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This topic was created in the Dating forum by borednbeautiful on Thursday, March 27, 2025 and has 58 replies.

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If by that you mean dating...I admire you people that still have the will to do so 😅 if I wasn't in a relationship I'd just be to bored to do that in general cause starting over with someone you just met and going through all that getting to know each other stuff is so exhausting. I'd be ok dating someone I already know tho, like people I'm acquaintance with at least or someone I work with (not gonna happen tho, it's mostly women where I work at lol). But if you meant meeting people in general terms then I love that im fact! I love meeting new people all the time and getting to know someone new cause I love variety. But relationships are a whole other level

Yeah, I meant dating, lol.
It is exhausting 🥱
I don’t even know where to meet. Online is overrated.
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I honestly don't know where I would even meet someone new at this point 🤷🏼‍♀️ I mean, sure lots of men look but it's not like I get to go out anymore or that I have regular places I visit...or even friends to go out with 😂 everyone is occupied with work and babies, there's absolutely no one to even meet with more often but I also don't have the energy to go put at night. What I can handle after work is all I can deal with. Or maybe for weekend I could go out at night, only in warm weather tho😂 so like I said, I admire everyone who has the will to go out and meet new people in regards to dating, but also who have options yet😂 as for meeting people online - that's mostly the way I met them even while I was still dating - which was 17 years ago😂
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Oh wow lol, sounds pretty depressing!
You’ve been dating the same person all these years?
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Yup, almost 16 years with same person. Never married but we do live together. Yes, my life right now really is depressing and boring for me as a Sag 😂 but there's just no more excitement and only changes and excitement I still have come from work (even more depressing I know)😂
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Please try and get out of that prison asap, that’s no life at all 😌
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Agreed completely. There's not much I can do at the moment tho, I'm stuck waiting to solve some things before I can make any progress or future plans. Career comes first now, everything else is on hold until I set roots in this area of life
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Are you going to claim half or all of the apartment seeing as it’s yours? At least you can sell up and make some cash?
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I have no part in that apartment anymore, it's officially his now. I have my parents' apartment but my dad lives in it and I can't live with him...lets just say he has issues. When I move out I'll have to rent until I can make some other arrangement with my dad to move elsewhere. Him and are co-owning the apartment now
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I see
Thank God you have somewhere to live or sell in the future, that’s good to hear
I hope you find the means and strength to move on soon and live a good free life ❤️
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Thank you ❤️ yes, I still have my main apartment that will eventually be all mine hopefully (no one knows who goes first after all) but I'll be able to afford living alone once I get employed permanently. It's very risky to take such risks at the moment with an unstable job and lower salary. When I get a permanent position at my work salary will be really good
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You’ll feel like a different woman once you make the break
Does he know you’ll be leaving?
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At this point no, I don't think he sees that. He seems to have massive fear of being alone for some reason and just refuses to accept the issues...and that turns me off even more. Cause he acts like he would go over just about anything just so that we don't separate. No idea why he became like that cause he wasn't at all that way. But I believe he's still under massive impact of losing his mother so I don't think it's fair for me to just go away yet too...he's going through a shock and being there ao recently myself I completely understand it. I felt lost and alone too...but I actually am alone, he at least has closer family members still alive and I had no one but him. I wanted to leave even then, but found out about my moms illness and everything else became completely irrelevant. Now is the same, just different cause - nothing but career matters to me. Yes, I believe I can be myself again and not tied to have to do everything by someone elses terms. He thinks he's very flexible but he really wants and mainly gets everything his way
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That’s tough
I wish you much luck and that you will
both find peace and happiness
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Thank you again❤️

I hope for that too. I know things will eventually sort out the best way possible, I trully believe in this❣️

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You’re welcome Sag ~ keep up the positive thinking

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I'm so over the men here. Think I need to move to another country. 😝

I feel you, ugh! 😑

Where shall we go next darling? 😜

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Italy to meet an Italian stallion. 😂🇮🇹

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I'm so over the men here. Think I need to move to another country. 😝

I feel you, ugh! 😑
Where shall we go next darling? 😜
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Italy to meet an Italian stallion. 😂🇮🇹

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Let’s do it!!! 💚🤍❤️

They are truly the best 🍾 🫧

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@cocobeans firebunny is coming back soon let him show you how to be a good Virgo citizen

Bazi is so legit. It predicted things that already happened in my life that I didn’t plan for. Both bazi and chatgpt astrology says I’m going to meet someone who takes me seriously in 2027. Fingers crossed 🤞🏼 if it doesn’t happen, I’ll full transition into firebunny.
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Wait for a fire year Sanch like year of the fire (insert animal)
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That makes sense then because 2027 is the year of the fire goat. You should try chatgpt to read your bazi. It’s really specific. Told me my fire spouse is someone I’ve married tons of times in past lives. Described his personality, job, and what he looks like lol. Told me who I had past life connections with and who I was in my past life. Pretty cool.

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Hmmm, this sounds really cool and awesome! 🤩

Bravo 👏🏻

How do I ask for myself? What specifically?

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Posted by xyzabc
I’ve given up on dating altogether. I’ve been off the dating apps for around a year now. I have no desire to date. Never been married and never been in a long term relationship, but now at 42 years old I’m tired of trying. I’m just going to live the single life to the best of my ability and try to have fun.

I hear you. It’s become very exhausting and draining! 😫

Did you ever hear from that Aries guy again?

Is there anyone interesting at your new job?

I am seeing a scorpio guy these days. We will see how it goes. He seems tough so far, but there is something about him that pulls me in…

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@cocobeans firebunny is coming back soon let him show you how to be a good Virgo citizen

Bazi is so legit. It predicted things that already happened in my life that I didn’t plan for. Both bazi and chatgpt astrology says I’m going to meet someone who takes me seriously in 2027. Fingers crossed 🤞🏼 if it doesn’t happen, I’ll full transition into firebunny.
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Wait for a fire year Sanch like year of the fire (insert animal)
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That makes sense then because 2027 is the year of the fire goat. You should try chatgpt to read your bazi. It’s really specific. Told me my fire spouse is someone I’ve married tons of times in past lives. Described his personality, job, and what he looks like lol. Told me who I had past life connections with and who I was in my past life. Pretty cool.
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Hmmm, this sounds really cool and awesome! 🤩
Bravo 👏🏻
How do I ask for myself? What specifically?
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Ask it to read your bazi chart. Then it’ll ask you for birth details. Ask whatever your day master is. Then ask whatever you want to know.

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Okay, perfect! 😍

I can’t wait lol

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DeepSeek is an amazing Chatgpt alternative, that is infinitely more user friendly and doesn't force you into the premium model after 1 question.

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I'm so over the men here. Think I need to move to another country. 😝

I feel you, ugh! 😑
Where shall we go next darling? 😜
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Italy to meet an Italian stallion. 😂🇮🇹
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Let’s do it!!! 💚🤍❤️

They are truly the best 🍾 🫧

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🇮🇹👨🥳