
Shrewdsharp
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Posted by ShrewdsharpOP, were you being neglected? Did you always have food/water/electricity/gas/clothes during those 10 years when you were together? I would like to know what you meant by him not being ambitious enough and how that adversely affected (if at all) your life together. 🙂
The best relationship of my life was the 10-year relationship I had with my Capricorn. Everyday was Christmas and every night was New Year's Eve. But unfortunately I didn't have an ambitious Capricorn at all! That normally shocks people and then it makes me feel bad because I don't know why he wasn't ambitious!
I don't regret any time that I spent with him and I'm glad I got to experience what it was like to be truly adored loved and treated like a princess a queen a jewel and a diamond. I thought we would be together forever but fate only had us share 10 years with each other!
He loved me in a way that I didn't even know that love could exist and I'm so grateful for that experience does anybody know what Linda Goodman says about the Capricorn and Libra relationship? Anyways shout out to all you wonderful Capricorn men. ?

Posted by DonJohnShe didn't say that's how they broke up lol. But I do think breaking up with someone for that reason is ..odd.
so u broke up with him because he wasn't ambitious?
lmao. the modern female.


Posted by nanobyte😆 what the hell lmaoPosted by lnana04
Not every Cap is ambitious.
Its amazing how women can get around things like that with other men, but not caps. Its like we GOTTA be doing something big... even the women.
Anyway, my mother always says she thinks her Cap was the only man that really loved her. They were together 10yrs too.
Good point, Inana. Caps are held to unfair expectations in astrology, aren't they? Kind of lame, huh?
It's times like these, that I delight in the fact that I am a bottomfeeder gemini. No one expects shit from me, so when I wipe my own ass, I get a pat on the back.
I understand your feels though, I have a capricorn moon so I privately hold myself to these standards.
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Posted by ShrewdsharpDiamond IS a jewel. Just saying.
The best relationship of my life was the 10-year relationship I had with my Capricorn. Everyday was Christmas and every night was New Year's Eve. But unfortunately I didn't have an ambitious Capricorn at all! That normally shocks people and then it makes me feel bad because I don't know why he wasn't ambitious!
I don't regret any time that I spent with him and I'm glad I got to experience what it was like to be truly adored loved and treated like a princess a queen a jewel and a diamond. I thought we would be together forever but fate only had us share 10 years with each other!
He loved me in a way that I didn't even know that love could exist and I'm so grateful for that experience does anybody know what Linda Goodman says about the Capricorn and Libra relationship? Anyways shout out to all you wonderful Capricorn men. ?


Posted by Gob_ShiteI agree!!!
In the long run, most women don't deserve to be with a Cap...

Posted by DonJohn
so u broke up with him because he wasn't ambitious?
lmao. the modern female.

Posted by lnana04
Not every Cap is ambitious.
Its amazing how women can get around things like that with other men, but not caps. Its like we GOTTA be doing something big... even the women.
Anyway, my mother always says she thinks her Cap was the only man that really loved her. They were together 10yrs too.

Posted by nanobytePosted by lnana04
Not every Cap is ambitious.
Its amazing how women can get around things like that with other men, but not caps. Its like we GOTTA be doing something big... even the women.
Anyway, my mother always says she thinks her Cap was the only man that really loved her. They were together 10yrs too.
Good point, Inana. Caps are held to unfair expectations in astrology, aren't they? Kind of lame, huh?
It's times like these, that I delight in the fact that I am a bottomfeeder gemini. No one expects shit from me, so when I wipe my own ass, I get a pat on the back.
I understand your feels though, I have a capricorn moon so I privately hold myself to these standards.
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Posted by SalamanderCandyPosted by DonJohnShe didn't say that's how they broke up lol. But I do think breaking up with someone for that reason is ..odd.
so u broke up with him because he wasn't ambitious?
lmao. the modern female.
Although not completely bogus since both genders want to find someone they find common interests with.
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Posted by SalamanderCandy
Maybe he was ambitious about not being ambitious for the wrong reasons. And he dedicated his life into chillaxing! ?
"I'm gonna be the most ambitious about not being ambitious!"
Lol 😛 I believe everyone has ambitions but not all of them have to do with career.
And that's why you probably thought he didn't have any.


Posted by Chance_12Posted by SalamanderCandyIt really depends on what level of ambition we're talking about as finances is the #1 stressor for relationships. There's probably still a difference based on gender. I've never considered occupation or level of wealth when dating someone. It's an area that I feel comfortable helping someone with. As long as they're able to pay their own expenses and they enjoy what they do, I'd prefer their happiness over some soul killing occupation.Posted by DonJohnShe didn't say that's how they broke up lol. But I do think breaking up with someone for that reason is ..odd.
so u broke up with him because he wasn't ambitious?
lmao. the modern female.
Although not completely bogus since both genders want to find someone they find common interests with.
It all depends.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Sounds like you had to move for self preversation. Why wouldn't he move with you ?

Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by SalamanderCandyPosted by DonJohnShe didn't say that's how they broke up lol. But I do think breaking up with someone for that reason is ..odd.
so u broke up with him because he wasn't ambitious?
lmao. the modern female.
Although not completely bogus since both genders want to find someone they find common interests with.
It all depends.
finally somebody with some f****** Common Sense. Of course you want to be with somebody that shares your same interests.
I was no longer interested in living in a drug-infested area with gangs on the left on the right and shootings every night I wanted something more for myself and I was interested in somebody who wanted that as well it was not the Capricorn.
He would get angry and offended when I talked about us getting out of the bad areas and coming up higher; he would get very upset so I just left it alone and begin to climb out the gutter on my own and I did!
One day I had had enough I came to the South to visit and I saw that I can have a better life especially with my daughter and I just got tired he started to feel like a weight instead of a partner so I came down south got a job started a business and never looked back.
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Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by SalamanderCandy
Maybe he was ambitious about not being ambitious for the wrong reasons. And he dedicated his life into chillaxing! ?
"I'm gonna be the most ambitious about not being ambitious!"
Lol 😛 I believe everyone has ambitions but not all of them have to do with career.
And that's why you probably thought he didn't have any.
Oh my God how did you know that? What is your sun sign? How did you know I would have never been able to describe it like that but yeah he was really ambitious about not being ambitious. And hey for the rest of you who don't mind living in a drug-infested gang -area where bullets were flying on a regular basis hey my hat's off to you but don't judge me because I don't want to be shot going up the stairs.
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Posted by Gob_ShiteI feel that every now and again when I look at him and wonder how did I get so damn blessed.
In the long run, most women don't deserve to be with a Cap...



Posted by Chance_12Posted by ShrewdsharpIt makes sense now with the details. It's hard to live in an environment where you don't feel safe and one that doesn't have great aesthetics. I think you did the right thing given that staying longer would have probably made you increasingly unhappy and things would have spiraled. We all lament certain aspects of relationships that were good to great. What makes it difficult is separating those from the unfavorable aspects. The nostalgia for the good times can definitely cloud that.Posted by Chance_12Posted by SalamanderCandyIt really depends on what level of ambition we're talking about as finances is the #1 stressor for relationships. There's probably still a difference based on gender. I've never considered occupation or level of wealth when dating someone. It's an area that I feel comfortable helping someone with. As long as they're able to pay their own expenses and they enjoy what they do, I'd prefer their happiness over some soul killing occupation.Posted by DonJohnShe didn't say that's how they broke up lol. But I do think breaking up with someone for that reason is ..odd.
so u broke up with him because he wasn't ambitious?
lmao. the modern female.
Although not completely bogus since both genders want to find someone they find common interests with.
It all depends.
uh neither one of us had the job skills to really make a good living in Los Angeles I mean a 2 - bedroom home in uh gang infested area goes for about $ 435,000. A newer house in the South where we live goes for about maybe a hundred and twenty eight thousand with 5,000 down.
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Posted by DwellingOnMove
one thing I'd say out of guess is maybe the Capricorn wanted the same as you want but in a slower pace. it is said that Aries goes NOW and HERE for success while Cap goes a slow but steady move. each approach has its good and bad sides. The Aries for example could face difficulties/damage which he/she was not prepared for because lack of long ahead planing.

Posted by Chance_12Posted by ShrewdsharpIt makes sense now with the details. It's hard to live in an environment where you don't feel safe and one that doesn't have great aesthetics. I think you did the right thing given that staying longer would have probably made you increasingly unhappy and things would have spiraled. We all lament certain aspects of relationships that were good to great. What makes it difficult is separating those from the unfavorable aspects. The nostalgia for the good times can definitely cloud that.Posted by Chance_12Posted by SalamanderCandyIt really depends on what level of ambition we're talking about as finances is the #1 stressor for relationships. There's probably still a difference based on gender. I've never considered occupation or level of wealth when dating someone. It's an area that I feel comfortable helping someone with. As long as they're able to pay their own expenses and they enjoy what they do, I'd prefer their happiness over some soul killing occupation.Posted by DonJohnShe didn't say that's how they broke up lol. But I do think breaking up with someone for that reason is ..odd.
so u broke up with him because he wasn't ambitious?
lmao. the modern female.
Although not completely bogus since both genders want to find someone they find common interests with.
It all depends.
uh neither one of us had the job skills to really make a good living in Los Angeles I mean a 2 - bedroom home in uh gang infested area goes for about $ 435,000. A newer house in the South where we live goes for about maybe a hundred and twenty eight thousand with 5,000 down.
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Posted by ShrewdsharpSo you gave this guy that you new after an amount of time it would never work out to find a guy that could be your sugar daddy...
The best relationship of my life was the 10-year relationship I had with my Capricorn. Everyday was Christmas and every night was New Year's Eve. But unfortunately I didn't have an ambitious Capricorn at all! That normally shocks people and then it makes me feel bad because I don't know why he wasn't ambitious!
I don't regret any time that I spent with him and I'm glad I got to experience what it was like to be truly adored loved and treated like a princess a queen a jewel and a diamond. I thought we would be together forever but fate only had us share 10 years with each other!
He loved me in a way that I didn't even know that love could exist and I'm so grateful for that experience does anybody know what Linda Goodman says about the Capricorn and Libra relationship? Anyways shout out to all you wonderful Capricorn men. ?

Posted by SalamanderCandyThank you for showing kindness - I screenshot your answer as well so that I can read, and re- read it.Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by SalamanderCandyPosted by DonJohnShe didn't say that's how they broke up lol. But I do think breaking up with someone for that reason is ..odd.
so u broke up with him because he wasn't ambitious?
lmao. the modern female.
Although not completely bogus since both genders want to find someone they find common interests with.
It all depends.
finally somebody with some f****** Common Sense. Of course you want to be with somebody that shares your same interests.
I was no longer interested in living in a drug-infested area with gangs on the left on the right and shootings every night I wanted something more for myself and I was interested in somebody who wanted that as well it was not the Capricorn.
He would get angry and offended when I talked about us getting out of the bad areas and coming up higher; he would get very upset so I just left it alone and begin to climb out the gutter on my own and I did!
One day I had had enough I came to the South to visit and I saw that I can have a better life especially with my daughter and I just got tired he started to feel like a weight instead of a partner so I came down south got a job started a business and never looked back.
" I came to the South to visit and I saw that I can have a better life especially with my daughter and I just got tired he started to feel like a weight instead of a partner so I came down south got a job started a business and never looked back."
Woooow. Mad respect to you- you did the best thing you could for yourself, and for your daughter.
She might be a little sad (or relieved too) 'bout it at first, but she will definitely thank you at some point in her life.
He'd get offended about you saying you wanted to get out of bad areas? .... ... ...
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So was he blind to the safety of his family or what?
-.-
It's like, "Yeah that man is perfect romantically but he insists on having his family play russian roulette because he gets offended if we don't".
xD
And it's not like you were asking him to pull up all of the weight. Hell, you even started your own business!
So not only did you get out of a relationship before it spiraled down to bitterness (since it was starting to feel like a weight more than a partner), but you got out of there yourself with your daughter and started your own business dammn gurl.
Are you sure you're not the capricorn? xD lmao jk.
GOOD JOB.
You need a pat on the back.
As for the man, you never intended to hurt him and you did what was best.
Not all best decisions are painless but I'm proud of you.
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Posted by piscesmoon2What the hell are you talking about you need to read the post before you jump off into making assumptions that you don't know what you're talking about what the f*** are you talking about a sugar daddy I got my own job my own business and yes this year after 3 years of being away from the Capricorn I'm in a new relationship you f****** idiotPosted by ShrewdsharpSo you gave this guy that you new after an amount of time it would never work out to find a guy that could be your sugar daddy...
The best relationship of my life was the 10-year relationship I had with my Capricorn. Everyday was Christmas and every night was New Year's Eve. But unfortunately I didn't have an ambitious Capricorn at all! That normally shocks people and then it makes me feel bad because I don't know why he wasn't ambitious!
I don't regret any time that I spent with him and I'm glad I got to experience what it was like to be truly adored loved and treated like a princess a queen a jewel and a diamond. I thought we would be together forever but fate only had us share 10 years with each other!
He loved me in a way that I didn't even know that love could exist and I'm so grateful for that experience does anybody know what Linda Goodman says about the Capricorn and Libra relationship? Anyways shout out to all you wonderful Capricorn men. ?
or
you wasted your best years on a guy you new it would never last... Now you expect to find a guy after you gave him that... because now you are ready for commitment... you are done playing...
Woman need to wake up...
I have also noticed how cap's seem to fall for the big talkers but often they is no fallow through...
Piscesmoon
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Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by DwellingOnMove
one thing I'd say out of guess is maybe the Capricorn wanted the same as you want but in a slower pace. it is said that Aries goes NOW and HERE for success while Cap goes a slow but steady move. each approach has its good and bad sides. The Aries for example could face difficulties/damage which he/she was not prepared for because lack of long ahead planing.
I saw no changes in 10 years no steadiness of pace nothing.
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Posted by piscesmoon2How about this? How about I just block you and then we don't have to worry about each other's posts and comments.Posted by ShrewdsharpSo you gave this guy that you new after an amount of time it would never work out to find a guy that could be your sugar daddy...
The best relationship of my life was the 10-year relationship I had with my Capricorn. Everyday was Christmas and every night was New Year's Eve. But unfortunately I didn't have an ambitious Capricorn at all! That normally shocks people and then it makes me feel bad because I don't know why he wasn't ambitious!
I don't regret any time that I spent with him and I'm glad I got to experience what it was like to be truly adored loved and treated like a princess a queen a jewel and a diamond. I thought we would be together forever but fate only had us share 10 years with each other!
He loved me in a way that I didn't even know that love could exist and I'm so grateful for that experience does anybody know what Linda Goodman says about the Capricorn and Libra relationship? Anyways shout out to all you wonderful Capricorn men. ?
or
you wasted your best years on a guy you new it would never last... Now you expect to find a guy after you gave him that... because now you are ready for commitment... you are done playing...
Woman need to wake up...
I have also noticed how cap's seem to fall for the big talkers but often they is no fallow through...
Piscesmoon
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Posted by ShrewdsharpHow do woman stay with a man for 10 years and don't get married or worry about having a real future...Posted by DonJohn
so u broke up with him because he wasn't ambitious?
lmao. the modern female.
Can you quote the exact line that says that I broke up with him because he was not ambitious. I was under the impression that we broke up for other reasons but do you know something about us that I don't know? If his lack of ambition was an issue do you think I would have been there for a decade you f****** idiot!
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Posted by DwellingOnMoveI don't know what afflictions he had in his chart but I know that in 10 years he never got a car.Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by DwellingOnMove
one thing I'd say out of guess is maybe the Capricorn wanted the same as you want but in a slower pace. it is said that Aries goes NOW and HERE for success while Cap goes a slow but steady move. each approach has its good and bad sides. The Aries for example could face difficulties/damage which he/she was not prepared for because lack of long ahead planing.
I saw no changes in 10 years no steadiness of pace nothing.
you lived there 10 years without being shooted? jk
well, your story is very interesting. cause this is not what we read in astro texts about Cap sign. it makes me curious (but I have no time left. unfortunately) to know what his rationalization was, how his birth chart looked like. was he an idealist? did he say he wanted to stay there to be role model for kids? did he have his family there and did not want to distance himself from them?click to expand
Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by piscesmoon2What the hell are you talking about you need to read the post before you jump off into making assumptions that you don't know what you're talking about what the f*** are you talking about a sugar daddy I got my own job my own business and yes this year after 3 years of being away from the Capricorn I'm in a new relationship you f****** idiotPosted by ShrewdsharpSo you gave this guy that you new after an amount of time it would never work out to find a guy that could be your sugar daddy...
The best relationship of my life was the 10-year relationship I had with my Capricorn. Everyday was Christmas and every night was New Year's Eve. But unfortunately I didn't have an ambitious Capricorn at all! That normally shocks people and then it makes me feel bad because I don't know why he wasn't ambitious!
I don't regret any time that I spent with him and I'm glad I got to experience what it was like to be truly adored loved and treated like a princess a queen a jewel and a diamond. I thought we would be together forever but fate only had us share 10 years with each other!
He loved me in a way that I didn't even know that love could exist and I'm so grateful for that experience does anybody know what Linda Goodman says about the Capricorn and Libra relationship? Anyways shout out to all you wonderful Capricorn men. ?
or
you wasted your best years on a guy you new it would never last... Now you expect to find a guy after you gave him that... because now you are ready for commitment... you are done playing...
Woman need to wake up...
I have also noticed how cap's seem to fall for the big talkers but often they is no fallow through...
Piscesmoon
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Posted by D0min0Oh it's definitely a true story - housing market in California is ridiculous and the housing market down south is substantially cheaper.
congrats if your story is true and sorry for your ex. Would probably be great if it wasn't for that one trait of his. Things could have turned out differently.
but eh...it takes time to learn the true person, eh?

Posted by Shrewdsharp
The best relationship of my life was the 10-year relationship I had with my Capricorn. Everyday was Christmas and every night was New Year's Eve. But unfortunately I didn't have an ambitious Capricorn at all! That normally shocks people and then it makes me feel bad because I don't know why he wasn't ambitious!
I don't regret any time that I spent with him and I'm glad I got to experience what it was like to be truly adored loved and treated like a princess a queen a jewel and a diamond. I thought we would be together forever but fate only had us share 10 years with each other!
He loved me in a way that I didn't even know that love could exist and I'm so grateful for that experience does anybody know what Linda Goodman says about the Capricorn and Libra relationship? Anyways shout out to all you wonderful Capricorn men. ?
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I don't regret any time that I spent with him and I'm glad I got to experience what it was like to be truly adored loved and treated like a princess a queen a jewel and a diamond. I thought we would be together forever but fate only had us share 10 years with each other!
He loved me in a way that I didn't even know that love could exist and I'm so grateful for that experience does anybody know what Linda Goodman says about the Capricorn and Libra relationship? Anyways shout out to all you wonderful Capricorn men. ?