What can you guys say about venus in capricorn?

Im just curious since people hardly mention venus in this sign and im a venus in capricorn myself

I do not like it very much, but I can appreciate it.

Posted by waterbearer_fem
I do not like it very much, but I can appreciate it.

Why dont you like it?if you dont mind me asking

Posted by DonJohn
i love venus in caps.



awkward.

slow burn.

then love long time

awkward? Really? ??

Posted by Aquarius3189

Posted by waterbearer_fem
I do not like it very much, but I can appreciate it.

Why dont you like it?if you dont mind me asking

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I'm not Venus but earth dominant, so I don't sense the Cap Venus that much but it surely disturbs my ability to communicate feelings verbally. And I'm a very verbal person, thanks to my Gem moon.. Saying the three little words? Nope. Forget it. But I will hold a monologue for hours why I can't tell you!

Venus in cap are cool but not the warmest ppl around , depending on other aspects .. They're very into appearances

Posted by DonJohn
i love venus in caps.



awkward.

slow burn.

then love long time

Very slow burn but we are Rocks of Love.

Even to our own detriment.

People have described me as cold but thats because im selective. I have tons of love to give but if the other person isnt ready or doesnt want to receive it, i wont show it.

If someone is affectionate with me, i will return it 100x.

The second im shut down, cold as ice.

Also its very hard to tell if Ive fawked a guy or not. I treat everyone equally. Classy in the streets. You know the rest.

Saturn ruled Venus?

Not the warmest

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Posted by Aquarius3189
Im just curious since people hardly mention venus in this sign and im a venus in capricorn myself

Aquarius3189, you did not share what having Venus in Cappy is like for you? How do you experience it?

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im passive-aggressive i w8 for you to come to me but when im sure that you do like me im going in,scared of rejection,i only show affection in certain people if im not comfortable touching you i wont return it i have to get use of your touch first before i start touching you,but im very sensual i like touching specially my partner,i show i care in my action its hard for me to say it verbally im misunderstood most of the time,i can be affectionate and loving but can get very cold when i feel your not reciprocating my effort and you dont know how hard it is for me to show i care,its easier to show i dnt give a fck,im still detached most of the time but im fighting my aloofness and my loner behavior,i have a lot of capricorn planet

Posted by DMV
People have described me as cold but thats because im selective. I have tons of love to give but if the other person isnt ready or doesnt want to receive it, i wont show it.

If someone is affectionate with me, i will return it 100x.

The second im shut down, cold as ice.

Also its very hard to tell if Ive fawked a guy or not. I treat everyone equally. Classy in the streets. You know the rest.

I guess your scorp placement make up for it,im a bit of everything from sun to my rising sign,i can relate to that shut down thing im like fck you if you dont want me dont even talk to me i can pretend you dont even exist and i can live with it knowing your not worth my attention and my affection

Posted by Aquarius3189
Im just curious since people hardly mention venus in this sign and im a venus in capricorn myself

They give the best gifts

Posted by shakedown

Posted by Aquarius3189

Posted by shakedown

Posted by Aquarius3189
Im just curious since people hardly mention venus in this sign and im a venus in capricorn myself

Aquarius3189, you did not share what having Venus in Cappy is like for you? How do you experience it?

im passive-aggressive i w8 for you to come to me but when im sure that you do like me im going in,scared of rejection,i only show affection in certain people if im not comfortable touching you i wont return it i have to get use of your touch first before i start touching you,but im very sensual i like touching specially my partner,i show i care in my action its hard for me to say it verbally im misunderstood most of the time,i can be affectionate and loving but can get very cold when i feel your not reciprocating my effort and you dont know how hard it is for me to show i care,its easier to show i dnt give a fck,im still detached most of the time but im fighting my aloofness and my loner behavior,i have a lot of capricorn planet

I am also passive aggressive and can be affectionate and loving, but cold when need be. Like you, I am detached, but am very loyal and will have a loved one's back no matter what. I despise confrontation, but am a formidable opponent. Like you, I continue to work on being more social and not such a loner.

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being my enemy would be the last thing on your mind since i know stuff before you say it,but thank god im not vengeful,me too i fcking hate drama if you can work with it why not?no need for more uproar,i wish i can be more social honestly i cant help my loner behavior put my sun sign and im aloof as well its pretty hard not everyone understand

Posted by feby
that's the shit I do like

what kinda shit? ?

Posted by Aquarius3189
Im just curious since people hardly mention venus in this sign and im a venus in capricorn myself

Idk but venus in earth are quite a catch just have to be comfortable and respected to get past the friend zone.

When I'm around people I don't know, I can see how they can say I come across cold.

I don't warm up to people very easily. I need time. People who share too much too soon scare me. Lol. Let me see who you are with your actions, verbal advertisements mean nothing to me. I feel like I have a lot of love to give. If you love me and show me you care, I love you back, hard. I go to the ends of the earth for the one I love. Show me you don't care for me and all that shuts down. That warm heart becomes like a freezer in a meat store. I have a hard time showing affection in the first place out of fear of being burned. So If I give it to you, you're special. Slight me and I'll act like you never existed. I'll cry and vent on dxp lmao, but you'll never see how hurt I am. You'll never be privy to that side of me again.

Talk about getting over someone its hard even if its a crush,i feel that im loyal even in crushes,im attracted to one person only,its hard to get over someone i really like but lately i've been attracting a lot of my friends that i show every part of me they fall for it and confess their love or attraction to me since i've open up,its been hard since i dont want to lose our frienship its been awkward 3 of my close friends to be exact i dont know what to do its like what do i do?do i need to close up again and put my wall up again?i responded with 1 but 2 is still hanging waiting for my response,i guess our loner like behavior attract a lot of the female species

Posted by mzmee
When I'm around people I don't know, I can see how they can say I come across cold.

I don't warm up to people very easily. I need time. People who share too much too soon scare me. Lol. Let me see who you are with your actions, verbal advertisements mean nothing to me. I feel like I have a lot of love to give. If you love me and show me you care, I love you back, hard. I go to the ends of the earth for the one I love. Show me you don't care for me and all that shuts down. That warm heart becomes like a freezer in a meat store. I have a hard time showing affection in the first place out of fear of being burned. So If I give it to you, you're special. Slight me and I'll act like you never existed. I'll cry and vent on dxp lmao, but you'll never see how hurt I am. You'll never be privy to that side of me again.

Damn! You just described me,dont reveal all our secrets ?

Posted by Aquarius3189

Posted by mzmee
When I'm around people I don't know, I can see how they can say I come across cold.

I don't warm up to people very easily. I need time. People who share too much too soon scare me. Lol. Let me see who you are with your actions, verbal advertisements mean nothing to me. I feel like I have a lot of love to give. If you love me and show me you care, I love you back, hard. I go to the ends of the earth for the one I love. Show me you don't care for me and all that shuts down. That warm heart becomes like a freezer in a meat store. I have a hard time showing affection in the first place out of fear of being burned. So If I give it to you, you're special. Slight me and I'll act like you never existed. I'll cry and vent on dxp lmao, but you'll never see how hurt I am. You'll never be privy to that side of me again.

Damn! You just described me,dont reveal all our secrets ?

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My bad. I was gonna post more. But I stopped. Lol.

Posted by shakedown

Posted by Aquarius3189
Talk about getting over someone its hard even if its a crush,i feel that im loyal even in crushes,im attracted to one person only,its hard to get over someone i really like but lately i've been attracting a lot of my friends that i show every part of me they fall for it and confess their love or attraction to me since i've open up,its been hard since i dont want to lose our frienship its been awkward 3 of my close friends to be exact i dont know what to do its like what do i do?do i need to close up again and put my wall up again?i responded with 1 but 2 is still hanging waiting for my response,i guess our loner like behavior attract a lot of the female species

WTF. I thought I was the only one! I also attract a lot of females!! My husband is starting to wonder... Could it be the loner, distant, aloof behavior? Very strange.

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i dont know it seems women like the loner,distant thing,mind you im a woman too and bi once they know it they become more attach,but i scare off men once they know me they will just look at me accross the room,i say damn the woman are more brave than the man who wants to get close to me ?

Posted by CAPS-LOCK
Sun conjunct Venus in Cap

I care and love people but i might not say it as often as some might want to hear.

Last week i was hanging out with my cousin's and everyone told me how they missed me. I felt akward. It's not that i didn't feel the same way, but i rather show it for example : pay for everyones food, help them rebuild their house, sacrifice my time. Even took time off school and work just to help. That's rare.

Haha! I know the feeling,we tend to get akward with so much emotion,im an action kinda woman as well,its very hard for me to say i love you verbally

Posted by mzmee

Posted by Aquarius3189

Posted by mzmee
When I'm around people I don't know, I can see how they can say I come across cold.

I don't warm up to people very easily. I need time. People who share too much too soon scare me. Lol. Let me see who you are with your actions, verbal advertisements mean nothing to me. I feel like I have a lot of love to give. If you love me and show me you care, I love you back, hard. I go to the ends of the earth for the one I love. Show me you don't care for me and all that shuts down. That warm heart becomes like a freezer in a meat store. I have a hard time showing affection in the first place out of fear of being burned. So If I give it to you, you're special. Slight me and I'll act like you never existed. I'll cry and vent on dxp lmao, but you'll never see how hurt I am. You'll never be privy to that side of me again.

Damn! You just described me,dont reveal all our secrets ?

My bad. I was gonna post more. But I stopped. Lol.

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im quite curious since i feel im the only one with this personality in my family,my friend and i are the same and we get along,it feels like i have a sister i never had,c'mon i was just kidding post more i wanna know if we are almost the same?

Posted by Aquarius3189

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Posted by Aquarius3189

Posted by mzmee
When I'm around people I don't know, I can see how they can say I come across cold.

I don't warm up to people very easily. I need time. People who share too much too soon scare me. Lol. Let me see who you are with your actions, verbal advertisements mean nothing to me. I feel like I have a lot of love to give. If you love me and show me you care, I love you back, hard. I go to the ends of the earth for the one I love. Show me you don't care for me and all that shuts down. That warm heart becomes like a freezer in a meat store. I have a hard time showing affection in the first place out of fear of being burned. So If I give it to you, you're special. Slight me and I'll act like you never existed. I'll cry and vent on dxp lmao, but you'll never see how hurt I am. You'll never be privy to that side of me again.

Damn! You just described me,dont reveal all our secrets ?

My bad. I was gonna post more. But I stopped. Lol.

im quite curious since i feel im the only one with this personality in my family,my friend and i are the same and we get along,it feels like i have a sister i never had,c'mon i was just kidding post more i wanna know if we are almost the same?

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We're human bullshit detectors. I feel like we can sense it. The energy we feel when someone is bs-ing me, completely stops me in my tracks.

Now the feelings thing. I feel them. A lot. Now back to our regularly scheduled program (budgets household) —

I swear I can be such an awkward ass when it comes to verbally expressing feelings. Just show me. Saying too much makes nervous and i hate it because nervousness makes me think too much. Less talking, more doing. Chow chow now, clap clap. Vominos dammit. Lol

Posted by mzmee
I swear I can be such an awkward ass when it comes to verbally expressing feelings. Just show me. Saying too much makes nervous and i hate it because nervousness makes me think too much. Less talking, more doing. Chow chow now, clap clap. Vominos dammit. Lol

makes you want to run right?i can feel it in my body i squirm,but when i tease someone like my friend "awww but you love me" shes the one who gets awkward she has a moon in capricorn she cant speak when someone gets mushy with her and i just look with amusement saying in my head you and me both sistah! ?,i dont like to be touch either when i hardly know the person it makes me want to shove them but im restraining myself and hope they cant see it in my face,but people tend to get touchy with me they like hugging me,holding hands,cling their arm in mine even smelling me,its fine if i like you but i have to get use to your touch first, if they only knew??

Posted by Aquarius3189
Im just curious since people hardly mention venus in this sign and im a venus in capricorn myself

If he is broke and not ambitious he wont get my time or attention.

Sincerely,

V. In Cap

V in Cap here and single so there you go

Posted by EveryOunce

Posted by Aquarius3189
Im just curious since people hardly mention venus in this sign and im a venus in capricorn myself

If he is broke and not ambitious he wont get my time or attention.

Sincerely,

V. In Cap

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i guess maybe thats why i broke up with my girl,i like action its like she always just wait for something good to happen and for me if you want something then make it happen

Posted by Aquarius3189

Posted by EveryOunce

Posted by Aquarius3189
Im just curious since people hardly mention venus in this sign and im a venus in capricorn myself

If he is broke and not ambitious he wont get my time or attention.

Sincerely,

V. In Cap

i guess maybe thats why i broke up with my girl,i like action its like she always just wait for something good to happen and for me if you want something then make it happen

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Exactly. Either step up or move out the way so I can find someone who values hardwork. Sex and a cute face does not pay the bills.

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Posted by mzmee
I swear I can be such an awkward ass when it comes to verbally expressing feelings. Just show me. Saying too much makes nervous and i hate it because nervousness makes me think too much. Less talking, more doing. Chow chow now, clap clap. Vominos dammit. Lol

makes you want to run right?i can feel it in my body i squirm,but when i tease someone like my friend "awww but you love me" shes the one who gets awkward she has a moon in capricorn she cant speak when someone gets mushy with her and i just look with amusement saying in my head you and me both sistah! ?,i dont like to be touch either when i hardly know the person it makes me want to shove them but im restraining myself and hope they cant see it in my face,but people tend to get touchy with me they like hugging me,holding hands,cling their arm in mine even smelling me,its fine if i like you but i have to get use to your touch first, if they only knew??

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I feel like I'm reading about myself.

Don't get me wrong tho, I'll like a person. Just on the surface tho. I just take my time with warming up. Not on some snobbish or scared stuff, just feeling a person out. A person can make their mouth say whatever. I need to see you in action. When I chose to be around someone, friends and relationships alike, I need to be sure that I feel safe enough. I can come across cold but my emotions/feelings run deep and I protect them very well. Words don't make me feel safe, actions do.

Posted by mzmee

Posted by Aquarius3189

Posted by mzmee
I swear I can be such an awkward ass when it comes to verbally expressing feelings. Just show me. Saying too much makes nervous and i hate it because nervousness makes me think too much. Less talking, more doing. Chow chow now, clap clap. Vominos dammit. Lol

makes you want to run right?i can feel it in my body i squirm,but when i tease someone like my friend "awww but you love me" shes the one who gets awkward she has a moon in capricorn she cant speak when someone gets mushy with her and i just look with amusement saying in my head you and me both sistah! ?,i dont like to be touch either when i hardly know the person it makes me want to shove them but im restraining myself and hope they cant see it in my face,but people tend to get touchy with me they like hugging me,holding hands,cling their arm in mine even smelling me,its fine if i like you but i have to get use to your touch first, if they only knew??

I feel like I'm reading about myself.

Don't get me wrong tho, I'll like a person. Just on the surface tho. I just take my time with warming up. Not on some snobbish or scared stuff, just feeling a person out. A person can make their mouth say whatever. I need to see you in action. When I chose to be around someone, friends and relationships alike, I need to be sure that I feel safe enough. I can come across cold but my emotions/feelings run deep and I protect them very well. Words don't make me feel safe, actions do.

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me too and this make people who tries to get close to me kinda confuse coz i tend to act friendly but not everyone can get my affection i put walls coz i tend to attract friends who just calls me when they need me, i dont touch just anyone,and people keep saying they havent seen me cry the hells wrong with them do they really want to see me cry so badly?i do cry just not in anyones eyes to see i cry when im alone,its kinda awkward when everyone in the room is crying while your just there sitting just staring at them and in my mind i just want to grab my phone and earphone and just listen to my music must be my aqua talking with the world of my own lol!it calms me and takes off my mind with a lot of things im an overthinker it gives me headache and palpitation most of the time,people asked me why do i always have an earphone in my ear"i was like duh listening to music what else?" But they dont understand why ?