Leos jealously

I'm having a hard time understanding leos jealously . Do they just get jealous over people they love or just over anyone ?. My Leo got friend gets jealous a lot whenever I hang out with someone else or when I post pics with someone else even over people that like me and I asked why do you get jealous and he said because all these people thirst over you and all of these making collages and videos of you and etc like let go of my bestie .and I told him I get jealous too and I'm just having a hard time understanding why a Leo would get jealous they are the best sign in my opnion and they know that so why get jealous ? Do they get jealous over anyone and anything I just want to understand that

Naturally jealous over anything.

We have to be #1, always.

Thankfully, most of us grow out of that. For the most part, lol.

My sister's Cap friend had been having issues with a Leo friend for years. They've been on/off for years.

Just was on again after a probably 2yr off period, and now they are back off. A bunch of them went on a girls trip out of town. Everything went well. Get back home, the Cap visits a friend and his girlfriend for father's day, the Leo sends a bunch of subliminal on facebook. And they are off again. The friend is an ex of the Leo, which they've all been friends for years, but I'm assuming the Leo doesn't like his new girlfriend. Idk, but she is pissed at the Cap.

Leo decides to jump and wrap her legs around the Cap husband and play strippers poker with a friend in front of him.

It's just ALWAYS something with them two(Leo and Cap). I can't say its jealousy but its something.

Cannot STAND jealousy...

copped it and dealt it.

Never ends well lol Leo's can come across a bit possessy I guess.

But eventually we grow out of it/ grow up. 🙂

I must admit the jealousy is flattering to me to an extent. My girl is a Leo and when she gets jealous it's usually dumb innocent stuff and I just stroke her ego and it's all good in like 20 min lol. Sometimes I do it on purpose too. I been with her long enough to know what buttons to push and vice versa. Like I'm not jealous at all, but I do hate being ignored. When she does that to me it drives me insane!

Correct. Usually I'll get the silent treatment, then an explanation of what I did she didn't like after she held me in suspense for a while. That is usually my cue to step in and make things right.

Posted by SecondToughestInTheInfants
I didn't know I could be very jealous, until recently .

I somehow became jealous of a male co-worker.

I really liked this guy, I could get along with him quite well and I even considered him as a good friend.

The thing is that there is a female co-worker I'm being fond of and my male colleague also knows this.

For the last couple of months he started flirting his ass off with her, it annoys me, but of course I can't prohibit him from doing this.

In the meantime he tells me that he's not that interested in her, he probably wouldn't leave his wife for her (oh yeah, side note: he's married), but would 'bang' her if the opportunity would be there.

What makes it even more annoying is that he's making obscene (sexual) gestures relating her, which he makes sure I only can see.

Sometimes he's texting her and after he's done texting, he will look at me and will say something like '... soon, soon', with a big friggin' smirk on his face.

I told him that I like him as a colleague and even as a friend, but truly hate him for his recent behaviour.

I'm aware of my jealousy and I even apologized to him for that.

Telling him all this somehow backfired, because he seems to be enjoying the situation more and more.

What actually makes me jealous is that she likes him and really dislikes me. I can't blame her for that, I also like(d) the guy.

I just wish she could she his true colors.

I know being jealous in this situation is quite unreasonable, but I just can't help it. 🙂

Anyway, besides all of this, I'm usually not very jealous. 😄

That's not jealousy-- it's disgust.

What an ass.

Posted by sultrykitty
Naturally jealous over anything.

We have to be #1, always.

Thankfully, most of us grow out of that. For the most part, lol.

We learn not to verbalize it. 🙂 😈

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Posted by sultrykitty
Naturally jealous over anything.

We have to be #1, always.

Thankfully, most of us grow out of that. For the most part, lol.

We learn not to verbalize it. 🙂 😈

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Got that right. 😄

@SecondToughestInTheInfants

Well next time he texts her you need to secretly record him and then show the chick.

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@SecondToughestInTheInfants

Well next time he texts her you need to secretly record him and then show the chick.

Hehe, I was thinking the same thing, but if I would do such a thing, I probably would get the 'short end of the stick'.

He even told me, if I would tell her the things he's doing, she probably wouldn't believe me and think I'm the bad person for 'backstabbing' him.

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Oh that's just fear, don't listen to him! Do it! He's really scared of the consequences, because it would destroy him, and she'll probably fall for you. You need to stay cool about tho, just hide a small camera maybe, just catch him in the act, if she sees it she will be absolutely disgusted, and she'll love you for warning her.

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@SecondToughestInTheInfants

Well next time he texts her you need to secretly record him and then show the chick.

Hehe, I was thinking the same thing, but if I would do such a thing, I probably would get the 'short end of the stick'.

He even told me, if I would tell her the things he's doing, she probably wouldn't believe me and think I'm the bad person for 'backstabbing' him.

Oh that's just fear, don't listen to him! Do it! He's really scared of the consequences, because it would destroy him, and she'll probably fall for you. You need to stay cool about tho, just hide a small camera maybe, just catch him in the act, if she sees it she will be absolutely disgusted, and she'll love you for warning her.

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Ehh... that could backfire pretty easily.

Just saying.

Esp if this woman WANTS to believe otherwise... you know?



But refusing to listen or entertain it probably isn't a bad idea.

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@SecondToughestInTheInfants

Well next time he texts her you need to secretly record him and then show the chick.

Hehe, I was thinking the same thing, but if I would do such a thing, I probably would get the 'short end of the stick.

Oh that's just fear, don't listen to him! Do it! He's really scared of the consequences, because it would destroy him, and she'll probably fall for you. You need to stay cool about tho, just hide a small camera maybe, just catch him in the act, if she sees it she will be absolutely disgusted, and she'll love you for warning her.

Ehh... that could backfire pretty easily.

Just saying.

Esp if this woman WANTS to believe otherwise... you know?



But refusing to listen or entertain it probably isn't a bad idea.

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Really? Have you ever had this kind of scenario and the chick didn't mind?

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@SecondToughestInTheInfants

Well next time he texts her you need to secretly record him and then show the chick.

Hehe, I was thinking the same thing, but if I would do such a thing, I probably would get the 'short end of the stick.

Oh that's just fear, don't listen to him! Do it! He's really scared of the consequences, because it would destroy him, and she'll probably fall for you. You need to stay cool about tho, just hide a small camera maybe, just catch him in the act, if she sees it she will be absolutely disgusted, and she'll love you for warning her.

Ehh... that could backfire pretty easily.

Just saying.

Esp if this woman WANTS to believe otherwise... you know?



But refusing to listen or entertain it probably isn't a bad idea.

Really? Have you ever had this kind of scenario and the chick didn't mind?

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Yeah, that's not what I said.

Unless you're telling me that you don't believe there are delusional women

out there... ?



Gaaahd, I forgot how hyper-sensitive you are. o___O

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@SecondToughestInTheInfants

Well next time he texts her you need to secretly record him and then show the chick.

Hehe, I was thinking the same thing, but if I would do such a thing, I probably would get the 'short end of the stick.

Oh that's just fear, don't listen to him! Do it! He's really scared of the consequences, because it would destroy him, and she'll probably fall for you. You need to stay cool about tho, just hide a small camera maybe, just catch him in the act, if she sees it she will be absolutely disgusted, and she'll love you for warning her.

Ehh... that could backfire pretty easily.

Just saying.

Esp if this woman WANTS to believe otherwise... you know?



But refusing to listen or entertain it probably isn't a bad idea.

Really? Have you ever had this kind of scenario and the chick didn't mind?

Yeah, that's not what I said.

Unless you're telling me that you don't believe there are delusional women

out there... ?



Gaaahd, I forgot how hyper-sensitive you are. o___O

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That's not what you said? I didn't imply that's what you said. And you're the hyper-sensitive one, jesus l just asked a question.

Also, do you know me? I don't remember ever interacting with you. Wow it's like talking to a 5 year old seriously...

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Posted by bricklemark
@SecondToughestInTheInfants

Well next time he texts her you need to secretly record him and then show the chick.

Hehe, I was thinking the same thing, but if I would do such a thing, I probably would get the 'short end of the stick.

Oh that's just fear, don't listen to him! Do it! He's really scared of the consequences, because it would destroy him, and she'll probably fall for you. You need to stay cool about tho, just hide a small camera maybe, just catch him in the act, if she sees it she will be absolutely disgusted, and she'll love you for warning her.

Ehh... that could backfire pretty easily.

Just saying.

Esp if this woman WANTS to believe otherwise... you know?



But refusing to listen or entertain it probably isn't a bad idea.

Really? Have you ever had this kind of scenario and the chick didn't mind?

Yeah, that's not what I said.

Unless you're telling me that you don't believe there are delusional women

out there... ?



Gaaahd, I forgot how hyper-sensitive you are. o___O

That's not what you said? I didn't imply that's what you said. And you're the hyper-sensitive one, jesus l just asked a question.

Also, do you know me? I don't remember ever interacting with you. Wow it's like talking to a 5 year old seriously...

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That's exactly what you implied. 🙂

And quite alright-- I certainly remember you.

One Leos jealousy made a lot of hell for me growing up, kinda made me wary of Leos, which is a shame.

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@SecondToughestInTheInfants

Well next time he texts her you need to secretly record him and then show the chick.

Hehe, I was thinking the same thing, but if I would do such a thing, I probably would get the 'short end of the stick'.

He even told me, if I would tell her the things he's doing, she probably wouldn't believe me and think I'm the bad person for 'backstabbing' him.

Oh that's just fear, don't listen to him! Do it! He's really scared of the consequences, because it would destroy him, and she'll probably fall for you. You need to stay cool about tho, just hide a small camera maybe, just catch him in the act, if she sees it she will be absolutely disgusted, and she'll love you for warning her.

As what @Montgomery said, I think it would backfire.



I will try to ignore the male co-worker as much as possible, although it's a bit difficult in a work environment.

Just trying to keep things peaceful in the office.

I will see how things play out.



Like others, I just provided some background info for my jealousy and took the opportunity to vent my frustrations a bit.

🙂

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Just lettin you know, this type of thing just sits in your past, and it doesn't go away, l wish l'd attacked years ago in a similar case. Follow the insteuctions, it will work 🙂 don't punish your future self.