Gemini man won't go away!

Profile picture of TiaLoves
TiaLoves
@TiaLoves
9 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 2 · Topics: 1
Hey

I have a Gemini man who won't go away!

We met almost two years ago, we both were attracted to eachother. He was very nice and we always had good jokes. After a couple of weeks of chatting on the phone ( we met at the mall ), he wanted to take me out. But I met another guy during that time, I was single and just having fun. I avoided the Gemini guy but he kept on trying. So one day after I left a garthing with my best friend, the Gemini wanted to see me. After weeks of avoiding him I decided to give him a try ( I shouldn't have )! I met him and we were talking like we always do on the phone. He was still nice, and wanted us to get something to eat, I agreed to this restaurant that was across the street from us. We ate and things were fine, he suggested we go to the beach to get to know eachother better. I wasn't feeling it because I was sleepy, but the beach was 5 mins away. So when we get there his hands where everywhere! So of course, I wanted to leave. He kept asking me why over and over. I told him I didn't want to be touched etc. I'm a virgo woman

So he's now driving me back to the restaurant to my car and as he's driving he decides to pull out his package. I was annoyed and so turned off! He was looking lost and asking me what's wrong. So when he got to my car he wanted to talk more, I was ready to go and he was getting upset with me. So I told him I had to work tomorrow and I'll call him later on, he got mad and I got out his car and he drove off mad.

Before I got to my house he was calling and texting me. But I ignored him. I ignored him for 3 months. He still kept calling and texting me. I was hoping he'll catch the hint!

1 day he called, I told him I wasn't interested in him and I feel like he should forget about me. He said he wanted to be friends with me. I was fine with that. So he kept on calling/texting for 3 more months. He asked to take me out but I said no, until 1 day I was having out with friends and I invited him over, ( yea I was a fool) so when he came over it was fine. We were joking like the 1st time and 1 thing lead to another and he performed oral on me ( oops ) after it was over, he wanted me to over and spend the night with him but I had to be to work at 5 a.m. he got mad at me as usual. So I made him leave, he drove off like a fool. He called/texted me 2 weeks later saying he wanted to see me. I said no thanks.

3 months later i get into a relationship with a capricorn man, I'm super happy with him. The Gemini still calls me saying he wants to see me, I told him I was in a relationship. He still calls and texts me. Even when I was with my new boyfriend. So I blocked the Gemini, so months down with my capricorn we broke up and I was heartbroken.

The Gemini calls me from a new number, I had no idea who he was. He kept saying he wants to be friends, I was worried. He starts calling/texting me like nothing happened.
Profile picture of TiaLoves
TiaLoves
@TiaLoves
9 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 2 · Topics: 1
But I never answered because I was trying to get over ex, the Gemini keeps saying he wants to see me. I told him no but he didn't go away. He said he didn't like me and I said the feelings are most definitely mutual! After a few months of him trying to see me and me saying no, he tells me he has gf I said I'm happy for you  ( thank goodness ) and he says she's better than me and he's happy I said congratulations. I blocked him.

A few months later, I get alot of text messages from a random number, long and behold it's him!

I'm now dating another virgo guy, we're taking it slow. The Gemini keeps texting me saying he wants to be friends. I told him to stop contacting me because I'm afraid of him. He just laughs and says I want to be friends and to see me. I was worried!

He got mad and started texting me saying it's my fault why we can't get alone, and I like making him mad, I blocked him again.

He finds me on Facebook, I blocked him.

Months later, I broke up with my virgo guy. But we are talking here and there, but I'm not in no rush for a new guy.

I get a random call and I blocked it, but my cousin reaches out to me on Facebook saying she changed her number and to answer Her call. So when a random number called I answered and it was the Gemini. Now I'm changing my number. Is he ok? He's 27, no kids, good looking, funny, so I really don't understand why won't he go away! He acts like we were in love and had 10 kids together. He calls and texts back to back and since I don't answer, he'll text me and saying I just wanted to see you, ur funny and I like talking too you.

I just don't like guys who get upset so fast, or guys who gets mad when I don't want to do what they want. I don't want to be friends or lovers or nothing with him.

Is this normal Gemini behavior?

Sorry for it being so long
Profile picture of rockyroadicecream
rockyroadicecream
@rockyroadicecream
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 1243 · Posts: 16617 · Topics: 170
He's a fucking psycho that sees you as a piece of ass. He has NO respect for you and basically is stalking you. He has no interest in being "friends." It's his manipulative way into staying in touch so he can further try to bed you.

Keep ignoring him and STOP talking to him. You go on about blocking him, but you clearly have moments where you talk to him.

Do not acknowledge him whatsoever.
Profile picture of rockyroadicecream
rockyroadicecream
@rockyroadicecream
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 1243 · Posts: 16617 · Topics: 170
Posted by misslissa
Wow.... ^^I agree!!
It's getting so old having these tired, immature girls who come here, crying about how a guy won't "leave them alone" yet they're entertaining the asshole and giving him the green light to stick around. They respond eventually, they chat them up, they give the asshole ANY type of response, and so on. This is what the guy thrives off of. It's a breadcrumb to him so he keeps coming back for more because he thinks he can break the silly bitch down.

Stop acknowledging these fuckers. I know if I don't want someone around or bothering me, I make it known, I wipe them out of my life, and I rarely had the problem of them "coming back around." Why? Because I made myself effing clear.

A friend of mine and I both had an issue with a guy. He keeps popping back into her life because she's too nice and has never really told him to fuck off. It's been like 5-6 years and he pops up every time he happens to be single, trying to chase her down, bothering her. He's a dick and she has no interest because he's a total loser.

I haven't heard shit from him because I told him to fuck off and acted like he didn't exist. AMAZING how I never hear from his psycho ass.
Profile picture of misslissa
misslissa
@misslissa
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Comments: 585 · Posts: 4402 · Topics: 46
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by misslissa
Wow.... ^^I agree!!
It's getting so old having these tired, immature girls who come here, crying about how a guy won't "leave them alone" yet they're entertaining the asshole and giving him the green light to stick around. They respond eventually, they chat them up, they give the asshole ANY type of response, and so on. This is what the guy thrives off of. It's a breadcrumb to him so he keeps coming back for more because he thinks he can break the silly bitch down.

Stop acknowledging these fuckers. I know if I don't want someone around or bothering me, I make it known, I wipe them out of my life, and I rarely had the problem of them "coming back around." Why? Because I made myself effing clear.

A friend of mine and I both had an issue with a guy. He keeps popping back into her life because she's too nice and has never really told him to fuck off. It's been like 5-6 years and he pops up every time he happens to be single, trying to chase her down, bothering her. He's a dick and she has no interest because he's a total loser.

I haven't heard shit from him because I told him to fuck off and acted like he didn't exist. AMAZING how I never hear from his psycho ass.
click to expand

Yea.... it is getting old. And, I have to agree with if you don't acknowledge they extist... they won't exist. Any kind of communication is feeding whatever delusions they have going on.
Profile picture of LadyNeptune
LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 11076 · Posts: 35718 · Topics: 110
Posted by AriesLady8
He doesn't like you. If you're story is accurate it sounds like he doesn't know you enough to genuinely like you.

It's the rejection that's making him peruse you so hard. He calls when he's bored and in between women. And you seem to entertain him when you're bored as well
Exactly. Gemini's like a good mystery, and it is human nature to want what you can't have.

You avoiding him, ignoring him, but then taking his calls/texts and entertaining his bullshit is keeping him on the line. You need to completely go ghost. Change your number. Do not answer unknown callers.
Profile picture of LoveSeeker
LoveSeeker
@LoveSeeker
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 214 · Posts: 1468 · Topics: 21
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by AriesLady8
He doesn't like you. If you're story is accurate it sounds like he doesn't know you enough to genuinely like you.

It's the rejection that's making him peruse you so hard. He calls when he's bored and in between women. And you seem to entertain him when you're bored as well
Exactly. Gemini's like a good mystery, and it is human nature to want what you can't have.

You avoiding him, ignoring him, but then taking his calls/texts and entertaining his bullshit is keeping him on the line. You need to completely go ghost. Change your number. Do not answer unknown callers.
click to expand


The problem is she said that she is attracted to him...