to me to keep coming around first. I am the one spending the money.... I’m honsetly tired of men and their games. Which is why I cut them all off... haven’t been around one in months and I’m quite content with it. Don’t pretend to want me to get ahead using me... I want to be adored. It’s time to use another videographer after this... funny, always after the second time they start doing this.... EVERYTIME. Like they can’t take that I’m independent. Is it so bad to see a woman want more for herself? Sick of it, and I’m gonna continue this celibate train.Posted by TaurusInShaniaYah? How's this for escapades? We were just propositioned: to record a double masturbation & ejaculation video, and we get $ 200 for it.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowLmao... you always get me smiling. Thanks for the suggestion decided to go on about my merry celibate way... but boy is this hard.... you better tag me calll me email me or something lol.... skhincorporated at gmail so I can be involved. Those escapades never gets old for this girl... count me in lol.
Cap or no Cap, he's still a man. And more often than not we do most of our thinking with our downstairs brain.
You only know his sun, but he could easily be Leo-dominant. I can assure you, he just wants to dip his fondue stick into your hot melting chocolate. Not that there's anything wrong with that.....unless you're a nun.
Btw, too bad you weren't here a few weeks ago when I was offering a free one night stand with Jed to help him figure out if he wants to be with a man or woman. But I think you may have swayed him to the dark side, so I'm glad it didn't work out.
In any event, things have evolved, we're more open to the crazy stuff. So if you want to join us on our second live show where we could teach you a thing or two about what taboo really looks like.......
I'm like BITCH PLEEEZE, we're worth at least $ 1000 EACH.
Back to your predicament, I'm fairly sure he's just turning on the fake charm to make you go weak at the knees. He doesn't know you long enough or well enough to want to be in a serious longterm relationship with you. Even I didn't want a relationship with Jed until a year after I met him, when I realized I was in love with him. For the first 12 months I just wanted to fuck him so hard until his eyes caved in and fuck him so hard until they pop right back out.
Fondue stick -----> your melting hot chocolate. Test him if you want: tell him you're medically forbidden from having sex for at least 6 months from now.
Thanks my love.
Ps.... no amount of money is worth what you guys have. It’s a bond that is now under lock and key... y’all deserve to have all the escapades, and it’s priceless boo. So glad you and Jed are still going strong.
That's the problem with most photo/videographers in the field. They're used to believing their camcorder is their Zeus' lightning bolt with all the power. My advice would be - since you still have work to be done - maybe try an amateur who doesn't have much time in the field and is eager to gain all the experience he can get.
This would make him more malleable and agreeable to how you want things done and will immediately understand you are in power here. As soon as they see you shining up those big-ass horns, ooooh they'll turn into a quivering mess at your feet.
You know your own worth so don't ever settle for less than you deserve. That's how you end up with leeches who suck the life out of you.
Me & Jed, it's been a rollercoaster but in the past 12 months I've felt more alive than I have in the rest of my life. But like you, no matter how much I love him I still have to maintain my self respect and self-worth. So while I can forgive most things, I do not accept being walked all over or taken for granted as if I'm always gonna be there no matter what.
That's what the one-night-stand thing last month was about. In his naivety he had let a girl get too close to him. She kissed him last December and I walked out on him for 2 weeks (a dear friend of mine had also died on the same day so I was seeing red everywhere). Now the biatch started walking around calling him her boyfriend because she overheard him confessing that he is also attracted to some women, and she got it in her head that she still has a chance just because he went on two dates with her in 2016.
So I was like "well I always knew this was a risk with being in love with a presumably straight guy, so you might as well sleep with a woman now and decide what you really want". I wouldn't say that he's been coasting, but I think he got too comfortable with the belief that I'll always be here and he didn't think it would be an issue for me. And when I actually made arrangements for him to sleep with a sexy-af girl friend of mine, it was like slapping him in the face with a cold fish and it woke him up. It scared him.
He never touched her and came back to find me an hour later, but I was gone for the day without taking my phone with me and it scared him even more. He wouldn't admit it but I'm fairly sure he thought I hooked up with another guy that day. So when I got back, he talked me into moving into his second family home with him. He wants me and his family to spend more time together on a daily basis. We've been here for a couple weeks now, and believe it or not, the worst thing about it is that I have to make sure I wear clothes more often lol. There are teenagers living next door and if any one of them just walked in without knocking....I'd scar them for life. Beauty is lethal.
At the same time he had also told a white lie that ended up hurting me bad. My 33rd was early last month and he had made plans for me, but we ended up having an accident over a week prior where he tore his ACL and cracked several of my ribs. So he was gutted for ruining my birthday and in his misguided naivety he said that his family had arranged a birthday dinner for me. But on the night I discovered the dinner was not for me, but for his sisters who both announced their engagements.
I was pissed big time because it made me feel like a chump, and it reminded me of all the times my own mother & sister made my personal nights all about them. Brought back all those bad family issues. So while I was pissed at him about that, that stupidass chick started running her mouth and everything just compounded and I made those sex arrangements.
I tolerate a shitload and can forgive most things, but I'm not a doormat. Like my favorite song says "pieces of my life are not tokens", and I am not a given. You have to appreciate what I give you otherwise you don't deserve to have me. And it scared him. He's grown too dependent on my support & love and doesn't want to let me go. At the end of the day he's still the love of my life, we deal with issues and we get back to doing what we do best: live. It's not a competition over who screws up more often, but he's still a proud man and hates feeling like he's failed at something, including at being a good boyfriend. I'm his first serious relationship and he's still learning. There's no How-To guidebook for these things, especially for a relationship between a gay boy & a somewhat-straight demigod. You gotta learn on the job.
And now it's time for dinner with the Fockers.........erm......the family.click to expand
Posted by ufoLmao ok
don't do it cap campaign
Posted by HoneyXxAwe now I’m mushy lol, thank you for the advice and everything. I now see more clearer. Appreciate it a lot. Take care.Posted by TaurusInShaniayou're such a good and positive person. i hope you prosper in everything you do.Posted by HoneyXxThank you very much for that and I will follow
Girl, it could be two things...
he's giving you game.
he's just curious. your music and videos are usually sexually... so he's curious.
caps love sex and will bang without attachment.
or... he's securing his bag. you are a paying client. he has to be nice so that y'all will continue to have a long lasting business relationship.
if he was really interested, he'll hit you up and ask you out to grab something to eat or to chill.
despite what many say on here about caps... if they like you, they'll find a way to reach out. trust. i've dated caps practically my whole life. don't chase, don't drop anymore hints. keep it strictly professional.
if he wants you, he'll make a move.
blessings to you sis.click to expand
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