TiaLoves
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Posted by misslissaIt's getting so old having these tired, immature girls who come here, crying about how a guy won't "leave them alone" yet they're entertaining the asshole and giving him the green light to stick around. They respond eventually, they chat them up, they give the asshole ANY type of response, and so on. This is what the guy thrives off of. It's a breadcrumb to him so he keeps coming back for more because he thinks he can break the silly bitch down.
Wow.... ^^I agree!!

Posted by rockyroadicecreamYea.... it is getting old. And, I have to agree with if you don't acknowledge they extist... they won't exist. Any kind of communication is feeding whatever delusions they have going on.Posted by misslissaIt's getting so old having these tired, immature girls who come here, crying about how a guy won't "leave them alone" yet they're entertaining the asshole and giving him the green light to stick around. They respond eventually, they chat them up, they give the asshole ANY type of response, and so on. This is what the guy thrives off of. It's a breadcrumb to him so he keeps coming back for more because he thinks he can break the silly bitch down.
Wow.... ^^I agree!!
Stop acknowledging these fuckers. I know if I don't want someone around or bothering me, I make it known, I wipe them out of my life, and I rarely had the problem of them "coming back around." Why? Because I made myself effing clear.
A friend of mine and I both had an issue with a guy. He keeps popping back into her life because she's too nice and has never really told him to fuck off. It's been like 5-6 years and he pops up every time he happens to be single, trying to chase her down, bothering her. He's a dick and she has no interest because he's a total loser.
I haven't heard shit from him because I told him to fuck off and acted like he didn't exist. AMAZING how I never hear from his psycho ass.click to expand



Posted by AriesLady8Couldn't say it better myself!
He doesn't like you. If you're story is accurate it sounds like he doesn't know you enough to genuinely like you.
It's the rejection that's making him peruse you so hard. He calls when he's bored and in between women. And you seem to entertain him when you're bored as well

Posted by AriesLady8Exactly. Gemini's like a good mystery, and it is human nature to want what you can't have.
He doesn't like you. If you're story is accurate it sounds like he doesn't know you enough to genuinely like you.
It's the rejection that's making him peruse you so hard. He calls when he's bored and in between women. And you seem to entertain him when you're bored as well


Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesLady8Exactly. Gemini's like a good mystery, and it is human nature to want what you can't have.
He doesn't like you. If you're story is accurate it sounds like he doesn't know you enough to genuinely like you.
It's the rejection that's making him peruse you so hard. He calls when he's bored and in between women. And you seem to entertain him when you're bored as well
You avoiding him, ignoring him, but then taking his calls/texts and entertaining his bullshit is keeping him on the line. You need to completely go ghost. Change your number. Do not answer unknown callers.click to expand

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I have a Gemini man who won't go away!
We met almost two years ago, we both were attracted to eachother. He was very nice and we always had good jokes. After a couple of weeks of chatting on the phone ( we met at the mall ), he wanted to take me out. But I met another guy during that time, I was single and just having fun. I avoided the Gemini guy but he kept on trying. So one day after I left a garthing with my best friend, the Gemini wanted to see me. After weeks of avoiding him I decided to give him a try ( I shouldn't have )! I met him and we were talking like we always do on the phone. He was still nice, and wanted us to get something to eat, I agreed to this restaurant that was across the street from us. We ate and things were fine, he suggested we go to the beach to get to know eachother better. I wasn't feeling it because I was sleepy, but the beach was 5 mins away. So when we get there his hands where everywhere! So of course, I wanted to leave. He kept asking me why over and over. I told him I didn't want to be touched etc. I'm a virgo woman
So he's now driving me back to the restaurant to my car and as he's driving he decides to pull out his package. I was annoyed and so turned off! He was looking lost and asking me what's wrong. So when he got to my car he wanted to talk more, I was ready to go and he was getting upset with me. So I told him I had to work tomorrow and I'll call him later on, he got mad and I got out his car and he drove off mad.
Before I got to my house he was calling and texting me. But I ignored him. I ignored him for 3 months. He still kept calling and texting me. I was hoping he'll catch the hint!
1 day he called, I told him I wasn't interested in him and I feel like he should forget about me. He said he wanted to be friends with me. I was fine with that. So he kept on calling/texting for 3 more months. He asked to take me out but I said no, until 1 day I was having out with friends and I invited him over, ( yea I was a fool) so when he came over it was fine. We were joking like the 1st time and 1 thing lead to another and he performed oral on me ( oops ) after it was over, he wanted me to over and spend the night with him but I had to be to work at 5 a.m. he got mad at me as usual. So I made him leave, he drove off like a fool. He called/texted me 2 weeks later saying he wanted to see me. I said no thanks.
3 months later i get into a relationship with a capricorn man, I'm super happy with him. The Gemini still calls me saying he wants to see me, I told him I was in a relationship. He still calls and texts me. Even when I was with my new boyfriend. So I blocked the Gemini, so months down with my capricorn we broke up and I was heartbroken.
The Gemini calls me from a new number, I had no idea who he was. He kept saying he wants to be friends, I was worried. He starts calling/texting me like nothing happened.