Taurus_mn
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Can the Libras please help me with this
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hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
Posted by Timon
If she is seeing someone else her heart already left you. It does seems that she is immature. Your best chance is just to leave her alone. She will only hurt you more if you stay with her.
There’s a lot of reasoning I could for her immaturity’s, I just don’t get how she makes it seem things are so good, telling me she loves me, kissing me and then this?
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Posted by TimonPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Timon
If she is seeing someone else her heart already left you. It does seems that she is immature. Your best chance is just to leave her alone. She will only hurt you more if you stay with her.
There’s a lot of reasoning I could for her immaturity’s, I just don’t get how she makes it seem things are so good, telling me she loves me, kissing me and then this?
Because she is selfish and immature. She is trying to have the cake and eat it. You already broke up right?
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Yeah we’ve been broken up now for 6 going on 7 months... we’ve come back together multiple times now, hung out had great times again talked things through and it’s always been her bringing up some issue she may have that she wants me to fix or do or get my input on and then boom no contact from her for some time, sometimes short sometimes long
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?click to expand
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
Posted by SuninLibraPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Timon
If she is seeing someone else her heart already left you. It does seems that she is immature. Your best chance is just to leave her alone. She will only hurt you more if you stay with her.
There’s a lot of reasoning I could for her immaturity’s, I just don’t get how she makes it seem things are so good, telling me she loves me, kissing me and then this?
Here's what's going on in her mind;
She is confused about what she wants in life, she seems like someone who wants to be free and keep her options wide open, I am sorry but she does not love you the only reason why she is stringing u along is because she is not confrontational and YOU ARE GOOD TO HER EGO. You really deserve better my friend.click to expand
But during the relationship she seemed to be confrontational about things that were problems to her and most the time when she’d tell me to get out(usually get over it in a day or two) but she does hide behind texts often. And I do stroke her ego often I’m sure..
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.click to expand
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Posted by SuninLibraPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by SuninLibraPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Timon
If she is seeing someone else her heart already left you. It does seems that she is immature. Your best chance is just to leave her alone. She will only hurt you more if you stay with her.
There’s a lot of reasoning I could for her immaturity’s, I just don’t get how she makes it seem things are so good, telling me she loves me, kissing me and then this?
Here's what's going on in her mind;
She is confused about what she wants in life, she seems like someone who wants to be free and keep her options wide open, I am sorry but she does not love you the only reason why she is stringing u along is because she is not confrontational and YOU ARE GOOD TO HER EGO. You really deserve better my friend.
But during the relationship she seemed to be confrontational about things that were problems to her and most the time when she’d tell me to get out(usually get over it in a day or two) but she does hide behind texts often. And I do stroke her ego often I’m sure..
She can't tell you this: I don't love you anymore. Well she is confused and immature to maybe realize it yet, but trust me on this one. And I might be wrong ( I hope I am ) but still you need to pull away and stop letting her taking advantage of you.click to expand
Yeah I suppose I could see that.. it just sucks I tried so hard for her and gave her so much love to only be treated like Shit and gaslighted for 2 years.. granted we had a lot of the best times in my life and I still love her to death it’s not right for me to stay here arms open for her
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night toclick to expand
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....click to expand
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by exsqueezeme
I’ll tell you straight. Taurus and libra is a doomed combination
Why is that?click to expand
this is not true but likewise, this chick ain't no good.
Posted by SuninLibraPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by SuninLibraPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by SuninLibraPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Timon
If she is seeing someone else her heart already left you. It does seems that she is immature. Your best chance is just to leave her alone. She will only hurt you more if you stay with her.
There’s a lot of reasoning I could for her immaturity’s, I just don’t get how she makes it seem things are so good, telling me she loves me, kissing me and then this?
Here's what's going on in her mind;
She is confused about what she wants in life, she seems like someone who wants to be free and keep her options wide open, I am sorry but she does not love you the only reason why she is stringing u along is because she is not confrontational and YOU ARE GOOD TO HER EGO. You really deserve better my friend.
But during the relationship she seemed to be confrontational about things that were problems to her and most the time when she’d tell me to get out(usually get over it in a day or two) but she does hide behind texts often. And I do stroke her ego often I’m sure..
She can't tell you this: I don't love you anymore. Well she is confused and immature to maybe realize it yet, but trust me on this one. And I might be wrong ( I hope I am ) but still you need to pull away and stop letting her taking advantage of you.
Yeah I suppose I could see that.. it just sucks I tried so hard for her and gave her so much love to only be treated like Shit and gaslighted for 2 years.. granted we had a lot of the best times in my life and I still love her to death it’s not right for me to stay here arms open for her
You cant settle when it comes to love. A very lucky woman will be blessed to be with you. Good luck 🙂click to expand
Only if we lived in a perfect world.. I thought me and her had a one of a kind love story too.. sucks but life isn’t fair.
Posted by tiziani
Man it sounds like you are just here waiting to do a lot of blaming her, yourself.
Like I said it's going to cost you years.
To an extent yes, because I’m frustrated she can’t take responsibility for her actions and puts it all on me I don’t want to be carrying all this blame on myself
Posted by exsqueezeme
Some Libras have absolutely no scruples and those are the un evolved and immature ones. She sounds like one of those and fits the profile perfectly. She knows how to play with your mind and due to her deep seated insecurities she plays on this to get you hooked even deeper because her belief is that playing you around will have you chasing desperately after her which in turn gives her an ego boost. It panders to her insecure emotional needs and you are her supply. You’re just a means to feel better about herself. Plus she probably doesn’t have much more to offer and therefore uses mental gymnastics to get you hooked. She’s not relationship material at all and is going to do this with all the men that walk in to her life because she doesn’t know how to be in a proper loving relationship. You need stability and she won’t ever give you it.
My best friends mom has said similar about the image she has in her head, do you think she’ll ever find this perfect guy? Or just end up settling for someone at some point in time?
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?click to expand
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.click to expand
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
Posted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letterclick to expand
What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?click to expand
Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgo
Posted by TimonPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.click to expand
I guess it would be kind of a moving on, this is intended to help you change but don’t expect it kind of thing
Posted by TimonPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.click to expand
This.
Posted by tizianiPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by tiziani
Man it sounds like you are just here waiting to do a lot of blaming her, yourself.
Like I said it's going to cost you years.
To an extent yes, because I’m frustrated she can’t take responsibility for her actions and puts it all on me I don’t want to be carrying all this blame on myself
No one has to carry blame for a relationship ending. I mean you can try, and see how much that does to relieve your frustration. But my guess is it won't do jack for you.
This is how I've wasted time myself but do what you gotta do. If you want to be more responsible try to figure out what attracts you to a person you claim treats you so badly.click to expand
It’s who she is, she’s so driven in sports (even though she’s over weight 200+ but she can still squat over 300 pounds) and her personality when things are good, she’s so funny, and when she cares about something really cares hard(like our dog that I don’t get to see anymore for instance) but she treats me like crap and has admitted it before.
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hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?
Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgoclick to expand
I think you will be wasting your time. I assume you have spoken to her about some of it at length already? And if she has not listened to you then, reading it wont make a difference.
That Cap moon will switch off reading what she may not agree with and Venus will look for all the spelling mistakes. LOL (I'm kidding)
You are still so young and there is someone out there waiting for you, don't waste your time here further as you will just end up more hurt and confused.
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hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?
Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgo
I think you will be wasting your time. I assume you have spoken to her about some of it at length already? And if she has not listened to you then, reading it wont make a difference.
That Cap moon will switch off reading what she may not agree with and Venus will look for all the spelling mistakes. LOL (I'm kidding)
You are still so young and there is someone out there waiting for you, don't waste your time here further as you will just end up more hurt and confused.click to expand
So that cap trait must be why she tunes anything out she doesn’t agree with, and lol funny thing is when she was still in college she’d have me proof read all her papers😂
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hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.
I guess it would be kind of a moving on, this is intended to help you change but don’t expect it kind of thing
"Kind of" moving on? I see you don't really want to. Cut the contact with her. Out of sight out of mind. Take the time to heal and one day you will meet someone that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.
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No I don’t want to move on, I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her when I was a freshman in high school, we dated back then to but her dads job moved them to state I ended up moving to for my career like 6 years later and that feeling has always been in me
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hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?
Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgo
I think you will be wasting your time. I assume you have spoken to her about some of it at length already? And if she has not listened to you then, reading it wont make a difference.
That Cap moon will switch off reading what she may not agree with and Venus will look for all the spelling mistakes. LOL (I'm kidding)
You are still so young and there is someone out there waiting for you, don't waste your time here further as you will just end up more hurt and confused.
So that cap trait must be why she tunes anything out she doesn’t agree with, and lol funny thing is when she was still in college she’d have me proof read all her papers😂click to expand
And the Libra sun.... at least I know how to tune out things I don't want to hear, but anyone can I guess.
I like Taurus, you guys are great. I would hate for you to be put off Libra for the rest of your life due to one immature girl who is stringing you along.
Move on and you will be happier for it. I promise... and in a few months/years time, you can come and post how great Taurus and Aries are (sorry inside and distasteful joke) but you get what I mean right?
Posted by Jade_Alexander
As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.
Let her go.
Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.
As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.
She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.
I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.
I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at
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hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?
Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgo
I think you will be wasting your time. I assume you have spoken to her about some of it at length already? And if she has not listened to you then, reading it wont make a difference.
That Cap moon will switch off reading what she may not agree with and Venus will look for all the spelling mistakes. LOL (I'm kidding)
You are still so young and there is someone out there waiting for you, don't waste your time here further as you will just end up more hurt and confused.
So that cap trait must be why she tunes anything out she doesn’t agree with, and lol funny thing is when she was still in college she’d have me proof read all her papers😂
And the Libra sun.... at least I know how to tune out things I don't want to hear, but anyone can I guess.
I like Taurus, you guys are great. I would hate for you to be put off Libra for the rest of your life due to one immature girl who is stringing you along.
Move on and you will be happier for it. I promise... and in a few months/years time, you can come and post how great Taurus and Aries are (sorry inside and distasteful joke) but you get what I mean right?click to expand
I love so many things about her it’s just what she’s done to me. I’d never hate on libras just cause of her, and I know what you mean lol do you think she’ll try and reach out to me again?
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hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.
I guess it would be kind of a moving on, this is intended to help you change but don’t expect it kind of thing
"Kind of" moving on? I see you don't really want to. Cut the contact with her. Out of sight out of mind. Take the time to heal and one day you will meet someone that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.
No I don’t want to move on, I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her when I was a freshman in high school, we dated back then to but her dads job moved them to state I ended up moving to for my career like 6 years later and that feeling has always been in me
😭 She doesn't deserve you. I don't think she loves you. I'm sorry but do you really want to be with someone who treats you like that. You can't change her and the way she feels about you.
If you don't move on. This is what you chose for yourself. And then you can't blame her because you have accepted it.click to expand
I know I’ve been accepting it but I believe true love is choice and not necessarily a feeling, and I’ve been making that choice to wait for her in hopes she’ll come around. I made the choice to not really date very many girls since I met her because my mind has always been set on her and I knew I’d never happily grow with another women, my life was made the day we reconnected out here after all those years and she seemed sooo happy to have me again. I hate it
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by Taurus_mnPosted by Jade_Alexander
As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.
Let her go.
Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.
As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.
She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.
I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.
I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at
If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.
You deserve better.click to expand
Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..
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Man it sounds like you are just here waiting to do a lot of blaming her, yourself.
Like I said it's going to cost you years.
To an extent yes, because I’m frustrated she can’t take responsibility for her actions and puts it all on me I don’t want to be carrying all this blame on myself
No one has to carry blame for a relationship ending. I mean you can try, and see how much that does to relieve your frustration. But my guess is it won't do jack for you.
This is how I've wasted time myself but do what you gotta do. If you want to be more responsible try to figure out what attracts you to a person you claim treats you so badly.
It’s who she is, she’s so driven in sports (even though she’s over weight 200+ but she can still squat over 300 pounds) and her personality when things are good, she’s so funny, and when she cares about something really cares hard(like our dog that I don’t get to see anymore for instance) but she treats me like crap and has admitted it before.
So this is probably too soon to be asking, given the mood you are in, but I'd be interested to know
In the moments where she showed drive, what was your reaction? Were you showing yourself to be attracted and supportive of her?
In the moments she treated you like crap? What was your reaction?
But this is more than likely the wrong time to be asking those sorts of things.
If you have to write a long letter I'd write it but not send it. I dunno what is with Tauruses but even with the Taurus girlfriend she would default to writing me long letters just about right and wrong, etc. It got to the point where I just tuned out anything that went longer than the opening 3 lines because it was just badly timed and no one is trying to read a lecture. I'd advise you to be clear on what you have to say and speak from the heart, like 10 seconds max, if ever you have to say anything to her at all. And definitely don't do it in writing. If you can't say it face to face then how strongly do you feel about it really.click to expand
Tbh her mood usually set mine and I know you shouldn’t let another person be able determine that for you, given if she was upset yes I’d be upset but I’d try to be as positive and supportive as possible.
When she showed drive it would usually completly boost me up and I’d be right along side her giving 110% support following through with whatever she had put out there.
When she would blame/accuse/ treat me badly, I’d be hurt and let down and ashamed of myself not really sure what to do most the time because most of the problems she’s bring up were like “why are you even concerned about that” kind of things to me but normally I’d feel torn and would try to make things better
Posted by RooSagicorn
There are times in life that we must move on, and this is one for you. I’m sorry but it just isn’t okay for her to be treating you this way. You need to tell yourself you deserve better.
There will be others. You are so young. Take care of you & find a girl who’ll love you back.
I agree it’s just best for me to go but it’s so hard.
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hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?
Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgo
I think you will be wasting your time. I assume you have spoken to her about some of it at length already? And if she has not listened to you then, reading it wont make a difference.
That Cap moon will switch off reading what she may not agree with and Venus will look for all the spelling mistakes. LOL (I'm kidding)
You are still so young and there is someone out there waiting for you, don't waste your time here further as you will just end up more hurt and confused.
So that cap trait must be why she tunes anything out she doesn’t agree with, and lol funny thing is when she was still in college she’d have me proof read all her papers😂
And the Libra sun.... at least I know how to tune out things I don't want to hear, but anyone can I guess.
I like Taurus, you guys are great. I would hate for you to be put off Libra for the rest of your life due to one immature girl who is stringing you along.
Move on and you will be happier for it. I promise... and in a few months/years time, you can come and post how great Taurus and Aries are (sorry inside and distasteful joke) but you get what I mean right?
I love so many things about her it’s just what she’s done to me. I’d never hate on libras just cause of her, and I know what you mean lol do you think she’ll try and reach out to me again?click to expand
I cant say as I don't know her. But if you remain an option and option you will always be.
Sometimes when you cant have someone you want, you try harder to make it work. Is this what you are doing?
Ask yourself the following:
1. Does she make you a better person, and do you make her a better person. Does this relationship bring out the best in both of you as individuals and a couple
2. Are you both comfortable sharing your feeling with one another, relying on one another and do you worry too much that she will leave? How do you feel most of the time in the relationship?
3. Do you accept her for who she is, without trying to change her and vise versa
4. When you argue do you talk and communicate like adults?
5. Do you share the decisions you make in the relationship about the relationship
6. Do you consider her a "best friend" someone to rely on? Do you fight or laugh more together?
7. Do you think more in terms of we and us, or is it more you and her (I). Do you make time for one another?
8. Would you trust her with things like your passwords etc
9. Do you have a good opinion of one another - without it being overinflated. Do you really love them or just the person you want them to be?
10. What do your friends and family think of the relationship (outside point of view)
11. Is your relationship free of any red flags, cheating, jealousy etc. Would you regret it later if you didn't end things.
12. Do you share the same values in life? Passions, goals etc
13. Are you and her will to sacrifice your own needs, desires and goals for one another, without being a doormat. Who of you sacrifice more?
14. Do you both have emotionally stable personalitiies, would your life be better or worse off with them in your life?
Think hard and you will find in all honesty, you only holding on to her for the wrong reasons
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hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?
Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgo
I think you will be wasting your time. I assume you have spoken to her about some of it at length already? And if she has not listened to you then, reading it wont make a difference.
That Cap moon will switch off reading what she may not agree with and Venus will look for all the spelling mistakes. LOL (I'm kidding)
You are still so young and there is someone out there waiting for you, don't waste your time here further as you will just end up more hurt and confused.
So that cap trait must be why she tunes anything out she doesn’t agree with, and lol funny thing is when she was still in college she’d have me proof read all her papers😂
And the Libra sun.... at least I know how to tune out things I don't want to hear, but anyone can I guess.
I like Taurus, you guys are great. I would hate for you to be put off Libra for the rest of your life due to one immature girl who is stringing you along.
Move on and you will be happier for it. I promise... and in a few months/years time, you can come and post how great Taurus and Aries are (sorry inside and distasteful joke) but you get what I mean right?
I love so many things about her it’s just what she’s done to me. I’d never hate on libras just cause of her, and I know what you mean lol do you think she’ll try and reach out to me again?
I cant say as I don't know her. But if you remain an option and option you will always be.
Sometimes when you cant have someone you want, you try harder to make it work. Is this what you are doing?
Ask yourself the following:
1. Does she make you a better person, and do you make her a better person. Does this relationship bring out the best in both of you as individuals and a couple
2. Are you both comfortable sharing your feeling with one another, relying on one another and do you worry too much that she will leave? How do you feel most of the time in the relationship?
3. Do you accept her for who she is, without trying to change her and vise versa
4. When you argue do you talk and communicate like adults?
5. Do you share the decisions you make in the relationship about the relationship
6. Do you consider her a "best friend" someone to rely on? Do you fight or laugh more together?
7. Do you think more in terms of we and us, or is it more you and her (I). Do you make time for one another?
8. Would you trust her with things like your passwords etc
9. Do you have a good opinion of one another - without it being overinflated. Do you really love them or just the person you want them to be?
10. What do your friends and family think of the relationship (outside point of view)
11. Is your relationship free of any red flags, cheating, jealousy etc. Would you regret it later if you didn't end things.
12. Do you share the same values in life? Passions, goals etc
13. Are you and her will to sacrifice your own needs, desires and goals for one another, without being a doormat. Who of you sacrifice more?
14. Do you both have emotionally stable personalitiies, would your life be better or worse off with them in your life?
Think hard and you will find in all honesty, you only holding on to her for the wrong reasons
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She just texted me and this is what she said
I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.
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As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.
Let her go.
Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.
As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.
She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.
I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.
I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at
If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.
You deserve better.
Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..
I’m sorry. I’m currently trying to get over an Aquarius after years of being invested in him. It’s not an easy process to move on.click to expand
She just texted me this
I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.
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Ok, I can't sit and read through all the responses.
Mr. Bull, I know you will spend a good amount of time going over the what ifs, how comes, why me? Why her? Why him? Crap.
Flat out, you are wasting your time. If she wanted you, she would be at your tournament. If she wanted you, there would be no doubt. If she wanted you, there would be no excuses.
Much like when things were very good between you. Now they are not. Now it's time for no contact because you're only disrespecting yourself if you choose to play into all this.
She just texted me this right now
I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.
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hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.
I guess it would be kind of a moving on, this is intended to help you change but don’t expect it kind of thing
"Kind of" moving on? I see you don't really want to. Cut the contact with her. Out of sight out of mind. Take the time to heal and one day you will meet someone that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.
No I don’t want to move on, I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her when I was a freshman in high school, we dated back then to but her dads job moved them to state I ended up moving to for my career like 6 years later and that feeling has always been in me
😭 She doesn't deserve you. I don't think she loves you. I'm sorry but do you really want to be with someone who treats you like that. You can't change her and the way she feels about you.
If you don't move on. This is what you chose for yourself. And then you can't blame her because you have accepted it.
I know I’ve been accepting it but I believe true love is choice and not necessarily a feeling, and I’ve been making that choice to wait for her in hopes she’ll come around. I made the choice to not really date very many girls since I met her because my mind has always been set on her and I knew I’d never happily grow with another women, my life was made the day we reconnected out here after all those years and she seemed sooo happy to have me again. I hate it
If it is a choice then you also have the choice to love yourself. To know that you deserve better and walk away. That is also a choice you can make. I know it isn't easy because you want her to feel the same way about you that you feel about her. In a perfect world the person you love would also love you back but reality isn't always like that. I just feel bad for you because she doesn't feel the way about you that you feel about her. And tbh it doesn't even seem she values and respects you that much. 😔
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She just texted me and said this
I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.
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As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.
Let her go.
Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.
As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.
She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.
I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.
I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at
If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.
You deserve better.
Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..
I’m sorry. I’m currently trying to get over an Aquarius after years of being invested in him. It’s not an easy process to move on.
She just texted me this
I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.
She’s done. She probably found someone else.
This is basically what I told my husband. I’m just done and he felt he could love me enough for the both of us. But it doesn’t work like that.
Give yourself some time to grieve but move in.click to expand
I feel like she is done forever. My friends mom has been a big support of mine and she said the same grieve and move on but nothing in life is final. You never know, she may come back some time down the line. I don’t believe it though
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hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.
I guess it would be kind of a moving on, this is intended to help you change but don’t expect it kind of thing
"Kind of" moving on? I see you don't really want to. Cut the contact with her. Out of sight out of mind. Take the time to heal and one day you will meet someone that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.
No I don’t want to move on, I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her when I was a freshman in high school, we dated back then to but her dads job moved them to state I ended up moving to for my career like 6 years later and that feeling has always been in me
😭 She doesn't deserve you. I don't think she loves you. I'm sorry but do you really want to be with someone who treats you like that. You can't change her and the way she feels about you.
If you don't move on. This is what you chose for yourself. And then you can't blame her because you have accepted it.
I know I’ve been accepting it but I believe true love is choice and not necessarily a feeling, and I’ve been making that choice to wait for her in hopes she’ll come around. I made the choice to not really date very many girls since I met her because my mind has always been set on her and I knew I’d never happily grow with another women, my life was made the day we reconnected out here after all those years and she seemed sooo happy to have me again. I hate it
If it is a choice then you also have the choice to love yourself. To know that you deserve better and walk away. That is also a choice you can make. I know it isn't easy because you want her to feel the same way about you that you feel about her. In a perfect world the person you love would also love you back but reality isn't always like that. I just feel bad for you because she doesn't feel the way about you that you feel about her. And tbh it doesn't even seem she values and respects you that much. 😔
She just texted me and said this
I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.
She is telling you to let go because she doesn't want to tell you directly and hurt your feelings.click to expand
But I mean why even start it out with I do love you. And I feel like she just put it on me again with the whole Friday/Saturday thing and that I need to change
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As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.
Let her go.
Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.
As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.
She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.
I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.
I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at
If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.
You deserve better.
Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..
I’m sorry. I’m currently trying to get over an Aquarius after years of being invested in him. It’s not an easy process to move on.
She just texted me this
I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.
She’s done. She probably found someone else.
This is basically what I told my husband. I’m just done and he felt he could love me enough for the both of us. But it doesn’t work like that.
Give yourself some time to grieve but move in.
I feel like she is done forever. My friends mom has been a big support of mine and she said the same grieve and move on but nothing in life is final. You never know, she may come back some time down the line. I don’t believe it though
You’ll go through the stages of grief and denial will be there. That’s one I struggle with because the Aqua and I always end up together again and again.
But it’s best to not hold your breath. I mean, right now you have feelings for her. But do you really want to hold on for someone who doesn’t really want you? Wouldn’t you rather be with someone who feels this passionately about you?
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I’m 23, she’ll be 25 this September.
I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her, didn’t date many people after she left the state I was in and my job brought me to the same state we live in now and my life was made when we got reunited and she seemed to be so happy to have me again and our relationship was pationate, very emotional, very supporting and loving. She would just disrespect me often and treat me bad and threaten to kick me out usually when it was her time of the month but she’d get over it, put everything on me
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hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
Only if that will help you get closure and move on. If you're doing it to get her to change then it's better you don't.
I guess it would be kind of a moving on, this is intended to help you change but don’t expect it kind of thing
"Kind of" moving on? I see you don't really want to. Cut the contact with her. Out of sight out of mind. Take the time to heal and one day you will meet someone that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.
No I don’t want to move on, I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her when I was a freshman in high school, we dated back then to but her dads job moved them to state I ended up moving to for my career like 6 years later and that feeling has always been in me
😭 She doesn't deserve you. I don't think she loves you. I'm sorry but do you really want to be with someone who treats you like that. You can't change her and the way she feels about you.
If you don't move on. This is what you chose for yourself. And then you can't blame her because you have accepted it.
I know I’ve been accepting it but I believe true love is choice and not necessarily a feeling, and I’ve been making that choice to wait for her in hopes she’ll come around. I made the choice to not really date very many girls since I met her because my mind has always been set on her and I knew I’d never happily grow with another women, my life was made the day we reconnected out here after all those years and she seemed sooo happy to have me again. I hate it
If it is a choice then you also have the choice to love yourself. To know that you deserve better and walk away. That is also a choice you can make. I know it isn't easy because you want her to feel the same way about you that you feel about her. In a perfect world the person you love would also love you back but reality isn't always like that. I just feel bad for you because she doesn't feel the way about you that you feel about her. And tbh it doesn't even seem she values and respects you that much. 😔
She just texted me and said this
I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.
She is telling you to let go because she doesn't want to tell you directly and hurt your feelings.
But I mean why even start it out with I do love you. And I feel like she just put it on me again with the whole Friday/Saturday thing and that I need to change
Because she is just finding excuses to not be direct.click to expand
This is so dumb.. I can’t believe it but I can I guess😔
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As someone whose attached to another emotionally unavailable person I’m going to talk straight with you.
Let her go.
Whatever is going on is between herself and you’re not to blame. Waiting won’t fix it. You have to come to terms and start moving on. Which, is a super hard process.... I know.
As a Libr whose toyed withbthe hearts of men, I think this is what she’s going through.
She’s done with you. Either she’s bored or she’s found someone new. She comes back to you because you fawn over her and love her. She wants to feel loved but doesn’t want to love you back. She uses you as a self esteem fix while she chases other men around. The more you allow her to do it the longer she will. If you assume cutting her off will make her realize what she’s missing out on, it probably won’t. She will just find someone else to scratch that itch.
I’m sorry, you sound like a good guy.
I think she’s found someone new at this point. If things don’t work with him do you think she’ll reach out again? I’m wondering what she may be thinking when I told her I knew what happened that night I got the picture of her basically laying on the guy. I haven’t heard from her since either granted this is day two since the concert I saw her at
If she reaches out, it won’t be genuine. You’ll be her back up plan and she won’t put the energy your looking for into the relationship. You’re just someone to keep her warm.
You deserve better.
Yeah that’s kinda what I expect..
I’m sorry. I’m currently trying to get over an Aquarius after years of being invested in him. It’s not an easy process to move on.
She just texted me this
I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.
She’s done. She probably found someone else.
This is basically what I told my husband. I’m just done and he felt he could love me enough for the both of us. But it doesn’t work like that.
Give yourself some time to grieve but move in.
I feel like she is done forever. My friends mom has been a big support of mine and she said the same grieve and move on but nothing in life is final. You never know, she may come back some time down the line. I don’t believe it though
You’ll go through the stages of grief and denial will be there. That’s one I struggle with because the Aqua and I always end up together again and again.
But it’s best to not hold your breath. I mean, right now you have feelings for her. But do you really want to hold on for someone who doesn’t really want you? Wouldn’t you rather be with someone who feels this passionately about you?
How old are you?
I’m 23, she’ll be 25 this September.
I’ve wanted to marry her since the day I saw her, didn’t date many people after she left the state I was in and my job brought me to the same state we live in now and my life was made when we got reunited and she seemed to be so happy to have me again and our relationship was pationate, very emotional, very supporting and loving. She would just disrespect me often and treat me bad and threaten to kick me out usually when it was her time of the month but she’d get over it, put everything on me
She sounds very immature. I can relate to a lot of how you feel. Take what was good, but move on. You can want to marry her, cherish her and love her but she doesn’t want that from you. You’re still so young, you can take this time to reinvest in yourself.click to expand
It’s stuck in my mind still of “I wonder if she’ll ever come back in time?..”
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I’ll tell you straight. Taurus and libra is a doomed combination
only for the immature - the more mature Libra/Taurus connection can be wonderful !
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hmm, sounds like you are being kept on a string.
Save yourself some heartache and move on.
Also if you start to ignore her completely chances are she may just come running back to you. If that's how you want to be treated in future you could take her back, but I would find someone who really wants to be with you
Good Luck
The day I saw and talked to her before I found out I told her just tell me if you don’t want to be with me and her only response really was “well I can’t tell you I don’t love you because that would be lie.” Like why kiss me then and then on the cheek after the concert?
Because when things with the other guy don't work out she will be running back into your arms because you are a sure thing. Don't let her manipulate you.
Libra = options.
I guess don’t feel like the guy was exactly her type from the picture I saw but you never know I suppose. I’m curious as to what she may be thinking after me telling “I’ve heated about what happened last night” she has to know what I’m referring to, she said she was super drunk that night to
Hmm. I cant tell you how weak a person is to blame their actions on being drunk....
I agree. She’s done a lot of messed up things in all of her relationships not just with me, she’s basically thrown away her two child hood best friends over immature selfishness, isn’t on good terms with her mom since she kicked me out, and it’s mad at her new friend over a dumb reason, and now is just hanging out with whoever accepts her basically. It’s depressing and I hate that she does it. I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Personally I don't think the letter will help your cause to be honest. I am guessing you guys are under 23 years old?
It's hard when you are in love with someone and you want things to work out so bad, but do you want to be in this same situation in another 7 months time? years down the line?
You are better than an option. You are either number one or find someone who will make you their number one. Don't settle for less than you are worth, because by holding onto something like this you are stopping yourself from meeting the person who will bring out the best in you, and you in her.
I’m 23 and she’ll be 25 this year, I’m not thinking of writing it out to be like a “hopeful we’ll get back together” or “hoping this will fix things” kind of letter but more of as a this is what you are doing and this is why things have happened and why people feel the way they do because of how you’ve been treating them, not in a mean/accusing way but more as a person to person trying to help you out in a way kind of letter
What is her moon and venus sign. Do you know?
Moon Capricorn/ Venus Virgo
I think you will be wasting your time. I assume you have spoken to her about some of it at length already? And if she has not listened to you then, reading it wont make a difference.
That Cap moon will switch off reading what she may not agree with and Venus will look for all the spelling mistakes. LOL (I'm kidding)
You are still so young and there is someone out there waiting for you, don't waste your time here further as you will just end up more hurt and confused.
So that cap trait must be why she tunes anything out she doesn’t agree with, and lol funny thing is when she was still in college she’d have me proof read all her papers😂
And the Libra sun.... at least I know how to tune out things I don't want to hear, but anyone can I guess.
I like Taurus, you guys are great. I would hate for you to be put off Libra for the rest of your life due to one immature girl who is stringing you along.
Move on and you will be happier for it. I promise... and in a few months/years time, you can come and post how great Taurus and Aries are (sorry inside and distasteful joke) but you get what I mean right?
I love so many things about her it’s just what she’s done to me. I’d never hate on libras just cause of her, and I know what you mean lol do you think she’ll try and reach out to me again?
I cant say as I don't know her. But if you remain an option and option you will always be.
Sometimes when you cant have someone you want, you try harder to make it work. Is this what you are doing?
Ask yourself the following:
1. Does she make you a better person, and do you make her a better person. Does this relationship bring out the best in both of you as individuals and a couple
2. Are you both comfortable sharing your feeling with one another, relying on one another and do you worry too much that she will leave? How do you feel most of the time in the relationship?
3. Do you accept her for who she is, without trying to change her and vise versa
4. When you argue do you talk and communicate like adults?
5. Do you share the decisions you make in the relationship about the relationship
6. Do you consider her a "best friend" someone to rely on? Do you fight or laugh more together?
7. Do you think more in terms of we and us, or is it more you and her (I). Do you make time for one another?
8. Would you trust her with things like your passwords etc
9. Do you have a good opinion of one another - without it being overinflated. Do you really love them or just the person you want them to be?
10. What do your friends and family think of the relationship (outside point of view)
11. Is your relationship free of any red flags, cheating, jealousy etc. Would you regret it later if you didn't end things.
12. Do you share the same values in life? Passions, goals etc
13. Are you and her will to sacrifice your own needs, desires and goals for one another, without being a doormat. Who of you sacrifice more?
14. Do you both have emotionally stable personalitiies, would your life be better or worse off with them in your life?
Think hard and you will find in all honesty, you only holding on to her for the wrong reasons
She just texted me and this is what she said
I do love you. I am just not interested in moving forward at this point. You don’t need to continue to wait, hold off, be depressed or show up. I will always be here to listen but I am not able to continue with this waiting for change especially with how Friday or Saturday went. I just need you to do your own thing.click to expand
I think it's pretty clear where her head is at x hugs
Mr. Bull - she doesn't want you like you want her - it won't be easy but you need to move on and leave that alone.
Everything everyone said is correct and of course you are having a hard time seeing that but it is so. You deserve better.
Everything everyone said is correct and of course you are having a hard time seeing that but it is so. You deserve better.
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Mr. Bull - she doesn't want you like you want her - it won't be easy but you need to move on and leave that alone.
Everything everyone said is correct and of course you are having a hard time seeing that but it is so. You deserve better.
I know and understand😔 this is just by far the hardest loss I’ve experienced in my life so far and I’m not taking it very well tbh, but life goes on.
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Mr. Bull - she doesn't want you like you want her - it won't be easy but you need to move on and leave that alone.
Everything everyone said is correct and of course you are having a hard time seeing that but it is so. You deserve better.
I know and understand😔 this is just by far the hardest loss I’ve experienced in my life so far and I’m not taking it very well tbh, but life goes on.click to expand
I know and yes, it is hard - very hard
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I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Don't send the letter what ever you do. She probably won't even read it. My ex used to write me letters about how messed up I am and I just started throwing them away. The only way to have an affect on this girl is to walk away and disappear. She will never respect you for putting up with her bad behavior. You have to think more of yourself in order for her to think higher of you. She is definitely seeing and having sex with other men.click to expand
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I’ve been thinking of writing a pretty long note explaining her wrong doings and how it’s her action that has made things the way they are for her not everyone else’s fault like she tried to make it out to be. Do you think that would be an alright thing to do?
Don't send the letter what ever you do. She probably won't even read it. My ex used to write me letters about how messed up I am and I just started throwing them away. The only way to have an affect on this girl is to walk away and disappear. She will never respect you for putting up with her bad behavior. You have to think more of yourself in order for her to think higher of you. She is definitely seeing and having sex with other men.
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I’m not going to write it, she texted me Monday and told me not to wait for her anymore or anything and that she’s just done, she started out the text with “I do love you.” Which has me confused, and that she would kiss me those two days to. I never responded to her text and don’t plan on it, I deactivated my Facebook and I’m not putting anything on Snapchat, just totally disappearing right now. Idk what kind of affect it’ll have on her or if she’ll ever have feelings for me again in the future.
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