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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them


When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?

Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?


I've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lol
Yes they do, they don't like whiny girls, if you can take and answer back at their sarcastic comments you're pre-approved lol
sarcasm is my speciality, I've just learnt that it's wasted on most as they don't get it and take it to personally.


I know! usually Caps and Taurus guys are good on sarcasm. I tried with my ex libra and he'd get upset all the time ?
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I try not to use it on the internet but sometimes I can't help myself ?

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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them


When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?


I posted a thread the other day about a Cap man who recently told me I'm like a trophy to him. he has also said that he is in love with me.


you finished your study, and he don't, you have kids and he don't. yes you are a trophy, in his mind it was impossible to handle a women like you. what do you think right now


Different Caps ? Cap #4 is still around texting me every day and sends me videos but I haven't seen him since my birthday 3 weeks ago

Is this the one that is married?


Yes, or "separated" He doesn't go out to clubs but I have seen his wife at clubs with her friends and dancing with guys so it makes sense when he says that they're not together and that she told him that she understands that one day he will want to be with someone he loves so she's ready to step away.

He brought her from another country and she has no family here so he told me that one main rule is that he will take her of her financially forever. She doesn't work.

He's going to latin america for 7 months... when i asked him why he wants to be with me if hes not gonna be around he said: It's only to be able to provide for the people I love and That includes you and the girls. (Besides his kids and wife) Just want all three of you in my life.

Also when he got married it was a huge surprise and he had kids right away so I asked him why did he marry her and he said bc she was the only woman I told exactly what I wanted and took it without question.

(I know he had a lot of failed relationships and apparently I'm the one he loves... the reason why I hold back is bc I don't trust him yet, and I told him that when I realized I didn't want to be with my ex, I left him, I dropped out of school, to work full time, take care of my kids 24/7, I did a lot to get out of that relationship to be able to be with someone else later)

also, I have never suggested him to leave her for me... and I haven't assured him that if he does move out I will be with him.


Jesus I can't keep up with you! loool how many men in your life and all caps

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When I said I'm a Cap Magnet I really meant it!!!!

??

My mentor has always been around me but now that I'm single and available to date, he came out of nowhere saying he's in love with me. Which shocked me too.

He's my friend too so he knows about the guys I've seen and talked to, but he knows that this new Cap is someome Im seriously interested in..so the past 2 weeks he's being more persistent.

I've never had anything with anyone else besides the new Cap which is the one I've been "whining" here about. lol
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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them


When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?


I posted a thread the other day about a Cap man who recently told me I'm like a trophy to him. he has also said that he is in love with me.


you finished your study, and he don't, you have kids and he don't. yes you are a trophy, in his mind it was impossible to handle a women like you. what do you think right now


Different Caps ? Cap #4 is still around texting me every day and sends me videos but I haven't seen him since my birthday 3 weeks ago

Is this the one that is married?


Yes, or "separated" He doesn't go out to clubs but I have seen his wife at clubs with her friends and dancing with guys so it makes sense when he says that they're not together and that she told him that she understands that one day he will want to be with someone he loves so she's ready to step away.

He brought her from another country and she has no family here so he told me that one main rule is that he will take her of her financially forever. She doesn't work.

He's going to latin america for 7 months... when i asked him why he wants to be with me if hes not gonna be around he said: It's only to be able to provide for the people I love and That includes you and the girls. (Besides his kids and wife) Just want all three of you in my life.

Also when he got married it was a huge surprise and he had kids right away so I asked him why did he marry her and he said bc she was the only woman I told exactly what I wanted and took it without question.

(I know he had a lot of failed relationships and apparently I'm the one he loves... the reason why I hold back is bc I don't trust him yet, and I told him that when I realized I didn't want to be with my ex, I left him, I dropped out of school, to work full time, take care of my kids 24/7, I did a lot to get out of that relationship to be able to be with someone else later)

also, I have never suggested him to leave her for me... and I haven't assured him that if he does move out I will be with him.


Jesus I can't keep up with you! loool how many men in your life and all caps


When I said I'm a Cap Magnet I really meant it!!!!

??

My mentor has always been around me but now that I'm single and available to date, he came out of nowhere saying he's in love with me. Which shocked me too.

He's my friend too so he knows about the guys I've seen and talked to, but he knows that this new Cap is someome Im seriously interested in..so the past 2 weeks he's being more persistent.

I've never had anything with anyone else besides the new Cap which is the one I've been "whining" here about. lol
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I don't understand this mentor thing, I guess it's American ??‍♀️.

Yes that guy sounds like trouble to me from what I've read in the past. Sorry just my opinion.
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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them


When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?


I posted a thread the other day about a Cap man who recently told me I'm like a trophy to him. he has also said that he is in love with me.


you finished your study, and he don't, you have kids and he don't. yes you are a trophy, in his mind it was impossible to handle a women like you. what do you think right now


Different Caps ? Cap #4 is still around texting me every day and sends me videos but I haven't seen him since my birthday 3 weeks ago

Is this the one that is married?


Yes, or "separated" He doesn't go out to clubs but I have seen his wife at clubs with her friends and dancing with guys so it makes sense when he says that they're not together and that she told him that she understands that one day he will want to be with someone he loves so she's ready to step away.

He brought her from another country and she has no family here so he told me that one main rule is that he will take her of her financially forever. She doesn't work.

He's going to latin america for 7 months... when i asked him why he wants to be with me if hes not gonna be around he said: It's only to be able to provide for the people I love and That includes you and the girls. (Besides his kids and wife) Just want all three of you in my life.

Also when he got married it was a huge surprise and he had kids right away so I asked him why did he marry her and he said bc she was the only woman I told exactly what I wanted and took it without question.

(I know he had a lot of failed relationships and apparently I'm the one he loves... the reason why I hold back is bc I don't trust him yet, and I told him that when I realized I didn't want to be with my ex, I left him, I dropped out of school, to work full time, take care of my kids 24/7, I did a lot to get out of that relationship to be able to be with someone else later)

also, I have never suggested him to leave her for me... and I haven't assured him that if he does move out I will be with him.


Jesus I can't keep up with you! loool how many men in your life and all caps


When I said I'm a Cap Magnet I really meant it!!!!

??

My mentor has always been around me but now that I'm single and available to date, he came out of nowhere saying he's in love with me. Which shocked me too.

He's my friend too so he knows about the guys I've seen and talked to, but he knows that this new Cap is someome Im seriously interested in..so the past 2 weeks he's being more persistent.

I've never had anything with anyone else besides the new Cap which is the one I've been "whining" here about. lol

I don't understand this mentor thing, I guess it's American ??‍♀️.

Yes that guy sounds like trouble to me from what I've read in the past. Sorry just my opinion.

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Business mentor, we have a business partnership but he's already been in the business industry for years so he's mentoring me on how to do business at a higher level.
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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them


When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?


I posted a thread the other day about a Cap man who recently told me I'm like a trophy to him. he has also said that he is in love with me.


you finished your study, and he don't, you have kids and he don't. yes you are a trophy, in his mind it was impossible to handle a women like you. what do you think right now


Different Caps ? Cap #4 is still around texting me every day and sends me videos but I haven't seen him since my birthday 3 weeks ago

Is this the one that is married?


Yes, or "separated" He doesn't go out to clubs but I have seen his wife at clubs with her friends and dancing with guys so it makes sense when he says that they're not together and that she told him that she understands that one day he will want to be with someone he loves so she's ready to step away.

He brought her from another country and she has no family here so he told me that one main rule is that he will take her of her financially forever. She doesn't work.

He's going to latin america for 7 months... when i asked him why he wants to be with me if hes not gonna be around he said: It's only to be able to provide for the people I love and That includes you and the girls. (Besides his kids and wife) Just want all three of you in my life.

Also when he got married it was a huge surprise and he had kids right away so I asked him why did he marry her and he said bc she was the only woman I told exactly what I wanted and took it without question.

(I know he had a lot of failed relationships and apparently I'm the one he loves... the reason why I hold back is bc I don't trust him yet, and I told him that when I realized I didn't want to be with my ex, I left him, I dropped out of school, to work full time, take care of my kids 24/7, I did a lot to get out of that relationship to be able to be with someone else later)

also, I have never suggested him to leave her for me... and I haven't assured him that if he does move out I will be with him.


Jesus I can't keep up with you! loool how many men in your life and all caps


When I said I'm a Cap Magnet I really meant it!!!!

??

My mentor has always been around me but now that I'm single and available to date, he came out of nowhere saying he's in love with me. Which shocked me too.

He's my friend too so he knows about the guys I've seen and talked to, but he knows that this new Cap is someome Im seriously interested in..so the past 2 weeks he's being more persistent.

I've never had anything with anyone else besides the new Cap which is the one I've been "whining" here about. lol

I don't understand this mentor thing, I guess it's American ??‍♀️.

Yes that guy sounds like trouble to me from what I've read in the past. Sorry just my opinion.


Business mentor, we have a business partnership but he's already been in the business industry for years so he's mentoring me on how to do business at a higher level.

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Argh I'm with you now ?
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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them


When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
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I think the female he's in a relationship with is older than him too. She's 2 years younger than me.
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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them


When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?
I think the female he's in a relationship with is older than him too. She's 2 years younger than me.
stop lookin them on facebook.
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Lol, I don't have a Facebook.

My friend showed me from hers though.
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All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...


"scare mongering" NY dumb fools... The caps I know always straightforward
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That's what I hear.. Very straightforward.. say what they mean and mean what they say.. He's told me that also.. I never have to question his word.. he'll tell me like it is whether I like what he says or not.. Honesty.. That's the key to any successful relationship.. We're not "FWB" ...not "just friends".. not seeing where things go.. He asked me straight up to be his "LADY" on our first date.. a month after we met..

but still.. all this negativity.. how they cheat.. etc is redic! My mind plays tricks on my heart & vice versa.. What can I say.. Im A Scorp Sun with a Libra Moon.. o_O & I'm a woman with emotions and feelings.. No one likes to be played with...

There's villians in every sign.. So hey.. I like to be optimistic.. 🙂 I got Prince Charming!!
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All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...


"scare mongering" NY dumb fools... The caps I know always straightforward
That's what I hear.. Very straightforward.. say what they mean and mean what they say.. He's told me that also.. I never have to question his word.. he'll tell me like it is whether I like what he says or not.. Honesty.. That's the key to any successful relationship.. We're not "FWB" ...not "just friends".. not seeing where things go.. He asked me straight up to be his "LADY" on our first date.. a month after we met..

but still.. all this negativity.. how they cheat.. etc is redic! My mind plays tricks on my heart & vice versa.. What can I say.. Im A Scorp Sun with a Libra Moon.. o_O & I'm a woman with emotions and feelings.. No one likes to be played with...

There's villians in every sign.. So hey.. I like to be optimistic.. 🙂 I got Prince Charming!!
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I wouldn't put "cheating" as a Cap trait. I've known caps who cheat and caps who don't.

Just like other signs...

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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
When ladylibra come on dxp she told us that she has kids and working on the same environnement as his cap, but look the relation of poison_ivy, the capricorn has kids and dont work on the same place. instant in couple.

i mean if he was the boss and didnt risk to have problem problem he won't care about that flag but he's not,

kids are the most important thing in a whole life, and you already have two ? one ? i dont remenber. i remenber here a scorpio girls she has a daughter the cap man still finished to married with her. the point is

if i havnt finished my carrier, i mean i'm not at the place i want to be, i wont have child'. the second if i'm not the place where i want to be but i still have child, i wont mind to be in couple with someone who has child.

i think you both are compatible souls but you met too soon or too late



It makes sense..

I have 1 kid he has 2.. We are LDR ... about an hour and a half apart... He's trying to start another biz besides his other 4 jobs.. & he just got pnuemonia.. so that's taking a toll.. I check up on him but he's not as proactive.. It's ok. I'm not worried... I'm his first gf in 3 years after his kids mom.. He dated of course between the time before meeting me... but the fact that he chose me after so much dating...? I can see I'm important.. But what about when he says to me recently "You live too far" (playing around but complaining) Then when I say "ok, we can fix that, I'll move close to you..." etc, he says "no.. You have your place, job, biz etc I don't want you to drop all that.." I tell him "Im not dropping it.. Just making our relationship stronger.. by moving closer... I can move my biz and my place.. I'll find another 9-5.. I'm in accounting.. I want to be with you.." I understand he doesn't wanna be selfish.. then why complain..?


I'm not sure how long you have been together but would suggest you keep an "eye" on his behavior when you bring up suggesting of stabilising your relationship....

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It's still early.. going on 7 months.. I'm just saying.. Why complain about the fact that I live far & when I ask him is he satisfied with our relationship and the distance or the amount of physical time we spend together, he says, "No, I "need" to see you more".. Okay.. when I say I'm willing to uproot for the sake of grounding the relationship, & seeing more of each other, he says he doesn't want me to drop everything for him.. Okay... fine.. Maybe he doesn't want to be selfish..That's the only thing I can think of..
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All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...


"scare mongering" NY dumb fools... The caps I know always straightforward
That's what I hear.. Very straightforward.. say what they mean and mean what they say.. He's told me that also.. I never have to question his word.. he'll tell me like it is whether I like what he says or not.. Honesty.. That's the key to any successful relationship.. We're not "FWB" ...not "just friends".. not seeing where things go.. He asked me straight up to be his "LADY" on our first date.. a month after we met..

but still.. all this negativity.. how they cheat.. etc is redic! My mind plays tricks on my heart & vice versa.. What can I say.. Im A Scorp Sun with a Libra Moon.. o_O & I'm a woman with emotions and feelings.. No one likes to be played with...

There's villians in every sign.. So hey.. I like to be optimistic.. 🙂 I got Prince Charming!!
Earth signs are normally straightforward.. Ask them a question they will give you an honest answer but be prepared to hear the TRUTH but most of these girls can't handle the TRUTH so they walk around blind and then blame the guy when it comes crashing down their ears..

His actions alone told the story of how he truly felt about her... She refused to see it and now blaming him when she should look 5o herself for the blame...
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Where am I blaming him?
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All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...


"scare mongering" NY dumb fools... The caps I know always straightforward
That's what I hear.. Very straightforward.. say what they mean and mean what they say.. He's told me that also.. I never have to question his word.. he'll tell me like it is whether I like what he says or not.. Honesty.. That's the key to any successful relationship.. We're not "FWB" ...not "just friends".. not seeing where things go.. He asked me straight up to be his "LADY" on our first date.. a month after we met..

but still.. all this negativity.. how they cheat.. etc is redic! My mind plays tricks on my heart & vice versa.. What can I say.. Im A Scorp Sun with a Libra Moon.. o_O & I'm a woman with emotions and feelings.. No one likes to be played with...

There's villians in every sign.. So hey.. I like to be optimistic.. 🙂 I got Prince Charming!!
I wouldn't put "cheating" as a Cap trait. I've known caps who cheat and caps who don't.

Just like other signs...

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I get it.. i read into these forums and just get nervous is all.. They are different a different species of men than what I'm used to.. like I said, there is a villain in every sign. Us Scorps got a bad rep too..
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trivia: When capricorn love you deeply biggest chance also he will leave you, because they do believe in true loves but afraid of it.
The fear excuse gets old. I swear sometimes I think Cap men are really secret Sags with a PR firm (public image). Yall don't really want to commit. Relationships are just accessories.
Yup, i've been saying that Capricorn & Sagittarius men are neck and neck on the heartbreaker chart.

the only difference is Caps are more low-key about it. Sags just ain't shit on a high key.



lol legit and I have dealt with tons of Sags only a few romantically but I was with my son's father from almost 6 years the level of selfishness is unreal but that could just be him

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I dated a very selfish Sag - we sure did butt heads and I gave it all back to him -
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All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...


"scare mongering" NY dumb fools... The caps I know always straightforward
That's what I hear.. Very straightforward.. say what they mean and mean what they say.. He's told me that also.. I never have to question his word.. he'll tell me like it is whether I like what he says or not.. Honesty.. That's the key to any successful relationship.. We're not "FWB" ...not "just friends".. not seeing where things go.. He asked me straight up to be his "LADY" on our first date.. a month after we met..

but still.. all this negativity.. how they cheat.. etc is redic! My mind plays tricks on my heart & vice versa.. What can I say.. Im A Scorp Sun with a Libra Moon.. o_O & I'm a woman with emotions and feelings.. No one likes to be played with...

There's villians in every sign.. So hey.. I like to be optimistic.. 🙂 I got Prince Charming!!
Earth signs are normally straightforward.. Ask them a question they will give you an honest answer but be prepared to hear the TRUTH but most of these girls can't handle the TRUTH so they walk around blind and then blame the guy when it comes crashing down their ears..

His actions alone told the story of how he truly felt about her... She refused to see it and now blaming him when she should look 5o herself for the blame...
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I don't know her story well with her guy.. I was just giving my experience and opinion..

I agree that earth signs are honest.. & they tell you like it is.. You don't necessarily have to read between the lines with them.. I'm a tough cookie myself.. but not so serious which he says he likes about me.. I just get it I guess... some women don't. BUT there are cap "villains".. they play games.. & it isn't right either.. Again not sure off her cap story..
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it's definitely not ALL Cap men, just like it's definitely not ALL Sagittarius men. but out of all the zodiac signs, Caps, Leos & Sags tend to be higher on the bad rep meter.
Just like Pisces females seem to get a bad rep off the guys on dxp ??‍♀️
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I wish I could find one to date. The ones I am friends with are all amazing women. The fish I try to date however, are just way too damn flaky. But, man are they beautiful. *shrugs*
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it's definitely not ALL Cap men, just like it's definitely not ALL Sagittarius men. but out of all the zodiac signs, Caps, Leos & Sags tend to be higher on the bad rep meter.
Just like Pisces females seem to get a bad rep off the guys on dxp ??‍♀️
I wish I could find one to date. The ones I am friends with are all amazing women. The fish I try to date however, are just way too damn flaky. But, man are they beautiful. *shrugs*
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That started off so well then you said flaky ? everyone on here uses that word. Can you elaborate on what you class as flakey?
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it's definitely not ALL Cap men, just like it's definitely not ALL Sagittarius men. but out of all the zodiac signs, Caps, Leos & Sags tend to be higher on the bad rep meter.
Just like Pisces females seem to get a bad rep off the guys on dxp ??‍♀️
I wish I could find one to date. The ones I am friends with are all amazing women. The fish I try to date however, are just way too damn flaky. But, man are they beautiful. *shrugs*
That started off so well then you said flaky ? everyone on here uses that word. Can you elaborate on what you class as flakey?
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Making plans then canceling at the last minute.

Being non-committal when making a plan.

Showing up late as fuck.

Shit like that.
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Posted by youngali
it's definitely not ALL Cap men, just like it's definitely not ALL Sagittarius men. but out of all the zodiac signs, Caps, Leos & Sags tend to be higher on the bad rep meter.
Just like Pisces females seem to get a bad rep off the guys on dxp ??‍♀️
I wish I could find one to date. The ones I am friends with are all amazing women. The fish I try to date however, are just way too damn flaky. But, man are they beautiful. *shrugs*
That started off so well then you said flaky ? everyone on here uses that word. Can you elaborate on what you class as flakey?
Making plans then canceling at the last minute.

Being non-committal when making a plan.

Showing up late as fuck.

Shit like that.
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What!! That's my biggest pet peeve I hate it when people cancel plans last minute. You free up your time for someone and then they bail that's just rude.

I'm also one of those people that when I say I'll do something I'll do it. When you have a group of friends and you have the ones that always say they are up for it but you know they will bail. That irritates the shit out of me. If I'm not a 100% sure I'll always say can I let you know nearer the time. Once I'm in, I'm in unless something out of my control happens.

I'll admit I used to have a thing with time keeping (usually 15 minutes behind schedule) and I'd always text or call to say I was running late but I've changed as I've got older. It was never intentional but I know how much it annoys people so I'm never late these days. However all my clocks in my house and my watch are 15 minutes fast!!! It works though ?
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Posted by youngali
it's definitely not ALL Cap men, just like it's definitely not ALL Sagittarius men. but out of all the zodiac signs, Caps, Leos & Sags tend to be higher on the bad rep meter.
Just like Pisces females seem to get a bad rep off the guys on dxp ??‍♀️
I wish I could find one to date. The ones I am friends with are all amazing women. The fish I try to date however, are just way too damn flaky. But, man are they beautiful. *shrugs*
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maybe try getting some Air! .... Aqua maybe ?
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Posted by youngali
it's definitely not ALL Cap men, just like it's definitely not ALL Sagittarius men. but out of all the zodiac signs, Caps, Leos & Sags tend to be higher on the bad rep meter.
Just like Pisces females seem to get a bad rep off the guys on dxp ??‍♀️
I wish I could find one to date. The ones I am friends with are all amazing women. The fish I try to date however, are just way too damn flaky. But, man are they beautiful. *shrugs*


maybe try getting some Air! .... Aqua maybe ?

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Maybe because I'm Libra dominant I'm not like those other Pisces hahaha
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Posted by youngali
it's definitely not ALL Cap men, just like it's definitely not ALL Sagittarius men. but out of all the zodiac signs, Caps, Leos & Sags tend to be higher on the bad rep meter.
Just like Pisces females seem to get a bad rep off the guys on dxp ??‍♀️
I wish I could find one to date. The ones I am friends with are all amazing women. The fish I try to date however, are just way too damn flaky. But, man are they beautiful. *shrugs*


maybe try getting some Air! .... Aqua maybe ?


Maybe because I'm Libra dominant I'm not like those other Pisces hahaha
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Wow you mention this at the same time you post "as a pisces l dont drink and l hate drugs" what a passive agressive little thing you are ....hmm hmm....
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Posted by youngali
it's definitely not ALL Cap men, just like it's definitely not ALL Sagittarius men. but out of all the zodiac signs, Caps, Leos & Sags tend to be higher on the bad rep meter.
Just like Pisces females seem to get a bad rep off the guys on dxp ??‍♀️
I wish I could find one to date. The ones I am friends with are all amazing women. The fish I try to date however, are just way too damn flaky. But, man are they beautiful. *shrugs*


maybe try getting some Air! .... Aqua maybe ?


Maybe because I'm Libra dominant I'm not like those other Pisces hahaha
Wow you mention this at the same time you post "as a pisces l dont drink and l hate drugs" what a passive agressive little thing you are ....hmm hmm....
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Why do you keep saying I'm passive aggressive?

Those other Pisces was referring to The Pisces Darren was describing not pieces as a whole!! The above was a joke hence the haha because I couldn't relate to the flaky comment so i said maybe it's because I'm Libra dominant.

Does it irritate you that much that I didn't match your definition of a Pisces? and if you're going to quote me, at least get it right. I never said I don't drink, I said I don't drink unless I go out which isn't very often.
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Posted by youngali
it's definitely not ALL Cap men, just like it's definitely not ALL Sagittarius men. but out of all the zodiac signs, Caps, Leos & Sags tend to be higher on the bad rep meter.
Just like Pisces females seem to get a bad rep off the guys on dxp ??‍♀️
I wish I could find one to date. The ones I am friends with are all amazing women. The fish I try to date however, are just way too damn flaky. But, man are they beautiful. *shrugs*


maybe try getting some Air! .... Aqua maybe ?


Maybe because I'm Libra dominant I'm not like those other Pisces hahaha
Wow you mention this at the same time you post "as a pisces l dont drink and l hate drugs" what a passive agressive little thing you are ....hmm hmm....

Why do you keep saying I'm passive aggressive?

Those other Pisces was referring to The Pisces Darren was describing not pieces as a whole!! The above was a joke hence the haha because I couldn't relate to the flaky comment so i said maybe it's because I'm Libra dominant.

Does it irritate you that much that I didn't match your definition of a Pisces? and if you're going to quote me, at least get it right. I never said I don't drink, I said I don't drink unless I go out which isn't very often.

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To me : "as a pisces, l dont drink or take drugs"

To another guy at the exact same time : "l'm not so much a Pisces l'm a Libra dominant hihi"

??
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All the negative talk about Cap men worry me... 😢 I'd like to hope I have a good one...


"scare mongering" NY dumb fools... The caps I know always straightforward
That's what I hear.. Very straightforward.. say what they mean and mean what they say.. He's told me that also.. I never have to question his word.. he'll tell me like it is whether I like what he says or not.. Honesty.. That's the key to any successful relationship.. We're not "FWB" ...not "just friends".. not seeing where things go.. He asked me straight up to be his "LADY" on our first date.. a month after we met..

but still.. all this negativity.. how they cheat.. etc is redic! My mind plays tricks on my heart & vice versa.. What can I say.. Im A Scorp Sun with a Libra Moon.. o_O & I'm a woman with emotions and feelings.. No one likes to be played with...

There's villians in every sign.. So hey.. I like to be optimistic.. 🙂 I got Prince Charming!!
Earth signs are normally straightforward.. Ask them a question they will give you an honest answer but be prepared to hear the TRUTH but most of these girls can't handle the TRUTH so they walk around blind and then blame the guy when it comes crashing down their ears..

His actions alone told the story of how he truly felt about her... She refused to see it and now blaming him when she should look 5o herself for the blame...
Where am I blaming him?
Your opening post screams "blame" loud and clear... It's too late to back track now. ?
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How so? Again - where am I blaming him? And how am I backtracking?

Use my words. Quote where I'm blaming him instead of just expressing anger and hurt, you fucking wanna be Messiah piece of shit.

Really? JohnTheBaptist? Aim a little higher why don't you.
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Posted by youngali
it's definitely not ALL Cap men, just like it's definitely not ALL Sagittarius men. but out of all the zodiac signs, Caps, Leos & Sags tend to be higher on the bad rep meter.
Just like Pisces females seem to get a bad rep off the guys on dxp ??‍♀️
I wish I could find one to date. The ones I am friends with are all amazing women. The fish I try to date however, are just way too damn flaky. But, man are they beautiful. *shrugs*
That started off so well then you said flaky ? everyone on here uses that word. Can you elaborate on what you class as flakey?
Earth signs should keep fish and crabs off the menu... You'll get food poisoning....
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Charming
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Posted by WonderWoman14
Posted by youngali
it's definitely not ALL Cap men, just like it's definitely not ALL Sagittarius men. but out of all the zodiac signs, Caps, Leos & Sags tend to be higher on the bad rep meter.
Just like Pisces females seem to get a bad rep off the guys on dxp ??‍♀️
I wish I could find one to date. The ones I am friends with are all amazing women. The fish I try to date however, are just way too damn flaky. But, man are they beautiful. *shrugs*


maybe try getting some Air! .... Aqua maybe ?


Maybe because I'm Libra dominant I'm not like those other Pisces hahaha
Wow you mention this at the same time you post "as a pisces l dont drink and l hate drugs" what a passive agressive little thing you are ....hmm hmm....

Why do you keep saying I'm passive aggressive?

Those other Pisces was referring to The Pisces Darren was describing not pieces as a whole!! The above was a joke hence the haha because I couldn't relate to the flaky comment so i said maybe it's because I'm Libra dominant.

Does it irritate you that much that I didn't match your definition of a Pisces? and if you're going to quote me, at least get it right. I never said I don't drink, I said I don't drink unless I go out which isn't very often.


To me : "as a pisces, l dont drink or take drugs"

To another guy at the exact same time : "l'm not so much a Pisces l'm a Libra dominant hihi"

??
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Again I never said I don't drink!!!!! And secondly I said "maybe" because I'm Libra dominant I'm not so much like a Pisces. I was replying @aerazo who's female. Not actually sure why that even matters.

It was a light hearted joke, clearly not allowed to have a sense of humour on here.

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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
When ladylibra come on dxp she told us that she has kids and working on the same environnement as his cap, but look the relation of poison_ivy, the capricorn has kids and dont work on the same place. instant in couple.

i mean if he was the boss and didnt risk to have problem problem he won't care about that flag but he's not,

kids are the most important thing in a whole life, and you already have two ? one ? i dont remenber. i remenber here a scorpio girls she has a daughter the cap man still finished to married with her. the point is

if i havnt finished my carrier, i mean i'm not at the place i want to be, i wont have child'. the second if i'm not the place where i want to be but i still have child, i wont mind to be in couple with someone who has child.

i think you both are compatible souls but you met too soon or too late



It makes sense..

I have 1 kid he has 2.. We are LDR ... about an hour and a half apart... He's trying to start another biz besides his other 4 jobs.. & he just got pnuemonia.. so that's taking a toll.. I check up on him but he's not as proactive.. It's ok. I'm not worried... I'm his first gf in 3 years after his kids mom.. He dated of course between the time before meeting me... but the fact that he chose me after so much dating...? I can see I'm important.. But what about when he says to me recently "You live too far" (playing around but complaining) Then when I say "ok, we can fix that, I'll move close to you..." etc, he says "no.. You have your place, job, biz etc I don't want you to drop all that.." I tell him "Im not dropping it.. Just making our relationship stronger.. by moving closer... I can move my biz and my place.. I'll find another 9-5.. I'm in accounting.. I want to be with you.." I understand he doesn't wanna be selfish.. then why complain..?



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— I'm guessing I'll never get that answer huh?
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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them
When ladylibra come on dxp she told us that she has kids and working on the same environnement as his cap, but look the relation of poison_ivy, the capricorn has kids and dont work on the same place. instant in couple.

i mean if he was the boss and didnt risk to have problem problem he won't care about that flag but he's not,

kids are the most important thing in a whole life, and you already have two ? one ? i dont remenber. i remenber here a scorpio girls she has a daughter the cap man still finished to married with her. the point is

if i havnt finished my carrier, i mean i'm not at the place i want to be, i wont have child'. the second if i'm not the place where i want to be but i still have child, i wont mind to be in couple with someone who has child.

i think you both are compatible souls but you met too soon or too late



It makes sense..

I have 1 kid he has 2.. We are LDR ... about an hour and a half apart... He's trying to start another biz besides his other 4 jobs.. & he just got pnuemonia.. so that's taking a toll.. I check up on him but he's not as proactive.. It's ok. I'm not worried... I'm his first gf in 3 years after his kids mom.. He dated of course between the time before meeting me... but the fact that he chose me after so much dating...? I can see I'm important.. But what about when he says to me recently "You live too far" (playing around but complaining) Then when I say "ok, we can fix that, I'll move close to you..." etc, he says "no.. You have your place, job, biz etc I don't want you to drop all that.." I tell him "Im not dropping it.. Just making our relationship stronger.. by moving closer... I can move my biz and my place.. I'll find another 9-5.. I'm in accounting.. I want to be with you.." I understand he doesn't wanna be selfish.. then why complain..?



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— I'm guessing I'll never get that answer huh?
the response is obvious

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Clear as day! ?
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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them


When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?

Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?


I've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lol
I'm 5 years older than the cap that comes and goes in my life. I am well established in my career in the sense of stability and financially stable. He has a decent job but does other side jobs to make more money. I love his ambitious side. Just wish he was just as ambitious with me lol.
What do you mean by comes and goes? do you have a casual relationship?
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We don't even have a relationship @WonderWoman14 .I've only known him since early October 2016 LOL. I haven't seen him since mid November. He's been going through in his 2nd career from what I've seen on social media and from words of mutual friends. It makes sense as to why he would be stressed since I now know Caps take their career(s) very seriously. Things were perfect before, we would talk everyday or every other day. Now every 3-4 days for a few mins via private msgs or text. Till I went on a business trip 2 weeks ago and he saw how much fun I was having, then out of nowhere, he was reaching out to me every day, complimenting me in my pictures. He has said that "supposedly" he's been trying to hang out with me for the past two weeks, meanwhile, I never got a text from him saying so. Once I came back, he would be the one to msg me and call me a cute name. I used to do that to him but I stopped once he ghosted me for a little while, I'm scared to bring it back. Never felt this way before. I'm usually the tough Taurus b****, but this person made me put all my eggs in one basket too soon. Last time we spoke was on Sunday, he had said something cute to me, and also out of nowhere sent me a very "private pic" to me. I was shocked and was mind boggled as to what was running in his mind to send me that when we haven't hung out in months, unless he got a little jealous when he saw pics of me and this cute Aquarius guy hanging out a lot during my vacation and thinking that sending me a pic of "that" would be him marking his "territory" lol. I feel like texting him tomorrow. Maybe I should just woman up and stop being so scared like a punk.
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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them


When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?

Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?


I've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lol
I'm 5 years older than the cap that comes and goes in my life. I am well established in my career in the sense of stability and financially stable. He has a decent job but does other side jobs to make more money. I love his ambitious side. Just wish he was just as ambitious with me lol.
Aww I just think he's scared to not be able to give you what he wants. They are the head of household type and he would want to make sure that he has everything to have you as a queen.
If that's what he's really feeling then that would suck. I've noticed him not being as active as he used to be on social media. Something must be wrong with him. Maybe he's going through something. I'm not hitting him up. He can take as much time as he needs. I've gotten somewhat used to it by now. I have a bad habit of spoiling the men in my life. Wish I knew what he wants to give me (other than the obvious 😉 lol). Aside from that all I need is just a faithful loving bf, that's it. I don't need his money, I know I make much more than him and money isn't always everything.
I know you don't mind that you make more money than him but as a Cap I'm sure he does.

Even if he doesn't know it he notices. Plus you are older than him so it intimidates him as well.

If I were you, I'd be more encouraging with him, ask him about his job, if you know better opportunities that he would be happy to take, tell him. Ask him what does he want to do in his future, my Cap told me he wants to help the latin community with legal help, he's becoming an attorney and he opened his first non-profit org. page and I go thru it and advice him to make a change or two. (I have a good eye for simple mistakes) and I've seen that he does change it or asks me for my opinion.

Things like that will get you closer to him 🙂





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I wish I knew people who could help him in his field. I would be more than happy to help him get a better paying job. He works in the Education field. He's a 5th grade teacher. He loves kids and he enjoys it even though he is extremely stressed everyday at work, he still does it. He's been doing it for 10 years now.
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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them


When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?

Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?


I've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lol
I'm 5 years older than the cap that comes and goes in my life. I am well established in my career in the sense of stability and financially stable. He has a decent job but does other side jobs to make more money. I love his ambitious side. Just wish he was just as ambitious with me lol.
Aww I just think he's scared to not be able to give you what he wants. They are the head of household type and he would want to make sure that he has everything to have you as a queen.
If that's what he's really feeling then that would suck. I've noticed him not being as active as he used to be on social media. Something must be wrong with him. Maybe he's going through something. I'm not hitting him up. He can take as much time as he needs. I've gotten somewhat used to it by now. I have a bad habit of spoiling the men in my life. Wish I knew what he wants to give me (other than the obvious 😉 lol). Aside from that all I need is just a faithful loving bf, that's it. I don't need his money, I know I make much more than him and money isn't always everything.
I know you don't mind that you make more money than him but as a Cap I'm sure he does.

Even if he doesn't know it he notices. Plus you are older than him so it intimidates him as well.

If I were you, I'd be more encouraging with him, ask him about his job, if you know better opportunities that he would be happy to take, tell him. Ask him what does he want to do in his future, my Cap told me he wants to help the latin community with legal help, he's becoming an attorney and he opened his first non-profit org. page and I go thru it and advice him to make a change or two. (I have a good eye for simple mistakes) and I've seen that he does change it or asks me for my opinion.

Things like that will get you closer to him 🙂






I wish I knew people who could help him in his field. I would be more than happy to help him get a better paying job. He works in the Education field. He's a 5th grade teacher. He loves kids and he enjoys it even though he is extremely stressed everyday at work, he still does it. He's been doing it for 10 years now.
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Aww that's very sweet of him!!! Teachers are awesome!! kids can be frustrating and at that age (9-10) they can be rude. I'm sure he's experienced to handle them.

Yes is hard to rank up as a teacher :/ but is a loving career.
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Did he string you along?

My Gem aunt has Leo venus and Leo mars and she's had a string of unfortunate relationships.

Except that one time with a Sag but that also didn't work out for too long.
I dunno.. maybe? I've posted about him before. We 'dated' briefly then he ghosted, only to come back a year later and pursue me. Only for us to start 'dating' again and him to ghost again. Only for us to start talking a couple months later and then him to tell me** he "just really valued his alone time" and couldn't offer me the communication and connection that I was looking for.

**tell me that ^^ after I made it clear I wasn't in the market for anything casual.

I said 'dating' in quotes because I was never sure what we were, but he would tell everyone [but me] that we were dating and about how much I meant to him and how much he respected me and blah blah blah.

I used to think he was just young and shy. But now I think it was just immature and low key manipulative. Telling things to other people cause he knows that I'll hear it, but never telling me those things himself so he wouldn't have to be held accountable for them.

As sad as all that sounds, you have to accept part of the blame.

You're old enough to know that all that push and pull, over a long period of time, is never a good indication of things turning out well. You should have cut your losses several months ago.

Going by your previous failed dates, especially with the Cancer work colleague, you seem to suffer from a martyr complex...





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I hate when some of you all on here do this. If you can't make a point without throwing her past in her face or placing blame then be quiet. It reads as a low blow. Better skills need to be developed when you are trying to make a point.

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I've been pretty open about my relationship ineptitude. I don't think it's a big secret.

So, do something about it, instead of constantly expecting sympathy from others (that's unless you're a shameless drama queen).

For a start, you can try using some common sense, while having some self-respect.



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Where have I asked for sympathy? Unless it's assumed that one is automatically looking for sympathy whenever they post about relationship issues.
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there is an obvious true about all those capricorn man, but im to lazy to speak so i'll hide
Why even bring it up....you know women don't do suspense well...they are dying for you to tell them


When luzia come on dxp, she told us that she was older than his capricorn male, but did he see luzia as his girlfriend or as a trophy ?

Idk who that is...so cap men like older women? Is that what you're getting at? Or does it have anything to do with his level of respect for her?


I've noticed that cap men do do like older women or women that are established and mentally mature. I could be wrong don't quote me lol
I'm 5 years older than the cap that comes and goes in my life. I am well established in my career in the sense of stability and financially stable. He has a decent job but does other side jobs to make more money. I love his ambitious side. Just wish he was just as ambitious with me lol.
What do you mean by comes and goes? do you have a casual relationship?
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We don't even have a relationship @WonderWoman14 .I've only known him since early October 2016 LOL. I haven't seen him since mid November. He's been going through in his 2nd career from what I've seen on social media and from words of mutual friends. It makes sense as to why he would be stressed since I now know Caps take their career(s) very seriously. Things were perfect before, we would talk everyday or every other day. Now every 3-4 days for a few mins via private msgs or text. Till I went on a business trip 2 weeks ago and he saw how much fun I was having, then out of nowhere, he was reaching out to me every day, complimenting me in my pictures. He has said that "supposedly" he's been trying to hang out with me for the past two weeks, meanwhile, I never got a text from him saying so. Once I came back, he would be the one to msg me and call me a cute name. I used to do that to him but I stopped once he ghosted me for a little while, I'm scared to bring it back. Never felt this way before. I'm usually the tough Taurus b****, but this person made me put all my eggs in one basket too soon. Last time we spoke was on Sunday, he had said something cute to me, and also out of nowhere sent me a very "private pic" to me. I was shocked and was mind boggled as to what was running in his mind to send me that when we haven't hung out in months, unless he got a little jealous when he saw pics of me and this cute Aquarius guy hanging out a lot during my vacation and thinking that sending me a pic of "that" would be him marking his "territory" lol. I feel like texting him tomorrow. Maybe I should just woman up and stop being so scared like a punk.