Leo woman what to do?

Hi guys! I posted sometime ago regarding a friend who's a leo woman. So just when I thought that we were just friends, everything got upgraded, we became closer, we're more open to each other and she knows I like her, we became sweeter to each other, we sometimes exchange I love yous and she told me that I was special and exclusive to me. So we constantly communicate with each other except when she goes out of town because there is no signal in there home province, only the internet and it's family time for her so I totally understand if she doesn't texts me or whatever but whenever she goes online she would chat me up or leave a message.

Last week, she went home there with her family, she would leave messages or we would talk via chat, everything was fine then come Thursday she didn't go online until Sunday, so we haven't talk during those days. Monday morning, still no messages from her, I tried to ring her phone because I got worried, I called her up then she answered just a short convo from her, then later that night I called her again she just told me she's not in the mood to text or whatever, we still talked for a couple of minutes then hangup because she was exhausted from work, so we got off the phone. Sadly, until today no messages from her.

Question is that normal? that a leo woman suddenly disappears? It kinda sucks because I really want to talk to her and I miss her but I don't want to appear needy, so I'm not really sure what to do? did she lost interest already? Please give me some advice, leo friends esp the leo ladies. THANKS IN ADVANCE!

Hi there dkrab

hmmmmm I'd wait 'til she reaches out to you first, the more space the better.

Any chance you have any other astro placements handy?

Like her moon sign, mercury or mars...?

Posted by wagtail
Hi there dkrab

hmmmmm I'd wait 'til she reaches out to you first, the more space the better.

Any chance you have any other astro placements handy?

Like her moon sign, mercury or mars...?

Hi thanks! okay I might try that, is it okay if I leave her a message? or no? well Im not familiar with the placements thingy but her birthday is on August 13, 1989 while I was born on July 13, 1992

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Posted by wagtail
Hi there dkrab

hmmmmm I'd wait 'til she reaches out to you first, the more space the better.

Any chance you have any other astro placements handy?

Like her moon sign, mercury or mars...?

Hi thanks! okay I might try that, is it okay if I leave her a message? or no? well Im not familiar with the placements thingy but her birthday is on August 13, 1989 while I was born on July 13, 1992

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No don't message her. Will explain in a bit.

wagtail is right. Give her the space. We leos are known for our love of attention *from that right person only, mind you* so when we choose to not bask in that attention and give ourselves some alone time, trust its for good reason.

Especially since she already mentioned she didnt feel like texting etc.

When we tell you that, which we hardly do we just take our time whenever, you should listen to that. She respects you enough to tell you.

She will be back

Posted by Astrology101
I haven't read your earlier post but I'm assuming you told her.. you like her.. and she didn't reciprocate and you two have now become friends?.. Is that correct?

Hi well it's an old post already, I guess. We were friends before my feelings developed though I had a crush on her way back, then it was months ago when I confessed because she asked me if I have feelings for her but sadly she said we are just friends, we retained the friendship but continued to have this special treatment and I'm still persistent and expressive with my feelings for her, last month she told me that I'm special to her and scared that I might leave her hanging or I might found someone else.

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Posted by wagtail
Hi there dkrab

hmmmmm I'd wait 'til she reaches out to you first, the more space the better.

Any chance you have any other astro placements handy?

Like her moon sign, mercury or mars...?

Hi thanks! okay I might try that, is it okay if I leave her a message? or no? well Im not familiar with the placements thingy but her birthday is on August 13, 1989 while I was born on July 13, 1992

No don't message her. Will explain in a bit.

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okay, thanks a lot! will wait for the explanation. Thanks!

Posted by SMC
wagtail is right. Give her the space. We leos are known for our love of attention *from that right person only, mind you* so when we choose to not bask in that attention and give ourselves some alone time, trust its for good reason.

Especially since she already mentioned she didnt feel like texting etc.

When we tell you that, which we hardly do we just take our time whenever, you should listen to that. She respects you enough to tell you.

She will be back

So I guess it's not that negative at all, thank you. I just got worried and made me frustrated that all of a sudden she won't communicate with me.

Posted by Astrology101
I haven't read your earlier post but I'm assuming you told her.. you like her.. and she didn't reciprocate and you two have now become friends?.. Is that correct?

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/just-a-friend--8065015/

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Posted by SMC
wagtail is right. Give her the space. We leos are known for our love of attention *from that right person only, mind you* so when we choose to not bask in that attention and give ourselves some alone time, trust its for good reason.

Especially since she already mentioned she didnt feel like texting etc.

When we tell you that, which we hardly do we just take our time whenever, you should listen to that. She respects you enough to tell you.

She will be back

So I guess it's not that negative at all, thank you. I just got worried and made me frustrated that all of a sudden she won't communicate with me.

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noooo not at all haha don't worry. You mentioned it happened after her visit home/parents/family right? I know for me I can get pretty drained from going back home. We tend to want to cater to everyones needs so when we get home we have to go back to that pleasing role again and it can get draining.

It has nothing to do with you probably, so just sit back and let her come back to you

now this shit will get confusing fast...One says this, the other one tells you to move on...such definite advice, who would do that? -_-

Just relax and dont worry

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now this shit will get confusing fast...One says this, the other one tells you to move on...such definite advice, who would do that? -_-

Just relax and dont worry

LOL

Lets huddle and decide what we want to tell him?

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You crazy! *and a bit mean*

@SMC and @Astrology101 haha! Thanks for the inputs, I really appreciate your advices gave me some insights in our current situation and our relationship.🙂

@Astrology101 well, to be honest and it may sound crazy and so foolish but I'm not expecting her to really fall in love with me, I'm just enjoying what we have right now, as long as she wants me to be around I'll be around, I really like her, I really do that's why I'm just enjoying this, even I'm not sure what might happen. Thank you for being honest with me. Really appreciate it. 🙂

@SMC I really hope so, when she picks up her phone she's full of energy and tell me stories and stuff. Maybe I'll just wait for her to initiate the conversation? Thanks SMC 🙂

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@SMC and @Astrology101 haha! Thanks for the inputs, I really appreciate your advices gave me some insights in our current situation and our relationship.🙂

@Astrology101 well, to be honest and it may sound crazy and so foolish but I'm not expecting her to really fall in love with me, I'm just enjoying what we have right now, as long as she wants me to be around I'll be around, I really like her, I really do that's why I'm just enjoying this, even I'm not sure what might happen. Thank you for being honest with me. Really appreciate it. 🙂

@SMC I really hope so, when she picks up her phone she's full of energy and tell me stories and stuff. Maybe I'll just wait for her to initiate the conversation? Thanks SMC 🙂

You do that! I'm glad to hear your enjoying yourself.^^ so even when she does decide to back away you can be sure you did the right thing and remained a gentleman throughout this ordeal...gotta hand it to you, you did well

good luck!

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Posted by wagtail
Hi there dkrab

hmmmmm I'd wait 'til she reaches out to you first, the more space the better.

Any chance you have any other astro placements handy?

Like her moon sign, mercury or mars...?

Hi thanks! okay I might try that, is it okay if I leave her a message? or no? well Im not familiar with the placements thingy but her birthday is on August 13, 1989 while I was born on July 13, 1992

No don't message her. Will explain in a bit.

okay, thanks a lot! will wait for the explanation. Thanks!

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So first know that Leos like people who are confident and strong. This is especially true for a Leo woman. Women in general want a man who is strong internally and confident in himself. Messaging right now will show that you're worried and anxious. She told you that she doesn't have time to talk right now. You already know that she's fine and unless you had an argument you didn't share with us, there's nothing she's angry with you about.

Leos aren't always big on texting either and we can also keep very busy/stressful schedules. It's very possible that work on top of family has caused her to go into hiding. It happens and isn't anything to worry about. There have been moments where I've "disappeared" for several days just because I was burned out

Astrology aside, you have to know that until a woman is fully in love with you, there may be moments when she'll need time away from you (this is even true when she does fall in love). Sounds like you two have been communication nonstop before she took her trip. While that was good for the initial butterflies you both felt, she's probably little bored right now. It's still early for the both of you, so that much constant communication can become stagnant. It's no big deal, just give her some space.

Women like guys they have to think about. This is why you hear women say things like, "He's so mysterious" or "I'm not sure what he's thinking" or "He's no different". It's the time apart that really helps build their attraction. It's the unknown, the surprises that keep a woman wanting more. You've been such a constant presence that this woman has had no time to really think about you on her own.

To put it a better way, music occurs when there are gaps/spaces in between the notes. The varying gaps are what make the notes so intriguing in the first place. Without the spaces in between, music would just be one long note. No one would want to listen to it for long. The same is true for a woman's attraction. There needs to be space built in for their feelings to grow. Women need the time away from you to think about and even miss you.

So just back off and be patient. Give this Leo the freedom to come back to you. If she's already agreed to be exclusive, then you really don't have much to worry about. So go and do your own thing because that's what a confident man would do.

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Posted by wagtail
Hi there dkrab

hmmmmm I'd wait 'til she reaches out to you first, the more space the better.

Any chance you have any other astro placements handy?

Like her moon sign, mercury or mars...?

Hi thanks! okay I might try that, is it okay if I leave her a message? or no? well Im not familiar with the placements thingy but her birthday is on August 13, 1989 while I was born on July 13, 1992

No don't message her. Will explain in a bit.

okay, thanks a lot! will wait for the explanation. Thanks!

So first know that Leos like people who are confident and strong. This is especially true for a Leo woman. Women in general want a man who is strong internally and confident in himself. Messaging right now will show that you're worried and anxious. She told you that she doesn't have time to talk right now. You already know that she's fine and unless you had an argument you didn't share with us, there's nothing she's angry with you about.

Leos aren't always big on texting either and we can also keep very busy/stressful schedules. It's very possible that work on top of family has caused her to go into hiding. It happens and isn't anything to worry about. There have been moments where I've "disappeared" for several days just because I was burned out

Astrology aside, you have to know that until a woman is fully in love with you, there may be moments when she'll need time away from you (this is even true when she does fall in love). Sounds like you two have been communication nonstop before she took her trip. While that was good for the initial butterflies you both felt, she's probably little bored right now. It's still early for the both of you, so that much constant communication can become stagnant. It's no big deal, just give her some space.

Women like guys they have to think about. This is why you hear women say things like, "He's so mysterious" or "I'm not sure what he's thinking" or "He's no different". It's the time apart that really helps build their attraction. It's the unknown, the surprises that keep a woman wanting more. You've been such a constant presence that this woman has had no time to really think about you on her own.

To put it a better way, music occurs when there are gaps/spaces in between the notes. The varying gaps are what make the notes so intriguing in the first place. Without the spaces in between, music would just be one long note. No one would want to listen to it for long. The same is true for a woman's attraction. There needs to be space built in for their feelings to grow. Women need the time away from you to think about and even miss you.

So just back off and be patient. Give this Leo the freedom to come back to you. If she's already agreed to be exclusive, then you really don't have much to worry about. So go and do your own thing because that's what a confident man would do.

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Also this^

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Posted by wagtail
Hi there dkrab

hmmmmm I'd wait 'til she reaches out to you first, the more space the better.

Any chance you have any other astro placements handy?

Like her moon sign, mercury or mars...?

Hi thanks! okay I might try that, is it okay if I leave her a message? or no? well Im not familiar with the placements thingy but her birthday is on August 13, 1989 while I was born on July 13, 1992

No don't message her. Will explain in a bit.

okay, thanks a lot! will wait for the explanation. Thanks!

So first know that Leos like people who are confident and strong. This is especially true for a Leo woman. Women in general want a man who is strong internally and confident in himself. Messaging right now will show that you're worried and anxious. She told you that she doesn't have time to talk right now. You already know that she's fine and unless you had an argument you didn't share with us, there's nothing she's angry with you about.

Leos aren't always big on texting either and we can also keep very busy/stressful schedules. It's very possible that work on top of family has caused her to go into hiding. It happens and isn't anything to worry about. There have been moments where I've "disappeared" for several days just because I was burned out

Astrology aside, you have to know that until a woman is fully in love with you, there may be moments when she'll need time away from you (this is even true when she does fall in love). Sounds like you two have been communication nonstop before she took her trip. While that was good for the initial butterflies you both felt, she's probably little bored right now. It's still early for the both of you, so that much constant communication can become stagnant. It's no big deal, just give her some space.

Women like guys they have to think about. This is why you hear women say things like, "He's so mysterious" or "I'm not sure what he's thinking" or "He's no different". It's the time apart that really helps build their attraction. It's the unknown, the surprises that keep a woman wanting more. You've been such a constant presence that this woman has had no time to really think about you on her own.

To put it a better way, music occurs when there are gaps/spaces in between the notes. The varying gaps are what make the notes so intriguing in the first place. Without the spaces in between, music would just be one long note. No one would want to listen to it for long. The same is true for a woman's attraction. There needs to be space built in for their feelings to grow. Women need the time away from you to think about and even miss you.

So just back off and be patient. Give this Leo the freedom to come back to you. If she's already agreed to be exclusive, then you really don't have much to worry about. So go and do your own thing because that's what a confident man would do.

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THANK YOU VERY MUCH @Chuckcem Sorry I don't know what to react but I can say that your post is really enlightening and helps me to reevaluate myself in my current situation. Thank you so much for explaining it to me part by part and I must say you give a good advice, even in my previous post your advice is the one I really followed. Thank you very much! 🙂

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@SMC and @Astrology101 haha! Thanks for the inputs, I really appreciate your advices gave me some insights in our current situation and our relationship.🙂

@Astrology101 well, to be honest and it may sound crazy and so foolish but I'm not expecting her to really fall in love with me, I'm just enjoying what we have right now, as long as she wants me to be around I'll be around, I really like her, I really do that's why I'm just enjoying this, even I'm not sure what might happen. Thank you for being honest with me. Really appreciate it. 🙂

@SMC I really hope so, when she picks up her phone she's full of energy and tell me stories and stuff. Maybe I'll just wait for her to initiate the conversation? Thanks SMC 🙂

You do that! I'm glad to hear your enjoying yourself.^^ so even when she does decide to back away you can be sure you did the right thing and remained a gentleman throughout this ordeal...gotta hand it to you, you did well

good luck!

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haha! Thank you @SMC well what can I say this Leo Woman is my dream girl since the first time I met her in 2012, so I just want to enjoy this, whatever is this I'm having with her. 🙂

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Hi there dkrab

hmmmmm I'd wait 'til she reaches out to you first, the more space the better.

Any chance you have any other astro placements handy?

Like her moon sign, mercury or mars...?

Hi thanks! okay I might try that, is it okay if I leave her a message? or no? well Im not familiar with the placements thingy but her birthday is on August 13, 1989 while I was born on July 13, 1992

No don't message her. Will explain in a bit.

okay, thanks a lot! will wait for the explanation. Thanks!

So first know that Leos like people who are confident and strong. This is especially true for a Leo woman. Women in general want a man who is strong internally and confident in himself. Messaging right now will show that you're worried and anxious. She told you that she doesn't have time to talk right now. You already know that she's fine and unless you had an argument you didn't share with us, there's nothing she's angry with you about.

Leos aren't always big on texting either and we can also keep very busy/stressful schedules. It's very possible that work on top of family has caused her to go into hiding. It happens and isn't anything to worry about. There have been moments where I've "disappeared" for several days just because I was burned out

Astrology aside, you have to know that until a woman is fully in love with you, there may be moments when she'll need time away from you (this is even true when she does fall in love). Sounds like you two have been communication nonstop before she took her trip. While that was good for the initial butterflies you both felt, she's probably little bored right now. It's still early for the both of you, so that much constant communication can become stagnant. It's no big deal, just give her some space.

Women like guys they have to think about. This is why you hear women say things like, "He's so mysterious" or "I'm not sure what he's thinking" or "He's no different". It's the time apart that really helps build their attraction. It's the unknown, the surprises that keep a woman wanting more. You've been such a constant presence that this woman has had no time to really think about you on her own.

To put it a better way, music occurs when there are gaps/spaces in between the notes. The varying gaps are what make the notes so intriguing in the first place. Without the spaces in between, music would just be one long note. No one would want to listen to it for long. The same is true for a woman's attraction. There needs to be space built in for their feelings to grow. Women need the time away from you to think about and even miss you.

So just back off and be patient. Give this Leo the freedom to come back to you. If she's already agreed to be exclusive, then you really don't have much to worry about. So go and do your own thing because that's what a confident man would do.

THANK YOU VERY MUCH @Chuckcem Sorry I don't know what to react but I can say that your post is really enlightening and helps me to reevaluate myself in my current situation. Thank you so much for explaining it to me part by part and I must say you give a good advice, even in my previous post your advice is the one I really followed. Thank you very much! 🙂

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Glad to help!

Wait for her to initiate messaging

As a lioness we also like to hunt - this translates to 'no problem chasing guys we like' which for a Leo like myself, means I'll hit you up when I wanna hit you up- we ain't exactly the type of woman that sits around wondering why the man we want isn't reaching out. We have no problem doing it ourselves...

So if she's needing space give her the goddamn space boy 😆

Posted by dkrab13
Hi guys! I posted sometime ago regarding a friend who's a leo woman. So just when I thought that we were just friends, everything got upgraded, we became closer, we're more open to each other and she knows I like her, we became sweeter to each other, we sometimes exchange I love yous and she told me that I was special and exclusive to me. So we constantly communicate with each other except when she goes out of town because there is no signal in there home province, only the internet and it's family time for her so I totally understand if she doesn't texts me or whatever but whenever she goes online she would chat me up or leave a message.

Last week, she went home there with her family, she would leave messages or we would talk via chat, everything was fine then come Thursday she didn't go online until Sunday, so we haven't talk during those days. Monday morning, still no messages from her, I tried to ring her phone because I got worried, I called her up then she answered just a short convo from her, then later that night I called her again she just told me she's not in the mood to text or whatever, we still talked for a couple of minutes then hangup because she was exhausted from work, so we got off the phone. Sadly, until today no messages from her.

Question is that normal? that a leo woman suddenly disappears? It kinda sucks because I really want to talk to her and I miss her but I don't want to appear needy, so I'm not really sure what to do? did she lost interest already? Please give me some advice, leo friends esp the leo ladies. THANKS IN ADVANCE!

Hey, you sound sweet. Just leave her a text where you know she'll definitely login and check "I just got a little worried; hope you're fine, dear. Please take care" and Relax.

Getting too emotional can be a turnoff even if we perfectly understand the love behind it. Well, at least I can understand how much you like her. Try to chill. She will get back to you and when she does, put across your concern with a cheerful face, "Hey! that kinda really worried me, dear. Please keep me posted in future". Yeah, don't let the overemotional side show up, please? You may not realise it but it can be annoying/suffocating for her. My dad's a Cancerian and I know how deep his love and how annoying sometimes his exaggerated expressions of care can be. Chill!