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11 Years
My leo girl told me she is a escort. (Page 2)
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Posted by VivaciousScorpio
2 months isn't long man. Stop being a pussy, dump her and move on.Unless you're ok with sharing that space?
I'm fairly certain that she dumped him. She informed him she works for hire.......and hasn't made a move to keep seeing him, says she wants to keep in touch.
I don't think he sees it yet but I think she let him down gently.
if she dumped me why is she on the phone with me now?
I highly doubt this. You got let down gently. You'll see it soon enough.
This fact probably triggered you to call her to get affirmation that indeed you're wanted.
Fact is this woman is going to choose the LYFE of new dicks for money vs.....well lol you.
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lol whatever.
I don't feel belittled at all, she knows it's not her to work this job and u can come tell me otherwise cause u wrote a few papers in ur academic years. this is real life not an ethics course.
You sir are a simp
Posted by Whorpio
If a GOOD guy offered to marry me I'd probably quit. They're just hard to come by in these parts.Good guy dont call escort
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I'd bump into him on the street or at school and he wouldn't even know what I do.
OH HEY SHES ETHICALLY HIGHER THAN U FOR MAKING HER OWN CHOICE AND U BEING SELFISH TRYING TO DICTATE HER
cunt
Posted by Capz
yo what the sign of root, and i'm sure he's in IT to, with that sudo name
My guess is Virgo. They love a project.
Posted by root
No, escorting isn't for her, it's not who she is and it doesn't suit her. She has a degree in IT and animation, she's bright as fuck, there is no need for it.
it's way worse when she is capable of making a decent living but instead has chosen a short sighted path ( and the most difficult path in my opinion). it says a lot about her (lack of) value and character
the worst is that her deceitfulness has put your heath at risk. not forgivable
Posted by root
No, escorting isn't for her, it's not who she is and it doesn't suit her. She has a degree in IT and animation, she's bright as fuck, there is no need for it.it's way worse when she is capable of making a decent living but instead has chosen a short sighted path ( and the most difficult path in my opinion). it says a lot about her (lack of) value and character
the worst is that her deceitfulness has put your heath at risk. not forgivable
She hasn't slept with him and they've only known one another for two months.
I'm pretty certain she's letting him down gently.
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ok i only read page 1 (as usual lol). if they haven't had sex then she is doing the right thing to tell him now. not so bad lol
Posted by Capz
yo what the sign of root, and i'm sure he's in IT to, with that sudo nameMy guess is Virgo. They love a project.
lol I swear to god. Virgo men are like naturally drawn to women working in the line of sex work.
It's so uncanny.
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Tis true.
And she's prolly a Pisces.
Posted by root
No, escorting isn't for her, it's not who she is and it doesn't suit her. She has a degree in IT and animation, she's bright as fuck, there is no need for it.it's way worse when she is capable of making a decent living but instead has chosen a short sighted path ( and the most difficult path in my opinion). it says a lot about her (lack of) value and character
the worst is that her deceitfulness has put your heath at risk. not forgivable
It's very clear that she choose not to tell him till he fall for her.
Poor man, what if he got herpes of the name of love??
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The herpes is a real possibility even if she wasn't a pro. Sheet even a virgin could have the herpes...It's a scary disease filled world we live in.
Posted by Whorpio
Oh really, because you never responded to my latest message. Heart = brokenLol @ your pm's
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I'm a Scorpio; we feel A LOT. Jesus Christ it's like you don't care at all. You're a goddang tease. Certified heart snatcher.
What the hell am I supposed to say to get a response? Something superficial and casual———??
Posted by root
It's reached a point where she can't even look at me. She's too embarrassed or something.I feel like a fuckin cunt as well.
That's because you are one.
I deal with ethics on a daily basis. My career and education is entirely focused on ethics. The papers I've written have literally been used by my school and will probably be used academically in the future.
On an ethical standpoint. You quite literally are playing the cunt move.
My girl. Allow her. You're using a ton of ownership words. It's been two months and you have yet to be physical with one another and she informs you of her profession. It's the oldest profession in the books. You seriously need to consider this persons life and ability to provide for herself. It's pretty obvious your masculinity is what the issue is.
Women need to survive and this is her form of survival. Who are you.....two months in, to tell her what she's doing is wrong or to make her feel ashamed near you.
I think she's better off without you. Her honestly makes her leaps above you....ethically.
This is lame
Prostitution is not a form of survival when u got IT degree
You act like she is starving in the street
This is a matter of choosing Gucci over integrity
It's like a drug dealer with a doctors degree
Oh yeah those exist
Someone one is to feel sorry for them
No it's a choice
I respect a woman's choice. Period.
Prostitution as a form of survival is no different than traditional forms of marriage up until maybe 30-40 years ago when marriage was treated as a form of economic security. Don't speak of love either or I'll smack you. Marrying for love only became more socially normal during the 1950's.
I highly doubt there isn't more complexity to the situation than something materialistic like Gucci vs. Integrity.
If her degree could provide her with the means of survive I doubt she'd choose to pimp her own body to survive. IT is a tough world for a woman.
Anyway you clearly aim to only cast judgement at her. Let's me honest here......she ain't pimping her vagina to bikers and drug dealers. She's probably fulfilling dreams desires and companionship to husbands and aging men or lonely individuals looking to shake it up a bit. I think that bothers you more.....it's quite a common thing. ?
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off topic. but i happen to think technology / IT can be a kind place for women. when you are rare, you are the one to take your pick not the other way around
Posted by root
It's reached a point where she can't even look at me. She's too embarrassed or something.I feel like a fuckin cunt as well.
That's because you are one.
I deal with ethics on a daily basis. My career and education is entirely focused on ethics. The papers I've written have literally been used by my school and will probably be used academically in the future.
On an ethical standpoint. You quite literally are playing the cunt move.
My girl. Allow her. You're using a ton of ownership words. It's been two months and you have yet to be physical with one another and she informs you of her profession. It's the oldest profession in the books. You seriously need to consider this persons life and ability to provide for herself. It's pretty obvious your masculinity is what the issue is.
Women need to survive and this is her form of survival. Who are you.....two months in, to tell her what she's doing is wrong or to make her feel ashamed near you.
I think she's better off without you. Her honestly makes her leaps above you....ethically.
This is lame
Prostitution is not a form of survival when u got IT degree
You act like she is starving in the street
This is a matter of choosing Gucci over integrity
It's like a drug dealer with a doctors degree
Oh yeah those exist
Someone one is to feel sorry for them
No it's a choice
I respect a woman's choice. Period.
Prostitution as a form of survival is no different than traditional forms of marriage up until maybe 30-40 years ago when marriage was treated as a form of economic security. Don't speak of love either or I'll smack you. Marrying for love only became more socially normal during the 1950's.
I highly doubt there isn't more complexity to the situation than something materialistic like Gucci vs. Integrity.
If her degree could provide her with the means of survive I doubt she'd choose to pimp her own body to survive. IT is a tough world for a woman.
Anyway you clearly aim to only cast judgement at her. Let's me honest here......she ain't pimping her vagina to bikers and drug dealers. She's probably fulfilling dreams desires and companionship to husbands and aging men or lonely individuals looking to shake it up a bit. I think that bothers you more.....it's quite a common thing. ?
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In a lot of cases being a paid woman, mistress etc. gave you more freedoms (financial and societal) than being a wife...of course I'm talking about the upper class.
Posted by Capz
no, it's not about menz and womenz minds, it's just about being born with dignity.
DISLIKE. Asshole.
Posted by root
It's reached a point where she can't even look at me. She's too embarrassed or something.I feel like a fuckin cunt as well.
That's because you are one.
I deal with ethics on a daily basis. My career and education is entirely focused on ethics. The papers I've written have literally been used by my school and will probably be used academically in the future.
On an ethical standpoint. You quite literally are playing the cunt move.
My girl. Allow her. You're using a ton of ownership words. It's been two months and you have yet to be physical with one another and she informs you of her profession. It's the oldest profession in the books. You seriously need to consider this persons life and ability to provide for herself. It's pretty obvious your masculinity is what the issue is.
Women need to survive and this is her form of survival. Who are you.....two months in, to tell her what she's doing is wrong or to make her feel ashamed near you.
I think she's better off without you. Her honestly makes her leaps above you....ethically.
This is lame
Prostitution is not a form of survival when u got IT degree
You act like she is starving in the street
This is a matter of choosing Gucci over integrity
It's like a drug dealer with a doctors degree
Oh yeah those exist
Someone one is to feel sorry for them
No it's a choice
I respect a woman's choice. Period.
Prostitution as a form of survival is no different than traditional forms of marriage up until maybe 30-40 years ago when marriage was treated as a form of economic security. Don't speak of love either or I'll smack you. Marrying for love only became more socially normal during the 1950's.
I highly doubt there isn't more complexity to the situation than something materialistic like Gucci vs. Integrity.
If her degree could provide her with the means of survive I doubt she'd choose to pimp her own body to survive. IT is a tough world for a woman.
Anyway you clearly aim to only cast judgement at her. Let's me honest here......she ain't pimping her vagina to bikers and drug dealers. She's probably fulfilling dreams desires and companionship to husbands and aging men or lonely individuals looking to shake it up a bit. I think that bothers you more.....it's quite a common thing. ?
off topic. but i happen to think technology / IT can be a kind place for women. when you are rare, you are the one to take your pick not the other way around
what she's in IT ? animation ? wot that ? Processing coding ? p5js ??
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op says her degree in IT 'and' animation. tbh, there are so many different definitions of IT so i never know what ppl meant when they talk about IT here lol. i don't really consider engineering or software development IT
guys you dont need to talk about the health risks of her job, we get the point
and don't shame her or make fun, she probably deals with it internally in her own proud leo ways
me myself im going out for a drink or two or three
i didn't think this thread would be such a fucking hit
wish it was a troll
would have been a bloody good one
Posted by Impulsv
Since you seem to know about the industry you know she's got a pimp somewhereeven the high call girls have Heidi FleissI saw that edit you Ass slut —
are you an escort ?
Lol ? yeah dude I'm an escort that eats kale and quinoa and worries about the strength of detergent I'm using because I don't want to harm myself chemically and somehow harming my future offspring eggs. I'm that type of person. Seriously......I won't even store food in a plastic bag or container but legit I could totally be an escort right now.
Men's minds seem to be so one dimensional. It's quite sad.
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Global escort advocacy with sponsorship by Kale & Quinoa. you ma'am are brilliant
Posted by Capz
no, it's not about menz and womenz minds, it's just about being born with dignity.DISLIKE. Asshole.
@capz
Are these women born without dignity on equal footing with men whom pay for sexual services? Or is that lower level dignity only reserved for women?
Where there's a customer, there is a service.
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Supply and demand.
Posted by Impulsv
Since you seem to know about the industry you know she's got a pimp somewhereeven the high call girls have Heidi FleissI saw that edit you Ass slut —
are you an escort ?
Lol ? yeah dude I'm an escort that eats kale and quinoa and worries about the strength of detergent I'm using because I don't want to harm myself chemically and somehow harming my future offspring eggs. I'm that type of person. Seriously......I won't even store food in a plastic bag or container but legit I could totally be an escort right now.
Men's minds seem to be so one dimensional. It's quite sad.
Global escort advocacy with sponsorship by Kale & Quinoa. you ma'am are brilliant
We shall call it
Ethical Escorts for Sustainability and Ecological Dietary Restrictions Association
EESEDR aka: Ess-Ed-Der Association
Our logo shall be big ol-tiddys with politically correct large areolas because let's face it....those cookies are genetically designed for babies to visually see where the nipple is, not intended to be small and cute for porn, as well as a big old kale leaf ? to cover that anti-political correct hairy bush, because we're ethically as a society more comfortable showing full grown women shaved to simulate the appearance of extreme youth with a lack of public hair (slightly pedo).
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keep the bush, times are changing. Other than that i see your going places little lady
Posted by root
guys you dont need to talk about the health risks of her job, we get the pointand don't shame her or make fun, she probably deals with it internally in her own proud leo ways
me myself im going out for a drink or two or three
i didn't think this thread would be such a fucking hit
wish it was a troll
would have been a bloody good one
i think you are a kind hearted open-minded person. these good qualities do not clash with taking good care of yourself and making decisions accordingly though. anyway, couple drinks first sound like what i would do lol
Posted by Impulsv
Since you seem to know about the industry you know she's got a pimp somewhereeven the high call girls have Heidi FleissI saw that edit you Ass slut —
are you an escort ?
Lol ? yeah dude I'm an escort that eats kale and quinoa and worries about the strength of detergent I'm using because I don't want to harm myself chemically and somehow harming my future offspring eggs. I'm that type of person. Seriously......I won't even store food in a plastic bag or container but legit I could totally be an escort right now.
Men's minds seem to be so one dimensional. It's quite sad.
Global escort advocacy with sponsorship by Kale & Quinoa. you ma'am are brilliant
We shall call it
Ethical Escorts for Sustainability and Ecological Dietary Restrictions Association
EESEDR aka: Ess-Ed-Der Association
Our logo shall be big ol-tiddys with politically correct large areolas because let's face it....those cookies are genetically designed for babies to visually see where the nipple is, not intended to be small and cute for porn, as well as a big old kale leaf ? to cover that anti-political correct hairy bush, because we're ethically as a society more comfortable showing full grown women shaved to simulate the appearance of extreme youth with a lack of public hair (slightly pedo).
keep the bush, times are changing. Other than that i see your going places little lady
Thank you for your support. I really needed that. I had a shit day. I took my dog to the dog park and when we got back I gave her a bath and now she doesn't want to be near me so it's making me feel like a guilty mother to her and I just can't seem to make it up to her. I tried giving her sliced sandwich meat and she still won't look in my direction. I really don't want to close off my weekend like this.
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No prob. Cut it into heart shape and tell her u luv her ❤️
Posted by VivaciousScorpio
2 months isn't long man. Stop being a pussy, dump her and move on.Unless you're ok with sharing that space?
I'm fairly certain that she dumped him. She informed him she works for hire.......and hasn't made a move to keep seeing him, says she wants to keep in touch.
I don't think he sees it yet but I think she let him down gently.
if she dumped me why is she on the phone with me now?
I highly doubt this. You got let down gently. You'll see it soon enough.
This fact probably triggered you to call her to get affirmation that indeed you're wanted.
Fact is this woman is going to choose the LYFE of new dicks for money vs.....well lol you.
lol whatever.
I don't feel belittled at all, she knows it's not her to work this job and u can come tell me otherwise cause u wrote a few papers in ur academic years. this is real life not an ethics course.
Regardless this is the life she chose. You already admitted that she's intelligent and has other degrees, yet she chooses to be an escort. Why?
Posted by LadyNeptune
It's difficult to work a 9-5 when you can make that much $ $ in 30mins sucking dick. You'll need to ask her to choose between escorting or you,...just don't be surprised if she doesn't choose you.
It's unfortunate but it's true. Think about the porn industry. There are porn stars with degrees and other prospects, but they choose to be in porn because of the money, life style and freedom it provides. Some of them even came from normal households (albeit possibly strict ones).
Posted by root
No, escorting isn't for her, it's not who she is and it doesn't suit her. She has a degree in IT and animation, she's bright as fuck, there is no need for it.Our relationship may never work but it don't mean I won't help her. Call it what u want.
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How do you plan to help her? You can't change her situation or fix it for her. As you mentioned, you're not entirely sure why she's escorting in the first place. The best thing you can do is let her know how you feel about the situation. That's it. Don't try to save her and pay her bills or anything like that. She may be ashamed of how you see her, but that doesn't mean she's ready to quit. You can't save her from herself.
Also again, it's only been two months and you already have a major red flag from her. Three months is usually when partners start getting honest with each other. So at the moment you're still waiting for the other shoe to drop. There's probably more she isn't telling you.
If you want to be her friend, fine. It seems like your feeling may be too strong for that at this point though. Don't get sucked in because there's a good chance you may get your heart broken later.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Escorting is a lonely life as it is difficult to maintain personal relationships. If you do find yourself a man who is okay with you fucking others for $ $ would you even want that man? No, you want a guy who doesn't want to share you. It's a lonely life to sell sex...I don't want to get too involved here, but this I cannot confirm, people.
1) I have personal relationships with my friends and family. Not that hard to maintain.
2) Life would be easier if I could find a man ok with me "selling [my] body". But honestly I'm happier being single for now.
3) It's not a lonely life; my clients can be pretty cool. I think my life would be wayyyyy more lonely if I wasn't doing this.
1) Have you been 100 with your family and friends what your occupation is? I'm sure you've lost people over this knowledge.
2) Finding a man who isn't a pimp and who is okay with you escorting is almost impossible.
3) Those aren't real friends though. They are paying you for your time, it's all an illusion.
1) I've only told one friend the whole truth and she turned her back on me so #NeverAgain.
2) That may be true. I haven't exactly gone looking for romantic partners with honesty so I wouldn't know.
3) Yes, I know they ain't my real friends. I just like being around people and having something to do.
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@LadyNeptune is throwing out some real life advice. Obviously, we don't know you and there's no judgment here. Just know that while you're young and healthy, the types of experiences you described can seem fulfilling in the moment. It's when you get older and look back that you'll really start to wonder. You may decide you want real friends and an honest relationship. It may be fun now, but what happens when youth fades and the money stops?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Ive only been with 4 men and I'm in my late 30sSo
Ohhhhhhh that's why you're so bitter. Makes sense now.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Ive only been with 4 men and I'm in my late 30sSo
Ohhhhhhh that's why you're so bitter. Makes sense now.
Loooooool I've thought this, might need more dick but I'm not built like that
I can go years without sex or affection
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Posted by Capz
no, it's not about menz and womenz minds, it's just about being born with dignity.DISLIKE. Asshole.
@capz
Are these women born without dignity on equal footing with men whom pay for sexual services? Or is that lower level dignity only reserved for women?
Where there's a customer, there is a service.
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Good point
Posted by Impulsv
Since you seem to know about the industry you know she's got a pimp somewhereeven the high call girls have Heidi FleissI saw that edit you Ass slut —
are you an escort ?
Lol ? yeah dude I'm an escort that eats kale and quinoa and worries about the strength of detergent I'm using because I don't want to harm myself chemically and somehow harming my future offspring eggs. I'm that type of person. Seriously......I won't even store food in a plastic bag or container but legit I could totally be an escort right now.
Men's minds seem to be so one dimensional. It's quite sad.
Global escort advocacy with sponsorship by Kale & Quinoa. you ma'am are brilliant
We shall call it
Ethical Escorts for Sustainability and Ecological Dietary Restrictions Association
EESEDR aka: Ess-Ed-Der Association
Our logo shall be big ol-tiddys with politically correct large areolas because let's face it....those cookies are genetically designed for babies to visually see where the nipple is, not intended to be small and cute for porn, as well as a big old kale leaf ? to cover that anti-political correct hairy bush, because we're ethically as a society more comfortable showing full grown women shaved to simulate the appearance of extreme youth with a lack of public hair (slightly pedo).
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Damn right
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Ive only been with 4 men and I'm in my late 30sSo
Ohhhhhhh that's why you're so bitter. Makes sense now.
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Why would that make someone bitter? It is a good thing in my book
Who wants to throw it around and end up jaded?
Posted by root
No, escorting isn't for her, it's not who she is and it doesn't suit her. She has a degree in IT and animation, she's bright as fuck, there is no need for it.it's way worse when she is capable of making a decent living but instead has chosen a short sighted path ( and the most difficult path in my opinion). it says a lot about her (lack of) value and character
the worst is that her deceitfulness has put your heath at risk. not forgivable
It's very clear that she choose not to tell him till he fall for her.
Poor man, what if he got herpes of the name of love??
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Herpes is for life. Marriage in most cases nowadays isn't.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Ive only been with 4 men and I'm in my late 30sSo
Ohhhhhhh that's why you're so bitter. Makes sense now.
Why would that make someone bitter? It is a good thing in my book
Who wants to throw it around and end up jaded?
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If you don't have orgasms and bond with someone in the process regularly, you're going to live a rather empty, sad life and be cynical about the world/society.
Posted by Capz
no, it's not about menz and womenz minds, it's just about being born with dignity.DISLIKE. Asshole.
@capz
Are these women born without dignity on equal footing with men whom pay for sexual services? Or is that lower level dignity only reserved for women?
Where there's a customer, there is a service.
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Capitalism at it's finest.
There are no morals in capitalism.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Ive only been with 4 men and I'm in my late 30sSo
Ohhhhhhh that's why you're so bitter. Makes sense now.
Why would that make someone bitter? It is a good thing in my book
Who wants to throw it around and end up jaded?
If you don't have orgasms and bond with someone in the process regularly, you're going to live a rather empty, sad life and be cynical about the world/society.
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You are 21 ... give yourself time to reserve judgement?
Wrong...if you don't find connection with family and friends (especially parenthood for some) you will lead a sad and cynical life
Anyone (well most) can have an orgasm.....true love and loyalty are something else, that is where the true gift...
The two most jaded people i know and now loathe men are women that slept with over 200 men each
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She said she wants to see me. If I got let down why is she talking to me? Attention? She gets that from other guys I'm sure.