why would he buy me gold class tickets, but then avoid me the next day?

Last night a gemini male friend bought me a gold class movie ticket and all the food to go with it as an apology for a small lie he told me, after i told him he's broken my trust and i dont want to talk to him anymore. I accepted this ticket as an apology (it cost him a lot).

Now today he hasn't messaged me at all asking what I'm doing, how i am etc even though we talk EVERY day! Its almost 8pm and I'm not expecting anything from him now.

why would he BUY himself back into a friendship but then just neglect me the next day?

Too soon to worry lady. Relax. Its only 8pm.

He bought you a ticket to go watch a film on your own.

Got it?

An apology that is bought isn't genuine

Have you heard from him already?

Posted by surferpisces
Last night a gemini male friend bought me a gold class movie ticket and all the food to go with it as an apology for a small lie he told me, after i told him he's broken my trust and i dont want to talk to him anymore. I accepted this ticket as an apology (it cost him a lot).

Now today he hasn't messaged me at all asking what I'm doing, how i am etc even though we talk EVERY day! Its almost 8pm and I'm not expecting anything from him now.

why would he BUY himself back into a friendship but then just neglect me the next day?

Posted by Deedee86
An apology that is bought isn't genuine

I beg to differ. If the saying is, "Small token of my appreciation" WHY should this not work for an apology? When a man hurts a woman and brings her flowers; what's the difference between flowers and movie tickets? Guys, the word is PLURAL "tickets". She can take another friend if she wants to; or hang on to the tickets and invite this guy that told a little lie and was caught.

I agree w/a member that said give it time. You don't have a friend on you 24/7 365 days + 1 (leap year).

Hope we hear from OP.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by surferpisces
Last night a gemini male friend bought me a gold class movie ticket and all the food to go with it as an apology for a small lie he told me, after i told him he's broken my trust and i dont want to talk to him anymore. I accepted this ticket as an apology (it cost him a lot).

Now today he hasn't messaged me at all asking what I'm doing, how i am etc even though we talk EVERY day! Its almost 8pm and I'm not expecting anything from him now.

why would he BUY himself back into a friendship but then just neglect me the next day?

It's YOUR turn to ACTIVELY accept his apologies and to reach for him! You clearly said you didn't want to talk to him anymore?! What are you waiting for? He won't read your mind and he has already done something about it (the ticket)! Stop playing games on him. Respect and communication cannot be one sided. We cannot tell him you want him to actually talk to you!

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Posted by Deedee86
An apology that is bought isn't genuine

I beg to differ. If the saying is, "Small token of my appreciation" WHY should this not work for an apology? When a man hurts a woman and brings her flowers; what's the difference between flowers and movie tickets? Guys, the word is PLURAL "tickets". She can take another friend if she wants to; or hang on to the tickets and invite this guy that told a little lie and was caught.

I agree w/a member that said give it time. You don't have a friend on you 24/7 365 days + 1 (leap year).

Hope we hear from OP.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Learn to read.

The OP clearly states "ticket" not plural.

It's a solo trip get it..

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Read the title of this thread genius.

He is waiting for you to come to him... ball in your court.

To clarify, IT WASNT a solo trip, he bought one ticket for me and one ticket for him, so we went to the movies together

Posted by surferpisces
To clarify, IT WASNT a solo trip, he bought one ticket for me and one ticket for him, so we went to the movies together

I would say if he is anything like me, he is feeling shitty and upset to disappoint someone they care for. It eats at me, I think of it for days and if it's really bad, weeks and sometimes months. I truly hate when I do something that hurts someone I care for. If you are truly over whatever happened, reach out and kind of reassure him that your good with moving forward.

Yeah... what WateryGem said? Sooo what are you waiting for OP?

Posted by surferpisces


why would he BUY himself back into a friendship but then just neglect me the next day?

He bought into the friendship so he could ignore you the next day.

Also he might be this guy





He gives tickets ...it doesn't work out well.

Or it could just be ...as friends he feels he will see you when he sees you...

I understand you.My Gem guy has been like this lately.Maybe he's just busy but if he is really sorry, he will find a way to make it up to you again when he senses that the ticket did not amaze you. Just wait and see darling! 😉 update us.