aquaglass
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Update : Leo man controlling?
He's use to having the woman "change for him" be it physically and/o other wise, lose weight, don't wear too much makeup; DO wear more make up, get your "bush" waxed, brush your teeth before going to bed, I don't like your phone (I will buy you another one), etc, etc, etc! Yes! SOME Leo men are controlling.
Your mistake was when you responded back to HIS text, "I won't bother you." and you forgot about the PERIOD (.); as a period ENDS a sentence. YOU decided to respond back to his text as if you were playing tennis or ping pong. Of course he responded!!! It's called tit for tat. When I END it I HAVE placed a period and moved on (Quote from Judge Judy), "Put a period on it and end it!!"
Your bad.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Your mistake was when you responded back to HIS text, "I won't bother you." and you forgot about the PERIOD (.); as a period ENDS a sentence. YOU decided to respond back to his text as if you were playing tennis or ping pong. Of course he responded!!! It's called tit for tat. When I END it I HAVE placed a period and moved on (Quote from Judge Judy), "Put a period on it and end it!!"
Your bad.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Quit complaining. You like it
He replied with long 9 texts telling me he's sorry about the sex. Told me he sees me more than for sex.
So...did you not notice that he literally didn't apologize to you for being controlling the first time? He apologized about the bad sex. He didn't apologize for being controlling and insulting you. That alone should be all you need to know.
Now what is it?
I do like him too, but whats his real agenda?
Is his controlling behaviour really a dangerous thing now or what?
We can't tell you his agenda because we don't know this guy. The real question is, do you think that his controlling behavior isn't dangerous? In my experiences it generally is. Men who are controlling tend to be clingy, needy, stalkers, domineering, and potentially abusive. So just depends on if you want to take that risk.
So...did you not notice that he literally didn't apologize to you for being controlling the first time? He apologized about the bad sex. He didn't apologize for being controlling and insulting you. That alone should be all you need to know.
Now what is it?
I do like him too, but whats his real agenda?
Is his controlling behaviour really a dangerous thing now or what?
We can't tell you his agenda because we don't know this guy. The real question is, do you think that his controlling behavior isn't dangerous? In my experiences it generally is. Men who are controlling tend to be clingy, needy, stalkers, domineering, and potentially abusive. So just depends on if you want to take that risk.
Thanks guys for the advices!
I ended up tell him no. And told him how his pushy and controlling behaviour bother me so much, i feel stupid cause i threw him too much benefit of doubts (cause duh i liked him).
But it seems like he's taking it for granted and use me for sex. And it pissed me off.
He told me that he understand what i feel, because thats what i believe and no matter what he says would change it apparently. He made a closure with apologies.
I stopped talking to him since.
Ugh, it's bummer that i miss him now.
But i think it's for the best. So i'll just move on with my life.
Thank you guys!
I ended up tell him no. And told him how his pushy and controlling behaviour bother me so much, i feel stupid cause i threw him too much benefit of doubts (cause duh i liked him).
But it seems like he's taking it for granted and use me for sex. And it pissed me off.
He told me that he understand what i feel, because thats what i believe and no matter what he says would change it apparently. He made a closure with apologies.
I stopped talking to him since.
Ugh, it's bummer that i miss him now.
But i think it's for the best. So i'll just move on with my life.
Thank you guys!
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
Posted by aquaglass"That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me."
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
There's a difference between helpful advice and critiquing your physical "flaws". What he did was demeaning.
"Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better"."
That doesn't even make sense. Why would he need to share a room with you to get to know you better? This all sounds like he is making up excuses so that he won't lose you.
Posted by ChuckcemExactly what i have on mind too, why would he even got to be upset about no room sharing thing thenPosted by aquaglass"That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me."
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
There's a difference between helpful advice and critiquing your physical "flaws". What he did was demeaning.
"Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better"."
That doesn't even make sense. Why would he need to share a room with you to get to know you better? This all sounds like he is making up excuses so that he won't lose you.click to expand
Do you really think that he's making up an excuse so that he won't lose me?
I don't know but i have this thought that he just doesn't like the fact that he forced me and he doesn't want to be seen as a jerk or maybe rapist?
Posted by -Flo-Hahaha i do, i have stated that i do like him.Posted by SsupermanYeah I think this too lol
Quit complaining. You like itclick to expand
But yknow, it's not that easy to really give my trust on him, as things just seems mixed up 😢
Posted by -Flo-A leo guy too?Posted by aquaglassWell you won't know until you try.. but maybe I shouldn't say that because I trusted someone recently and it backfired on me. 🙂Posted by -Flo-Hahaha i do, i have stated that i do like him.Posted by SsupermanYeah I think this too lol
Quit complaining. You like it
But yknow, it's not that easy to really give my trust on him, as things just seems mixed up 😢
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Aquaglass,
Were you raped?...or seduced?
Force = Rape.
Seduced= Mutual Consent.
Were you raped?...or seduced?
Force = Rape.
Seduced= Mutual Consent.
Posted by aquaglass
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.Posted by aquaglassI do't think this decision is no longer yours to make.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?click to expand
He made this decision for you 5 days ago when you refused to resume a sexual relationship.
Posted by -Flo-She keeps replying to him. If she was really upset or scared, she wouldn'tPosted by SsupermanYeah I think this too lol
Quit complaining. You like itclick to expand
Posted by -Flo-She's dickmatized.Posted by SsupermanAn Aquarius woman is strong enough to shut down someone once she's had enough.. she hasn't had enough lol that Leo man is after her.Posted by -Flo-She keeps replying to him. If she was really upset or scared, she wouldn'tPosted by SsupermanYeah I think this too lol
Quit complaining. You like itclick to expand
Posted by -Flo-That door swings both ways too. Good pussy will ruin a mans lifePosted by SsupermanHahahahahaPosted by -Flo-She's dickmatized.Posted by SsupermanAn Aquarius woman is strong enough to shut down someone once she's had enough.. she hasn't had enough lol that Leo man is after her.Posted by -Flo-She keeps replying to him. If she was really upset or scared, she wouldn'tPosted by SsupermanYeah I think this too lol
Quit complaining. You like it
This is a true condition ladies, it takes over and ruins your life. Can't eat can't sleep.. too much dick in the brain. I've been there. ?click to expand
Posted by -Flo-Btw, those tacos were yum!!!Posted by SsupermanAn Aquarius woman is strong enough to shut down someone once she's had enough.. she hasn't had enough lol that Leo man is after her.Posted by -Flo-She keeps replying to him. If she was really upset or scared, she wouldn'tPosted by SsupermanYeah I think this too lol
Quit complaining. You like itclick to expand
Posted by -Flo-Hell yes I'm seriousPosted by SsupermanLmao!!Posted by -Flo-That door swings both ways too. Good pussy will ruin a mans lifePosted by SsupermanHahahahahaPosted by -Flo-She's dickmatized.Posted by SsupermanAn Aquarius woman is strong enough to shut down someone once she's had enough.. she hasn't had enough lol that Leo man is after her.Posted by -Flo-She keeps replying to him. If she was really upset or scared, she wouldn'tPosted by SsupermanYeah I think this too lol
Quit complaining. You like it
This is a true condition ladies, it takes over and ruins your life. Can't eat can't sleep.. too much dick in the brain. I've been there. ?
Are you serious?? I don't believe that..click to expand
Posted by -Flo-Just got done! Told you I was going there yesterdayPosted by SsupermanYou ate them— Yay!! I'm glad ?Posted by -Flo-Btw, those tacos were yum!!!Posted by SsupermanAn Aquarius woman is strong enough to shut down someone once she's had enough.. she hasn't had enough lol that Leo man is after her.Posted by -Flo-She keeps replying to him. If she was really upset or scared, she wouldn'tPosted by SsupermanYeah I think this too lol
Quit complaining. You like itclick to expand
Posted by -Flo-90% of women are lazy in bed. When one comes along that can actually fuck, you'll do damn near anything to make her happy and stick around.Posted by SsupermanWow.. that's actually surprising.. please explain ?Posted by -Flo-Hell yes I'm seriousPosted by SsupermanLmao!!Posted by -Flo-That door swings both ways too. Good pussy will ruin a mans lifePosted by SsupermanHahahahahaPosted by -Flo-She's dickmatized.Posted by SsupermanAn Aquarius woman is strong enough to shut down someone once she's had enough.. she hasn't had enough lol that Leo man is after her.Posted by -Flo-She keeps replying to him. If she was really upset or scared, she wouldn'tPosted by SsupermanYeah I think this too lol
Quit complaining. You like it
This is a true condition ladies, it takes over and ruins your life. Can't eat can't sleep.. too much dick in the brain. I've been there. ?
Are you serious?? I don't believe that..click to expand
Posted by -Flo-I've got a few places bookmarked!Posted by SsupermanWell the drive isn't too bad if that's where you live but than again, tacos and tortas are always worth the drive. 🙂Posted by -Flo-Just got done! Told you I was going there yesterdayPosted by SsupermanYou ate them— Yay!! I'm glad ?Posted by -Flo-Btw, those tacos were yum!!!Posted by SsupermanAn Aquarius woman is strong enough to shut down someone once she's had enough.. she hasn't had enough lol that Leo man is after her.Posted by -Flo-She keeps replying to him. If she was really upset or scared, she wouldn'tPosted by SsupermanYeah I think this too lol
Quit complaining. You like it
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Posted by aquaglassBOOYAH! Didn't I say that he wants her to change? (too much make-up/not enough make-up, brush your teeth before coming to bed?!), etc.
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
Eva pats self on back!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by TheLibraMudraPosted by SsupermanWhat a Leo thing to say haha
Quit complaining. You like itclick to expand
Let's be real though. She does
Posted by -Flo-Exactly right. So rare to actually find it. So, when you do you'll do anything to hold onto itPosted by Ssupermannever knew but makes sense, I would think being a Leo man you need action and fiery passion.Posted by -Flo-90% of women are lazy in bed. When one comes along that can actually fuck, you'll do damn near anything to make her happy and stick around.Posted by SsupermanWow.. that's actually surprising.. please explain ?Posted by -Flo-Hell yes I'm seriousPosted by SsupermanLmao!!Posted by -Flo-That door swings both ways too. Good pussy will ruin a mans lifePosted by SsupermanHahahahahaPosted by -Flo-She's dickmatized.Posted by SsupermanAn Aquarius woman is strong enough to shut down someone once she's had enough.. she hasn't had enough lol that Leo man is after her.Posted by -Flo-She keeps replying to him. If she was really upset or scared, she wouldn'tPosted by SsupermanYeah I think this too lol
Quit complaining. You like it
This is a true condition ladies, it takes over and ruins your life. Can't eat can't sleep.. too much dick in the brain. I've been there. ?
Are you serious?? I don't believe that..click to expand
Posted by TheLibraMudraLolPosted by SsupermanIf I had a dollar for every time my Leo said that, I'd be a millionaire haha.Posted by TheLibraMudraPosted by SsupermanWhat a Leo thing to say haha
Quit complaining. You like it
Let's be real though. She does
I either do and it makes me shy smile or I tell him to stfu but smirk and still like it even if I don't let it happen
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Posted by EvatheDivaHopefully she brushes her teeth before bed!Posted by aquaglassBOOYAH! Didn't I say that he wants her to change? (too much make-up/not enough make-up, brush your teeth before coming to bed?!), etc.
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
Eva pats self on back!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Posted by aquaglassI think he's trying to get what he wants and is willing to say whatever he can to get it. His excuses don't make sense with how he actually behaved.Posted by ChuckcemExactly what i have on mind too, why would he even got to be upset about no room sharing thing thenPosted by aquaglass"That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me."
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
There's a difference between helpful advice and critiquing your physical "flaws". What he did was demeaning.
"Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better"."
That doesn't even make sense. Why would he need to share a room with you to get to know you better? This all sounds like he is making up excuses so that he won't lose you.
Do you really think that he's making up an excuse so that he won't lose me?
I don't know but i have this thought that he just doesn't like the fact that he forced me and he doesn't want to be seen as a jerk or maybe rapist?click to expand
Posted by SsupermanROFLMAO! 😄Posted by EvatheDivaHopefully she brushes her teeth before bed!Posted by aquaglassBOOYAH! Didn't I say that he wants her to change? (too much make-up/not enough make-up, brush your teeth before coming to bed?!), etc.
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
Eva pats self on back!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by TaurusBull1977He did force it at first, and kept going with touching and stuff. But then i got carried away and got horny too.
Aquaglass,
Were you raped?...or seduced?
Force = Rape.
Seduced= Mutual Consent.
I don't think that it was a rape. But it sounds like he felt so bad that he's afraid that i think he raped me.
Posted by EvatheDivaOh yes i'm aware that he wants to change me. And i have told him how i feel and think about it.Posted by aquaglassBOOYAH! Didn't I say that he wants her to change? (too much make-up/not enough make-up, brush your teeth before coming to bed?!), etc.
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
Eva pats self on back!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Posted by ChuckcemIndeed, it doesn't make sense to me too. But oh this guy is so persistent i guess. He's come back now.Posted by aquaglassI think he's trying to get what he wants and is willing to say whatever he can to get it. His excuses don't make sense with how he actually behaved.Posted by ChuckcemExactly what i have on mind too, why would he even got to be upset about no room sharing thing thenPosted by aquaglass"That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me."
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
There's a difference between helpful advice and critiquing your physical "flaws". What he did was demeaning.
"Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better"."
That doesn't even make sense. Why would he need to share a room with you to get to know you better? This all sounds like he is making up excuses so that he won't lose you.
Do you really think that he's making up an excuse so that he won't lose me?
I don't know but i have this thought that he just doesn't like the fact that he forced me and he doesn't want to be seen as a jerk or maybe rapist?click to expand
Guys! Thank you for all the replies, i'm sorry for a really late response.
I've been pretty busy with my things here. And didn't contact the leo man at all.
I was starting to forget him and moving on, thanks to my work and other stuff that keep my mind out of him.
But yesterday, when i woke up in the morning i got a text from him. Which he sent in the evening when i was sleeping.
He greet me good morning, i replied and he said that it's good to hear from me.
He said that he just wanted to know if i'm doing fine and well and he's glad the i am.
We're busy people and i had to work soon and he did too. So we both ended the texting and he said thank you like multiple times. Idk whats for.
I've been pretty busy with my things here. And didn't contact the leo man at all.
I was starting to forget him and moving on, thanks to my work and other stuff that keep my mind out of him.
But yesterday, when i woke up in the morning i got a text from him. Which he sent in the evening when i was sleeping.
He greet me good morning, i replied and he said that it's good to hear from me.
He said that he just wanted to know if i'm doing fine and well and he's glad the i am.
We're busy people and i had to work soon and he did too. So we both ended the texting and he said thank you like multiple times. Idk whats for.
Posted by aquaglassTo be expected. Leos are nothing if not persistent.Posted by ChuckcemIndeed, it doesn't make sense to me too. But oh this guy is so persistent i guess. He's come back now.Posted by aquaglassI think he's trying to get what he wants and is willing to say whatever he can to get it. His excuses don't make sense with how he actually behaved.Posted by ChuckcemExactly what i have on mind too, why would he even got to be upset about no room sharing thing thenPosted by aquaglass"That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me."
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
There's a difference between helpful advice and critiquing your physical "flaws". What he did was demeaning.
"Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better"."
That doesn't even make sense. Why would he need to share a room with you to get to know you better? This all sounds like he is making up excuses so that he won't lose you.
Do you really think that he's making up an excuse so that he won't lose me?
I don't know but i have this thought that he just doesn't like the fact that he forced me and he doesn't want to be seen as a jerk or maybe rapist?click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemHe seems now cool with me being myself.Posted by aquaglassTo be expected. Leos are nothing if not persistent.Posted by ChuckcemIndeed, it doesn't make sense to me too. But oh this guy is so persistent i guess. He's come back now.Posted by aquaglassI think he's trying to get what he wants and is willing to say whatever he can to get it. His excuses don't make sense with how he actually behaved.Posted by ChuckcemExactly what i have on mind too, why would he even got to be upset about no room sharing thing thenPosted by aquaglass"That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me."
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
There's a difference between helpful advice and critiquing your physical "flaws". What he did was demeaning.
"Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better"."
That doesn't even make sense. Why would he need to share a room with you to get to know you better? This all sounds like he is making up excuses so that he won't lose you.
Do you really think that he's making up an excuse so that he won't lose me?
I don't know but i have this thought that he just doesn't like the fact that he forced me and he doesn't want to be seen as a jerk or maybe rapist?click to expand
He let me do my things my way. Asked about my health and my diet program.
I said i've been working on it with my own program. And he said thats great, keep it up and stay healthy.
Now what?
You said you got together for "... a sexual fun"
But still... you know something isn't right so
drop him.
But still... you know something isn't right so
drop him.
Posted by aquaglassThat's all up to you. I can't really tell you what to do. Just know that this guy has already showed hints of being controlling, so for all you know he's simply playing nice right now. I personally wouldn't give someone a second glance if they tried manipulating me. There's just too many fish in the sea.Posted by ChuckcemHe seems now cool with me being myself.Posted by aquaglassTo be expected. Leos are nothing if not persistent.Posted by ChuckcemIndeed, it doesn't make sense to me too. But oh this guy is so persistent i guess. He's come back now.Posted by aquaglassI think he's trying to get what he wants and is willing to say whatever he can to get it. His excuses don't make sense with how he actually behaved.Posted by ChuckcemExactly what i have on mind too, why would he even got to be upset about no room sharing thing thenPosted by aquaglass"That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me."
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
There's a difference between helpful advice and critiquing your physical "flaws". What he did was demeaning.
"Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better"."
That doesn't even make sense. Why would he need to share a room with you to get to know you better? This all sounds like he is making up excuses so that he won't lose you.
Do you really think that he's making up an excuse so that he won't lose me?
I don't know but i have this thought that he just doesn't like the fact that he forced me and he doesn't want to be seen as a jerk or maybe rapist?
He let me do my things my way. Asked about my health and my diet program.
I said i've been working on it with my own program. And he said thats great, keep it up and stay healthy.
Now what?click to expand
The real question is, what do you want?
Posted by Chuckcemi like him, what i want is just him not being too controlling.Posted by aquaglassThat's all up to you. I can't really tell you what to do. Just know that this guy has already showed hints of being controlling, so for all you know he's simply playing nice right now. I personally wouldn't give someone a second glance if they tried manipulating me. There's just too many fish in the sea.Posted by ChuckcemHe seems now cool with me being myself.Posted by aquaglassTo be expected. Leos are nothing if not persistent.Posted by ChuckcemIndeed, it doesn't make sense to me too. But oh this guy is so persistent i guess. He's come back now.Posted by aquaglassI think he's trying to get what he wants and is willing to say whatever he can to get it. His excuses don't make sense with how he actually behaved.Posted by ChuckcemExactly what i have on mind too, why would he even got to be upset about no room sharing thing thenPosted by aquaglass"That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me."
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
There's a difference between helpful advice and critiquing your physical "flaws". What he did was demeaning.
"Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better"."
That doesn't even make sense. Why would he need to share a room with you to get to know you better? This all sounds like he is making up excuses so that he won't lose you.
Do you really think that he's making up an excuse so that he won't lose me?
I don't know but i have this thought that he just doesn't like the fact that he forced me and he doesn't want to be seen as a jerk or maybe rapist?
He let me do my things my way. Asked about my health and my diet program.
I said i've been working on it with my own program. And he said thats great, keep it up and stay healthy.
Now what?
The real question is, what do you want?click to expand
Now he has apologized a lot about the sex, about him telling me to do stuff that i don't like him to tell me.
He still contacting me, we're talking really casual and decent. Almost everyday, he checking or just greeting me up in between his busy schedule.
He sent me a song twice, the same song and asked me to listen to the lyrics and he said that song is for me. Which is very romantic and full of L words.
He asked to meet up for talk and hangout in daytime, with him come to my city next week.
So do you think that he still is playing nice now? Or is he genuine?
Since I don't know the guy, I don't know if he's being genuine. In my experience, people will do or say what they can in order to get what they want. Since he's tried being controlling before, there's no reason to think that this guy won't try it again when he thinks that he has you.
Posted by bittercupcakeTrue. I guess I should say instead that there's a better person out there.Posted by ChuckcemPlenty of fish but doesn't mean their a good fit or are good for you.Posted by aquaglassThat's all up to you. I can't really tell you what to do. Just know that this guy has already showed hints of being controlling, so for all you know he's simply playing nice right now. I personally wouldn't give someone a second glance if they tried manipulating me. There's just too many fish in the sea.Posted by ChuckcemHe seems now cool with me being myself.Posted by aquaglassTo be expected. Leos are nothing if not persistent.Posted by ChuckcemIndeed, it doesn't make sense to me too. But oh this guy is so persistent i guess. He's come back now.Posted by aquaglassI think he's trying to get what he wants and is willing to say whatever he can to get it. His excuses don't make sense with how he actually behaved.Posted by ChuckcemExactly what i have on mind too, why would he even got to be upset about no room sharing thing thenPosted by aquaglass"That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me."
And, we talked again.
Now it's getting on and off.
As you guys know, i'm having such hard time to believe him, to really figure out his real intentions and to deal with his controlling stuff.
He told me if he isn't really like me and just see me as a sex object, then he wouldn't ever treat me the way he did.
He said that he feels like he's being misinterpreted and misunderstood.
That all of those things about him wanting to help me on my diet, commenting on my body and so on are just his good intention to make me better. He wants me to be healthier and he knows that it's good for me.
He's bothered by the fact that i think the sex was all planned. As he think that we both were losing control and then it just happened.
He didn't plan it.
Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better".
Which i think pretty weird then i told him sarcastically "get to know each other sexually".
He said nope, get to know each others in general. I just replied with "ohh, thats cool".
And i haven't heard anything from him ever since. It was 5 days ago.
I let him be and not contacting him.
Keep myself busy with my things, but honestly i miss him.
The sex was great tho, i meant the intensity.
I just all surprised by his actions, his directness and how he moves so fast.
This is the first leo that i really get to know more ever. So yeah i'm pretty shocked.
Now i don't really know how to proceed it.
Should i give him chance or continue to move on and not taking all of his nice words seriously?
There's a difference between helpful advice and critiquing your physical "flaws". What he did was demeaning.
"Then i told him that he seems upset when i didn't want to share the room, he replied with "yes, you're right. The purpose is just to get to know you better"."
That doesn't even make sense. Why would he need to share a room with you to get to know you better? This all sounds like he is making up excuses so that he won't lose you.
Do you really think that he's making up an excuse so that he won't lose me?
I don't know but i have this thought that he just doesn't like the fact that he forced me and he doesn't want to be seen as a jerk or maybe rapist?
He let me do my things my way. Asked about my health and my diet program.
I said i've been working on it with my own program. And he said thats great, keep it up and stay healthy.
Now what?
The real question is, what do you want?click to expand
Alright, thank you guys!
I think i'm gonna just move on, and probably get a better leo male then.
After reading this leo board, i think you guys are pretty nice, let's see 😉
I think i'm gonna just move on, and probably get a better leo male then.
After reading this leo board, i think you guys are pretty nice, let's see 😉
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