What kind of girl have you fallen for, fell in love with? Was it the shy demure type? Passionate and playful? Intellectual? What was one trait they had or had to have? What was their sun, moon and Venus?
Dear Gemini Men, what kind of girl do you require?
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Posted by julietteYes, I think you are right! They like a sexy feminine woman who is down to earth and can get down and dirty 😄
i'm with a gemini man. he claims every day how much he is in love. so maybe i should answer? i'm a cancer sun, moon and venus in gemini. his ex wives are leo and libra. both very dominant and a bit masculine. he wants a buddy in a gf, and sex all the time. all three of us never wear high hills, do our nails, we are all natural, skinny sportish. maybe i'm the most feminine cause i wear make up sometimes, and sometimes dress up, just a bit. i know my gemini friend also likes only natural woman. and also skinny. all 3 of us are very talkative. he likes the fact that i don't need him. that's what he said idk. i never thought i would end up with gemini, never.
Posted by littlenanobyteblasphemyPosted by Scrumptious
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Moonbutter, we don't have a very good representation for Gemini males here anymore I don't think 😢
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Posted by Kjk62Keeps a lady on her toes 😉Posted by LonerLoopThursday. Saturday. Monday.Posted by Kjk62Posted by MoonbutterAquas, gemini, virgo, scorpio suns (suns aren't too important I've found)w
What kind of girl have you fallen for, fell in love with? Was it the shy demure type? Passionate and playful? Intellectual? What was one trait they had or had to have? What was their sun, moon and Venus?
Leo moons, libra, moons, gem moons (these are the moons of some of the girls I was with)
Venus usually like taurus or a fire sign
I'm not really into the shy reserved type at all tbh
She gotta be tough, independent, with just enough attitude lol
(As I type this, I'm already changing my mind... isn't that what u ladies really want the gem guys to admit here?)
Doesn't matter.
When you wake up a new one starts
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Just run from gemini as mood swings we are out .....and again will be back but not sure how long it stands for
Posted by Kjk62It's not about playing games...just predictive behavior can sometimes be boring and cause ruts 🙂Posted by MoonbutterIt may seem like that but I'm done playing games.Posted by Kjk62Keeps a lady on her toes 😉Posted by LonerLoopThursday. Saturday. Monday.Posted by Kjk62Posted by MoonbutterAquas, gemini, virgo, scorpio suns (suns aren't too important I've found)w
What kind of girl have you fallen for, fell in love with? Was it the shy demure type? Passionate and playful? Intellectual? What was one trait they had or had to have? What was their sun, moon and Venus?
Leo moons, libra, moons, gem moons (these are the moons of some of the girls I was with)
Venus usually like taurus or a fire sign
I'm not really into the shy reserved type at all tbh
She gotta be tough, independent, with just enough attitude lol
(As I type this, I'm already changing my mind... isn't that what u ladies really want the gem guys to admit here?)
Doesn't matter.
When you wake up a new one starts
Im starting to feel too old lol
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I think men's first love is important in their future's love life.
As I have seen men in general want women in large numbers without commitment till they are 25. (even if they are in a relationship).
Then they think they know what they want but they still don't.
At 28 they want women as partners but get bad experience.
At 30 some of them have already given up.
At 34 they go back being non-committed if they couldn't find anybody for a long-term.
As I have seen men in general want women in large numbers without commitment till they are 25. (even if they are in a relationship).
Then they think they know what they want but they still don't.
At 28 they want women as partners but get bad experience.
At 30 some of them have already given up.
At 34 they go back being non-committed if they couldn't find anybody for a long-term.
If they can break up with you at random and you're ok with it, that's diamond in their books. Have an invincible heart.
Posted by SaturnladyIn my experience... A lot of guys marry/have kids by 28 then figure out what they want and by 34/35 they back on the market. I think if a guy hits 40 and hasn't found love then he's more likely to not seek commitment until maybe again in his 50's.
I think men's first love is important in their future's love life.
As I have seen men in general want women in large numbers without commitment till they are 25. (even if they are in a relationship).
Then they think they know what they want but they still don't.
At 28 they want women as partners but get bad experience.
At 30 some of them have already given up.
At 34 they go back being non-committed if they couldn't find anybody for a long-term.
Posted by RollergirlOrcWhat if the girl breaks up with the Gem random times?
If they can break up with you at random and you're ok with it, that's diamond in their books. Have an invincible heart.
Posted by MoonbutterThey might pretend to care and be thinking "she'll be back..."Posted by RollergirlOrcWhat if the girl breaks up with the Gem random times?
If they can break up with you at random and you're ok with it, that's diamond in their books. Have an invincible heart.click to expand
They like the batshit crazy but also hate it...hence the constant dichotomy ....confusing as hell...as soon as you do one thing they change their mind. You cant win!!
i dont know but my gmenin keeps me thinking what his emotions somehow he is not like the guy who will say i love you at times i confuse coz when i withraw back he will come calling me and do all initiation but im start yo get tired coz he dont want to connect to me deeper im a sag woman he said that im happy when your around,, dont know whats the meaning of that !idk he cooks for me, spend weekend , sweet with me but sometimes hes not vocal on his feelings
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What kind of girl have you fallen for, fell in love with? Was it the shy demure type? Passionate and playful? Intellectual? What was one trait they had or had to have? What was their sun, moon and Venus?
If there was one requirement it would be this: intellectual. I cannot emphasize enough how important this is to Gem guys and girls. When we do not receive regular doses of mental stimulation from a partner, that is when we A) get quiet/detached (because we are bored) or B) start daydreaming about Susie, Bob, Cindy, Bill, whoever (again, because we are bored). Even if you don't share the same level of interest in a topic that your Gem partner does, be sure to give them the space and attention they want when they get excited and chatty about a topic. Sometimes we just want an audience. Just remember: the path to a Gemini's labido is through the ear. So if the "north" isn't being stimulated, then nothing down "south" will get activated. ; )
Posted by GeminiGuy76Dang, then I must have really been activating my Gem ex Northern region hahaPosted by Moonbutter
What kind of girl have you fallen for, fell in love with? Was it the shy demure type? Passionate and playful? Intellectual? What was one trait they had or had to have? What was their sun, moon and Venus?
If there was one requirement it would be this: intellectual. I cannot emphasize enough how important this is to Gem guys and girls. When we do not receive regular doses of mental stimulation from a partner, that is when we A) get quiet/detached (because we are bored) or B) start daydreaming about Susie, Bob, Cindy, Bill, whoever (again, because we are bored). Even if you don't share the same level of interest in a topic that your Gem partner does, be sure to give them the space and attention they want when they get excited and chatty about a topic. Sometimes we just want an audience. Just remember: the path to a Gemini's labido is through the ear. So if the "north" isn't being stimulated, then nothing down "south" will get activated. ; )
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Posted by MoonbutterMost likely it keeps him on his toes: "should I stay or should I run?"Posted by Kjk62Keeps a lady on her toes 😉Posted by LonerLoopThursday. Saturday. Monday.Posted by Kjk62Posted by MoonbutterAquas, gemini, virgo, scorpio suns (suns aren't too important I've found)w
What kind of girl have you fallen for, fell in love with? Was it the shy demure type? Passionate and playful? Intellectual? What was one trait they had or had to have? What was their sun, moon and Venus?
Leo moons, libra, moons, gem moons (these are the moons of some of the girls I was with)
Venus usually like taurus or a fire sign
I'm not really into the shy reserved type at all tbh
She gotta be tough, independent, with just enough attitude lol
(As I type this, I'm already changing my mind... isn't that what u ladies really want the gem guys to admit here?)
Doesn't matter.
When you wake up a new one starts
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Posted by UndineI was just saying I like the wit and mentality of Gems ? I need that as well in a partner.Posted by MoonbutterMost likely it keeps him on his toes: "should I stay or should I run?"Posted by Kjk62Keeps a lady on her toes 😉Posted by LonerLoopThursday. Saturday. Monday.Posted by Kjk62Posted by MoonbutterAquas, gemini, virgo, scorpio suns (suns aren't too important I've found)w
What kind of girl have you fallen for, fell in love with? Was it the shy demure type? Passionate and playful? Intellectual? What was one trait they had or had to have? What was their sun, moon and Venus?
Leo moons, libra, moons, gem moons (these are the moons of some of the girls I was with)
Venus usually like taurus or a fire sign
I'm not really into the shy reserved type at all tbh
She gotta be tough, independent, with just enough attitude lol
(As I type this, I'm already changing my mind... isn't that what u ladies really want the gem guys to admit here?)
Doesn't matter.
When you wake up a new one starts
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Posted by littlenanobyteThis sounds *exactly* like what my man requires! Could you check out my post http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/ascendants/major-differences-between-gemini-leo-and-virgo-ascendants-6834998/ and see if it sounds like my guy's rising could be gemini? Trying to figure that out, and your post here just made me do a double take! Would mean a lot.
I've dated 2 Gemini men long term, so I can try to answer?? These are all pretty general, there are exceptions to each of them, this is just what I see from my own experience.
They like a girl with very thick skin - these guys like to really mess around with your head and can have some really cruel senses of humor! This is why I think gem/gem relationships are so good. My guy has said shit to me, and I'm thinking "no other girl could handle this" lol, they are savages ? They aren't going to want to be with a girl who gets offended or upset easily. No no no. They need someone with a similar sense of humor or I just don't see it working out. Huge jokesters and pranksters.
They like a girl who will give them space (not doing so will cause resentment), but also be kind of crazy and possessive. It turns them on, a LOT, to have a woman be territorial. There has to be balance here. This why a lot of gem men like Scorpio women. Or at least at first.... Then their obsession/possessiveness kicks in and the relationship is done.
Someone who is willing to go on adventures with them - be it a hike in the forest, a music festival, or traveling the world. They need someone who has an adventurous spirit just as much as them. A homebody isn't going to be a good match for your cookie cutter gem. (Perhaps for example, if he has cancer or Taurus placement, he'd be more accepting of a homebody).
Someone who will put them in their place and call them on their shit! These guys like to and will get away with all kinds of shit if you allow them to. You gotta put the hammer down at some pint or they will walk all over you. Demand respect. I think this is why they say gem men and Aries women are a good match.
Someone who is an intellectual. This seems to be a requirement for all gems... No matter the placement. They simply won't settle down with a woman who's not intelligent and has a thirst for knowledge. They want to engage in conversation about EVERYTHING, (art, music, culture, technology, people, movies, physics, theories on the universe, everything!) so you gotta be able to know a bit (or more) about everything 😆
Okay that's all I can think of for now.
Very interesting topic haha but still,Gem guys change their mind in all the time so who knows what they really want at the end of the day..lol?
*follows topic
Posted by littlenanobyteNAILED IT. I'm a Virgo & I think I'm the craziest mofo he's ever been with, lol. We drive each other insane but I wouldn't trade him for anything. ❤️
I've dated 2 Gemini men long term, so I can try to answer?? These are all pretty general, there are exceptions to each of them, this is just what I see from my own experience.
They like a girl with very thick skin - these guys like to really mess around with your head and can have some really cruel senses of humor! This is why I think gem/gem relationships are so good. My guy has said shit to me, and I'm thinking "no other girl could handle this" lol, they are savages ? They aren't going to want to be with a girl who gets offended or upset easily. No no no. They need someone with a similar sense of humor or I just don't see it working out. Huge jokesters and pranksters.
They like a girl who will give them space (not doing so will cause resentment), but also be kind of crazy and possessive. It turns them on, a LOT, to have a woman be territorial. There has to be balance here. This why a lot of gem men like Scorpio women. Or at least at first.... Then their obsession/possessiveness kicks in and the relationship is done.
Someone who is willing to go on adventures with them - be it a hike in the forest, a music festival, or traveling the world. They need someone who has an adventurous spirit just as much as them. A homebody isn't going to be a good match for your cookie cutter gem. (Perhaps for example, if he has cancer or Taurus placement, he'd be more accepting of a homebody).
Someone who will put them in their place and call them on their shit! These guys like to and will get away with all kinds of shit if you allow them to. You gotta put the hammer down at some pint or they will walk all over you. Demand respect. I think this is why they say gem men and Aries women are a good match.
Someone who is an intellectual. This seems to be a requirement for all gems... No matter the placement. They simply won't settle down with a woman who's not intelligent and has a thirst for knowledge. They want to engage in conversation about EVERYTHING, (art, music, culture, technology, people, movies, physics, theories on the universe, everything!) so you gotta be able to know a bit (or more) about everything 😆
Okay that's all I can think of for now.
I do wild things with him & he thinks I'm absolutely bananas & it turns him on like hell, but you got it!! They won't go for the faint at heart at all ?
I adore this women at a very young age and still do. Lady Jane Seymour
Posted by RealTalkHim you have the same placements as my ex... And yes he liked the fact I looked all innocent lolPosted by littlenanobyteNAILED IT. I'm a Virgo & I think I'm the craziest mofo he's ever been with, lol. We drive each other insane but I wouldn't trade him for anything. ❤️
I've dated 2 Gemini men long term, so I can try to answer?? These are all pretty general, there are exceptions to each of them, this is just what I see from my own experience.
They like a girl with very thick skin - these guys like to really mess around with your head and can have some really cruel senses of humor! This is why I think gem/gem relationships are so good. My guy has said shit to me, and I'm thinking "no other girl could handle this" lol, they are savages ? They aren't going to want to be with a girl who gets offended or upset easily. No no no. They need someone with a similar sense of humor or I just don't see it working out. Huge jokesters and pranksters.
They like a girl who will give them space (not doing so will cause resentment), but also be kind of crazy and possessive. It turns them on, a LOT, to have a woman be territorial. There has to be balance here. This why a lot of gem men like Scorpio women. Or at least at first.... Then their obsession/possessiveness kicks in and the relationship is done.
Someone who is willing to go on adventures with them - be it a hike in the forest, a music festival, or traveling the world. They need someone who has an adventurous spirit just as much as them. A homebody isn't going to be a good match for your cookie cutter gem. (Perhaps for example, if he has cancer or Taurus placement, he'd be more accepting of a homebody).
Someone who will put them in their place and call them on their shit! These guys like to and will get away with all kinds of shit if you allow them to. You gotta put the hammer down at some pint or they will walk all over you. Demand respect. I think this is why they say gem men and Aries women are a good match.
Someone who is an intellectual. This seems to be a requirement for all gems... No matter the placement. They simply won't settle down with a woman who's not intelligent and has a thirst for knowledge. They want to engage in conversation about EVERYTHING, (art, music, culture, technology, people, movies, physics, theories on the universe, everything!) so you gotta be able to know a bit (or more) about everything 😆
Okay that's all I can think of for now.
I do wild things with him & he thinks I'm absolutely bananas & it turns him on like hell, but you got it!! They won't go for the faint at heart at all ?
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Posted by dimples368Kinda typical. Depends what his Venus is in?
i dont know but my gmenin keeps me thinking what his emotions somehow he is not like the guy who will say i love you at times i confuse coz when i withraw back he will come calling me and do all initiation but im start yo get tired coz he dont want to connect to me deeper im a sag woman he said that im happy when your around,, dont know whats the meaning of that !idk he cooks for me, spend weekend , sweet with me but sometimes hes not vocal on his feelings
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Hi everyone.
Straight forward question.
What does it look like/feel like when a Gemini man takes you or your relationship for granted? What's a normal level of communication?
We used to talk for hours each night and I would get texts all day long
That you have noticed.
What's your experience with Gemini man in a relationship?
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