@borednbeautiful
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Where do you meet people for dating?
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Prison
😂
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
The supermarketSome cashiers are no joke
Prettier than Ig models
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I have only seen women cashiers. No men.
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
The Christian mingle singles get together
🤣
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
The Mormon procreation initiative
No thanks. I’d rather just remain single 😌
Posted by MyStarsShine
Prison😂
Prison pen pal program? 🤭
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
The supermarketSome cashiers are no joke
Prettier than Ig modelsI have only seen women cashiers. No men.
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But some of them are cute arent they? 😅
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Yes. I used to be a cashier long time ago for a short while 😌
Posted by MyStarsShine
Prison😂
Prison pen pal program? 🤭
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Or get yourself in there and mingle 😂
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
The Mormon procreation initiativeNo thanks. I’d rather just remain single 😌
click to expandThere was some event at the field my dog poops at
I was like wtf is this
This is our field
Then some Firebunny esque guy gave us tickets to enter the event
There was free popcorn
But then I looked around and there were white dudes in short sleeves
I was like 🥸
There was a free movie but we left before it started
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Wow! A dog poop event?? Lmaooo 😂😂
Set up a real life match making agency and have first dibs 🥰😃
Posted by MyStarsShine
Set up a real life match making agency and have first dibs 🥰😃
Too much work! 😅
Church
A party - friends
Live music event - wineries are good for this
Online group events where you actually meet the people first.
School
Work ( I seriously don’t recommend.. but us where my kids met people just not long term jobs)
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
The supermarketSome cashiers are no joke
Prettier than Ig modelsI have only seen women cashiers. No men.
click to expandYes
But some of them are cute arent they? 😅Yes. I used to be a cashier long time ago for a short while 😌
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No, but I got promoted to store assistant quickly 😁
I will have to get activated. I think some sort of a hobby/event would be a good idea actually 🙂
Honestly though I keep saying I’m tired of online & need to meet someone in person, my current is someone I initially met online. Then 2 years later we had joined the same Singles Online group on FB. I left, and back about 9 months later & here we are. The thing about these Singke online groups or even meetup.com groups is you go to events that interest you & you meet people there from the group.. so it kinda ends up in person. That is if you don’t just chat online 🤣
Here's a suggestion. At the ice cream parlor. If you don't mind a man child who likes to frequent ice cream parlors and candy stores.
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
They say the house your Venus is in has clues but mine is in the 7th and it gives me just random places
Mine is in 2nd or 3rd house? 🤔
Depending on a chart calculation.
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by MyStarsShine
Prison😂
Yessssss 🤣🤣🤡🤡🤡🤣
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Wouldn’t have to dress up or incur travel expenses 😃😂🤣
Posted by MyStarsShine
Set up a real life match making agency and have first dibs 🥰😃Too much work! 😅
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True love is (worth) hard work 😂😩🥴
Posted by MyStarsShine
Set up a real life match making agency and have first dibs 🥰😃Too much work! 😅
True love is (worth) hard work 😂😩🥴
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Yes it is ❤️
But not too hard 😆
Not when Karens are filming themselves waiting for a man to do even the smallest thing to make her think he's giving her attention so that she can bitch about how he's a "creep"
Posted by __ixi__
Where you most regularly hang out is where you most likely will build connections, romantic, or otherwise.In my personal case, I meet people through friend hangouts, work hangouts, happy hours (especially those of my friend's in other sectors). In my experience a friend of a friend's friend are best category for dating. Loosely associated but not so close to home it will disturb a friend group if things go left (and things tend to go left more often than not nowadays).
Very true. When I look back on my past connections this is how it was. Meeting new people is always great!
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Here's a suggestion. At the ice cream parlor. If you don't mind a man child who likes to frequent ice cream parlors and candy stores.🤣
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😆 it's just a suggestion I thought maybe she can give a shot to. Man child's need loving too. I met my ex sag at a laundromat before we hit it off.
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
The supermarketSome cashiers are no joke
Prettier than Ig modelsI have a weird supermarket with young women
Most places though do not have the same quality as my supermarket so idk why that is
It’s not a fancy supermarket maybe that’s just where new recruits go
click to expandTheres something about pretty women in normal settings doing normal things that are more appealing them when they are trying modeling all the time 😅
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As much as I love to dress myself up and look fashionable out in public I definitely agree with this lol
A person minding their own business at a coffee shop in sweats and a puffer jacket is always cute
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by MyStarsShine
Prison
😂Yessssss 🤣🤣🤡🤡🤡🤣
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Wouldn’t have to dress up or incur travel expenses 😃😂🤣
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“I’m up for parole”
😂😩😆
Someone said hardware store 😅
Tennis and golf lessons!!!
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Not when Karens are filming themselves waiting for a man to do even the smallest thing to make her think he's giving her attention so that she can bitch about how he's a "creep"
Lol you’re right the gym is not the place anymore over there! 🤣
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Definitely not over here
I haven't seen any incidents myself in my gym but there's always someone posting this kind of stuff on YouTube lol
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
The supermarketSome cashiers are no joke
Prettier than Ig modelsI have a weird supermarket with young women
Most places though do not have the same quality as my supermarket so idk why that is
It’s not a fancy supermarket maybe that’s just where new recruits go
click to expandTheres something about pretty women in normal settings doing normal things that are more appealing them when they are trying modeling all the time 😅
As much as I love to dress myself up and look fashionable out in public I definitely agree with this lol
A person minding their own business at a coffee shop in sweats and a puffer jacket is always cute
I have 2 puffer jackets, but i feel like unzziped they look much more dope, zipped you look like a tube man 😆
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!! Yes!! I need me a puffer jacket lol all I have are three faux fur coats LOL. And I need some casual footwear too; I only have heels lololll
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by _StardustRevolution_
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
The supermarketSome cashiers are no joke
Prettier than Ig modelsI have a weird supermarket with young women
Most places though do not have the same quality as my supermarket so idk why that is
It’s not a fancy supermarket maybe that’s just where new recruits go
click to expandTheres something about pretty women in normal settings doing normal things that are more appealing them when they are trying modeling all the time 😅
As much as I love to dress myself up and look fashionable out in public I definitely agree with this lol
A person minding their own business at a coffee shop in sweats and a puffer jacket is always cute
I have 2 puffer jackets, but i feel like unzziped they look much more dope, zipped you look like a tube man 😆
!! Yes!! I need me a puffer jacket lol all I have are three faux fur coats LOL. And I need some casual footwear too; I only have heels lololll
Girls wearing converse tho 😍
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Lol... yeah I'm gonna need some more kicks. I only have two pairs lol and one is for work
Hotel lobby & bar lounge
Posted by MyStarsShine
Set up a real life match making agency and have first dibs 🥰😃Too much work! 😅
True love is (worth) hard work 😂😩🥴
Yes it is ❤️
But not too hard 😆
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I’ve served my sentence 😃
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Not when Karens are filming themselves waiting for a man to do even the smallest thing to make her think he's giving her attention so that she can bitch about how he's a "creep"
Lol you’re right the gym is not the place anymore over there! 🤣
Definitely not over here
I haven't seen any incidents myself in my gym but there's always someone posting this kind of stuff on YouTube lol
click to expandWell in my area we don’t usually have 60 year olds on TRT recently divorced and trying to chat up young girls 🤣
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The guys here don't dare talk to the girls. Everyone's in their own zone blasting their tracks through their AirPods and look like they'd punch you if you tried to talk to them lol
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Here's a suggestion. At the ice cream parlor. If you don't mind a man child who likes to frequent ice cream parlors and candy stores.🤣
😆 it's just a suggestion I thought maybe she can give a shot to. Man child's need loving too. I met my ex sag at a laundromat before we hit it off.
I love me some Dairy Queen brownie temptation
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I think Starbucks is a great place to find all kinds of dates. That's where you'll find lots of scorpios and geminis hang out at. If borednbeautiful go there often I'm sure she won't strike out on a date.
Psychic fair I think would be a great place!
Or like a gem fair/astrology fair.
Maybe even a book signing.
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Not when Karens are filming themselves waiting for a man to do even the smallest thing to make her think he's giving her attention so that she can bitch about how he's a "creep"
Lol you’re right the gym is not the place anymore over there! 🤣
Definitely not over here
I haven't seen any incidents myself in my gym but there's always someone posting this kind of stuff on YouTube lol
click to expandWell in my area we don’t usually have 60 year olds on TRT recently divorced and trying to chat up young girls 🤣
The guys here don't dare talk to the girls. Everyone's in their own zone blasting their tracks through their AirPods and look like they'd punch you if you tried to talk to them lol
Kinda sad lol
I’m a home gym bro these days but not coz the women drove me out of public gyms 🤣
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I wish I could have a home gym setup too but I don't have the space for it. Otherwise I'd definitely be working out at home. It's so much effort even mentally to get clothes on and find the car keys and drive to the gym without forgetting something because I ALWAYS end up forgetting at least one thing. It's either my water bottle, my airpods, or my phone smh smh
I've met interesting people at various jobs I've worked at lol
Definitely not date-worthy though IMO.
And the whole thing about dating someone you work with just gives me anxiety anyway
And I could never date a customer/client lol they're way too quick to ask for your number
Even if you were *so* fine I still wouldn't give out my number that quick because that's just a lot to ask for when you barely know a person
I also have traveled a few times for music festivals and have met cool people that way. Other than that, I've just used dating apps but that I'll never do ever again lol
Places I won’t search for dates:
-online
-dating apps
-job
-friends & family
To be continued…
Winter sports, after ski parties...
Posted by borednbeautiful
Places I won’t search for dates:-online
-dating apps
-job
-friends & family
To be continued…
Lol I actually found a former partner at my company I worked for at the time... he just wasn't a coworker or a boss of mine. So that was a relief and made things less stressful lol
Posted by MyStarsShine
Prison😂
*gasp*
You shady boots, today!
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I’ve always been fascinated by prison
On my to do list
As a visitor not an inmate
😅
Posted by borednbeautiful
Places I won’t search for dates:
-online
-dating apps
-job
-friends & family
To be continued…Professional matchmaker?
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This could work !
Posted by MysteriousHeart
I’d say the grocery store, but the last time a guy tried to pick me up in a grocery store turns out he was a drug addict and only wanted sex. So you meet all kinds of not so great people not only online. 🤷♀️
I know but I’m just kinda over the whole online thing 😬
Posted by borednbeautiful
Places I won’t search for dates:
-online
-dating apps
-job
-friends & family
To be continued…Professional matchmaker?
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Nah.
Posted by borednbeautiful
Places I won’t search for dates:
-online
-dating apps
-job
-friends & family
To be continued…Professional matchmaker?
click to expandThis could work !
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I’m sure it could for some people 😁
Posted by borednbeautiful
Places I won’t search for dates:
-online
-dating apps
-job
-friends & family
To be continued…Professional matchmaker?
click to expandThis could work !
I’m sure it could for some people 😁
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Would you not give it a go? 😃
Posted by borednbeautiful
Places I won’t search for dates:
-online
-dating apps
-job
-friends & family
To be continued…Professional matchmaker?
click to expandThis could work !
I’m sure it could for some people 😁
Would you not give it a go? 😃
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Nah. It kills all the spontaneity my heart craves! 🥰
Posted by MysteriousHeart
I’d say the grocery store, but the last time a guy tried to pick me up in a grocery store turns out he was a drug addict and only wanted sex. So you meet all kinds of not so great people not only online. 🤷♀️I know but I’m just kinda over the whole online thing 😬
Oh I know. Same here. I give up on looking altogether. It’s disappointing and frustrating.
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No, not ready to give up just yet! 😃
Just looking for alternative ideas 🤗
Places to add:
-library
-bookstore
-some type of a class together
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I am bit over meeting people online.
Where else is a good place to meet someone nowadays?