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Lalalibra
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Y'all telling her to sick around make no sense. She has no kids right.






She has a daughter.


even better she's procreated

Cancers don't want people with them who struggle to be with them.

we want the whole shebang ...love and crap

atleast i do


I’m a Libra we’re great at being everything for everyone. My husband is just stuck in his ways. He’s boring, he’s afraid to step out of his box. He’s not spontaneous he love to plan everything,which is great but I like to live on the edge sometimes.. we’re oppposites and it works in a lot of ways but a lot of ways it don’t. If I don’t get frustrated he believes everything is okay.


I’m going to be really honest, this is normal long term relationship stuff. NOT deal breakers.

Everyone gets stuck in a routine. We all end up hiring and predictable.

If this is your biggest issue then maybe you didn’t choose right. But you have to own that, you can’t blame him for being normal.

It sounds like you just want to be single again.

That’s your choice, but own it.

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I know! I understand people face worse in their marriage, I listen to some of my friends and be like damn why can’t I just be. But it’s hard and I guess everyone deals with things differently and maybe I am now owning up to my actions. And I do feel bad but I don’t regret it. I want more and I did choose the wrong partner. But I keep trying I haven’t given up like some of these people are saying. I just let a situation get out of hand.
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Cut your ties. You sound vey unhappy.

Better to be single than be unhappy


Or instead of spending your time baking edibles with some other dude and then riding his dick, go to sex therapy with your husband of 7 years.

People are so eager to throw away their relationship. Zero staying power.

Why I don't believe in marriage.

I never believed in marriage but here I am! I gave it a shot and now it’s time to break free! Stop judging so much, marriage is just a signed document, were still human at the end of it. And we react the way we want so if riding the d is something I did, that’s my decision.


Indeed it is.

Marriage is more than a signed document its a promise of fidelity. A promise you broke.

Your putting his sexual health at risk if your spreading your legs for another man and continuing to have sex with your husband. Thats not fair to him.

Understood, well it happened and I take full responsibility for my actions. Unlike a cancer who plays the victim all the damn time. I hope you have the perfect relationship with no bumps so you’ll never have to wander. 😊😁


No such thing as a perfect relationship with no bumps.

I respect my partner and, more importantly- myself too much to fuck around and 'wander'. I'd end things long before that point.

You should fess up so he can get tested for stds asap.

Window for HIV/AIDS is 6 months so the sooner he knows the sooner he can protect himself from your 'wandering'.


Listen lady! I screwed up, I know that, I don’t regret it though I really enjoyed it! I don’t have any std I’m not a fool!! Lol I’m happy you walk the straigh and narrow. But everyone’s not that perfect 😊


You are a fool.

Stds can be transferred from person to person without the carrier having any symptoms or outbreaks.

25% of americans have an INCURABLE std.

85% of people with HERPES have never experienced symptoms and aren't aware that they are carriers and passing it on to others.

1.2 million with HIV and 1 in 8 (12% ) aren't aware they have HIV.



Tell him so he can look after his health since you don't seem to care.


Did someone give you a STD geeezz! Thanks for the info though


No. I'm well informed and plan to keep it that way.

Get tested asap. Tell the cancer so he can as well.

Again...window for HIV/AIDS is 6 months so you need to get tested again 6 months after the sex with LEO to make sure you are clear.
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So condoms don’t work I guess, we’re you a virgin when you met your partner?
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Cut your ties. You sound vey unhappy.

Better to be single than be unhappy


Or instead of spending your time baking edibles with some other dude and then riding his dick, go to sex therapy with your husband of 7 years.

People are so eager to throw away their relationship. Zero staying power.

Why I don't believe in marriage.

I never believed in marriage but here I am! I gave it a shot and now it’s time to break free! Stop judging so much, marriage is just a signed document, were still human at the end of it. And we react the way we want so if riding the d is something I did, that’s my decision.


Indeed it is.

Marriage is more than a signed document its a promise of fidelity. A promise you broke.

Your putting his sexual health at risk if your spreading your legs for another man and continuing to have sex with your husband. Thats not fair to him.

Understood, well it happened and I take full responsibility for my actions. Unlike a cancer who plays the victim all the damn time. I hope you have the perfect relationship with no bumps so you’ll never have to wander. 😊😁


No such thing as a perfect relationship with no bumps.

I respect my partner and, more importantly- myself too much to fuck around and 'wander'. I'd end things long before that point.

You should fess up so he can get tested for stds asap.

Window for HIV/AIDS is 6 months so the sooner he knows the sooner he can protect himself from your 'wandering'.


Listen lady! I screwed up, I know that, I don’t regret it though I really enjoyed it! I don’t have any std I’m not a fool!! Lol I’m happy you walk the straigh and narrow. But everyone’s not that perfect 😊


You are a fool.

Stds can be transferred from person to person without the carrier having any symptoms or outbreaks.

25% of americans have an INCURABLE std.

85% of people with HERPES have never experienced symptoms and aren't aware that they are carriers and passing it on to others.

1.2 million with HIV and 1 in 8 (12% ) aren't aware they have HIV.



Tell him so he can look after his health since you don't seem to care.


Did someone give you a STD geeezz! Thanks for the info though


No. I'm well informed and plan to keep it that way.

Get tested asap. Tell the cancer so he can as well.

Again...window for HIV/AIDS is 6 months so you need to get tested again 6 months after the sex with LEO to make sure you are clear.


So condoms don’t work I guess, we’re you a virgin when you met your partner?
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No I was not a virgin. Yes we did get tested before intimacy.

But I guess I got better sex education in school than you did because I am actually informed on the subject.

Condoms work for the skin they are covering...not the rest of the flesh that is exposed and touching.

Did they teach abstinence at your highschool? Sorry our educational system failed you. Your in the majority.
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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Lalalibra

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Lalalibra

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Black-Mamba

Cut your ties. You sound vey unhappy.

Better to be single than be unhappy


Or instead of spending your time baking edibles with some other dude and then riding his dick, go to sex therapy with your husband of 7 years.

People are so eager to throw away their relationship. Zero staying power.

Why I don't believe in marriage.

I never believed in marriage but here I am! I gave it a shot and now it’s time to break free! Stop judging so much, marriage is just a signed document, were still human at the end of it. And we react the way we want so if riding the d is something I did, that’s my decision.


Indeed it is.

Marriage is more than a signed document its a promise of fidelity. A promise you broke.

Your putting his sexual health at risk if your spreading your legs for another man and continuing to have sex with your husband. Thats not fair to him.

Understood, well it happened and I take full responsibility for my actions. Unlike a cancer who plays the victim all the damn time. I hope you have the perfect relationship with no bumps so you’ll never have to wander. 😊😁


No such thing as a perfect relationship with no bumps.

I respect my partner and, more importantly- myself too much to fuck around and 'wander'. I'd end things long before that point.

You should fess up so he can get tested for stds asap.

Window for HIV/AIDS is 6 months so the sooner he knows the sooner he can protect himself from your 'wandering'.


Listen lady! I screwed up, I know that, I don’t regret it though I really enjoyed it! I don’t have any std I’m not a fool!! Lol I’m happy you walk the straigh and narrow. But everyone’s not that perfect 😊


You are a fool.

Stds can be transferred from person to person without the carrier having any symptoms or outbreaks.

25% of americans have an INCURABLE std.

85% of people with HERPES have never experienced symptoms and aren't aware that they are carriers and passing it on to others.

1.2 million with HIV and 1 in 8 (12% ) aren't aware they have HIV.



Tell him so he can look after his health since you don't seem to care.


Did someone give you a STD geeezz! Thanks for the info though


No. I'm well informed and plan to keep it that way.

Get tested asap. Tell the cancer so he can as well.

Again...window for HIV/AIDS is 6 months so you need to get tested again 6 months after the sex with LEO to make sure you are clear.


So condoms don’t work I guess, we’re you a virgin when you met your partner?


No I was not a virgin. Yes we did get tested before intimacy.

But I guess I got better sex education in school than you did because I am actually informed on the subject.

Condoms work for the skin they are covering...not the rest of the flesh that is exposed and touching.

Did they teach abstinence at your highschool? Sorry our educational system failed you. Your in the majority.
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Maybe you need to get laid now!! Damn
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Posted by Black-Mamba

Cut your ties. You sound vey unhappy.

Better to be single than be unhappy


Or instead of spending your time baking edibles with some other dude and then riding his dick, go to sex therapy with your husband of 7 years.

People are so eager to throw away their relationship. Zero staying power.

Why I don't believe in marriage.

I never believed in marriage but here I am! I gave it a shot and now it’s time to break free! Stop judging so much, marriage is just a signed document, were still human at the end of it. And we react the way we want so if riding the d is something I did, that’s my decision.


Indeed it is.

Marriage is more than a signed document its a promise of fidelity. A promise you broke.

Your putting his sexual health at risk if your spreading your legs for another man and continuing to have sex with your husband. Thats not fair to him.

Understood, well it happened and I take full responsibility for my actions. Unlike a cancer who plays the victim all the damn time. I hope you have the perfect relationship with no bumps so you’ll never have to wander. 😊😁


No such thing as a perfect relationship with no bumps.

I respect my partner and, more importantly- myself too much to fuck around and 'wander'. I'd end things long before that point.

You should fess up so he can get tested for stds asap.

Window for HIV/AIDS is 6 months so the sooner he knows the sooner he can protect himself from your 'wandering'.


Listen lady! I screwed up, I know that, I don’t regret it though I really enjoyed it! I don’t have any std I’m not a fool!! Lol I’m happy you walk the straigh and narrow. But everyone’s not that perfect 😊


You are a fool.

Stds can be transferred from person to person without the carrier having any symptoms or outbreaks.

25% of americans have an INCURABLE std.

85% of people with HERPES have never experienced symptoms and aren't aware that they are carriers and passing it on to others.

1.2 million with HIV and 1 in 8 (12% ) aren't aware they have HIV.



Tell him so he can look after his health since you don't seem to care.


Did someone give you a STD geeezz! Thanks for the info though


No. I'm well informed and plan to keep it that way.

Get tested asap. Tell the cancer so he can as well.

Again...window for HIV/AIDS is 6 months so you need to get tested again 6 months after the sex with LEO to make sure you are clear.


So condoms don’t work I guess, we’re you a virgin when you met your partner?


No I was not a virgin. Yes we did get tested before intimacy.

But I guess I got better sex education in school than you did because I am actually informed on the subject.

Condoms work for the skin they are covering...not the rest of the flesh that is exposed and touching.

Did they teach abstinence at your highschool? Sorry our educational system failed you. Your in the majority.


Maybe you need to get laid now!! Damn
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I fucked my dude last night. And again this morning.

But cute. This is textbook right here. "get laid' because I'm so bitter, right?

Just cause you don't like what I have to say.
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Lalalibra
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Posted by 7s

Did you gain weight when you had your daughter?

And why do you say "he's out of my league?"

I said it because, I’m shallow at times lol and he’s the type of guy that would be living in his moms basement playing videos games all day. I upgraded him, he has a successful career now, even though he works from home because he loves to be home. Our biggest issue is him not wanting more from life. We’re young we need to live like it’s our last. I do a lot of things with my daughter. And he comes but I want him to be just as optimistic
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Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Lalalibra

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Lalalibra

Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Black-Mamba

Y'all telling her to sick around make no sense. She has no kids right.






She has a daughter.


even better she's procreated

Cancers don't want people with them who struggle to be with them.

we want the whole shebang ...love and crap

atleast i do


I’m a Libra we’re great at being everything for everyone. My husband is just stuck in his ways. He’s boring, he’s afraid to step out of his box. He’s not spontaneous he love to plan everything,which is great but I like to live on the edge sometimes.. we’re oppposites and it works in a lot of ways but a lot of ways it don’t. If I don’t get frustrated he believes everything is okay.


I’m going to be really honest, this is normal long term relationship stuff. NOT deal breakers.

Everyone gets stuck in a routine. We all end up hiring and predictable.

If this is your biggest issue then maybe you didn’t choose right. But you have to own that, you can’t blame him for being normal.

It sounds like you just want to be single again.

That’s your choice, but own it.




I know! I understand people face worse in their marriage, I listen to some of my friends and be like damn why can’t I just be. But it’s hard and I guess everyone deals with things differently and maybe I am now owning up to my actions. And I do feel bad but I don’t regret it. I want more and I did choose the wrong partner. But I keep trying I haven’t given up like some of these people are saying. I just let a situation get out of hand.


I’m really feeling like you’re struggles in the marriage may be a reflection of not being challenged or fulfilled on your own.

Not saying hubby is perfect... but understanding why you’re looking for something new so soon.

I really think you should see someone. Start understanding yourself and where your at in life.

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I had a brief discussion with my mom and she said the same. Thanks again your on point. I do love a challenge and I love to be engaged all the time. My husband only talks about his passion for video games, I love to talk about all topics. I game with him just to connect but I get left in the dumps or he just listen with no real feed back when I want to talk. I love adventure and being out in nature but he doesn’t. He comes out with me but he looks miserable and wants to hurry back home.
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Posted by Black-Mamba

Cut your ties. You sound vey unhappy.

Better to be single than be unhappy


Or instead of spending your time baking edibles with some other dude and then riding his dick, go to sex therapy with your husband of 7 years.

People are so eager to throw away their relationship. Zero staying power.

Why I don't believe in marriage.

I never believed in marriage but here I am! I gave it a shot and now it’s time to break free! Stop judging so much, marriage is just a signed document, were still human at the end of it. And we react the way we want so if riding the d is something I did, that’s my decision.


Indeed it is.

Marriage is more than a signed document its a promise of fidelity. A promise you broke.

Your putting his sexual health at risk if your spreading your legs for another man and continuing to have sex with your husband. Thats not fair to him.

Understood, well it happened and I take full responsibility for my actions. Unlike a cancer who plays the victim all the damn time. I hope you have the perfect relationship with no bumps so you’ll never have to wander. 😊😁


No such thing as a perfect relationship with no bumps.

I respect my partner and, more importantly- myself too much to fuck around and 'wander'. I'd end things long before that point.

You should fess up so he can get tested for stds asap.

Window for HIV/AIDS is 6 months so the sooner he knows the sooner he can protect himself from your 'wandering'.


Listen lady! I screwed up, I know that, I don’t regret it though I really enjoyed it! I don’t have any std I’m not a fool!! Lol I’m happy you walk the straigh and narrow. But everyone’s not that perfect 😊


You are a fool.

Stds can be transferred from person to person without the carrier having any symptoms or outbreaks.

25% of americans have an INCURABLE std.

85% of people with HERPES have never experienced symptoms and aren't aware that they are carriers and passing it on to others.

1.2 million with HIV and 1 in 8 (12% ) aren't aware they have HIV.



Tell him so he can look after his health since you don't seem to care.


Did someone give you a STD geeezz! Thanks for the info though


No. I'm well informed and plan to keep it that way.

Get tested asap. Tell the cancer so he can as well.

Again...window for HIV/AIDS is 6 months so you need to get tested again 6 months after the sex with LEO to make sure you are clear.


So condoms don’t work I guess, we’re you a virgin when you met your partner?


No I was not a virgin. Yes we did get tested before intimacy.

But I guess I got better sex education in school than you did because I am actually informed on the subject.

Condoms work for the skin they are covering...not the rest of the flesh that is exposed and touching.

Did they teach abstinence at your highschool? Sorry our educational system failed you. Your in the majority.


Maybe you need to get laid now!! Damn


I fucked my dude last night. And again this morning.

But cute. This is textbook right here. "get laid' because I'm so bitter, right?

Just cause you don't like what I have to say.
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I have considered what you said, but now your just getting annoying like relax. I know about std’s I don’t live my life in fear. I used a condom and I get check up often so we’ll see in 6 months thanks
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Did you gain weight when you had your daughter?

And why do you say "he's out of my league?"

I said I’m out of his league, no I actually lost weight because of bad morning sickness.and breast feeding made me lose more I did gain only because I lost too much. My weight is good I do yoga and go to the gym often. Sex is amazing for him, I’m the one suffering.


That's cool.

But just to be clear, how tall her you and how much do you weight exactly?

Thanks 🙂
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I’m 5’5 140 trying to get to 155, my husband is 6’6 240. He’s a gentle giant lol
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Lalalibra
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Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Lalalibra

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Lalalibra

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Lalalibra

Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Black-Mamba

Y'all telling her to sick around make no sense. She has no kids right.






She has a daughter.


even better she's procreated

Cancers don't want people with them who struggle to be with them.

we want the whole shebang ...love and crap

atleast i do


I’m a Libra we’re great at being everything for everyone. My husband is just stuck in his ways. He’s boring, he’s afraid to step out of his box. He’s not spontaneous he love to plan everything,which is great but I like to live on the edge sometimes.. we’re oppposites and it works in a lot of ways but a lot of ways it don’t. If I don’t get frustrated he believes everything is okay.


I’m going to be really honest, this is normal long term relationship stuff. NOT deal breakers.

Everyone gets stuck in a routine. We all end up hiring and predictable.

If this is your biggest issue then maybe you didn’t choose right. But you have to own that, you can’t blame him for being normal.

It sounds like you just want to be single again.

That’s your choice, but own it.




I know! I understand people face worse in their marriage, I listen to some of my friends and be like damn why can’t I just be. But it’s hard and I guess everyone deals with things differently and maybe I am now owning up to my actions. And I do feel bad but I don’t regret it. I want more and I did choose the wrong partner. But I keep trying I haven’t given up like some of these people are saying. I just let a situation get out of hand.


I’m really feeling like you’re struggles in the marriage may be a reflection of not being challenged or fulfilled on your own.

Not saying hubby is perfect... but understanding why you’re looking for something new so soon.

I really think you should see someone. Start understanding yourself and where your at in life.




I had a brief discussion with my mom and she said the same. Thanks again your on point. I do love a challenge and I love to be engaged all the time. My husband only talks about his passion for video games, I love to talk about all topics. I game with him just to connect but I get left in the dumps or he just listen with no real feed back when I want to talk. I love adventure and being out in nature but he doesn’t. He comes out with me but he looks miserable and wants to hurry back home.


I get that. Mine was a workaholic...

His only thought was work related and his hobbies were centered on business.

He dropped the connection between us and when I told him our marriage was dead emotionally he said he would fix it later when he was done working so hard.

Coupled with the abuse... and the lack of any support....

He killed us. I saw three therapists, had multiple interventions with family and friends...

He just wouldn’t listen. He only sees his perspective.

But I can tell my kids I FOUGHT for us.

Yes, I made a mistake. I own that. But I was alone for a long time before it happened and I worked on myself afterwards.
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What was his sign? And your really strong, I wouldn’t be able to put up with that, I can be a spoiled brat wanting my way sometimes. And I know us Libra will endure it all in the name of love. But it’s okay to be selfish sometimes. And hey don’t regret you mistakes, life is about taking chances and growing from it. And I hope your children are understanding when it comes to your choices.
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Posted by Black-Mamba

Cut your ties. You sound vey unhappy.

Better to be single than be unhappy


Or instead of spending your time baking edibles with some other dude and then riding his dick, go to sex therapy with your husband of 7 years.

People are so eager to throw away their relationship. Zero staying power.

Why I don't believe in marriage.

I never believed in marriage but here I am! I gave it a shot and now it’s time to break free! Stop judging so much, marriage is just a signed document, were still human at the end of it. And we react the way we want so if riding the d is something I did, that’s my decision.


Indeed it is.

Marriage is more than a signed document its a promise of fidelity. A promise you broke.

Your putting his sexual health at risk if your spreading your legs for another man and continuing to have sex with your husband. Thats not fair to him.

Understood, well it happened and I take full responsibility for my actions. Unlike a cancer who plays the victim all the damn time. I hope you have the perfect relationship with no bumps so you’ll never have to wander. 😊😁


No such thing as a perfect relationship with no bumps.

I respect my partner and, more importantly- myself too much to fuck around and 'wander'. I'd end things long before that point.

You should fess up so he can get tested for stds asap.

Window for HIV/AIDS is 6 months so the sooner he knows the sooner he can protect himself from your 'wandering'.


Listen lady! I screwed up, I know that, I don’t regret it though I really enjoyed it! I don’t have any std I’m not a fool!! Lol I’m happy you walk the straigh and narrow. But everyone’s not that perfect 😊


You are a fool.

Stds can be transferred from person to person without the carrier having any symptoms or outbreaks.

25% of americans have an INCURABLE std.

85% of people with HERPES have never experienced symptoms and aren't aware that they are carriers and passing it on to others.

1.2 million with HIV and 1 in 8 (12% ) aren't aware they have HIV.



Tell him so he can look after his health since you don't seem to care.


Did someone give you a STD geeezz! Thanks for the info though


No. I'm well informed and plan to keep it that way.

Get tested asap. Tell the cancer so he can as well.

Again...window for HIV/AIDS is 6 months so you need to get tested again 6 months after the sex with LEO to make sure you are clear.


So condoms don’t work I guess, we’re you a virgin when you met your partner?


No I was not a virgin. Yes we did get tested before intimacy.

But I guess I got better sex education in school than you did because I am actually informed on the subject.

Condoms work for the skin they are covering...not the rest of the flesh that is exposed and touching.

Did they teach abstinence at your highschool? Sorry our educational system failed you. Your in the majority.


Maybe you need to get laid now!! Damn


I fucked my dude last night. And again this morning.

But cute. This is textbook right here. "get laid' because I'm so bitter, right?

Just cause you don't like what I have to say.


I have considered what you said, but now your just getting annoying like relax. I know about std’s I don’t live my life in fear. I used a condom and I get check up often so we’ll see in 6 months thanks
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Thats all good and well for you.

What about your husband's health?

You need to tell him so he can protect himself.
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Y'all telling her to sick around make no sense. She has no kids right.






She has a daughter.


even better she's procreated

Cancers don't want people with them who struggle to be with them.

we want the whole shebang ...love and crap

atleast i do


I’m a Libra we’re great at being everything for everyone. My husband is just stuck in his ways. He’s boring, he’s afraid to step out of his box. He’s not spontaneous he love to plan everything,which is great but I like to live on the edge sometimes.. we’re oppposites and it works in a lot of ways but a lot of ways it don’t. If I don’t get frustrated he believes everything is okay.


I’m going to be really honest, this is normal long term relationship stuff. NOT deal breakers.

Everyone gets stuck in a routine. We all end up hiring and predictable.

If this is your biggest issue then maybe you didn’t choose right. But you have to own that, you can’t blame him for being normal.

It sounds like you just want to be single again.

That’s your choice, but own it.




I know! I understand people face worse in their marriage, I listen to some of my friends and be like damn why can’t I just be. But it’s hard and I guess everyone deals with things differently and maybe I am now owning up to my actions. And I do feel bad but I don’t regret it. I want more and I did choose the wrong partner. But I keep trying I haven’t given up like some of these people are saying. I just let a situation get out of hand.


I’m really feeling like you’re struggles in the marriage may be a reflection of not being challenged or fulfilled on your own.

Not saying hubby is perfect... but understanding why you’re looking for something new so soon.

I really think you should see someone. Start understanding yourself and where your at in life.




I had a brief discussion with my mom and she said the same. Thanks again your on point. I do love a challenge and I love to be engaged all the time. My husband only talks about his passion for video games, I love to talk about all topics. I game with him just to connect but I get left in the dumps or he just listen with no real feed back when I want to talk. I love adventure and being out in nature but he doesn’t. He comes out with me but he looks miserable and wants to hurry back home.


I get that. Mine was a workaholic...

His only thought was work related and his hobbies were centered on business.

He dropped the connection between us and when I told him our marriage was dead emotionally he said he would fix it later when he was done working so hard.

Coupled with the abuse... and the lack of any support....

He killed us. I saw three therapists, had multiple interventions with family and friends...

He just wouldn’t listen. He only sees his perspective.

But I can tell my kids I FOUGHT for us.

Yes, I made a mistake. I own that. But I was alone for a long time before it happened and I worked on myself afterwards.


What was his sign? And your really strong, I wouldn’t be able to put up with that, I can be a spoiled brat wanting my way sometimes. And I know us Libra will endure it all in the name of love. But it’s okay to be selfish sometimes. And hey don’t regret you mistakes, life is about taking chances and growing from it. And I hope your children are understanding when it comes to your choices.


He’s a libra too. But he has mental and emotional health issues

He still loves me and wants to be together and that’s hard.

The kids are already struggling with him. The toxicity will bleed into their relationships as the grow up.

He’s going to be that person who is miserable, nobody visits and doesn’t know why.
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My dad and uncle are Libra and both very toxic.my uncle is very abusive. Both May have some mental issues as well my moms an Aries so she puts him in his place, way before he gets out of hand, I know I wouldn’t be able to deal. Libra men are way different then the women. Kind of why I avoided Liba men completely
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One Libra to another. The grass is only green where you water it.... you'll go play with your Leo only to find you wanting more, and be sad because you were just a fuckit and a cheating whore, nothing more. You have to work with your partner lmfao partnerships are about working together.

Would you be upset if he went out and put his pecker in another woman because you weren't doing something right?



* reading some more of the comments you should just get divorced and be alone


I do want to be alone but I don’t, I believe this marriage fogged my views. I love people and I love to be in love but I’m just in a bad situation and it’s destroying my views. I used to be different, the cancer has caused real cancer in me, making me someone else. He’s moody and needy but don’t understand when I want to be alone sometimes. Even though I give him the space he need to be himself. But when I want time to myself he gets emotional and it’s just something I don’t want to deal with.
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Posted by Plague

One Libra to another. The grass is only green where you water it.... you'll go play with your Leo only to find you wanting more, and be sad because you were just a fuckit and a cheating whore, nothing more. You have to work with your partner lmfao partnerships are about working together.

Would you be upset if he went out and put his pecker in another woman because you weren't doing something right?



* reading some more of the comments you should just get divorced and be alone


Being a Libra you should understand the need to be alone to refresh. And once I get that I’m back and extra loving. But I fight so much for it I feel like being alone is my goal. But I know every situation isn’t that way. He’s just a cancer and want to cuddle and hug and kiss all day. Until he wants to be alone and I respect that but when I want it he’s gets upset. I have my own hobbies and likes and while I’m away he has his time to be him. But when I need it it’s a problem it’s not my fault he’s a house hermit. Sometimes I don’t want to be around people at all, even needing a break from my child, but I never get that unless I’m at the gym. Or working on furniture which isn’t time to myself really. I like to lay up and read with out any one tugging at me. Me cheating was something that happen because i connected with the guy. But not something I want to keep up. It’s draining having to be someone to two people. I rather my work it out, but if my needs aren’t met I’ll fall to my lust again.
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Kudos for being honest with perfect strangers on the web...I guess...now you just have to be honest with the person who matters ...the cancer.

Just come clean, rip the bandaid off, move on.

And not with the Leo either

Give up on that too...it’s probably not going anywhere

I can’t picture a Leo getting into anything serious with someone who cheated with them. They will always be paranoid you’ll do the same to them.
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Posted by Plague

One Libra to another. The grass is only green where you water it.... you'll go play with your Leo only to find you wanting more, and be sad because you were just a fuckit and a cheating whore, nothing more. You have to work with your partner lmfao partnerships are about working together.

Would you be upset if he went out and put his pecker in another woman because you weren't doing something right?



* reading some more of the comments you should just get divorced and be alone


I do want to be alone but I don’t, I believe this marriage fogged my views. I love people and I love to be in love but I’m just in a bad situation and it’s destroying my views. I used to be different, the cancer has caused real cancer in me, making me someone else. He’s moody and needy but don’t understand when I want to be alone sometimes. Even though I give him the space he need to be himself. But when I want time to myself he gets emotional and it’s just something I don’t want to deal with.
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Steps to womanhood 101

Step 1: Take responsibility for your own actions as opposed to justifying your poor behaviour by deflecting on another’s shortcomings.

We’ll get to step two once you accomplish step one, dear-air-sign-that-doesn’t-know-how-to be-single.
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Posted by brianafay

Kudos for being honest with perfect strangers on the web...I guess...now you just have to be honest with the person who matters ...the cancer.

Just come clean, rip the bandaid off, move on.

And not with the Leo either

Give up on that too...it’s probably not going anywhere

I can’t picture a Leo getting into anything serious with someone who cheated with them. They will always be paranoid you’ll do the same to them.

Bingo. The Leo don’t want her. He probably just sees it as a fling too. He’ll snap out of that Libra charm soon enough. She’ll feel empty in the end.
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Posted by brianafay

Kudos for being honest with perfect strangers on the web...I guess...now you just have to be honest with the person who matters ...the cancer.

Just come clean, rip the bandaid off, move on.

And not with the Leo either

Give up on that too...it’s probably not going anywhere

I can’t picture a Leo getting into anything serious with someone who cheated with them. They will always be paranoid you’ll do the same to them.

Bingo. The Leo don’t want her. He probably just sees it as a fling too. He’ll snap out of that Libra charm soon enough. She’ll feel empty in the end.
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She said he’s her friend for years. Who knows? Maybe he’s secretly in love with her 🤷‍♀️
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Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by brianafay

Kudos for being honest with perfect strangers on the web...I guess...now you just have to be honest with the person who matters ...the cancer.

Just come clean, rip the bandaid off, move on.

And not with the Leo either

Give up on that too...it’s probably not going anywhere

I can’t picture a Leo getting into anything serious with someone who cheated with them. They will always be paranoid you’ll do the same to them.

Bingo. The Leo don’t want her. He probably just sees it as a fling too. He’ll snap out of that Libra charm soon enough. She’ll feel empty in the end.


She said he’s her friend for years. Who knows? Maybe he’s secretly in love with her 🤷‍♀️

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Libras are “friends” with everyone lol
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Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by brianafay

Kudos for being honest with perfect strangers on the web...I guess...now you just have to be honest with the person who matters ...the cancer.

Just come clean, rip the bandaid off, move on.

And not with the Leo either

Give up on that too...it’s probably not going anywhere

I can’t picture a Leo getting into anything serious with someone who cheated with them. They will always be paranoid you’ll do the same to them.

Bingo. The Leo don’t want her. He probably just sees it as a fling too. He’ll snap out of that Libra charm soon enough. She’ll feel empty in the end.


Ha! No one snaps out of the Libra charm unless we drop them. Or honestly lose interest and push them away. Idc about the Leo guy besides friends lol he’s good in bed but even if I was single I wouldn’t want nothing more. Most of my placements are Libra and scorpio double trouble for anyone. Lol
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Possibly, but Leos are pretty good at having options. Once the lies start bubbling to the surface, the charm fades fast.