So I finally clicked with a leo...or so I thought.

So recently I run into this guy. The conversation I had with him was just absolutely mind blowing. Further in, I could tell by the chemistry that this guy was a leo. So it got late and he asked me if I wanted to come back with him. I told him not to have any expectations because I wasn't sleeping with him. He told me it was fine he just really enjoyed speaking to me and found me very interesting. We went back and hung out with his friends for a little while and I must say I believe I made a great first impression. We talked again and I swear I was even surprised by some of the ridiculous things I was saying that night. I got out of control! But it didn't seem to phase him. He appeared very intrigued. Things between us got heated for awhile until I finally just gave in. I know for a fact that the sex was great. At some point in this night he had talked like he definitely wanted to see me again and liked me. When I left I made sure he had the right number, told him to get a hold of me sometime if he would like and that I had a good time. So far I've heard NOTHING! Do leo men like to play games typically or is he probably not calling? If it's a game, I can handle it. If not, what a dick!

Hmm why did you give in?

Whoops....

Sex on a first date is a no no if you are serious about a guy.. There is no way in hell he will respect you or consider you relationship material if you let him have you so easy like that. Sounds blunt but it's true x

Posted by NickyNoo
Sex on a first date is a no no if you are serious about a guy.. There is no way in hell he will respect you or consider you relationship material if you let him have you so easy like that. Sounds blunt but it's true x

Does doing other sexual things count?

I remember my first date with a leo I spent many years with. We didn't do the deed, but we certainly did enjoy each other's company, if you know what I mean 😛

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Posted by NickyNoo
Sex on a first date is a no no if you are serious about a guy.. There is no way in hell he will respect you or consider you relationship material if you let him have you so easy like that. Sounds blunt but it's true x

Does doing other sexual things count?

I remember my first date with a leo I spent many years with. We didn't do the deed, but we certainly did enjoy each other's company, if you know what I mean 😛

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All the foreplay/messing around is not like getting the end result - for most guys at least! For them, there IS nothing else after the sex lol

Posted by AriesGirl74

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by NickyNoo
Sex on a first date is a no no if you are serious about a guy.. There is no way in hell he will respect you or consider you relationship material if you let him have you so easy like that. Sounds blunt but it's true x

Does doing other sexual things count?

I remember my first date with a leo I spent many years with. We didn't do the deed, but we certainly did enjoy each other's company, if you know what I mean 😛

All the foreplay/messing around is not like getting the end result - for most guys at least! For them, there IS nothing else after the sex lol

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I was told once that if you want sex, but also want to keep the guy he needs to fall in love with you first. Obviously not fool proof but does make sense.

When me and my Leo man first hooked up... i was very flirty with him... it was the energy, vibe and alchohol lol... he tried to invite himself over and i resisted. i knew what would've happened lol. he told me after that he was glad that i didnt let him that easy or else he wouldnt have taken me seriously.

guys will try if they can get it... dont mean they will respect you after.

Well there have been instances where some of my friends hooked up first and got together after; a couple even married, so it's possible but it does mean that you have to have something else besides the sex as being compatible. They had sex first but just kept having sex whilst getting to know each other..if that makes sense 😄

You will hear from him again. But play hardball.

Posted by leolady89
You will hear from him again. But play hardball.

Lol yes for all things sex and ego-stroking related 😄

yeah probably.... but jus turn it around.

you got the dick. you got the power. lollllll

Posted by leolady89
you got the dick. you got the power. lollllll

Lol niiiiiiice!!!

Posted by KittyKnitter
I don't think it matters if you have sex on the first date or not. I did with my guy and we are still together.if two people really connect, they stay connected. so if you had sex the first night and he didn't show interest again, let him go.

another guy will come along who will appreciate you. there is no rule book for dating. a jerk is a jerk whether you wait a year or a day to sleep with him. what he does he is responsible for so put him aside and move on.

wise words...

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Posted by KittyKnitter
I don't think it matters if you have sex on the first date or not. I did with my guy and we are still together.if two people really connect, they stay connected. so if you had sex the first night and he didn't show interest again, let him go.

another guy will come along who will appreciate you. there is no rule book for dating. a jerk is a jerk whether you wait a year or a day to sleep with him. what he does he is responsible for so put him aside and move on.

wise words...

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fucking on the money.

when you hear from him. you respond. "im so glad i wasent waiting for yur call."

Posted by leolady89
when you hear from him. you respond. "im so glad i wasent waiting for yur call."

Or say.. "Sorry, who are you again?"

😄

Posted by KittyKnitter
I don't think it matters if you have sex on the first date or not. I did with my guy and we are still together.if two people really connect, they stay connected. so if you had sex the first night and he didn't show interest again, let him go.

another guy will come along who will appreciate you. there is no rule book for dating. a jerk is a jerk whether you wait a year or a day to sleep with him. what he does he is responsible for so put him aside and move on.

Your right. He can fuck off. I think I've got this behind me and am back to my normal care free self. Thanks everyone for the responses (even if some were a little harsh)! lol

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Posted by leolady89
when you hear from him. you respond. "im so glad i wasent waiting for yur call."

Or say.. "Sorry, who are you again?"

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This. 😄

Posted by NickyNoo
Sex on a first date is a no no if you are serious about a guy.. There is no way in hell he will respect you or consider you relationship material if you let him have you so easy like that. Sounds blunt but it's true x

not true for all men. And she should be respecting him less as well since he was involved too.

Posted by NickyNoo
Sex on a first date is a no no if you are serious about a guy.. There is no way in hell he will respect you or consider you relationship material if you let him have you so easy like that. Sounds blunt but it's true x

I don't believe that's true at all. perhaps when you're younger but when you get older....even as old as me lol...you'll realise that when you have sex with someone is completely down to you and IF you have sex with someone, they are at liberty to draw whatever conclusions they wish but those opinions would not ONLY be based on whether you did or didn't 'give in' to your or their carnal urges - how you project yourself in other ways is much more important.

personally, i don't rush into the physical but that's purely because i know it clouds my judgement of someone and inevitably mistakes ensue.

it's what you think about yourself that's important - not what someone thinks of you.