Leo Girl + Cancer Girl

I was friends with this Leo girl, (she's not your typical Leo, very introverted and keeps her feelings to herself). She showed interest at the beginning, but I told her Im not interested, but I eventually realized that I like her too since we've been talking everyday for months. I realized it too late cause she already was starting to date someone and I was also just starting to see someone, but I gave it a try with her and was choosing her over the other person. Leo friend said she wants to try with the person she's seeing so I let her be, but we were trying to stay friends and she's still very responsive with my flirts. I told her again how I feel about her, but she suddenly just stopped replying and started avoiding me. I didn't push it, so I also stopped trying after a few messages. Are her actions the typical leo reaction? Is this from anger? Or it's because she's decided to commit to the other person already?

She being typical Leo broad..

I can understand how you feel, but you can't validate women.

All the flirting and opening up after she gives just an inch of reciprocation, is just gonna further her from you.

Women don't want the ones they know they can have.

Posted by allyouneedisloveandwine

I was friends with this Leo girl, (she's not your typical Leo, very introverted and keeps her feelings to herself). She showed interest at the beginning, but I told her Im not interested, but I eventually realized that I like her too since we've been talking everyday for months. I realized it too late cause she already was starting to date someone and I was also just starting to see someone, but I gave it a try with her and was choosing her over the other person. Leo friend said she wants to try with the person she's seeing so I let her be, but we were trying to stay friends and she's still very responsive with my flirts. I told her again how I feel about her, but she suddenly just stopped replying and started avoiding me. I didn't push it, so I also stopped trying after a few messages. Are her actions the typical leo reaction? Is this from anger? Or it's because she's decided to commit to the other person already?

It's simple, you didn't respect her decision to be in the other relationship, so she cut you off. Leos tend to be very protective of our relationships. Keeping you around will just make things complicated for her. She's also probably annoyed that you expressed your feelings once after rejecting her and then a second time after agreeing to just be friends.

To sum up, she expressed her feelings to you and you friendzoned her. So she moved on and by the time you expressed your feelings, she was interested in someone else. So she friendzoned you. You tried being friends, but destroyed the facade when you told her your feelings a second time. This made you look dishonest to her. So she decided that it would be best for her current relationship to avoid you.

My advice when dealing with Leos is to strike while the iron is hot. This Leo had too much time to find someone new before your expressed yourself. Leos are decisive people, so we like decisive partners. Once we see/feel that someone is giving us the run around, we'll bail.

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by allyouneedisloveandwine

I was friends with this Leo girl, (she's not your typical Leo, very introverted and keeps her feelings to herself). She showed interest at the beginning, but I told her Im not interested, but I eventually realized that I like her too since we've been talking everyday for months. I realized it too late cause she already was starting to date someone and I was also just starting to see someone, but I gave it a try with her and was choosing her over the other person. Leo friend said she wants to try with the person she's seeing so I let her be, but we were trying to stay friends and she's still very responsive with my flirts. I told her again how I feel about her, but she suddenly just stopped replying and started avoiding me. I didn't push it, so I also stopped trying after a few messages. Are her actions the typical leo reaction? Is this from anger? Or it's because she's decided to commit to the other person already?

It's simple, you didn't respect her decision to be in the other relationship, so she cut you off. Leos tend to be very protective of our relationships. Keeping you around will just make things complicated for her. She's also probably annoyed that you expressed your feelings once after rejecting her and then a second time after agreeing to just be friends.

To sum up, she expressed her feelings to you and you friendzoned her. So she moved on and by the time you expressed your feelings, she was interested in someone else. So she friendzoned you. You tried being friends, but destroyed the facade when you told her your feelings a second time. This made you look dishonest to her. So she decided that it would be best for her current relationship to avoid you.

My advice when dealing with Leos is to strike while the iron is hot. This Leo had too much time to find someone new before your expressed yourself. Leos are decisive people, so we like decisive partners. Once we see/feel that someone is giving us the run around, we'll bail.

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I agree with everything you said here. 😢 Thanks for that. I needed to hear that.