Two Men At A Time...

I feel like I have two very different personalities but finding one person who can handle it all isn't easy so i always end up stuck between two different men that understand each side of me but not all of me? I find it truly annoying and it makes it so hard for me to settle. I'm a Gemini Sun & Venus. I'm in a relationship with a Scorpio man and it's intense I feel like i'm being suffocated and sometimes i want to feel free and my Leo ex talking to him is rather chill but it makes scorpio bf uncomfortable so i stopped talking to him.

Do any other Gemini women maybe men feel like this?

This is the sole reasons why we Geminis being accused by other signs most of the time, being in relationship with two guys at a time is not honest is it? You don't have two personalities but you are indecisive. And you are with two incompatible partners. You will never be happy with both of them in your life.

With my aqua hubby... I don't have this problem. I can be my full, honest and true self with him.

You have to find someone who can accept all of you... not just part or half of you...

@missliss so what they say is true then that Aquarius is compatible?

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Posted by RomJob
That clickbait title thou ?

I thought I was walking into a double stuffed Oreo thread or DP.

No fun. K bye

Same. I thought finally people letting their hair down around here.

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memories ...

Posted by tiziani

Posted by tcta

Posted by tiziani

Posted by RomJob
That clickbait title thou ?

I thought I was walking into a double stuffed Oreo thread or DP.

No fun. K bye

Same. I thought finally people letting their hair down around here.

memories ...

Lol so it's like that

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was - just the occasional splurge ... lol

Posted by tiziani

Posted by tcta

Posted by tiziani

Posted by RomJob
That clickbait title thou ?

I thought I was walking into a double stuffed Oreo thread or DP.

No fun. K bye

Same. I thought finally people letting their hair down around here.

memories ...

Lol so it's like that

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tiz you subtle tempter... ?

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Posted by AbbyNormal

Posted by tiziani

Posted by tcta

Posted by tiziani

Posted by RomJob
That clickbait title thou ?

I thought I was walking into a double stuffed Oreo thread or DP.

No fun. K bye

Same. I thought finally people letting their hair down around here.

memories ...

Lol so it's like that

tiz you subtle tempter... ?

I always love to hear the stories 🍹 My new thing is following exhibitionist couples' Instagrams 😛

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it can be nice to indulge fantasies sometimes. BDSM has interested me more in the last few years mostly. im generally too tired for the work lol. but its nice to finally have a body to be proud of and comfortable in. also a partner who is openminded but still pretty vanilla, so it never goes so weird as to be uncomfortable for either lol ?

Same. I thought finally people letting their hair down around here.



memories ...



Lol so it's like that



tiz you subtle tempter... ?



I always love to hear the stories 🍹 My new thing is following exhibitionist couples' Instagrams 😛





lol so many stories - so little time ...

Posted by tiziani

Posted by AbbyNormal
it can be nice to indulge fantasies sometimes. BDSM has interested me more in the last few years mostly. im generally too tired for the work lol. but its nice to finally have a body to be proud of and comfortable in. also a partner who is openminded but still pretty vanilla, so it never goes so weird as to be uncomfortable for either lol ?

I think I'm possibly near-completely vanilla in terms of what I've physically done and been involved in. When I actually think of my experience there's really not anything risque in terms of me being physically involved in the thing. When it comes to visuals, voyeurism and watching my partner it's a different story however. And it IS great to feel like you can take pride in your figure without worrying about any sort of deeper implications behind being proud of that, that's what I like to see most. When someone feels content with herself to the point it emanates from her presence. Evidently, Taurus women are known to possess that for themselves.

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I grew up in the era of sex drugs and rock and roll so it was nothing to engage in variable activities even though I was always monogamous and "vanilla" when in a relationship - now I want nothing like that although I've had the opportunity. I no longer appreciate men who only want me because of my body.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by tcta

Posted by tiziani

Posted by AbbyNormal
it can be nice to indulge fantasies sometimes. BDSM has interested me more in the last few years mostly. im generally too tired for the work lol. but its nice to finally have a body to be proud of and comfortable in. also a partner who is openminded but still pretty vanilla, so it never goes so weird as to be uncomfortable for either lol ?

I think I'm possibly near-completely vanilla in terms of what I've physically done and been involved in. When I actually think of my experience there's really not anything risque in terms of me being physically involved in the thing. When it comes to visuals, voyeurism and watching my partner it's a different story however. And it IS great to feel like you can take pride in your figure without worrying about any sort of deeper implications behind being proud of that, that's what I like to see most. When someone feels content with herself to the point it emanates from her presence. Evidently, Taurus women are known to possess that for themselves.

I grew up in the era of sex drugs and rock and roll so it was nothing to engage in variable activities even though I was always monogamous and "vanilla" when in a relationship - now I want nothing like that although I've had the opportunity. I no longer appreciate men who only want me because of my body.

It's funny because I'm actively working to being a man like that for my partner. I think it would make me a better partner. Obviously if it's all there is to a relationship/connection then I can understand how that gets stale. But there is room for objectification (both ways) keeping things fresh inside of an intimate, committed affair.

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- and oh yes definitely inside the relationship of course - that's where it's at for a Taurus - feeling so completely safe and comfortable and stable and being able to just let go and explore, adventure, love, fun, companionship, sharing, caring ... building on each and every moment ... aaaahhh

Posted by tiziani

Posted by tcta

Posted by tiziani

Posted by AbbyNormal
it can be nice to indulge fantasies sometimes. BDSM has interested me more in the last few years mostly. im generally too tired for the work lol. but its nice to finally have a body to be proud of and comfortable in. also a partner who is openminded but still pretty vanilla, so it never goes so weird as to be uncomfortable for either lol ?

I think I'm possibly near-completely vanilla in terms of what I've physically done and been involved in. When I actually think of my experience there's really not anything risque in terms of me being physically involved in the thing. When it comes to visuals, voyeurism and watching my partner it's a different story however. And it IS great to feel like you can take pride in your figure without worrying about any sort of deeper implications behind being proud of that, that's what I like to see most. When someone feels content with herself to the point it emanates from her presence. Evidently, Taurus women are known to possess that for themselves.

I grew up in the era of sex drugs and rock and roll so it was nothing to engage in variable activities even though I was always monogamous and "vanilla" when in a relationship - now I want nothing like that although I've had the opportunity. I no longer appreciate men who only want me because of my body.

It's funny because I'm actively working to being a man like that for my partner. I think it would make me a better partner. Obviously if it's all there is to a relationship/connection then I can understand how that gets stale. But there is room for objectification (both ways) keeping things fresh inside of an intimate, committed affair.

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and you will get there I know - you are a Libra and that is one good trait of a Libra - the trick is to find one that is mature enough to understand what he wants ...

to the @OP - sorry if we hijacked this thread ...

can I suggest Two Women At a Time next LOL !

Posted by GeminiPrincess92
I feel like I have two very different personalities but finding one person who can handle it all isn't easy so i always end up stuck between two different men that understand each side of me but not all of me? I find it truly annoying and it makes it so hard for me to settle. I'm a Gemini Sun & Venus. I'm in a relationship with a Scorpio man and it's intense I feel like i'm being suffocated and sometimes i want to feel free and my Leo ex talking to him is rather chill but it makes scorpio bf uncomfortable so i stopped talking to him.

Do any other Gemini women maybe men feel like this?

I think this is a Gemini or air dominated issue. I'm air dominant but obviously as a Cancer sign my emotional needs must be met and this is where I ended up having feelings for 2 men(Geminis) fML lol.

My boyfriend satisfied my mental and physical but my guy friend addressed my emotional. I ended up leaving my bf and still friends with the Gemini who gets me emotionally and mentally.

So yeah, I agree with the others best to wait for the guy who satisfied all your needs?

Posted by geminidude
@missliss so what they say is true then that Aquarius is compatible?

He and I are very compatible... simply put. Just the right combo. We have tiffs and spats every now and then, but communication is the key. And, so is listening.

Besides.... relationships are only as hard as you (Or the other) make them.