Saturn aspects/Synastry

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if you have trine,conjunction saturn to your partner's personal planets, it's a huge indication of a good, developed relationship... even long term happiness. nothing blocking your deveopment and you both feel as if connected on a higher plane.

here are some links.



https://cafeastrology.com/articles/saturninsynastry.html

http://theastrologyplacemembership.com/2012/08/mars-saturn-synastry/

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/000809.html

http://hniizato.com/saturn-synastry-interaspect/

many long term relationships have saturn to their moon, venus, sun
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My partner and I have Mars trine Saturn and its true. The sex gets better every time. I feel like I've won the lottery with this placement and cant wait to see how much better things get as the years go by.

I've compiled these descriptions of the aspect from online sources:

"Mars sextile or trine Saturn is easier to handle because it is less dynamic this aspect could also indicate a long-term commitment and shows a sexual relationship which has the strength and durability to last. Both partners supply what the other needs from a sexual relationship and this relationship can be very sensual and erotic. Both parties will never grow tired of each other in a sexual relationship this denotes long term sexual attraction and sexual fulfilment. If Mars is in an earth sign or earth is strong in the natal chart especially in relation to Venus, this aspect could be extra sexy. The trine and sextile create a different energy. There is a constancy and predictability in the Saturn person that Mars finds very attractive. At restless times in our lives, however, predictability can sometimes be equated with boredom. However, much of the time, Mars takes comfort in the knowledge that Saturn’s passions are really quite constant. The Mars person knows that Saturn will be there when needed. Mars can depend on Saturn. This aspect can be a very stabilizing one. Predictability and dependability are virtues that can sometimes be overshadowed by more glamorous “features” of relationships, and it is normal for these qualities to be undervalued from time to time. However, it’s also a good idea to take the time every now and again to appreciate the overall stability of your relationship. At times, Mars may feel a little self-conscious about introducing new ways of doing things, particularly in the bedroom, as a result of Saturn’s constancy. However, Mars may be surprised to find a warm audience in Saturn, and Saturn is likely to appreciate the Mars individual’s initiative, perceiving him or her to be a masterful initiator. Much will depend, however, on the condition of Mars and Saturn natally."
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Posted by AerialView
Saturn is always a glue.

I have Saturn conjunct Sun and Moon synastry.

I'm the boss 😎
i also see saturn trine their venus /moon and it's nice too.

https://cafeastrology.com/synastry/venus_saturn_aspects.html

"Venus in flowing aspect (sextile, trine) to other person’s Saturn

The Saturn person acts to stabilize the Venus person’s emotions. One another’s devotion to the relationship is generally respected. Mutual dependence, mostly in a positive way, characterizes this relationship. This is one indication of a long-term, significant relationship. While this aspect does not indicate romantic attraction in and of itself, if a relationship does develop, there is likely to be a strong commitment and a feeling that each person can rely on the other. Structure and security in your relationship will be important. You can count on each other, and you both take the relationship seriously. You are likely to make sacrifices for one another without even thinking twice.




Saturn trines and sextiles are generally considered supportive. They do have some of the characteristics described above, but generally there is less defensiveness between the two, and criticism is constructive if it exists. This goes both ways – the Saturn person is less threatened, and the personal planet person less defensive when faced with Saturn’s restricting energy. It is certainly easier to learn from each other this way. Nevertheless, even with flowing aspects involving Saturn, the chemistry is such that there is a characteristic reserve or self-consciousness present in the relationship with regards to the expression of feelings, romantic desires, will, intellect, or sexuality, depending on the personal planet involved.



you have moon /sun saturn contacts?

that's really nice!!

Shakira and Gerard Pique have saturn contacts.

Hers trine his mars and moon. lol



and his, trine her venus & rising.



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trine is very harmonious too.

https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Gerard_Piqu% C3% A9
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My partner and I have Mars trine Saturn and its true. The sex gets better every time. I feel like I've won the lottery with this placement and cant wait to see how much better things get as the years go by.

I've compiled these descriptions of the aspect from online sources:

"Mars sextile or trine Saturn is easier to handle because it is less dynamic this aspect could also indicate a long-term commitment and shows a sexual relationship which has the strength and durability to last. Both partners supply what the other needs from a sexual relationship and this relationship can be very sensual and erotic. Both parties will never grow tired of each other in a sexual relationship this denotes long term sexual attraction and sexual fulfilment. If Mars is in an earth sign or earth is strong in the natal chart especially in relation to Venus, this aspect could be extra sexy. The trine and sextile create a different energy. There is a constancy and predictability in the Saturn person that Mars finds very attractive. At restless times in our lives, however, predictability can sometimes be equated with boredom. However, much of the time, Mars takes comfort in the knowledge that Saturn’s passions are really quite constant. The Mars person knows that Saturn will be there when needed. Mars can depend on Saturn. This aspect can be a very stabilizing one. Predictability and dependability are virtues that can sometimes be overshadowed by more glamorous “features” of relationships, and it is normal for these qualities to be undervalued from time to time. However, it’s also a good idea to take the time every now and again to appreciate the overall stability of your relationship. At times, Mars may feel a little self-conscious about introducing new ways of doing things, particularly in the bedroom, as a result of Saturn’s constancy. However, Mars may be surprised to find a warm audience in Saturn, and Saturn is likely to appreciate the Mars individual’s initiative, perceiving him or her to be a masterful initiator. Much will depend, however, on the condition of Mars and Saturn natally."

wow nice. lol

me and my hubs have that



oooooo so sexy this part. lol

"Mars sextile or trine Saturn is easier to handle because it is less dynamic this aspect could also indicate a long-term commitment and shows a sexual relationship which has the strength and durability to last. Both partners supply what the other needs from a sexual relationship and this relationship can be very sensual and erotic. Both parties will never grow tired of each other in a sexual relationship this denotes long term sexual attraction and sexual fulfilment. If Mars is in an earth sign or earth is strong in the natal chart especially in relation to Venus, this aspect could be extra sexy.

heehee.

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Unless Satur opposite Venus.


In that case it is doomed.





ive seen that in relationships but it's not doomed if there's alot of other harmonious aspects ...if there's too many unharmonious aspects it is very challenging. click to expand



The only other bad aspects were two sun opposite mars. click to expand
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i can't think of any couple of that right now lol



but i remember seeing Bill and Hilary Clinton having Saturn conjunct Mars both ways, it's not trine which i think is more harmonious and more growth. still both are good strong "Stickers"

cause these two STICK, no matter what. lol despite the sun square sun. and mars square sun.

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How about: his Saturn opposition my Moon, sextile Venus
My Saturn square his Sun, trine his Venus
opposition and square not good right?


the trine his venus is very good. and sextile venus good too.

do you have any more trines and conjuncts? sextile is even better than opposite or square.



edit i 'm not sure how the opposition/square works, as venus opposite saturn, i've seen is also long term.
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Unless Satur opposite Venus.




In that case it is doomed.









ive seen that in relationships but it's not doomed if there's alot of other harmonious aspects ...if there's too many unharmonious aspects it is very challenging. click to expand







The only other bad aspects were two sun opposite mars. click to expand







i can't think of any couple of that right now lol





but i remember seeing Bill and Hilary Clinton having Saturn conjunct Mars both ways, it's not trine which i think is more harmonious and more growth. still both are good strong "Stickers"



cause these two STICK, no matter what. lol despite the sun square sun. and mars square sun.





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We didn't though despite moon exact Venus and Jupiter conjunct sun and other trine and conjunction stuff. click to expand
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maybe different life goals? both need same life goals.
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How about: his Saturn opposition my Moon, sextile Venus


My Saturn square his Sun, trine his Venus


opposition and square not good right?







the trine his venus is very good. and sextile venus good too.

do you have any more trines and conjuncts? sextile is even better than opposite or square. click to expand


Sun trine Sun, Venus, Uranus, MC
Sun sextile Pluto
Moon conjunct Mars and Pluto
Moon sextile Uranus
Venus trine Moon, Mercury, Venus, Saturn, Uranus
Mars conjunct Mars and Pluto
This is his side, looked only at his personal planets and those 3 aspects without square and opposition click to expand
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jupiter contacts are also very very good. one that is overlooked as well.
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Unless Satur opposite Venus.






In that case it is doomed.













ive seen that in relationships but it's not doomed if there's alot of other harmonious aspects ...if there's too many unharmonious aspects it is very challenging. click to expand











The only other bad aspects were two sun opposite mars. click to expand













i can't think of any couple of that right now lol











but i remember seeing Bill and Hilary Clinton having Saturn conjunct Mars both ways, it's not trine which i think is more harmonious and more growth. still both are good strong "Stickers"







cause these two STICK, no matter what. lol despite the sun square sun. and mars square sun.











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We didn't though despite moon exact Venus and Jupiter conjunct sun and other trine and conjunction stuff. click to expand





maybe different life goals? both need same life goals. click to expand



Nope, they were the same including our understanding of relationships. click to expand
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what do you think was the cause of the relationship not sticking?
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How about: his Saturn opposition my Moon, sextile Venus




My Saturn square his Sun, trine his Venus




opposition and square not good right?













the trine his venus is very good. and sextile venus good too.



do you have any more trines and conjuncts? sextile is even better than opposite or square. click to expand




Sun trine Sun, Venus, Uranus, MC


Sun sextile Pluto


Moon conjunct Mars and Pluto


Moon sextile Uranus


Venus trine Moon, Mercury, Venus, Saturn, Uranus


Mars conjunct Mars and Pluto


This is his side, looked only at his personal planets and those 3 aspects without square and opposition click to expand







jupiter contacts are also very very good. one that is overlooked as well. click to expand


His: Jupiter conjunct Mars and Pluto, sextile Uranus
Mine:opposition Venus, square Mars, trne Saturn and Pluto
Mine doesn't look that good lol click to expand
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yeah but do you feel happy together, or you feel a sense of deep understanding and responsiblity to eachother?
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Unless Satur opposite Venus.








In that case it is doomed.

















ive seen that in relationships but it's not doomed if there's alot of other harmonious aspects ...if there's too many unharmonious aspects it is very challenging. click to expand















The only other bad aspects were two sun opposite mars. click to expand



















i can't think of any couple of that right now lol

















but i remember seeing Bill and Hilary Clinton having Saturn conjunct Mars both ways, it's not trine which i think is more harmonious and more growth. still both are good strong "Stickers"











cause these two STICK, no matter what. lol despite the sun square sun. and mars square sun.

















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We didn't though despite moon exact Venus and Jupiter conjunct sun and other trine and conjunction stuff. click to expand









maybe different life goals? both need same life goals. click to expand







Nope, they were the same including our understanding of relationships. click to expand





what do you think was the cause of the relationship not sticking? click to expand



I think I underestimated her need to see each other. We didn't see each other the last three years befire she ghosted me. click to expand
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ehhh no wonder. lol not seeing eachother can be difficult.

i dont believe in LDR. it doesn't work from what i have seen from others here talking about it.
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How about: his Saturn opposition my Moon, sextile Venus






My Saturn square his Sun, trine his Venus






opposition and square not good right?



















the trine his venus is very good. and sextile venus good too.





do you have any more trines and conjuncts? sextile is even better than opposite or square. click to expand






Sun trine Sun, Venus, Uranus, MC




Sun sextile Pluto




Moon conjunct Mars and Pluto




Moon sextile Uranus




Venus trine Moon, Mercury, Venus, Saturn, Uranus




Mars conjunct Mars and Pluto




This is his side, looked only at his personal planets and those 3 aspects without square and opposition click to expand













jupiter contacts are also very very good. one that is overlooked as well. click to expand




His: Jupiter conjunct Mars and Pluto, sextile Uranus


Mine:opposition Venus, square Mars, trne Saturn and Pluto


Mine doesn't look that good lol click to expand





yeah but do you feel happy together, or you feel a sense of deep understanding and responsiblity to eachother? click to expand


we're together almost 9 years...it's been all of that by now lol have felt from the start like we know each other on deep level...we have always loved same things, had same interests but at the same time have different nature that was a problem at some point and relationship got into stagnation but still we managed to work it out again click to expand
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sounds llike you have a deep responsibility to eachother.

that's also very good.

how about romantic, and that kind of lovey dovey feeling you both have for eachother? that's also extra good.
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Trije and sextile are more harmonious aspects



The conjunct feels like a school teacher sitting on your shoulder





Phoebe Cates/Kevin Kline have been together forever..decades. lol
they have the conjunct saturn contacts lol





so does Yoko Ono/John Lennon, Saturn conjunct

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Some people don't feel secure in themselves though unless they have a parental figure in their lives

Didn't Yoko Ono totally dominate Lennon (allegedly) ? She always comes across as hard and cold...not sure what her astrology chart or sign she is?
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Trije and sextile are more harmonious aspects





The conjunct feels like a school teacher sitting on your shoulder








Phoebe Cates/Kevin Kline have been together forever..decades. lol

they have the conjunct saturn contacts lol











so does Yoko Ono/John Lennon, Saturn conjunct



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Some people don't feel secure in themselves though unless they have a parental figure in their lives

Didn't Yoko Ono totally dominate Lennon (allegedly) ? She always comes across as hard and cold...not sure what her astrology chart or sign she is? click to expand
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he beat the shit out of her with his fist 😶
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Trije and sextile are more harmonious aspects







The conjunct feels like a school teacher sitting on your shoulder











Phoebe Cates/Kevin Kline have been together forever..decades. lol


they have the conjunct saturn contacts lol

















so does Yoko Ono/John Lennon, Saturn conjunct





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Some people don't feel secure in themselves though unless they have a parental figure in their lives



Didn't Yoko Ono totally dominate Lennon (allegedly) ? She always comes across as hard and cold...not sure what her astrology chart or sign she is? click to expand

he beat the shit out of her with his fist 😶 click to expand
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shes a aquarius sun
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Trije and sextile are more harmonious aspects







The conjunct feels like a school teacher sitting on your shoulder











Phoebe Cates/Kevin Kline have been together forever..decades. lol


they have the conjunct saturn contacts lol

















so does Yoko Ono/John Lennon, Saturn conjunct





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Some people don't feel secure in themselves though unless they have a parental figure in their lives



Didn't Yoko Ono totally dominate Lennon (allegedly) ? She always comes across as hard and cold...not sure what her astrology chart or sign she is? click to expand

he beat the butter out of her with his fist 😶 click to expand
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yup. he did an upper cut smack down and fist smack on her beating her till she had to leave him. there was a time when she left him for years and he went with other women cause he punched her alot.

Ka- POW!!!!

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My husband and I

Saturn Square MC Orb 1°30'
Saturn Square Moon Orb 1°57'
Saturn Sextile Venus Orb 0°24'
Node Sextile Saturn Orb 1°48'
Saturn Sextile Jupiter Orb 1°49'
Saturn Sextile Mars Orb 2°00''

He is on the right side.
I also have my moon, mars, mercury, uranus and neptune conjunct his sun.

We were serious from the get go 😍🌷


do you feel happy?
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Trije and sextile are more harmonious aspects





The conjunct feels like a school teacher sitting on your shoulder








Phoebe Cates/Kevin Kline have been together forever..decades. lol

they have the conjunct saturn contacts lol











so does Yoko Ono/John Lennon, Saturn conjunct



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Some people don't feel secure in themselves though unless they have a parental figure in their lives

Didn't Yoko Ono totally dominate Lennon (allegedly) ? She always comes across as hard and cold...not sure what her astrology chart or sign she is? click to expand
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do you know the nature of their relationship?? lennon and yoko on?

she is aqua sun, libra rising, aqua venus, virgo mars jupiter virgo and 5th house sun venus.



also by curiousity how do you figure she is hard and cold? just because of what you read of aquarius sign? being air? cause she comes across as meek and afraid. Because of her asian culture and heritage....but she is opportunisitc because she went and cheated with John Lennon while he was still married. but thats also a fault of him too, so they're both at fault.

but other than that, she comes across as a meek woman. scared and afraid to leave him.

unless she doesn't want to leave him because he is famous. Some women love being tied to famous people. although we know nothing of her because she was married a few times before Lennon. The saturn contacts is what kept them sticking together i think. she has Aquarius Saturn. (She had a Stellium in Aquarius trine her rising)



what do you think of Kevin Kline and Phoebe Cates? She has aquarius saturn conjunct his moon aquarius but square his sun and venus. opposite his mars.

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John Krasinski and emily Blunt.



they really have good saturn contacts too.

Libra sun, Libra moon, Gemini rising, with Pisces sun, cancer moon, Aries venus, Pisces mars.

She has Saturn Scorpio to his Venus & mercury Scorpio, but square his mars Leo

and he has saturn & Jupiter Virgo opposite her Sun and Mars.



they actually have found his rising, it's Gemini. so he's triple Air with Venus scorpio and Mars Leo. mercury Scorpio.



https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/John_Krasinski
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Trine and sextile are more harmonious aspects



The conjunct feels like a school teacher sitting on your shoulder





That is incorrect click to expand
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It's correct in my experience

Shiny shiny sun energy meets heavy heavy Saturn energy

This....heavy, heavy, heavy

These concerns can gradually cause your relationship to become too absorbed with “serious” matters, causing both of you to feel limited and stifled by the relationship. Saturn has a strong tendency to criticize and judge Sun’s actions, sometimes accurately and sometimes unjustly. Saturn should guard against this tendency to dampen Sun’s enthusiasm, and Sun needs to avoid being overly sensitive to Saturn’s suggestions and criticisms. Saturn’s tendency to dominate, control, or even repress Sun makes Sun feel resentful at times, and Sun may feel lowered vitality and self-confidence after being with Saturn for a long time. You must make room for lightness and play, or you both will feel burdened by the tone that is set between you.
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Trine and sextile are more harmonious aspects





The conjunct feels like a school teacher sitting on your shoulder








That is incorrect click to expand



It's correct in my experience

Shiny shiny sun energy meets heavy heavy Saturn energy click to expand
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i dont like saturn conjunct sun either. yuck. i've been with a guy with saturn to sun and gross. i'd prefer saturn to mars myself & oppositions.

my husband and i dont have the saturn to sun thank god. It feels good and harmonious.



which ex did you have saturn to sun?

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Trine and sextile are more harmonious aspects







The conjunct feels like a school teacher sitting on your shoulder











That is incorrect click to expand





It's correct in my experience



Shiny shiny sun energy meets heavy heavy Saturn energy click to expand




i dont like saturn conjunct sun either. yuck. i've been with a guy with saturn to sun and gross. i'd prefer saturn to mars myself & oppositions.

my husband and i dont have the saturn to sun thank god. It feels good and harmonious.


which ex did you have saturn to sun?

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Yes it's horrible for the sun person

Oh God Lisa, I had Saturn sun with three blokes 😆

Saturn sextile Sun with one

Saturn opp Sun with another

Saturn conj Sun and opp moon with the last one

They were all heavy going and the last one thought he could control me lol. I told him to forget it, all we can control is ourselves. He was very insecure though....

Ewwww 😐
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My husband and I



Saturn Square MC Orb 1°30'

Saturn Square Moon Orb 1°57'

Saturn Sextile Venus Orb 0°24'

Node Sextile Saturn Orb 1°48'

Saturn Sextile Jupiter Orb 1°49'

Saturn Sextile Mars Orb 2°00''



He is on the right side.

I also have my moon, mars, mercury, uranus and neptune conjunct his sun.



We were serious from the get go 😍🌷




do you feel happy? click to expand
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Extremely! I can be strict, I know that but he always gives his best to cater to my needs and wishes. I give him 200% in return 🌷 he is also a great father. Now I try to loosen the reigns bit by bit, he really earned my trust
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Lisa ,

My mother's Saturn conj my sun

Omg, she was the woman who when you felt full of beans, she'd take the shine out of your stars...

Strict, controlling and a good at putting a dampener on things

Capricorn sun

oh god that sounds horrible. very restrictive. run away!!!!

it's better when saturn touches your other personal planets than the sun. gross.



oh so she was cap sun saturn scorpio or something. if she had saturn scorpio then she'd be all over your stellium. holy crap. O_O



lol but wait.... she's your mother!

not your lover 😛 wouldnt that be different?

i dont mind restrictive mothers though, they keep you responsible and be doing good. lol
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Mars sextile Saturn
Saturn sextile Neptune
Saturn sextile Uranus
Mars trine Saturn
Saturn sextile Saturn
Venus trine Saturn
Saturn conjunct Neptune

— these are the Saturn related aspects between me and my partner. No wonder we are able to work things out from long distance. We both feel it is a lasting bond.


but i remember you are frustrated with his lack of confidence though.

Aqua sun, Aqua venus LIbra moon gem mars right?
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My husband and I





Saturn Square MC Orb 1°30'


Saturn Square Moon Orb 1°57'


Saturn Sextile Venus Orb 0°24'


Node Sextile Saturn Orb 1°48'


Saturn Sextile Jupiter Orb 1°49'


Saturn Sextile Mars Orb 2°00''





He is on the right side.


I also have my moon, mars, mercury, uranus and neptune conjunct his sun.





We were serious from the get go 😍🌷







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Extremely! I can be strict, I know that but he always gives his best to cater to my needs and wishes. I give him 200% in return 🌷 he is also a great father. Now I try to loosen the reigns bit by bit, he really earned my trust click to expand
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strict with him? how so?

i'm not really strict with my husband. I dont control him because i'm not his mother lol

i let him do his own thing. but if it works with you and your man it's good. you have alot of capricorn, they need lots of security. =)
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Lisa ,



My mother's Saturn conj my sun



Omg, she was the woman who when you felt full of beans, she'd take the shine out of your stars...



Strict, controlling and a good at putting a dampener on things



Capricorn sun





oh god that sounds horrible. very restrictive. run away!!!!
it's better when saturn touches your other personal planets than the sun. gross.


oh so she was cap sun saturn scorpio or something. if she had saturn scorpio then she'd be all over your stellium. holy crap. O_O


lol but wait.... she's your mother!

not your lover wouldnt that be different?

i dont mind restrictive mothers though, they keep you responsible and be doing good. lol click to expand
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I thought it a good example of the heaviness of Saturn Sun, Lisa

My thoughts on restrictive mothering differs from yours...it had an adverse affect in as much i rebelled but it did show me how to raise a child in a different way, so ultimately it's all good

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Mars sextile Saturn


Saturn sextile Neptune


Saturn sextile Uranus


Mars trine Saturn


Saturn sextile Saturn


Venus trine Saturn


Saturn conjunct Neptune





— these are the Saturn related aspects between me and my partner. No wonder we are able to work things out from long distance. We both feel it is a lasting bond.







but i remember you are frustrated with his lack of confidence though.



Aqua sun, Aqua venus LIbra moon gem mars right? click to expand



No. He’s aqua Sun, venus and his moon is gemini and mars in Pisces lol click to expand
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oh lol for some reason i thought he had libra somewhere.
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Lisa ,





My mother's Saturn conj my sun





Omg, she was the woman who when you felt full of beans, she'd take the shine out of your stars...





Strict, controlling and a good at putting a dampener on things





Capricorn sun








oh god that sounds horrible. very restrictive. run away!!!!

it's better when saturn touches your other personal planets than the sun. gross.





oh so she was cap sun saturn scorpio or something. if she had saturn scorpio then she'd be all over your stellium. holy crap. O_O





lol but wait.... she's your mother!



not your lover wouldnt that be different?



i dont mind restrictive mothers though, they keep you responsible and be doing good. lol click to expand



I thought it a good example of the heaviness of Saturn Sun, Lisa

My thoughts on restrictive mothering differs from yours...it had an adverse affect in as much i rebelled but it did show me how to raise a child in a different way, so ultimately it's all good

👍 click to expand
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well i learn to appreciate it later. yeah it's all good.
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Lisa ,







My mother's Saturn conj my sun







Omg, she was the woman who when you felt full of beans, she'd take the shine out of your stars...







Strict, controlling and a good at putting a dampener on things







Capricorn sun











oh god that sounds horrible. very restrictive. run away!!!!


it's better when saturn touches your other personal planets than the sun. gross.








oh so she was cap sun saturn scorpio or something. if she had saturn scorpio then she'd be all over your stellium. holy crap. O_O








lol but wait.... she's your mother!





not your lover wouldnt that be different?





i dont mind restrictive mothers though, they keep you responsible and be doing good. lol click to expand





I thought it a good example of the heaviness of Saturn Sun, Lisa



My thoughts on restrictive mothering differs from yours...it had an adverse affect in as much i rebelled but it did show me how to raise a child in a different way, so ultimately it's all good



👍 click to expand



well i learn to appreciate it later. yeah it's all good. click to expand
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My husband and I







Saturn Square MC Orb 1°30'



Saturn Square Moon Orb 1°57'



Saturn Sextile Venus Orb 0°24'



Node Sextile Saturn Orb 1°48'



Saturn Sextile Jupiter Orb 1°49'



Saturn Sextile Mars Orb 2°00''







He is on the right side.



I also have my moon, mars, mercury, uranus and neptune conjunct his sun.







We were serious from the get go 😍🌷










do you feel happy? click to expand





Extremely! I can be strict, I know that but he always gives his best to cater to my needs and wishes. I give him 200% in return 🌷 he is also a great father. Now I try to loosen the reigns bit by bit, he really earned my trust click to expand




strict with him? how so?

i'm not really strict with my husband. I dont control him because i'm not his mother lol

i let him do his own thing. but if it works with you and your man it's good. you have alot of capricorn, they need lots of security. =) click to expand
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Nah, more strict in general - my views on marriage, dating are pretty fixed and my boundaries are rock solid 😂

ike how my expectations were very high and he had to fulfill them in order to even date me. And how high my demands remained even after marriage, he knows it and he always gives his best and I truly love and appreciate him for that. I always let him know how much he is appreciated and loved.

But with him I sometimes catch myself being a little teacher lol like when he goes out smoking, believe me 3/10 times he forgets his keys, so i have to go down and open the fucking door everytime. That‘s why everytime when we go out the house together I ask „do you have the keys?“ and he responds „yeeeee I have the keys and yeeeees I‘m sure“ with a stupid grin on his face haha 😂 because after asking him about the keys I always continue with „but are you sure?“ haha he just knows me...
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Posted by lisabethur8
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My husband and I







Saturn Square MC Orb 1°30'



Saturn Square Moon Orb 1°57'



Saturn Sextile Venus Orb 0°24'



Node Sextile Saturn Orb 1°48'



Saturn Sextile Jupiter Orb 1°49'



Saturn Sextile Mars Orb 2°00''







He is on the right side.



I also have my moon, mars, mercury, uranus and neptune conjunct his sun.







We were serious from the get go 😍🌷










do you feel happy? click to expand





Extremely! I can be strict, I know that but he always gives his best to cater to my needs and wishes. I give him 200% in return 🌷 he is also a great father. Now I try to loosen the reigns bit by bit, he really earned my trust click to expand




strict with him? how so?

i'm not really strict with my husband. I dont control him because i'm not his mother lol

i let him do his own thing. but if it works with you and your man it's good. you have alot of capricorn, they need lots of security. =) click to expand
Nah, more strict in general - my views on marriage, dating are pretty fixed and my boundaries are rock solid 😂

ike how my expectations were very high and he had to fulfill them in order to even date me. And how high my demands remained even after marriage, he knows it and he always gives his best and I truly love and appreciate him for that. I always let him know how much he is appreciated and loved.

But with him I sometimes catch myself being a little teacher lol like when he goes out smoking, believe me 3/10 times he forgets his keys, so i have to go down and open the fucking door everytime. That‘s why everytime when we go out the house together I ask „do you have the keys?“ and he responds „yeeeee I have the keys and yeeeees I‘m sure“ with a stupid grin on his face haha 😂 because after asking him about the keys I always continue with „but are you sure?“ haha he just knows me...
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that's good. Cause it sounds like he is irresponsible with his keys. lol

for us, every night we have a routine. My husband is the last to lock all the doors before heading up. so i know it's all locked. lol If he sleeps before me as in sleepy on the couch, super tired, then i will be the one to make sure everythng is locked. All responsibiity. I make sure every week the trash is put out, and the groceries are filled in the pantry, and each day/week i make a routine of scheduled type of food to eat healthy and some days if we splurge, eat pizza, junk food. like say once a month is ok. sounds anal retentive..lol

but for children, and also getting older you gotta take care of yourself too.

i'm beginning to understand the outer planets function and how important it is, for long term relationships.

people with Air saturn, would always do well with someone with the Air trine in personal planets.

for example, Libra Saturn would go well with Gemini moon, or Libra sun, Libra venus, or Aquarius mars.

at least one of the three trines,



or Wtih Fire Saturn, like Shakira, going well with her husband's fire personal planets, not necessarily sun.

only thing is her jupiter is in earth and it doesn't aspect with her husband's air sun, it squares, instead of opposite or trine,conjunct. i guess it adds some friction.

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also pluto aspects as well.
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My husband and I







Saturn Square MC Orb 1°30'



Saturn Square Moon Orb 1°57'



Saturn Sextile Venus Orb 0°24'



Node Sextile Saturn Orb 1°48'



Saturn Sextile Jupiter Orb 1°49'



Saturn Sextile Mars Orb 2°00''







He is on the right side.



I also have my moon, mars, mercury, uranus and neptune conjunct his sun.







We were serious from the get go 😍🌷










do you feel happy? click to expand





Extremely! I can be strict, I know that but he always gives his best to cater to my needs and wishes. I give him 200% in return 🌷 he is also a great father. Now I try to loosen the reigns bit by bit, he really earned my trust click to expand




strict with him? how so?

i'm not really strict with my husband. I dont control him because i'm not his mother lol

i let him do his own thing. but if it works with you and your man it's good. you have alot of capricorn, they need lots of security. =) click to expand
Nah, more strict in general - my views on marriage, dating are pretty fixed and my boundaries are rock solid 😂

ike how my expectations were very high and he had to fulfill them in order to even date me. And how high my demands remained even after marriage, he knows it and he always gives his best and I truly love and appreciate him for that. I always let him know how much he is appreciated and loved.

But with him I sometimes catch myself being a little teacher lol like when he goes out smoking, believe me 3/10 times he forgets his keys, so i have to go down and open the fucking door everytime. That‘s why everytime when we go out the house together I ask „do you have the keys?“ and he responds „yeeeee I have the keys and yeeeees I‘m sure“ with a stupid grin on his face haha 😂 because after asking him about the keys I always continue with „but are you sure?“ haha he just knows me...
that's good. Cause it sounds like he is irresponsible with his keys. lol

for us, every night we have a routine. My husband is the last to lock all the doors before heading up. so i know it's all locked. lol If he sleeps before me as in sleepy on the couch, super tired, then i will be the one to make sure everythng is locked. All responsibiity. I make sure every week the trash is put out, and the groceries are filled in the pantry, and each day/week i make a routine of scheduled type of food to eat healthy and some days if we splurge, eat pizza, junk food. like say once a month is ok. sounds anal retentive..lol

but for children, and also getting older you gotta take care of yourself too.

i'm beginning to understand the outer planets function and how important it is, for long term relationships.

people with Air saturn, would always do well with someone with the Air trine in personal planets.

for example, Libra Saturn would go well with Gemini moon, or Libra sun, Libra venus, or Aquarius mars.

at least one of the three trines,



or Wtih Fire Saturn, like Shakira, going well with her husband's fire personal planets, not necessarily sun.

only thing is her jupiter is in earth and it doesn't aspect with her husband's air sun, it squares, instead of opposite or trine,conjunct. i guess it adds some friction.

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also pluto aspects as well.
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That sounds great 🌷 I need structure like that too!

I‘m a stay at home mom now and now I do all the course but before when I was working too he had two tasks: bringing out the trash twice a week and cleaning up the table after dinner. I guess for ME that was enough because I would rather do all the other courses myself than to do them a second time if they aren‘t done the way I want them to be lol

I‘m also responsible for groceries, our menu plan and of course our finances. Every saturday I set up the menu plan for the following week and we go grocery shopping together so I don‘t have to go alone throughout the week and carry too heavy. I truly love handling our finances, paying bills makes me happy.. that‘s not normal 😂😂

When he comes home there‘s always dinner ready on the table. He makes the money and with that money I make a loving home, a clean and tidy home, fresh and healthy food and overall good health for all of us. He still cleans up the table after dinner or vacuums the apartment if I‘m too tired, I‘m glad.

We are really happy with how things are 🌷

But one thing: I may do all the courses at home and he doesn‘t have to do anything - but if I ask him to do something for me (household wise if I don‘t feel well or are just exhausted) I don‘t accept „no“. And he knows that by now haha and he also knows that if I ask him to do something for me/us I want it to be done right now. Not an hour later, not 20 mins later - now. I guess thats fair since I always do my courses and take care of us. He knows that‘s important to me