stillstillwater
@stillstillwater
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This man says Cap women are poison!
Yeah, I've heard from my male friend that I'm not feminine at all and I'm arrogant...
He views femininity as women wearing makeup, dresses and high heels and supposedly not talking too much + doing chores.
Some beta shit
He views femininity as women wearing makeup, dresses and high heels and supposedly not talking too much + doing chores.
Some beta shit
Yea I can understand this mentality a little clearer now. Although Im Gemini, I have a Cap moon. So Im 100% a socialite, but still a virgin at 23 because my love life is so reserved. Anyway, a few years ago I met a lovely Capricorn girl and we progressed well for 4 months. The weekend after our first date, Id forgotten to tell her that I was going away for the weekend and had left my phone in the car at the airport.(I was rushed because Im always late). Monday back in lectures she refused to look at me and has never said a word to me since. I Definitely couldve handled the whole ordeal better. I was just so shocked that she'd decided to opt out so swiftly. I'll learn and move on, but OMG I'd take her back in a heartbeat. Her Mature but innocent nature appealed to me a lot.
Posted by stillstillwaterThis is mostly true for me.. Both the former and the latter. I have been in loving relationships and some shitty ones too (not for long lol) It just really depends on my outlook and how I approach the situation.
Most guys will say that I'm heartless or cold hearted...and i'm shocked! Because to me I'm just a little girl protecting the most sensitive part of myself. I can give you my mind, and my body too... but my heart belongs to me. I mean not at the beginning. At the beginning my heart belonged to everybody except for me. I gave it to my parents, to my siblings, to the people I tried to help, to that boy who smiled at me. Why? Because I wasn't always so sensible. There was a point that I thought that with everything that you do you put your heart into it. Anyways I ran into this youtube comment describing cap women... How many of you relate? Agree? And guys, what do you think of Cap women and your experience with them? Too Masculine? Cold hearted? Boring? Workaholic? Sweet? Caring? Nonchalant?
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I gotta rant here:
So you guys are fearful when it comes to vulnerability. No offense, but you are covering. You gotta take a risk.
You cannot be super aloof, difficult and dressed like Marlene Dietrich and not get some kind of negative reaction.
Why do woman expect us to handle their defense mechanisms, their bitchiness etc and get through that bs to your true self?
Why are there so many (seemingly or actual) masculine cap woman, who secretly yearn to be outmanned and make feel like a womanß
Why dont you gals face your fears? Vulnerability makes people likeable and relatable. Its not that dangerous.
The older I get, the less Patience I have for that kind of crap. Life doesnt have to be difficult. We all
want to love and get loved. What about being nice and playful?
So you guys are fearful when it comes to vulnerability. No offense, but you are covering. You gotta take a risk.
You cannot be super aloof, difficult and dressed like Marlene Dietrich and not get some kind of negative reaction.
Why do woman expect us to handle their defense mechanisms, their bitchiness etc and get through that bs to your true self?
Why are there so many (seemingly or actual) masculine cap woman, who secretly yearn to be outmanned and make feel like a womanß
Why dont you gals face your fears? Vulnerability makes people likeable and relatable. Its not that dangerous.
The older I get, the less Patience I have for that kind of crap. Life doesnt have to be difficult. We all
want to love and get loved. What about being nice and playful?
The main exasperating trait with Cap women for me is that they get all wet for bad boys and when they get their heart broken cuz duh...time to close off to all men and talk all high and mighty.
I don't see coldness or masculinity at all but there is a LOT of fronting and a need to put people in their place. The insecurity is obvious so I just leave them be on their rants and not address the hypocrisy. Wish they could repay the favor and let me on my very own hypocritical rants but no, it's a double standard. All around ok, other great traits remove this annoying one for me.
I don't see coldness or masculinity at all but there is a LOT of fronting and a need to put people in their place. The insecurity is obvious so I just leave them be on their rants and not address the hypocrisy. Wish they could repay the favor and let me on my very own hypocritical rants but no, it's a double standard. All around ok, other great traits remove this annoying one for me.
Posted by FishyDudeWhat's the most evil thing a Cap female you know has done?
I don't know about poison, but maybe cold and at times, evil.
Posted by ParkourlerI think the people that say this are the least vulnerable themselves.
I gotta rant here:
So you guys are fearful when it comes to vulnerability. No offense, but you are covering. You gotta take a risk.
You cannot be super aloof, difficult and dressed like Marlene Dietrich and not get some kind of negative reaction.
Why do woman expect us to handle their defense mechanisms, their cookiemonsteriness etc and get through that bs to your true self?
Why are there so many (seemingly or actual) masculine cap woman, who secretly yearn to be outmanned and make feel like a womanß
Why dont you gals face your fears? Vulnerability makes people likeable and relatable. Its not that dangerous.
The older I get, the less Patience I have for that kind of crap. Life doesnt have to be difficult. We all
want to love and get loved. What about being nice and playful?
I don't see where we have issues opening up to vulnerable and transparent people, but if you have walls up yourself then there's no way that you are going to get through to us.
For example, Sags usually can get me to open up.
They are usually open minded and transparent or at-least that's what they give the impression
Posted by lnana04Posted by Parkourler
I gotta rant here:
So you guys are fearful when it comes to vulnerability. No offense, but you are covering. You gotta take a risk.
You cannot be super aloof, difficult and dressed like Marlene Dietrich and not get some kind of negative reaction.
Why do woman expect us to handle their defense mechanisms, their cookiemonsteriness etc and get through that bs to your true self?
Why are there so many (seemingly or actual) masculine cap woman, who secretly yearn to be outmanned and make feel like a womanß
Why dont you gals face your fears? Vulnerability makes people likeable and relatable. Its not that dangerous.
The older I get, the less Patience I have for that kind of crap. Life doesnt have to be difficult. We all
want to love and get loved. What about being nice and playful?
I think the people that say this are the least vulnerable themselves.
I don't see where we have issues opening up to vulnerable and transparent people, but if you have walls up yourself then there's no way that you are going to get through to us.
For example, Sags usually can get me to open up.
They are usually open minded and transparent or at-least that's what they give the impression click to expandclick to expand
No I am vulnerable, but I know that the majority will not use that against me. In fact vulnerability makes
you relatable.
I agree, if you have walls up then there is not much one can do about it except yourself. Cap People seem
to think that everybody will fuck them up if you show any "weaknesses". The truth is, the majority of all people
is good and just as flawed. If they just could stop being cynical and show their idionsyncracies more and talk about whats on their mind or what they feel (I am not talking about super intimate stuff like childhood traumas) they will find out that most people can relate and empathize.
Many caps have a very dark perception of the world and make their lifes much more difficult than it is. I used
to think they are cool people because they are so witty and sarcastic. The truth many do that to hide.
Posted by xkraftEye roll. Must feel good to waste peoples time.
"I'm just a little girl"
@Stillstillwater were u high when u wrote this one, or nah?
Posted by FishyDudeLol but why ? Although I do understand and there are definite times I relish in the coldness.
I don't know about poison, but maybe cold and at times, evil.
Posted by ParkourlerGood questions. I honestly don’t know why. Like you said fear. Playful and nice yes but I’ve been vulnerable couple of times. Just not something I enjoy. To me even this was vulnerable was it not? I shared something about myself that I normally don’t.
I gotta rant here:
So you guys are fearful when it comes to vulnerability. No offense, but you are covering. You gotta take a risk.
You cannot be super aloof, difficult and dressed like Marlene Dietrich and not get some kind of negative reaction.
Why do woman expect us to handle their defense mechanisms, their cookiemonsteriness etc and get through that bs to your true self?
Why are there so many (seemingly or actual) masculine cap woman, who secretly yearn to be outmanned and make feel like a womanß
Why dont you gals face your fears? Vulnerability makes people likeable and relatable. Its not that dangerous.
The older I get, the less Patience I have for that kind of crap. Life doesnt have to be difficult. We all
want to love and get loved. What about being nice and playful?
Posted by DamnataPutting people in their place is insecure, how?
The main exasperating trait with Cap women for me is that they get all wet for bad boys and when they get their heart broken cuz duh...time to close off to all men and talk all high and mighty.
I don't see coldness or masculinity at all but there is a LOT of fronting and a need to put people in their place. The insecurity is obvious so I just leave them be on their rants and not address the hypocrisy. Wish they could repay the favor and let me on my very own hypocritical rants but no, it's a double standard. All around ok, other great traits remove this annoying one for me.
Cap women aren't cold, just selective in what they value and who they let in their lives. I kinda like that. It shows some discernment and internal self-reliance without the need for external validation for their identity.
Posted by Nightcap-Aw thanks nightcap. You get us 🙂
Cap women aren't cold, just selective in what they value and who they let in their lives. I kinda like that. It shows some discernment and internal self-reliance without the need for external validation for their identity.
I have a Cap Libra Moon friend and he’s always telling me how reserved I am but slowly we confide in each other with time. It’s nice to be understood.
Posted by WarAngel1
Definitely an acquired taste. Capricorn women and I haven't crossed paths too often so I can't comment too much except they are insatiable. They never seem to be content.
Is the world too much to ask?
Posted by WarAngel1I think that’s a good start. But I did hear that Mars is quite up and coming.Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by WarAngel1
Definitely an acquired taste. Capricorn women and I haven't crossed paths too often so I can't comment too much except they are insatiable. They never seem to be content.
Is the world too much to ask? click to expand
I could hand her the moon as a package deal and it still wouldn't be enough. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by stillstillwaterNot the people who deserved to be put into place, that's understandable to speak up.Posted by Damnata
The main exasperating trait with Cap women for me is that they get all wet for bad boys and when they get their heart broken cuz duh...time to close off to all men and talk all high and mighty.
I don't see coldness or masculinity at all but there is a LOT of fronting and a need to put people in their place. The insecurity is obvious so I just leave them be on their rants and not address the hypocrisy. Wish they could repay the favor and let me on my very own hypocritical rants but no, it's a double standard. All around ok, other great traits remove this annoying one for me.
Putting people in their place is insecure, how? click to expandclick to expand
I'm talking about unwarranted displays of social power, usually as a result of being triggered by other people.
Posted by DamnataPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by Damnata
The main exasperating trait with Cap women for me is that they get all wet for bad boys and when they get their heart broken cuz duh...time to close off to all men and talk all high and mighty.
I don't see coldness or masculinity at all but there is a LOT of fronting and a need to put people in their place. The insecurity is obvious so I just leave them be on their rants and not address the hypocrisy. Wish they could repay the favor and let me on my very own hypocritical rants but no, it's a double standard. All around ok, other great traits remove this annoying one for me.
Putting people in their place is insecure, how? click to expand
Not the people who deserved to be put into place, that's understandable to speak up.
I'm talking about unwarranted displays of social power, usually as a result of being triggered by other people. click to expandclick to expand
They’re mean! Plain and simple, mean and miserable.
Posted by Nightcap-I was speaking to a Taurus guy yesterday and we were talking about my coldness/selectiveness.
Cap women aren't cold, just selective in what they value and who they let in their lives. I kinda like that. It shows some discernment and internal self-reliance without the need for external validation for their identity.
I enjoy my selective nature.
I will be friends with who I want to be friends with and not the other way around.
Posted by DamnataI doubt it's 'Unwarranted.' We're Cardinals, we're not weak we're going to defend ourselves. Let's take you for instance. You stole $ 200 under a fabricated pretense from your Cap friend that was trying to help you..yet their backlash is "unwarranted." At best, you're dishonest and a thief. A Cap will never respect that. Being desperate because you haven't worked in 4 years (and aren't trying to) and living rent free in your grandmother's tiny apartment against your family's wishes, while mooching off your friends under the guise of a sob story, is on your character not anyone else's..and you speak of hypocritical lolPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by Damnata
The main exasperating trait with Cap women for me is that they get all wet for bad boys and when they get their heart broken cuz duh...time to close off to all men and talk all high and mighty.
I don't see coldness or masculinity at all but there is a LOT of fronting and a need to put people in their place. The insecurity is obvious so I just leave them be on their rants and not address the hypocrisy. Wish they could repay the favor and let me on my very own hypocritical rants but no, it's a double standard. All around ok, other great traits remove this annoying one for me.
Putting people in their place is insecure, how? click to expand
Not the people who deserved to be put into place, that's understandable to speak up.
I'm talking about unwarranted displays of social power, usually as a result of being triggered by other people. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by DMVI think that's a good way to be. There are consequences to spreading yourself too thin and trying to be everything to everyone. It wears on credibility and personal identity.Posted by Nightcap-
Cap women aren't cold, just selective in what they value and who they let in their lives. I kinda like that. It shows some discernment and internal self-reliance without the need for external validation for their identity.
I was speaking to a Taurus guy yesterday and we were talking about my coldness/selectiveness.
I enjoy my selective nature.
I will be friends with who I want to be friends with and not the other way around. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by FishyDudeAll women want material security, some more, some less. The thing that denotes gold-diggers is what they do when shit hits the fan......ie. financial trouble. If she prepares to jump ship, she's most definitely a gold-digger.
A few of you have mentioned that Cap women are selective, and quality over quantity. My wife is a Cap, she married me, so that must say something, right?
She's not a gold digger, as far as I know, even though before we met, she had on her dating profile (yep, we met on a dating site) that she was looking for a man who's 'average to wealthy'. So I thought I would take a chance with her. I'm not wealthy, I'm doing okay but I'm not rich, and I'm more independent than my wife, and I'm the bread winner in the family, although she does contribute a percentage of her salary to household things and towards our daughter.
She can be fooking cold at times, to the point where I wonder why she married me and to the point where I wonder why I married her. I work for my families company, and I will be the next in line to run the family business, and she knows that, and sometimes I wonder if she's still with me because of that. As I said earlier, as far as I know she's not a gold digger, but sometimes I think about the things I've read about Cap women being gold diggers - and as I've mentioned, she can be cold, ie: not very loving at times. So, why did she marry me and why is she still with me? C'mon Caps, can you shed some light on the subject?
All that said, the fact you will inherit a family business most likely played some role in her decision process.
Posted by FishyDudeIts definitely a major factor: status and earning potential.
A few of you have mentioned that Cap women are selective, and quality over quantity. My wife is a Cap, she married me, so that must say something, right?
She's not a gold digger, as far as I know, even though before we met, she had on her dating profile (yep, we met on a dating site) that she was looking for a man who's 'average to wealthy'. So I thought I would take a chance with her. I'm not wealthy, I'm doing okay but I'm not rich, and I'm more independent than my wife, and I'm the bread winner in the family, although she does contribute a percentage of her salary to household things and towards our daughter.
She can be fooking cold at times, to the point where I wonder why she married me and to the point where I wonder why I married her. I work for my families company, and I will be the next in line to run the family business, and she knows that, and sometimes I wonder if she's still with me because of that. As I said earlier, as far as I know she's not a gold digger, but sometimes I think about the things I've read about Cap women being gold diggers - and as I've mentioned, she can be cold, ie: not very loving at times. So, why did she marry me and why is she still with me? C'mon Caps, can you shed some light on the subject?
Have you brought her coldness up to her?
Posted by DamnataNah I hardly ever see Caps on a power trip. Power is innate to us and comes naturally so we really don’t need to throw it around. In fact I know my Caps friend to be the most understated tones of powers until really pushed. I think Universal sigan in general have an innate level of self awareness as it ties to everyone around them so they don’t try to overpower people. It’s just natural. The signs I do find are the Social sigs because they view their existence based on their relations. Hence their sense of power comes from their relations with others.Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Damnata
The main exasperating trait with Cap women for me is that they get all wet for bad boys and when they get their heart broken cuz duh...time to close off to all men and talk all high and mighty.
I don't see coldness or masculinity at all but there is a LOT of fronting and a need to put people in their place. The insecurity is obvious so I just leave them be on their rants and not address the hypocrisy. Wish they could repay the favor and let me on my very own hypocritical rants but no, it's a double standard. All around ok, other great traits remove this annoying one for me.
Putting people in their place is insecure, how? click to expand
Not the people who deserved to be put into place, that's understandable to speak up.
I'm talking about unwarranted displays of social power, usually as a result of being triggered by other people. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by FishyDudeAll in all, sounds like you have it better than 99% of dxp, me included.Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by FishyDude
A few of you have mentioned that Cap women are selective, and quality over quantity. My wife is a Cap, she married me, so that must say something, right?
She's not a gold digger, as far as I know, even though before we met, she had on her dating profile (yep, we met on a dating site) that she was looking for a man who's 'average to wealthy'. So I thought I would take a chance with her. I'm not wealthy, I'm doing okay but I'm not rich, and I'm more independent than my wife, and I'm the bread winner in the family, although she does contribute a percentage of her salary to household things and towards our daughter.
She can be fooking cold at times, to the point where I wonder why she married me and to the point where I wonder why I married her. I work for my families company, and I will be the next in line to run the family business, and she knows that, and sometimes I wonder if she's still with me because of that. As I said earlier, as far as I know she's not a gold digger, but sometimes I think about the things I've read about Cap women being gold diggers - and as I've mentioned, she can be cold, ie: not very loving at times. So, why did she marry me and why is she still with me? C'mon Caps, can you shed some light on the subject?
All women want material security, some more, some less. The thing that denotes gold-diggers is what they do when shit hits the fan......ie. financial trouble. If she prepares to jump ship, she's most definitely a gold-digger.
All that said, the fact you will inherit a family business most likely played some role in her decision process. click to expand
I guess I'll have to see what happens if ever there is financial trouble.
I don't mind providing financial security for a woman, as I feel it's part of a dudes duty to do that. She does tell me she loves me every night, without fail, before we go to bed. She confuses me at times. click to expandclick to expand
So, don't try to fix if it ain't broken, especially the part you read on dxp. You need to remember we're mostly all relationship failures here and that you could probably be writing relationship advice instead of the people you read.
I have a couple Cap gfs, I think they can be hot and cold.
I think I never reaaally know when a Cap friend likes me or not, bc i feel they're kinda distant. And their version of being close isn't really that close lol idk
One of my cap gfs rang me to hang out the other day and i was shocked bc i didnt know she even liked me as a friend that much- think they take a while to warm up maybe, and they trust their older friends so much they never really on the market for new ones lol
I think I never reaaally know when a Cap friend likes me or not, bc i feel they're kinda distant. And their version of being close isn't really that close lol idk
One of my cap gfs rang me to hang out the other day and i was shocked bc i didnt know she even liked me as a friend that much- think they take a while to warm up maybe, and they trust their older friends so much they never really on the market for new ones lol
Posted by FishyDudePosted by Mr_PinchyPosted by FishyDude
A few of you have mentioned that Cap women are selective, and quality over quantity. My wife is a Cap, she married me, so that must say something, right?
She's not a gold digger, as far as I know, even though before we met, she had on her dating profile (yep, we met on a dating site) that she was looking for a man who's 'average to wealthy'. So I thought I would take a chance with her. I'm not wealthy, I'm doing okay but I'm not rich, and I'm more independent than my wife, and I'm the bread winner in the family, although she does contribute a percentage of her salary to household things and towards our daughter.
She can be fooking cold at times, to the point where I wonder why she married me and to the point where I wonder why I married her. I work for my families company, and I will be the next in line to run the family business, and she knows that, and sometimes I wonder if she's still with me because of that. As I said earlier, as far as I know she's not a gold digger, but sometimes I think about the things I've read about Cap women being gold diggers - and as I've mentioned, she can be cold, ie: not very loving at times. So, why did she marry me and why is she still with me? C'mon Caps, can you shed some light on the subject?
All women want material security, some more, some less. The thing that denotes gold-diggers is what they do when butter hits the fan......ie. financial trouble. If she prepares to jump ship, she's most definitely a gold-digger.
All that said, the fact you will inherit a family business most likely played some role in her decision process. click to expand
I guess I'll have to see what happens if ever there is financial trouble.
I don't mind providing financial security for a woman, as I feel it's part of a dudes duty to do that. She does tell me she loves me every night, without fail, before we go to bed. She confuses me at times. click to expandclick to expand
Then, she Loves You..
Posted by DeadInsidethat just described me so it makes perfect sense - signed Cap Moon - HOWEVER, it blows chunks. The only way I could have it any other way is if I was brain dead LOL
he a beta male
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by DamnataThey’re mean! Plain and simple, mean and miserable. click to expandPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by Damnata
The main exasperating trait with Cap women for me is that they get all wet for bad boys and when they get their heart broken cuz duh...time to close off to all men and talk all high and mighty.
I don't see coldness or masculinity at all but there is a LOT of fronting and a need to put people in their place. The insecurity is obvious so I just leave them be on their rants and not address the hypocrisy. Wish they could repay the favor and let me on my very own hypocritical rants but no, it's a double standard. All around ok, other great traits remove this annoying one for me.
Putting people in their place is insecure, how? click to expand
Not the people who deserved to be put into place, that's understandable to speak up.
I'm talking about unwarranted displays of social power, usually as a result of being triggered by other people. click to expandclick to expand
Eww
Posted by Dreamyboylmao! i know...i was like ummmm
Lol when he said “Scorpio women, it gets a little dark. Basically they want you to treat them like a cum bucket” 😂 Jesus
Posted by taurusfffflol i getcha. We're just very toned down and sef-contained if I had to put a description to it. But there will be rare moments where we let our feelings show and then you'll know that we're about you 100% . It mainly happens when you're in crisis and need help. There's nothing like a Cap friend when you need someone there. I've always said everyone needs at least 1 Cap friend in their life lol ... including myself
I have a couple Cap gfs, I think they can be hot and cold.
I think I never reaaally know when a Cap friend likes me or not, bc i feel they're kinda distant. And their version of being close isn't really that close lol idk
One of my cap gfs rang me to hang out the other day and i was shocked bc i didnt know she even liked me as a friend that much- think they take a while to warm up maybe, and they trust their older friends so much they never really on the market for new ones lol
Posted by FishyDudeWas she always cold, or did it worsen after marriage?
A few of you have mentioned that Cap women are selective, and quality over quantity. My wife is a Cap, she married me, so that must say something, right?
She's not a gold digger, as far as I know, even though before we met, she had on her dating profile (yep, we met on a dating site) that she was looking for a man who's 'average to wealthy'. So I thought I would take a chance with her. I'm not wealthy, I'm doing okay but I'm not rich, and I'm more independent than my wife, and I'm the bread winner in the family, although she does contribute a percentage of her salary to household things and towards our daughter.
She can be fooking cold at times, to the point where I wonder why she married me and to the point where I wonder why I married her. I work for my families company, and I will be the next in line to run the family business, and she knows that, and sometimes I wonder if she's still with me because of that. As I said earlier, as far as I know she's not a gold digger, but sometimes I think about the things I've read about Cap women being gold diggers - and as I've mentioned, she can be cold, ie: not very loving at times. So, why did she marry me and why is she still with me? C'mon Caps, can you shed some light on the subject?
If she's always been this way, then that's a part of her personality that I'm sure she probably thought you accepted.
I had a guy friend, who I thought knew my feelings for him, tell me that he felt I abandoned him, so I think the coldness is just a part of us, and it's hard to change a part of yourself that is so normal to you.
It can have a lot to do with Caps being loners, imo, but I just think that if she's always been this way then you gotta deal, because she's always shown you who she was and it's not her fault that you've grown to not really like it. As time passes, maybe she'll start to warm up.
If she's not a careless spender, then the money thing can be no more than security for her, but unless you shared with her your possible inheritance on the first dates, then it's I'd think she continued to date you and marry you because she liked you and nothing more.
Posted by DeadInsideSo beta males are smarter than alpha males?
dont ever listen to a beta male video lol
Posted by lnana04so wise @lnana04Posted by FishyDude
A few of you have mentioned that Cap women are selective, and quality over quantity. My wife is a Cap, she married me, so that must say something, right?
She's not a gold digger, as far as I know, even though before we met, she had on her dating profile (yep, we met on a dating site) that she was looking for a man who's 'average to wealthy'. So I thought I would take a chance with her. I'm not wealthy, I'm doing okay but I'm not rich, and I'm more independent than my wife, and I'm the bread winner in the family, although she does contribute a percentage of her salary to household things and towards our daughter.
She can be fooking cold at times, to the point where I wonder why she married me and to the point where I wonder why I married her. I work for my families company, and I will be the next in line to run the family business, and she knows that, and sometimes I wonder if she's still with me because of that. As I said earlier, as far as I know she's not a gold digger, but sometimes I think about the things I've read about Cap women being gold diggers - and as I've mentioned, she can be cold, ie: not very loving at times. So, why did she marry me and why is she still with me? C'mon Caps, can you shed some light on the subject?
Was she always cold, or did it worsen after marriage?
If she's always been this way, then that's a part of her personality that I'm sure she probably thought you accepted.
I had a guy friend, who I thought knew my feelings for him, tell me that he felt I abandoned him, so I think the coldness is just a part of us, and it's hard to change a part of yourself that is so normal to you.
It can have a lot to do with Caps being loners, imo, but I just think that if she's always been this way then you gotta deal, because she's always shown you who she was and it's not her fault that you've grown to not really like it. As time passes, maybe she'll start to warm up.
If she's not a careless spender, then the money thing can be no more than security for her, but unless you shared with her your possible inheritance on the first dates, then it's I'd think she continued to date you and marry you because she liked you and nothing more. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by DeadInsidePosted by HaruukaPosted by DeadInside
dont ever listen to a beta male video lol
So beta males are smarter than alpha males? click to expand
i havnt listened to that video and i dont know if the contenu is worth it, but the miniature is a superwoman from krypton, weird choice if you wanted to try to dissrespect cap woman click to expandclick to expand
I know
I’m asking you if the beta males are smarter than alpha?
Or the alpha wins just of everything?power and brain and women
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I saw this yesterday and it immediately made me think of this particular gal. Beautiful classy Capricorn woman in her 50s, great figure & aristocratic face that sparkle
Whenever I argue over anything, my Cap woman always , always makes me feel like I am the one on the wrong side.
Is it just me? Whenever I start a fight or argument with my strong logic and reason, she always turns it the other way around and I end up f
Please help!!! I'm seeing this Taurus ex (guy) I'm Capricorn female. So he's my coworker and we have had a pretty good relationship...I'm holding back he was amazing to begin with, very loving, shy, confident always knew what he wanted and nobody loves se
What are the steps to having a relationship with a Capricorn woman or man?
Ok Capricorn that told me she's leaving at end of January hits me up (damn saturn return leaving lol)
She's feeling better. This chick asks me if I wanted to go to dinner or something today(Friday the 22nd) because she called out of work to make sure s
I'm a Capricorn woman and was getting to know this Scorpio man for a few months. It was hard to spend time together, because of my own issues with another man and his schedule. We met up and hung out a few times, he would also pick and drop me from places
And.... go!
Post some of your reactions that even surprised you or made you laugh about yourself.
I'll go first:
He's sweet. Cap response,"Why are you so extra??" Inside,"Don't stop." lol
is it worth it dealing with a work-a-holic cap? she's a sweet, nice girl... Friday night,we made out, she held my hand all night, shes a sweet girl.
afterwards she was like I don't have a lot of time in my life.. she does work two jobs. I think she's
Greetings,
I've been in communication with a beautiful Capricorn woman for almost a year now. We connected online and have never met in person.
Her vibe is beautiful. She's intelligent, spiritual, and gorgeous.
For the past year we have only excha
Any opinions from ladies here?
Is it possession or cap woman just territorial?
So I've been talking to this cap women for awhile. Rewind to when we first started talking she told me she had just gotten out of an abusive relationship (emotionally,mentally,& sexually). And i was okay with just being friends and seeing where things wen
Have you ever done something out of the ordinary for someone you really loved? Anything weird? I just read how this woman by the name of keyshia kaior bathed her boyfriend Gucci mane—? I notice that some people gravitate to capricorns, because they attr
Recently, my Beautiful Capricorn Woman has told me that she needs space, even that she may work on herself to become The Woman/Spouse that I need/deserve, because she doesn't feel like she is on my Level, and that she doesn't want to bring her Luggage/Bag
Hello,
I am a capricorn woman born on 14th january 1993 at 7:30am GMT time in mohammedia, Morocco. Please, any information u can give me abt my chart and what type of men (signs?) i would get along with is highly appreciated.
4 months ago I started working with a capricorn woman and we kind of hit it off. First it was just talking, no real flirting or anything. She has a boyfriend that she's been dating for a year and a half.
Anyways it turns out we have the major hots for e
My Knight In Shining Armor-Where is he?
As a Capricorn woman people expect us to be invincible, and it’s true we do have spines of steel and can handle anything you throw at us. We might take a few minutes to recoop and get our bearings, but you can
i'm a gay female and befriend with cappy girl for 5 yrs already. All these times I knew she's the hardworking type, and she treat everyone the same, for example flirty joke around, being touchy with both sexes. Although I'm gay, I treat her in just a plat
I'm a cap woman, need any advice or view points ask away.
Aloha.
I've been messaging with a beautiful Capricorn female online. We have never met in person. I randomly came across your page one day via a hashtag and I followed her. Never thought much about it. After seeing her posts for almost six months afte
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Hot and cold: yes
But it's not what you say...
Cap burns HOT and it hurts our feelings when men cannot match our level of caring. It hurts to care more. Cap will go to the ends of the earth for a man she truly loves. Most of the time, with most men, he will NOT go as far for her. She's ruled by Saturn, a masculine planet....men have issues with this. After seeing how, time and again, she is the more devoted one, the more invested one, the one picking up all the messes, she starts to feel inferior when it comes to love. She looks at the situation and concludes: "You know what? I'll never make it to the top of that particular mountain, the place where two people care equally about each other."
As that realization sinks in, she resigns herself to it, redoubles her efforts to succeed in other areas where she has a better chance of proving her worth. That's why she's a workaholic. Also, considering her track record with men, she needs to consider that she may have to provide for herself and her family, without a man's help.
She's not going to just give a guy her heart, even if he's seriously tugging on her heartstrings, because she knows how the story ends: she'll care more, then he'll take her for granted, get sick of her gloomier moods, and leave. She's just being efficient when she won't give a guy her heart to begin with. She KNOWS her liabilities and she is hyper-sensitive, looking for clues about how much a guy could handle her. Most guys can't. Capricorn is an intense sign, the sign of Karma.
Some Cap women are successful in relationships and truly happy. I think the rest of us can only look at them and say "How the f*** did you get so lucky?" Cap women who are into astrology are just desperate to crack the code and see if there's any way to find real love, after all.
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I mainly agree with this person especially the part about proving your worth. I've never met a man who has elevated my self-esteem and worth. But work, hey that works for me. Then I'm looking at other women who are successful in their careers but can play that feminine role with their men and they're put on a pedestal. And i'm like how do you do that? It's more of curiosity than actually wanting to achieve it. May be you want to achieve it a little bit but then you're like nah fuck it. When we feel a little bit of hope it's hot but then it's like nah forget it I remember how this went.
random rant.