Gemgal101
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Gemini on breakups and reconnecting with an ex
Posted by Gemgal101And how long have you been apart?Posted by krakcatHow long were you 2 together and who did the breaking up (you say it was mutual but did one instigate it?)
Ive been on an intensive relationship with my gemini ex and sadly we broke up on mutual terms. we have agreed to stay as friends. We both also agreed that we don't know what the future holds and we could be brought back together if the time is right or we might go on to better things separately. It was a very sad break up as with both of us left each other loving and caring for each other still.
Being a leo, I hold on to my love ones close to my heart. I regretted going on a break with her and have missed her dearly since. I still care for her and my love for her hasn't changed a bit. Sadly, I am the only 1 seeing something in us and yet she doesn't anymore. I know that i'm not in denial and clearly, i am not delusional. Right now, my plan is to focus on myself and remaining good terms as a friend with hope that 1 day fate and law of attraction brings us back together.
Now my question for you gemini is.. How are gems like post-breakups, i know and have a gut feeling, deep down inside her, she cares and she is affected by this whole thing. However, she is not showing any signs from they way i speak to her. she's very neutral, cold, and lacks expression in her texts. I could tell the difference because she has an expressive way of writing texts. exclamation marks, emojis, etc. It makes no sense if she wanted to remain as a friend. what are these signs telling me?
second question, on reconnecting with an ex advise from geminis, have you ever reconnected? and if your potential ex wanted to, would u?
I know for a fact that gems like the chase, and therefore i would like to establish a ground where she can find the chase in my again.
PS* Male- Sun in leo, Moon in Pisces, Merc in leo, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Gemini
Female - Sun in Gemini, Moon in Cap, Merc in Cancer, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Leo
Did you both love each other?
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Posted by krakcatThanks for the refer post.Posted by Gemgal101We have been together for almost 2 years, Dated for 6 months and moved in for a year together. She instigated it and i agreed on it and we loved each other very much.Posted by Gemgal101And how long have you been apart?Posted by krakcatHow long were you 2 together and who did the breaking up (you say it was mutual but did one instigate it?)
Ive been on an intensive relationship with my gemini ex and sadly we broke up on mutual terms. we have agreed to stay as friends. We both also agreed that we don't know what the future holds and we could be brought back together if the time is right or we might go on to better things separately. It was a very sad break up as with both of us left each other loving and caring for each other still.
Being a leo, I hold on to my love ones close to my heart. I regretted going on a break with her and have missed her dearly since. I still care for her and my love for her hasn't changed a bit. Sadly, I am the only 1 seeing something in us and yet she doesn't anymore. I know that i'm not in denial and clearly, i am not delusional. Right now, my plan is to focus on myself and remaining good terms as a friend with hope that 1 day fate and law of attraction brings us back together.
Now my question for you gemini is.. How are gems like post-breakups, i know and have a gut feeling, deep down inside her, she cares and she is affected by this whole thing. However, she is not showing any signs from they way i speak to her. she's very neutral, cold, and lacks expression in her texts. I could tell the difference because she has an expressive way of writing texts. exclamation marks, emojis, etc. It makes no sense if she wanted to remain as a friend. what are these signs telling me?
second question, on reconnecting with an ex advise from geminis, have you ever reconnected? and if your potential ex wanted to, would u?
I know for a fact that gems like the chase, and therefore i would like to establish a ground where she can find the chase in my again.
PS* Male- Sun in leo, Moon in Pisces, Merc in leo, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Gemini
Female - Sun in Gemini, Moon in Cap, Merc in Cancer, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Leo
Did you both love each other?
If you would like to know more about the relationship, you can refer to this post as i've posted for advise a week ago. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/need-advise-from-gemini-ladies-10464385/click to expand
I'm a Gemini and I dated a Leo for 4.5 years. We were friends for 4 years prior. We got along so well. We moved in together too but I saw things in him that I had never seen when we were just friends. His priorities I felt didn't include me and that his friends, work and money meant more.
(Not saying u are like that).
I moved out after a year. About 6 months later I iniated a 2 week break. It's Not that I needed a break from him, I just needed to figure out how I would break up with him because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. We broke up after that but was almost like mutual. You see, I'd already broken up with him in my head and heart long before the 2 week break. I had spent many nights crying and angry knowing that it wasn't going to work. I have done this with every boyfriend I've had...gone thru the grieving process of realising it was over so when it did happen, it didn't feel out of the blue..I was ready to move forward.
I hate to say it but she may not want to come back. I have only gone back to an Ex if they initiated the break up.
This is just me and my story so take what you wish from it..
Posted by Gemgal101sounds like we have a similar situation. i could tell that she was ready to move forward and her faith in the relationship was no longer there anymore. and yes at the time being, i know that she will not come back, and now i guess i know in the future there's a high chance she wouldn't too.Posted by krakcatThanks for the refer post.Posted by Gemgal101We have been together for almost 2 years, Dated for 6 months and moved in for a year together. She instigated it and i agreed on it and we loved each other very much.Posted by Gemgal101And how long have you been apart?Posted by krakcatHow long were you 2 together and who did the breaking up (you say it was mutual but did one instigate it?)
Ive been on an intensive relationship with my gemini ex and sadly we broke up on mutual terms. we have agreed to stay as friends. We both also agreed that we don't know what the future holds and we could be brought back together if the time is right or we might go on to better things separately. It was a very sad break up as with both of us left each other loving and caring for each other still.
Being a leo, I hold on to my love ones close to my heart. I regretted going on a break with her and have missed her dearly since. I still care for her and my love for her hasn't changed a bit. Sadly, I am the only 1 seeing something in us and yet she doesn't anymore. I know that i'm not in denial and clearly, i am not delusional. Right now, my plan is to focus on myself and remaining good terms as a friend with hope that 1 day fate and law of attraction brings us back together.
Now my question for you gemini is.. How are gems like post-breakups, i know and have a gut feeling, deep down inside her, she cares and she is affected by this whole thing. However, she is not showing any signs from they way i speak to her. she's very neutral, cold, and lacks expression in her texts. I could tell the difference because she has an expressive way of writing texts. exclamation marks, emojis, etc. It makes no sense if she wanted to remain as a friend. what are these signs telling me?
second question, on reconnecting with an ex advise from geminis, have you ever reconnected? and if your potential ex wanted to, would u?
I know for a fact that gems like the chase, and therefore i would like to establish a ground where she can find the chase in my again.
PS* Male- Sun in leo, Moon in Pisces, Merc in leo, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Gemini
Female - Sun in Gemini, Moon in Cap, Merc in Cancer, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Leo
Did you both love each other?
If you would like to know more about the relationship, you can refer to this post as i've posted for advise a week ago. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/need-advise-from-gemini-ladies-10464385/
I'm a Gemini and I dated a Leo for 4.5 years. We were friends for 4 years prior. We got along so well. We moved in together too but I saw things in him that I had never seen when we were just friends. His priorities I felt didn't include me and that his friends, work and money meant more.
(Not saying u are like that).
I moved out after a year. About 6 months later I iniated a 2 week break. It's Not that I needed a break from him, I just needed to figure out how I would break up with him because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. We broke up after that but was almost like mutual. You see, I'd already broken up with him in my head and heart long before the 2 week break. I had spent many nights crying and angry knowing that it wasn't going to work. I have done this with every boyfriend I've had...gone thru the grieving process of realising it was over so when it did happen, it didn't feel out of the blue..I was ready to move forward.
I hate to say it but she may not want to come back. I have only gone back to an Ex if they initiated the break up.
This is just me and my story so take what you wish from it..
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Did any of your ex contact you after a long period of time?
Posted by Gemgal101during the time when u started having the feeling to break up in your head and heart, you didn't express that concern to him at all?Posted by krakcatThanks for the refer post.Posted by Gemgal101We have been together for almost 2 years, Dated for 6 months and moved in for a year together. She instigated it and i agreed on it and we loved each other very much.Posted by Gemgal101And how long have you been apart?Posted by krakcatHow long were you 2 together and who did the breaking up (you say it was mutual but did one instigate it?)
Ive been on an intensive relationship with my gemini ex and sadly we broke up on mutual terms. we have agreed to stay as friends. We both also agreed that we don't know what the future holds and we could be brought back together if the time is right or we might go on to better things separately. It was a very sad break up as with both of us left each other loving and caring for each other still.
Being a leo, I hold on to my love ones close to my heart. I regretted going on a break with her and have missed her dearly since. I still care for her and my love for her hasn't changed a bit. Sadly, I am the only 1 seeing something in us and yet she doesn't anymore. I know that i'm not in denial and clearly, i am not delusional. Right now, my plan is to focus on myself and remaining good terms as a friend with hope that 1 day fate and law of attraction brings us back together.
Now my question for you gemini is.. How are gems like post-breakups, i know and have a gut feeling, deep down inside her, she cares and she is affected by this whole thing. However, she is not showing any signs from they way i speak to her. she's very neutral, cold, and lacks expression in her texts. I could tell the difference because she has an expressive way of writing texts. exclamation marks, emojis, etc. It makes no sense if she wanted to remain as a friend. what are these signs telling me?
second question, on reconnecting with an ex advise from geminis, have you ever reconnected? and if your potential ex wanted to, would u?
I know for a fact that gems like the chase, and therefore i would like to establish a ground where she can find the chase in my again.
PS* Male- Sun in leo, Moon in Pisces, Merc in leo, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Gemini
Female - Sun in Gemini, Moon in Cap, Merc in Cancer, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Leo
Did you both love each other?
If you would like to know more about the relationship, you can refer to this post as i've posted for advise a week ago. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/need-advise-from-gemini-ladies-10464385/
I'm a Gemini and I dated a Leo for 4.5 years. We were friends for 4 years prior. We got along so well. We moved in together too but I saw things in him that I had never seen when we were just friends. His priorities I felt didn't include me and that his friends, work and money meant more.
(Not saying u are like that).
I moved out after a year. About 6 months later I iniated a 2 week break. It's Not that I needed a break from him, I just needed to figure out how I would break up with him because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. We broke up after that but was almost like mutual. You see, I'd already broken up with him in my head and heart long before the 2 week break. I had spent many nights crying and angry knowing that it wasn't going to work. I have done this with every boyfriend I've had...gone thru the grieving process of realising it was over so when it did happen, it didn't feel out of the blue..I was ready to move forward.
I hate to say it but she may not want to come back. I have only gone back to an Ex if they initiated the break up.
This is just me and my story so take what you wish from it..
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that's how i felt with my ex. she's always quiet about her inner thoughts and i could sense something everytime in her. i have very high senses or "6th sense". I always would tell her that she can speak to me anytime if anything is up but i felt that she is holding back.
that's when things in the house while living together got a little more tense. quiet and sensitive. she blames her depression and anxiety. she used to talk to me about everything, we were so open about it. Maybe living conditions, minor problems, misunderstandings led to her holding back her thoughts, she might be afraid to speak up as she thought that im unable to provide her that opening anymore? idk, these are the past and now that i look back, maybe these are the causes and made things change from her POV. I never knew what exactly happened and she's not that kind that can express well. I never blame her for that. I was constantly trying to figure things out myself.
Posted by krakcatMy ex didn't want to talk for 6 months then he contacted me. I enjoyed the contact. Was just like we were when we were friends but then things got weird and he started talking about nights we'd spent together. I felt uncomfortable and told him it did. He stopped but did it again and then was one incident where he wanted to catch up face to face. Didn't really want to but I said yes. Got cancelled that many times and eventually wanted to meet at mine. I said no. Wasn't comfortable. He said well if I can't see u we can't be friends so that was it. I still wanted to be friends and reached out to him but he ignored me and haven't spoken for years. Don't miss him. Just think maybe were better friends than partners.Posted by Gemgal101sounds like we have a similar situation. i could tell that she was ready to move forward and her faith in the relationship was no longer there anymore. and yes at the time being, i know that she will not come back, and now i guess i know in the future there's a high chance she wouldn't too.Posted by krakcatThanks for the refer post.Posted by Gemgal101We have been together for almost 2 years, Dated for 6 months and moved in for a year together. She instigated it and i agreed on it and we loved each other very much.Posted by Gemgal101And how long have you been apart?Posted by krakcatHow long were you 2 together and who did the breaking up (you say it was mutual but did one instigate it?)
Ive been on an intensive relationship with my gemini ex and sadly we broke up on mutual terms. we have agreed to stay as friends. We both also agreed that we don't know what the future holds and we could be brought back together if the time is right or we might go on to better things separately. It was a very sad break up as with both of us left each other loving and caring for each other still.
Being a leo, I hold on to my love ones close to my heart. I regretted going on a break with her and have missed her dearly since. I still care for her and my love for her hasn't changed a bit. Sadly, I am the only 1 seeing something in us and yet she doesn't anymore. I know that i'm not in denial and clearly, i am not delusional. Right now, my plan is to focus on myself and remaining good terms as a friend with hope that 1 day fate and law of attraction brings us back together.
Now my question for you gemini is.. How are gems like post-breakups, i know and have a gut feeling, deep down inside her, she cares and she is affected by this whole thing. However, she is not showing any signs from they way i speak to her. she's very neutral, cold, and lacks expression in her texts. I could tell the difference because she has an expressive way of writing texts. exclamation marks, emojis, etc. It makes no sense if she wanted to remain as a friend. what are these signs telling me?
second question, on reconnecting with an ex advise from geminis, have you ever reconnected? and if your potential ex wanted to, would u?
I know for a fact that gems like the chase, and therefore i would like to establish a ground where she can find the chase in my again.
PS* Male- Sun in leo, Moon in Pisces, Merc in leo, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Gemini
Female - Sun in Gemini, Moon in Cap, Merc in Cancer, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Leo
Did you both love each other?
If you would like to know more about the relationship, you can refer to this post as i've posted for advise a week ago. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/need-advise-from-gemini-ladies-10464385/
I'm a Gemini and I dated a Leo for 4.5 years. We were friends for 4 years prior. We got along so well. We moved in together too but I saw things in him that I had never seen when we were just friends. His priorities I felt didn't include me and that his friends, work and money meant more.
(Not saying u are like that).
I moved out after a year. About 6 months later I iniated a 2 week break. It's Not that I needed a break from him, I just needed to figure out how I would break up with him because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. We broke up after that but was almost like mutual. You see, I'd already broken up with him in my head and heart long before the 2 week break. I had spent many nights crying and angry knowing that it wasn't going to work. I have done this with every boyfriend I've had...gone thru the grieving process of realising it was over so when it did happen, it didn't feel out of the blue..I was ready to move forward.
I hate to say it but she may not want to come back. I have only gone back to an Ex if they initiated the break up.
This is just me and my story so take what you wish from it..
Did any of your ex contact you after a long period of time?click to expand
Posted by Gemgal101tbh. im not a believer of lovers becoming friends. im doing it and agreeing to it because i know that she's someone i would go back together for. remaining contact is my purpose.Posted by krakcatMy ex didn't want to talk for 6 months then he contacted me. I enjoyed the contact. Was just like we were when we were friends but then things got weird and he started talking about nights we'd spent together. I felt uncomfortable and told him it did. He stopped but did it again and then was one incident where he wanted to catch up face to face. Didn't really want to but I said yes. Got cancelled that many times and eventually wanted to meet at mine. I said no. Wasn't comfortable. He said well if I can't see u we can't be friends so that was it. I still wanted to be friends and reached out to him but he ignored me and haven't spoken for years. Don't miss him. Just think maybe were better friends than partners.Posted by Gemgal101sounds like we have a similar situation. i could tell that she was ready to move forward and her faith in the relationship was no longer there anymore. and yes at the time being, i know that she will not come back, and now i guess i know in the future there's a high chance she wouldn't too.Posted by krakcatThanks for the refer post.Posted by Gemgal101We have been together for almost 2 years, Dated for 6 months and moved in for a year together. She instigated it and i agreed on it and we loved each other very much.Posted by Gemgal101And how long have you been apart?Posted by krakcatHow long were you 2 together and who did the breaking up (you say it was mutual but did one instigate it?)
Ive been on an intensive relationship with my gemini ex and sadly we broke up on mutual terms. we have agreed to stay as friends. We both also agreed that we don't know what the future holds and we could be brought back together if the time is right or we might go on to better things separately. It was a very sad break up as with both of us left each other loving and caring for each other still.
Being a leo, I hold on to my love ones close to my heart. I regretted going on a break with her and have missed her dearly since. I still care for her and my love for her hasn't changed a bit. Sadly, I am the only 1 seeing something in us and yet she doesn't anymore. I know that i'm not in denial and clearly, i am not delusional. Right now, my plan is to focus on myself and remaining good terms as a friend with hope that 1 day fate and law of attraction brings us back together.
Now my question for you gemini is.. How are gems like post-breakups, i know and have a gut feeling, deep down inside her, she cares and she is affected by this whole thing. However, she is not showing any signs from they way i speak to her. she's very neutral, cold, and lacks expression in her texts. I could tell the difference because she has an expressive way of writing texts. exclamation marks, emojis, etc. It makes no sense if she wanted to remain as a friend. what are these signs telling me?
second question, on reconnecting with an ex advise from geminis, have you ever reconnected? and if your potential ex wanted to, would u?
I know for a fact that gems like the chase, and therefore i would like to establish a ground where she can find the chase in my again.
PS* Male- Sun in leo, Moon in Pisces, Merc in leo, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Gemini
Female - Sun in Gemini, Moon in Cap, Merc in Cancer, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Leo
Did you both love each other?
If you would like to know more about the relationship, you can refer to this post as i've posted for advise a week ago. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/need-advise-from-gemini-ladies-10464385/
I'm a Gemini and I dated a Leo for 4.5 years. We were friends for 4 years prior. We got along so well. We moved in together too but I saw things in him that I had never seen when we were just friends. His priorities I felt didn't include me and that his friends, work and money meant more.
(Not saying u are like that).
I moved out after a year. About 6 months later I iniated a 2 week break. It's Not that I needed a break from him, I just needed to figure out how I would break up with him because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. We broke up after that but was almost like mutual. You see, I'd already broken up with him in my head and heart long before the 2 week break. I had spent many nights crying and angry knowing that it wasn't going to work. I have done this with every boyfriend I've had...gone thru the grieving process of realising it was over so when it did happen, it didn't feel out of the blue..I was ready to move forward.
I hate to say it but she may not want to come back. I have only gone back to an Ex if they initiated the break up.
This is just me and my story so take what you wish from it..
Did any of your ex contact you after a long period of time?
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as for your ex lover/friend. i think he was rushing it a little too fast. im not a love-guru myself but i would definitely take it slow and carefully if i were to go back together with an ex-lover. regain trust / and change her perspective of how she look at things, increasing the chances of being partner.
Maturity and knowing how to handle situation like this plays a big part don't you think? With that being said, since you said you have enjoyed the contact. and if he treated everything with care( as a friend). and IF you have witness a change in things in him, would you think that you will even give it a try and let everything reignited or blow out the flame immediately if you sense something different from what you want is happening?
Posted by krakcatI never expressed it to him how I felt. I never do because I never felt that they would understand what was really going on in my head and heart. I wanted to talk but would always keep my feelings to myself. But i also think a part of me knew that it wasn't going to work anyway so I stayed longer hoping that maybe things would change and get better but they didn't. I dont think talking about it would have helped because i had this vision of how it would be and it wasnt. In this case I believed we were so much better friends. I'm learning more now that I'm older but I still believe everything happens for a reason.Posted by Gemgal101during the time when u started having the feeling to break up in your head and heart, you didn't express that concern to him at all?Posted by krakcatThanks for the refer post.Posted by Gemgal101We have been together for almost 2 years, Dated for 6 months and moved in for a year together. She instigated it and i agreed on it and we loved each other very much.Posted by Gemgal101And how long have you been apart?Posted by krakcatHow long were you 2 together and who did the breaking up (you say it was mutual but did one instigate it?)
Ive been on an intensive relationship with my gemini ex and sadly we broke up on mutual terms. we have agreed to stay as friends. We both also agreed that we don't know what the future holds and we could be brought back together if the time is right or we might go on to better things separately. It was a very sad break up as with both of us left each other loving and caring for each other still.
Being a leo, I hold on to my love ones close to my heart. I regretted going on a break with her and have missed her dearly since. I still care for her and my love for her hasn't changed a bit. Sadly, I am the only 1 seeing something in us and yet she doesn't anymore. I know that i'm not in denial and clearly, i am not delusional. Right now, my plan is to focus on myself and remaining good terms as a friend with hope that 1 day fate and law of attraction brings us back together.
Now my question for you gemini is.. How are gems like post-breakups, i know and have a gut feeling, deep down inside her, she cares and she is affected by this whole thing. However, she is not showing any signs from they way i speak to her. she's very neutral, cold, and lacks expression in her texts. I could tell the difference because she has an expressive way of writing texts. exclamation marks, emojis, etc. It makes no sense if she wanted to remain as a friend. what are these signs telling me?
second question, on reconnecting with an ex advise from geminis, have you ever reconnected? and if your potential ex wanted to, would u?
I know for a fact that gems like the chase, and therefore i would like to establish a ground where she can find the chase in my again.
PS* Male- Sun in leo, Moon in Pisces, Merc in leo, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Gemini
Female - Sun in Gemini, Moon in Cap, Merc in Cancer, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Leo
Did you both love each other?
If you would like to know more about the relationship, you can refer to this post as i've posted for advise a week ago. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/need-advise-from-gemini-ladies-10464385/
I'm a Gemini and I dated a Leo for 4.5 years. We were friends for 4 years prior. We got along so well. We moved in together too but I saw things in him that I had never seen when we were just friends. His priorities I felt didn't include me and that his friends, work and money meant more.
(Not saying u are like that).
I moved out after a year. About 6 months later I iniated a 2 week break. It's Not that I needed a break from him, I just needed to figure out how I would break up with him because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. We broke up after that but was almost like mutual. You see, I'd already broken up with him in my head and heart long before the 2 week break. I had spent many nights crying and angry knowing that it wasn't going to work. I have done this with every boyfriend I've had...gone thru the grieving process of realising it was over so when it did happen, it didn't feel out of the blue..I was ready to move forward.
I hate to say it but she may not want to come back. I have only gone back to an Ex if they initiated the break up.
This is just me and my story so take what you wish from it..
that's how i felt with my ex. she's always quiet about her inner thoughts and i could sense something everytime in her. i have very high senses or "6th sense". I always would tell her that she can speak to me anytime if anything is up but i felt that she is holding back.
that's when things in the house while living together got a little more tense. quiet and sensitive. she blames her depression and anxiety. she used to talk to me about everything, we were so open about it. Maybe living conditions, minor problems, misunderstandings led to her holding back her thoughts, she might be afraid to speak up as she thought that im unable to provide her that opening anymore? idk, these are the past and now that i look back, maybe these are the causes and made things change from her POV. I never knew what exactly happened and she's not that kind that can express well. I never blame her for that. I was constantly trying to figure things out myself.
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Posted by krakcatHe was a little immature I feel but this happened years ago. I enjoyed the initial contact and perhaps if he didn't say stupid things and just keep it platonic then perhaps I may have stayed friends but not friends you talk to all the time. I valued his friendship but sometimes you cant be friends after especially if one party is still hoping that maybe something will happen.i have only ever stayed friends with exs for about 6 months after, then it kinda naturally disappears. And I actually think it would have faded out anyway in the end.Posted by Gemgal101tbh. im not a believer of lovers becoming friends. im doing it and agreeing to it because i know that she's someone i would go back together for. remaining contact is my purpose.Posted by krakcatMy ex didn't want to talk for 6 months then he contacted me. I enjoyed the contact. Was just like we were when we were friends but then things got weird and he started talking about nights we'd spent together. I felt uncomfortable and told him it did. He stopped but did it again and then was one incident where he wanted to catch up face to face. Didn't really want to but I said yes. Got cancelled that many times and eventually wanted to meet at mine. I said no. Wasn't comfortable. He said well if I can't see u we can't be friends so that was it. I still wanted to be friends and reached out to him but he ignored me and haven't spoken for years. Don't miss him. Just think maybe were better friends than partners.Posted by Gemgal101sounds like we have a similar situation. i could tell that she was ready to move forward and her faith in the relationship was no longer there anymore. and yes at the time being, i know that she will not come back, and now i guess i know in the future there's a high chance she wouldn't too.Posted by krakcatThanks for the refer post.Posted by Gemgal101We have been together for almost 2 years, Dated for 6 months and moved in for a year together. She instigated it and i agreed on it and we loved each other very much.Posted by Gemgal101And how long have you been apart?Posted by krakcatHow long were you 2 together and who did the breaking up (you say it was mutual but did one instigate it?)
Ive been on an intensive relationship with my gemini ex and sadly we broke up on mutual terms. we have agreed to stay as friends. We both also agreed that we don't know what the future holds and we could be brought back together if the time is right or we might go on to better things separately. It was a very sad break up as with both of us left each other loving and caring for each other still.
Being a leo, I hold on to my love ones close to my heart. I regretted going on a break with her and have missed her dearly since. I still care for her and my love for her hasn't changed a bit. Sadly, I am the only 1 seeing something in us and yet she doesn't anymore. I know that i'm not in denial and clearly, i am not delusional. Right now, my plan is to focus on myself and remaining good terms as a friend with hope that 1 day fate and law of attraction brings us back together.
Now my question for you gemini is.. How are gems like post-breakups, i know and have a gut feeling, deep down inside her, she cares and she is affected by this whole thing. However, she is not showing any signs from they way i speak to her. she's very neutral, cold, and lacks expression in her texts. I could tell the difference because she has an expressive way of writing texts. exclamation marks, emojis, etc. It makes no sense if she wanted to remain as a friend. what are these signs telling me?
second question, on reconnecting with an ex advise from geminis, have you ever reconnected? and if your potential ex wanted to, would u?
I know for a fact that gems like the chase, and therefore i would like to establish a ground where she can find the chase in my again.
PS* Male- Sun in leo, Moon in Pisces, Merc in leo, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Gemini
Female - Sun in Gemini, Moon in Cap, Merc in Cancer, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Leo
Did you both love each other?
If you would like to know more about the relationship, you can refer to this post as i've posted for advise a week ago. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/need-advise-from-gemini-ladies-10464385/
I'm a Gemini and I dated a Leo for 4.5 years. We were friends for 4 years prior. We got along so well. We moved in together too but I saw things in him that I had never seen when we were just friends. His priorities I felt didn't include me and that his friends, work and money meant more.
(Not saying u are like that).
I moved out after a year. About 6 months later I iniated a 2 week break. It's Not that I needed a break from him, I just needed to figure out how I would break up with him because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. We broke up after that but was almost like mutual. You see, I'd already broken up with him in my head and heart long before the 2 week break. I had spent many nights crying and angry knowing that it wasn't going to work. I have done this with every boyfriend I've had...gone thru the grieving process of realising it was over so when it did happen, it didn't feel out of the blue..I was ready to move forward.
I hate to say it but she may not want to come back. I have only gone back to an Ex if they initiated the break up.
This is just me and my story so take what you wish from it..
Did any of your ex contact you after a long period of time?
as for your ex lover/friend. i think he was rushing it a little too fast. im not a love-guru myself but i would definitely take it slow and carefully if i were to go back together with an ex-lover. regain trust / and change her perspective of how she look at things, increasing the chances of being partner.
Maturity and knowing how to handle situation like this plays a big part don't you think? With that being said, since you said you have enjoyed the contact. and if he treated everything with care( as a friend). and IF you have witness a change in things in him, would you think that you will even give it a try and let everything reignited or blow out the flame immediately if you sense something different from what you want is happening?click to expand
Once I'm done in a relationship there is no going back to that level. If they break up with me though, different story.
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallowi'm sure she has her reason to why she is cold. i don't really want to pressure her to anything anymore. she don't want to do anything with me anymore at this moment, ill just leave that to a rest.Posted by krakcatOkies... Did you show interest to make it work? If yes then you guys can talk about the good times and rekindle it... Be gentle and good to each other...Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowYes i was planning on it like how we met for the first time and pace is really slowly. 3-5 meets to ignite a spark kinda thing. and regain a chase. but that provided we both have to let go of the past memories of living together. Of cus this is my plan for now, it will take years to commit. but im willing to try since we're just friends.
I'm a Taurus Venus, not easy for me to give in to be with someone... As in the connection has to be extremely strong for me to even consider being with a guy. But when it happens it happens...
I did get back with my Scorp ex, it was back and forth and the relationship as such was very intense and passionate and we loved each other a lot but we didn't know how to pace the relationship? But once there was a final break up and I left... I decided never to get back. But few months later I went back to him when I was asked to... I don't want to discuss the reasons. Still I went back not as a gf but more like a platonic friend but to others I was his gf. Stayed with him for two years!!
So if you ask me I would say give it a break. Maybe if she agrees to meet up? Then yeah you have a chance. If she's firm and doesn't want to? It's better to move on... Unless you want to make it like you guys are meeting for the first time and it's gonna be extremely difficult to pull it off...
Having said that, I did get back with my Taurus. We were dating for few weeks and had a misunderstanding and I called it off. Abruptly. And he left. He came but I wasn't interested because I realized I wanted him back and he ignored it during the misunderstanding stage. So I refused to talk to him out of hurt... Or felt he wasn't there when I wanted him plus I was butthurt he tried to make me jealous( that's why I called it off initially, don't play that game with a fire Mars).
Maybe it's an ego thing? Could be fire Mars problem... We want what we want when we want...
But he stayed around for few years as my friend and put lots of efforts even tho I was with my scorp ex. When I got single I got into a relationship with my Taurus!
I just don't understand the part where why she's still so cold to me as of right now. do you know why?
what sorts of effort was your taurus ex putting while you were with your scorp ex?
You didn't send me your birth details like time of birth and place of birth to pull up the synastry chart, that's why I didn't do it and I'm not a PM person... Sorry
She's cold? That kinda doesn't bode well. If we are cold it could be because we feel we have given it our all and fed up as such or she felt betrayed. Betrayalnor someone kicking us when we trust them is major. I won't forget those moments... I'm not sure as to why she is cold but if that feeling doesn't go away or isnt resolved, you may be wasting time.
Were there any other reason why she could be cold other than feeling drained out of positive energy about the relationship?
Geminis don't avoid when we want something. We will pretty much be around you or try to be around you when we want you...we don't play the waiting game well!!
Taurus ex? He stayed friends with my friends... We weren't talking but I knew if I wanted I could reach out to him. He's a solid guy... Once when he came to know I was struggling a lot, he messaged me to walk out and to be his. And he didn't date anyone for those years...
Anyways, I'm not sure if you trying again is the best way but your life you get to choose and i hope she sees things differently. If she also wants to make it work, then it should work out.
As to she being cold, only she could tell you why... Just give an opening to find out why she's cold...
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To why she's cold, it really troubles me to know why. and that is why i resort to DXP for help. It was ok, she was replying with exclamation marks even after our break up. then lately it was just blend after i surprised visited her. I even apologized for doing that but I relayed to her my reasons as to why. and have asked for forgiveness.
As to my chart. I've gotten the picture for you, how do i provide you with that here?
Posted by Senorita_LLI have decided to move on. I wanted to clear my head because there were unanswered questions in my head. i felt that after knowing the whys, it would eventually ease me out a little. it did alot tbh. thanks!
Imo, she's done and over with. I know it's painful but that's how I feel, by the way you were describing about her. I am somewhat the same. If I am the one that initiate the break up, and then acting all cold, 100% I won't be turning back. If you keep on bugging, I will prolly cut you off totally.
Ain't gonna lie, I did went back to an ex and he was the only one that really got my heart. We kept going back and forth for 5 years but the rest, the moment I am done, it's over.
I'm not sure about your ex but for me, I can't deal with too much emotions. Idk how to handle a man who is way too emotional. I'd prefer the strong, bold and logical men. Too emotional and sensitive men makes me lose interest more faster than anything else. I guess I'm gonna stick with what I've told you previously. You need to let things go and heal.
And I am sorry, once again. I know it's hurting. You will find someone better, Leo. You will. Hugs!
What about friendships? When a friendship goes wrong. Do you guys atleast think about the person or just go cold and carry on with your life?
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowWhat happened? But why wouldn't you support India? Lol . I get you. Maybe he is not thinking from your point of view. We always put our egos first and never think from someone else's perspective. Don't date just marry. Chances are better. And yeah even I won't date any guy 😛 lol. Now where are the girls😍😂Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWell oh well, that's just how they are. They are able to bring the bad out of you. Idk what to say but I don't quite get it. Why did he call you that?Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWut—Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by WittyGem88See.. all of you seems to have horrible stories with the Scorpions.Posted by Senorita_LLI had a scorp ex and after that I told myself, never again. He gave me trust issues which I carey until this very day. Lol. In a way possibly a blessing in disguise. I learned to be stronger and protect myself. Its why I dont trust and fall madly inlove until a man I am with has proven himself to me. It was a pretty explosive relationship with my scorp ex and he is probably the onmy ex that I hate and hates me back lolPosted by FantumMy ex Sag has loads of 8th house in his chart. In vedic, he's a Scorpoop sun so I take as that is what it is. Haha! He's the one that really fucked me over. The rest of the other Sags that I've been with including the last one, yeah they hurt me but I am still able to deal with it.Posted by Senorita_LLBig giant explosion that exploded. That's what it was. I guess it's inspiring if you like watching people blow themselves up. I hated him for a short while after, which is odd. I rarely hate anyone.Posted by FantumLoooL! Just tell her!
@Squishy_Marshmallow I've kept my Scorpio experience quiet because it's not very inspiring. I'm still hoping you make it work with yours. lol!
Gemini won't learn anyways. They kept doing the same shit over and over again until they knew that was really a mistake.
Okay, I am just talking about me, myself and the Sags. That sign deserves to be poke with an arrow right in their ass hole. Twist and turn the arrow a lil so that they could feel the pain. Ahhhhhhh how niceeeeeeee.
The biggest problem was how we met. Shit wasn't easy, and I don't want to go into it. And then the next biggest problem from my point of view, is that he never believed a single thing I said.
Sags are so goddamn charming. No wonder they screw around so much. No wonder you keep falling for them.
I don't know why, I still can't hate the Sags. They just knew me totally inside out and I feel so comfortable with those moda fockers. There's currently 2 Sags at my work place and they both trying to get close despite me calling them assholes. OMG! Why am I always attracting these commitment phobia men.
I still don't understand the attraction between Scorp and Gem tho'. Never had any experience with them. Ummm
What is it about them that's able to get ya guys? Damn, those men are way too dark, horny and possessive for my liking. Muahahahhahahaha
Yeah
We ended it!!! Idk what the hell happened even!
You were right tho... They are so controlling...
Was I wrong?
For me, it will hurt me too. I mean saying something like that can make me feel offended.
Yeah he got annoyed I didn't support India... There isn't even any match... I was being playful but he thought I was being arrogant. And he said that, he was so particular about it! Weird...
He said you should be grateful, etc,.... The thing is I am!! I just don't want to be a kiss ass... And say things to be politically correct or just to he seen as grateful! It's so difficult to say all that, at least for me. But he used that word in a derogatory manner... And it hurts so much! I will never date any guy!!! Better be single... it's a waste of time running around like a mad girl!!!
I don't know how this got here, like it just was something we were discussing!!! Ugh!!! Better now than later... Anyways it wouldn't have worked out 😢
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Posted by Senorita_LLHmmm let me think. Nope. Rather it was the opposite.Posted by Capricorn91It depends.
What about friendships? When a friendship goes wrong. Do you guys atleast think about the person or just go cold and carry on with your life?
If they really, really did hurt me, I just go cold and carry on with my life.
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Posted by Senorita_LLWhat?Posted by Capricorn91Wut?Posted by Senorita_LLHmmm let me think. Nope. Rather it was the opposite.Posted by Capricorn91It depends.
What about friendships? When a friendship goes wrong. Do you guys atleast think about the person or just go cold and carry on with your life?
If they really, really did hurt me, I just go cold and carry on with my life.
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Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowIt's okay. Even I don't support India everytime. It's about who plays better. But yeah he shouldn't have said that. Sorry. But maybe he did realize his mistake later.Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowWhat happened? But why wouldn't you support India? Lol . I get you. Maybe he is not thinking from your point of view. We always put our egos first and never think from someone else's perspective. Don't date just marry. Chances are better. And yeah even I won't date any guy 😛 lol. Now where are the girls😍😂Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWell oh well, that's just how they are. They are able to bring the bad out of you. Idk what to say but I don't quite get it. Why did he call you that?Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWut—Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by WittyGem88See.. all of you seems to have horrible stories with the Scorpions.Posted by Senorita_LLI had a scorp ex and after that I told myself, never again. He gave me trust issues which I carey until this very day. Lol. In a way possibly a blessing in disguise. I learned to be stronger and protect myself. Its why I dont trust and fall madly inlove until a man I am with has proven himself to me. It was a pretty explosive relationship with my scorp ex and he is probably the onmy ex that I hate and hates me back lolPosted by FantumMy ex Sag has loads of 8th house in his chart. In vedic, he's a Scorpoop sun so I take as that is what it is. Haha! He's the one that really fucked me over. The rest of the other Sags that I've been with including the last one, yeah they hurt me but I am still able to deal with it.Posted by Senorita_LLBig giant explosion that exploded. That's what it was. I guess it's inspiring if you like watching people blow themselves up. I hated him for a short while after, which is odd. I rarely hate anyone.Posted by FantumLoooL! Just tell her!
@Squishy_Marshmallow I've kept my Scorpio experience quiet because it's not very inspiring. I'm still hoping you make it work with yours. lol!
Gemini won't learn anyways. They kept doing the same shit over and over again until they knew that was really a mistake.
Okay, I am just talking about me, myself and the Sags. That sign deserves to be poke with an arrow right in their ass hole. Twist and turn the arrow a lil so that they could feel the pain. Ahhhhhhh how niceeeeeeee.
The biggest problem was how we met. Shit wasn't easy, and I don't want to go into it. And then the next biggest problem from my point of view, is that he never believed a single thing I said.
Sags are so goddamn charming. No wonder they screw around so much. No wonder you keep falling for them.
I don't know why, I still can't hate the Sags. They just knew me totally inside out and I feel so comfortable with those moda fockers. There's currently 2 Sags at my work place and they both trying to get close despite me calling them assholes. OMG! Why am I always attracting these commitment phobia men.
I still don't understand the attraction between Scorp and Gem tho'. Never had any experience with them. Ummm
What is it about them that's able to get ya guys? Damn, those men are way too dark, horny and possessive for my liking. Muahahahhahahaha
Yeah
We ended it!!! Idk what the hell happened even!
You were right tho... They are so controlling...
Was I wrong?
For me, it will hurt me too. I mean saying something like that can make me feel offended.
Yeah he got annoyed I didn't support India... There isn't even any match... I was being playful but he thought I was being arrogant. And he said that, he was so particular about it! Weird...
He said you should be grateful, etc,.... The thing is I am!! I just don't want to be a kiss ass... And say things to be politically correct or just to he seen as grateful! It's so difficult to say all that, at least for me. But he used that word in a derogatory manner... And it hurts so much! I will never date any guy!!! Better be single... it's a waste of time running around like a mad girl!!!
I don't know how this got here, like it just was something we were discussing!!! Ugh!!! Better now than later... Anyways it wouldn't have worked out 😢
Phew!
I support India... I was discussing game plays and I was being honest about how I see the teams. I brought out old games and all and he couldn't refute my points. So he said for a refugee you are arrogant... He tried to take it back...
Weird!
Anyways yeah
I'm gonna marry a distant cousin or whatever... Arranged marriage seems like a good option...
Lol
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Yeah arrange marriages good but are like a time bomb lol it will explode only after sometime.
Posted by Senorita_LLNow I will go cold. Help me rather.Posted by Capricorn91Whaaaaaaaaat?Posted by Senorita_LLWhat?Posted by Capricorn91Wut?Posted by Senorita_LLHmmm let me think. Nope. Rather it was the opposite.Posted by Capricorn91It depends.
What about friendships? When a friendship goes wrong. Do you guys atleast think about the person or just go cold and carry on with your life?
If they really, really did hurt me, I just go cold and carry on with my life.
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Posted by nanoBut they would have done something wrong to you right for this. Will you do this even if due to some minor misunderstanding?Posted by Capricorn91No they are dead to me, just completely dead. I don't even mess around with friendships anymore, it's sad but true. I have no problem with completely cutting someone out of my life and ignoring them, be it virtually or in person. I have had ex friends try to reconcile, walk up to me in public places and I don't even look at them, just walk away as if they are ghosts that do not exist. Too many users, liars. Only two people have been loyal to me when the situation called for it, who I consider true friends.
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Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowYeah it's a wrong thing to say imo? It's okay. Give it some time and think with a cool head later.Posted by Capricorn91Yeah he shouldn't have said that? Maybe I'm over reacting? I don't even know if I'm over reacting!!!Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowIt's okay. Even I don't support India everytime. It's about who plays better. But yeah he shouldn't have said that. Sorry. But maybe he did realize his mistake later.Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowWhat happened? But why wouldn't you support India? Lol . I get you. Maybe he is not thinking from your point of view. We always put our egos first and never think from someone else's perspective. Don't date just marry. Chances are better. And yeah even I won't date any guy 😛 lol. Now where are the girls😍😂Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWell oh well, that's just how they are. They are able to bring the bad out of you. Idk what to say but I don't quite get it. Why did he call you that?Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWut—Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by WittyGem88See.. all of you seems to have horrible stories with the Scorpions.Posted by Senorita_LLI had a scorp ex and after that I told myself, never again. He gave me trust issues which I carey until this very day. Lol. In a way possibly a blessing in disguise. I learned to be stronger and protect myself. Its why I dont trust and fall madly inlove until a man I am with has proven himself to me. It was a pretty explosive relationship with my scorp ex and he is probably the onmy ex that I hate and hates me back lolPosted by FantumMy ex Sag has loads of 8th house in his chart. In vedic, he's a Scorpoop sun so I take as that is what it is. Haha! He's the one that really fucked me over. The rest of the other Sags that I've been with including the last one, yeah they hurt me but I am still able to deal with it.Posted by Senorita_LLBig giant explosion that exploded. That's what it was. I guess it's inspiring if you like watching people blow themselves up. I hated him for a short while after, which is odd. I rarely hate anyone.Posted by FantumLoooL! Just tell her!
@Squishy_Marshmallow I've kept my Scorpio experience quiet because it's not very inspiring. I'm still hoping you make it work with yours. lol!
Gemini won't learn anyways. They kept doing the same shit over and over again until they knew that was really a mistake.
Okay, I am just talking about me, myself and the Sags. That sign deserves to be poke with an arrow right in their ass hole. Twist and turn the arrow a lil so that they could feel the pain. Ahhhhhhh how niceeeeeeee.
The biggest problem was how we met. Shit wasn't easy, and I don't want to go into it. And then the next biggest problem from my point of view, is that he never believed a single thing I said.
Sags are so goddamn charming. No wonder they screw around so much. No wonder you keep falling for them.
I don't know why, I still can't hate the Sags. They just knew me totally inside out and I feel so comfortable with those moda fockers. There's currently 2 Sags at my work place and they both trying to get close despite me calling them assholes. OMG! Why am I always attracting these commitment phobia men.
I still don't understand the attraction between Scorp and Gem tho'. Never had any experience with them. Ummm
What is it about them that's able to get ya guys? Damn, those men are way too dark, horny and possessive for my liking. Muahahahhahahaha
Yeah
We ended it!!! Idk what the hell happened even!
You were right tho... They are so controlling...
Was I wrong?
For me, it will hurt me too. I mean saying something like that can make me feel offended.
Yeah he got annoyed I didn't support India... There isn't even any match... I was being playful but he thought I was being arrogant. And he said that, he was so particular about it! Weird...
He said you should be grateful, etc,.... The thing is I am!! I just don't want to be a kiss ass... And say things to be politically correct or just to he seen as grateful! It's so difficult to say all that, at least for me. But he used that word in a derogatory manner... And it hurts so much! I will never date any guy!!! Better be single... it's a waste of time running around like a mad girl!!!
I don't know how this got here, like it just was something we were discussing!!! Ugh!!! Better now than later... Anyways it wouldn't have worked out 😢
Phew!
I support India... I was discussing game plays and I was being honest about how I see the teams. I brought out old games and all and he couldn't refute my points. So he said for a refugee you are arrogant... He tried to take it back...
Weird!
Anyways yeah
I'm gonna marry a distant cousin or whatever... Arranged marriage seems like a good option...
Lol
Yeah arrange marriages good but are like a time bomb lol it will explode only after sometime.
I won't get married... I'm gonna stay single and travel the world...
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Now now you shouldn't wish other people bad. Bad manners lol.
You will marry. I know 😋.
And can you answer my other question in the thread or can I PM you?
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowDon't go with any set expectations. When you will find him you will accept him for who he is. Simple and sweet hmmm go for a Libra then. And why do you want simple and sweet? I thought gems liked risk takers, slight aggressive maybe? Or maybe I am wrong here.Posted by Capricorn91I doubt I will meet anyone simple and sweet... And who I will be attracted to! Most of them are busy chasing money!Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowYeah it's a wrong thing to say imo? It's okay. Give it some time and think with a cool head later.Posted by Capricorn91Yeah he shouldn't have said that? Maybe I'm over reacting? I don't even know if I'm over reacting!!!Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowIt's okay. Even I don't support India everytime. It's about who plays better. But yeah he shouldn't have said that. Sorry. But maybe he did realize his mistake later.Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowWhat happened? But why wouldn't you support India? Lol . I get you. Maybe he is not thinking from your point of view. We always put our egos first and never think from someone else's perspective. Don't date just marry. Chances are better. And yeah even I won't date any guy 😛 lol. Now where are the girls😍😂Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWell oh well, that's just how they are. They are able to bring the bad out of you. Idk what to say but I don't quite get it. Why did he call you that?Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWut—Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by WittyGem88See.. all of you seems to have horrible stories with the Scorpions.Posted by Senorita_LLI had a scorp ex and after that I told myself, never again. He gave me trust issues which I carey until this very day. Lol. In a way possibly a blessing in disguise. I learned to be stronger and protect myself. Its why I dont trust and fall madly inlove until a man I am with has proven himself to me. It was a pretty explosive relationship with my scorp ex and he is probably the onmy ex that I hate and hates me back lolPosted by FantumMy ex Sag has loads of 8th house in his chart. In vedic, he's a Scorpoop sun so I take as that is what it is. Haha! He's the one that really fucked me over. The rest of the other Sags that I've been with including the last one, yeah they hurt me but I am still able to deal with it.Posted by Senorita_LLBig giant explosion that exploded. That's what it was. I guess it's inspiring if you like watching people blow themselves up. I hated him for a short while after, which is odd. I rarely hate anyone.Posted by FantumLoooL! Just tell her!
@Squishy_Marshmallow I've kept my Scorpio experience quiet because it's not very inspiring. I'm still hoping you make it work with yours. lol!
Gemini won't learn anyways. They kept doing the same shit over and over again until they knew that was really a mistake.
Okay, I am just talking about me, myself and the Sags. That sign deserves to be poke with an arrow right in their ass hole. Twist and turn the arrow a lil so that they could feel the pain. Ahhhhhhh how niceeeeeeee.
The biggest problem was how we met. Shit wasn't easy, and I don't want to go into it. And then the next biggest problem from my point of view, is that he never believed a single thing I said.
Sags are so goddamn charming. No wonder they screw around so much. No wonder you keep falling for them.
I don't know why, I still can't hate the Sags. They just knew me totally inside out and I feel so comfortable with those moda fockers. There's currently 2 Sags at my work place and they both trying to get close despite me calling them assholes. OMG! Why am I always attracting these commitment phobia men.
I still don't understand the attraction between Scorp and Gem tho'. Never had any experience with them. Ummm
What is it about them that's able to get ya guys? Damn, those men are way too dark, horny and possessive for my liking. Muahahahhahahaha
Yeah
We ended it!!! Idk what the hell happened even!
You were right tho... They are so controlling...
Was I wrong?
For me, it will hurt me too. I mean saying something like that can make me feel offended.
Yeah he got annoyed I didn't support India... There isn't even any match... I was being playful but he thought I was being arrogant. And he said that, he was so particular about it! Weird...
He said you should be grateful, etc,.... The thing is I am!! I just don't want to be a kiss ass... And say things to be politically correct or just to he seen as grateful! It's so difficult to say all that, at least for me. But he used that word in a derogatory manner... And it hurts so much! I will never date any guy!!! Better be single... it's a waste of time running around like a mad girl!!!
I don't know how this got here, like it just was something we were discussing!!! Ugh!!! Better now than later... Anyways it wouldn't have worked out 😢
Phew!
I support India... I was discussing game plays and I was being honest about how I see the teams. I brought out old games and all and he couldn't refute my points. So he said for a refugee you are arrogant... He tried to take it back...
Weird!
Anyways yeah
I'm gonna marry a distant cousin or whatever... Arranged marriage seems like a good option...
Lol
Yeah arrange marriages good but are like a time bomb lol it will explode only after sometime.
I won't get married... I'm gonna stay single and travel the world...
You get married lol
Now now you shouldn't wish other people bad. Bad manners lol.
You will marry. I know 😋.
And can you answer my other question in the thread or can I PM you?
What's your question? Sorry I missed it...click to expand
Posted by FantumGuys are generally sweet to their girls. Well hope you don't do it to him lol.Posted by Capricorn91Aggressive to other people, maybe. He needs to be sweet to me or he can get fucked.Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowDon't go with any set expectations. When you will find him you will accept him for who he is. Simple and sweet hmmm go for a Libra then. And why do you want simple and sweet? I thought gems liked risk takers, slight aggressive maybe? Or maybe I am wrong here.Posted by Capricorn91I doubt I will meet anyone simple and sweet... And who I will be attracted to! Most of them are busy chasing money!Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowYeah it's a wrong thing to say imo? It's okay. Give it some time and think with a cool head later.Posted by Capricorn91Yeah he shouldn't have said that? Maybe I'm over reacting? I don't even know if I'm over reacting!!!Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowIt's okay. Even I don't support India everytime. It's about who plays better. But yeah he shouldn't have said that. Sorry. But maybe he did realize his mistake later.Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowWhat happened? But why wouldn't you support India? Lol . I get you. Maybe he is not thinking from your point of view. We always put our egos first and never think from someone else's perspective. Don't date just marry. Chances are better. And yeah even I won't date any guy 😛 lol. Now where are the girls😍😂Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWell oh well, that's just how they are. They are able to bring the bad out of you. Idk what to say but I don't quite get it. Why did he call you that?Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWut—Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by WittyGem88See.. all of you seems to have horrible stories with the Scorpions.Posted by Senorita_LLI had a scorp ex and after that I told myself, never again. He gave me trust issues which I carey until this very day. Lol. In a way possibly a blessing in disguise. I learned to be stronger and protect myself. Its why I dont trust and fall madly inlove until a man I am with has proven himself to me. It was a pretty explosive relationship with my scorp ex and he is probably the onmy ex that I hate and hates me back lolPosted by FantumMy ex Sag has loads of 8th house in his chart. In vedic, he's a Scorpoop sun so I take as that is what it is. Haha! He's the one that really fucked me over. The rest of the other Sags that I've been with including the last one, yeah they hurt me but I am still able to deal with it.Posted by Senorita_LLBig giant explosion that exploded. That's what it was. I guess it's inspiring if you like watching people blow themselves up. I hated him for a short while after, which is odd. I rarely hate anyone.Posted by FantumLoooL! Just tell her!
@Squishy_Marshmallow I've kept my Scorpio experience quiet because it's not very inspiring. I'm still hoping you make it work with yours. lol!
Gemini won't learn anyways. They kept doing the same shit over and over again until they knew that was really a mistake.
Okay, I am just talking about me, myself and the Sags. That sign deserves to be poke with an arrow right in their ass hole. Twist and turn the arrow a lil so that they could feel the pain. Ahhhhhhh how niceeeeeeee.
The biggest problem was how we met. Shit wasn't easy, and I don't want to go into it. And then the next biggest problem from my point of view, is that he never believed a single thing I said.
Sags are so goddamn charming. No wonder they screw around so much. No wonder you keep falling for them.
I don't know why, I still can't hate the Sags. They just knew me totally inside out and I feel so comfortable with those moda fockers. There's currently 2 Sags at my work place and they both trying to get close despite me calling them assholes. OMG! Why am I always attracting these commitment phobia men.
I still don't understand the attraction between Scorp and Gem tho'. Never had any experience with them. Ummm
What is it about them that's able to get ya guys? Damn, those men are way too dark, horny and possessive for my liking. Muahahahhahahaha
Yeah
We ended it!!! Idk what the hell happened even!
You were right tho... They are so controlling...
Was I wrong?
For me, it will hurt me too. I mean saying something like that can make me feel offended.
Yeah he got annoyed I didn't support India... There isn't even any match... I was being playful but he thought I was being arrogant. And he said that, he was so particular about it! Weird...
He said you should be grateful, etc,.... The thing is I am!! I just don't want to be a kiss ass... And say things to be politically correct or just to he seen as grateful! It's so difficult to say all that, at least for me. But he used that word in a derogatory manner... And it hurts so much! I will never date any guy!!! Better be single... it's a waste of time running around like a mad girl!!!
I don't know how this got here, like it just was something we were discussing!!! Ugh!!! Better now than later... Anyways it wouldn't have worked out 😢
Phew!
I support India... I was discussing game plays and I was being honest about how I see the teams. I brought out old games and all and he couldn't refute my points. So he said for a refugee you are arrogant... He tried to take it back...
Weird!
Anyways yeah
I'm gonna marry a distant cousin or whatever... Arranged marriage seems like a good option...
Lol
Yeah arrange marriages good but are like a time bomb lol it will explode only after sometime.
I won't get married... I'm gonna stay single and travel the world...
You get married lol
Now now you shouldn't wish other people bad. Bad manners lol.
You will marry. I know 😋.
And can you answer my other question in the thread or can I PM you?
What's your question? Sorry I missed it...click to expand
Posted by Fantum😁. Just be strong and face your insecurities. Are you a Gem? I am assuming it. Idk why Gems are insecure. I found them to be better than most. Or maybe they should see themselves from others' eyes. Yeah both should complement it each other.Posted by Capricorn91Haha, no. I meant he could go fuck himself. I have enough insecurities without having the person who is supposed to have my back being shitty to me.Posted by FantumGuys are generally sweet to their girls. Well hope you don't do it to him lol.Posted by Capricorn91Aggressive to other people, maybe. He needs to be sweet to me or he can get fucked.Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowDon't go with any set expectations. When you will find him you will accept him for who he is. Simple and sweet hmmm go for a Libra then. And why do you want simple and sweet? I thought gems liked risk takers, slight aggressive maybe? Or maybe I am wrong here.Posted by Capricorn91I doubt I will meet anyone simple and sweet... And who I will be attracted to! Most of them are busy chasing money!Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowYeah it's a wrong thing to say imo? It's okay. Give it some time and think with a cool head later.Posted by Capricorn91Yeah he shouldn't have said that? Maybe I'm over reacting? I don't even know if I'm over reacting!!!Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowIt's okay. Even I don't support India everytime. It's about who plays better. But yeah he shouldn't have said that. Sorry. But maybe he did realize his mistake later.Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowWhat happened? But why wouldn't you support India? Lol . I get you. Maybe he is not thinking from your point of view. We always put our egos first and never think from someone else's perspective. Don't date just marry. Chances are better. And yeah even I won't date any guy 😛 lol. Now where are the girls😍😂Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWell oh well, that's just how they are. They are able to bring the bad out of you. Idk what to say but I don't quite get it. Why did he call you that?Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWut—Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by WittyGem88See.. all of you seems to have horrible stories with the Scorpions.Posted by Senorita_LLI had a scorp ex and after that I told myself, never again. He gave me trust issues which I carey until this very day. Lol. In a way possibly a blessing in disguise. I learned to be stronger and protect myself. Its why I dont trust and fall madly inlove until a man I am with has proven himself to me. It was a pretty explosive relationship with my scorp ex and he is probably the onmy ex that I hate and hates me back lolPosted by FantumMy ex Sag has loads of 8th house in his chart. In vedic, he's a Scorpoop sun so I take as that is what it is. Haha! He's the one that really fucked me over. The rest of the other Sags that I've been with including the last one, yeah they hurt me but I am still able to deal with it.Posted by Senorita_LLBig giant explosion that exploded. That's what it was. I guess it's inspiring if you like watching people blow themselves up. I hated him for a short while after, which is odd. I rarely hate anyone.Posted by FantumLoooL! Just tell her!
@Squishy_Marshmallow I've kept my Scorpio experience quiet because it's not very inspiring. I'm still hoping you make it work with yours. lol!
Gemini won't learn anyways. They kept doing the same shit over and over again until they knew that was really a mistake.
Okay, I am just talking about me, myself and the Sags. That sign deserves to be poke with an arrow right in their ass hole. Twist and turn the arrow a lil so that they could feel the pain. Ahhhhhhh how niceeeeeeee.
The biggest problem was how we met. Shit wasn't easy, and I don't want to go into it. And then the next biggest problem from my point of view, is that he never believed a single thing I said.
Sags are so goddamn charming. No wonder they screw around so much. No wonder you keep falling for them.
I don't know why, I still can't hate the Sags. They just knew me totally inside out and I feel so comfortable with those moda fockers. There's currently 2 Sags at my work place and they both trying to get close despite me calling them assholes. OMG! Why am I always attracting these commitment phobia men.
I still don't understand the attraction between Scorp and Gem tho'. Never had any experience with them. Ummm
What is it about them that's able to get ya guys? Damn, those men are way too dark, horny and possessive for my liking. Muahahahhahahaha
Yeah
We ended it!!! Idk what the hell happened even!
You were right tho... They are so controlling...
Was I wrong?
For me, it will hurt me too. I mean saying something like that can make me feel offended.
Yeah he got annoyed I didn't support India... There isn't even any match... I was being playful but he thought I was being arrogant. And he said that, he was so particular about it! Weird...
He said you should be grateful, etc,.... The thing is I am!! I just don't want to be a kiss ass... And say things to be politically correct or just to he seen as grateful! It's so difficult to say all that, at least for me. But he used that word in a derogatory manner... And it hurts so much! I will never date any guy!!! Better be single... it's a waste of time running around like a mad girl!!!
I don't know how this got here, like it just was something we were discussing!!! Ugh!!! Better now than later... Anyways it wouldn't have worked out 😢
Phew!
I support India... I was discussing game plays and I was being honest about how I see the teams. I brought out old games and all and he couldn't refute my points. So he said for a refugee you are arrogant... He tried to take it back...
Weird!
Anyways yeah
I'm gonna marry a distant cousin or whatever... Arranged marriage seems like a good option...
Lol
Yeah arrange marriages good but are like a time bomb lol it will explode only after sometime.
I won't get married... I'm gonna stay single and travel the world...
You get married lol
Now now you shouldn't wish other people bad. Bad manners lol.
You will marry. I know 😋.
And can you answer my other question in the thread or can I PM you?
What's your question? Sorry I missed it...click to expand
Posted by nanoYup I am also like this. Once you cross the line I can't even stand near you.Posted by Capricorn91Definitely, I don't show my pettiness IRL outwardly often.... so it has to be something that I deem in my eyes, unforgivable, to where I don't want to associate with the person anymore. Basically, the person becomes more of a liability than an asset to me.Posted by nanoBut they would have done something wrong to you right for this. Will you do this even if due to some minor misunderstanding?Posted by Capricorn91No they are dead to me, just completely dead. I don't even mess around with friendships anymore, it's sad but true. I have no problem with completely cutting someone out of my life and ignoring them, be it virtually or in person. I have had ex friends try to reconcile, walk up to me in public places and I don't even look at them, just walk away as if they are ghosts that do not exist. Too many users, liars. Only two people have been loyal to me when the situation called for it, who I consider true friends.
What about friendships? When a friendship goes wrong. Do you guys atleast think about the person or just go cold and carry on with your life?
Some examples of "friends" over the years - women talking suggestively to my boyfriend, people who ask to hang out with me to really ask for money or food or to use my car, many instances of selfishness financially that add up- i.e. promises to pay me back but never do, overall insanity - people who accuse me of shit I didn't do. Have zero problem saying byebye to these types of people, which in my experience, seems to be most people.click to expand
Posted by FantumOh 40! You never know what age a Gem is. They always seem young 😋.Posted by Capricorn91Well, duh! I've only been working on that for 40 something years. 😉Posted by Fantum😁. Just be strong and face your insecurities. Are you a Gem? I am assuming it. Idk why Gems are insecure. I found them to be better than most. Or maybe they should see themselves from others' eyes. Yeah both should complement it each other.Posted by Capricorn91Haha, no. I meant he could go fuck himself. I have enough insecurities without having the person who is supposed to have my back being shitty to me.Posted by FantumGuys are generally sweet to their girls. Well hope you don't do it to him lol.Posted by Capricorn91Aggressive to other people, maybe. He needs to be sweet to me or he can get fucked.Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowDon't go with any set expectations. When you will find him you will accept him for who he is. Simple and sweet hmmm go for a Libra then. And why do you want simple and sweet? I thought gems liked risk takers, slight aggressive maybe? Or maybe I am wrong here.Posted by Capricorn91I doubt I will meet anyone simple and sweet... And who I will be attracted to! Most of them are busy chasing money!Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowYeah it's a wrong thing to say imo? It's okay. Give it some time and think with a cool head later.Posted by Capricorn91Yeah he shouldn't have said that? Maybe I'm over reacting? I don't even know if I'm over reacting!!!Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowIt's okay. Even I don't support India everytime. It's about who plays better. But yeah he shouldn't have said that. Sorry. But maybe he did realize his mistake later.Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowWhat happened? But why wouldn't you support India? Lol . I get you. Maybe he is not thinking from your point of view. We always put our egos first and never think from someone else's perspective. Don't date just marry. Chances are better. And yeah even I won't date any guy 😛 lol. Now where are the girls😍😂Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWell oh well, that's just how they are. They are able to bring the bad out of you. Idk what to say but I don't quite get it. Why did he call you that?Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowWut—Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by WittyGem88See.. all of you seems to have horrible stories with the Scorpions.Posted by Senorita_LLI had a scorp ex and after that I told myself, never again. He gave me trust issues which I carey until this very day. Lol. In a way possibly a blessing in disguise. I learned to be stronger and protect myself. Its why I dont trust and fall madly inlove until a man I am with has proven himself to me. It was a pretty explosive relationship with my scorp ex and he is probably the onmy ex that I hate and hates me back lolPosted by FantumMy ex Sag has loads of 8th house in his chart. In vedic, he's a Scorpoop sun so I take as that is what it is. Haha! He's the one that really fucked me over. The rest of the other Sags that I've been with including the last one, yeah they hurt me but I am still able to deal with it.Posted by Senorita_LLBig giant explosion that exploded. That's what it was. I guess it's inspiring if you like watching people blow themselves up. I hated him for a short while after, which is odd. I rarely hate anyone.Posted by FantumLoooL! Just tell her!
@Squishy_Marshmallow I've kept my Scorpio experience quiet because it's not very inspiring. I'm still hoping you make it work with yours. lol!
Gemini won't learn anyways. They kept doing the same shit over and over again until they knew that was really a mistake.
Okay, I am just talking about me, myself and the Sags. That sign deserves to be poke with an arrow right in their ass hole. Twist and turn the arrow a lil so that they could feel the pain. Ahhhhhhh how niceeeeeeee.
The biggest problem was how we met. Shit wasn't easy, and I don't want to go into it. And then the next biggest problem from my point of view, is that he never believed a single thing I said.
Sags are so goddamn charming. No wonder they screw around so much. No wonder you keep falling for them.
I don't know why, I still can't hate the Sags. They just knew me totally inside out and I feel so comfortable with those moda fockers. There's currently 2 Sags at my work place and they both trying to get close despite me calling them assholes. OMG! Why am I always attracting these commitment phobia men.
I still don't understand the attraction between Scorp and Gem tho'. Never had any experience with them. Ummm
What is it about them that's able to get ya guys? Damn, those men are way too dark, horny and possessive for my liking. Muahahahhahahaha
Yeah
We ended it!!! Idk what the hell happened even!
You were right tho... They are so controlling...
Was I wrong?
For me, it will hurt me too. I mean saying something like that can make me feel offended.
Yeah he got annoyed I didn't support India... There isn't even any match... I was being playful but he thought I was being arrogant. And he said that, he was so particular about it! Weird...
He said you should be grateful, etc,.... The thing is I am!! I just don't want to be a kiss ass... And say things to be politically correct or just to he seen as grateful! It's so difficult to say all that, at least for me. But he used that word in a derogatory manner... And it hurts so much! I will never date any guy!!! Better be single... it's a waste of time running around like a mad girl!!!
I don't know how this got here, like it just was something we were discussing!!! Ugh!!! Better now than later... Anyways it wouldn't have worked out 😢
Phew!
I support India... I was discussing game plays and I was being honest about how I see the teams. I brought out old games and all and he couldn't refute my points. So he said for a refugee you are arrogant... He tried to take it back...
Weird!
Anyways yeah
I'm gonna marry a distant cousin or whatever... Arranged marriage seems like a good option...
Lol
Yeah arrange marriages good but are like a time bomb lol it will explode only after sometime.
I won't get married... I'm gonna stay single and travel the world...
You get married lol
Now now you shouldn't wish other people bad. Bad manners lol.
You will marry. I know 😋.
And can you answer my other question in the thread or can I PM you?
What's your question? Sorry I missed it...
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That's how it should be 😃.
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